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Speaker 1: This is from B and Steve HARBFM. He says, the

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Speaker 1: relationship between my wife and my stepdaughter, her daughter has

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Speaker 1: taken a turn. Our daughter is in her second year

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Speaker 1: of college and is sharing a house with three of

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Speaker 1: her friends on campus. We pay her rent and her tuition,

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Speaker 1: but she's forbidden my wife her mother from reaching out,

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Speaker 1: saying hello and checking on her because quote, she's an

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Speaker 1: adult and doesn't need to be checked upon. It's really

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Speaker 1: hurting my wife's feelings. My response is, quote, well, she's

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Speaker 1: an adult. She can pay her own tuition and rent,

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Speaker 1: which doesn't sit too well with my wife.

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Speaker 2: Any advice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, see, we all get that. Who have children calling?

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Speaker 3: That's going to be coming your way in a minute.

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Speaker 3: Tommy has experienced me, Wow, surely I have. They all

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Speaker 3: want to claim they are an adult, but they've taken

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Speaker 3: your assistance. Oh yeah, money, money, you know, but like

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Speaker 3: I don't. You can't make no demands on me and

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Speaker 3: you're taking this money. Matter of fact, you can't say sugar, honey, ice.

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Speaker 4: Tea to me.

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Speaker 2: Alrighty?

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Speaker 3: Then no, for real, man, not you taking this money?

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Speaker 3: Damn I'm an adult. No, No, let me tell you

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Speaker 3: what adults do. Adults take care of themselves and everybody

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Speaker 3: that they responsible for. Talk to me, man, they don't

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Speaker 3: take care of yourself or are you responsible for yourself?

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Speaker 3: So you put your ass right on back in the

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Speaker 3: dependent category because that's what your ass is.

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Speaker 4: On the tax for us.

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Speaker 2: But that's what the daddy said. But the mom it

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Speaker 2: doesn't sit well with her. She's upset about it.

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Speaker 1: So he's asking any advice that he can handle this

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Speaker 1: with his wife.

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Speaker 2: Yeah she does, that's what he wants to do. But

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Speaker 2: the wife is not. You know, she's not with it.

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Speaker 2: She's not ready and all that.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, if she's ready to sit there

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Speaker 3: and take that type of abuse it orders from your daughter.

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Speaker 4: Didn't go ahead and let your daughter take charge. Not

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Speaker 4: a good.

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Speaker 3: Hard to have a person in charge of somebody that's older.

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Speaker 3: If you're younger than me, it's kind of hard for

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Speaker 3: me to let you be in charge of me. And

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Speaker 3: you ain't wi being done what I done. So if

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Speaker 3: you if your wife is cool with that, then let

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Speaker 3: her go on his stomach. But you should have a

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Speaker 3: conversation with the daughter and just go hey.

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Speaker 4: You know what, uh huh? Will thank you? Being really

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Speaker 4: really out of line and rule with your mother. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 4: a good point.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's not what being away at college means. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you need to pull up a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we have time for another one, Steve.

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Speaker 1: This is Lillian on Steve BARBFM. Lillian says, my husband's brother,

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Speaker 1: my brother in law, has a new girlfriend that he's

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Speaker 1: getting really serious with. She's smart and good looking, which

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Speaker 1: makes me question her interest in him. Although he's nice,

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Speaker 1: he's not the best looking and isn't real bright. But

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Speaker 1: he does have a lot of money because my husband's

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Speaker 1: parents were well off and left all their children financially secure.

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Speaker 1: I'm afraid she's going to use him for his money.

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Speaker 1: How can my husband and I help to protect him?

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Speaker 1: Or should I butt out?

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Speaker 4: Tom? You want to handle I don't know why he

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Speaker 4: told that to me?

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Speaker 5: What the hell is wrong?

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Speaker 4: Say? Well? Okay, surely read the first full lines.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Lillian and Steve Harvey writes, my husband's brother, my

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Speaker 1: brother in law, has a new girlfriend that he's getting

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Speaker 1: really serious with. She's smart and good looking, which makes

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Speaker 1: me question her interest in him. Although he's nice, and

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Speaker 1: this is a line I know you wanted to hear.

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Speaker 1: Although he's nice, he's not the best looking and is

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Speaker 1: it real? Right?

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Speaker 5: I said you always, John, I don't know nothing about that.

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Speaker 5: I don't know nothing about not looking good. I don't

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Speaker 5: know nothing about.

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Speaker 4: I don't know nothing.

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Speaker 5: I don't know nothing we do.

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Speaker 3: That's why we directed it towards you.

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Speaker 4: You directed it towards me.

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Speaker 5: I don't know nothing by not being sexy so like

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Speaker 5: ugly stuff.

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Speaker 4: I'm not with ugly stuff.

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Speaker 5: I'm not.

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Speaker 4: Even looking at your zoom.

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Speaker 2: You won't see us looking at you.

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Speaker 4: See, you got the only one whose chin and head

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Speaker 4: is on the screen.

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Speaker 5: Okay, let me talk to the latest. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 5: talk to y'all. Ladies, y'all looking at the zoom. It's

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Speaker 5: Timmy on here, but this man needs help. No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 5: go ahead. They're looking at the lady. What y'all y'all

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Speaker 5: looking at the zoom? Y'all looking at Timmy? I mean,

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Speaker 5: I mean, do you see all this sexy? I mean,

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Speaker 5: do you see it? I mean, what do you see nothing?

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Speaker 4: A turtle? What is the hush over jerublo? What is that?

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Speaker 4: I see? Like a commercial for car wax or ink it.

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Speaker 2: We'll have more of today Turtle. Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: Lighter.

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Speaker 2: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show