1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,159 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: and The Black Effect. And just like that, we're back 3 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: with yet another carefully reckless episode. It's your girl, justesseilarious 4 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 1: and I got my best friend in the studio with 5 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: me today. 6 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 2: Y'all know how shene o waena that mic is not on? 7 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 2: All right, we'll come on one day I can talk into. 8 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: Okay, So she's here being a hoe as y'all can hear. 9 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 1: She always got a problem with me. So we're going 10 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask how to weigh in on some of 11 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:40,279 Speaker 1: these people mess as well, because I don't. 12 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say sometimes I be needing help, but 13 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 2: I am. You definitely need help, first of all. 14 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: Okay, well, some I can always use a second perspective. 15 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: How about that I don't need help, but I can 16 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 1: use a second perspective. 17 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 2: So yeah, here we go. Now, this is a story 18 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 2: that came from somebody who wrote it. We were not 19 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 2: sent in a voice memo. 20 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: And like I said, y'all, that is the easiest way 21 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: to get your story played. Okay, if they get your 22 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: story out there, you can send me a voice memo. 23 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 1: And I know that voice memos only record up to 24 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 1: a minute on social media. 25 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 2: But please, I don't give a fuck. 26 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,919 Speaker 1: Send it please, because a lot of y'all be typing 27 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: these long ass run on sentences and I cannot differentiate punctuations. 28 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 1: I can't do it, all right, so please send your 29 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: voice note. All right, I'm about to read, Hey, so 30 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 1: I could fuck this man life up. Damn hold up 31 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:38,919 Speaker 1: this okay, shit, Hey so I could fuck this man's 32 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 1: life up. But I know outing someone is wrong. But 33 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: let me tell you what is going on. Anyway, last 34 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: year I started working at my high school, right, and 35 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 1: there was this guy that I worked with. We were 36 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: all in the same group, but we didn't interact outside 37 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: of that at first. After a while we started flirting 38 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: and he would get handsy, touch he faelly sometimes, okay, 39 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: and so prom comes around. In that prom, he asked 40 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: me to dance, So we did. A week passed and 41 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: I was invited to a birthday party and he was 42 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: there with his girlfriend and she was pregnant. Okay, So 43 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: that's that's all he said. He never said anything else. 44 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: And the reason why I'm saying he's because he's visually 45 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: a guy. I can see it on his profile, Okay, 46 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: and like you said, outing someone is never okay unless 47 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: it heavily depends on your defense. You know what I'm saying, Like, 48 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: and I'm using that in like a way, so like 49 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: like proof, like no, I'm not out. No, it was 50 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: completely consensual. You know that you were interested in guys. 51 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:38,959 Speaker 1: I don't know if if the women in your life 52 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 1: knows about this, but yeah, you're interested in guys. And 53 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: I didn't want to be the one to out show ass. 54 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 1: But yeah, because you're not about to play with me. 55 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: You're not about to act like this is not what 56 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: you love. Just everybody, just live in the fucking truth. 57 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 2: He said he love it. Huh who said no? I said, 58 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 2: just live in your fucking truth? Said this is obviously 59 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 2: what you love. Oh yeah, gotta be what he loved. 60 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: He was touchy, hands all hands on. Yeah, behind the scenes, 61 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: Oh he loves it. I think that he loves it. 62 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 1: I think there is a deeper love for this. Okay, 63 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 1: So he didn't really leave a lot of meat on 64 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: the bone. 65 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 2: All right. 66 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: So you said you work at your high school, so 67 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: you so are you still in high school? Because listen, 68 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: I when I was in high school, I ended up 69 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: working at my high school. Just as an intern. So 70 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: I don't know if you if you're attending the school. 71 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 2: Now, you you look young. 72 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: But that that's not to say that you're not an adult. 73 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: You just you know, you black, and you know most 74 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: of the time that don't be cracking. So you just 75 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: could probably look like you've been sipping from a pool 76 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: of youth for a long time. But and then give 77 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: me more context on the guy, like was he a teacher, 78 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: Like is he a lot older than you? 79 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 2: I mean, because there it could be several other reasons. 80 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: Why he's hiding I guess having any type of affair 81 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: with you or whatever. 82 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 2: It could because you are a younger. 83 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say under a age, but underaged, I mean, 84 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to say underage. It could be that 85 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 1: that could be a reason as well. 86 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 2: It could be. 87 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: Also because yeah, you are a guy and he doesn't 88 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: want to be out it just yet, or I don't 89 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,119 Speaker 1: know if he plans plans on coming out as bisexual, whatever, 90 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 1: because obviously he likes women too. We're not just gonna 91 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 1: just say, oh, he's gay. He's obviously bisexual. And then 92 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 1: obviously y'all run in some of the same circles because 93 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: how you get invited to a birthday party that you 94 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: see him and his girlfriend at him and his pregnant 95 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: girlfriend at Honestly, I don't think you should go to 96 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 1: his girlfriend or any of that. I think you should 97 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:41,479 Speaker 1: set and have a conversation with him and then tell 98 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: me what triggered you to be upset. What triggered you 99 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 1: to be upset? Is it the fact that you. 100 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 2: Thought he was gay and he's not, he's bisexual. 101 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: Is it the fact that you started liking him a 102 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: lot and you want you want the feelings to be reciprocated, 103 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: but he's in a relationship and you later found out, Like. 104 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 2: What is really the relationship? What is the relationship? Like? 105 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 2: Because you said you guys were just flirty? Yeah, we 106 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 2: need more information? Yeah? Yeah, Like how long y'all know 107 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 2: each other? Are just friends? Are your friend's of a friend? Yeah? 108 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 1: Do you know the girlfriend and you just happened to 109 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: yeah me the girlfriend? 110 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 2: Does the pregnant girlfriend go to the school too? Did 111 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 2: she work at the school like we do? Still? Like? 112 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 2: Was it years ago? Was it yesterday? Yes? I need 113 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 2: to know. 114 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 1: Sorry, so you need to come back, I mean, because 115 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 1: I and I really want to know what the relationship 116 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: is between you two. 117 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 2: I mean, it's just a little fling, it seems like. 118 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: And it just seems like if if you're telling me 119 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: to advise you off of the little bit that you 120 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: gave me, it just seems like you were upset that 121 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: he's in a relationship at all. It could have been 122 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:49,919 Speaker 1: he could have been in a relationship with another guyship. Right, 123 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: did you find out that he was in a relationship 124 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: at this party? Right? 125 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 2: Right? And that's what happened. That's that we need more, Yeah, 126 00:05:58,360 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 2: we need more. Boy. 127 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: I can't give you any any advice, and I don't 128 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: want to try to keep giving you advice, and then 129 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: I get further and further away from what the story 130 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: actually is, like the backstory and all and all the 131 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: details that's supposed to go along with it. You even 132 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: started another sentence and never finished it. You said, right 133 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: after you said, a week passed and I was invited 134 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 1: to a birthday party and he was there with his 135 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 1: girlfriend and she was pregnant. Then the lasts and say 136 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:25,039 Speaker 1: I know the and then it stopped, like the nigga 137 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: walked in and court you typing, and he was like, oh, 138 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: I need to hurry up, and send, So I need 139 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 1: to know. 140 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 2: I have to ask you what made you go with 141 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 2: this story if it was incomplete? Well, that's what happens. 142 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 2: That's what I don't read the stories until i'm reading them. 143 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't shire off. Damn you know what. 144 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 1: I will never ever have you back on this show again, 145 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 1: trying to help me assist people because if you don't 146 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 1: know what. 147 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 2: I'm trying to help too. But I need some information. 148 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,360 Speaker 2: I know, we need some information. Stopped that. Thuh that's it? 149 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 2: We yeah, he said, I know the that was it job. 150 00:06:57,760 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 2: Come on, get back with us, Get back with us. 151 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: Now we got to commercial, and if you click off 152 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: this podcast, I swear I'm ana beat your ass. 153 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 2: Listen. All right, here we go, moving on. Can we 154 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 2: doing voice? Yeah? We ain't got none of those? 155 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: Everybody listen most of the time, y'all need to tell 156 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: my best friend she, how are most of the time 157 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 1: people don't like sending voice memos because they be talking 158 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: about No people that they be talking about be knowing 159 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: their voice, and they'd be like, hold on, change your voice. 160 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 2: Ain't from she would have said, how about you change 161 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 2: your motherfucking voice? Hello, this is from down the block. 162 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 2: Coming to you with another story? Yet, can help me 163 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 2: baby exactly? 164 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Yeah, y'all gotta disguise y'all voices because 165 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: get creatives. 166 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, because y'all leaving too much meat off these bones 167 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 2: writing these stories. 168 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: Man, Like, look this from right here, let's do. 169 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 2: It's a. 170 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: It's a how do I stand up for myself and 171 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 1: not do as I'm told? So it said I moved 172 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: back from my parents, Now I. 173 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 2: Regret Oh shit, he sent that June ninth. 174 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 1: Okay, so at June ninth this person said how do 175 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: I stand up for myself and I do as I'm told? 176 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: And then came back September twenty fifth and said, I 177 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 1: moved back to my parents. Now I regret that choice, 178 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: and I now feel like their happiness is my responsibility. 179 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: If I were to tell them that I want to leave, 180 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: Dad would freak out and treat me like a kid, 181 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 1: and Mom would be mad too. I used to be 182 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 1: a positive person, with a smile always on my face. 183 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: Now it's too much effort to smile. 184 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 2: That's it. So go ahead, help them? Shit, what help? 185 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 2: They moved back and they regret it? 186 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: How How do they stand up for theirself and not 187 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 1: do as they told by their parents. 188 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 2: Did that nothing to do with June? I believe it did. 189 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 1: Yes, and it had something to do with it, Yeah, 190 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 1: it did the first Yeah. 191 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 2: Maybe this is more clarity. Maybe listen. 192 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 1: Okay, So when he said in June, I felt like 193 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: he was saying like he was outside of his parents' 194 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 1: house because maybe they was trying to make him come back, 195 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 1: all right, because he said, how do I stand up 196 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 1: for myself? 197 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 2: And I do as I'm told? 198 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 1: He probably jumped out there, jumped off the porch, and 199 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: he's not telling us how old he is too, and 200 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 1: he talking like he just jumped off the porch, like 201 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: he's just a fresh adult, like twenty one maybe, or 202 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: maybe not even twenty one. 203 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 2: And three months later. 204 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 1: He probably is back now at his parents' house because, 205 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:29,839 Speaker 1: like he said, I moved back with my parents. Now 206 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 1: I regret that choice, and I feel like their happiness 207 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 1: is my responsibility. I feel like you may just be 208 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: a little brat if I'm saying it right. If not, 209 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: you gotta update me and leave more meat on the bone. 210 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: How do you feel responsible for your parents' happiness? 211 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 2: Why? 212 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:46,559 Speaker 1: Because they wanted you back home? Are they happier now 213 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 1: that you're home. Were you getting into some trouble? How 214 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 1: old are you? Did you move around some other fuckers? 215 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: Did you move out with some motherfuckers? That's not good 216 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:54,839 Speaker 1: for your influence and. 217 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 2: You know happy? 218 00:09:57,880 --> 00:09:59,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you even said that she used to be 219 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: a positive the person who kept a smile on their face. 220 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: Now it was too much effort to smile because you 221 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 1: had to move back in with your parents. Let me 222 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:09,319 Speaker 1: tell you something, baby, I wish I could move back 223 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: in with my Motherfucking parents in the top had listen 224 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: entertaining the fun out of them. I'm responsible for your happiness, yes, 225 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: you know, like I want y'all, want y'all young people 226 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: to not grow up so fast, iop trying to grow 227 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: up so fast. And I know it's being shoved in 228 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: y'all goddamn face that to grow up fast. 229 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 2: To do this and do that, And it ain't no joke. 230 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 1: But it seems like you got too great loving parents 231 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: who are just probably overwhelmingly possessive, you know, and and 232 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: and they're protective, and you just want to be out there, 233 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 1: you know, you want to do what you want to do. 234 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 2: And I've been in before, so that's what yep. 235 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 1: So that's the reason that we can actually speak from experience. 236 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:59,839 Speaker 2: Okay, but I say slow it down, take your time. 237 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, if they need your help, help them out. 238 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 2: We only get one set and he got both. Yeah. 239 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 2: Dad would freak out. 240 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:11,719 Speaker 1: And I love this, Like if I would have told 241 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: them that I want to leave, my dad would freak 242 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: out and my mom would be mad too. 243 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,079 Speaker 2: Man, damn, they love you, baby. 244 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:21,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're not locking you up in the basement, fucking 245 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: making you make abracmbie and Fitch hoodies for three cents. Hello, 246 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 1: they don't have you, okay much for three cents and 247 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 1: then putting it in the stores and charging thirty eight 248 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: dollars and you're not making no money. And now you're 249 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 1: eating balloone these sandwiches with no ballogna and no bread. 250 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you want you want those parents? All right? 251 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 2: You ever seen the movie ma? Yes? Remember? Okay? All right? Well, well, 252 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 2: oh no, that's too much to read right there? Now, No, 253 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 2: we can't. That was my job. How are you going 254 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 2: to tell me that you ain't even reading any fucking way? 255 00:11:58,000 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 2: All right? Come on, all right, here we go next 256 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:00,959 Speaker 2: door'll hold up. 257 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 1: Hold up, I noticed shit getting good, But listen to 258 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 1: just a couple seconds of a commercial. 259 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen. Hey, jos, I definitely 260 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 2: need some help. We'll fix in my mess. 261 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: So in the beginning of the year, I had a 262 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 1: fallen out with one of my best friends. I feel 263 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 1: like the period year and don't have a play with me. 264 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 1: I feel like on my end, it was a lot 265 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 1: of moments that led up to it, though we know 266 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: how life works. Long story short, I was going through 267 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 1: a really depressing time in my life and I was 268 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: genuinely up against the wall. However, my best friend was 269 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 1: in high spirits with what was going on in her life. 270 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: I was never bitter or a hater about anything happening 271 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 1: with her because I only ever wanted to see her 272 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 1: win now prior to us falling out. Anytime we would 273 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 1: get into disagreements, she would always bring up how she 274 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 1: didn't know if she wanted to continue to be my friend, 275 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 1: simply off me not agreeing with her view. So I 276 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: would end up just saying okay to whatever point she 277 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: had just to end the debate. Then it will go 278 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 1: to a point where me saying okay wasn't good enough 279 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:00,120 Speaker 1: and that I needed to speak my piece or I 280 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 1: will resent her in our friendship. So then I would 281 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 1: say how I felt, and that's it. 282 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,839 Speaker 2: Girl. These people don't believing me nothing else. 283 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 1: It's like, okay, all right, all right, Well sometimes that's 284 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 1: how I just fix my mess code. Sometimes people give 285 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 1: me the beginning in the middle and don't even They 286 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: be like fuck then child, you make up the rest. 287 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: But you know, some type of way they'd be one advice. 288 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 1: All right, Well, we know how best friends are. Actually, 289 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: I have my best friend here with me. Now we 290 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 1: have fallen out and we have fought. 291 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 2: I've beat her ass. Hell, you know, hello, how you doing? 292 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 2: All right? Start over from the top. 293 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 1: Okay, we all know we had videos out where I 294 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: had physically beat Shanas and we already know what's going on. 295 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 1: So we're not going to stay like I don't got 296 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 1: the hands. But you know, sometimes it's gonna be warranted. 297 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 1: You know, best friends will fight, regular friends will fight. 298 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But like you said, we 299 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:02,679 Speaker 1: know how life works, and sometimes when two friends are 300 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: in different places of their lives, yeah, they do tend 301 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:08,959 Speaker 1: to either separate or they tend to help each other 302 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: and they still stay the same way. You know, It's 303 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 1: just that you're living your life and she's living hers. 304 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 1: I'll let she to speak on it if she feels 305 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 1: differently how from what I'm about to say. 306 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 2: But I don't. 307 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm really unclear on what exactly the issue is. Like, 308 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 1: are you like saying, should y'all go your separate ways 309 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: or what? Although I can agree that, I don't like 310 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: the way, I can't agree with you. I don't like 311 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 1: the way she handles you with communication, if that is 312 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: to be true what you said about her. 313 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 2: But it's like, what are are they not friends anymore? 314 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 1: Is she saying? Is she asking us? So it's not 315 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: like she probably want attention from her friends. 316 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 2: She probably probably not. 317 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 1: Getting the same attention that she gives because right, and 318 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 1: uh depends. 319 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 2: What is it that the girl does? Yeah, she said, 320 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 2: and she when she doesn't agree. 321 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: With no, no, no, I'm talking about you said it had 322 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 1: like two different lifestyles. 323 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what she said, she said. 324 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: Long story short, I was going through a really rough, 325 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: depressing time in my life and I was genuinely up 326 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 1: against the wall. However, my best friend was high in 327 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 1: spirits with what was going on in her life, and 328 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 1: she was never bitter or hater about anything because she 329 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 1: only ever wanted to see her best friend win. But 330 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: prior to them falling out, any disagreements that they started having, 331 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 1: she would always bring up how she didn't know if 332 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 1: she wanted to continue to be her friends simply off 333 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 1: of her not agreeing with her views. Yeah, so that's 334 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 1: like if you don't agree with nothing, and I say, 335 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, look, I don't even know if you're really 336 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 1: my friend or not. 337 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 2: Like friends will have fun disagreements. Me and she had 338 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 2: disagree all the time with things, and the disagree with nothing. 339 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 2: Just come on now, baby, stop sucking line like some 340 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 2: stuff and not ever wine get. 341 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 1: To almost sitteen years for no reason. You already know 342 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: I'm right in a lot of things that I say, baby, sweetie. 343 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, but when you get to talking about people and 344 00:15:57,240 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 2: they be about to bang your eyeballs, oh baby, who 345 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 2: steps off of me? Not you? Because that's right, baby, you, 346 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 2: cause I'm like, just get up. You can't even fight anyway, exactly, 347 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 2: get up, Get up right, I'm gonna leave you a 348 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 2: hand friend. 349 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: No, you're gonna let me hand ad to the person 350 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: who punched me walked away. You're not gonna jump out 351 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 1: there standing tentintos down like a little bit. Should you're 352 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 1: gonna if I can't help me out? 353 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 2: Did you say exactly that said exactly, we gotta help 354 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 2: this person with this mask? Oh my gosh. 355 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 1: So like I said, all right, so I don't think 356 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 1: it's grounds for termination. 357 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 2: No, no, I'm not. Y'all need to talk. 358 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: Though, y'all need to have a heart to heart and 359 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 1: let each other know how you really feel, like, because 360 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 1: that was that actually was a problem that, you know, 361 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 1: Shana had told me that she had with me, like, yo, 362 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: you don't communicate you you don't, you know, you just 363 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: shut down, you zone out. And I had to take 364 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: that and see it for what the fuck it. It 365 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 1: was like, if I'm this person who always got something 366 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 1: to say and I always can communicate about anything else, 367 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 1: why can't I communicate with my best friend about our 368 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 1: differences and get through it? 369 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 2: You know. 370 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 1: So she had to teach me that, she had to 371 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:08,239 Speaker 1: show me that, and then a lot of times she 372 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 1: would disagree. She don't agree, she ain't a yes man, 373 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: she don't agree with everything I say. 374 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 2: And okay, she don't agree with everything I say. 375 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:19,919 Speaker 1: And then sometimes she'll tell me I'll tell her something, 376 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 1: she won't agree with it, and she'll make me see 377 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 1: it from a different point of view, and then I'll 378 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 1: change how I feel about that thing. 379 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 2: So communication actually really helps within a lot of ways and. 380 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 1: With understanding of how I'm feeling another perspective exactly. So 381 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 1: you don't have to necessarily change your way of thinking. Yeah, 382 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:39,200 Speaker 1: just because somebody else will view something differently. 383 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:42,160 Speaker 2: But something but sometimes that's how it has been. 384 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 1: Like you'll be like, we'll just look at it this way, 385 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:47,679 Speaker 1: or you think you know, and it will you know, like, 386 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 1: oh shit, maybe I did go off a little bit 387 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:51,479 Speaker 1: too much, or maybe look at it. 388 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 2: No, I did not go off. That fucking girl was 389 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:54,840 Speaker 2: trying to say you did. 390 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 1: No, I was sitting right there looking at you like, yeah, 391 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 1: you were sitting there looking at it. No, you was 392 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 1: not fucking sitting up there looking at me like what 393 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: the fuck? All right, so let me tell you this 394 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: real quick. 395 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 2: Hopefully we helped you. Oh no, we can't say their name? 396 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:14,640 Speaker 2: What's that name? Like, That's why I don't nobody want 397 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 2: typing their boys. I mean, I don't body wants sing 398 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 2: on boys. They be like, we know, how fucking anyway, Brittany, 399 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 2: So we just gonna call you Brittany, Brittany, we hope 400 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 2: we helped you. Oh my god, and. 401 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:30,479 Speaker 1: She get beat up by the best friend child like 402 00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 1: Britney Simmons over. 403 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 2: Yo. 404 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:39,440 Speaker 1: No, basically, So I did breakfast club today and one 405 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 1: of the topics was, you know, this is Halloween was yesterday. 406 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 1: The game had posted his daughter and he was saying, like, 407 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 1: did we pretty much think that. 408 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 2: Her costume was inappropriate? 409 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 1: She had on the crop top and she had on 410 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:54,639 Speaker 1: a tight compression pants at the football players where she 411 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:59,680 Speaker 1: dressed up as her favorite football team, Cowboys or whatever. Right, 412 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:03,199 Speaker 1: she that's what it was given cheerleader. But she had 413 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 1: on the football compression fans. So she looked cute, by 414 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 1: the way, beautiful little girl. She's thirteen years old. Now, 415 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 1: she's thirteen. Now, Like I explained, crop tops I don't 416 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 1: think are appropriate for certain teens pre teens, to be 417 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 1: honest with you, because somebodies developed quicker than others. And 418 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: you know, she's a fuller figured, younger teen, and I 419 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:27,679 Speaker 1: feel like, while it's not her faults, she can't control 420 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 1: how she grows. She can't control you know, curves here, 421 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 1: curves there, and stuff popping out. 422 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:35,679 Speaker 2: I do think her parents could censor her. 423 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:37,720 Speaker 1: Clothing, you know, And that doesn't just go for her, 424 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:42,719 Speaker 1: that goes for any other teenager who develops quickly or 425 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:43,360 Speaker 1: just whatever. 426 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:45,920 Speaker 2: It's totally up to you, you know what I'm saying. 427 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:47,959 Speaker 1: And then Charlemagne was saying, like, I feel like, if 428 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:50,640 Speaker 1: you don't have daughters, you can't have saying this. Yeah, 429 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 1: you absolutely can. I'm raising my little sister. She's a 430 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 1: fucking teenager. I was a teenager before. I was a 431 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 1: young young daughter. Now I'm a older daughter, but I 432 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 1: was thirteen before as well. 433 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 2: He was always an older daughter. 434 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: See this is why she always get punched down fucking 435 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 1: face now because she's trying to really play with me, 436 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,679 Speaker 1: like I look older, and yeah I did, so what 437 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:12,159 Speaker 1: and always head. 438 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 2: When you was too remember that picture? Excuse me? 439 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, when I was two, I looked like I was six, 440 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 1: and just thank you, all right, Yeah I've never I've 441 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 1: never said that I didn't look older, so yeah, thank you. 442 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:24,679 Speaker 1: But all that matters now is I'm thirty one. I mean, 443 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 1: I'm a hard thirty one, but bit I'm thirty one, nonetheless, 444 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 1: so it is what it is. 445 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:31,920 Speaker 2: Now. This lady called up and she was like, Josh, 446 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:34,959 Speaker 2: what we not gonna do? We not going sit here 447 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 2: and make crop tops a thing. 448 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,719 Speaker 1: Because when I was younger, I had a small waist, 449 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 1: a nice stomach, I had a six peck, titties, big hips, 450 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 1: big everything, and yeah, I wore crop tops to make 451 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:48,719 Speaker 1: myself feel good, Like, yeah, I felt good about my body. 452 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:52,160 Speaker 1: So my daughter, now she's young, she's in the same 453 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,199 Speaker 1: boat I'm in. She got the same body that I 454 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: was blessed with at a very young age, and I 455 00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 1: feel like we shouldn't make her conscious about we could 456 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:03,120 Speaker 1: we should and over sexualize these kids and don't make 457 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 1: crops hops a thing. 458 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 2: Lead that girl alone and dah da da da da. 459 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:10,400 Speaker 1: Well I had a problem with that. And listen, I'm 460 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 1: okay with her disagreeing with me. I'm okay with that. 461 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 2: And that's what. That's what. That that's life. 462 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:18,920 Speaker 1: You know, everybody's not gonna agree with your opinion. And 463 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 1: I totally respect her as a mother because to reach 464 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:23,120 Speaker 1: their own you raise your daughter. 465 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 2: Like that, that's that's that's how you want to raise 466 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:25,920 Speaker 2: your child. 467 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 1: But you're not gonna tell me all these sexual things 468 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:29,639 Speaker 1: about yourself. 469 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:32,159 Speaker 2: Oh my titty was big, My titties were big. My 470 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 2: titty was big. It's just one big yeah, she said. 471 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 1: My titties was big, small waists like you know, ass 472 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:43,159 Speaker 1: was fat like all that. This is all sexual talk, baby, 473 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:44,920 Speaker 1: and you're sitting here saying, at. 474 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:48,919 Speaker 2: Thirteen, we're not. 475 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 1: Going to make them feel bad about wearing crops hops 476 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 1: because they're being overly sexual that's overly sexualizing the kid. 477 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: Everything you just uttered out of your motherfucking two lips 478 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 1: about yourself when you were a fucking teenager with sexual 479 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 1: over sexualized. 480 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 2: What the fuck is big cities, big ass and all 481 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:05,640 Speaker 2: that ship? 482 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 1: What the fuck you're talking about some of my my 483 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,439 Speaker 1: my daughter wear cropsops a feel good about her body? 484 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 1: Why the fuck is your daughter wearing crops hops to 485 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 1: feel good about her fucking body? 486 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 2: Are you screaming? I'm sorry, that's what happened. I don't know. 487 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 2: I feel like she was screaming at me. 488 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 1: But she was from New York, so you know how 489 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 1: to accent is you know, like mother, I got up 490 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:24,880 Speaker 1: in here. I know I was screaming like a motherfucker, 491 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:29,360 Speaker 1: but yeah, like I just I went right back to screaming, 492 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:32,879 Speaker 1: all right, But no, y'all, Like I I just felt 493 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 1: like why was she called up and say like, don't 494 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 1: say that. 495 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:37,919 Speaker 2: And what I don't get is when they be like 496 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:43,119 Speaker 2: and everybody else this day, everybody doing that, Yeah, what 497 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 2: the fuck? Okay, I'm from my mother. I'll tell you 498 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 2: no kids because my kid. Yeah yeah, but. 499 00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 1: That's not I don't have no motherfucking kids because the 500 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 1: ain't nobody about to cuss shoot that fucking club. 501 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 2: But thank you. But let me tell you, yeah, baby. 502 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 1: It's sick if Sexy rig got pregnant before you, honey. 503 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 2: World, not at all, baby. 504 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 1: I I like I said, I feel like two reach 505 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 1: their own. 506 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:13,640 Speaker 2: You raise your kid the way you raise your kid. 507 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,119 Speaker 1: But I was never one of those parents that was 508 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: like it, never had a parent that was like what 509 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:19,160 Speaker 1: the other kids. 510 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 2: And that's what the kids are wearing. Now, that's the problem. 511 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: That's how your kid falls into these fucking groups and 512 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 1: falls into being a fucking follower and not a fucking leader, 513 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 1: and and you know, end up in the back of 514 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 1: these mother fucking vans and end up in these fucking 515 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,919 Speaker 1: groups of kids that's going to go fuck off because 516 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 1: oh they can do what their friends did. 517 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:38,959 Speaker 2: Everybody's doing it. 518 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:43,919 Speaker 1: It's okay, what the fuck has gotten into everybody. 519 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:46,160 Speaker 2: These kids accountable like they did. 520 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody trying to be their mon Yeah, everybody trying 521 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:55,119 Speaker 1: to be their daughters and sons, friends and ship. I 522 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:59,000 Speaker 1: ain't never Robin Moore has never Kevin Moore has never 523 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,880 Speaker 1: ever been those type of parents. I just and I'm 524 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 1: not saying my parents are better than anybody else, but 525 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 1: it was I just had structure, you know, and that 526 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:12,399 Speaker 1: was it. They were serious about everything. And look how 527 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 1: the funk I turned out and don't play with. 528 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 2: Me, thank you. 529 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,720 Speaker 1: I knew I already knew something about he was about 530 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 1: to be like he turn out turn out exactly. 531 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:23,359 Speaker 2: And know is that. 532 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 1: No, we're gonna end this episode, jaw. We've come to 533 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 1: the conclusion. No, not the conclusion. 534 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 2: See, I'll be throwing the off when you're here. 535 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, we've come to the end of yet another carefully 536 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 1: reckless episode with your girl Jess hilarious, who's been fixing 537 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:45,880 Speaker 1: mess and the best friend. She's gonna be here next week. 538 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,399 Speaker 1: Every day, you gonna be here, every day you're with 539 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 1: Gaate And in my deepest paying voice, catch us next week. 540 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:52,439 Speaker 2: Peace. 541 00:25:02,119 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: Lola Can't Fully Reckless is a production of iHeartRadio and 542 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 1: the black effect. 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