1
00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:05,160
Speaker 1: It's topic time.

2
00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:08,840
Speaker 2: Eight hundred five five one five one to join into

3
00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:10,320
Speaker 2: the discussion with the Breakfast Club.

4
00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:16,040
Speaker 3: Morning everybody, It's DJ Envy, Charlomagne, the God we are

5
00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:17,119
Speaker 3: the Breakfast Club.

6
00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,640
Speaker 1: Jess Hilarious is here, Charlomagne is out.

7
00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:22,520
Speaker 3: Now if you just joined us, we were talking about

8
00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:24,840
Speaker 3: eight hundred five eight five one oh five to one.

9
00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:28,280
Speaker 3: Ray in an interview yesterday with Ticket Easter Ray was

10
00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:31,720
Speaker 3: talking about one of her biggest fears is to get pregnant.

11
00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:35,839
Speaker 3: She said, I have a fear of getting pregnant. I

12
00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:39,040
Speaker 3: don't want to be slowed down. And I'm talking about

13
00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,560
Speaker 3: in her career. So that is the question. Eight hundred

14
00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:44,040
Speaker 3: five eight five one oh five to one. We're asking ladies,

15
00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,760
Speaker 3: do you feel like if you become pregnant it slows

16
00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:49,160
Speaker 3: you down? Is that your biggest fear when it comes

17
00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,840
Speaker 3: to your career and life? That is the question eight

18
00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:54,040
Speaker 3: hundred five eight five one oh five one. Let's listen

19
00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:55,000
Speaker 3: to Easter Ray first.

20
00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:58,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's always been a been a thing for me, Like,

21
00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:00,960
Speaker 4: I just have a fear. Maybe this will changed my

22
00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:04,720
Speaker 4: mind playing this role, but I'm just like I don't

23
00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:06,640
Speaker 4: want to I don't want to be slowed down.

24
00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:07,560
Speaker 1: For any reason.

25
00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:11,080
Speaker 4: And my friends are like, girl, it's not gonna slow

26
00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:12,760
Speaker 4: you down, It's fine, But I don't believe them.

27
00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,680
Speaker 1: Now let's start with you. Just yes, what are your thoughts.

28
00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,840
Speaker 5: I don't think that it slows you. I don't think

29
00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,360
Speaker 5: it has to slow you down. I think like times

30
00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,760
Speaker 5: are different now I don't And I can't even speak

31
00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:27,120
Speaker 5: for everybody because I know when I was pregnant, I

32
00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,160
Speaker 5: got pregnant at a young age, and I got pregnant

33
00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:29,680
Speaker 5: when I was nineteen.

34
00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:30,600
Speaker 6: I had my son when I was twenty.

35
00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:32,480
Speaker 5: It didn't slow me now, but I also didn't know

36
00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:34,120
Speaker 5: what I what I wanted to do yet, you know,

37
00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:36,880
Speaker 5: I was still like working like dead end jobs, you

38
00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:40,240
Speaker 5: know what I mean, McDonald's overnight and I couldn't even

39
00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,000
Speaker 5: keep a job at nineteen, you know what I mean.

40
00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:44,520
Speaker 5: So when I but when I realized I wanted to

41
00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:46,440
Speaker 5: step into a career, and that was this you know,

42
00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:51,720
Speaker 5: he was like two, and it just still didn't slow

43
00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:53,880
Speaker 5: me down. I want to have actually more children now,

44
00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:56,680
Speaker 5: I would if I was already you know, married and everything.

45
00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:58,480
Speaker 6: But I don't think it has to slow you down.

46
00:01:58,600 --> 00:01:59,240
Speaker 1: Let me ask your question.

47
00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,400
Speaker 3: If you were pregnant now, do you feel like it

48
00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:03,960
Speaker 3: would slow you down? Because you know, right now, Jess

49
00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:06,960
Speaker 3: is doing everything right. You're doing concerts, you're doing you know,

50
00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,959
Speaker 3: you're on the road, you have TV, you're doing the

51
00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,200
Speaker 3: breakfast club, You're doing so much. Do you feel like

52
00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:14,320
Speaker 3: if you're pregnant now that that would slow you down?

53
00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,080
Speaker 5: I often think about that and I really do not

54
00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,880
Speaker 5: think so. I have a big, huge support system, both

55
00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:23,640
Speaker 5: of my parents. Even with my son now his dad

56
00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,360
Speaker 5: is in his life, and then I have a huge family.

57
00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:30,880
Speaker 5: My little sister she acts as a nanny for me sometimes. No,

58
00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,960
Speaker 5: I just it depends on like the support and I

59
00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,320
Speaker 5: have a huge support system and a great foundation.

60
00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:38,200
Speaker 6: So I don't think it'll slow me down now.

61
00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:42,120
Speaker 3: Tesla Figurero, she's still with us now you have a

62
00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:43,919
Speaker 3: young daughter as well. So do you feel like being

63
00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,760
Speaker 3: or being pregnant? Do you feel like it slows you down?

64
00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:48,200
Speaker 3: And if you're pregnant now, do you feel like it

65
00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:49,720
Speaker 3: would slow down what you're doing now?

66
00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:50,640
Speaker 7: Yeah?

67
00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:52,480
Speaker 8: Absolutely, And thank you for let me sit in on

68
00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:54,800
Speaker 8: this because I think it's important people here too different

69
00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,799
Speaker 8: perspectives from women and just hit it right on the nail.

70
00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:00,359
Speaker 8: It really does come down to your support system. Now,

71
00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:02,840
Speaker 8: for me, I got married and we didn't have our

72
00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:05,960
Speaker 8: first child. I have won until we were married for

73
00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:07,840
Speaker 8: seven years, so I didn't have a.

74
00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,040
Speaker 6: Child young and even still being married.

75
00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,320
Speaker 8: When you are married, your husband and your children really

76
00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,639
Speaker 8: do come before you. So that means that you're making

77
00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:18,440
Speaker 8: an adjustment. His career move, so I had to move,

78
00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:20,280
Speaker 8: which means I had to stop school. I had to

79
00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,919
Speaker 8: pick it back up online. I mean, it is an adjustment,

80
00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,160
Speaker 8: and I want you know, to be very clear with

81
00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,959
Speaker 8: women that although you know, you may think your family

82
00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:29,959
Speaker 8: may be supportive, or you may think you have the support,

83
00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:31,680
Speaker 8: you don't know if you'll have to move. I've had

84
00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:34,520
Speaker 8: to move in five different cities. I've moved over ten times.

85
00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:36,480
Speaker 8: Both my parents are in the ground, you know, so

86
00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,280
Speaker 8: I've lost both my parents and even then they wouldn't

87
00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:40,840
Speaker 8: have been in the city to help me anyway.

88
00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,560
Speaker 6: So I'm an only child. I don't have brothers and sisters.

89
00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,720
Speaker 8: There was not you know, this large family that's just

90
00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,440
Speaker 8: gonna come by and you know, and help.

91
00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:50,480
Speaker 6: But I was still highly successful.

92
00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,320
Speaker 8: I ran my own business in Orlando called the Ally Group.

93
00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:55,720
Speaker 8: I had three hundred employees, you know, I won Orlando

94
00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:59,480
Speaker 8: Business Journal twice, so you can still be successful, but

95
00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,080
Speaker 8: it is an adjustment. It took me longer to finish

96
00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,240
Speaker 8: my degree. I got two degrees, but it still took

97
00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,640
Speaker 8: me longer. There was an adjustment. I had to slow down.

98
00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,360
Speaker 8: And to be clear, my ex husband's my ex husband

99
00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,360
Speaker 8: now he is very much involved, you know, in my

100
00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:16,279
Speaker 8: child's life from an emotional, physically financial, So there's no

101
00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:19,000
Speaker 8: dad beat dad. You know, this is a co parent situation,

102
00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:22,680
Speaker 8: similar to Jess. But even still it slowed down. Some

103
00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:24,520
Speaker 8: of the things I wanted to do still got it done,

104
00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:25,720
Speaker 8: but it did take a little bit longer.

105
00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:29,080
Speaker 3: I would say that, you know, part of me is

106
00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:33,560
Speaker 3: being a little guilty to feeling like my career took

107
00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:34,680
Speaker 3: off and I didn't allow my.

108
00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:35,760
Speaker 1: Wife's career to take off.

109
00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:35,919
Speaker 8: Right.

110
00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,159
Speaker 3: So my wife is, you know, a major in communications,

111
00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:41,640
Speaker 3: and she had aspirations for doing so many different things.

112
00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:44,320
Speaker 3: But you know, we had our We had Madison early,

113
00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:46,640
Speaker 3: and being from New York, I couldn't afford to living

114
00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:48,640
Speaker 3: in New York because it was too expensive, so I

115
00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,039
Speaker 3: had to drive an hour out the way in Jersey,

116
00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:53,159
Speaker 3: which put us in a place in the suburbs where

117
00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:54,960
Speaker 3: she knew nobody. There was no way for her to

118
00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:56,640
Speaker 3: get to work, and there was no way for her

119
00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:58,000
Speaker 3: to get to the city and then get back to

120
00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:00,160
Speaker 3: pick up our child. And she wanted to raise as

121
00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,280
Speaker 3: a child. So it wasn't no nanny, so it wasn't

122
00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:04,800
Speaker 3: a babysitter because we didn't have any family out there.

123
00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,039
Speaker 3: So because you know, we did that, she had to

124
00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:11,800
Speaker 3: sacrifice her career to raise our family, which has always

125
00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,080
Speaker 3: been something that I always you know, felt funny from

126
00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,320
Speaker 3: because it's like, you know, she allowed me to help

127
00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:18,480
Speaker 3: me get my career and I never did the same

128
00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:20,000
Speaker 3: for her because she had the family.

129
00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,640
Speaker 1: So I think it did. I think it did slow

130
00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:23,960
Speaker 1: her her career down.

131
00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:28,559
Speaker 5: Does damn you envy what you just just let loose

132
00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,320
Speaker 5: all with dingling all early and you just pursuing your

133
00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,240
Speaker 5: life and you didn't even say, hey, baby, you want to.

134
00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:33,960
Speaker 1: Go back to school.

135
00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:36,640
Speaker 6: You just say no, baby, want to keep having these kids.

136
00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,560
Speaker 3: But let's open up the phone lines eight hundred five

137
00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:41,760
Speaker 3: eight five one oh five one. The question is, ladies,

138
00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:45,120
Speaker 3: do you feel like being pregnant slows your career down?

139
00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:47,240
Speaker 3: Or did it slow your career down? Or maybe it didn't.

140
00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:48,640
Speaker 3: Let's talk about it when we come back. It's the

141
00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:49,200
Speaker 3: Breakfast Club.

142
00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,400
Speaker 1: Good morning, it's topic time.

143
00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,520
Speaker 2: Called eight hundred and five eight five five one to

144
00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:00,440
Speaker 2: join it to the discussion with the break was Glow

145
00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:02,719
Speaker 2: talk about it morning.

146
00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:07,000
Speaker 3: Everybody's dj NV Charlomagne the god we are the Breakfast Club.

147
00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,440
Speaker 1: Charlomagne is out. Just hilarious is he?

148
00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,240
Speaker 3: And if you just join us. We've been talking about

149
00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,000
Speaker 3: women being pregnant? Does that slow your career down?

150
00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:15,160
Speaker 9: Now?

151
00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,559
Speaker 3: This came from Eastern Ray. She was interviewing with Tiger

152
00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:18,920
Speaker 3: and this is what she said.

153
00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:22,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's always been a been a thing for me, Like,

154
00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:25,279
Speaker 4: I just have a fear. Maybe this will changed my

155
00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:29,039
Speaker 4: mind playing this role, but I'm just like I don't

156
00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,160
Speaker 4: want to. I don't want to be slowed down for

157
00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:34,880
Speaker 4: any reason. And my friends are like, girl, it's not

158
00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:36,960
Speaker 4: gonna slow you down, it's fine, but I don't believe them.

159
00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:39,760
Speaker 3: All Right, So we're asking eight hundred and five eight

160
00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,280
Speaker 3: five one oh five one does pregnancy slow you down?

161
00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:45,159
Speaker 3: Has it slowed you down? Let's go to the phone lines. Daisy,

162
00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:46,000
Speaker 3: good morning.

163
00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:47,520
Speaker 10: Morning, How are you dying?

164
00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:48,040
Speaker 3: Are you?

165
00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:48,920
Speaker 9: So?

166
00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,280
Speaker 10: I just wanted to tell you guys that I just

167
00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:52,240
Speaker 10: had a baby a year ago.

168
00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,479
Speaker 7: He fout from one July every first.

169
00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:58,880
Speaker 10: And I just graduated with my AA and Business administration,

170
00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,080
Speaker 10: and I'm going back for my bachelor's degree in business

171
00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:05,120
Speaker 10: as well. And I'm a full time social media influencer.

172
00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:06,880
Speaker 7: And I just want to say, like.

173
00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,159
Speaker 10: How about baby does not show you down whatsoever. It's

174
00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,680
Speaker 10: just how motivated you are and how determined you are.

175
00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:15,440
Speaker 10: That's what's gonna push you. A baby does not stop nothing.

176
00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:18,720
Speaker 1: Agree with you? Hello? Who's this?

177
00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,160
Speaker 9: This is Dre. How you doing, Hey, Dre? Good morning,

178
00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:22,200
Speaker 9: good morning, good morning.

179
00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:23,760
Speaker 1: Has the pregnancy slowed you down?

180
00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:30,120
Speaker 9: Dre? No, it has h you know, I feel like

181
00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,360
Speaker 9: it would slow my girlfriend thought, but not too much.

182
00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:37,000
Speaker 9: She's actually a model in the fashion designer, so she

183
00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,800
Speaker 9: would just get pregnant then, you know, she wouldn't be

184
00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,480
Speaker 9: able to do as much as those things. No disrespect.

185
00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,360
Speaker 3: I don't want to it from you. Uh you know,

186
00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:45,840
Speaker 3: I don't want it from the women.

187
00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:50,239
Speaker 9: Oh I feel really, I ain't.

188
00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:52,640
Speaker 6: Gonna answer the question like, yeah, I mean I feel

189
00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:53,680
Speaker 6: like it has slow my girlfriend.

190
00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,280
Speaker 1: Hello. Hello, Hey, what's your name?

191
00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,600
Speaker 7: Her name is Angie? Good morning, morning Angie.

192
00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:02,840
Speaker 1: We're talking about pregnancy.

193
00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:05,240
Speaker 3: Do you feel like it would slow you down or

194
00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:06,240
Speaker 3: are you nervous about it?

195
00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:06,720
Speaker 9: No?

196
00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,920
Speaker 10: Okay, So this is a funny topic because I just came.

197
00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:13,920
Speaker 7: Home from floridam originally from Miami. Day returned five and

198
00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,440
Speaker 7: we went to Orlando though with my family, okay, and

199
00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:19,080
Speaker 7: they were just pressuring me to have a kid. They

200
00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:22,360
Speaker 7: weren't my son to have a sibling. I'm the oldest

201
00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,840
Speaker 7: of four I'm the oldest of fourteen grandchildren. I don't

202
00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:27,040
Speaker 7: want the more damn kids.

203
00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:27,560
Speaker 6: Okay.

204
00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,720
Speaker 5: Why why are you scared of to slow you down more?

205
00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:31,200
Speaker 5: Or did your first one slow you down?

206
00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:32,800
Speaker 8: Yeah?

207
00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:33,079
Speaker 9: Do that.

208
00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:36,200
Speaker 7: I just don't have patience. But I feel like I

209
00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:38,120
Speaker 7: feel like I will get slowed down because I'm kind

210
00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:39,400
Speaker 7: of driven and I wanted to.

211
00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,240
Speaker 9: Get to where I want to get.

212
00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:44,920
Speaker 7: So multiple kids, I don't know how even Enz has

213
00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:46,600
Speaker 7: so many children. That's a lot.

214
00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:48,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I have six.

215
00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:50,640
Speaker 3: But you know the thing about my six is they're

216
00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:52,280
Speaker 3: all over the gain and like I got a twenty

217
00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,880
Speaker 3: one year old in nineteen or pretty much self sufficient.

218
00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,000
Speaker 3: They don't need me, you know. Every once in a while, Dad,

219
00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:59,040
Speaker 3: can you throw some money in my account? Or Dad,

220
00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,920
Speaker 3: I need this, and I do have a ten, a

221
00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,840
Speaker 3: nine or six, and an eighteen month old, which requires

222
00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:07,640
Speaker 3: a lot. And I will say it did slow my

223
00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:09,720
Speaker 3: wife down. It did slow her career down because there's

224
00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,160
Speaker 3: certain things that she cannot do.

225
00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:12,800
Speaker 1: You know, she has to get up in the morning,

226
00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:14,480
Speaker 1: take those kids. She has to pick them up.

227
00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:17,160
Speaker 3: And my kids were in all types of activities and

228
00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,080
Speaker 3: she has to get around and get them and you know,

229
00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,120
Speaker 3: I help as much as possible, and we do have

230
00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:21,600
Speaker 3: some help.

231
00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:24,720
Speaker 1: But yeah, it definitely slowed her career down of what

232
00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:26,160
Speaker 1: she wanted to do. I'm not you know, I can't

233
00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:27,079
Speaker 1: even sit in life.

234
00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:29,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, I lived with mans. I take a little distance,

235
00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,200
Speaker 7: you know, it's just my mom mom all the time.

236
00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,160
Speaker 7: And I don't know. Even with my mom, I gotta

237
00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,800
Speaker 7: stay from you take come back. I can't do another one.

238
00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:38,840
Speaker 7: Didn't they want me to have a girl. It's just

239
00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:39,520
Speaker 7: not happening.

240
00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:40,559
Speaker 6: I feel you.

241
00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:43,880
Speaker 1: Hello. Who's this Hi?

242
00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:44,920
Speaker 7: I mean it's Katy.

243
00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,640
Speaker 10: I'm from Orlando, born in rains Hey.

244
00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:51,240
Speaker 3: Okay, now you talking about being pregnant and slowing you down.

245
00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:52,079
Speaker 1: Let's talk about it.

246
00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:55,800
Speaker 10: Well, my sister, she's three years old. She lives alone,

247
00:09:55,960 --> 00:10:01,160
Speaker 10: you know, to dogs, cat, tarantulas, and she actually says

248
00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:04,200
Speaker 10: to Florida there and she got the two oligation you know,

249
00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:08,520
Speaker 10: Bernie and two just to prevent herself from getting pregnant

250
00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:11,559
Speaker 10: or Bue forced to carry her pregnancy in Florida.

251
00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,080
Speaker 3: So she was so scared to get pregnant, and with

252
00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,920
Speaker 3: the pregnancy with the abortion bands, she got a two bligation.

253
00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:20,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I see, Jesus Christ.

254
00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:22,960
Speaker 3: She definitely don't want to get pregnant, and she nervous

255
00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:24,400
Speaker 3: and being pregnant because she feels like it's a slow

256
00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:25,720
Speaker 3: her career down or something like that.

257
00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:28,840
Speaker 10: Yeah, she's twenty three. She lives alone, she has her

258
00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,600
Speaker 10: own apartment, home places, don't depend on nobody but herself.

259
00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:35,920
Speaker 7: She's twenty three, started going on, if she worked.

260
00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,280
Speaker 10: To get pregnant, she wouldn't be able to keep her animals.

261
00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:42,480
Speaker 10: But as it is, but it would told me up

262
00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:43,800
Speaker 10: front and change her life.

263
00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:46,880
Speaker 6: Twenty three A two obligation.

264
00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:48,440
Speaker 1: Yes, it's twenty three or two bligation.

265
00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:49,599
Speaker 5: I thought you had to be able to have a

266
00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:51,440
Speaker 5: certain amount of kids to even do that. I don't

267
00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:53,000
Speaker 5: think that you have you can, And then went three,

268
00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:54,679
Speaker 5: you got to be a certain age to do that too.

269
00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:55,880
Speaker 6: And now how does she know she gonna fall her

270
00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:56,640
Speaker 6: way at thirty three.

271
00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:00,000
Speaker 3: Well, she got two dogs, two cats, a tarantula, a spider,

272
00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:01,280
Speaker 3: and I.

273
00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:03,079
Speaker 6: Not to do it. So she's straight.

274
00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:06,000
Speaker 1: She's straight. Now, let me ask you a question, Jess,

275
00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:07,000
Speaker 1: when it comes to being pregnant.

276
00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:09,439
Speaker 3: Let's say, you know, I guess you would have to

277
00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:11,480
Speaker 3: feel a way too, because let's say you're shooting a movie,

278
00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:13,920
Speaker 3: right and you become pregnant during the movie, and the

279
00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,800
Speaker 3: character is not pregnant, so I guess you have to

280
00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:17,160
Speaker 3: hide that.

281
00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:18,680
Speaker 1: I'm guess you would kind of be nervous.

282
00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,440
Speaker 3: You know, if you are a woman and those situations happen,

283
00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:22,920
Speaker 3: or if you're on a sitcom, or if you're on

284
00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,600
Speaker 3: a series, or if you're doing something where you know

285
00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:28,160
Speaker 3: you have to play a character right and then you

286
00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:29,280
Speaker 3: become pregnant, you know.

287
00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:30,880
Speaker 1: How does that work? Because you know, what do you

288
00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:31,719
Speaker 1: do for shooting now?

289
00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:35,600
Speaker 5: And nowadays it's different. Nowadays, it's like it would be considered.

290
00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:39,000
Speaker 5: They're so scared of like discrimination, Like, oh, they put

291
00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:40,520
Speaker 5: me on because I was pregnant. So what they would

292
00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:42,360
Speaker 5: do is, if it's an ongoing show, they will write

293
00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,520
Speaker 5: it in they will write it in some type of

294
00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:46,040
Speaker 5: way and then It depends on the type of show

295
00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:48,520
Speaker 5: it is. They would either have to put put it

296
00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:51,520
Speaker 5: on hold until after you had a baby, or rush

297
00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:54,439
Speaker 5: and shoot it before you start showing. It just depends.

298
00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:57,400
Speaker 5: It depends on a bunch of different variables nowadays. Back

299
00:11:57,400 --> 00:12:00,640
Speaker 5: then it was like uh uh, But now people embrace

300
00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:03,440
Speaker 5: all types of like you know, maternity shoots and I mean,

301
00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:07,679
Speaker 5: you know, but that, Yeah, paternity is different maternity like

302
00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:10,640
Speaker 5: roles and stuff like that. And I can still do

303
00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:12,600
Speaker 5: stand up, I can still come in, Yeah, I can

304
00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,480
Speaker 5: still you know, it is not as limited as it.

305
00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:15,840
Speaker 6: Used to be.

306
00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:18,839
Speaker 3: Right, So all right, well, all right, you got a

307
00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:20,400
Speaker 3: final thought, a.

308
00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:23,600
Speaker 5: Final thought, just don't get pregnant if you don't have

309
00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,280
Speaker 5: no support, but get pregnant if you have support.

310
00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:28,360
Speaker 1: I mean, I think the whole thing is a support system.

311
00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:32,320
Speaker 3: I mean, and having family around it definitely helps women

312
00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,959
Speaker 3: who have to take on being pregnant by their self.

313
00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:36,760
Speaker 3: I know, it's a lot on them because there is

314
00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:38,320
Speaker 3: nobody to help. There is nobody to give.

315
00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:39,680
Speaker 1: Them the break. Because sometimes as a parent, you just

316
00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:40,160
Speaker 1: need a break.

317
00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, you get your kids bothering shot of you or

318
00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,000
Speaker 3: babies crying, and you just need that little give me,

319
00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:47,440
Speaker 3: my little ten fifteen minutes or my hour or my day,

320
00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,600
Speaker 3: just to breathe a little.

321
00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,640
Speaker 6: Bit, because it could send you mentally insane. Just as

322
00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:53,560
Speaker 6: a parent like you use it said.

323
00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:55,760
Speaker 5: For a first time parent who has to do it

324
00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:59,760
Speaker 5: by themselves, it is definitely hard. So I just do

325
00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:01,520
Speaker 5: as best for you, and you know, if you have

326
00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:03,719
Speaker 5: support and you're not scared, jump out there, but.

327
00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:04,920
Speaker 6: Do what's best for you.

328
00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:06,680
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we got roomors coming up. What were

329
00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:07,240
Speaker 1: we talking about?

330
00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:07,640
Speaker 7: Uh?

331
00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:09,559
Speaker 5: Ray J took his kids to school for the first

332
00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:12,559
Speaker 5: time in June. Yeah, I said, well, damn school, they

333
00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:13,439
Speaker 5: go to Jesus.

334
00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,120
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, we'll get to it next. It's the

335
00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:16,600
Speaker 3: Breakfast Club. Good boarding, Good morning,