1 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: Hi everyone. I am so excited because I'm staring at 2 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: a beautiful face. So am I I have my first 3 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: friend Sheena on. Thank you so much for coming on. 4 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:17,080 Speaker 2: Thanks for having me. I'm excited. I love this for you. 5 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: I'm so excited. 6 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 7 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 1: I like, as soon as I knew I was doing 8 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: a podcast, I had to reach out to you and 9 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, I need your help give me some title names. 10 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: And I feel like you've been one of the few 11 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: who have been so supportive in every way possible, and 12 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: You've been such a great friend to me. So I'm like, 13 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: I have to have Ghina. 14 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 2: Yes. No, I feel honored to be one of your 15 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 2: first guests. So thank you for having me. And I 16 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,879 Speaker 2: mean going back and forth with the titles, like there 17 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 2: were so many good titles there was. I don't know 18 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:48,279 Speaker 2: how you just finally narrowed it down and picked one. 19 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 1: Well, I really we really liked Mother, and I was like, 20 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: I love Mother. It's super strong. But I don't want 21 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: it to be only about like parenting. I wanted to 22 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: be about everything. So I kept thinking, pursuit of happiness. 23 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: That is my pursuit. But also I feel like now 24 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: I have a little sas so it's like pursuit of status. 25 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 2: This past summer, that's for sure. 26 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 1: I can't wait for everyone to see. Yeah, do you 27 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:14,960 Speaker 1: remember how we met? 28 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 2: So it was through Brittany, Yes, right, but I'm trying 29 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 2: to remember like the first time because y'all have known 30 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 2: each other for a while. But I felt like we 31 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 2: really got to know each other in Vegas a couple 32 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 2: of years ago for her birthday, although I know I 33 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 2: met you prior at like birthday parties, and. 34 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was just like before. And that was my 35 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: first girl's trip with everybody in Vegas, and that was 36 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: a crazy weekend. It was I. 37 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 2: Mean, this was pre Janet having a baby. She was 38 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 2: on a full send mode. 39 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: That was the first time I hung out with Janet. 40 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: So it was like I bonded with everybody. We all 41 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: stayed at the same hotel on the same floor. I 42 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: stayed with Britney. I had no ice, no idea what 43 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: I was getting myself into. 44 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 2: You didn't know you were going to see a bush 45 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 2: that weekend, did ya? 46 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:03,919 Speaker 1: Oh? 47 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 2: My god? 48 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: The bush. When everyone kept saying the bush, it was like, 49 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: what is the bush? 50 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 2: Yeah? 51 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: And then yeah, we played truth or Dare and I 52 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 1: quickly learned what the bush was. 53 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, she literally just sent me a TikTok. I'm like, Janet, 54 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 2: I don't want to click and open that. She goes, no, 55 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 2: it's just the thing about bushes. I was like, I 56 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 2: see that, I can read what the title is. I 57 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 2: don't want to open it. She's like, you don't like 58 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 2: bush content? No. 59 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I still have that image in my head where 60 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 1: somebody I think she like, volunteered. She's like, I want 61 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 1: to run. 62 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 2: Around she got on the elliptical. 63 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, completely name And I didn't even know this girl. 64 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: I just knew her from like, Hi, my name's Janet, 65 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,239 Speaker 1: and that was it. M h. Yeah. 66 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 2: I remember another time I met you, or like I 67 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 2: was with you. I think it was maybe Kristen's birthday, 68 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 2: but we were at like a Mexican restaurant in the valley. 69 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 2: It was outside, might have been Britney's birthday. I don't 70 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: know it was someone's, but I remember Isabella was so little, 71 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 2: like maybe she was two. 72 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, she was probably just under two, but she was 73 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: and she still is. 74 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: I was like, that is the most beautiful child I've 75 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 2: ever seen, Like she is just so amazing. I love her. 76 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 1: Oh thank you? Yeah, yeah, she was a handful. I mean, 77 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: I feel like from the beginning. She learned how to 78 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 1: walk at eight months? What yes, eight months, eight and 79 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:25,399 Speaker 1: a half months. 80 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:26,519 Speaker 2: Okay, so that does happen. 81 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: It does happen. And so she's always been like a runner, 82 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: and she used to climb and I used to always 83 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: just like not be able to hang out with people 84 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: and talk to people because I was always chasing her. 85 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, my mom told me that I walked at nine months, 86 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 2: and I've never believed her because I'm like, it's not 87 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 2: a thing. She's like, you walked before you crawled. 88 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I saw you. I was watching TV and 89 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: I didn't know I saw you on Mass Singer. 90 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 2: Yes, I know. I couldn't tell anyone about it, obviously, 91 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: like it's such a keep your mouth closed sort. 92 00:03:57,760 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: Of shower, Like, how dare you not tell me? 93 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 2: No? No, I did not tell anyone. Actually, though, Janet, 94 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 2: I had put her on my list because my sister 95 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 2: was unavailable one of the days and I was like, 96 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 2: if I need an assistant or someone, and so I 97 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 2: was like, well, you're gonna have to sign an NDA 98 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 2: if I tell you this. So she was literally the 99 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 2: only person outside sign I don't know if she signed it, 100 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 2: you're like here, oh my the show sent those out, okay, 101 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 2: but just in case I needed someone to be there 102 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 2: to help assist me with anything, which I didn't end 103 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 2: up needing it, and I went home the first night, 104 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 2: so she didn't get to come that second night with 105 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 2: me anyways. But I literally couldn't tell anyone. I didn't 106 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 2: even tell my dad. I called my dad the day 107 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 2: before it aired and I was like, Hey, I know 108 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 2: you have to work tomorrow, just want to let you know, 109 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 2: like I did this thing. And he was like, why 110 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 2: are you barely telling me now? And I'm like, good, Dad, 111 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 2: I love you and like I trust you, but you 112 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 2: also can just be so proud and bragging to your 113 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 2: friendsh Yeah, my daughter's gonna be on mask singer tonight. 114 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 2: And it's like no, no, no, you're not supposed to 115 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 2: tell people before because then you have to unmask and 116 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 2: the whole thing. So there's so much secrecy around it. 117 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 2: That was hard for me because I couldn't tell anyone 118 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 2: about this incredible experience I had. I'm literally turning off 119 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 2: my location when I'm on set. 120 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, how many people have your location? 121 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, so I lied to Lalla. I completely made 122 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 2: up something I don't even remember what. I was supposed 123 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 2: to be in Palm Springs with her that weekend, and 124 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:34,160 Speaker 2: I was like, I can't go. I had dressed, rehearsal, 125 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 2: I had vocal lessons, I had all of this stuff, 126 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 2: and so I don't even know what I made up. 127 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 2: But thankfully she wasn't in town and she actually doesn't 128 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:44,239 Speaker 2: have my location, so that was good. 129 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 1: Okay, I want to know about the costume because it 130 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 1: was so gorgeous that it seemed so heavy. How did 131 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: you wear that entire costume while singing? 132 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 2: I really thought I was going to be claustrophobic when 133 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 2: I put it on for the first time. So I 134 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 2: did which I do with my OCD some exposure therapy 135 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 2: on Halloween, and I dressed up as a skeleton that 136 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 2: zipped all the way over the face. Because that was 137 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 2: like really close to my face I could see. 138 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: Through and I didn't even think of that. 139 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 2: I just I was trying to think, like, how am 140 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:19,359 Speaker 2: I going to get more comfortable with doing this. I 141 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 2: have to move around, I have to dance, I have 142 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 2: to sing, I have to perform the outfit itself. I 143 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,719 Speaker 2: was able to move in it. We ended up putting 144 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 2: a slit in it because I wanted to do splits 145 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 2: for my second performance, which sadly we didn't get to see. 146 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 2: But I did this for Halloween, so all of tricker 147 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,799 Speaker 2: treating and everything, I'm like, walk and I'm just like breathe. 148 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 2: You got this that Honestly, the next day, when I 149 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 2: showed up for dress rehearsal and they put the head on, 150 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, there's so much room 151 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 2: to breathe in this because the skeleton zip up. Puddy 152 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,799 Speaker 2: was like on my face that was hard to breathe 153 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 2: inn But I just asked no. Literally, I went full method, 154 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 2: and so once we put it on, it wasn't even 155 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 2: that it was heavy, it just was awkward. I have 156 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 2: a very small head, so I'm like, you guys, like, 157 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 2: I'm afraid if I try to make one little move 158 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 2: it's just gonna fall off. And if I do the splits, 159 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 2: I have to put my hands down and then I 160 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 2: pop out into them and I go, has anyone's head 161 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 2: ever fallen off? And they go one time it did happen, 162 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 2: and they just left it in because they're like, well, 163 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 2: that's real. That's what happened. You know, that's who it is. 164 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 2: And I was like, but I don't want that to happen. 165 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 2: So they had to put a bicycle helmet inside the 166 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 2: actual bat head and crank it so it stayed on 167 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 2: my head. 168 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: So all of this for a performance, All of this 169 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: is it live? 170 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 2: It's in front of a live studio audience. Yeah, so 171 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 2: it's not airing live, but there's hundreds of people right 172 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 2: there screaming for me. They have no idea who I am, 173 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 2: and that was such a fun part and aspect of 174 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 2: it is being able to. 175 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 1: Perform and not no one knows who is exactly. 176 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 2: I'm not on the bar singing good as gold, Like 177 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:05,559 Speaker 2: this was something so insanely out of my comfort zone. 178 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 2: I was so proud of myself for doing it that 179 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, I'm so ready for night too. Like 180 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 2: we just crushed that I did miss one of my 181 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 2: choreography turns, and that just for my OCD. 182 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, we'll talk about the 183 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 1: OCD a second. 184 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 2: For sure, but no, it was such an incredible experience 185 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 2: and I was really proud of myself. I was just 186 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 2: I was so bummed that I went home first I 187 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 2: felt like just kind of was a little depressed and sad. 188 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 2: The next day, I took summer out of schools, like, 189 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 2: We're going to Palm Springs. I just like want to 190 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 2: go and take my family and get away. 191 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: And you're competitive, We're totally We're both very competitive my 192 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: whole life. We go all out whenever we get like 193 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 1: assigned to do something. 194 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:49,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it worked out the timing that I didn't 195 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 2: have her go to school that day because norovirus broke 196 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 2: out at her school that week and so yeah, so 197 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 2: she like totally missed it because I was like, you're 198 00:08:58,040 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 2: not going to school tomorrow, We're going to Palm Springs. 199 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 2: So it worked out for her. 200 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 1: Well, I think that was epic, And I think, did 201 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: you get a tattoo? 202 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 2: I did? Oh God? 203 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: Sheina? And that going to be in book number. 204 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 2: Two maybe, Yeah, I've got to do. I'm gonna do 205 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 2: a bit of a sleeve. 206 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 1: So your book, Yes, when is it coming out? 207 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 2: July twenty second. It's available for pre order right now 208 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 2: on my good sidebook dot com. There are signed copies 209 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 2: available as well. 210 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 1: How many did you sign? Actually, I don't know. If 211 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: I saw you went live? I did and Isabella's wanted 212 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 1: to watch, so she was watching, and I tucked in 213 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: Isabella and I say, Hi, I love that. 214 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 2: I wasn't looking as much at the comments because I 215 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 2: was trying to sign them, and I realized I'm good 216 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 2: at multitasking, but trying to answer questions while signing them 217 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 2: it didn't work so well. So I'm like, I'm going 218 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 2: to do another live, but I'm just gonna take my 219 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 2: time signing them because I was trying to get through 220 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 2: as many as. 221 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 1: Possible in Summer signed. 222 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, so there are three special Summer moon editions that 223 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 2: will go into a book somewhere. But I got through 224 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 2: a little over three hundred last night, so wow, Yeah, 225 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 2: I have, like, I don't know, seventeen hundred more, Okay, 226 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 2: in the next two weeks. 227 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 1: How long did it take you to write that? 228 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 2: The whole process was over a year, but the real 229 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 2: bones of the book and writing the majority of it 230 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,079 Speaker 2: we did in like four months. 231 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 1: Okay. 232 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 2: So it was a long process finding the right person 233 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 2: to collaborate with and then being like, no, I don't 234 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 2: want to and then okay, yes, this person and then 235 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 2: there's a lot of this process that I write about 236 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 2: in the book because this was all so new to me. 237 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 2: I know if I ever do a second book, what 238 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:42,359 Speaker 2: I would do differently, what I loved about this process, 239 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 2: But it was a lot, But I'm very proud of it. 240 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 2: I'm just also nervous for it to come out because 241 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 2: I don't really hold. 242 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 1: Back and I know that feeling. Yeah, So, I mean, 243 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: we had lunch recently and you're like, Hey, I wanted 244 00:10:59,920 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: to talk to you about a little chapter in my book, 245 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: and when you told me, I was incredibly surprised. Yeah, 246 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 1: proud of you at the same time for being so 247 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: open and vulnerable in your book. So I'm excited to 248 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: read it, and I'm for everybody to read it. 249 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,679 Speaker 2: I know me too. It's one of the biggest things 250 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,959 Speaker 2: that've I did so many things in my career just 251 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 2: recently that I'm like, wow, like mass singer, like that's 252 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 2: one of the biggest things I've ever done, like a 253 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 2: network show like that, But then writing a book, I'm like, 254 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 2: this is one of the biggest things in my career 255 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 2: I've ever done. And they just all kind of came 256 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 2: together around the same time. 257 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: So I know, you're very inspiring. Like honestly, out of everybody, 258 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 1: I'm like You're such a go getter and you are 259 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: constantly multitasking and just doing so many different things. I'm like, 260 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: how do you do it? And I just watch you 261 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 1: and I don't get it. And You're like, I'm in 262 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 1: New York today, I'm in La tomorrow, I'm in Like. 263 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I was just in Puerto Rico. And 264 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 2: then I go back to New York. I'm going to 265 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 2: Palm Springs this weekend. Coachella stagecoach Summer's birthday. 266 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: In between speaking of birthdays, Yes, your birthday is coming up. 267 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 2: I know. 268 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:08,560 Speaker 1: I'm so excited, are you. Yes, you look amazing and 269 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: you're about that forty years old. 270 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 2: Thank you? 271 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:12,559 Speaker 1: Can I say that, Yes you can. 272 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 2: It's I think it's google able. No, it's a big 273 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:19,559 Speaker 2: one coming up. And I felt like about six seven 274 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 2: months ago, I was so excited for it. I'm like, 275 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 2: oh my god, I can't wait to be forty. I 276 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 2: just felt very energized about planning it all. And then 277 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 2: the things that I wanted to do we're just not 278 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:36,079 Speaker 2: really coming together. I wanted to go to Mexico, and 279 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 2: now Brock is in an in between visa things. He's 280 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 2: applying to be a citizen right now. So I was like, 281 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:44,560 Speaker 2: I don't know if I want you really leaving the 282 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 2: country right now with just how things are. So I'm like, 283 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 2: let's not do Mexico. And then he's like, just do 284 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 2: a girls trip. So I'm like, okay, we'll do a 285 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 2: girls trip. And then I was like, no, I don't 286 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 2: want to do anything, and we have to be in 287 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:58,719 Speaker 2: Vegas the weekend after, so I'm like, maybe we'll go 288 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 2: to Vegas. And I've literally planned absolutely nothing and it's 289 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 2: in a few weeks. 290 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: I mean, you had an epic thirty ninth birthday. 291 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 2: Right and that's what I feel like. I kind of 292 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 2: already did it. I'm like, how are we going to 293 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 2: do better than last year? Smearnoff threw me the best party. 294 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:16,199 Speaker 1: They did at the best house and at the best. 295 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 2: Food, the best drinks, Like it was so good, it 296 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 2: was so fun that I don't know how we're going 297 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 2: to do that better. I wanted to try and recreate 298 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:26,599 Speaker 2: our welcome party that we had for our wedding, and 299 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 2: we did this like massive white party in Mexico at 300 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 2: an all inclusive resort. That was my original vision and 301 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 2: then now it's just that didn't come together. 302 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 1: Okay, so we don't know what we're doing for birthday, 303 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: no idea, Okay, we have a couple of weeks. Yes, 304 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: there's so many birthdays. 305 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 2: I know, and I swear with I guess, well, Isabelle 306 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 2: as a year older? But I know you had her 307 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 2: like write COVID. Yes, but I felt like the COVID 308 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 2: baby boom. All the babies came spring of twenty twenty one. 309 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:56,200 Speaker 2: Because right now everybody's eight week or me. Every weekend, 310 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 2: I know there's a birthday party. 311 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 1: This weekend is Crus's birthday. 312 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 2: I know my mom is going to take Summer because 313 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 2: I'll be at Coachella. No, you see, I never make 314 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 2: it to Cruise's birthday. I'm like Brittany, if it's on Coachella, 315 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:08,960 Speaker 2: I'm not going to be there. But then Summer's birthday 316 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 2: is on stage Coach. 317 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:12,439 Speaker 1: So that's why I just do Disneyland for me. It's 318 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: like kind of our ritual now I've been doing it 319 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: ever since she's too. It was like, yeah, we just 320 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: do a cake at home, a really nice cake, whatever 321 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 1: you want, and then we go to Disneyland and you 322 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 1: get presents. 323 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 2: And we're smart. I started with a massive party for 324 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 2: her first birthday, which was really more for the parents, 325 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 2: you know, that was for me and kind of so 326 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 2: was the second one. Then by the third one she 327 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 2: has friends from dance class and whatnot, and so we 328 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 2: did that one last year and now this year, I'm like, oh, 329 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 2: I guess you're getting two parties because we have a 330 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 2: lot of cousins and friends with kids, and well. 331 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: I'm going to focus on your birthday since it's such 332 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 1: a big one. I know, yeah, I mean you've done 333 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 1: so much in the last ten fifteen years. I didn't 334 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 1: know about Pizza Pizza Girl, My gosh, I was like, 335 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 1: what is this to watch this? Really? 336 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a cute Disney show, Like it's something that 337 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 2: I love too that I have Jonas, Pizza Girl and 338 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 2: Mass Singer for like my daughter and her friends were like, Okay, 339 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 2: well you're not going to watch The Valley. You know, 340 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 2: you do not need to go back and watch Vandawumbrules, 341 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 2: but you can watch Jonas, you can watch Mass Singer. 342 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: I actually want to watch that with Yazabella. I was like, 343 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 1: I didn't know this. What else do I not know about? 344 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 2: GINI did nine or two one zero back in the day. Really, 345 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 2: I was a featured extra on Entourage for years. 346 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 1: Like, wait, I've seen that show a million times. 347 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, So I used to work in the office. 348 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 2: When Ari in the later seasons moved into his new office, 349 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 2: I was at one of the desks, like every time 350 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 2: they shot there, I was one of the regular Oh 351 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 2: my got it. 352 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go home tonight and watch. 353 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 2: It on the first one I ever did was Vinnie 354 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 2: Chase's birthday party on the Queen Mary with all of 355 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 2: the Victoria's Secret model I just watched that up and 356 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 2: I'm right there in the background. 357 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 1: I really Oh oh, I got that say. 358 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 2: It was like one of my first regular side gigs. 359 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 2: When I first moved out here, I had an agent 360 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 2: who got me a model rate which was higher than SAG. 361 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 2: I got all of my SAG vouchers already, and I 362 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 2: got to just go and hang out with the boys 363 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 2: all of the time. Filmed an earth cafe like shops 364 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 2: on Sunset. 365 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 1: I always talk about that show because it literally is 366 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: all of la and I'm like, I've been there, I've 367 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: been there. I love it all. 368 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 2: I couldn't even tell you how many episodes I did, 369 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 2: but there's a lot. 370 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 1: Oh that's awesome. Yeah, Aaron and I actually just watched 371 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 1: the first episode of vander Pump Rules No way, Yeah, 372 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: why because I just I was like, you know what, 373 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: let's just watch an episode. I was like, I want 374 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 1: to watch an episode. I want to watch a reunion, 375 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 1: like I want to know more about my friends now, 376 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 1: Like why not? And so we watched it. I was like, 377 00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 1: oh my god, baby, Sheena. 378 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 2: My voice was so high back then, Like I genuinely 379 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 2: I went to the doctor last year because I worried. 380 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:08,719 Speaker 2: I'm like, why is my voice you know more rascal 381 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:13,880 Speaker 2: and you age and your voice does change. But whenever 382 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 2: I see a scene from an old episode, I'm like, wow, 383 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 2: my voice was really high back then. 384 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 1: So is it weird to watch yourself from season one? 385 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 2: It's weird because I don't remember a lot of it. 386 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 2: So when I watch something back like it will come 387 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 2: back to me and I'm like, oh my god, I 388 00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 2: remember that. But I genuinely don't like to go back 389 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 2: and watch old episodes because I'm say, you know, in 390 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 2: a good place with Stossy now, But then I watch 391 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 2: back the way that she was with me then, and 392 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 2: I'm just like, you know, I don't like having those 393 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:48,400 Speaker 2: memories about you, Like I like this version of Stossy, 394 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:51,400 Speaker 2: you know, like the mom who our kids will play 395 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 2: together and whatnot. And so I don't really enjoy going 396 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 2: back and watching nix it just like it brings up 397 00:17:57,640 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 2: old feelings and. 398 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:01,159 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, bad memories, a little. 399 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 2: Bit of past trauma and relationships that I'm like, Season 400 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:09,880 Speaker 2: six could just disappear from the face of the earth 401 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,199 Speaker 2: and I would not be sad. I never saw an 402 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:13,200 Speaker 2: episode from that season. 403 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: Should I or should I not watch? Watch? 404 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 2: It's really entertaining. 405 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:19,439 Speaker 1: Okay, I think I'm gonna we're gonna watch just do it? 406 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 2: Do it? Yeah? 407 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,439 Speaker 1: Right as well? Right like now or never? Let's do 408 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,919 Speaker 1: it now? Yeah, okay. And so I know that you 409 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 1: went through different relationships and obviously for me, I went 410 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: through a divorce in my first season. 411 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's wild. 412 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 1: It really is. Now that I look back, I'm like, 413 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 1: what was I thinking, Like, I don't even know. I 414 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 1: think I went into it just a little naive and 415 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 1: thought I could hide it and like it was gonna 416 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 1: be okay, And I thought I could just do that 417 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 1: after the fact of filming. But no, no, no, You've 418 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 1: got to show it all. Yeah, I got to show 419 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 1: it all and so now you know, obviously I've been 420 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 1: with Aaron for over a year, and so you might 421 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 1: see him pop in soon. And it's like, how did 422 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 1: you feel going through relationships on the show? 423 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 2: I feel like by I mean like the second, third, fourth, 424 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,439 Speaker 2: it was like it was kind of all I knew. 425 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 2: Once I joined the show. Shane and I had been 426 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:18,880 Speaker 2: together for a little over a year. We both decided 427 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 2: this was something we wanted to do together, and so 428 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:26,159 Speaker 2: I only know reality TV is starting in a relationship. 429 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 2: And then you know, we had five seasons together and 430 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 2: then I went straight into another relationship. Would not recommend 431 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 2: that to anyone. And then I had two single seasons, 432 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 2: and I thought that was going to be so fun. 433 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 2: I talk about this a bit in my book too, 434 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:44,399 Speaker 2: But when I was single, no one else was single, 435 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 2: so it wasn't so fun. It was actually quite lonely. 436 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:50,400 Speaker 2: And one of those seasons I was also freezing my eggs. 437 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 2: And so then we have what a year and a 438 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:57,880 Speaker 2: half off because of COVID, and we come back and 439 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 2: I have yet again a new boyfriend and a baby. 440 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 2: So I've really been through it all on this show 441 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 2: since I was like twenty six it's crazy that now 442 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,639 Speaker 2: there is a vander pump Roules season twelve. It's just 443 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 2: not following our lives anymore, especially myself, Katie and Sandoval, 444 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 2: who have been on every single episode since the beginning. 445 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 1: How do you feel about that? 446 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 2: Mixed feelings. I'm feeling excited for the new kids at Serta, 447 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:32,119 Speaker 2: you know, get their shot and their opportunities and all 448 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 2: of that, because I know what it did for all 449 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 2: of us. But at the same time, it's weird when 450 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 2: I've done that for so long and now I'm not. 451 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,960 Speaker 2: But I feel like the Valley is such a better 452 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:49,199 Speaker 2: fit and makes more sense. But it is weird that, 453 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 2: you know, this huge part of my life is over, 454 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 2: but it's not. It's just changing a little bit. And 455 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,200 Speaker 2: I felt like it was time to be honest. 456 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: And it seems like everybody was in a completely different path, 457 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: Like some people were getting divorced, some people were single, 458 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: some people have kids. Like, yeah, you guys didn't have 459 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:11,920 Speaker 1: as much in common anymore. 460 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it just was feeling a bit forced towards the end. 461 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 2: It's like, this isn't who I would go on a 462 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:18,680 Speaker 2: trip with, you know, But when you're filming a show, 463 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 2: Obviously you're not gonna go to Hawaii with your ex husband. 464 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:22,760 Speaker 2: But when you're filming a show, you go to Hawaii 465 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 2: with your ex husband. So what I it's it's yeah, 466 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 2: it's a crazy world that we're in. There's nothing normal 467 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 2: about it. You know, to just put your lives on 468 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:39,920 Speaker 2: camera and then it's like, okay, you lived your life, 469 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:41,680 Speaker 2: but oh no, no, now you go to watch it back. 470 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 2: Now you've got to have the whole world judge you. 471 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:47,200 Speaker 2: And it's even crazier now because when we started Instagram 472 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:52,360 Speaker 2: was just starting out. Twitter was already around, but that's 473 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 2: kind of nice it was, and so now it's so different, 474 00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 2: you know, where it's like you can't post anything without 475 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 2: a million people having opinions. The first few seasons, I 476 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,679 Speaker 2: miss the those days and when we actually all like 477 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,439 Speaker 2: had to work together to pay our bills. Like I 478 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 2: genuinely miss working at the restaurant. Sometimes. I know that 479 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:16,359 Speaker 2: sounds crazy, but sir felt like a family. It was 480 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 2: a really fun place to work. It was fun to 481 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 2: sneak our sangria and go hide it in the bathroom 482 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 2: and we were all pulling tips, so it was like 483 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 2: we were a team. 484 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 1: And that's what you do when you're in your twenties. 485 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 1: You're struggling back, you're trying to make it. 486 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 2: I remember some of the girls would smuggle rolls of 487 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,320 Speaker 2: toilet paper in their purse because they couldn't afford toilet 488 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:40,200 Speaker 2: paper at home. Like we were Baroke when the show 489 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:45,679 Speaker 2: started splitting like a five dollars foot long and stealing 490 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 2: toilet paper. And look at you, now, I didn't steal 491 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:48,720 Speaker 2: the toilet paper. 492 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 1: You have multiple houses. Yes, you bought a house a 493 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 1: year ago in the valley. 494 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 2: That you sold me. 495 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:58,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, you were And I say this, You're the 496 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 1: best client I've ever worked with. And I learn a 497 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: lot about people every day because I had to deal 498 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:07,400 Speaker 1: with them. And like, you're making such a big decision 499 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:10,400 Speaker 1: in your life to purchase the house, and so there 500 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:13,639 Speaker 1: can be a lot of emotions, but you were very 501 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 1: like clear decide, like this is what I like. Yeah, 502 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: you walked in and you fell in love. 503 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,479 Speaker 2: We just knew it. Like the first house that we 504 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 2: looked at from the outside esthetically was more my vibe. 505 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 2: I loved the backyard, the adu, the long driveway, all 506 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:31,880 Speaker 2: of that. I was like, this is what I pictured 507 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 2: my LA house to look like. But then when we 508 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 2: got inside, I'm like, this is kind of funky, Like 509 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 2: there was no actual laundry room, there was no pantry. 510 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 2: The rooms were really small and weird, and I'm like, 511 00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 2: but then there's this massive attic, which I loved. It 512 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 2: was so not la I'm like, wait, this is cool. 513 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 2: But the second we walked into my current house, you 514 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,440 Speaker 2: walked in first. I remember I was parking my car 515 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:55,919 Speaker 2: and you came out and you were just like the 516 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 2: bones of this house. Like you're like, you're you're gonna 517 00:23:58,600 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 2: love it. 518 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,719 Speaker 1: I mean, I fell in love with house, but I 519 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 1: like to get your opinion first, Like I don't want to, 520 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 1: you know, push you towards one way or the other. 521 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,479 Speaker 1: But I walked in, I was like, this is awesome. 522 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very similar set up to Britney's house. It's 523 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 2: kind of similar to what Katie and Schwartz's house used 524 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,680 Speaker 2: to be. And I always loved their houses. And right 525 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 2: when I walked in, it was just so open. I 526 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 2: loved how the staircase and all that, just like the 527 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 2: openness of it. Yes, but the thing that like sold 528 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 2: me right away where the plantation shutters. Because my house 529 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 2: that I had in San Diego had those and I 530 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 2: just loved that. And so right when I walked in, 531 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:41,199 Speaker 2: I was like, oh my gosh, every window has these. Yeah, 532 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 2: and the kitchen island, I still haven't done it yet. 533 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,199 Speaker 2: I haven't even done a house simaren party. I've lived 534 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 2: in there for over a. 535 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:48,919 Speaker 1: Year now, but you have pizza parties, have everything. 536 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 2: No, totally, but when I saw the kitchen island, I 537 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 2: was like, the shark hooterie we could do on this, 538 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,199 Speaker 2: which I still haven't done anything to do, but I 539 00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 2: love it. It's great, it's home. 540 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, you were incredible. You were It was like easy 541 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,919 Speaker 1: and smooth. What made you pick us as an agent? 542 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,720 Speaker 2: I love hanging out with you and you're one of 543 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 2: my favorite people. And I was like, look, if I'm 544 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 2: gonna be doing walk through inspections any of that, like, 545 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 2: I want it to be with someone who's energy I 546 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 2: really like. And so it was easy. And then I 547 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,520 Speaker 2: mean with you came Jresse, which whatever, but you know, 548 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 2: and I. 549 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,480 Speaker 1: Remember you were like I have a lot of agent friends, 550 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 1: but I want to work with you, and like I 551 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 1: really appreciate. 552 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I just love you. We hit it off 553 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 2: in Vegas. We've been close ever since, and I was like, 554 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 2: there's no one else I want to sell me my house. 555 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I've never had inspections where you're like, bring 556 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 1: Isabella and. 557 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, bring the kids. Yeah. 558 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 1: So we've really gotten close in the last couple years, 559 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 1: I think, especially because of the girls, right. 560 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean they're like exactly a year apart. But 561 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 2: Summer is so good with older girls, and she picks 562 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,159 Speaker 2: up from them and learns from them. And Isabella's so 563 00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 2: great with her. 564 00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, she always wanted it or she wants to baby sister, 565 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 1: so she likes little kids, and their energy together matches 566 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 1: really well. I mean they have their little moments for 567 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 1: a second, but overall they're really good. Yeah, they're with 568 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 1: each other. 569 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,479 Speaker 2: Four and five years old, all though they're going on 570 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:15,480 Speaker 2: fourteen and fifteen. 571 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 1: What I can't stop picturing, which I'm like, Shina, you 572 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: are so OCD. I didn't even know this about you. Yeah, 573 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 1: you have Summer's room and then you have a playroom 574 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: and it's perfect, and oh it's always immaculate, perfect. Yeah, 575 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 1: And I'm so confused because Isabella's I think more like me. 576 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:36,919 Speaker 1: I'm kind of messy. I have to work on it 577 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:40,440 Speaker 1: all the time, and she like she's done with the toy, 578 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 1: she just throws it and after thirty minutes in her room, 579 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 1: like he would have a heart attack to look at 580 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 1: what her room looks like. I'm trying to teach her, 581 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 1: but actually I love going to your house because I 582 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:54,959 Speaker 1: was like, this is how it's done, and you're actually 583 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,680 Speaker 1: like a positive role model and summer just like how 584 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,879 Speaker 1: you guys are, but you're in incredibly clean. 585 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:04,159 Speaker 2: Yeah. That was the thing with and nothing against this. 586 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 2: It's how I used to live in my condo. But 587 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,360 Speaker 2: buying a new house, I was like, I don't want 588 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,199 Speaker 2: to walk in the door and it to look like 589 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 2: a toddler lives here. Let's keep that stuff separate because 590 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 2: in my condo, which most people's houses are like this, 591 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:19,400 Speaker 2: you walk in, you've got like, you know, the playpen 592 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 2: or like the area for the toys. 593 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: And all of that, and with all the different colors, yes. 594 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 2: The primary colors, I can't so esthetically I'm like, okay, 595 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 2: I want a lot of white, which is crazy because 596 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 2: I have a black cat and a toddler. So yeah, 597 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:37,920 Speaker 2: I really just wanted it to look pretty and keep 598 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 2: all the stuff upstairs. And it worked out that right 599 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,880 Speaker 2: under our stairs, there's that little storage like nook room 600 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,240 Speaker 2: that we keep all of our stuff in there. That 601 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 2: room is a disaster. Just so you know, my mom 602 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 2: asked me today, she was like, have you cleaned up 603 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,959 Speaker 2: her butterfly room yet? And I was like, no, I 604 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 2: don't think so. I don't know. I haven't been in 605 00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:56,840 Speaker 2: there in the last few days. And she's like, Shina, 606 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, not a priority. 607 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,640 Speaker 1: So you're like this with everything or just your home. 608 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,359 Speaker 2: I try to be like it with everything. If you 609 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,000 Speaker 2: saw my car right now, it's an absolute disaster. 610 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:11,159 Speaker 1: Just so, speaking of the girls, I always smile at 611 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:14,160 Speaker 1: you because back then she was just like a lot 612 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,159 Speaker 1: of work for me and she didn't get a lot 613 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,640 Speaker 1: of sleep, and I was just tired all the time. 614 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:23,879 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm good with one kid, and I 615 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,360 Speaker 1: felt like you and I were always on that same. 616 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 2: Same one and done like, don't even try to convince me. 617 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,400 Speaker 1: And everybody else is like I'm on three four kids, 618 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 1: And we would just look at each other like that 619 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 1: seemed miserable, very hard. Yeah, yeah, but what about now? 620 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 2: So we have taken one baby step or I mean, honestly, 621 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 2: it's kind of a big step for me. But we 622 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,840 Speaker 2: got rock sperm tested, and we have He picked up 623 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 2: my frozen eggs last week from the old facility and 624 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 2: transported them to my doctor's new facility. Okay, that's as 625 00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 2: far as we've gotten, because I worry now that we've 626 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,840 Speaker 2: gotten his sperm tested and we found out that it's 627 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,680 Speaker 2: just like five star, top notch, best the doctor's ever seen. 628 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 1: It's a plus plus, so annoying. He'll get you pregnant 629 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: just looking at you. 630 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 2: He did twice, and so knowing that now, I worry 631 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 2: if we fertilize all sixteen eggs, what if we have 632 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 2: like three or more perfect embryos, I could potentially, in 633 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 2: a year or two be convinced to do twins, to 634 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 2: put two in a surrogate and see what happens. Okay, however, 635 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 2: if there are three or more, like, how am I 636 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 2: gonna pick one or two? If they're like, oh, there's 637 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 2: two boys and one girl or two girls one boy, 638 00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:45,480 Speaker 2: then I'm gonna pick one over the other. Like that's 639 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 2: where for me and my OCD, I'm like, I'm not 640 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 2: there yet mentally. So my doctor was like, how about 641 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,240 Speaker 2: we do this? We just do five eggs at a time, 642 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 2: He's like, obviously I would recommend doing them all at once, 643 00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,600 Speaker 2: but if you would feel better about that, what are 644 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 2: the chances that we even get more than one out 645 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 2: of five? You know, it's like some of them won't 646 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,680 Speaker 2: even survive the thin process. And then once you fertilize 647 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 2: genetically test all of that, if we go out of five, 648 00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 2: I think that's a better shot, and then maybe none 649 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 2: of those are good. Then we do the next five, 650 00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 2: and then we do the last six. 651 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 1: But okay, so I have a lot of eggs. 652 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 2: Sixteen, which honestly isn't a lot. I did two rounds 653 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 2: of egg freezing. I got nine the first time and 654 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 2: seven the second time. 655 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 1: You're teaching me because I don't know anything about this. 656 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 2: I didn't either until I did it, and then I 657 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 2: was literally getting ready to do a third round because 658 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 2: I just wanted to have as many as possible because 659 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 2: my AMH levels, which is like your hormone level, were 660 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 2: really low. So normally for my age at the time 661 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,200 Speaker 2: I think I was thirty two thirty three should have 662 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 2: been between one point four and four point two, and 663 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,960 Speaker 2: I was at zero point two six. Okay, so basically, 664 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 2: the chance of getting pregnant naturally was going to be 665 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 2: close to him. Pop possible, but not impossible because after 666 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 2: six seven months of not not trying, but after I 667 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,280 Speaker 2: met Brock and we're in the pandemic and you know, 668 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 2: there's not much else to do. Yeah, I got pregnant. 669 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 2: And the doctor told me it was probably from freezing 670 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 2: my egg twice the year before that. That kind of 671 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 2: woke up my. 672 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 1: Body, so you were surprised. 673 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 2: I was so shocked. I remembered the moment where Brock 674 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 2: was in San Diego at the gym. We're on FaceTime. 675 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 2: I'm in the bathroom and I was like, hold on, 676 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:31,920 Speaker 2: I'll be right back. I'm just gonna pee on this 677 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:33,960 Speaker 2: really quick. And he was like, what, you're being so 678 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 2: casual about this. I'm like, dude, I've peed on like 679 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 2: twenty of these in the past. It's never been I'm like, 680 00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,239 Speaker 2: just for my sanity, so I can like go have 681 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,400 Speaker 2: a white claw and smoke some weed. Like I'm just 682 00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:47,680 Speaker 2: gonna make sure. And so I do it. I pee 683 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 2: on it and I'm like staring at it. That's how 684 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:57,600 Speaker 2: you find literally, and he's like what and I'm like, uh, 685 00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,560 Speaker 2: oh my god. And it has like the two lines 686 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 2: or whatever it was, and I was just like, there's 687 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 2: there's no effine way, there's no way. I was in 688 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 2: pure shock because I didn't think that I could even 689 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 2: get pregnant, and I've never had a pregnant a positive 690 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 2: pregnancy test, and so I went back to the store 691 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 2: and like got a different brand, the one that says pregnant, 692 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,520 Speaker 2: not pregnant. So I'm like, maybe the lines are yeah, whatever, pregnant. 693 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 2: It's like, oh my god. Then the next day I 694 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:27,760 Speaker 2: make an appointment to go get my blood work done 695 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:29,960 Speaker 2: just to like make sure pregnant. 696 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 1: And then then you believed it. 697 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 2: Then I believed it, and then sadly, a few weeks later, 698 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 2: I have a miscarriage. So it was just so many 699 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 2: emotions where and hormones and everything where it's like I 700 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 2: didn't think I could get pregnant, then I'm pregnant, now 701 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 2: I'm not pregnant, and it just so quickly this all happened. 702 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 2: It didn't pass on its own, so I had to 703 00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:52,480 Speaker 2: have the DNC procedure, which was the most painful thing 704 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 2: I've ever gone to physically and emotionally. And after that, 705 00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 2: my doctor was like, you know, the best chance you're 706 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 2: going to have this procedure also wakes up your body 707 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 2: in a different way. He goes try again in one month, 708 00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 2: have one ovulation cycle, and then try again. And I'm like, 709 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 2: first of all, I've only known this guy for like 710 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 2: seven months. We're in a pandemic. Neither of us really 711 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 2: have a job right now, Like we should not be 712 00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 2: trying to actively have a baby. So I told Brock. 713 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:24,000 Speaker 2: I was like, you know, I was gonna freeze eggs. 714 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 2: We even that early in our relationship talked about making 715 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 2: embryos because I'm like, we already have my eggs, so 716 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 2: if things don't work out, then we don't use those. 717 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 2: And now I just feel differently about that too. But 718 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,840 Speaker 2: after I went through that, I told Brock when it 719 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 2: was that time I had just ovulated, I'm like, hey, 720 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 2: just so you know, this is the week, like we 721 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 2: either gotta be very careful don't have sex because it's 722 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,960 Speaker 2: very likely I could get pregnant. We had just moved 723 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:51,320 Speaker 2: into San Diego. We wake up, it's a beautiful day. 724 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 2: The waves are crashing, the sun is shining. We christen 725 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 2: the house. 726 00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:58,959 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm here, I'm in the moment. I 727 00:33:59,000 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 1: love this. 728 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,720 Speaker 2: It's beautiful day, and all of a sudden he was 729 00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 2: like wait. I was like, you just got me pregnant, 730 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 2: didn't you. And He's like no, there's no way. And 731 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, well let's just say you did. I'm 732 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 2: minutes pregnant. Let's go across the street to like our 733 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,799 Speaker 2: favorite sushi place. We had sushi, we had a couple 734 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,719 Speaker 2: of sake bombs. I took a hit a weed and 735 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,360 Speaker 2: I was like, now I'm just gonna pretend like I'm pregnant. 736 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:30,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna just tell myself that. And so then for 737 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 2: three weeks until I had the test that said pregnant again. 738 00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: If you were already in your mind, thatt Hour's pregnant, yes, 739 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 1: like you got me pregnant this you manifested this, by 740 00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:42,479 Speaker 1: the way. 741 00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,839 Speaker 2: Yeah. And we were getting ready a few weeks later 742 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 2: to go to Sedona for my sister's birthday, and I 743 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:52,120 Speaker 2: was like, I can't go until I know, because we're 744 00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,640 Speaker 2: gonna be off roading, we're gonna be mountain climbing, doing 745 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:56,680 Speaker 2: all of these things that I probably shouldn't do if 746 00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:00,200 Speaker 2: I'm pregnant. And the day before we left, I took 747 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,400 Speaker 2: a test and it was like as early as it 748 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 2: could be detected, and it said I was pregnant. Wow. 749 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 2: So it was just crazy because I was like I 750 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,880 Speaker 2: knew it that one time and from then on, but 751 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,480 Speaker 2: like those three weeks it was such a mindful because 752 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,280 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm treating my body as if I'm pregnant. 753 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 2: I'm not drinking, I'm not smoking, I'm not eating cheese, 754 00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 2: sushi anything. It was a couple hours after went and 755 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,239 Speaker 2: got the sushi and I'm like, there's no way, Like 756 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 2: I'm okay if it's a few hours. But I was 757 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:30,279 Speaker 2: so psychotic my entire pregnancy because COVID first of all, 758 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 2: but also just having a miscarriage. I was so afraid 759 00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:37,400 Speaker 2: of everything. I was afraid of everyone and everything. I'm like, 760 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 2: who my friends were hanging out with. I'm like, if 761 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:41,680 Speaker 2: you're gonna be hanging out with that person, then you're 762 00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 2: not coming this weekend, or you have to test before wow. 763 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 2: Because I was just worried that anything was gonna kill 764 00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:50,200 Speaker 2: my baby. I had to get on progesterone just to 765 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 2: have her survive because my levels were still not high enough. 766 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 1: I actually thought because my sister went through something very 767 00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,520 Speaker 1: similar and I watched her for you know a decade 768 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,400 Speaker 1: have so many issues that I actually thought like it 769 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:09,359 Speaker 1: would be very hard for me, but that luckily, like 770 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,719 Speaker 1: that was one of the easiest things I had to 771 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 1: go through. I feel like I've had so many difficult 772 00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:18,040 Speaker 1: teas in life, but like, actually getting pregnant was the 773 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 1: easiest thing. It was a one time try. Yeah, we 774 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,719 Speaker 1: were going on a trip to Italy and I was like, hey, 775 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 1: I think it's time. We've been married for almost a year, like, 776 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,120 Speaker 1: let's do it. We did it one time, and I 777 00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:32,560 Speaker 1: got pregnant boom. And I had no problems during my 778 00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 1: pregnancy and it was just like same, yeah, really good. 779 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:39,319 Speaker 1: Other than back pain, I didn't get sick, and I 780 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,439 Speaker 1: had We had a healthy baby, beautiful baby girl. 781 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:43,280 Speaker 2: She's perfect. 782 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, and so it's summer. 783 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,400 Speaker 2: The worst thing in my pregnancy, I just had acid reflux. 784 00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:49,799 Speaker 2: I had like really gnarly like I would wake up 785 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:51,080 Speaker 2: in the middle of the night and I'm like, oh, 786 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:52,320 Speaker 2: it was like right here. 787 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,759 Speaker 1: Especially when you're nine months pregnant. Yeah, yeah, but so 788 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:57,080 Speaker 1: you might do it again. 789 00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 2: I yes, I might have someone else carry the baby 790 00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:04,000 Speaker 2: for me, because now that I am turning forty, as 791 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,960 Speaker 2: we've said, I got help syndrome. After I had her 792 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,239 Speaker 2: like postpartum immediately they had to transfer me to the 793 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:13,200 Speaker 2: high risk I see. It was really scary, so a 794 00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,640 Speaker 2: high chance of miscarriage and help syndrome again if I 795 00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:18,400 Speaker 2: were to try and get pregnant in my forties, and 796 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:20,719 Speaker 2: I just don't want to take that chance. I don't 797 00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:23,720 Speaker 2: want to have to have a c section, deliver early, 798 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,360 Speaker 2: worry that the baby's lungs aren't fully developed, worry that 799 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,719 Speaker 2: I'm going to have another pregnancy loss. They are just 800 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,440 Speaker 2: too many things that could go wrong that I'm not 801 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,839 Speaker 2: willing to chance. So we would have to go a 802 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 2: surrogate route just to be extra safe. But it's crazy 803 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:45,760 Speaker 2: because in twenty eighteen, I did Hollywood Medium with Tyler 804 00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,799 Speaker 2: Henry and I was thinking about freezing my eggs around then, 805 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,800 Speaker 2: and anytime I had a psychic reading, I would always 806 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:55,799 Speaker 2: ask like, what do you see future love interest babies? Da, 807 00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 2: da da, And he said he saw me having a 808 00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:03,040 Speaker 2: child in an unconventional and I was like, that's crazy 809 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 2: you say that because I was thinking about freezing my 810 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,000 Speaker 2: eggs right now, and he was like, you should do that, 811 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,360 Speaker 2: and he's like, I don't know, like exactly what the 812 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,000 Speaker 2: path is. But that's just one thing I see, and 813 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:14,880 Speaker 2: who would know that. You know, I would have a 814 00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 2: natural pregnancy but then have to go an unconventional route 815 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:19,720 Speaker 2: the second round. 816 00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:21,960 Speaker 1: I'm a true believer in psychics. 817 00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, we talked about that. Yeah, I want 818 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 2: to set you up with one of mine. 819 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:30,359 Speaker 1: I would love that little more than anything. Yeah, especially now. Yes, 820 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:33,839 Speaker 1: I want to know so much about my future. I 821 00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:37,400 Speaker 1: am now open to the idea of having another child 822 00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 1: in the future, not now. It's not the time that 823 00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,799 Speaker 1: I feel like once everything settles totally and you were 824 00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,640 Speaker 1: one and done with him, I was, Yeah, I was. 825 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 1: I couldn't imagine. And he actually, Jesse really wanted a 826 00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,759 Speaker 1: second child, and he used to push me and push me, 827 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,120 Speaker 1: and at the same time we were fighting a lot. 828 00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 1: So my mom that was like her one advice. She 829 00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,840 Speaker 1: was like, do whatever you want to me. She's like, 830 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,719 Speaker 1: do not have a second child, and you like, just 831 00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 1: promise me that because he wants to trap you even 832 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,279 Speaker 1: more and it's going to be more difficult, So do 833 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 1: not have it until you guys are in a healthy, 834 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 1: better relationship. And so even though like at the time, 835 00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:19,520 Speaker 1: I wanted Isabella to have a sibling. I just didn't 836 00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:22,279 Speaker 1: feel that it was the right time for me or 837 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 1: with the right person again, which sounds odd to say, but. 838 00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:30,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you knew, and thankfully you didn't have another 839 00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,280 Speaker 2: with him, you know, And now you can have another 840 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:33,800 Speaker 2: with the right person. 841 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 1: I know. I'm so excited, and I don't. 842 00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,840 Speaker 2: Mind a big gap, to be honest. My sister and 843 00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:41,840 Speaker 2: are twelve years apart, and we're so close. 844 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,200 Speaker 1: I it's funny because my brother's twelve years older and 845 00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,319 Speaker 1: my sister is nine years older, and I love it 846 00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:51,040 Speaker 1: and I'm so close to them. But like, even now, 847 00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:54,279 Speaker 1: I just worry about Isabella because she wants to play 848 00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:56,760 Speaker 1: with somebody now. But it isn't a big deal. 849 00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:58,440 Speaker 2: Over to play with summer. You have friends. 850 00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:00,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, it isn't a big deal all. Yeah, And I 851 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:05,000 Speaker 1: think it'll be easier for me because she'll be however old, 852 00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 1: seventy eighty nine. She can help me. 853 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:08,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. 854 00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:09,440 Speaker 1: I'm excited about it. 855 00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, Holy try and plan it around the same time. 856 00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,680 Speaker 1: Imagine. I would love that, right, And I don't see 857 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:18,080 Speaker 1: anything wrong with having a how do you call it surrogate? Yeah, 858 00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:20,759 Speaker 1: not at all, especially if you have health issues. I 859 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,319 Speaker 1: know a lot of people who've done that, and I 860 00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:33,080 Speaker 1: think that's amazing, like having children, totally funny. I just 861 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:37,880 Speaker 1: saw an interesting article about Seth Rogan and he was 862 00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:42,000 Speaker 1: in the studio with his co star Catherine Hahn, and 863 00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 1: he was talking about how much he loves vander Pump Rules, 864 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:50,480 Speaker 1: and he was saying he really emphasizes with Sheena the most. 865 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 1: I think out of everyone on the show, Sina's made 866 00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 1: some bad mistakes over the years. She's chosen the wrong 867 00:40:56,680 --> 00:41:00,600 Speaker 1: guy a number of times. She just had things publicly 868 00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 1: perhaps she shouldn't have said. She's maybe said some things 869 00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:07,759 Speaker 1: about her friends that she wishes she could take back publicly. 870 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:11,520 Speaker 1: I do think ultimately Sheena's heart is in the right place, 871 00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:13,680 Speaker 1: and that is out of all of the people on 872 00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:17,160 Speaker 1: the show, something to be said. And so I like Sheena, 873 00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,400 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Lady Gaga and Seth Brogan, Oh my god, 874 00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:22,600 Speaker 1: I'm on, that's amazing. 875 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 2: You know what's so funny is the other day on Saturday, 876 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:28,640 Speaker 2: I was at PINNs the bowling Alley, Yeah, and we 877 00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:31,640 Speaker 2: were there for a school birthday party and this woman, 878 00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:33,680 Speaker 2: oh my god, I can't even remember her name, she 879 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,759 Speaker 2: comes up to me in the arcade and she's one 880 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 2: of Seth's best friends, and she tried to FaceTime his 881 00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:42,160 Speaker 2: wife because she's like, oh my god, I want to 882 00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:44,640 Speaker 2: surprise him with you. And then I was like, well, 883 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,319 Speaker 2: I'll be here for a while, so if you get 884 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:47,960 Speaker 2: a hold of them, like come back and find me. 885 00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:49,160 Speaker 2: And she never did. 886 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:53,279 Speaker 1: That's amazing. Yeah, how does that feel to have like 887 00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:57,600 Speaker 1: Lady Gaga and a lister want to hang out with 888 00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:00,000 Speaker 1: you and is so excited to be with you. 889 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:03,399 Speaker 2: Still can't get over it, to be honest, like, I'm 890 00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:04,120 Speaker 2: so excited. 891 00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 1: I can't get o'bella. I cannot believe that. 892 00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:10,319 Speaker 2: No, So Seth I met, Oh my gosh, when was this? 893 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:12,280 Speaker 2: It was probably ten years ago. It was like twenty fifteen. 894 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:15,839 Speaker 2: I think we did a little spoof thing together. It 895 00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:17,920 Speaker 2: was vander pump Rules Meets the Night Before. It was 896 00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:21,000 Speaker 2: a movie that he did then, and there were four 897 00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:22,960 Speaker 2: of the cast members who came as if they were 898 00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,360 Speaker 2: going to like apply it, sir, and we filmed this 899 00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,960 Speaker 2: whole thing. It was me, JACKX, Kristen and Peter and 900 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:31,799 Speaker 2: then the forecast from the movie. And there's a part 901 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 2: where Seth and I are literally singing the theme song together, 902 00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:39,920 Speaker 2: like as a ballad. Oh, it was so fun, Like 903 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,239 Speaker 2: I will just go back and watch that randomly. That 904 00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:46,040 Speaker 2: was one of the most amazing things that I've ever done. 905 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,600 Speaker 2: That had to do with vandr Pump Rules because Seth 906 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 2: Rogan has been one of my favorites forever. It's so 907 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,680 Speaker 2: funny and to get to act with him, but as 908 00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 2: myself it was so fun so the fact that he 909 00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:01,399 Speaker 2: said that I got to hit him up get into 910 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:02,400 Speaker 2: some Shnanians do. 911 00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, let's ask you some questions. If you could trade 912 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 1: lives with any other celebrity for a day, who would 913 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:09,400 Speaker 1: it be. 914 00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 2: Ooh, I would love to get into a Kardashian life 915 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:21,280 Speaker 2: for a day. I think Chloe Kardashian. Honestly, She's someone 916 00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:26,200 Speaker 2: I want to start modeling my life around. Like, what's 917 00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:29,880 Speaker 2: the word I'm looking for. I would say Chloe Kardashian 918 00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:33,920 Speaker 2: because she gets up at like four or five am 919 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:38,040 Speaker 2: every day, works out, makes her kids lunch, takes them 920 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,640 Speaker 2: to school, still is a boss ass bitch, has a podcast, 921 00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:45,440 Speaker 2: like does all of the things. But I just I 922 00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:49,120 Speaker 2: love her work ethic and her commitment, and I feel 923 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:50,759 Speaker 2: like I need more of that in my life. So 924 00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:54,960 Speaker 2: I kind of want to go into summer's next school year, 925 00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,239 Speaker 2: modeling it around, like what would Chloe, do you know? 926 00:43:58,280 --> 00:43:59,960 Speaker 2: I want to get up early. I want to start 927 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:03,240 Speaker 2: are working out at the beginning of my day because 928 00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:06,600 Speaker 2: once it's noon one, two pm, it's like I still 929 00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:09,200 Speaker 2: have to work out and it's so hard, whereas if 930 00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:10,880 Speaker 2: you just do it right when you wake up. So 931 00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 2: I think I would like to be in her shoes 932 00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 2: for a day to see, like, how the f do 933 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:19,160 Speaker 2: you actually do that? Because it's incredible. 934 00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,839 Speaker 1: Okay, so let's just say, hey, Chloe Kardashian, if you're 935 00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 1: hearing this, let's hang out. Yes, As a mom with 936 00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,600 Speaker 1: a busy schedule, what are your go to self care 937 00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:31,160 Speaker 1: routines to keep your mental health in check? 938 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:36,160 Speaker 2: Ooh, go to? I do love getting a facial me too. 939 00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,560 Speaker 2: Our girl Kayla is incredible. So that's definitely a self 940 00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:40,400 Speaker 2: care thing I like to do. 941 00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:42,680 Speaker 1: I did one yesterday. Yeah, I really need it. 942 00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:43,399 Speaker 2: Looks so good. 943 00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:45,880 Speaker 1: Thank you. It's like two things in one. It's like 944 00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,120 Speaker 1: I get really nice skin and it's like very good 945 00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:49,040 Speaker 1: for my mental health. 946 00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,520 Speaker 2: Yes, and every time I go to Palm Springs, I 947 00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:53,880 Speaker 2: have this incredible person who comes over to give me 948 00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:57,040 Speaker 2: a massage. She stretches me out, and that's just like. 949 00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:00,560 Speaker 1: And I have somebody that always comes to my my house, 950 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,040 Speaker 1: and I'm like, it's perfect. I get a massage right 951 00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:07,319 Speaker 1: before Ben and it's just so relaxing. Yeah, we're very 952 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:08,800 Speaker 1: spaw girls, I know, totally. 953 00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,000 Speaker 2: Really, that's what I'm thinking. I wanted, like, if we'll 954 00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:12,719 Speaker 2: do a party on my actual birthday and then a 955 00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:14,759 Speaker 2: spa day the next day to just with a. 956 00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:18,960 Speaker 1: Psychic Yes, ooh wait, I love that me too. 957 00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,160 Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good one. 958 00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:24,680 Speaker 1: I've been hearing and reading a lot about Lisa vander 959 00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:29,080 Speaker 1: Pump recently expressing how you know, she doesn't talk to 960 00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:32,920 Speaker 1: everybody in the cast, and some people should be grateful 961 00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:37,360 Speaker 1: for her because she created a lot of people's careers 962 00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:38,040 Speaker 1: and whatnot. 963 00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:41,000 Speaker 2: I think a lot of us had careers, we were 964 00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:45,319 Speaker 2: already on the path to achieving. But also I think 965 00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:48,320 Speaker 2: it's a two way street, you know. I mean, vander 966 00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:51,719 Speaker 2: Pump Rules was so successful not just because of Lisa Vanderpump. 967 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:55,680 Speaker 2: It was because of an incredible cast from the first 968 00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:59,440 Speaker 2: season who people really resonated with and wanted to follow 969 00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:04,360 Speaker 2: our journey. So, I mean, I'm incredibly grateful to Bravo, 970 00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:08,200 Speaker 2: you know, for giving me this opportunity and for seeing 971 00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:11,759 Speaker 2: something in me for eleven seasons as a story to tell, 972 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:15,200 Speaker 2: and now that story continuing on the Valley. I will 973 00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:16,840 Speaker 2: always be grateful to the network. 974 00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:22,280 Speaker 1: Said, Yeah, well, I'm very excited because season two airs 975 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:22,719 Speaker 1: in just. 976 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:26,160 Speaker 2: A couple of days. Oh my gosh, I'm so excited. 977 00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:29,920 Speaker 2: I'm bummed that I wasn't around the first couple of 978 00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:33,840 Speaker 2: weeks because I was traveling and I missed some really 979 00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,760 Speaker 2: fun parties. But I'm like, I can't wait to watch. 980 00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:38,840 Speaker 1: But I literally had to call you and text you 981 00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:42,200 Speaker 1: all the time. I'm like, this happened, and this happened, 982 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:45,720 Speaker 1: and yeah again, You've just been like so supportive, especially 983 00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:50,080 Speaker 1: because like this is kind of new to me, and 984 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,880 Speaker 1: just I was dealing with a lot and I feel 985 00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:58,480 Speaker 1: like having that support. Dealing with you know, different personalities 986 00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:02,200 Speaker 1: and difficult people can be very stressful at times, and 987 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:06,480 Speaker 1: just to have you by my side has been amazing. 988 00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I love you. I ride or die for you. 989 00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:12,840 Speaker 2: I am always Team Michelle and no one can change that. 990 00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:14,239 Speaker 1: Oh I love you too. 991 00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:15,120 Speaker 2: I love you. Thanks