WEBVTT - Does Being Pregnant Slow Down Your Career?

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<v Speaker 1>It's topic time.

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<v Speaker 2>Eight hundred five five one five one to join into

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<v Speaker 2>the discussion with the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 3>Morning everybody, It's DJ Envy, Charlomagne, the God we are

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<v Speaker 3>the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Jess Hilarious is here, Charlomagne is out.

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<v Speaker 3>Now if you just joined us, we were talking about

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<v Speaker 3>eight hundred five eight five one oh five to one.

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<v Speaker 3>Ray in an interview yesterday with Ticket Easter Ray was

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<v Speaker 3>talking about one of her biggest fears is to get pregnant.

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<v Speaker 3>She said, I have a fear of getting pregnant. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to be slowed down. And I'm talking about

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<v Speaker 3>in her career. So that is the question. Eight hundred

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<v Speaker 3>five eight five one oh five to one. We're asking ladies,

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<v Speaker 3>do you feel like if you become pregnant it slows

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<v Speaker 3>you down? Is that your biggest fear when it comes

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<v Speaker 3>to your career and life? That is the question eight

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<v Speaker 3>hundred five eight five one oh five one. Let's listen

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<v Speaker 3>to Easter Ray first.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's always been a been a thing for me, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I just have a fear. Maybe this will changed my

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<v Speaker 4>mind playing this role, but I'm just like I don't

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<v Speaker 4>want to I don't want to be slowed down.

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<v Speaker 1>For any reason.

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<v Speaker 4>And my friends are like, girl, it's not gonna slow

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<v Speaker 4>you down, It's fine, But I don't believe them.

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<v Speaker 1>Now let's start with you. Just yes, what are your thoughts.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think that it slows you. I don't think

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<v Speaker 5>it has to slow you down. I think like times

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<v Speaker 5>are different now I don't And I can't even speak

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<v Speaker 5>for everybody because I know when I was pregnant, I

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<v Speaker 5>got pregnant at a young age, and I got pregnant

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<v Speaker 5>when I was nineteen.

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<v Speaker 6>I had my son when I was twenty.

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<v Speaker 5>It didn't slow me now, but I also didn't know

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<v Speaker 5>what I what I wanted to do yet, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I was still like working like dead end jobs, you

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<v Speaker 5>know what I mean, McDonald's overnight and I couldn't even

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<v Speaker 5>keep a job at nineteen, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>So when I but when I realized I wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>step into a career, and that was this you know,

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<v Speaker 5>he was like two, and it just still didn't slow

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<v Speaker 5>me down. I want to have actually more children now,

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<v Speaker 5>I would if I was already you know, married and everything.

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<v Speaker 6>But I don't think it has to slow you down.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me ask your question.

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<v Speaker 3>If you were pregnant now, do you feel like it

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<v Speaker 3>would slow you down? Because you know, right now, Jess

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<v Speaker 3>is doing everything right. You're doing concerts, you're doing you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you're on the road, you have TV, you're doing the

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<v Speaker 3>breakfast club, You're doing so much. Do you feel like

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<v Speaker 3>if you're pregnant now that that would slow you down?

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<v Speaker 5>I often think about that and I really do not

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<v Speaker 5>think so. I have a big, huge support system, both

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<v Speaker 5>of my parents. Even with my son now his dad

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<v Speaker 5>is in his life, and then I have a huge family.

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<v Speaker 5>My little sister she acts as a nanny for me sometimes. No,

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<v Speaker 5>I just it depends on like the support and I

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<v Speaker 5>have a huge support system and a great foundation.

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<v Speaker 6>So I don't think it'll slow me down now.

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<v Speaker 3>Tesla Figurero, she's still with us now you have a

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<v Speaker 3>young daughter as well. So do you feel like being

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<v Speaker 3>or being pregnant? Do you feel like it slows you down?

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<v Speaker 3>And if you're pregnant now, do you feel like it

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<v Speaker 3>would slow down what you're doing now?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 8>Absolutely, And thank you for let me sit in on

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<v Speaker 8>this because I think it's important people here too different

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<v Speaker 8>perspectives from women and just hit it right on the nail.

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<v Speaker 8>It really does come down to your support system. Now,

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<v Speaker 8>for me, I got married and we didn't have our

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<v Speaker 8>first child. I have won until we were married for

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<v Speaker 8>seven years, so I didn't have a.

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<v Speaker 6>Child young and even still being married.

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<v Speaker 8>When you are married, your husband and your children really

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<v Speaker 8>do come before you. So that means that you're making

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<v Speaker 8>an adjustment. His career move, so I had to move,

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<v Speaker 8>which means I had to stop school. I had to

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<v Speaker 8>pick it back up online. I mean, it is an adjustment,

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<v Speaker 8>and I want you know, to be very clear with

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<v Speaker 8>women that although you know, you may think your family

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<v Speaker 8>may be supportive, or you may think you have the support,

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<v Speaker 8>you don't know if you'll have to move. I've had

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<v Speaker 8>to move in five different cities. I've moved over ten times.

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<v Speaker 8>Both my parents are in the ground, you know, so

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<v Speaker 8>I've lost both my parents and even then they wouldn't

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<v Speaker 8>have been in the city to help me anyway.

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<v Speaker 6>So I'm an only child. I don't have brothers and sisters.

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<v Speaker 8>There was not you know, this large family that's just

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<v Speaker 8>gonna come by and you know, and help.

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<v Speaker 6>But I was still highly successful.

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<v Speaker 8>I ran my own business in Orlando called the Ally Group.

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<v Speaker 8>I had three hundred employees, you know, I won Orlando

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<v Speaker 8>Business Journal twice, so you can still be successful, but

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<v Speaker 8>it is an adjustment. It took me longer to finish

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<v Speaker 8>my degree. I got two degrees, but it still took

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<v Speaker 8>me longer. There was an adjustment. I had to slow down.

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<v Speaker 8>And to be clear, my ex husband's my ex husband

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<v Speaker 8>now he is very much involved, you know, in my

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<v Speaker 8>child's life from an emotional, physically financial, So there's no

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<v Speaker 8>dad beat dad. You know, this is a co parent situation,

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<v Speaker 8>similar to Jess. But even still it slowed down. Some

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<v Speaker 8>of the things I wanted to do still got it done,

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<v Speaker 8>but it did take a little bit longer.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say that, you know, part of me is

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<v Speaker 3>being a little guilty to feeling like my career took

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<v Speaker 3>off and I didn't allow my.

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<v Speaker 1>Wife's career to take off.

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<v Speaker 8>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>So my wife is, you know, a major in communications,

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<v Speaker 3>and she had aspirations for doing so many different things.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know, we had our We had Madison early,

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<v Speaker 3>and being from New York, I couldn't afford to living

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<v Speaker 3>in New York because it was too expensive, so I

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<v Speaker 3>had to drive an hour out the way in Jersey,

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<v Speaker 3>which put us in a place in the suburbs where

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<v Speaker 3>she knew nobody. There was no way for her to

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<v Speaker 3>get to work, and there was no way for her

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<v Speaker 3>to get to the city and then get back to

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<v Speaker 3>pick up our child. And she wanted to raise as

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<v Speaker 3>a child. So it wasn't no nanny, so it wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>a babysitter because we didn't have any family out there.

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<v Speaker 3>So because you know, we did that, she had to

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<v Speaker 3>sacrifice her career to raise our family, which has always

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<v Speaker 3>been something that I always you know, felt funny from

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<v Speaker 3>because it's like, you know, she allowed me to help

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<v Speaker 3>me get my career and I never did the same

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<v Speaker 3>for her because she had the family.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think it did. I think it did slow

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<v Speaker 1>her her career down.

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<v Speaker 5>Does damn you envy what you just just let loose

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<v Speaker 5>all with dingling all early and you just pursuing your

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<v Speaker 5>life and you didn't even say, hey, baby, you want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Go back to school.

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<v Speaker 6>You just say no, baby, want to keep having these kids.

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<v Speaker 3>But let's open up the phone lines eight hundred five

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<v Speaker 3>eight five one oh five one. The question is, ladies,

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<v Speaker 3>do you feel like being pregnant slows your career down?

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<v Speaker 3>Or did it slow your career down? Or maybe it didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's talk about it when we come back. It's the

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<v Speaker 3>Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, it's topic time.

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<v Speaker 2>Called eight hundred and five eight five five one to

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<v Speaker 2>join it to the discussion with the break was Glow

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<v Speaker 2>talk about it morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody's dj NV Charlomagne the god we are the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Charlomagne is out. Just hilarious is he?

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<v Speaker 3>And if you just join us. We've been talking about

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<v Speaker 3>women being pregnant? Does that slow your career down?

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<v Speaker 9>Now?

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<v Speaker 3>This came from Eastern Ray. She was interviewing with Tiger

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<v Speaker 3>and this is what she said.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's always been a been a thing for me, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I just have a fear. Maybe this will changed my

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<v Speaker 4>mind playing this role, but I'm just like I don't

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<v Speaker 4>want to. I don't want to be slowed down for

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<v Speaker 4>any reason. And my friends are like, girl, it's not

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<v Speaker 4>gonna slow you down, it's fine, but I don't believe them.

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<v Speaker 3>All Right, So we're asking eight hundred and five eight

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<v Speaker 3>five one oh five one does pregnancy slow you down?

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<v Speaker 3>Has it slowed you down? Let's go to the phone lines. Daisy,

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<v Speaker 3>good morning.

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<v Speaker 10>Morning, How are you dying?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you?

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<v Speaker 9>So?

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<v Speaker 10>I just wanted to tell you guys that I just

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<v Speaker 10>had a baby a year ago.

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<v Speaker 7>He fout from one July every first.

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<v Speaker 10>And I just graduated with my AA and Business administration,

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<v Speaker 10>and I'm going back for my bachelor's degree in business

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<v Speaker 10>as well. And I'm a full time social media influencer.

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<v Speaker 7>And I just want to say, like.

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<v Speaker 10>How about baby does not show you down whatsoever. It's

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<v Speaker 10>just how motivated you are and how determined you are.

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<v Speaker 10>That's what's gonna push you. A baby does not stop nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Agree with you? Hello? Who's this?

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<v Speaker 9>This is Dre. How you doing, Hey, Dre? Good morning,

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<v Speaker 9>good morning, good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Has the pregnancy slowed you down?

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<v Speaker 9>Dre? No, it has h you know, I feel like

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<v Speaker 9>it would slow my girlfriend thought, but not too much.

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<v Speaker 9>She's actually a model in the fashion designer, so she

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<v Speaker 9>would just get pregnant then, you know, she wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 9>able to do as much as those things. No disrespect.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to it from you. Uh you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want it from the women.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh I feel really, I ain't.

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<v Speaker 6>Gonna answer the question like, yeah, I mean I feel

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<v Speaker 6>like it has slow my girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello. Hello, Hey, what's your name?

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<v Speaker 7>Her name is Angie? Good morning, morning Angie.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about pregnancy.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you feel like it would slow you down or

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<v Speaker 3>are you nervous about it?

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<v Speaker 9>No?

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<v Speaker 10>Okay, So this is a funny topic because I just came.

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<v Speaker 7>Home from floridam originally from Miami. Day returned five and

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<v Speaker 7>we went to Orlando though with my family, okay, and

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<v Speaker 7>they were just pressuring me to have a kid. They

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<v Speaker 7>weren't my son to have a sibling. I'm the oldest

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<v Speaker 7>of four I'm the oldest of fourteen grandchildren. I don't

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<v Speaker 7>want the more damn kids.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Why why are you scared of to slow you down more?

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<v Speaker 5>Or did your first one slow you down?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 9>Do that.

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<v Speaker 7>I just don't have patience. But I feel like I

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<v Speaker 7>feel like I will get slowed down because I'm kind

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<v Speaker 7>of driven and I wanted to.

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<v Speaker 9>Get to where I want to get.

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<v Speaker 7>So multiple kids, I don't know how even Enz has

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<v Speaker 7>so many children. That's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I have six.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know the thing about my six is they're

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<v Speaker 3>all over the gain and like I got a twenty

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<v Speaker 3>one year old in nineteen or pretty much self sufficient.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't need me, you know. Every once in a while, Dad,

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<v Speaker 3>can you throw some money in my account? Or Dad,

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<v Speaker 3>I need this, and I do have a ten, a

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<v Speaker 3>nine or six, and an eighteen month old, which requires

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<v Speaker 3>a lot. And I will say it did slow my

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<v Speaker 3>wife down. It did slow her career down because there's

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<v Speaker 3>certain things that she cannot do.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she has to get up in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>take those kids. She has to pick them up.

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<v Speaker 3>And my kids were in all types of activities and

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<v Speaker 3>she has to get around and get them and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I help as much as possible, and we do have

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<v Speaker 3>some help.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it definitely slowed her career down of what

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to do. I'm not you know, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>even sit in life.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I lived with mans. I take a little distance,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, it's just my mom mom all the time.

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<v Speaker 7>And I don't know. Even with my mom, I gotta

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<v Speaker 7>stay from you take come back. I can't do another one.

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<v Speaker 7>Didn't they want me to have a girl. It's just

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<v Speaker 7>not happening.

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<v Speaker 6>I feel you.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello. Who's this Hi?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean it's Katy.

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<v Speaker 10>I'm from Orlando, born in rains Hey.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, now you talking about being pregnant and slowing you down.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about it.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, my sister, she's three years old. She lives alone,

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<v Speaker 10>you know, to dogs, cat, tarantulas, and she actually says

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<v Speaker 10>to Florida there and she got the two oligation you know,

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<v Speaker 10>Bernie and two just to prevent herself from getting pregnant

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<v Speaker 10>or Bue forced to carry her pregnancy in Florida.

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<v Speaker 3>So she was so scared to get pregnant, and with

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<v Speaker 3>the pregnancy with the abortion bands, she got a two bligation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I see, Jesus Christ.

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<v Speaker 3>She definitely don't want to get pregnant, and she nervous

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<v Speaker 3>and being pregnant because she feels like it's a slow

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<v Speaker 3>her career down or something like that.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, she's twenty three. She lives alone, she has her

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<v Speaker 10>own apartment, home places, don't depend on nobody but herself.

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<v Speaker 7>She's twenty three, started going on, if she worked.

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<v Speaker 10>To get pregnant, she wouldn't be able to keep her animals.

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<v Speaker 10>But as it is, but it would told me up

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<v Speaker 10>front and change her life.

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<v Speaker 6>Twenty three A two obligation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's twenty three or two bligation.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought you had to be able to have a

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<v Speaker 5>certain amount of kids to even do that. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>think that you have you can, And then went three,

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<v Speaker 5>you got to be a certain age to do that too.

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<v Speaker 6>And now how does she know she gonna fall her

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<v Speaker 6>way at thirty three.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she got two dogs, two cats, a tarantula, a spider,

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<v Speaker 3>and I.

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<v Speaker 6>Not to do it. So she's straight.

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<v Speaker 1>She's straight. Now, let me ask you a question, Jess,

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to being pregnant.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's say, you know, I guess you would have to

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<v Speaker 3>feel a way too, because let's say you're shooting a movie,

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<v Speaker 3>right and you become pregnant during the movie, and the

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<v Speaker 3>character is not pregnant, so I guess you have to

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<v Speaker 3>hide that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guess you would kind of be nervous.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, if you are a woman and those situations happen,

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<v Speaker 3>or if you're on a sitcom, or if you're on

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<v Speaker 3>a series, or if you're doing something where you know

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<v Speaker 3>you have to play a character right and then you

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<v Speaker 3>become pregnant, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>How does that work? Because you know, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>do for shooting now?

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<v Speaker 5>And nowadays it's different. Nowadays, it's like it would be considered.

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<v Speaker 5>They're so scared of like discrimination, Like, oh, they put

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<v Speaker 5>me on because I was pregnant. So what they would

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<v Speaker 5>do is, if it's an ongoing show, they will write

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<v Speaker 5>it in they will write it in some type of

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<v Speaker 5>way and then It depends on the type of show

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<v Speaker 5>it is. They would either have to put put it

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<v Speaker 5>on hold until after you had a baby, or rush

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<v Speaker 5>and shoot it before you start showing. It just depends.

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<v Speaker 5>It depends on a bunch of different variables nowadays. Back

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<v Speaker 5>then it was like uh uh, But now people embrace

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<v Speaker 5>all types of like you know, maternity shoots and I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, but that, Yeah, paternity is different maternity like

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<v Speaker 5>roles and stuff like that. And I can still do

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<v Speaker 5>stand up, I can still come in, Yeah, I can

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<v Speaker 5>still you know, it is not as limited as it.

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<v Speaker 6>Used to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, So all right, well, all right, you got a

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<v Speaker 3>final thought, a.

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<v Speaker 5>Final thought, just don't get pregnant if you don't have

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<v Speaker 5>no support, but get pregnant if you have support.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think the whole thing is a support system.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, and having family around it definitely helps women

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<v Speaker 3>who have to take on being pregnant by their self.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, it's a lot on them because there is

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<v Speaker 3>nobody to help. There is nobody to give.

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<v Speaker 1>Them the break. Because sometimes as a parent, you just

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<v Speaker 1>need a break.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you get your kids bothering shot of you or

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<v Speaker 3>babies crying, and you just need that little give me,

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<v Speaker 3>my little ten fifteen minutes or my hour or my day,

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<v Speaker 3>just to breathe a little.

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<v Speaker 6>Bit, because it could send you mentally insane. Just as

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<v Speaker 6>a parent like you use it said.

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<v Speaker 5>For a first time parent who has to do it

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<v Speaker 5>by themselves, it is definitely hard. So I just do

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<v Speaker 5>as best for you, and you know, if you have

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<v Speaker 5>support and you're not scared, jump out there, but.

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<v Speaker 6>Do what's best for you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, we got roomors coming up. What were

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<v Speaker 1>we talking about?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Ray J took his kids to school for the first

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<v Speaker 5>time in June. Yeah, I said, well, damn school, they

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<v Speaker 5>go to Jesus.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, we'll get to it next. It's the

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<v Speaker 3>Breakfast Club. Good boarding, Good morning,