1 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:19,920 Speaker 1: We had so much to catch up on with our 2 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: friend Kelly Rizzo, and we decided to break our conversation 3 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 1: up into two parts. 4 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 2: She is an actress, a host, an. 5 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: Executive producer, and of course, the wife of our beloved 6 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: Bob Saggitt. What did your family think when you told them, Hey, 7 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:37,200 Speaker 1: by the way, I'm dating Bob Saggat from Full House. Well, 8 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 1: I'm dying to know what's their react? What was their reaction? 9 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? 10 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 4: At first, I mean, in the very beginning, they were 11 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:46,240 Speaker 4: a little hesitant because, you know, just of the age difference, 12 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 4: because and I'll say this here, I don't know if 13 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,159 Speaker 4: I'm sure you guys know this, but it's such an 14 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 4: interesting fact to me that Bob and I, John and 15 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 4: Caitlin and Dave and mel are all exactly twenty three 16 00:00:59,120 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 4: years old. 17 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 2: I never put that together. 18 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 5: Wow, I never realized that. 19 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 4: So weird is that twenty three? You know, each each 20 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 4: has a wife that was exactly three years younger, huh, 21 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 4: which is crazy. So anyway, but at the time that sounded, 22 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 4: you know, that age gap sounded a little intense. 23 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,559 Speaker 5: And yeah, I mean, yeah, yeah, I don't think. 24 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:23,320 Speaker 4: I mean, maybe for half a second they had an 25 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 4: issue with like, oh, I hear he's a dirty comedian. 26 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 4: You know. Then once they met him and they got 27 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 4: to know him, were enamored by him, and just my 28 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 4: family fell in love with him, you know, very hard 29 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 4: and very quickly, and just were his biggest fans. And 30 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:42,119 Speaker 4: I mean my mom was just like oh, like she 31 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 4: she knew Bob news like before I knew it. Like 32 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 4: she'd be like, oh, I hear he has a new 33 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 4: show coming up and he's on tour. He just announced this. 34 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 4: I'm like, how did you I didn't even know that. 35 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 4: How did you know that? 36 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 3: Mom? Right? 37 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 4: Just you know, every day was on top of all 38 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 4: everything that he was up to. So they adored him 39 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 4: from I would say, very are you soon into it? 40 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 4: Maybe like within the first month they're like, all right, 41 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 4: We're on board. 42 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 2: So sweet. 43 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 4: I know. 44 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 3: One of the things you guys loved to do was 45 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 3: travel together. I would love to know where your favorite 46 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 3: place to travel together was. 47 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 4: We well, definitely our favorite place that was more of 48 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 4: like a romantic y kind of destination that was his 49 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 4: freak was for sure was Cabo Okay, because that's where 50 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 4: we would go where he would get to lie on 51 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 4: the beach and smoke a cigar and relax right and 52 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 4: away from it all. It wasn't a long flight, which 53 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 4: was nice, two hours barely and we would go to 54 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 4: you know, his favorite hotel and we would just get 55 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 4: a nice room and he would just relax and just decompress, 56 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 4: and we would eat all of the amazing food and 57 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 4: have all the margaritas and drink really good tequila and 58 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 4: it was just his absolute happy place. We went to 59 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 4: Kabo a bunch, but you know, we would go for 60 00:02:55,440 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 4: New Year's and he just loved be on the beach 61 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 4: with his cigar and you know, ordering fish tacos and yeah, 62 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 4: having you know, a margarita on the beach, and it 63 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:10,519 Speaker 4: was just unlucky. 64 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: He needed that, Like, he didn't relax very often, so 65 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: he needed a to decompress like that. 66 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, But then we would also have we would 67 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:19,519 Speaker 4: go to Vegas a lot too. And you know a 68 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 4: lot of people didn't understand that Bob, even when he 69 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 4: was sixty sixty plus, Like he he'd be the one 70 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 4: that like, let's go to a show and then let's 71 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 4: go to spancy dinner, and let's go to a nightclub 72 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 4: and get a bottle of champagne out at a nightclub 73 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 4: and then he'd end up in the DJ booth with 74 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 4: like tea pain or something, and you know, I'm like, 75 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 4: who is this guy? Like how does he have more 76 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 4: energy than I do? 77 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 3: You know? 78 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 4: Yeah? And I'm like, how is he the one wanting 79 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 4: to stay out and party all night? And I'm like, 80 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 4: it's midnight, we go home, you know, right? 81 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I'm done now, yea. 82 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. He was not your typical, you know, sixty year old. 83 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 3: No. 84 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 5: He Bob loved life. He really every little bit of it. 85 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 5: He wanted to try it and experience. 86 00:03:58,320 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, and. 87 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 5: I always love that about it. 88 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 4: As we found out, you know, life is short and 89 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 4: you got to live it to its fullest. And that's 90 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 4: the one, well not the one, but like one big 91 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 4: thing that you know, I've learned from this and why 92 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 4: I feel at peace was that he lived so much. 93 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,239 Speaker 4: He lived a thousand lifetimes in his sixty years. 94 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: I can't believe we're coming up on the two year 95 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:27,919 Speaker 1: anniversary in a few weeks. What is this time of 96 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 1: year like for you or do you feel that weird 97 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 1: like anticipation of that date or do you struggle? Do 98 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: you just kind of stay busy and put it out 99 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: of your mind, what's in your head space right now. 100 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 4: We'll keep in mind this year, the two year anniversary 101 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 4: is going to be very different than the one year. 102 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 4: You know, the one year was really really hard because 103 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:50,159 Speaker 4: when you get to that year mark of being like, oh, 104 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 4: now it's been a whole year that he hasn't been 105 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:55,359 Speaker 4: in like when you write because he passed January twenty 106 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 4: twenty two and we got to twenty two, I'm like, oh, 107 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 4: here's a year that, yeah, we see him, you know 108 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 4: what I mean. And obviously two years you've processed a 109 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 4: lot and you've gone through a lot. It's you know, 110 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 4: you're in a much better place. 111 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 5: Than you one the time heals everything right. 112 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 4: And the twelve month mark was very different than the 113 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 4: six month mark. It's a three month mark, so it 114 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:24,119 Speaker 4: was very very The one year mark was really really 115 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 4: gut wrenching and very difficult. 116 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 3: You know. 117 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 4: I've gone to visit him a bunch, which is nice, 118 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 4: and I think I did either on the anniversary or 119 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 4: within a day or two last year, and I'll do 120 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 4: the same this year. But yeah, it's I think this 121 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 4: this year will be definitely easier. But it's you know 122 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 4: that January ninth, as well as you know, his birthday 123 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 4: or just two days that are just very weird. But yeah, 124 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 4: you know, each one's always going to get a little 125 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 4: bit easier and a little bit different. You have a 126 00:05:59,000 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 4: different perspective. 127 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 2: I think you just get more used to this new 128 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 2: normal too. 129 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: I don't know if it I don't know if it 130 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 1: ever gets easier, but you just kind of get used 131 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:07,280 Speaker 1: to it. 132 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 2: I don't, I don't know. 133 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: That's how I feel anyways, when I process my own 134 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: grief around Bob. 135 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 3: Sort of the acute, the acute grief of it turns 136 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 3: into and a grief that always exists, but maybe it 137 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 3: doesn't stab quite the same way. 138 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I it's interesting. I can easily when I go 139 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 4: back to that day, you know, and Jodie, like you 140 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 4: were there within like that first hour. Pretty much like 141 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 4: when I go back to that day, I can easily 142 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 4: feel just as much pain and you know, torment and 143 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 4: trauma as I did two years ago. So I can 144 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 4: be easily transported back to that really like got wrenching, 145 00:06:55,040 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 4: horrific time, but normal day, like you know, during my 146 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 4: normal life. Whatever. It's you know, obviously much better and 147 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 4: much easier now than it was two years ago. But 148 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 4: I'm at a place now where I can, for the 149 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 4: most part, like look at a picture, watch a video 150 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 4: and smile and have like happy primories of it and 151 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 4: like actually enjoy that versus you know, those first let's say, 152 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 4: six months, I would do it all. I never shied 153 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 4: away from it. I always would still watch the videos 154 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 4: and look at the pictures and always. 155 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 5: Relive the feelings. 156 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 4: But it was really really, really really hard, like you 157 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 4: couldn't do it without sobbing uncontrollably. I still did it, 158 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 4: But now I can do it and smile and laugh 159 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 4: and enjoy it more. But still Like the other day, 160 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 4: I UH was watching one of his podcasts with Rabbi Leader, 161 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 4: who you know did his uh his funeral, and he 162 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 4: had had him on his podcast one year to the 163 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 4: day before he passed, which was kind of interesting. 164 00:07:59,000 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 5: Wow, and. 165 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 4: The way he was signing off with him, he was like, 166 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 4: I love you. You know, you always got to tell 167 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,119 Speaker 4: people you love them. And then he was also talking 168 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 4: about grief, and it's so interesting to hear Bob give 169 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 4: advice on how to help people grieve because he was 170 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 4: such a professional at that. But then looking back, right, 171 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 4: so weird to hear him talk about grief, like in 172 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 4: the moment, and. 173 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 5: And he had I mean, Bob had a lot of grief. 174 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 4: A lot of you know, watch so much death in 175 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 4: his life. And yeah, but looking back to hear him talk, 176 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 4: I remember, I just I watched this podcast. I didn't 177 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:38,199 Speaker 4: think it was going to make me lose it, but 178 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 4: I just I just lost it. And I just started, 179 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 4: this was just a few days ago, just started, you know, 180 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 4: bawling uncontrollably. Because certain things, you know, like you can 181 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 4: be a moment, like be a little disconnected from it, 182 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,679 Speaker 4: and then certain things just like bring you right back. Yeah, 183 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 4: it never really you know, you can go back to 184 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 4: that moment at any time. 185 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 3: What I learned from Bob a big lesson about grief 186 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 3: is that you can laugh in the midst of grief, 187 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:07,680 Speaker 3: and you can find connection and joy in the midst 188 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 3: of grief, and that that's okay. Yeah, you know, I 189 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 3: remember I watched him go through all everything with his sisters, 190 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 3: and you know, I just I just all that was 191 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 3: something that really stuck with me because I think, like 192 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 3: my family was, grief was a little more like a 193 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 3: sort of sacrisanct, you didn't, you know, And and grief 194 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 3: to me was something I had. I was like, there's 195 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 3: there's a different way I have to process this, and 196 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 3: watching him, like I always, you know, I always think 197 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 3: now when I make an inappropriate joke at a really 198 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 3: terrible time, that it's the best way I know how 199 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:53,319 Speaker 3: to cope with things, and that I remember watching him 200 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 3: do that and it was like okay, and. 201 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:57,359 Speaker 4: That Bob would be sanctioning it because. 202 00:09:57,320 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 3: He well, for sure, and I'm pretty sure I was 203 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 3: making in appropriate jokes from the get go, and because 204 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 3: I was like, if someone's gonna have to make. 205 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 5: A really bad joke, im, I'll volunteers tribute. 206 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 4: So we all learned that from him, you know. I 207 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 4: remember when I first met him and he would make 208 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 4: certain jokes, even about his sister. I was like, how 209 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 4: can you see it? And then when you start to learn, 210 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 4: you're like, oh, that's a coping mechanism and actually it's 211 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 4: okay to laugh. 212 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeahes that are dark, Yeah, yeah, it takes the 213 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 3: air out of it a little bit. And so I 214 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 3: mean that was so much of what Bob did and 215 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 3: being around, you know, at the time of his passing. Yeah, 216 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 3: I remember walking up the driveway and I think John 217 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 3: Mayer was the first person I saw and hugged, and 218 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 3: you know, everybody was there, but seeing so many of 219 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 3: his comedian friends also using humor and telling those funny 220 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:56,440 Speaker 3: stories and things, I just like, I think all of 221 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 3: our biggest regret was like, oh. 222 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, Bob would love to see this. 223 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, he would love to see all of the attention 224 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 3: he's getting and all the funny stories and the you know. 225 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank God for all the comedian friends. I mean, 226 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 4: that was such I mean, I can't imagine having gone 227 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 4: through that and not have the support of all these 228 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 4: people who even I mean not only just because they 229 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 4: would make the jokes and bring some levity. 230 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 5: To the situation, but just beloved him. 231 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 4: That community is just so tight and they just loved 232 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 4: him so much, you know. 233 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 5: So yeah, it was a it was a beautiful thing 234 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 5: to watch. 235 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 2: Really, Kelly. One of the things I appreciate most about you. 236 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: I don't know if I've ever told you this, but 237 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 1: throughout the last two years, including like immediately after Bob passed, 238 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 1: and I would text you, you are so giving to us, 239 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: like you'd be anytime I'd be like checking in on you, like, Kelly, 240 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:54,439 Speaker 1: are you okay? Like what's going you know, You're like, 241 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,560 Speaker 1: you would immediately turn the conversation back to me and 242 00:11:56,600 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: talk to me about how much Bob loved me and 243 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:02,320 Speaker 1: how much I meant to him, And like for you 244 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 1: to be able to do that in the days following 245 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 1: his passing and then throughout the last two years, like 246 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: that's just extraordinarily giving to be able to put your 247 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: own grief aside and focus on us and our grief. 248 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: It's just I feel like Bob is speaking through you. 249 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 1: It's just been a beautiful gift to me. So thank 250 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 1: you for that. 251 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:28,199 Speaker 4: Thank you for saying that, because to me, that was 252 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 4: always from day one. I remember that day I realized, 253 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 4: even and like the worst day of my entire life, 254 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:43,199 Speaker 4: that somehow that felt really. I mean, I remember when 255 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 4: people showed up at the house on January ninth, the 256 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 4: first thing I wanted to say was like, he loved 257 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 4: you so much, And for some reason, it was like 258 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 4: it brought some sort of peace, joy, I mean something. 259 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 4: It just felt. It was very feeling to me to 260 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 4: be able to say that because I knew that that 261 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 4: was true, and I would be like, and he wasn't 262 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 4: here to say it, and so I'm like, I'm if 263 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:12,199 Speaker 4: I can at least pass on that message for him, 264 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 4: like I knew it, as you said, like he was 265 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 4: almost saying it through me. And to this day when 266 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:22,959 Speaker 4: I see people who I knew he loved or appreciated 267 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 4: their work or like whatever it was, it makes me 268 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 4: so happy to say that. I remember I saw the 269 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 4: other day, like I was at Norman Lee or Shiva, 270 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 4: and I saw an actor that I knew Bob loved 271 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:35,959 Speaker 4: and I'd never met him before, but I knew that 272 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:37,680 Speaker 4: Bob thought he was really funny and loved his work. 273 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 4: And I told him, I said, by the way, Bob 274 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 4: loved you and thought you were hilarious, and he was like, oh, 275 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 4: thank you so much for telling me. Like that means 276 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 4: so much. And just to you know, see people's reaction 277 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 4: when they found out that Bob Saget loved them, right, 278 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 4: you know, it was a very special thing. And to 279 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,679 Speaker 4: be able to kind of be that conduit just you know, 280 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 4: has brought me a lot of kind of peace and 281 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 4: joy amidst the smorrow. So thank you Andrewa for saying that, 282 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 4: because from day one, that's just always has been very 283 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 4: something that I knew I feel very compelled to do. 284 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:17,079 Speaker 4: But it also I know would make him like there 285 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 4: have been times where I remember one time and you know, sorry, 286 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 4: this is Bob like to drop, you know, be name 287 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 4: dropping too, but okay's work. And I saw like Keenan 288 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 4: Thompson and I and I felt this like weird compul 289 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 4: I'm like, I have to go tell him that Bob 290 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 4: loved him because Bob right, I was like, I have 291 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 4: to do it. I literally heard Bob and I had 292 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 4: like get up and go to him, and I did it, 293 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 4: and he was like, oh, oh my god, thank you 294 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 4: for saying that, you know, And because when I get 295 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 4: that reaction, like, how can I not keep telling people? 296 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 3: Right? 297 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 5: So well? 298 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 3: And Bob was the person who always told everybody how 299 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 3: much he loved him, and he was the one that 300 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 3: would go and be like, I love what you did. 301 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 3: You're just great, like so complimentary and always so genuine. 302 00:14:56,480 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 3: So I yeah, you're just carrying on his legacy of 303 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 3: keeping that going. 304 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 4: What a blessing to even be able to attempt to 305 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 4: do that, you know, so thank you. 306 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 2: You know. 307 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 3: When Norman Lee are passed recently, one of my first 308 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 3: thoughts was that he and Bob are sharing cigar and 309 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 3: playing poker or something. 310 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 4: Scotch, fancy food and a vodka martini and yeah, I'm 311 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 4: doing that together. 312 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 5: Indeed, Oh man, such a walk down memory lane. 313 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 4: I know. 314 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 1: So, Kelly, you've started a new podcast, which, by the way, 315 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 1: is now my new favorite podcast called comfort Food, and 316 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 1: it's all about grief and talking to people who have 317 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 1: been through it, and I want to hear more about it. 318 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 1: But I just have to tell you this is such 319 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: a great podcast. It's so cathartic to listen to people 320 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 1: talk so openly and honestly about their grief process because 321 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: it's something people don't talk about so openly and honestly. 322 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: So I'm loving it. 323 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 5: And we so should. It's so important, this. 324 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 4: Strangely taboo thing. And so I was like, how can 325 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 4: I make it more approachable? Because I'm no expert by 326 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 4: any means, but like, how can I make it more 327 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 4: approachable and a little bit lighter, you know, to talk 328 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 4: about these things? And so, you know, I'm having on 329 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 4: wonderful people, and I cannot wait to have both of 330 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 4: you on, of course, because you have been both have 331 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 4: been through this, and I mean, I know you both 332 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 4: have such unique and interesting stories that people can learn 333 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 4: from of what you each have gone through. And it's 334 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 4: not just grief, I mean, because I know you both 335 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 4: experienced that, but just difficult times in general. I mean, 336 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 4: some people have, you know, whether it's a divorce or 337 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 4: a loss of a loved one or some sort of 338 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 4: you know, addiction or like something that people have overcome 339 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 4: that while they're talking about this is difficult time in 340 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 4: their life, we're eating my guests favorite comfort food, so 341 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 4: you know, we're eating their favorite comfort food to make 342 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 4: this conversation a little bit more happy, a little bit 343 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 4: more light, and to help people who have been through 344 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 4: that type of thing. So you know, it's a lot 345 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:09,399 Speaker 4: of them are comedians that I'm having on and some 346 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 4: people are people who like, for instance, I had Jojo 347 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 4: Siwa on on her episode so Soon, and she's twenty 348 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 4: years old. People are like, what has she gone through? 349 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 4: It's like she has still been through some difficult things 350 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 4: that the way she's processed it people can learn from 351 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,400 Speaker 4: even though she's only twenty, you know. So and then 352 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 4: whether it's you know John Stamos or John Mayer or 353 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 4: you know Katie Kuric who lost her husband at the 354 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 4: same age that I was, I mean, everyone has such 355 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:38,120 Speaker 4: an interesting perspective, and I just want to have these 356 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:43,679 Speaker 4: conversations with people that it's not like doom and gloom 357 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 4: and yeah bad, But how can we make it? You know, 358 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 4: how do we talk about it more? 359 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:49,640 Speaker 5: How do we I just had Jeff. 360 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:53,919 Speaker 4: Ross on and he loved Jeff, he said, I mean, 361 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 4: he's the best. And of course his comfort food his 362 00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:59,119 Speaker 4: episode hasn't come out yet, but his comfort food was 363 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 4: a b fribs and pastrami, because that's what he loved 364 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 4: you with, Bob and. 365 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, after I was going to say, it's something from 366 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 3: a deli, yeah. 367 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 4: He said, he goes. You know, I thought that was 368 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 4: going to be sad, but it was really happy and 369 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 4: really fun and it was actually fun. So I hope 370 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 4: that that's what this can do. So, Andrew, I thank 371 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 4: you for saying that it's your new favorite. That means 372 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 4: so much, But it is. 373 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 2: I can't wait every Sunday night, I'm like, Oh, who's 374 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 2: on next? I can't wait to see your upcoming guests 375 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 2: because it's always just a wonderful bright spot in my week. 376 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 4: What a what a compliment. But yeah, so you can. 377 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 3: Let your audience know that you guys will Yes, yes, 378 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 3: I can't wait I'm looking for that reminds me I 379 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:40,400 Speaker 3: need to text. 380 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:41,719 Speaker 5: You back, and I figure that day. 381 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:44,879 Speaker 4: Both have such incredible stories that can really you know 382 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 4: that you probably don't get an opportunity to talk about 383 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:51,120 Speaker 4: that side of things very often, especially in a way 384 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 4: that's not going to be a freaking bummer. 385 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,360 Speaker 2: Right right, and you you handle that balance. 386 00:18:56,400 --> 00:19:00,200 Speaker 1: You strike that balance so well between getting deep into 387 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:03,960 Speaker 1: a conversation but keep yeah, not being depressing and keeping 388 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 1: it lighthearted. 389 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 2: So you're the perfect host for that. 390 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:09,120 Speaker 4: Thank you well. And it's it's interesting because on that 391 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 4: podcast I told you that I listened to of Bob's 392 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 4: when he was with talking to Steve Leader. Bob said, 393 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 4: he goes, you know, talking about grief. He said, one 394 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 4: thing that always got me through grief, he goes is 395 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,920 Speaker 4: comfort food. And he starts talking about comfort I'm like 396 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:27,680 Speaker 4: it was almost this and I once again, I hadn't 397 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 4: heard this until I listened to it the other day, 398 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 4: and I was like, Bob was like giving me his 399 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:36,960 Speaker 4: blessing over my podcast, you know, because like hearing him 400 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 4: say that that right, that was something that was their grief. 401 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:44,200 Speaker 4: I was like, all right, all right, thanks for sanctioning 402 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 4: my my podcast. The title of my podcast, Bob. Yeah. Anyway, Well, 403 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 4: thank you guys, and I can't wait to have you 404 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 4: guys on. 405 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:53,120 Speaker 5: Yeah. 406 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I can't wait to I can't wait 407 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,119 Speaker 3: to be on now. One of the things that you 408 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,119 Speaker 3: did is speaking of Jojo see what was your or 409 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 3: special Forces, I think, which I would love to hear 410 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 3: about as someone who also has done a crazy live 411 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 3: in the jungle competition type show, I would love to 412 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:15,400 Speaker 3: hear what special Forces looked terrifying for you and what 413 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:17,360 Speaker 3: made you want to do it. 414 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 4: It looked awesome because it was the best and worst 415 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 4: thing I'd ever done in my life at the same time, right, 416 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:25,400 Speaker 4: So what made me want to do it is I've 417 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 4: always been obsessed with, you know, I don't want to 418 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 4: say obsessed with in awe of the military Special Forces, 419 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:35,399 Speaker 4: Navy Seals like I loved g I Jane, and I 420 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 4: remember watching that like as a teenager, being like, if 421 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:38,919 Speaker 4: I ever have the chance to do that one day, 422 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 4: like I'm doing that right, And so to be able 423 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 4: to even have the opportunity to live in this life 424 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 4: for even a day and be trained by the most 425 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 4: elite special forces in the world, I'm like, how do 426 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:56,200 Speaker 4: you pass that up. And you know, I've been getting 427 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 4: in decent shape and I'm like, all right, physically, I 428 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 4: think I might be up to this challenge. And then 429 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 4: emotionally people have been telling me for the past year 430 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 4: and a half. They're at the time, they're like, you're 431 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 4: so strong, You're so strong, and I was like, this 432 00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 4: is a mental game, so like how strong am I? 433 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 3: Really? 434 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 4: Let's put it to the test. So that's why I 435 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:15,199 Speaker 4: wanted to do it. And you know it was in 436 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 4: New Zealand and June, but it was winter went to 437 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 4: which I hate the cold. 438 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, and it gets cold in New Zealand. 439 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 4: The hardest part besides just being on edge the whole 440 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 4: time because you never know, like they don't tell you. 441 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:31,679 Speaker 4: It's not like you get an itinerary of like this 442 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 4: is what you're right right right. You have no idea 443 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 4: what's coming, and you're sleeping in a room starting with 444 00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 4: you know, those fourteen people total, and you're next to 445 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 4: people who are snoring, and you're on these army cots. 446 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 4: There's no you know, you don't have like a mattress 447 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 4: or blankets or anything. It's bare bones. You eat when 448 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,640 Speaker 4: they tell you to eat, if you don't eat, then 449 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,639 Speaker 4: you don't eat that day. You know, it's not like 450 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 4: there's craft services when the cameras stop rolling. That's not 451 00:21:58,359 --> 00:21:58,880 Speaker 4: how it works. 452 00:21:58,960 --> 00:21:59,879 Speaker 5: Yep, yeah, no. 453 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:05,199 Speaker 4: And it was so intense. I wasn't sleeping. I was 454 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 4: in you know, physically kind of tortured. But it was 455 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:15,479 Speaker 4: also the coolest bonding experience with these other people and 456 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 4: just such an amazing overall experience to be able to 457 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 4: actually work with Navy Seals and British Special Forces and 458 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:27,920 Speaker 4: be like wow, even though it was only for four 459 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 4: days and they have to do it for years and years, 460 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:30,160 Speaker 4: I got to live. 461 00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:33,719 Speaker 1: And so what was harder the mental aspect or the 462 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:38,120 Speaker 1: physical aspect? If you had to name just one. 463 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,679 Speaker 4: You know what it was, people would say, it's like, 464 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 4: you can overcome the physical, But that's what ended. I 465 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 4: knew what would get to me. I knew that mentally, 466 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:49,920 Speaker 4: I think I was going to be able to hang. 467 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 4: It was the endurance stuff. I knew that one of 468 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,639 Speaker 4: those endurance challenges is what was going to get me. 469 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,640 Speaker 4: And yes, mentally, can you push through it, But when 470 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,600 Speaker 4: your knees are like I was, I was scared. I 471 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 4: thought I was doing permanent damage to my knees in 472 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 4: my back where I'm like, you get to the point 473 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 4: where you're like, is this this worth permanent damage? And 474 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 4: when you're emotionally exhausted and physically because you're not sleeping, 475 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 4: and then your body's literally breaking down. And I had 476 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 4: to carry I don't know if you guys saw, I 477 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 4: had to carry like this five hundred pounds zodiac maybe 478 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:29,920 Speaker 4: seal boat over two miles through a field with three 479 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:32,920 Speaker 4: other people who one is an Olympic gold medal speed 480 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 4: skater who her legs are like right since she was 481 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,640 Speaker 4: not having the problems I was, and then Tyler Cameron, 482 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,879 Speaker 4: who's a human, and then Tom Sandalball who's also an 483 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 4: incredible shape and I'm older by far than all of them, 484 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:49,199 Speaker 4: and I was like, I'm sorry, my body can't do 485 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,400 Speaker 4: it anymore. And that's I said. I would not give 486 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:55,200 Speaker 4: up unless I was injured or my body just gave out, 487 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 4: and that's what happened. So I kept my promise to myself. 488 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 1: Impressive, very very import did you become closest to during 489 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 1: that experience? Imagine you bonded with everyone, But who did 490 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,359 Speaker 1: you take away from this experience as like some of 491 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:08,880 Speaker 1: your closest buddies. 492 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:13,600 Speaker 4: Uh, probably Jack Osborne. He was such a sense of 493 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,000 Speaker 4: like calm while we were there. He was so great 494 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 4: and so funny. 495 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 5: Husband's friends with Jack. 496 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 4: He's just wonderful, good kid, and yeah, he's just wonderful. 497 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:26,359 Speaker 4: And Jojo, she was like the cheerleader of the group. 498 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 4: She was always so positive and was so helpful and 499 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 4: just really wanted to help everybody. She was just so wonderful. 500 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:34,159 Speaker 4: Body Miller. 501 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:38,119 Speaker 3: Another Jojo texted me before you guys went out, and 502 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 3: she was like, so, I like, I hear you know, 503 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,120 Speaker 3: I'm doing this Special Forces thing with Kelly. 504 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 5: I was like, oh my god, You're gonna love Kelly. 505 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:45,960 Speaker 2: She's amazing, She's the best. 506 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:49,719 Speaker 4: Like it's yeah, yeah, you know, I absolutely adore her 507 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 4: and she's but I mean, really, all of them I've 508 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,440 Speaker 4: I've you know, kind of formed a bond with where 509 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 4: I could feel like I could see any of them 510 00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 4: now and be like, oh, I love you miss yeah 511 00:24:59,240 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 4: you know. 512 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, that trauma bond of going of existing with people 513 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:08,080 Speaker 3: physical challenges and living in the you know, desert or 514 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 3: cots or jungles or whatever. 515 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:11,640 Speaker 4: It is no joke. 516 00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:12,880 Speaker 5: We survived death. 517 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:16,840 Speaker 4: For anyone who questions the legit, like how real? It 518 00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:19,640 Speaker 4: was no joke. It was very real. 519 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. People are always like, oh, you do those and 520 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 3: then you're going you're like, no, no, we were. 521 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 2: We were. 522 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 3: We were sleeping outside. We were it was all yeah, 523 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 3: we didn't have to sleep. 524 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,159 Speaker 4: I say, yeah, we were outside. 525 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 3: Oh no, we were outside on bamboo like tied together 526 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 3: like hard things of bamboo. We had to go to 527 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 3: the bathroom outside in the out in the outdoor, yeah, 528 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 3: pouring down monsoon rain every single night. 529 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:45,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's worse. But our bathrooms were outside. 530 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 5: I don't think I was ever dry for like two weeks. 531 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 4: Were you But were you warm? Was it warm? 532 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,119 Speaker 5: It was disgusting. 533 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 3: I mean we were in the jungle rainforest of Panama, 534 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:57,360 Speaker 3: so it was you were never not sweaty. 535 00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 4: Okay, but I still feel like but. 536 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:01,679 Speaker 3: It was like at night it would get kind of 537 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 3: chilly with the winds and stuff, but not not cold cold. 538 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 2: No. 539 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 3: But I would have a meltdown every day trying to 540 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 3: just pull likecra leggings onto my sweaty and damp body 541 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 3: that would never fully dry off. And that was every day. 542 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,439 Speaker 3: I was like, this is the thing that's gonna kill me. 543 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:20,200 Speaker 3: I'll do running, jumping, swimming bike, but putting on these 544 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 3: leggings every night, it was yeah. 545 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:23,920 Speaker 4: You win. And plus there, I'm sure there were bugs 546 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 4: there so that I would have checked out. 547 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:25,919 Speaker 5: Oh my good bugs. 548 00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 3: We had snakes, we had spider wolf, giant things, we 549 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 3: had we had monk, howler monkeys that are the most 550 00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 3: terrifying thing. If you've never heard a howler monkeys scream 551 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,920 Speaker 3: three feet behind your open little shack that you're sleeping 552 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 3: in and like bear it. 553 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 5: Yeah it was lot. 554 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 2: Did you do Special Forces again? If they had an 555 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:46,920 Speaker 2: All Star thousand percent? 556 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,400 Speaker 4: You would do it a thousand percent. Wow, Oh my god, 557 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 4: a thousand percent. I want to redeem myself. Jack and 558 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 4: I always said we're like if a van pulled up 559 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 4: right now and just said get in, I was like, 560 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 4: get in, no hesitation, no hesitation. 561 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 2: I'm impressed knowing what I know. 562 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 4: Now going like, I'm like, all right, maybe I don't 563 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,280 Speaker 4: know if I could get to the end because those 564 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,400 Speaker 4: physical challenges are so but I'm like, I would I'd 565 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:10,879 Speaker 4: go farther. 566 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,639 Speaker 1: What country would you pick if you had to design 567 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 1: the next Special Forces All Star cast edition? 568 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:18,400 Speaker 2: Oh? 569 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 4: God, are warm somewhere? 570 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 3: Let me tell you the Foreman, all it's cracked up 571 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:24,439 Speaker 3: to be either though, so it's not. 572 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 4: I would go somewhere like temperate, you know, not too hot, 573 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:34,360 Speaker 4: not too cold. Uh, you know, maybe like Northern Australia 574 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,160 Speaker 4: or something where it's. 575 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 3: But everything in Australia is remember that everything in Australia 576 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 3: New Zealand. 577 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 5: It was the animals, the trees, all of it. Just 578 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:45,440 Speaker 5: it's all trying to. 579 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:50,239 Speaker 4: We had no creatures or critters, no bugs. And it 580 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 4: wasn't that. I mean, it was like in the thirties forties, 581 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,960 Speaker 4: but it wasn't like okay, you know Chicago. 582 00:27:56,040 --> 00:28:00,760 Speaker 3: All right, Well I'm going to get a van and 583 00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:02,440 Speaker 3: and I'm just gonna roll up to your house and 584 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,440 Speaker 3: just be like get in and then who knows where 585 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 3: we're going Northern Australia. 586 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:08,680 Speaker 4: If you just pull up next to you in a 587 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 4: white vand and say get in, get in, I will 588 00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 4: get in there, no questions asked. I will get in 589 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,200 Speaker 4: that vands. 590 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 3: Since Childhood and Stranger Danger, right right, Stranger Danger or 591 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,960 Speaker 3: reality show. Right, Yeah, that's what that's actually the name 592 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,159 Speaker 3: of the new show, Stranger Danger or Reality Show. And 593 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,880 Speaker 3: it's just vans pulling up next to people. Yeah, and 594 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 3: like you either get in a van and it's just 595 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 3: some random person, or you get in and it's a 596 00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 3: really cool reality show trip that you're going on, but 597 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 3: you don't know. 598 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, takes a chance. I'm in. 599 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 2: Well, we would love to play this rapid fire Bob 600 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 2: edition questions. Oh my god, are you up for a 601 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 2: little game here? 602 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 4: Of course? 603 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:55,320 Speaker 3: To Okay, So everything depends on this, you know this everything. 604 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 5: It's like we tear your games. 605 00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 1: And and so it's all about Bob. So you have 606 00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 1: to answer questions like your Bob or just about Bob. 607 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,760 Speaker 1: So okay, okay, ready, Well. 608 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,040 Speaker 3: If she answers like she's Bob, each answer is going 609 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:07,520 Speaker 3: to be seven. 610 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 4: Okay, I will not. 611 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 2: I will not do a rapid fire answer like Kelly. 612 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 2: But like it's all about Bob, so okay. Bob's weirdest habit, 613 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:20,240 Speaker 2: Oh gosh. 614 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 4: He he would have a huge I mean, I don't 615 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 4: know if it was weird, but it was his thing 616 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 4: that like every night he would have a huge, massive 617 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 4: bowl of ice cream and like you could not get 618 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 4: him to not do that. And if I'd try to 619 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 4: get a smaller bowl, he would get really mad at 620 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 4: Me'd be like, I'm not in a nursing home, and 621 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 4: he wanted fire pint or even more than a pint 622 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 4: every single night. 623 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 2: What flavor ice cream? 624 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 4: Okay? Yeah, anything like chocolate, chocolate, chick rock we got it? 625 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 4: Like yeah, anything kind of choka. 626 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 2: Best his best quality as a husband. 627 00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:58,520 Speaker 4: He was so thoughtful, just so thoughtful. Everything was like 628 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 4: making sure that I was okay all the time. 629 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:04,280 Speaker 2: Hm M. Best best quality as a father. 630 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 4: Probably the same thing. He was just not only just 631 00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 4: always making sure that his girls were always okay and 632 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 4: had everything that they needed, but he was also such 633 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,080 Speaker 4: a good dab but also their best friend too. 634 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 2: What was Bob's biggest pet? 635 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 4: Peeve liars? Okay, he hated. He always wanted the truth. 636 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 2: I admire that favorite home cooked meal. 637 00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,280 Speaker 4: He loved when I made my Italian chili. 638 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 5: Love that. 639 00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 4: He also loved when I made stir fry stuff. But 640 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 4: he really really loved my Italian chili, and that was 641 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 4: what he started to really ask for a lot. 642 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 5: I'm intrigued by Italian chili. 643 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 4: I'm making it this week for THEOL your are out delicious? 644 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 2: Stand up or acting? 645 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,920 Speaker 4: What was his Did he have a preference stand up? 646 00:30:58,600 --> 00:30:58,960 Speaker 5: Stand up? 647 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:03,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? What was his biggest Danny Tanner like quality. 648 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 4: He was a clean freak. Really, it was the most 649 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 4: accurate thing. Well the hugs and the clean. 650 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,120 Speaker 5: And the hugs right, but truly truly. 651 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 4: A clean freak. And he would go around the house 652 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 4: sometimes like dust busting. He'd be like, look, I'm really 653 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 4: Danny Tanner. He would say it, love it. 654 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 1: Favorite cast member of Full House. You don't have to 655 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,000 Speaker 1: answer that. It's impossible. 656 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 4: That's impossible. That's I'm trying to think. Is there like 657 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:32,840 Speaker 4: an ancillary one that was like in one episode? 658 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 5: But yeah, I always preferred the dog. No, you know 659 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 5: what he would say, Pepper Mill. 660 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:41,160 Speaker 3: Oh, the donkey, donkey, the donkey and the donkey that 661 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 3: love John. That's that's would be his. That would be 662 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:47,680 Speaker 3: his favorite Full House cast member of cannon or Cannonball Cannonball. 663 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:49,440 Speaker 3: Cannon Ball would be yeah, yeah. 664 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:53,720 Speaker 4: Bob would say, Nicky and Alex, right, come up. 665 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,240 Speaker 3: With all the ridiculous people that Yeah, that Bob would 666 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 3: actually say. 667 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 4: Well that was fun, guys. 668 00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, Kelly, thank you so much for joining us. I 669 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:05,280 Speaker 3: am this such a great it's such a great interview. 670 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 3: We loved hearing all your things about Bob and just 671 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:09,920 Speaker 3: I'm so glad that you're a part of our family 672 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:13,960 Speaker 3: and part of the extended family. Now you have inherited us, 673 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,600 Speaker 3: and uh, there's no leaving us now. Now I'm just 674 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 3: gonna have to follow you in a white van wherever 675 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 3: you go. 676 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:23,400 Speaker 4: So I'm just so grateful, and I'm so grateful for 677 00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 4: all of you, but I'm so grateful for the two 678 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,320 Speaker 4: of you, especially. You have been so accepting and loving 679 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 4: and kind to me since day one. And I truly 680 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 4: truly feel and I say this all the time. I've 681 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 4: said it in so many interviews, I've said it to 682 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 4: so many people that I've really felt a part of 683 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 4: your family. And I truly know that you have been 684 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 4: there for me and will continue to be there for me, 685 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,240 Speaker 4: and vice versa. I hope you know that you that 686 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 4: you know the same, and it's just very special. I 687 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 4: love you both so much, so thank you. 688 00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,720 Speaker 2: Oh we love you so much. Kelly, you are are. 689 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 4: I can't wait to kidnap both of you and then 690 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,760 Speaker 4: have you on comfort food and see yeah, and feed 691 00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 4: you guys, to feed you by. 692 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:00,440 Speaker 2: Yes, I think about what food, what's my come from? 693 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 4: Like this is a this is a big thing. You 694 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 4: have to think about your comfort food and then we 695 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 4: will have it for you. Cool. 696 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 2: Okay, so cool? 697 00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 3: All right, well, thank you so much Kelly for joining us. 698 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 3: And uh and if you guys want to follow us 699 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:14,200 Speaker 3: on Instagram, you can follow us at how Rude Podcast 700 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 3: or you can send us an email at how Rude 701 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 3: podcast at gmail dot com. 702 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 5: And remember, you, guys, the world is small. 703 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 4: The house is full.