1 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Brett, 2 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program. 3 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 2: How are you. I'm all right, I'm all right. 4 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 3: I mean i'd be better if you guys can sort 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 3: this out for me. 6 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 2: Well, that's what we are here to do. That's what 7 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 2: we're here to do. Brett. 8 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: Tell us what's going on with this woman, Emily? How 9 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 1: you met? About any dates that you've been on and 10 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: kind of what's going on? 11 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 2: Now? 12 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 3: That's the crazy part is we have not been on 13 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 3: a date. 14 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 2: We met get ghosted before you even. 15 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's actually happened to me, But anyway, 16 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: explain to me. 17 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 2: So what happened? So you never actually met. 18 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 3: No, we've never actually met. We we matched on you know, 19 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:45,279 Speaker 3: like a dating app like everyone does these days, and 20 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 3: we had everything set up to go out, you know, 21 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 3: meet and everything, and then just all of a sudden, 22 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 3: I don't know where she just starts, all. 23 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 2: Right, So you guys are chatting. 24 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: You had a date planned actually, and then as it 25 00:00:58,240 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: got closer and maybe I don't know what did you 26 00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: like t extra to confirm or something, and then and 27 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: then no response and you haven't heard from her since 28 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,559 Speaker 1: obviously that the date is coming gone and you never met, 29 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 1: but you don't know why. 30 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 31 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 3: No, I mean we were having some great banters and 32 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 3: you know, the back and forth was going. 33 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 2: I got you know sweet, but then I. 34 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 5: Don't know where nothing. 35 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 2: Hmm. 36 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 3: I don't about how you get ghosted before the first 37 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 3: date even happens. 38 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, you would think that you would, you know, meet 39 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: in person at least after all the sort of pre 40 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: date conversation to see what the person was like before 41 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 1: you would tell them that you never want to see 42 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: him again, or in this case, not tell them and 43 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: just ignore them. But let's see what's going on, Brett. 44 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: We're gonna call Emily see if we can get her 45 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: on the phone, ask some questions. You'll be on the 46 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: phone at the same time, and hopefully we can certain 47 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: straighten us out. I mean, maybe she's I hope nothing's 48 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: happened to her, but maybe she's been busy or distracted 49 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: or who knows, and we can get you guys set 50 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: up on a date that we pay for. 51 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 2: Sound good? 52 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 5: Sounds good? 53 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna play one song and we'll come 54 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:54,639 Speaker 1: back in like two minutes into a stay here, Brett, 55 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: good morning, it's the Friends Show, Part two of waiting 56 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 1: by the phone? 57 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:00,040 Speaker 2: Brett, are you ready for this? 58 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 6: Man? 59 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: Are you? 60 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 2: Are you ready to find out what's going on? 61 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 6: I don't see why this can't get sorted like it's 62 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:09,399 Speaker 6: I mean, I was probably something. 63 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean no, I definitely I appreciated the longer 64 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: he's had to sit on this. 65 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 2: On hold. 66 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 1: It seems like he has a much more optimistic attitude 67 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: about it, which is good. I like optimisms. I'm fine 68 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:20,679 Speaker 1: with that. I tend to be a bit of a 69 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: pessimist on these things for some reason. Maybe it's you know, what, 70 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: is it a lot of years of doing this and uh, 71 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: we really heard everything, or we think we've heard everything 72 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: until we haven't. So let's call this woman and see 73 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: what's going on. Good luck, bread, all right, thank you 74 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: so much. Huh Hi sus Emily, Hey Emily, good morning. 75 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 1: My name is Fred and I'm calling from the Fred Show, 76 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:49,399 Speaker 1: the other morning radio show, and I have to tell 77 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: you that we are on the radio right now and 78 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: I would need your permission to continue with the call. 79 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 2: Can we chat for a couple of minutes? Is that cool? 80 00:02:59,280 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 7: Yeah? 81 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a little bit weird, but I will get 82 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: right to it. You can hang up at any time 83 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: if you don't want to talk to us, but we 84 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 1: hope that you'll tell us what's going on. This guy 85 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 1: Brett reached out to us. I guess you guys met 86 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: on a dating app and you chatted for a while 87 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: and you were planning a date that never happened. 88 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 2: Do you remember this guy Brett? 89 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, no, I go to him because he wasted 90 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 7: my time. 91 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 5: End of story. 92 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 2: Well no, no, no, no, no, hold out a second. That 93 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 2: can't be and that would be so boring. Okay, bye, No, 94 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 2: we got to know what's going on. It can't be 95 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 2: the end of the story. So he wasted your time? 96 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 2: What happened? Will you tell us? 97 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 7: I mean, I guess I know you wasted my time. 98 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 7: I don't know what more you want to know? 99 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: Well, but he didn't say that, like he doesn't know 100 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: he reached out to us. He was like, I don't 101 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: know why this woman won't talk to me, and said 102 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: we're trying to straighten it out. 103 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 2: What happened? 104 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 5: Well, once I found out what he planned for this date, 105 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 5: I was. 106 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 2: Out, well, what did he planned? 107 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 5: He said he was going to take me to a 108 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 5: picnic in the park. 109 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 2: Oh, what's wrong with that? 110 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 5: He knows that. 111 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 7: I'm a single mom and he wants me to take 112 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 7: time away from my kids to go on a picnic. 113 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 2: Girl, Well, I actually don't hate that. 114 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 5: No, I hate that he never offered to pay for 115 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 5: a babysitter. It's so inconsiderate. 116 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 7: But my time is precious, and I don't believe that 117 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 7: he should expect a parent to take them away from 118 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 7: their kids for something as small as a picnic. 119 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 5: Well, that's what kids do. 120 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: With all due respect, Emily, and I have dated single 121 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: moms before, and I've never been asked to pay for 122 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: a babysitter. I mean, I usually pay for the date 123 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: and they sort of handle their business on their end. 124 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 1: I didn't realize that was the expectation. So he was 125 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 1: supposed to have offered to pay for a babysitter and 126 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: then planned a date that was better than a picnic. 127 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: Because I'll be honest with you, we've. 128 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 1: Heard a lot of things over the years I'm waiting 129 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 1: by the phone that are a whole lot less creative 130 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 1: than taking the time to go out and buy all 131 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: the stuff to then take you to a park or 132 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 1: wherever and go on a picnic like that. I think 133 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: some people might hear that and go, that's actually more 134 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: effort than most people put in. 135 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's not nick is what teenagers do because they 136 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 7: have no money. And honestly, he will not get this 137 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 7: because he's not a parent that I understand, but like, 138 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 7: it is so hard for me to take time away 139 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 7: from my kids, like I hardly see them. I work 140 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 7: all the time, and to pay for a sitter to 141 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 7: date this guy who wants to take you on a 142 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 7: picnic like but if. 143 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 8: He would have bought, he would have said, like, Hey, 144 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 8: I'm gonna take you a steak dinner. 145 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:30,119 Speaker 4: Ain't no problem the baby, right right, that's not a problem. 146 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 5: No, because then he's serious. 147 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 4: Whoa, that's not nice. 148 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: But I mean, how many women listening now, or even 149 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 1: men are going Because even as I'm singing Lego on dates, 150 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 1: I'll be really honest, ninety nine point nine percent of 151 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: the first dates I go on are meet me at 152 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: a bar, and. 153 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 2: I'll be honest, that doesn't take much effort on my part. 154 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 2: It doesn't, and a lot of times it's the same bar. 155 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: I'll be honest with you and this so this guy, 156 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 1: I honestly think a picnic. It requires him to go 157 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 1: out and get, you know, stuff for the picnic, drinks 158 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:02,719 Speaker 1: and food. 159 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 2: And I don't know, it seems to me a little a. 160 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: Little bit more creative, a little bit a little more 161 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: romantic maybe. And you say no, you say it better 162 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 1: be an expensive dinner or something. 163 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 5: No, I need someone who's an adult. 164 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. 165 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 9: Well, I mean, I single parents are warriors, but I 166 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 9: think I mean, there's a lot more effort that he 167 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 9: put in. And have you had men pay for babysitters 168 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 9: in the past, Like, is that a thing? I didn't 169 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 9: even realize. 170 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I honestly didn't know that. 171 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 7: No, if a man wants to what with me, they 172 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 7: need to take care of the kids too. Oh yeah, 173 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 7: I'm ready. Ain't a daddy, right, I tried. 174 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: Yea, with all due respects, And I have a tremendous 175 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: amount of respect for single parents. My mom was one 176 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: for a time, but I don't think she asked my 177 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 1: now adopted dad to pay for the babysitters while he 178 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:49,840 Speaker 1: took her out. 179 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 2: Instead, he had to pay for college. But that's different. 180 00:06:57,120 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: I think he would have preferred the babysitters actually, But 181 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:03,280 Speaker 1: but no, I with all due respect to you. I 182 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 1: don't think that's the standard. Maybe it is for you, 183 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: but I don't think I've never been asked to pay 184 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: for a babysitter, usually especially early on. And I'm not 185 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 1: even saying this is fair in itself, but typically in 186 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 1: my experience, single moms even you know, when they boast 187 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: about their kids, they love their kids, they're proud of 188 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: their kids. They also don't necessarily want to project the 189 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 1: idea or the concept onto a man that they just 190 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 1: met that that's going to be their job immediately. Like 191 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: most single moms I've dated, the child doesn't come into 192 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: and again, it would be one thing if they didn't 193 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 1: talk about having kids, but they're not asking me to 194 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: make their lunch for them on the first date, you know, 195 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: because they want me to know that they're capable of 196 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: handling their business. So if a woman said to me, 197 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: you better pay for a babysitter, you better do this 198 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: than that, I guess I would sort of be like, well, 199 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 1: what are you looking for? You know, are you looking 200 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: to date me or are you looking for somebody to 201 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: pay for babysitters? 202 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 7: Okay, you call me and that's what happened on my date, 203 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 7: and then tell me about your dating, like I didn't 204 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 7: act nobody know. 205 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 2: You're right, that's honestly kind of fair. No, I mean, 206 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 2: it's true. 207 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm trying to understand where you're getting off 208 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: just qualifying a man because he planned a romantic date 209 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 1: that was a little bit outside the box and wasn't 210 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: willing to essentially hand over cash for a babysitter. I'm 211 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: just trying to figure out how often that works for you, 212 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: And you're saying all the time, Yeah, okay, fair enough. 213 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 1: But by the way, I forgot to mention that I actually, 214 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: you know, honestly, I forgot he was here. Hey, Brett, 215 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: you screwed up because she didn't like your date plan 216 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 1: and and you wouldn't pay for a babysitter. So that's 217 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: why you're not getting any date. 218 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 6: I mean, I never would have thought that i'd hear 219 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 6: someone tried to use their kids to. 220 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: Like be a gold digger. 221 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 5: But like, wow, that's. 222 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: I mean, is she gold digging or does she just 223 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 1: have really high expectations that none of us have heard 224 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: of before. 225 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 2: I don't know that I would call her a gold digger. 226 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 2: You would, Oh, yes, this is gold digger. This is 227 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 2: gold digging. 228 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 4: He actually he dodged a bullet. 229 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 8: I'm glad that she did call him back because she's crazy, 230 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 8: like real life crazy. 231 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 2: That that's gonna make Emily really happy, because. 232 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:15,079 Speaker 7: Emily still the are you people call me and then 233 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 7: call me crazy girl? 234 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, absolutely? 235 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 8: That is that is wild to expect a man to 236 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 8: pay for your babysitter and then you don't like a 237 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 8: date at the park, Like, who do you think you are? 238 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 5: Girl? 239 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 4: Exactly? Probably to get the straps, all right. 240 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 1: Look, so Emily has her standard. That's what she wants. 241 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: You know, I've never heard that before. But okay, Bratt, 242 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 1: I I don't know what to tell you. You know, 243 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 1: you didn't she didn't like any of it, so what 244 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: can I I actually think it was kind of cute, 245 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: but she doesn't, and I guess that's what matters here. 246 00:09:59,160 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 7: Man. 247 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 2: I'm I agree. I agree with it, Mike. I think 248 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 2: I think I. 249 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 3: Won this one by not getting a second date like 250 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 3: our first date or whatever, like this is I done 251 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 3: the bullet on this one for sure? 252 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: Hey, Emily, look, I do appreciate you talking to us, 253 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 1: and I wish you the best. I hope that your 254 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: approach works for you. 255 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 4: I don't wish I had the best. 256 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 7: I'm sorry. 257 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: I don't really you know, I think it's kind of 258 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:32,199 Speaker 1: a lot. But to Emily, good luck to you, Brett, 259 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:33,960 Speaker 1: thank you for calling as well. Good luck to you 260 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 1: as well. Oh, she ain't even talking to us. I 261 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: try to be nice by Emily. 262 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 5: Please don't yell. 263 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 2: Oh she done, she done, done, Okay,