1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: I refuse to save my wife's boss after he called 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: the police on her. Now he's dead. Am I the 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: a hole? 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 2: I don't think I have anything funny to say about that. 5 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 2: That's kind of sad. 6 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:16,240 Speaker 1: Well, get ready to go down the chaos train, all right, 7 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: woot ollivar depressions. Also, this is my sister Sophia. She's 8 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: guesting on this episode. 9 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 2: For the comments asking I'm not Sam's. 10 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: Twin and she's not Sam in a wig I recently shavedave. 11 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: I'm just me, just me, queen bee girl. All right. Anyway, 12 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:39,840 Speaker 1: my twenty four male partner's twenty three female close friend 13 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: and boss fifties male at the mechanic shop needed a 14 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: liver transplants. They had been on the list for a 15 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: while and getting nowhere. Lots of us got tested and 16 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: I was a match. Hey, we're all happy and thrilled 17 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: that this direct donation could take place. Okay, So Op's 18 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 1: going to give his wife's boss his liver, his liver, 19 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: his liver. That's a lot. 20 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: That's a lot for your wife's boss. 21 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 1: Op, he gets a raise, No, wife, that's a raise. 22 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: I think if you give your boss a liver, you raise. 23 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: I think that's how it works. 24 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,680 Speaker 1: If you or your your significant other gives your gives 25 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 1: the boss a liver. 26 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 2: If someone finds a liver for your boss, they are 27 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 2: entitled to financial compensation. 28 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think they're entitled to a percentage of whatever 29 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: the boss makes for that liver. 30 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, because otherwise the boss would have. 31 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: Well, literally, I am now in you. 32 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 2: I am now in you. I own a portion of 33 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 2: your company. 34 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: I think that's I don't make those rules, but I. 35 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 2: Ship a theseus. 36 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: A week before the surgery day, police showed up at 37 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: our house to arrest my partner as her boss person 38 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: who was getting a piece of my liver, had accused 39 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: her of theft. 40 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 2: What wasn't this like close personal friend? 41 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: Just I accuse o PE's partner of theft. 42 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 43 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: Literally the liver is being cut out of op. 44 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 2: Oh you don't don't bite the hand that feeds you. Man. 45 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: He claimed she'd stolen thousands from his bank account and 46 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: stolen from the cash box. The police showed us the 47 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: CCTV in which she reaches into the box, takes the money, 48 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: and walks out of frame fifteen times, fifteen days, fifteen accusations. 49 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: The police admitted they had no proof it was theft 50 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 1: and no clue on the amounts taken, as she used 51 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: the box to take customers money and change. The police 52 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: also say they didn't see how she accessed bank accounts 53 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: and that they felt this was some sort of insurance 54 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 1: fraud and they needed a scapegoat. 55 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 2: Oh my god, So the boss is trying to commit 56 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 2: insurance fraud while also trying to get a liver from 57 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 2: which poor. 58 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: Timing on the bosses so bad, you know, like, if 59 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 1: you're gonna accuse someone of insurance fraud, don't wait until 60 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 1: you get your liver. Yeah, wait until you get. 61 00:02:55,440 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 2: Until you get the liver, that's just silly goodness. 62 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: I immediately rang the hospital and my transplant coordinator and 63 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: backed out of the surgery. Of course, we got on 64 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: with our lives. Partner, found a new job, and attended 65 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: the court date where the case was thrown out. Six 66 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 1: months later, a week after the case was dismissed, we 67 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: got word boss had died. 68 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 3: Wow. 69 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 2: That that's fully on the boss unfortunately. Like that really 70 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 2: that's very sad, but. 71 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: Very sad they accuse the person. I feel like a. 72 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:33,119 Speaker 2: Little summer justice some we're in my liver, We're. 73 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: In my liver. I feel that he deserved it. 74 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 2: I mean, you just don't accuse the person who's giving 75 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 2: you a lie. 76 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: I don't know if insurance though, I don't know if. 77 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: I don't know if scapegoating someone for insurance fraud should 78 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: be the death penalty. But I'm not no, absolutely not no. 79 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: But but it's not on it. In my mad. 80 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 2: It's not on op to like take on the responsibility 81 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 2: of giving their liver when they've been personally affected. 82 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 3: Exactly, and there you should not feel bad about it. 83 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 3: Don't feel bad about this piece of shit. 84 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 2: Not like that's really I mean, that sucks for the 85 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 2: boss's family, but like, come on, come on, that's. 86 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: Like not your face. I really am having no sympathy 87 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 1: for this part. 88 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 2: Have sympathy, I don't. 89 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 1: I you have way worse empathy than me. 90 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just a nicer person though. 91 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess so no one else. I've been a 92 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: match or willing to get tested. After news got out 93 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: and they never found a match in the transplant system 94 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: in time, I feel so guilty. I allowed someone to 95 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: die pretty much murdered them. No, I let pettiness get 96 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 1: in the way of saving a life. 97 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:42,719 Speaker 2: No, no, Op, that's not pettiness. That's like you can't 98 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 2: I don't know that the boss personally affect like could 99 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 2: have thotten your wife or your partner. 100 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: Imprisoned for all the Yeah and friends feel I did 101 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 1: the right thing. None of this is on me. And 102 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: not giving a piece of me to a person possibly 103 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: putting my partner in prison for a long time a 104 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: week before surgery is my choice and the right choice. 105 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 2: That's just bad planning on the boss's part. 106 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think uh I would have. It would have 107 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: been weird if Op gave the liver. Yeah, while his 108 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 1: wife is being accused. 109 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like that. Like I feel like the 110 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 2: wife would have been like, hey. 111 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: What the fuck, why are you giving this liver? 112 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 2: Or this guy is like fully trying to get me arrested. Also, 113 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 2: like even if Ope's partner did do that, like did 114 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:32,159 Speaker 2: like I did steal, Like did steal, which I'm not 115 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 2: saying they did, but like if they did, that's still 116 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 2: a stupid move for the boss. 117 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I know, would just wait until athlete. 118 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 1: Still stupid anyway. The boss's friend and family have been 119 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 1: ringing non stop, harassing us at our jobs, and posting 120 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: online a lot. How I'm a murderer and killed the boss. 121 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 2: Oh my god, this sound these people sound awful that. 122 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 1: I should have given the liver anyway and have been 123 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: a good person. He will. I feel I should have 124 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 1: given it. But who bites the hand that feeds? 125 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:02,119 Speaker 2: That's what I said. 126 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,359 Speaker 1: I didn't want to get cut open risk dying and 127 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 1: other complications for someone who didn't care for me and mine. 128 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 1: But now someone is dead, something I could have prevented. 129 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: I'm conflicted and losing sleep over this. So am id 130 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: a hole for not giving my liver to the person 131 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 1: accusing my partner of theft and them later dying. So, Sophia, 132 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: I want to know what everyone else thinks of the comments. 133 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:27,280 Speaker 1: Put it immediately and also have you ever given your 134 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: liver to anyone or any part of your body to 135 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 1: someone else? Uh? Just telling the comments? But Soba, what 136 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:34,919 Speaker 1: do you think is op? And ahole? 137 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 2: Absolutely not op? That like the boss made a goof. 138 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: The boss made a goof, The boss made a goop, 139 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: bof made a big goof. 140 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 2: That was really silly of the boss. And that's not 141 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 2: on You have no what's the word you don't? You 142 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 2: don't race, that's not your responsibility. No horses no race, 143 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 2: no horses, no race. Uh and yeah, protect your partner, 144 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 2: my whole thing, that's. 145 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 1: Your whole thing. So I mean, who do you give 146 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:08,479 Speaker 1: a liver to? I want to know who you would 147 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: give your liver to. 148 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 2: Would you give your liver to deliver to you? 149 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: Okay? Mom? 150 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 2: Oh you give my liver to mom. 151 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: Dad? 152 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 153 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: Would you give your liver to Isabella? 154 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:19,559 Speaker 2: Of course? 155 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: Would you give your liver to Chloe? 156 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 2: Of course? 157 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: Would you give your liver to my co host John? 158 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 2: Yeah? 159 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: Maybe, Oh she's trying to kill John. 160 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 3: I would give it to John. You'd give it to John. 161 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 3: You would risk dying for John to give your liver 162 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 3: to John. You're going on the record, John to go 163 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 3: to give your liver to John. 164 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 2: John, I would give my liver to you. You should 165 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:46,239 Speaker 2: have me on people. 166 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 1: Who wouldn't you give your liver to. 167 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 3: Uh homeless man on the street? 168 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 2: Of course? 169 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: You would give your liver to the homeless man on 170 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 1: the street. 171 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 2: Oh well maybe I don't know if I knew him. 172 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: Okay, I wouldn't just. 173 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 2: Give it to a stranger. 174 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: You wouldn't give it to a stranger. 175 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 2: But like, maybe if I was signed up for like 176 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 2: one of those like things you know, and then that 177 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 2: was you know, like where people request livers and then 178 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 2: you're like, oh, yes, I give a liver and need. 179 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you have to get opened up. It's like 180 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 1: like people die during liver transfer transplants. 181 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 2: Sometimes do I need my liver? I feel like I 182 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 2: need my liver? 183 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: You need it. You don't need all of it. You 184 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: can give a little bit away. Okay, we'll make it 185 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: scar and everything. 186 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 2: Oh okay, I'd have to think about it. 187 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 1: Okay, would you give your liver? 188 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 2: I feel like it would be kind of a cool 189 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 2: scar though. 190 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: Okay, so you know, uh, you know. 191 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 2: But also are we saying, like, are the parameters that 192 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 2: I am the only person who can give a liver 193 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 2: like you? 194 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: No, it's just there, not the only person, but like 195 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:50,319 Speaker 1: you're a candidate for the liver, like the first match. 196 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 2: Okay, well maybe if I'm not the only person, I 197 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 2: wouldn't be as quick. 198 00:08:57,200 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 1: Okay, so do you remember we're Shelby from your your school, 199 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 1: your friend? Yeah, okay, would you give your liver to Shelby? 200 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 2: I wouldn't really know Shelby anymore, so no, I wish 201 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 2: I would have to track her down and give her 202 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 2: my life. 203 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:12,560 Speaker 1: So She's like, so. 204 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:15,439 Speaker 2: She comes to me one day to talk to you. 205 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:18,599 Speaker 1: Yea and ages ages, But I need your li I 206 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 1: need your liver. 207 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 2: I would say, no one else can give you a liver. 208 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, And she's like, uh I I haven't asked, but 209 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 1: anyone else? 210 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:30,959 Speaker 2: But okay, I'd say ask everyone else. Still can't find anyone. 211 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 2: I'll give you my liver. 212 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 1: You're giving Shelby your liver. 213 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 2: I'll give Shelby my liver. 214 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 1: Dang, all right, I'm not given Shelby my liver. Shelby 215 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 1: doesn't get my liver. 216 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:39,199 Speaker 4: No. 217 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 2: Only only if people really need it and they can't 218 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 2: find anyone else, will I give them an right? 219 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 1: So if anyone needs a liver. 220 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 4: If you really need it, So Gal, she's I guess, 221 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 4: freely donating her liver to anyone who asks. 222 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 1: So much liver you can what if I need your 223 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 1: If you give a piece you relivered to someone else, 224 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: maybe you wouldn't have enough for me if I you know, 225 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:13,359 Speaker 1: only if they really need it, all right, free liver liver? Alright, alright, 226 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:15,839 Speaker 1: let's get into the next one. Who would you get 227 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 1: for liver? To put your answers to the comments, I. 228 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 2: Was in love with a guy from my esports club. 229 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 2: But he was in love with the. 230 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 3: Whole club, the whole club, the whole club. 231 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 2: This actually comes from a YouTube comment from Melissa Flores 232 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:30,959 Speaker 2: a two two zero. 233 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 1: I also just want to say, maybe it's just like 234 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: good team bonding, you know, like there's really got a 235 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 1: lot of chemistry of that team. 236 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 2: Maybe everyone should be in love with everyone. 237 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's for the team, for the team. There 238 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: he's banking everyone on the esports team for the team, 239 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: for the team, the only way the team could be, 240 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 1: you know, really tight in sync. 241 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 2: Alrighty, well, let's get into this op. He says. Well, 242 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 2: mentally prepare yourself. Are you prepared? 243 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm prepared, all right, Mentally prepared at the time, 244 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 1: it's unprepared. 245 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 2: I don't mean to be physically prepared anyway. At the time, 246 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:11,559 Speaker 2: I was in a two and a half year relationship 247 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 2: with Dan. This is important. We were both eighteen at 248 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 2: the time, and Dan went to university far away, so 249 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 2: we were doing long distance. It wasn't really working that 250 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 2: well for us, but we were working on it. I 251 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:26,079 Speaker 2: started community college and I joined the Anime and E 252 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 2: Sports club. I joined a friend group there was Ted 253 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 2: Cole and Lisa. I got close to Ted and Lisa 254 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,559 Speaker 2: because they trusted me to tell all their past traumas 255 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 2: okay trauma bond at the Esports Club. Ted was the 256 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 2: funniest and coolest guy you will ever meet because he 257 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 2: told us the craziest stories. 258 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 1: I think that. 259 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,559 Speaker 2: You're still seeing Dan at that point, but it's not 260 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 2: going that well. It's not going that well, especially since Ted. 261 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 1: Oh. 262 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:59,839 Speaker 2: Ted was a pro race car driver and sounds sick 263 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 2: and he was going to Tokyo to drive professionally. 264 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 1: Oh he's so cool. 265 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 2: Plus he was rich. 266 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 1: Oh bro, oh your old boy. Let's what's the other guy? 267 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 4: Dan? 268 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 2: Dan doesn't stand Dan doesn't stand a cheese. He's a 269 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 2: race car driver, race card, He's going to Tokyo. 270 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: He tells the funniest stories stories. 271 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:23,079 Speaker 2: I got close to him the most because we had 272 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 2: two am therapy sessions on calls and in person. 273 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: Oh my like as he like like they were just 274 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:31,959 Speaker 1: like chatting at two am until two am. Yes, in 275 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: person and on call sounds sounds like Tokyo race car drivers. 276 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:38,439 Speaker 2: Sounds like you should Tokyo drift. 277 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 1: Away or baby drift in. But drift away from Dan 278 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 1: sounds like you're that you're Tokyo drifting away from Dan. Yeah. 279 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 2: I didn't want to pursue a relationship with him because 280 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 2: I love Dan. But Ted told me to break up 281 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 2: with him because I deserved better. I said that I 282 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 2: didn't want to break up with him, but I wanted 283 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 2: to work on a relationship Lisa. So we're getting back 284 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 2: to Lisa. Okay was dating Coal, but before or that, 285 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 2: she was dating another person in the friend group, so 286 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 2: people didn't really like her as much. 287 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 1: Everyone's dating everyone. 288 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 2: Everyone, as I said, that's what the title said. 289 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: This this friend group is is incestuous. 290 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 2: It's incestuous. So people didn't really like her as much 291 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 2: because she was jumping from broad to broke no, like's 292 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 2: the Brewhopper. I told Lisa that I had feelings for Teddy, 293 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 2: Oh it's Teddy now, and that I wasn't that serious 294 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 2: about it. She said that. 295 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 1: Went from Ted to Teddy. 296 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,719 Speaker 2: Familiar, and Dan's going to Daniel. 297 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 1: From Dan mister Daniel. Oh. 298 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 2: She said that Ted was a cool guy, so she 299 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 2: didn't blame me. The day before Ted left for Tokyo, 300 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 2: he told me that he loved me and he hugged me. 301 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,079 Speaker 2: I kept in touch with him every day. 302 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: But one day wait, Ted said he loved her. Yes, 303 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 1: Tokyo race car driver. 304 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 2: Tokyo race car driver who told her to leave Dan. 305 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 2: Hugged her and said, I love you. 306 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 1: No kiss, no kiss, no kiss, no. 307 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 2: Kiss kIPS Yes. But one day Lisa told me she 308 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 2: broke up with Cole. I wanted to be there for her, 309 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 2: so we were on discord and doing a spot day. 310 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 2: Lisa confesses that she started dating Ted a week before 311 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 2: she broke up with Cole. Unbelievable and that but bet, oh. 312 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 1: He shouldn't care because she loves Dan. 313 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 2: That's so true. He said, you love Dan. 314 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: He said you loved Dan. 315 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 2: But Ted told her he loved her right after He 316 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 2: told me in the car. 317 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: You shouldn't care. He's care. 318 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 2: You should be with Dan. I was furious. I called 319 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 2: Ted and confronted him and said he was a piece 320 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 2: of Cole called me afterwards to tell me that he 321 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 2: wanted to thank Lisa for nicely breaking up with him, 322 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 2: but he didn't know why she Oh, but he didn't 323 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 2: know why she did though. Oh No, he wanted to 324 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 2: say he appreciated that she didn't cheat and broke up amicably. 325 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 2: But I told him the truth, and he sobbed about 326 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 2: how he felt betrayed and that he truly loved Lisa. 327 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 2: Right after the call, Dan calls me that he was 328 00:14:57,440 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 2: on his way to my house to talk to me. 329 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 2: We talked and he said that he wanted to break 330 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 2: up because long distance wasn't for him, and he stopped 331 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 2: loving me a couple months before. 332 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 1: Okay, so, so Op has just lost. 333 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 2: Dan, OPI has lost Ted lost Dan. Lisa has been 334 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 2: exposed for cheating on. 335 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 1: Coal with Ted. With Ted, this friend group's falling apart. 336 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 1: And this is why you don't for your friends and 337 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 1: your esports teams. Yeah, if you're if your friend group 338 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: is your esports team. For your friends and your your 339 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: esports team. 340 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 2: It's so true. It's teamwork. 341 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: Teamwork makes you dreamwork exactly. 342 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 2: This was at the time when I got kicked out 343 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 2: of my house and I was living with my parents. 344 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 2: Oh no, I was living with his parents. Sweet Dan, 345 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 2: Ted's parents. I think it was Dan's because this was 346 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 2: he stopped loving me a couple months before. 347 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 1: It's awkward. 348 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 2: Oh my god. This was at the time when I 349 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 2: got kicked out of my house and I was living 350 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 2: with Dan's parents. So I moved in with my grandma. 351 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 2: So it was a pretty messy breakup. That sounds pretty messy. Op. 352 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 1: The only thing though, is Ted sounds cool. 353 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 2: That sounds kind of cue, but he sounds race. 354 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 1: Car driver actually with their hearts. I mean, so uh 355 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: one of there. You know. So one of our cousins, Alex, 356 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: had this guy that was into her that was also 357 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: a race car driver that raced around the world. Oh 358 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 1: my god, you know him right? 359 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 2: I don't know. For the record, I don't know who 360 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 2: this is. Maybe you should just stay clear of race 361 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 2: car drivers. 362 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 1: Maybe that's the Patrick Liddy, this guy race car driver, 363 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: race car driver that was into my cousin. 364 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 2: He was into my cousin. 365 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 1: He was into our cousin. 366 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 2: He was into our collective cousin. 367 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: He race for Lamborghini. That's that's him in that car. So, like, 368 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 1: I know, Tokyo race car driver sounds far fetched, but 369 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: guess what our cousin freakin' had a Tokyo race car 370 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 1: driver into her. 371 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 2: So, yeah, are you a Tokyo race car driver or 372 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 2: my sister? 373 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 1: She is single. 374 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 2: I don't want any race car drivers. They seem kind 375 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 2: of bad news. 376 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 1: Bad news bears. But uh, let us know what you 377 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 1: a Tokyo race car driver. Put your answers in the comments. Also, 378 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 1: do you know any race car drivers? We do? 379 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 2: Have you seen any race cards? 380 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 1: You've seen this race car driver? Anyway? Opie's what's Ope's name? 381 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 2: Melissa Flores eight, two to. 382 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 1: Zero, Melissa Flores ate two to zero. Thank you for 383 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:18,400 Speaker 1: sharing your story. We actually have been reading a lot 384 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 1: of the comments of people sharing stories in the comments, 385 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:23,880 Speaker 1: so uh if you if you comment, to make sure 386 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:25,679 Speaker 1: to public subscribe. We might just read it. 387 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 2: You might just read it.