WEBVTT - Talk Daddy to Me: Parenting 101

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<v Speaker 1>This is Suckers. I'm Kilin Bell, I'm Dean Bell, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Jared Han An iHeartRadio podcast. Hey everybody, welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>an all new episode of Suckers. Actually the first episode

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<v Speaker 1>with just me solo sucking. Maybe that's what we should

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<v Speaker 1>call this separate podcast, solo sucking. I like it. My

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<v Speaker 1>name is Jared han You may know me as one

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<v Speaker 1>of the co hosts of arguably the best podcast that

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<v Speaker 1>I Heard Radio has ever produced. Formally known as Help

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<v Speaker 1>I Suck At Dating, formerly known as Help We Suck

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<v Speaker 1>At Being newly weds, now known as Suckers. We were

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<v Speaker 1>doing our joint podcast, as we always do. We recorded

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<v Speaker 1>that earlier this week and uploaded it, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>told you find folks who listened to this podcast that

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<v Speaker 1>we were also doing separate podcast because we were all

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<v Speaker 1>suckers for individual things. I'm a sucker for being a dad,

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<v Speaker 1>because I am the dad. Dean is a sucker for traveling,

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<v Speaker 1>Kaitlin is a sucker for pop culture. I'm definitely more.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a sucker for pop culture too, most definitely traveling

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<v Speaker 1>not so much. We're going to Disney next week. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>very excited for that. I'm a sucker for traveling when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to things like that. But I gotta be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Ashley and are extremely lucky that we still

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<v Speaker 1>get to travel a lot, and I'm not. I will

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<v Speaker 1>never complain to the level of like, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>the life we have because I'm so lucky. Guys, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so lucky. First of all, we're all lucky just to

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<v Speaker 1>be alive. When you really think about it, it is

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<v Speaker 1>pretty crazy just breathing. You know, not everybody can say it.

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<v Speaker 1>Not everybody can say that they're breathing, So that's pretty awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>But more, you know, not more importantly, but furthermore, Ashley

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<v Speaker 1>and I are so lucky. I know I say it

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, but when we complain about things, we

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<v Speaker 1>do it to get things off our chest. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>know I do, so does Ashley. But like I know,

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<v Speaker 1>every time I say something, I'm like, I know that

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<v Speaker 1>we are so grateful for the things in our life.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a healthy child, we have a roof over

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<v Speaker 1>our head, We're able to you know, have some money

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<v Speaker 1>saved up for a rainy day. Don't get me wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>I work hard, like I'm about Audrey's all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>grinding away just the restaurant industry not making money off that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I believe in what audres is. I believe in

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<v Speaker 1>the concept, you know, I believe in myself to a

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<v Speaker 1>certain extent. I think everybody does. I only believe in

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<v Speaker 1>this elf is to a certain extent, and that extent

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<v Speaker 1>only goes so far, and then all the doubts creep

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<v Speaker 1>in at like eleven fifteen at night ray when you're

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<v Speaker 1>about to go to bed. That's when you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>everything could fall apart right now, and then I try

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<v Speaker 1>to fall asleep and I can't, obviously, but I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like there's just a lot of people that go through that. Anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>This podcast is not about my internal demons. It's about parenthood.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're listening to this, you're probably a parent. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to say, you're doing great. Just keep

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<v Speaker 1>doing what you're doing, because none of us know what

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing, and we're just doing things the best we can,

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<v Speaker 1>and at the end of the day, that's the most

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<v Speaker 1>important thing, doing the best we can. Dawson is doing well.

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<v Speaker 1>He's currently downstairs. I was thinking about there was a

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<v Speaker 1>news article that came out. I had to deal with

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<v Speaker 1>Tom Cruise. He's awesome, but Cruz announced that he's moving

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<v Speaker 1>to Warner Brothers. So he's done a ton of movies

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<v Speaker 1>with Paramount. He's not exclusive with Paramount Pictures, but like

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<v Speaker 1>pretty close, like for example, the Mission to Possible Movies,

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<v Speaker 1>the Top Gun movie is like his biggest hits are

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<v Speaker 1>all up in Paramount. But then there was some He

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<v Speaker 1>released a post on Instagram saying that he is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be starring and producing and creating these franchise movies

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<v Speaker 1>and Warren Brothers. The reason I bring this up is

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<v Speaker 1>because I love Tukers. I grew up with Tom Cruise. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>to me, Tom Cruise is like everything I want to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe not everything. We all know that there are certain

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<v Speaker 1>sides of his celebrity status that maybe I'm not on

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<v Speaker 1>board with, but in terms of like how he treats people,

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<v Speaker 1>his work ethic, his movies that I just adore and

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<v Speaker 1>mean so much to me, like Tom Cruise is the man,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was thinking about how what happens if the

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<v Speaker 1>things that I love Dawson just doesn't like And while

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<v Speaker 1>of course I support him, like I want him to

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<v Speaker 1>love the things that he loves, but also I love

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<v Speaker 1>him so much I want to share in a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of these experiences with Dawson, and like, I'm excited to

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<v Speaker 1>show the movies that I love so much to Dawson

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<v Speaker 1>one day. What happens if he just hates him? What

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<v Speaker 1>happens if he's like, Dude, Dad, Dad, Matchbox twenty sucks?

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<v Speaker 1>Like do I say, bro, you suck? I can't say that, Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>I would never say that. So I was thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>that the other day, Like, what happens if the things

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<v Speaker 1>that we love Dawson doesn't love? Like right now, we're

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good. Like he loves football, which is great. He

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<v Speaker 1>loves throwing the football and he loves watching football. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is great. I can It comes down to bonding,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I want to bond with Dawson. And the

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<v Speaker 1>only way I know how to bond with Dawson is

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<v Speaker 1>to share the things that I love with him. And

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that will come naturally the more I think

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<v Speaker 1>about it, Like when he gets older and he starts

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<v Speaker 1>loving the things that he loves, He's gonna want to

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<v Speaker 1>bond with me over those things. And then of course

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<v Speaker 1>I'll want to love those things just because their opportunities

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<v Speaker 1>to bond with my son. Is that the purpose of

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast just for me to vocalize everything and really

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<v Speaker 1>figure out things. Is this like therapy? Kind of felt

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I feel like I just came to a resolution.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I understand. I'm not really that nervous anymore, because

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<v Speaker 1>I've realized he might not like the things that I

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<v Speaker 1>like and he might not be able to bond with

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<v Speaker 1>me over those things. But that's okay because he'll have

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<v Speaker 1>his own things that he loves and it won't be

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<v Speaker 1>about the thing for me. It'll be about spending time

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<v Speaker 1>with my son. Okay, I feel better about that now,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes sense. That's gonna be interesting to go through.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder what he's I wonder what he's gonna love

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<v Speaker 1>like right now. He loves football, he loves Aladdin, he

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<v Speaker 1>loves Ladin a lot, and like the toys that we

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<v Speaker 1>get and like I got a Power Ranger, toys and

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<v Speaker 1>Teenage Mutant Eternals, Superman and Batman again, all the things

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<v Speaker 1>that I love that he loves right now. And for Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>he loves Aladdin. He loves new kids on the block

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<v Speaker 1>bands also, I love those things. Shout out to Backstreet Boys.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, but the greatest boy band of all time

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<v Speaker 1>for any of you in sinc lovers instincts great. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>get me wrong, Backstreet's better. But like, I'm curious about

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<v Speaker 1>the transition when he starts saying, Hey, Dad, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to like I love this, And I'm gonna be like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is that? You know? Because right now he only

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<v Speaker 1>loves the things that I introduced to him. But they'll

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<v Speaker 1>come a time where he introduces things to me that

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<v Speaker 1>I will learn to love for the sole reason that

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<v Speaker 1>he loves them. It's kind of weird being a parent,

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<v Speaker 1>how that works out. I was also thinking about people

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<v Speaker 1>who aren't parents. I'm not gonna say I'm jealous. Jealous

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<v Speaker 1>is a strong word, because I wouldn't change anything. I

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<v Speaker 1>love Dawson. I would never not want Dawson in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Having said that, like a lot of the people who

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<v Speaker 1>work at Audrey's obviously are younger, don't have kids, and

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<v Speaker 1>they just wake up and the entire day is about themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Like they wake up and it's like, you know, they

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<v Speaker 1>make themselves food, they take care of themselves, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they go to work and then I just think back

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<v Speaker 1>upon that time in my life and I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all about perspective, right, like, my perspective is drastically

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<v Speaker 1>different now that I'm a parent, I'm a husband. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>there are other people in my life that I need

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<v Speaker 1>to sacrifice, things for which I'm more than happy to do.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's so interesting thinking about myself ten years ago

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<v Speaker 1>or even just you know, however many years ago, even

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<v Speaker 1>when I was at with Ashley. I mean, the big

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<v Speaker 1>game changer is really dawesome because Ashley, it was a

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<v Speaker 1>fully functioning adult by the time. Better obviously with Dawson.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's like you, first of all, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>wake up. He wakes you up, so you're not waking

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<v Speaker 1>up on your own time. You're waking up whenever your

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<v Speaker 1>kid wakes up. And then you know, my entire now,

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<v Speaker 1>my entire day, well a lot of my day revolves

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<v Speaker 1>around Dawson, because it's like, all right, well, I'll wake up,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll change Stiper, I'll do the things, and then Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get up, help take care of him. So I

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<v Speaker 1>can go to the gym and then go to work.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I also only go to the gym for

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<v Speaker 1>a certain amount of time because it's like, all right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I can only be away from the house for a

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<v Speaker 1>certain amount of times. I'm sure that you know, Ashley's

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<v Speaker 1>not alone with Dawson all day, so it's like I'll,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she'll put him down for a nap, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I'll come back after nap to help take care

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<v Speaker 1>of him, so she has some relief. My point being

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<v Speaker 1>in this conversation is that it's just insane. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>even like put myself into my own headspace where I

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<v Speaker 1>was prior to having Dawson, where it was isn't like

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<v Speaker 1>I had to devote a majority of my entire being

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<v Speaker 1>to someone else to ensure that they're surviving, enjoying life, ah, learning, ah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, being raised. Anyway, long story short, so whenever

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<v Speaker 1>I hear someone complaining does have kids, I'm like, shut

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<v Speaker 1>the hell up. I'm kidding. I don't say that because

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<v Speaker 1>I know everybody has their own issues, but seriously, shut up,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just kidding. Oh golly, I saw an article too.

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking up topics for this this podcast because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, all right, parenting parenting, that could be

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<v Speaker 1>called it too parenting one on one. I'm sure there's

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<v Speaker 1>already a podcast called parenting one on one. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>too easy. But I saw something and said The Color Purple.

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<v Speaker 1>Great movie, directed by Steven Spielberg. I remember started it

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<v Speaker 1>started oprah. I remember watching that movie as a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Great movie. I think there was a roommake. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>point is the only reason this headline got to me.

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<v Speaker 1>It was because, so The Color Purple has a PG

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<v Speaker 1>thirteen rating? Is it okay for kids? Am I? The

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<v Speaker 1>dummy here? Isn't PG thirteen? Doesn't that mean that it's

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<v Speaker 1>suitable for ages thirteen and up? Right? Anyway? I saw

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<v Speaker 1>that and I was like, wait a minute, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean suitable for kids? It says PG thirteen. Isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that the whole basis of the rating system? So we know, like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>where is this movie suitable for I guess there's some

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<v Speaker 1>gray area, right, Like what happens if your kids twelve?

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<v Speaker 1>Can they not watch a PG thirteen movie? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what is Jaws rated? Because, oh my god, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I thought, guys, Jaws, Jaws one of them, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>scariest movies of all time. I don't know about that,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, people were terrified in this movie. There are

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<v Speaker 1>people being eaten by sharks, and there's blood and it's

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<v Speaker 1>quite scary as a kid. That movie's rated p G

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<v Speaker 1>PG parental guidance. Now, that movie came out in nineteen

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<v Speaker 1>seventy five, so PG is a lot different back in

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen seventy five than it is now. But can you

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<v Speaker 1>imagine that? But what else do we want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about on this podcast? Guys? I guess that's a question

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<v Speaker 1>I should be asking. What do you want me to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about on this podcast? I got? I am very

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<v Speaker 1>excited about this. I feel like I could talk to

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<v Speaker 1>myself for hours. I have conversations with myself all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley has videos of my lips moving, my eyes closed,

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<v Speaker 1>my lips moving. Because I didn't realize that when I

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<v Speaker 1>talk to myself sometimes I talk out loud, but I

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<v Speaker 1>talk to myself all the time. I think they say

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<v Speaker 1>geniuses to themselves or psychopaths. I can't remember football coin really,

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<v Speaker 1>But what do you guys want me to talk about?

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure you comment on the Instagram, email us, give

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<v Speaker 1>us feedback. Feedback is extremely important. You know, we want

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<v Speaker 1>to know what you guys like, what you don't like,

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<v Speaker 1>what you want to hear more of, what you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear more of. Maybe you shouldn't say that,

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<v Speaker 1>because probably a lot of you be like, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear from Jared. So if that's your thought,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe keep that to yourself. But everything else email us comment,

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<v Speaker 1>please let us know, and let us know what you

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear about on our individual podcast. Because of

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<v Speaker 1>course we're going to still come together Dean, myself, Caitlin,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna talk, We're in chat, we're gonna talk about

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<v Speaker 1>our lives, talk about dating. I love doing the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>with them, I really do. I wish we could do

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<v Speaker 1>it in person more. Unfortunately I live in Rhode Island.

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<v Speaker 1>They are now living in Aspen, which looks beautiful. But

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<v Speaker 1>it was so much fun being able to record together

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<v Speaker 1>at the Golden Bachelor, and there's such a different dynamic

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<v Speaker 1>when you're in the room with someone you know. We

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<v Speaker 1>can be in a virtual room and it works, and

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<v Speaker 1>it works well, but there is a distinct difference when

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<v Speaker 1>you're actually physically together, being able to like, joke around,

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<v Speaker 1>play off each other. It's just a different dynamic one

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<v Speaker 1>that I enjoy immensely, and I wish we could do

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<v Speaker 1>it more, but unfortunately it's not physically possible. My point

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<v Speaker 1>being is that we're still going to do those of course,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we're each going to do our individual podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>So for me personally, I would love love, love, love,

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<v Speaker 1>love love if you could tell us what you want

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<v Speaker 1>us to talk about. Also shout out. There was a

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<v Speaker 1>very very nice woman who came into Audrey's actually earlier

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<v Speaker 1>today from when I'm recording, and she listens to the podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>and she came from all the way from California. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she has a gen didn't come just for us. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that'd be very sweet. Maybe I should just lie and

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<v Speaker 1>say that. But she had some time share and she

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<v Speaker 1>stayed in Newport. Newport's beautiful. If you haven't been to

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<v Speaker 1>Newport where island, guys, go check it out. Not right

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<v Speaker 1>now because you know it's kind of gross outside, but

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<v Speaker 1>anytime after May, May through even December because the holidays

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<v Speaker 1>in Newport adorable, but summer's the best. Definitely check out Newport.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me go back. Shout out to the woman who

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<v Speaker 1>came in. She said she listens to the podcast. And

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<v Speaker 1>anybody who comes up and tells me they listen to

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast, please know how much that means to me.

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<v Speaker 1>It just means the world, It really does, because you

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot of times just like you guys, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure you have a lot of doubts about yourself, but

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<v Speaker 1>you keep pushing forward. Everybody has doubts about themselves, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's so nice when someone reassures me about the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure it feels great when people reasure about you,

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<v Speaker 1>know you, about anything in life. So anyway, you're wonderful.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for coming and really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Anybody who listens who's been to Audrey's, thank you so

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<v Speaker 1>much for coming in and supporting Audrey's as well, because

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<v Speaker 1>we work hard, and it's just just me, like I

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<v Speaker 1>work really hard, but there are a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>that work hard at Audrey's, a lot of great people.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I'm very lucky to have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful people that work at Audrey's. And it's tough sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>to feel like it's not as successful as it should

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<v Speaker 1>be or as I was hoping it would to be,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, full transparency, Audie's just well, I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>make money off of it, but again, I do it

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<v Speaker 1>because I've always wanted to own my own place, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I have a good grasp on the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant industry and I feel like I know what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing to a certain extent. Once again, that line to

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<v Speaker 1>a certain extent, But that doesn't mean it's not hard.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, anybody who owns a restaurant can tell you

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<v Speaker 1>how difficult it is. And also, like I care about

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<v Speaker 1>my employees, I want to make sure that they're they're

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<v Speaker 1>well off, you know, that they they don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>live paycheck to paycheck, and that when they're there at

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<v Speaker 1>Audrey's working, they're being compensated and they're being compensated well.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want them to know how much I appreciate them.

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<v Speaker 1>And so anyway, point is, there's a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>that work hard, and so when you come in to Audrey's,

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<v Speaker 1>you're supporting me, yes, and that means the world to me,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're really supporting them as well, you know. And

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<v Speaker 1>I have people who work for me that have families

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<v Speaker 1>and kids, and you know, they're paying for college, and

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<v Speaker 1>so there's you know, just like in life. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's got their own things going on. But I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to say thank you because it means a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and it means a lot for you to listen. Hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>this was not too boring. I kind of just rambled,

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<v Speaker 1>but honestly, it was so much fun. I enjoy rambling. Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>you will definitely be a co host on this podcast too,

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<v Speaker 1>not every week, but like she's definitely gonna pop in

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<v Speaker 1>and just give her two cents, because that's what Ashley does.

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<v Speaker 1>She comes in and she tells me exactly what she's thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>which at the end of the day is a great,

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<v Speaker 1>great thing to have because I'd much rather have that

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<v Speaker 1>than never know what my partner's thinking. That would be frustrating. So,

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<v Speaker 1>once again, thank you so much for listeners podcast, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm gonna end it just like we end suckers,

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<v Speaker 1>which means make sure you tune in next week, where

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully we suck just a little bit less. Thanks for listening.

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