WEBVTT - Best(ie) Behavior

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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<v Speaker 1>and The Black Effect. And just like that, we're back

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<v Speaker 1>with yet another carefully reckless episode. It's your girl, justesseilarious

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<v Speaker 1>and I got my best friend in the studio with

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<v Speaker 1>me today.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all know how shene o waena that mic is not on?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we'll come on one day I can talk into.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So she's here being a hoe as y'all can hear.

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<v Speaker 1>She always got a problem with me. So we're going

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna ask how to weigh in on some of

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<v Speaker 1>these people mess as well, because I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna say sometimes I be needing help, but

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<v Speaker 2>I am. You definitely need help, first of all.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, some I can always use a second perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>How about that I don't need help, but I can

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<v Speaker 1>use a second perspective.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, here we go. Now, this is a story

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<v Speaker 2>that came from somebody who wrote it. We were not

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<v Speaker 2>sent in a voice memo.

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<v Speaker 1>And like I said, y'all, that is the easiest way

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<v Speaker 1>to get your story played. Okay, if they get your

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<v Speaker 1>story out there, you can send me a voice memo.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know that voice memos only record up to

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<v Speaker 1>a minute on social media.

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<v Speaker 2>But please, I don't give a fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>Send it please, because a lot of y'all be typing

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<v Speaker 1>these long ass run on sentences and I cannot differentiate punctuations.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do it, all right, so please send your

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<v Speaker 1>voice note. All right, I'm about to read, Hey, so

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<v Speaker 1>I could fuck this man life up. Damn hold up

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<v Speaker 1>this okay, shit, Hey so I could fuck this man's

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<v Speaker 1>life up. But I know outing someone is wrong. But

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<v Speaker 1>let me tell you what is going on. Anyway, last

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<v Speaker 1>year I started working at my high school, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>there was this guy that I worked with. We were

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<v Speaker 1>all in the same group, but we didn't interact outside

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<v Speaker 1>of that at first. After a while we started flirting

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<v Speaker 1>and he would get handsy, touch he faelly sometimes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and so prom comes around. In that prom, he asked

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<v Speaker 1>me to dance, So we did. A week passed and

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<v Speaker 1>I was invited to a birthday party and he was

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<v Speaker 1>there with his girlfriend and she was pregnant. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's all he said. He never said anything else.

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<v Speaker 1>And the reason why I'm saying he's because he's visually

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<v Speaker 1>a guy. I can see it on his profile, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and like you said, outing someone is never okay unless

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<v Speaker 1>it heavily depends on your defense. You know what I'm saying, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm using that in like a way, so like

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<v Speaker 1>like proof, like no, I'm not out. No, it was

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<v Speaker 1>completely consensual. You know that you were interested in guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if if the women in your life

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<v Speaker 1>knows about this, but yeah, you're interested in guys. And

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to be the one to out show ass.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, because you're not about to play with me.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not about to act like this is not what

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<v Speaker 1>you love. Just everybody, just live in the fucking truth.

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<v Speaker 2>He said he love it. Huh who said no? I said,

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<v Speaker 2>just live in your fucking truth? Said this is obviously

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<v Speaker 2>what you love. Oh yeah, gotta be what he loved.

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<v Speaker 1>He was touchy, hands all hands on. Yeah, behind the scenes,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he loves it. I think that he loves it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there is a deeper love for this. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So he didn't really leave a lot of meat on

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<v Speaker 1>the bone.

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<v Speaker 2>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>So you said you work at your high school, so

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<v Speaker 1>you so are you still in high school? Because listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I when I was in high school, I ended up

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<v Speaker 1>working at my high school. Just as an intern. So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you if you're attending the school.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, you you look young.

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<v Speaker 1>But that that's not to say that you're not an adult.

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<v Speaker 1>You just you know, you black, and you know most

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<v Speaker 1>of the time that don't be cracking. So you just

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<v Speaker 1>could probably look like you've been sipping from a pool

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<v Speaker 1>of youth for a long time. But and then give

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<v Speaker 1>me more context on the guy, like was he a teacher,

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<v Speaker 1>Like is he a lot older than you?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, because there it could be several other reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>Why he's hiding I guess having any type of affair

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<v Speaker 1>with you or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>It could because you are a younger.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna say under a age, but underaged, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say underage. It could be that

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<v Speaker 1>that could be a reason as well.

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<v Speaker 2>It could be.

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<v Speaker 1>Also because yeah, you are a guy and he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be out it just yet, or I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if he plans plans on coming out as bisexual, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>because obviously he likes women too. We're not just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>just say, oh, he's gay. He's obviously bisexual. And then

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<v Speaker 1>obviously y'all run in some of the same circles because

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<v Speaker 1>how you get invited to a birthday party that you

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<v Speaker 1>see him and his girlfriend at him and his pregnant

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend at Honestly, I don't think you should go to

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<v Speaker 1>his girlfriend or any of that. I think you should

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<v Speaker 1>set and have a conversation with him and then tell

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<v Speaker 1>me what triggered you to be upset. What triggered you

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<v Speaker 1>to be upset? Is it the fact that you.

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<v Speaker 2>Thought he was gay and he's not, he's bisexual.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it the fact that you started liking him a

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<v Speaker 1>lot and you want you want the feelings to be reciprocated,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's in a relationship and you later found out, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>What is really the relationship? What is the relationship? Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you said you guys were just flirty? Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 2>need more information? Yeah? Yeah, Like how long y'all know

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<v Speaker 2>each other? Are just friends? Are your friend's of a friend? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know the girlfriend and you just happened to

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<v Speaker 1>yeah me the girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>Does the pregnant girlfriend go to the school too? Did

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<v Speaker 2>she work at the school like we do? Still? Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Was it years ago? Was it yesterday? Yes? I need

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<v Speaker 2>to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, so you need to come back, I mean, because

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<v Speaker 1>I and I really want to know what the relationship

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<v Speaker 1>is between you two.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's just a little fling, it seems like.

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<v Speaker 1>And it just seems like if if you're telling me

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<v Speaker 1>to advise you off of the little bit that you

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<v Speaker 1>gave me, it just seems like you were upset that

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<v Speaker 1>he's in a relationship at all. It could have been

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<v Speaker 1>he could have been in a relationship with another guyship. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>did you find out that he was in a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>at this party? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? And that's what happened. That's that we need more, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we need more. Boy.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't give you any any advice, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to try to keep giving you advice, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I get further and further away from what the story

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<v Speaker 1>actually is, like the backstory and all and all the

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<v Speaker 1>details that's supposed to go along with it. You even

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<v Speaker 1>started another sentence and never finished it. You said, right

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<v Speaker 1>after you said, a week passed and I was invited

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<v Speaker 1>to a birthday party and he was there with his

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend and she was pregnant. Then the lasts and say

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<v Speaker 1>I know the and then it stopped, like the nigga

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<v Speaker 1>walked in and court you typing, and he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to hurry up, and send, So I need

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<v Speaker 1>to know.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to ask you what made you go with

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<v Speaker 2>this story if it was incomplete? Well, that's what happens.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I don't read the stories until i'm reading them.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I don't shire off. Damn you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I will never ever have you back on this show again,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help me assist people because if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to help too. But I need some information.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, we need some information. Stopped that. Thuh that's it?

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<v Speaker 2>We yeah, he said, I know the that was it job.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, get back with us, Get back with us.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we got to commercial, and if you click off

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast, I swear I'm ana beat your ass.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen. All right, here we go, moving on. Can we

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<v Speaker 2>doing voice? Yeah? We ain't got none of those?

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody listen most of the time, y'all need to tell

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<v Speaker 1>my best friend she, how are most of the time

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<v Speaker 1>people don't like sending voice memos because they be talking

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<v Speaker 1>about No people that they be talking about be knowing

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<v Speaker 1>their voice, and they'd be like, hold on, change your voice.

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<v Speaker 2>Ain't from she would have said, how about you change

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<v Speaker 2>your motherfucking voice? Hello, this is from down the block.

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<v Speaker 2>Coming to you with another story? Yet, can help me

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<v Speaker 2>baby exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Yeah, y'all gotta disguise y'all voices because

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<v Speaker 1>get creatives.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because y'all leaving too much meat off these bones

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<v Speaker 2>writing these stories.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, Like, look this from right here, let's do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a how do I stand up for myself and

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<v Speaker 1>not do as I'm told? So it said I moved

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<v Speaker 1>back from my parents, Now I.

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<v Speaker 2>Regret Oh shit, he sent that June ninth.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so at June ninth this person said how do

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<v Speaker 1>I stand up for myself and I do as I'm told?

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<v Speaker 1>And then came back September twenty fifth and said, I

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<v Speaker 1>moved back to my parents. Now I regret that choice,

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<v Speaker 1>and I now feel like their happiness is my responsibility.

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<v Speaker 1>If I were to tell them that I want to leave,

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<v Speaker 1>Dad would freak out and treat me like a kid,

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<v Speaker 1>and Mom would be mad too. I used to be

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<v Speaker 1>a positive person, with a smile always on my face.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it's too much effort to smile.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it. So go ahead, help them? Shit, what help?

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<v Speaker 2>They moved back and they regret it?

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<v Speaker 1>How How do they stand up for theirself and not

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<v Speaker 1>do as they told by their parents.

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<v Speaker 2>Did that nothing to do with June? I believe it did.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and it had something to do with it, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it did the first Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe this is more clarity. Maybe listen.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So when he said in June, I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>he was saying like he was outside of his parents'

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<v Speaker 1>house because maybe they was trying to make him come back,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, because he said, how do I stand up

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<v Speaker 1>for myself?

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<v Speaker 2>And I do as I'm told?

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<v Speaker 1>He probably jumped out there, jumped off the porch, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's not telling us how old he is too, and

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<v Speaker 1>he talking like he just jumped off the porch, like

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<v Speaker 1>he's just a fresh adult, like twenty one maybe, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe not even twenty one.

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<v Speaker 2>And three months later.

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<v Speaker 1>He probably is back now at his parents' house because,

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<v Speaker 1>like he said, I moved back with my parents. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I regret that choice, and I feel like their happiness

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<v Speaker 1>is my responsibility. I feel like you may just be

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<v Speaker 1>a little brat if I'm saying it right. If not,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta update me and leave more meat on the bone.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you feel responsible for your parents' happiness?

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<v Speaker 2>Why?

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<v Speaker 1>Because they wanted you back home? Are they happier now

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<v Speaker 1>that you're home. Were you getting into some trouble? How

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<v Speaker 1>old are you? Did you move around some other fuckers?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you move out with some motherfuckers? That's not good

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<v Speaker 1>for your influence and.

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<v Speaker 2>You know happy?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you even said that she used to be

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<v Speaker 1>a positive the person who kept a smile on their face.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it was too much effort to smile because you

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<v Speaker 1>had to move back in with your parents. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you something, baby, I wish I could move back

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<v Speaker 1>in with my Motherfucking parents in the top had listen

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<v Speaker 1>entertaining the fun out of them. I'm responsible for your happiness, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like I want y'all, want y'all young people

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<v Speaker 1>to not grow up so fast, iop trying to grow

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<v Speaker 1>up so fast. And I know it's being shoved in

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<v Speaker 1>y'all goddamn face that to grow up fast.

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<v Speaker 2>To do this and do that, And it ain't no joke.

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<v Speaker 1>But it seems like you got too great loving parents

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<v Speaker 1>who are just probably overwhelmingly possessive, you know, and and

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<v Speaker 1>and they're protective, and you just want to be out there,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you want to do what you want to do.

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<v Speaker 2>And I've been in before, so that's what yep.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the reason that we can actually speak from experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but I say slow it down, take your time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if they need your help, help them out.

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<v Speaker 2>We only get one set and he got both. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Dad would freak out.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love this, Like if I would have told

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<v Speaker 1>them that I want to leave, my dad would freak

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<v Speaker 1>out and my mom would be mad too.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, damn, they love you, baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're not locking you up in the basement, fucking

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<v Speaker 1>making you make abracmbie and Fitch hoodies for three cents. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't have you, okay much for three cents and

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<v Speaker 1>then putting it in the stores and charging thirty eight

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<v Speaker 1>dollars and you're not making no money. And now you're

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<v Speaker 1>eating balloone these sandwiches with no ballogna and no bread.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you want you want those parents? All right?

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<v Speaker 2>You ever seen the movie ma? Yes? Remember? Okay? All right? Well, well,

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<v Speaker 2>oh no, that's too much to read right there? Now, No,

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<v Speaker 2>we can't. That was my job. How are you going

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<v Speaker 2>to tell me that you ain't even reading any fucking way?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? Come on, all right, here we go next

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<v Speaker 2>door'll hold up.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold up, I noticed shit getting good, But listen to

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<v Speaker 1>just a couple seconds of a commercial.

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<v Speaker 2>If you love me, you'll listen. Hey, jos, I definitely

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<v Speaker 2>need some help. We'll fix in my mess.

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<v Speaker 1>So in the beginning of the year, I had a

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<v Speaker 1>fallen out with one of my best friends. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like the period year and don't have a play with me.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like on my end, it was a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of moments that led up to it, though we know

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<v Speaker 1>how life works. Long story short, I was going through

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<v Speaker 1>a really depressing time in my life and I was

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<v Speaker 1>genuinely up against the wall. However, my best friend was

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<v Speaker 1>in high spirits with what was going on in her life.

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<v Speaker 1>I was never bitter or a hater about anything happening

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<v Speaker 1>with her because I only ever wanted to see her

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<v Speaker 1>win now prior to us falling out. Anytime we would

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<v Speaker 1>get into disagreements, she would always bring up how she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know if she wanted to continue to be my friend,

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<v Speaker 1>simply off me not agreeing with her view. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would end up just saying okay to whatever point she

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<v Speaker 1>had just to end the debate. Then it will go

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<v Speaker 1>to a point where me saying okay wasn't good enough

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<v Speaker 1>and that I needed to speak my piece or I

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<v Speaker 1>will resent her in our friendship. So then I would

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<v Speaker 1>say how I felt, and that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl. These people don't believing me nothing else.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, okay, all right, all right, Well sometimes that's

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<v Speaker 1>how I just fix my mess code. Sometimes people give

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<v Speaker 1>me the beginning in the middle and don't even They

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<v Speaker 1>be like fuck then child, you make up the rest.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, some type of way they'd be one advice.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, we know how best friends are. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I have my best friend here with me. Now we

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<v Speaker 1>have fallen out and we have fought.

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<v Speaker 2>I've beat her ass. Hell, you know, hello, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? Start over from the top.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we all know we had videos out where I

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<v Speaker 1>had physically beat Shanas and we already know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're not going to stay like I don't got

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<v Speaker 1>the hands. But you know, sometimes it's gonna be warranted.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, best friends will fight, regular friends will fight.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. But like you said, we

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<v Speaker 1>know how life works, and sometimes when two friends are

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<v Speaker 1>in different places of their lives, yeah, they do tend

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<v Speaker 1>to either separate or they tend to help each other

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<v Speaker 1>and they still stay the same way. You know, It's

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<v Speaker 1>just that you're living your life and she's living hers.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll let she to speak on it if she feels

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<v Speaker 1>differently how from what I'm about to say.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not I'm really unclear on what exactly the issue is. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you like saying, should y'all go your separate ways

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<v Speaker 1>or what? Although I can agree that, I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>the way, I can't agree with you. I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>the way she handles you with communication, if that is

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<v Speaker 1>to be true what you said about her.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's like, what are are they not friends anymore?

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<v Speaker 1>Is she saying? Is she asking us? So it's not

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<v Speaker 1>like she probably want attention from her friends.

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<v Speaker 2>She probably probably not.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting the same attention that she gives because right, and

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<v Speaker 1>uh depends.

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<v Speaker 2>What is it that the girl does? Yeah, she said,

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<v Speaker 2>and she when she doesn't agree.

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<v Speaker 1>With no, no, no, I'm talking about you said it had

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<v Speaker 1>like two different lifestyles.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what she said, she said.

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<v Speaker 1>Long story short, I was going through a really rough,

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<v Speaker 1>depressing time in my life and I was genuinely up

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<v Speaker 1>against the wall. However, my best friend was high in

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<v Speaker 1>spirits with what was going on in her life, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was never bitter or hater about anything because she

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<v Speaker 1>only ever wanted to see her best friend win. But

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<v Speaker 1>prior to them falling out, any disagreements that they started having,

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<v Speaker 1>she would always bring up how she didn't know if

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to continue to be her friends simply off

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<v Speaker 1>of her not agreeing with her views. Yeah, so that's

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<v Speaker 1>like if you don't agree with nothing, and I say,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, look, I don't even know if you're really

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<v Speaker 1>my friend or not.

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<v Speaker 2>Like friends will have fun disagreements. Me and she had

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<v Speaker 2>disagree all the time with things, and the disagree with nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>Just come on now, baby, stop sucking line like some

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<v Speaker 2>stuff and not ever wine get.

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<v Speaker 1>To almost sitteen years for no reason. You already know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm right in a lot of things that I say, baby, sweetie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but when you get to talking about people and

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<v Speaker 2>they be about to bang your eyeballs, oh baby, who

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<v Speaker 2>steps off of me? Not you? Because that's right, baby, you,

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<v Speaker 2>cause I'm like, just get up. You can't even fight anyway, exactly,

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<v Speaker 2>get up, Get up right, I'm gonna leave you a

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<v Speaker 2>hand friend.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you're gonna let me hand ad to the person

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<v Speaker 1>who punched me walked away. You're not gonna jump out

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<v Speaker 1>there standing tentintos down like a little bit. Should you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna if I can't help me out?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you say exactly that said exactly, we gotta help

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<v Speaker 2>this person with this mask? Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>So like I said, all right, so I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's grounds for termination.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, I'm not. Y'all need to talk.

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<v Speaker 1>Though, y'all need to have a heart to heart and

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<v Speaker 1>let each other know how you really feel, like, because

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<v Speaker 1>that was that actually was a problem that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Shana had told me that she had with me, like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't communicate you you don't, you know, you just

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<v Speaker 1>shut down, you zone out. And I had to take

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<v Speaker 1>that and see it for what the fuck it. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like, if I'm this person who always got something

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<v Speaker 1>to say and I always can communicate about anything else,

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<v Speaker 1>why can't I communicate with my best friend about our

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<v Speaker 1>differences and get through it?

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>So she had to teach me that, she had to

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<v Speaker 1>show me that, and then a lot of times she

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<v Speaker 1>would disagree. She don't agree, she ain't a yes man,

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<v Speaker 1>she don't agree with everything I say.

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<v Speaker 2>And okay, she don't agree with everything I say.

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<v Speaker 1>And then sometimes she'll tell me I'll tell her something,

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<v Speaker 1>she won't agree with it, and she'll make me see

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<v Speaker 1>it from a different point of view, and then I'll

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<v Speaker 1>change how I feel about that thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So communication actually really helps within a lot of ways and.

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<v Speaker 1>With understanding of how I'm feeling another perspective exactly. So

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to necessarily change your way of thinking. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just because somebody else will view something differently.

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<v Speaker 2>But something but sometimes that's how it has been.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you'll be like, we'll just look at it this way,

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<v Speaker 1>or you think you know, and it will you know, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh shit, maybe I did go off a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>too much, or maybe look at it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I did not go off. That fucking girl was

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<v Speaker 2>trying to say you did.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I was sitting right there looking at you like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you were sitting there looking at it. No, you was

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<v Speaker 1>not fucking sitting up there looking at me like what

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck? All right, so let me tell you this

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<v Speaker 1>real quick.

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<v Speaker 2>Hopefully we helped you. Oh no, we can't say their name?

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<v Speaker 2>What's that name? Like, That's why I don't nobody want

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<v Speaker 2>typing their boys. I mean, I don't body wants sing

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<v Speaker 2>on boys. They be like, we know, how fucking anyway, Brittany,

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<v Speaker 2>So we just gonna call you Brittany, Brittany, we hope

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<v Speaker 2>we helped you. Oh my god, and.

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<v Speaker 1>She get beat up by the best friend child like

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<v Speaker 1>Britney Simmons over.

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<v Speaker 2>Yo.

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<v Speaker 1>No, basically, So I did breakfast club today and one

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<v Speaker 1>of the topics was, you know, this is Halloween was yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>The game had posted his daughter and he was saying, like,

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<v Speaker 1>did we pretty much think that.

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<v Speaker 2>Her costume was inappropriate?

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<v Speaker 1>She had on the crop top and she had on

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<v Speaker 1>a tight compression pants at the football players where she

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<v Speaker 1>dressed up as her favorite football team, Cowboys or whatever. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>she that's what it was given cheerleader. But she had

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<v Speaker 1>on the football compression fans. So she looked cute, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, beautiful little girl. She's thirteen years old. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>she's thirteen. Now, Like I explained, crop tops I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think are appropriate for certain teens pre teens, to be

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you, because somebodies developed quicker than others. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she's a fuller figured, younger teen, and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, while it's not her faults, she can't control

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<v Speaker 1>how she grows. She can't control you know, curves here,

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<v Speaker 1>curves there, and stuff popping out.

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<v Speaker 2>I do think her parents could censor her.

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<v Speaker 1>Clothing, you know, And that doesn't just go for her,

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<v Speaker 1>that goes for any other teenager who develops quickly or

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<v Speaker 1>just whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>It's totally up to you, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Charlemagne was saying, like, I feel like, if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have daughters, you can't have saying this. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you absolutely can. I'm raising my little sister. She's a

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<v Speaker 1>fucking teenager. I was a teenager before. I was a

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<v Speaker 1>young young daughter. Now I'm a older daughter, but I

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<v Speaker 1>was thirteen before as well.

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<v Speaker 2>He was always an older daughter.

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<v Speaker 1>See this is why she always get punched down fucking

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<v Speaker 1>face now because she's trying to really play with me,

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<v Speaker 1>like I look older, and yeah I did, so what

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<v Speaker 1>and always head.

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<v Speaker 2>When you was too remember that picture? Excuse me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when I was two, I looked like I was six,

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<v Speaker 1>and just thank you, all right, Yeah I've never I've

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<v Speaker 1>never said that I didn't look older, so yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>But all that matters now is I'm thirty one. I mean,

0:20:24.680 --> 0:20:26.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm a hard thirty one, but bit I'm thirty one, nonetheless,

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<v Speaker 1>so it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Now. This lady called up and she was like, Josh,

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<v Speaker 2>what we not gonna do? We not going sit here

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<v Speaker 2>and make crop tops a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Because when I was younger, I had a small waist,

0:20:39.560 --> 0:20:42.760
<v Speaker 1>a nice stomach, I had a six peck, titties, big hips,

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<v Speaker 1>big everything, and yeah, I wore crop tops to make

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<v Speaker 1>myself feel good, Like, yeah, I felt good about my body.

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<v Speaker 1>So my daughter, now she's young, she's in the same

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<v Speaker 1>boat I'm in. She got the same body that I

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<v Speaker 1>was blessed with at a very young age, and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we shouldn't make her conscious about we could

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<v Speaker 1>we should and over sexualize these kids and don't make

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<v Speaker 1>crops hops a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Lead that girl alone and dah da da da da.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I had a problem with that. And listen, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>okay with her disagreeing with me. I'm okay with that.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's what. That's what. That that's life.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, everybody's not gonna agree with your opinion. And

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<v Speaker 1>I totally respect her as a mother because to reach

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<v Speaker 1>their own you raise your daughter.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that, that's that's that's how you want to raise

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<v Speaker 2>your child.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're not gonna tell me all these sexual things

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<v Speaker 1>about yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my titty was big, My titties were big. My

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<v Speaker 2>titty was big. It's just one big yeah, she said.

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<v Speaker 1>My titties was big, small waists like you know, ass

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<v Speaker 1>was fat like all that. This is all sexual talk, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're sitting here saying, at.

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<v Speaker 2>Thirteen, we're not.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to make them feel bad about wearing crops hops

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<v Speaker 1>because they're being overly sexual that's overly sexualizing the kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything you just uttered out of your motherfucking two lips

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<v Speaker 1>about yourself when you were a fucking teenager with sexual

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<v Speaker 1>over sexualized.

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<v Speaker 2>What the fuck is big cities, big ass and all

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<v Speaker 2>that ship?

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<v Speaker 1>What the fuck you're talking about some of my my

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter wear cropsops a feel good about her body?

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<v Speaker 1>Why the fuck is your daughter wearing crops hops to

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<v Speaker 1>feel good about her fucking body?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you screaming? I'm sorry, that's what happened. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like she was screaming at me.

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<v Speaker 1>But she was from New York, so you know how

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<v Speaker 1>to accent is you know, like mother, I got up

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<v Speaker 1>in here. I know I was screaming like a motherfucker,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, like I just I went right back to screaming,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, But no, y'all, Like I I just felt

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<v Speaker 1>like why was she called up and say like, don't

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<v Speaker 1>say that.

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<v Speaker 2>And what I don't get is when they be like

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<v Speaker 2>and everybody else this day, everybody doing that, Yeah, what

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck? Okay, I'm from my mother. I'll tell you

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<v Speaker 2>no kids because my kid. Yeah yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not I don't have no motherfucking kids because the

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<v Speaker 1>ain't nobody about to cuss shoot that fucking club.

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<v Speaker 2>But thank you. But let me tell you, yeah, baby.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sick if Sexy rig got pregnant before you, honey.

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<v Speaker 2>World, not at all, baby.

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<v Speaker 1>I I like I said, I feel like two reach

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<v Speaker 1>their own.

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<v Speaker 2>You raise your kid the way you raise your kid.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was never one of those parents that was

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<v Speaker 1>like it, never had a parent that was like what

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<v Speaker 1>the other kids.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's what the kids are wearing. Now, that's the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how your kid falls into these fucking groups and

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<v Speaker 1>falls into being a fucking follower and not a fucking leader,

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<v Speaker 1>and and you know, end up in the back of

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<v Speaker 1>these mother fucking vans and end up in these fucking

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<v Speaker 1>groups of kids that's going to go fuck off because

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<v Speaker 1>oh they can do what their friends did.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody's doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay, what the fuck has gotten into everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>These kids accountable like they did.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everybody trying to be their mon Yeah, everybody trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be their daughters and sons, friends and ship. I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't never Robin Moore has never Kevin Moore has never

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<v Speaker 1>ever been those type of parents. I just and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying my parents are better than anybody else, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was I just had structure, you know, and that

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<v Speaker 1>was it. They were serious about everything. And look how

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<v Speaker 1>the funk I turned out and don't play with.

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<v Speaker 2>Me, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew I already knew something about he was about

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<v Speaker 1>to be like he turn out turn out exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And know is that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we're gonna end this episode, jaw. We've come to

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<v Speaker 1>the conclusion. No, not the conclusion.

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<v Speaker 2>See, I'll be throwing the off when you're here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we've come to the end of yet another carefully

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<v Speaker 1>reckless episode with your girl Jess hilarious, who's been fixing

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<v Speaker 1>mess and the best friend. She's gonna be here next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Every day, you gonna be here, every day you're with

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<v Speaker 1>Gaate And in my deepest paying voice, catch us next week.

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<v Speaker 2>Peace.

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