Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: and The Black Effect. And just like that, we're back
Speaker 1: with yet another carefully reckless episode. It's your girl, justesseilarious
Speaker 1: and I got my best friend in the studio with
Speaker 1: me today.
Speaker 2: Y'all know how shene o waena that mic is not on?
Speaker 2: All right, we'll come on one day I can talk into.
Speaker 1: Okay, So she's here being a hoe as y'all can hear.
Speaker 1: She always got a problem with me. So we're going
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask how to weigh in on some of
Speaker 1: these people mess as well, because I don't.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say sometimes I be needing help, but
Speaker 2: I am. You definitely need help, first of all.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, some I can always use a second perspective.
Speaker 1: How about that I don't need help, but I can
Speaker 1: use a second perspective.
Speaker 2: So yeah, here we go. Now, this is a story
Speaker 2: that came from somebody who wrote it. We were not
Speaker 2: sent in a voice memo.
Speaker 1: And like I said, y'all, that is the easiest way
Speaker 1: to get your story played. Okay, if they get your
Speaker 1: story out there, you can send me a voice memo.
Speaker 1: And I know that voice memos only record up to
Speaker 1: a minute on social media.
Speaker 2: But please, I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1: Send it please, because a lot of y'all be typing
Speaker 1: these long ass run on sentences and I cannot differentiate punctuations.
Speaker 1: I can't do it, all right, so please send your
Speaker 1: voice note. All right, I'm about to read, Hey, so
Speaker 1: I could fuck this man life up. Damn hold up
Speaker 1: this okay, shit, Hey so I could fuck this man's
Speaker 1: life up. But I know outing someone is wrong. But
Speaker 1: let me tell you what is going on. Anyway, last
Speaker 1: year I started working at my high school, right, and
Speaker 1: there was this guy that I worked with. We were
Speaker 1: all in the same group, but we didn't interact outside
Speaker 1: of that at first. After a while we started flirting
Speaker 1: and he would get handsy, touch he faelly sometimes, okay,
Speaker 1: and so prom comes around. In that prom, he asked
Speaker 1: me to dance, So we did. A week passed and
Speaker 1: I was invited to a birthday party and he was
Speaker 1: there with his girlfriend and she was pregnant. Okay, So
Speaker 1: that's that's all he said. He never said anything else.
Speaker 1: And the reason why I'm saying he's because he's visually
Speaker 1: a guy. I can see it on his profile, Okay,
Speaker 1: and like you said, outing someone is never okay unless
Speaker 1: it heavily depends on your defense. You know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: and I'm using that in like a way, so like
Speaker 1: like proof, like no, I'm not out. No, it was
Speaker 1: completely consensual. You know that you were interested in guys.
Speaker 1: I don't know if if the women in your life
Speaker 1: knows about this, but yeah, you're interested in guys. And
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be the one to out show ass.
Speaker 1: But yeah, because you're not about to play with me.
Speaker 1: You're not about to act like this is not what
Speaker 1: you love. Just everybody, just live in the fucking truth.
Speaker 2: He said he love it. Huh who said no? I said,
Speaker 2: just live in your fucking truth? Said this is obviously
Speaker 2: what you love. Oh yeah, gotta be what he loved.
Speaker 1: He was touchy, hands all hands on. Yeah, behind the scenes,
Speaker 1: Oh he loves it. I think that he loves it.
Speaker 1: I think there is a deeper love for this. Okay,
Speaker 1: So he didn't really leave a lot of meat on
Speaker 1: the bone.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 1: So you said you work at your high school, so
Speaker 1: you so are you still in high school? Because listen,
Speaker 1: I when I was in high school, I ended up
Speaker 1: working at my high school. Just as an intern. So
Speaker 1: I don't know if you if you're attending the school.
Speaker 2: Now, you you look young.
Speaker 1: But that that's not to say that you're not an adult.
Speaker 1: You just you know, you black, and you know most
Speaker 1: of the time that don't be cracking. So you just
Speaker 1: could probably look like you've been sipping from a pool
Speaker 1: of youth for a long time. But and then give
Speaker 1: me more context on the guy, like was he a teacher,
Speaker 1: Like is he a lot older than you?
Speaker 2: I mean, because there it could be several other reasons.
Speaker 1: Why he's hiding I guess having any type of affair
Speaker 1: with you or whatever.
Speaker 2: It could because you are a younger.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say under a age, but underaged, I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't want to say underage. It could be that
Speaker 1: that could be a reason as well.
Speaker 2: It could be.
Speaker 1: Also because yeah, you are a guy and he doesn't
Speaker 1: want to be out it just yet, or I don't
Speaker 1: know if he plans plans on coming out as bisexual, whatever,
Speaker 1: because obviously he likes women too. We're not just gonna
Speaker 1: just say, oh, he's gay. He's obviously bisexual. And then
Speaker 1: obviously y'all run in some of the same circles because
Speaker 1: how you get invited to a birthday party that you
Speaker 1: see him and his girlfriend at him and his pregnant
Speaker 1: girlfriend at Honestly, I don't think you should go to
Speaker 1: his girlfriend or any of that. I think you should
Speaker 1: set and have a conversation with him and then tell
Speaker 1: me what triggered you to be upset. What triggered you
Speaker 1: to be upset? Is it the fact that you.
Speaker 2: Thought he was gay and he's not, he's bisexual.
Speaker 1: Is it the fact that you started liking him a
Speaker 1: lot and you want you want the feelings to be reciprocated,
Speaker 1: but he's in a relationship and you later found out, Like.
Speaker 2: What is really the relationship? What is the relationship? Like?
Speaker 2: Because you said you guys were just flirty? Yeah, we
Speaker 2: need more information? Yeah? Yeah, Like how long y'all know
Speaker 2: each other? Are just friends? Are your friend's of a friend? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Do you know the girlfriend and you just happened to
Speaker 1: yeah me the girlfriend?
Speaker 2: Does the pregnant girlfriend go to the school too? Did
Speaker 2: she work at the school like we do? Still? Like?
Speaker 2: Was it years ago? Was it yesterday? Yes? I need
Speaker 2: to know.
Speaker 1: Sorry, so you need to come back, I mean, because
Speaker 1: I and I really want to know what the relationship
Speaker 1: is between you two.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's just a little fling, it seems like.
Speaker 1: And it just seems like if if you're telling me
Speaker 1: to advise you off of the little bit that you
Speaker 1: gave me, it just seems like you were upset that
Speaker 1: he's in a relationship at all. It could have been
Speaker 1: he could have been in a relationship with another guyship. Right,
Speaker 1: did you find out that he was in a relationship
Speaker 1: at this party? Right?
Speaker 2: Right? And that's what happened. That's that we need more, Yeah,
Speaker 2: we need more. Boy.
Speaker 1: I can't give you any any advice, and I don't
Speaker 1: want to try to keep giving you advice, and then
Speaker 1: I get further and further away from what the story
Speaker 1: actually is, like the backstory and all and all the
Speaker 1: details that's supposed to go along with it. You even
Speaker 1: started another sentence and never finished it. You said, right
Speaker 1: after you said, a week passed and I was invited
Speaker 1: to a birthday party and he was there with his
Speaker 1: girlfriend and she was pregnant. Then the lasts and say
Speaker 1: I know the and then it stopped, like the nigga
Speaker 1: walked in and court you typing, and he was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I need to hurry up, and send, So I need
Speaker 1: to know.
Speaker 2: I have to ask you what made you go with
Speaker 2: this story if it was incomplete? Well, that's what happens.
Speaker 2: That's what I don't read the stories until i'm reading them.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't shire off. Damn you know what.
Speaker 1: I will never ever have you back on this show again,
Speaker 1: trying to help me assist people because if you don't
Speaker 1: know what.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to help too. But I need some information.
Speaker 2: I know, we need some information. Stopped that. Thuh that's it?
Speaker 2: We yeah, he said, I know the that was it job.
Speaker 2: Come on, get back with us, Get back with us.
Speaker 1: Now we got to commercial, and if you click off
Speaker 1: this podcast, I swear I'm ana beat your ass.
Speaker 2: Listen. All right, here we go, moving on. Can we
Speaker 2: doing voice? Yeah? We ain't got none of those?
Speaker 1: Everybody listen most of the time, y'all need to tell
Speaker 1: my best friend she, how are most of the time
Speaker 1: people don't like sending voice memos because they be talking
Speaker 1: about No people that they be talking about be knowing
Speaker 1: their voice, and they'd be like, hold on, change your voice.
Speaker 2: Ain't from she would have said, how about you change
Speaker 2: your motherfucking voice? Hello, this is from down the block.
Speaker 2: Coming to you with another story? Yet, can help me
Speaker 2: baby exactly?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Yeah, y'all gotta disguise y'all voices because
Speaker 1: get creatives.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because y'all leaving too much meat off these bones
Speaker 2: writing these stories.
Speaker 1: Man, Like, look this from right here, let's do.
Speaker 2: It's a.
Speaker 1: It's a how do I stand up for myself and
Speaker 1: not do as I'm told? So it said I moved
Speaker 1: back from my parents, Now I.
Speaker 2: Regret Oh shit, he sent that June ninth.
Speaker 1: Okay, so at June ninth this person said how do
Speaker 1: I stand up for myself and I do as I'm told?
Speaker 1: And then came back September twenty fifth and said, I
Speaker 1: moved back to my parents. Now I regret that choice,
Speaker 1: and I now feel like their happiness is my responsibility.
Speaker 1: If I were to tell them that I want to leave,
Speaker 1: Dad would freak out and treat me like a kid,
Speaker 1: and Mom would be mad too. I used to be
Speaker 1: a positive person, with a smile always on my face.
Speaker 1: Now it's too much effort to smile.
Speaker 2: That's it. So go ahead, help them? Shit, what help?
Speaker 2: They moved back and they regret it?
Speaker 1: How How do they stand up for theirself and not
Speaker 1: do as they told by their parents.
Speaker 2: Did that nothing to do with June? I believe it did.
Speaker 1: Yes, and it had something to do with it, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it did the first Yeah.
Speaker 2: Maybe this is more clarity. Maybe listen.
Speaker 1: Okay, So when he said in June, I felt like
Speaker 1: he was saying like he was outside of his parents'
Speaker 1: house because maybe they was trying to make him come back,
Speaker 1: all right, because he said, how do I stand up
Speaker 1: for myself?
Speaker 2: And I do as I'm told?
Speaker 1: He probably jumped out there, jumped off the porch, and
Speaker 1: he's not telling us how old he is too, and
Speaker 1: he talking like he just jumped off the porch, like
Speaker 1: he's just a fresh adult, like twenty one maybe, or
Speaker 1: maybe not even twenty one.
Speaker 2: And three months later.
Speaker 1: He probably is back now at his parents' house because,
Speaker 1: like he said, I moved back with my parents. Now
Speaker 1: I regret that choice, and I feel like their happiness
Speaker 1: is my responsibility. I feel like you may just be
Speaker 1: a little brat if I'm saying it right. If not,
Speaker 1: you gotta update me and leave more meat on the bone.
Speaker 1: How do you feel responsible for your parents' happiness?
Speaker 2: Why?
Speaker 1: Because they wanted you back home? Are they happier now
Speaker 1: that you're home. Were you getting into some trouble? How
Speaker 1: old are you? Did you move around some other fuckers?
Speaker 1: Did you move out with some motherfuckers? That's not good
Speaker 1: for your influence and.
Speaker 2: You know happy?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you even said that she used to be
Speaker 1: a positive the person who kept a smile on their face.
Speaker 1: Now it was too much effort to smile because you
Speaker 1: had to move back in with your parents. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you something, baby, I wish I could move back
Speaker 1: in with my Motherfucking parents in the top had listen
Speaker 1: entertaining the fun out of them. I'm responsible for your happiness, yes,
Speaker 1: you know, like I want y'all, want y'all young people
Speaker 1: to not grow up so fast, iop trying to grow
Speaker 1: up so fast. And I know it's being shoved in
Speaker 1: y'all goddamn face that to grow up fast.
Speaker 2: To do this and do that, And it ain't no joke.
Speaker 1: But it seems like you got too great loving parents
Speaker 1: who are just probably overwhelmingly possessive, you know, and and
Speaker 1: and they're protective, and you just want to be out there,
Speaker 1: you know, you want to do what you want to do.
Speaker 2: And I've been in before, so that's what yep.
Speaker 1: So that's the reason that we can actually speak from experience.
Speaker 2: Okay, but I say slow it down, take your time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if they need your help, help them out.
Speaker 2: We only get one set and he got both. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Dad would freak out.
Speaker 1: And I love this, Like if I would have told
Speaker 1: them that I want to leave, my dad would freak
Speaker 1: out and my mom would be mad too.
Speaker 2: Man, damn, they love you, baby.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're not locking you up in the basement, fucking
Speaker 1: making you make abracmbie and Fitch hoodies for three cents. Hello,
Speaker 1: they don't have you, okay much for three cents and
Speaker 1: then putting it in the stores and charging thirty eight
Speaker 1: dollars and you're not making no money. And now you're
Speaker 1: eating balloone these sandwiches with no ballogna and no bread.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you want you want those parents? All right?
Speaker 2: You ever seen the movie ma? Yes? Remember? Okay? All right? Well, well,
Speaker 2: oh no, that's too much to read right there? Now, No,
Speaker 2: we can't. That was my job. How are you going
Speaker 2: to tell me that you ain't even reading any fucking way?
Speaker 2: All right? Come on, all right, here we go next
Speaker 2: door'll hold up.
Speaker 1: Hold up, I noticed shit getting good, But listen to
Speaker 1: just a couple seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen. Hey, jos, I definitely
Speaker 2: need some help. We'll fix in my mess.
Speaker 1: So in the beginning of the year, I had a
Speaker 1: fallen out with one of my best friends. I feel
Speaker 1: like the period year and don't have a play with me.
Speaker 1: I feel like on my end, it was a lot
Speaker 1: of moments that led up to it, though we know
Speaker 1: how life works. Long story short, I was going through
Speaker 1: a really depressing time in my life and I was
Speaker 1: genuinely up against the wall. However, my best friend was
Speaker 1: in high spirits with what was going on in her life.
Speaker 1: I was never bitter or a hater about anything happening
Speaker 1: with her because I only ever wanted to see her
Speaker 1: win now prior to us falling out. Anytime we would
Speaker 1: get into disagreements, she would always bring up how she
Speaker 1: didn't know if she wanted to continue to be my friend,
Speaker 1: simply off me not agreeing with her view. So I
Speaker 1: would end up just saying okay to whatever point she
Speaker 1: had just to end the debate. Then it will go
Speaker 1: to a point where me saying okay wasn't good enough
Speaker 1: and that I needed to speak my piece or I
Speaker 1: will resent her in our friendship. So then I would
Speaker 1: say how I felt, and that's it.
Speaker 2: Girl. These people don't believing me nothing else.
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, all right, all right, Well sometimes that's
Speaker 1: how I just fix my mess code. Sometimes people give
Speaker 1: me the beginning in the middle and don't even They
Speaker 1: be like fuck then child, you make up the rest.
Speaker 1: But you know, some type of way they'd be one advice.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we know how best friends are. Actually,
Speaker 1: I have my best friend here with me. Now we
Speaker 1: have fallen out and we have fought.
Speaker 2: I've beat her ass. Hell, you know, hello, how you doing?
Speaker 2: All right? Start over from the top.
Speaker 1: Okay, we all know we had videos out where I
Speaker 1: had physically beat Shanas and we already know what's going on.
Speaker 1: So we're not going to stay like I don't got
Speaker 1: the hands. But you know, sometimes it's gonna be warranted.
Speaker 1: You know, best friends will fight, regular friends will fight.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But like you said, we
Speaker 1: know how life works, and sometimes when two friends are
Speaker 1: in different places of their lives, yeah, they do tend
Speaker 1: to either separate or they tend to help each other
Speaker 1: and they still stay the same way. You know, It's
Speaker 1: just that you're living your life and she's living hers.
Speaker 1: I'll let she to speak on it if she feels
Speaker 1: differently how from what I'm about to say.
Speaker 2: But I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm really unclear on what exactly the issue is. Like,
Speaker 1: are you like saying, should y'all go your separate ways
Speaker 1: or what? Although I can agree that, I don't like
Speaker 1: the way, I can't agree with you. I don't like
Speaker 1: the way she handles you with communication, if that is
Speaker 1: to be true what you said about her.
Speaker 2: But it's like, what are are they not friends anymore?
Speaker 1: Is she saying? Is she asking us? So it's not
Speaker 1: like she probably want attention from her friends.
Speaker 2: She probably probably not.
Speaker 1: Getting the same attention that she gives because right, and
Speaker 1: uh depends.
Speaker 2: What is it that the girl does? Yeah, she said,
Speaker 2: and she when she doesn't agree.
Speaker 1: With no, no, no, I'm talking about you said it had
Speaker 1: like two different lifestyles.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what she said, she said.
Speaker 1: Long story short, I was going through a really rough,
Speaker 1: depressing time in my life and I was genuinely up
Speaker 1: against the wall. However, my best friend was high in
Speaker 1: spirits with what was going on in her life, and
Speaker 1: she was never bitter or hater about anything because she
Speaker 1: only ever wanted to see her best friend win. But
Speaker 1: prior to them falling out, any disagreements that they started having,
Speaker 1: she would always bring up how she didn't know if
Speaker 1: she wanted to continue to be her friends simply off
Speaker 1: of her not agreeing with her views. Yeah, so that's
Speaker 1: like if you don't agree with nothing, and I say,
Speaker 1: I'm like, look, I don't even know if you're really
Speaker 1: my friend or not.
Speaker 2: Like friends will have fun disagreements. Me and she had
Speaker 2: disagree all the time with things, and the disagree with nothing.
Speaker 2: Just come on now, baby, stop sucking line like some
Speaker 2: stuff and not ever wine get.
Speaker 1: To almost sitteen years for no reason. You already know
Speaker 1: I'm right in a lot of things that I say, baby, sweetie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but when you get to talking about people and
Speaker 2: they be about to bang your eyeballs, oh baby, who
Speaker 2: steps off of me? Not you? Because that's right, baby, you,
Speaker 2: cause I'm like, just get up. You can't even fight anyway, exactly,
Speaker 2: get up, Get up right, I'm gonna leave you a
Speaker 2: hand friend.
Speaker 1: No, you're gonna let me hand ad to the person
Speaker 1: who punched me walked away. You're not gonna jump out
Speaker 1: there standing tentintos down like a little bit. Should you're
Speaker 1: gonna if I can't help me out?
Speaker 2: Did you say exactly that said exactly, we gotta help
Speaker 2: this person with this mask? Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: So like I said, all right, so I don't think
Speaker 1: it's grounds for termination.
Speaker 2: No, no, I'm not. Y'all need to talk.
Speaker 1: Though, y'all need to have a heart to heart and
Speaker 1: let each other know how you really feel, like, because
Speaker 1: that was that actually was a problem that, you know,
Speaker 1: Shana had told me that she had with me, like, yo,
Speaker 1: you don't communicate you you don't, you know, you just
Speaker 1: shut down, you zone out. And I had to take
Speaker 1: that and see it for what the fuck it. It
Speaker 1: was like, if I'm this person who always got something
Speaker 1: to say and I always can communicate about anything else,
Speaker 1: why can't I communicate with my best friend about our
Speaker 1: differences and get through it?
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: So she had to teach me that, she had to
Speaker 1: show me that, and then a lot of times she
Speaker 1: would disagree. She don't agree, she ain't a yes man,
Speaker 1: she don't agree with everything I say.
Speaker 2: And okay, she don't agree with everything I say.
Speaker 1: And then sometimes she'll tell me I'll tell her something,
Speaker 1: she won't agree with it, and she'll make me see
Speaker 1: it from a different point of view, and then I'll
Speaker 1: change how I feel about that thing.
Speaker 2: So communication actually really helps within a lot of ways and.
Speaker 1: With understanding of how I'm feeling another perspective exactly. So
Speaker 1: you don't have to necessarily change your way of thinking. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just because somebody else will view something differently.
Speaker 2: But something but sometimes that's how it has been.
Speaker 1: Like you'll be like, we'll just look at it this way,
Speaker 1: or you think you know, and it will you know, like,
Speaker 1: oh shit, maybe I did go off a little bit
Speaker 1: too much, or maybe look at it.
Speaker 2: No, I did not go off. That fucking girl was
Speaker 2: trying to say you did.
Speaker 1: No, I was sitting right there looking at you like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you were sitting there looking at it. No, you was
Speaker 1: not fucking sitting up there looking at me like what
Speaker 1: the fuck? All right, so let me tell you this
Speaker 1: real quick.
Speaker 2: Hopefully we helped you. Oh no, we can't say their name?
Speaker 2: What's that name? Like, That's why I don't nobody want
Speaker 2: typing their boys. I mean, I don't body wants sing
Speaker 2: on boys. They be like, we know, how fucking anyway, Brittany,
Speaker 2: So we just gonna call you Brittany, Brittany, we hope
Speaker 2: we helped you. Oh my god, and.
Speaker 1: She get beat up by the best friend child like
Speaker 1: Britney Simmons over.
Speaker 2: Yo.
Speaker 1: No, basically, So I did breakfast club today and one
Speaker 1: of the topics was, you know, this is Halloween was yesterday.
Speaker 1: The game had posted his daughter and he was saying, like,
Speaker 1: did we pretty much think that.
Speaker 2: Her costume was inappropriate?
Speaker 1: She had on the crop top and she had on
Speaker 1: a tight compression pants at the football players where she
Speaker 1: dressed up as her favorite football team, Cowboys or whatever. Right,
Speaker 1: she that's what it was given cheerleader. But she had
Speaker 1: on the football compression fans. So she looked cute, by
Speaker 1: the way, beautiful little girl. She's thirteen years old. Now,
Speaker 1: she's thirteen. Now, Like I explained, crop tops I don't
Speaker 1: think are appropriate for certain teens pre teens, to be
Speaker 1: honest with you, because somebodies developed quicker than others. And
Speaker 1: you know, she's a fuller figured, younger teen, and I
Speaker 1: feel like, while it's not her faults, she can't control
Speaker 1: how she grows. She can't control you know, curves here,
Speaker 1: curves there, and stuff popping out.
Speaker 2: I do think her parents could censor her.
Speaker 1: Clothing, you know, And that doesn't just go for her,
Speaker 1: that goes for any other teenager who develops quickly or
Speaker 1: just whatever.
Speaker 2: It's totally up to you, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And then Charlemagne was saying, like, I feel like, if
Speaker 1: you don't have daughters, you can't have saying this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you absolutely can. I'm raising my little sister. She's a
Speaker 1: fucking teenager. I was a teenager before. I was a
Speaker 1: young young daughter. Now I'm a older daughter, but I
Speaker 1: was thirteen before as well.
Speaker 2: He was always an older daughter.
Speaker 1: See this is why she always get punched down fucking
Speaker 1: face now because she's trying to really play with me,
Speaker 1: like I look older, and yeah I did, so what
Speaker 1: and always head.
Speaker 2: When you was too remember that picture? Excuse me?
Speaker 1: Yeah, when I was two, I looked like I was six,
Speaker 1: and just thank you, all right, Yeah I've never I've
Speaker 1: never said that I didn't look older, so yeah, thank you.
Speaker 1: But all that matters now is I'm thirty one. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm a hard thirty one, but bit I'm thirty one, nonetheless,
Speaker 1: so it is what it is.
Speaker 2: Now. This lady called up and she was like, Josh,
Speaker 2: what we not gonna do? We not going sit here
Speaker 2: and make crop tops a thing.
Speaker 1: Because when I was younger, I had a small waist,
Speaker 1: a nice stomach, I had a six peck, titties, big hips,
Speaker 1: big everything, and yeah, I wore crop tops to make
Speaker 1: myself feel good, Like, yeah, I felt good about my body.
Speaker 1: So my daughter, now she's young, she's in the same
Speaker 1: boat I'm in. She got the same body that I
Speaker 1: was blessed with at a very young age, and I
Speaker 1: feel like we shouldn't make her conscious about we could
Speaker 1: we should and over sexualize these kids and don't make
Speaker 1: crops hops a thing.
Speaker 2: Lead that girl alone and dah da da da da.
Speaker 1: Well I had a problem with that. And listen, I'm
Speaker 1: okay with her disagreeing with me. I'm okay with that.
Speaker 2: And that's what. That's what. That that's life.
Speaker 1: You know, everybody's not gonna agree with your opinion. And
Speaker 1: I totally respect her as a mother because to reach
Speaker 1: their own you raise your daughter.
Speaker 2: Like that, that's that's that's how you want to raise
Speaker 2: your child.
Speaker 1: But you're not gonna tell me all these sexual things
Speaker 1: about yourself.
Speaker 2: Oh my titty was big, My titties were big. My
Speaker 2: titty was big. It's just one big yeah, she said.
Speaker 1: My titties was big, small waists like you know, ass
Speaker 1: was fat like all that. This is all sexual talk, baby,
Speaker 1: and you're sitting here saying, at.
Speaker 2: Thirteen, we're not.
Speaker 1: Going to make them feel bad about wearing crops hops
Speaker 1: because they're being overly sexual that's overly sexualizing the kid.
Speaker 1: Everything you just uttered out of your motherfucking two lips
Speaker 1: about yourself when you were a fucking teenager with sexual
Speaker 1: over sexualized.
Speaker 2: What the fuck is big cities, big ass and all
Speaker 2: that ship?
Speaker 1: What the fuck you're talking about some of my my
Speaker 1: my daughter wear cropsops a feel good about her body?
Speaker 1: Why the fuck is your daughter wearing crops hops to
Speaker 1: feel good about her fucking body?
Speaker 2: Are you screaming? I'm sorry, that's what happened. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I feel like she was screaming at me.
Speaker 1: But she was from New York, so you know how
Speaker 1: to accent is you know, like mother, I got up
Speaker 1: in here. I know I was screaming like a motherfucker,
Speaker 1: but yeah, like I just I went right back to screaming,
Speaker 1: all right, But no, y'all, Like I I just felt
Speaker 1: like why was she called up and say like, don't
Speaker 1: say that.
Speaker 2: And what I don't get is when they be like
Speaker 2: and everybody else this day, everybody doing that, Yeah, what
Speaker 2: the fuck? Okay, I'm from my mother. I'll tell you
Speaker 2: no kids because my kid. Yeah yeah, but.
Speaker 1: That's not I don't have no motherfucking kids because the
Speaker 1: ain't nobody about to cuss shoot that fucking club.
Speaker 2: But thank you. But let me tell you, yeah, baby.
Speaker 1: It's sick if Sexy rig got pregnant before you, honey.
Speaker 2: World, not at all, baby.
Speaker 1: I I like I said, I feel like two reach
Speaker 1: their own.
Speaker 2: You raise your kid the way you raise your kid.
Speaker 1: But I was never one of those parents that was
Speaker 1: like it, never had a parent that was like what
Speaker 1: the other kids.
Speaker 2: And that's what the kids are wearing. Now, that's the problem.
Speaker 1: That's how your kid falls into these fucking groups and
Speaker 1: falls into being a fucking follower and not a fucking leader,
Speaker 1: and and you know, end up in the back of
Speaker 1: these mother fucking vans and end up in these fucking
Speaker 1: groups of kids that's going to go fuck off because
Speaker 1: oh they can do what their friends did.
Speaker 2: Everybody's doing it.
Speaker 1: It's okay, what the fuck has gotten into everybody.
Speaker 2: These kids accountable like they did.
Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody trying to be their mon Yeah, everybody trying
Speaker 1: to be their daughters and sons, friends and ship. I
Speaker 1: ain't never Robin Moore has never Kevin Moore has never
Speaker 1: ever been those type of parents. I just and I'm
Speaker 1: not saying my parents are better than anybody else, but
Speaker 1: it was I just had structure, you know, and that
Speaker 1: was it. They were serious about everything. And look how
Speaker 1: the funk I turned out and don't play with.
Speaker 2: Me, thank you.
Speaker 1: I knew I already knew something about he was about
Speaker 1: to be like he turn out turn out exactly.
Speaker 2: And know is that.
Speaker 1: No, we're gonna end this episode, jaw. We've come to
Speaker 1: the conclusion. No, not the conclusion.
Speaker 2: See, I'll be throwing the off when you're here.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've come to the end of yet another carefully
Speaker 1: reckless episode with your girl Jess hilarious, who's been fixing
Speaker 1: mess and the best friend. She's gonna be here next week.
Speaker 1: Every day, you gonna be here, every day you're with
Speaker 1: Gaate And in my deepest paying voice, catch us next week.
Speaker 2: Peace.
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