Speaker 1: Calm Down with Aaron and Carissa is a production of
Speaker 1: I Heart Radio. WHOA, I have so many windows open,
Speaker 1: I'm taking a picture. This is bringing it right back
Speaker 1: to Jackie Quick. What do you mean remember how she
Speaker 1: made it fun of you from the window to the wall,
Speaker 1: looked at this? Okay, anyways, this is for that. This
Speaker 1: is for the I g welcome everybody to the Calm
Speaker 1: Down Podcast. In case you missed the episode where air
Speaker 1: a nice girlfriend, Jackie Quick pointed out that on Aaron's
Speaker 1: phone she had seventy five windows open. I just realized
Speaker 1: on my computer, who's been doing house and home? There's
Speaker 1: so you can't even see it from here. It doesn't
Speaker 1: even matter. I want everybody right now to go to
Speaker 1: their Safari or whatever you're using and see what you have. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is a fun game. I have nineteen tabs open.
Speaker 1: It's not that. That is about considering what you had before.
Speaker 1: How do you you have a quick count on it
Speaker 1: like that? Yeah, this may be one of the new phones,
Speaker 1: and uh it basically says what I have opened. I'll
Speaker 1: take a look at. I'll tell you what I did
Speaker 1: take a look at. I'm not really want to go
Speaker 1: back and listen or watch what I do. I used
Speaker 1: to do it early on in my career for like
Speaker 1: different nuanced things that I don't realize I say, like
Speaker 1: are that kind of stuff like film study? That's how
Speaker 1: I used to look at it. Now I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: if I don't have this ship figured out by now,
Speaker 1: I should get a new profession. But I have went
Speaker 1: back and listen because I've been in the car a
Speaker 1: lot lately. To some of our podcast my voice is
Speaker 1: so fucking annoying. I need to bring it down a notch.
Speaker 1: It's like, do you have that thing where you hear
Speaker 1: yourself talk and you're like, that's what I sound like anyway?
Speaker 1: So I apologize, Oh stop, I mess up every sentence.
Speaker 1: I can't get it out. It's because my brain is
Speaker 1: going quicker than my mouth can keep up, which is
Speaker 1: usually why I'm in trouble in my marriage half of
Speaker 1: the half the time. See right there, I just have
Speaker 1: so many things to say, not enough time to cover
Speaker 1: the ground. You know, I don't finish a thought. It's
Speaker 1: very frenetic. Um all right, So I wanna be Jason
Speaker 1: Bateman because he always does like SmartLess where he's like
Speaker 1: talking like this, and he just so great and I
Speaker 1: should start. Can you imagine if we started Fox or
Speaker 1: Amazon that way? Um, Kevin, thanks so much. So it
Speaker 1: will be interesting to see how the packers offense is
Speaker 1: able to adjust without people would ship themselves. I'll tell
Speaker 1: you what else too. I always forget that let the
Speaker 1: microphone do the work. Like, why am I yelling the microphones'
Speaker 1: right here? Because I'm gonna tell you a few people
Speaker 1: and they will remain nameless that I hear say things
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, bring it down a notch, sister
Speaker 1: or brother. Why are we yelling welcome everybody? And you're like,
Speaker 1: oh my blowing the windows? Carrie Underwood, Oh, my dad,
Speaker 1: you shatter that window and wall. It's my dad always
Speaker 1: like at the beginning of a game. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't have my phone on me, but I can usually
Speaker 1: see it. It's in my bomb. But he uh, he
Speaker 1: will always say if we're an allowed place like week one,
Speaker 1: we're going to be in Minnesota, will be allowed. The
Speaker 1: packers are there, my dad, I can always like guess
Speaker 1: his first time, Hey, it sounds really loud and there,
Speaker 1: make sure you hold that might close to your mouth. Steven,
Speaker 1: what a dreamboat? Well, I'll tell you what's really loud
Speaker 1: for those of you that are watching on YouTube or
Speaker 1: seeing this on a clip, this lipstick that I have
Speaker 1: on this little lip cran because I'm up at the lake,
Speaker 1: so that means there's not a speck of makeup to
Speaker 1: be found. Because guys, that's my new thing, like all natural.
Speaker 1: Like back in the day, I used to wear a
Speaker 1: saying this respectfully, a Tammy Faye Baker amount of makeup
Speaker 1: like I was ready at all times seven inch to letter.
Speaker 1: It's seven inches of foundation. Yeah, because I had fucking
Speaker 1: terrible skin. I don't even swear, sorry, mom, and so
Speaker 1: I would always be piling on the makeup. Well, thanks
Speaker 1: to this new product. I'm just kidding. Um, I got
Speaker 1: a great new dermatologist who finally suggested stuff. So I'm
Speaker 1: not breaking out as much as I used to. But what,
Speaker 1: I don't have any makeup up here, so I just
Speaker 1: throw on this lip kran. I've got a new It's
Speaker 1: very aggressive. I don't know if it's the one of
Speaker 1: eight hundred supplements I'm taking right now. I'm I've been
Speaker 1: off I VF for a minute, so I know that's
Speaker 1: out of my body. I'm getting like little black heads
Speaker 1: or zips around my lip line. Jared, don't you want
Speaker 1: to kiss me right now? And I'm not really good
Speaker 1: about leaving it alone, as you know, and I'm scarring.
Speaker 1: So I saw you when I was with you last Tanny.
Speaker 1: You were picking your face and I looked over you
Speaker 1: and I said, stopped doing that in Jared, you out
Speaker 1: by the way. I did get it out the other day. Well,
Speaker 1: a couple of things about that. Usually when I used
Speaker 1: to get him around the lip line, it was from
Speaker 1: the aforementioned lipsticks, so that would stay in there too long.
Speaker 1: Or I'm an excessive chapstick user. I think you know
Speaker 1: this about me, like two things I need to have
Speaker 1: at all times a hair thing and chapstick. In fact,
Speaker 1: I had a whole breakdown in Italy, like I you know,
Speaker 1: when you're like first dating someone, you're trying not to
Speaker 1: be a total disaster. I lost my ship over a
Speaker 1: hair thing and chapstick. And he's like, Okay, from now on,
Speaker 1: I'm always going to have chapstick and a hair thing
Speaker 1: on me. I was like, I need tell the story.
Speaker 1: So I love this. All of you out there that
Speaker 1: are starting in a new relationship, you can relate to
Speaker 1: this and all of us that have been are in
Speaker 1: relationship and the jig is up. We are neurotic. So
Speaker 1: what happened? Okay? So uh, it's the first vacation and
Speaker 1: again this was a vacation that again we're going back
Speaker 1: to Italy. For anyone that's over this conversation, it's not
Speaker 1: about the trip. It's about the dating someone new. So
Speaker 1: you're trying to be cute and normal and not right,
Speaker 1: not be a total disaster. I don't know what month
Speaker 1: you get into dating someone where you finally are like,
Speaker 1: fuck here, this is who I am? Likever seven it's
Speaker 1: always like seven years your marriage falls apart seven months.
Speaker 1: It's like you have your first massive fight in a relationship.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, you told me the other day.
Speaker 1: Am I allowed to say that Mr and Mrs thing? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Ashley fips a shout out to you. Okay, So Aaron
Speaker 1: was telling me the other day whenever she gets in
Speaker 1: an argument, it's called a MR and mrs, which I
Speaker 1: think is so sweet. So, as someone who clearly as
Speaker 1: a lot of um, how should I say this? Um,
Speaker 1: I'm a nepped in the areas of relationships, and so
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get better at them. And my parents
Speaker 1: have been married since were eighteen. I always solicited advice
Speaker 1: from people that are successful in marriages. My mom and
Speaker 1: my dad when they get in a fight, they call
Speaker 1: each other name like opposite name, Like they have nicknames
Speaker 1: for each other Johnny and Julie. So my dad's like, Julie,
Speaker 1: you're being a real bitch right now, and she's like, Johnny,
Speaker 1: you're being a real asshole right now. So it's not
Speaker 1: like they're saying it to each other, but they're actually
Speaker 1: talking to their like alter ego. Okay, so fine, that's
Speaker 1: a great tip. Then it's not personal anyway, Jar's the
Speaker 1: Tommy and so many times over the rodeo this weegning,
Speaker 1: I was like, Tommy, Linda, I missed you so to
Speaker 1: feel you guys in so I wouldn't visited Aaron who's
Speaker 1: in Montana, and my boyfriend who I spoke about last podcast. Also,
Speaker 1: but with me, he's the time we get it. He
Speaker 1: has this thing where he refers to me as Linda.
Speaker 1: Like when it's like Lynda is getting real upset she
Speaker 1: doesn't even hear things on her run now, Lynda is
Speaker 1: getting real upset that she doesn't have any look state.
Speaker 1: So it's just like a way to like lighten the
Speaker 1: mood or whatever. I called him Tommy. He called me Linda.
Speaker 1: Great but before we got into the nicknames on this trip,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, Okay, don't lose it, don't lose it.
Speaker 1: It's hot, like you know when you're trying to like
Speaker 1: blow dry your hair and like be cute and the
Speaker 1: whole thing, and then you're sweating and the whole deal.
Speaker 1: We talked, you have a reservation, you gotta go. He
Speaker 1: made the girl that's laid exactly, and I pried myself
Speaker 1: on being not high maintenance, and I'm like, oh, I
Speaker 1: can get ready in five minutes. Yeah, I got it
Speaker 1: all of a sudden. Now I've decided to shave my
Speaker 1: legs the razor stool. Now I'm bleeding. Now we're trying
Speaker 1: to stop the bleeding. We're putting that there's a nose
Speaker 1: hair hanging out. You realize you have like five on
Speaker 1: your eyebrow. There's things to do, there's things to do exactly.
Speaker 1: So now we're fifteen minutes in and I've just made
Speaker 1: a point that I'm so quick and low maintenance. I'm like, fine,
Speaker 1: I'll just slick back the hair. I'll be cute, put
Speaker 1: on a bold lip and keep it moving. Can't find
Speaker 1: the hair thing, and I'm like, god, damn, only I
Speaker 1: have seven hundred hair things, you know, I can't find it.
Speaker 1: He's like, what's the hair thing? Like, man like, don't know.
Speaker 1: And then they's like the smallest things like was it
Speaker 1: a rubber band you needed or a scrunch anything to
Speaker 1: like me give me one bobby pin. That's another thing, Ladies,
Speaker 1: where are there are they? When you meet him at
Speaker 1: a time like this, you're scrounging around in the bottom
Speaker 1: of the carry on bag. You're looking everywhere, you can't
Speaker 1: find one when you don't need one. You've got enough
Speaker 1: to do an updo anyway. So that's the perils of
Speaker 1: being in like a new relationship. You're trying to be cute,
Speaker 1: but he's adorable. So he's like, I'm just gonna keep
Speaker 1: a plethora of hair things. You call them in chapstick
Speaker 1: on um call or what's it called reserve? Who gives
Speaker 1: on hand? Yeah, sure we'll go with that. So you guys, okay,
Speaker 1: So I mean, listen, I think it's amazing that you
Speaker 1: went to Europe. You were eight cities, how many days together,
Speaker 1: different hotels, one toilet. We've all talked about it. But
Speaker 1: I mean, I think that's phenomenal in terms of, like,
Speaker 1: you know, being adventurous and trying out your relationship. Have
Speaker 1: you had a good MR and mrs as yet? Yeah, because,
Speaker 1: as someone pointed out the other not know not over
Speaker 1: that um. But it's no mystery, Like I got out
Speaker 1: of a marriage and now I am in a new relationship.
Speaker 1: And some people can think that's really fast. But people
Speaker 1: only you and a few other business by the way,
Speaker 1: it's not yours. Only you and a few people who
Speaker 1: I am very close with. No the whole story. And
Speaker 1: that's all that I need to say about that. But
Speaker 1: I know what, you don't have to explain yourself, and
Speaker 1: I don't ask other people to explain in themselves. It's
Speaker 1: your business, it's your life. Guess what my girl's happy.
Speaker 1: If anyone has any comments, concerns, or different user names,
Speaker 1: feel free to check me out well security offline. I'm
Speaker 1: going to tell you someone that brought something up to
Speaker 1: me the other day and I was like, and I
Speaker 1: wanted to go off want a text message to this
Speaker 1: said person, And I was like, why I bring it up,
Speaker 1: don't say who it is? What what happened that that
Speaker 1: they said, Oh, it's not a good look that she's
Speaker 1: already in a relationship. Well you don't know what I've
Speaker 1: been Excuse me, Okay, so you know we're going to
Speaker 1: just leave it right there. The point is is that
Speaker 1: I am very happy in my life, and it doesn't
Speaker 1: matter who I say, who I say when I say who.
Speaker 1: If you guys get the reference, it's pretty woman, okay,
Speaker 1: if you don't get rented um, but yes, anyway, So
Speaker 1: I'm very happy and that's all that matters in my
Speaker 1: life because I'm getting to a place and I know
Speaker 1: you and I have talked about this at nausea, whether
Speaker 1: it's professionally or personally. If it doesn't feel good, I'm
Speaker 1: not doing it anymore. And I'm standing up for myself.
Speaker 1: I even did it on set the other day. And
Speaker 1: I worried for a long time about being a quote diva,
Speaker 1: right because I try to be very malleable and very
Speaker 1: patient and a lot of things on set because there's
Speaker 1: a lot of people in this industry that won't and
Speaker 1: they I think it's important to be a team player,
Speaker 1: got it. I think it's a hopefully a characteristic that
Speaker 1: other people I've worked with can say about me. But
Speaker 1: if things are taking too long or things aren't right,
Speaker 1: you have the right. At least I feel like at
Speaker 1: this point, fifteen years into this job, that I can
Speaker 1: raise my hand and be like, no, we're not gonna
Speaker 1: do that. No we're not gonna do it. And it
Speaker 1: doesn't make me a bit and it doesn't make me
Speaker 1: a diva. I'm standing up for myself, got it. So
Speaker 1: I'm doing that professionally and personally. My rant is over
Speaker 1: because what people don't understand is that for us, particularly
Speaker 1: you and I, we could particularly is that a word
Speaker 1: we have always been one of the guys you and
Speaker 1: I have. We go with the flow because you know what,
Speaker 1: that's my first advice to people and girls in this industry.
Speaker 1: Don't shake the boat, don't rattle the boat, go with
Speaker 1: the flow. Time. Yeah, yeah, you gotta do it because
Speaker 1: be on time to the dinners, to be early if
Speaker 1: you find a hair thing for goodness, stakes because you're
Speaker 1: gonna get left. And it is hard for us sometimes
Speaker 1: to stick up for ourselves because we don't want to
Speaker 1: be these dramatic rames that you and I know very
Speaker 1: well in this industry that burn a lot of bridges
Speaker 1: before they become what they think they really are. Any
Speaker 1: who take it from there, Yeah, I just And whether
Speaker 1: it's in this business or it's in any business. I mean,
Speaker 1: I think for me, being a part of a team,
Speaker 1: and that could be in a relationship that can be
Speaker 1: professionally is so important. Right, You're not always right, But
Speaker 1: what's the greater good, you know, for the respective group,
Speaker 1: for the relationship or the friendship. Like you and I
Speaker 1: have had disagreements on stuff, it's like we we have
Speaker 1: gotten to a place in our friendship where we can
Speaker 1: be honest with each other. And if you can't be
Speaker 1: honest in various aspects of your life, then you need
Speaker 1: to get out of it. It's kind of the place
Speaker 1: that I'm at. But I think that comes with age.
Speaker 1: I didn't find that in me until the last couple
Speaker 1: of years, where I'm like, you know what, I'm not
Speaker 1: going to do that. It's okay to say no, and
Speaker 1: if that opportunity passes me by, then so be it.
Speaker 1: And it wasn't meant to be. But and I know that,
Speaker 1: and we get a lot of questions, which I think
Speaker 1: is awesome, And I think there's a responsibility um for
Speaker 1: anyone that like listens to this podcast and wants to
Speaker 1: be a broadcaster or anything. I don't know, I don't
Speaker 1: maybe you don't even want to be a broadcaster, but
Speaker 1: is to be a part of a team, but also
Speaker 1: stand up for yourself when there's a time and there's
Speaker 1: a place. I don't know how this became a ted talk,
Speaker 1: but I'm just really over I'm you know what I'm
Speaker 1: not doing anymore. I'm not apologizing and if it maybe
Speaker 1: it sounds like I am right now, but I'm a
Speaker 1: fact I'm over it. Like I know who I am.
Speaker 1: I'm proud of who I've become. I've made a lot
Speaker 1: of mistakes along the way, but I'm all about continuing
Speaker 1: to learn and get better. I have a therapy appointment
Speaker 1: in an hour now. I don't which I should around
Speaker 1: here anywhere? Are you human? Yeah? You are great. Guess what,
Speaker 1: everybody is allowed to make mistakes if you're human. I
Speaker 1: mean we always have to sit here and excuse other
Speaker 1: people for bad behavior. You have not had bad behavior.
Speaker 1: I just think what's funny and a lot of people
Speaker 1: forget this is guys, when you're an A list celebrity,
Speaker 1: which we're not. We're not at all. But listen, our
Speaker 1: lives are very much out there, and uh, you know,
Speaker 1: my neighbor over here, I'm not asking them how many
Speaker 1: times they've been married. I'm not judging them if this
Speaker 1: is their third, second, fourth finn wife and I just
Speaker 1: think it's hilarious and also it pisces me off and
Speaker 1: I bow up a little bit with my girl. For
Speaker 1: anyone that has an opinion, keep it to yourself. Guess
Speaker 1: what not interested enough crap in this world is going on?
Speaker 1: Keep it to yourself. Life is way too short. I
Speaker 1: just got off a call about a campaign for heart health.
Speaker 1: I was talking about how it's very much on my
Speaker 1: mind because of my dad and his heart attack a
Speaker 1: couple of years ago. Life is too short. You don't
Speaker 1: need to make excuses for yourself. You've got a lot
Speaker 1: of people in your corner right now. You've got a
Speaker 1: lot of really really good friends that have said to
Speaker 1: you over and over, we love seeing that smile back.
Speaker 1: Linda is just the house is out there ready. She
Speaker 1: is ready wearing a floral dress from I don't know
Speaker 1: what year this dress is from, but it was it
Speaker 1: looks great, Cherry Red. I was at a Thai food
Speaker 1: restaurant last year waiting to be seated, and this woman
Speaker 1: asked if I was me and I said yes, and
Speaker 1: she goes, well, my god, you're prettier than you are online. Uh.
Speaker 1: And I was like thanks, and she goes, you and
Speaker 1: your girlfriend and your boots couldn't have been cure stop it.
Speaker 1: Thank you that. It's so sweet. If everyone so worry
Speaker 1: about your own ship, don't worry about mine, don't worry
Speaker 1: about yours, worry about your own knocket. I love you.
Speaker 1: Kathy Thompson says it says it best my mom. She's like,
Speaker 1: you don't like everyone. Not everyone has to like you.
Speaker 1: And I'm good with that, I really am. And I
Speaker 1: think that I worried for a long time what other
Speaker 1: people thought. But you and I have both had shitty
Speaker 1: stuff happened to us, and you keep it moving. And
Speaker 1: as long as the people are employers, as long as
Speaker 1: our friends know what the truth is, then I'm good.
Speaker 1: And the YadA YadA YadA, keep it moving. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you, go ahead, No, your hair looks great, and
Speaker 1: I mean that that couldn't be dirty. Last NASCAR turn
Speaker 1: but god, it's so dirty that where about e a sweatshirt?
Speaker 1: It's so good, It's really good. Wait stands. Part of
Speaker 1: our new lines we drop is coming really soon, you guys.
Speaker 1: It's coming in a couple of weeks with the football season.
Speaker 1: This is a this is really good for those of
Speaker 1: you guys. It's my NFL one, which you're going to
Speaker 1: be getting. Like we have these in all different teams,
Speaker 1: all thirty two teams in the NFL, and so edge
Speaker 1: in basketball and maybe another league coming up, but um
Speaker 1: in hockey as well. But I wanted to tell you
Speaker 1: as you're talking about, you know, people judging you, and
Speaker 1: you know you are done making excuses and and and
Speaker 1: explaining yourself to people. I'm gonna tell you what you
Speaker 1: need in your life. What it's all I've been talking
Speaker 1: about for the last week. This Derek Jeter Docu Serri.
Speaker 1: I mean, it makes you want to stick your middle
Speaker 1: finger up to everyone. And I felt this way when
Speaker 1: I watched the last dance as well. Um, we didn't
Speaker 1: get to cover Michael Jordan's so obviously that was like
Speaker 1: I was dying for every little thing. But this Derek
Speaker 1: Jeter one, Crissa, I know, I talked to you on
Speaker 1: the phone about it the other day. It's unbelievable. The
Speaker 1: guy is a walking quote machine. I wrote down some
Speaker 1: of them. I'm obsessed and I'm obsessed how he just
Speaker 1: his parents raised him so right, he did it the
Speaker 1: right way. He my favorite quote, and I used this
Speaker 1: the other day when I kind of got a rejection
Speaker 1: with a business venture I was trying to do. Was
Speaker 1: I remember everybody who said I couldn't do it or
Speaker 1: told me no. I remember what they were wearing, I
Speaker 1: remember where we were, and he's like, I'm a real
Speaker 1: told you so guy. Him so much so. I haven't
Speaker 1: seen it yet because I was traveling when the first one.
Speaker 1: I was leaving you. Actually, I think when the first
Speaker 1: one aired, then the second one I was traveling as well,
Speaker 1: and I was trying to find it. And then I'm
Speaker 1: I don't know, I've there's so many apps in the
Speaker 1: download that there's too many. So I'm waiting for it
Speaker 1: to restand. I'm gonna sit down. Okay, great, sit down
Speaker 1: and watch it. But you were going on and on
Speaker 1: about how great it was, and you know that I'm
Speaker 1: like you and so many other people I'm sure that
Speaker 1: listen to this or love sports are inspired constantly and
Speaker 1: by guys like him. But you mentioned doing it the
Speaker 1: right way, bringing it back circuitously to like the conversation
Speaker 1: I was saying with even my own ship, if you
Speaker 1: he didn't, him and George Clooney remain bachelor's for a
Speaker 1: long time. And you can't knock those people who cares
Speaker 1: if you have seven thousand girlfriends care, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Like, he just did things the right way
Speaker 1: and I absolutely love someone like that, and he didn't
Speaker 1: make excuses. So you mentioned some of the quotes. I'm
Speaker 1: a quote person. I grew up my father had these
Speaker 1: rules all written out for us and they were called
Speaker 1: rules for success. And there was a million different quotes,
Speaker 1: Um Lombardi quotes, just inspirational things, and they were on
Speaker 1: the wall in our bedroom. Plan your work, work, your plan.
Speaker 1: Those who you know failed to reach their goals, failed
Speaker 1: to set them. So I'm all in on a quote.
Speaker 1: What were some of the ones if you have them
Speaker 1: in front of you that like you loved or stood
Speaker 1: out to you. One of them I loved a lot
Speaker 1: was competition eliminates complacency. Competition eliminates complacency. Okay, I like
Speaker 1: the complacent when there's competition. Was he referring to him
Speaker 1: and a Rod. No, he was just referring to each year,
Speaker 1: you know, doing better and better and wanting to be better.
Speaker 1: You know, they won one year, but then you know
Speaker 1: everybody's coming at you. This was the one for a
Speaker 1: Rod and this is what I loved, and I thought
Speaker 1: the way he handled it. I'm wondering if later on,
Speaker 1: now that two episodes have aired, we go, oh, we
Speaker 1: will have to go back to that because a Rod
Speaker 1: then comes to the Yankees. He's not with the Yankees
Speaker 1: yet in it, but it kind of talks about how
Speaker 1: they were on the scene at the same time. A
Speaker 1: Rod had better numbers. Everybody was kind of talking about
Speaker 1: he had better numbers. But they were still really good friends.
Speaker 1: And they did a photo shoot. They did a bunch
Speaker 1: of articles together, and there was this one Sports Illustrated
Speaker 1: shoot or a Rod sitting and Derek standing kind of
Speaker 1: above him and has his arm around him, and apparently
Speaker 1: a writer says, a Rod, you know, he just says,
Speaker 1: no way, Jose, I would never say that. Um, this
Speaker 1: is going to be the last article I do with
Speaker 1: Derek basically saying, you know, I have better numbers and
Speaker 1: and and yadia. So the writer wrote about it a
Speaker 1: rod is saying it never happened. Derek is like, here's
Speaker 1: the thing. Way I wrote it down. He was so
Speaker 1: good about it. He just said, I compare who won
Speaker 1: more and we won and that was it. He's like,
Speaker 1: numbers you can talk about all day long. I can
Speaker 1: bear who won more and we won more? So's it
Speaker 1: you brought this up? We were talking about on the phone.
Speaker 1: Yes that you that, Yeah, tell tell the story because
Speaker 1: what you heard Jared like whisper under his breath when
Speaker 1: you guys were watching it. Because I think it's all
Speaker 1: I would love to watch this with like Kelly and
Speaker 1: Matthew as well or something, and you know anyone who's
Speaker 1: played professional sports. Watching it with my husband has been
Speaker 1: so fun because there's so many times like he'll he'll
Speaker 1: talk about game circumstances and it's like, you know, there's
Speaker 1: two outs and you know I'm up and all that,
Speaker 1: and Jared will just say, Babe, I have chills, like
Speaker 1: I'm sweating, And I love it because my husband just
Speaker 1: puts himself in the position. It's so cool. But there's
Speaker 1: so many times during this docuseries that Jared will start
Speaker 1: mumbling and I'm like, what did you just say? And
Speaker 1: he's like we we. Everything he says right now is we.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I love this man. I love him.
Speaker 1: And that resonates with guys that are real team players,
Speaker 1: like my husband was with his team. You know, my
Speaker 1: husband was a real Derek Jeter of the Los Angeles King.
Speaker 1: But it's it's about being part of a team sport,
Speaker 1: and this is what we're saying before, whether it's in
Speaker 1: a work environment, we're a part of a team. Your
Speaker 1: team is Kevin and Greg and your producer and Richie
Speaker 1: and z like that's your team. My team is John
Speaker 1: and Michael and Charles like you lot of teams you
Speaker 1: know what I and I can't. And I love being
Speaker 1: in a good teammate. But being a good teammate is
Speaker 1: also speaking up and saying what you need as well,
Speaker 1: not trying to dominate, you know, and be the captain
Speaker 1: if you're not. But my dad had a whole expression
Speaker 1: that if when people talk, listen to how they talk,
Speaker 1: I mean my or we are us, I mean my people.
Speaker 1: And my dad managed a lot of employees for a
Speaker 1: lot of like a long time. He would always listen
Speaker 1: to interview how he would ask them questions like almost
Speaker 1: he calls them logic traps. Scott's what a guy. He
Speaker 1: would set people up to see how they would respond
Speaker 1: to questions and see if their answers included I mean
Speaker 1: my or if it was a we and us, and
Speaker 1: if it was at a we and in us, then
Speaker 1: He's like, great, then we can then we want that
Speaker 1: as part of our team, because you know, they're not
Speaker 1: thinking selfishly, so there's a time and a place to
Speaker 1: say what you want. But yeah, I'm really looking forward
Speaker 1: to watching it, and I'm someone who likes to watch
Speaker 1: it in succession, so maybe I'll wait till they're all
Speaker 1: out speaking to succession. Is that showever coming back? Does
Speaker 1: anyone who answers? Oh my gosh, Yeah, that's like a
Speaker 1: false situation. It'll come back in the fall. It's so good.
Speaker 1: We should be extras on it. I would I mean
Speaker 1: I would love to be an extra and anything true,
Speaker 1: well you were an extra extra? Yeah, beg you off.
Speaker 1: I am watching right now. The offer okay has anyway,
Speaker 1: So the Godfather, we know, the whole you know trilogy,
Speaker 1: that is like one of the greatest movievies of all time.
Speaker 1: I actually watched The Godfather a couple of months ago
Speaker 1: with my dad randomly, and so then I was on
Speaker 1: set the other day and how we long who like
Speaker 1: I respect more than anything in the world. He says
Speaker 1: like jump, I say, how high? And so he's so
Speaker 1: sweet and he's like, are you watching any shows right now?
Speaker 1: I was like, no, I'm not anything that I'm like
Speaker 1: that into. And he's like, have you seen The Offer?
Speaker 1: And I was like no, I've never even heard of it.
Speaker 1: I need to get out from underneath the rock. I've
Speaker 1: been living in um under. So the Offer is the
Speaker 1: prequel to It's not Frequel, but it's the story of
Speaker 1: how The Godfather got made, and it's on Paramount. I
Speaker 1: am two episodes from being finished. It's a total of ten.
Speaker 1: I have been from last night to this morning. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. The hair's wet, not because I worked out,
Speaker 1: because I've been watching it up until about thirty minutes ago.
Speaker 1: Does Steve I get too obsessed? Like it's so good
Speaker 1: And now we're gonna watch The Godfather tonight just to
Speaker 1: see how it like it comes together. But I need
Speaker 1: to do a little bit more research. I don't know
Speaker 1: how much of it is fictional or like fact. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm hoping that, you know, like most things,
Speaker 1: it's like loosely based on fact. But it's awesome. And
Speaker 1: Miles Teller, who I've always thought as a great actor,
Speaker 1: is phenomenal in it. And there's also the girl Um
Speaker 1: from ted Lasso, the cute wand a little one you know,
Speaker 1: she's his assistant. She's awesome. It's a great cast and
Speaker 1: you and Jarret would love it. Love it, love it,
Speaker 1: love it. You know who's a real EFFICI had auto
Speaker 1: on The Godfather, Steve Arino Andrews. He knows history. I
Speaker 1: it's a go to Christmas gift for him. I give
Speaker 1: him all these books on like behind the scenes with
Speaker 1: The Godfather. My dad can tell you anything about it.
Speaker 1: I love it. Yeah, Marlon Brando's character and I don't
Speaker 1: know who plays him in this, but it's very good.
Speaker 1: If you guys are looking for a show. I highly
Speaker 1: suggested the offer on Paramount. Now there's an app I'm
Speaker 1: willing to download, you know, Yeah, there's an app. Um. Shoot,
Speaker 1: there was something on the tip of my tongue. Did
Speaker 1: I write it down? Oh? So we talked about Derek
Speaker 1: Jeter's corractus. I um, I also sat at a brunch
Speaker 1: yesterday and I'm getting ready to go in an hour
Speaker 1: or so. Learn how to do my hair with the
Speaker 1: dice and wrap with one. Carson and Harper Fit can't
Speaker 1: take it. My favorite favorite gals in town. So you
Speaker 1: came to Montana with Steve, and I was so excited
Speaker 1: that you got to meet a family that means a
Speaker 1: lot to me. And their three children are so fantastic.
Speaker 1: And I've learned a lot out here in Montana about
Speaker 1: raising kids and how you discipline them and how they
Speaker 1: all get along and things like that. Um our girlfriend
Speaker 1: Ashley is uh friends or yeah, it has these three
Speaker 1: kids and their youngest. If you would tell me that
Speaker 1: that was your daughter and I didn't know, I would
Speaker 1: believe you. Carson, eleven years old, explained her. I mean, so,
Speaker 1: Aaron's very sweet and extends the invitation. Now. I've been
Speaker 1: out to Montana a couple of different times, but not
Speaker 1: with you. Know. I always missed them the Hips Gang
Speaker 1: when they're out there because I always come at different times.
Speaker 1: So I've been hearing about your friends for years. I
Speaker 1: feel like I know them even before I met them. Okay.
Speaker 1: So their daughter Carson, as you just mentioned, is so funny.
Speaker 1: I think she's ten or eleven and she acts like
Speaker 1: she's twenty five. There was this situation going on and
Speaker 1: I was very concerned about it. They were involved dogs,
Speaker 1: and then you know us as a group, we collective
Speaker 1: languagen owner. That was like the dog was in the car,
Speaker 1: dogs were in the car for too long. I was
Speaker 1: very concerned. So was she. She comes in and just
Speaker 1: her little phrases, she's like, so, I've been doing some investigating.
Speaker 1: I mean, like five years old and an eleven Chrissa,
Speaker 1: I've been doing some digging and and had the guy's
Speaker 1: whole Wikipedia page for you. She's and you go, what's
Speaker 1: the social Security? Because she was one step away. And
Speaker 1: here's the thing. I feel like, because that generation is
Speaker 1: so quick to be able to like pull information and
Speaker 1: they're so savvy. They were telling us stories about how
Speaker 1: what goes on in these schools and like how you
Speaker 1: and I were like this listening what I know because
Speaker 1: how long has it been since we've been in high school?
Speaker 1: Way too long? And I am I don't know how
Speaker 1: parents do it. I really don't. I have the most
Speaker 1: respect for the fact that you've got to like patrol
Speaker 1: a social media world and a world that's out there
Speaker 1: that I don't even know what how it exists. Um,
Speaker 1: but kudos to the Phipps family for being able to
Speaker 1: do and so many other parents who can navigate that
Speaker 1: without being overbearing on your children. Like anyway, so I've
Speaker 1: down a few Carson quotes because you told me to. Okay, great,
Speaker 1: So yesterday I didn't even tell her I was doing
Speaker 1: it until it was just so funny. So we were
Speaker 1: sitting there and we're talking about football, and she was
Speaker 1: asking when I was going to see her, and then
Speaker 1: she asked when you were going to see her? And
Speaker 1: then she said, where's the super Bowl? And I said
Speaker 1: it's in Arizona, and she goes, we should all go
Speaker 1: to the super Bowl. And I said, well, if a
Speaker 1: certain team makes it, I'm sure I'll probably see you there.
Speaker 1: And she said, I said, you know, Chris is going
Speaker 1: to be at the super Bowl, right, and she goes,
Speaker 1: you and Carrisa will be better than the halftime shop.
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. You guys, we're going to put
Speaker 1: Carson with her parents, provision her and Harper. I asked
Speaker 1: her to do it today, but I forgot to call
Speaker 1: her over. I said, well, we'll do a fun little
Speaker 1: thing with curs, right, okay. So here's another one. Somebody
Speaker 1: and her family was telling a story and she goes,
Speaker 1: whoa pause, mute, take a second. What did she say? Wait?
Speaker 1: This is how out of touch we are with like
Speaker 1: that whole world, because everything she says is so funny.
Speaker 1: What did she say to you about you better work
Speaker 1: or something? What did she say? Yeah, I kind of
Speaker 1: went off one night in the car about something and
Speaker 1: then I hadn't taken a breath. I was just like going, going, going,
Speaker 1: and right at the end of it, she goes, you
Speaker 1: better slay Aaron. M final thing. When she's coming up
Speaker 1: with all these quotes, I said, Carcy, would you do
Speaker 1: our podcast tomorrow? She goes, I would love to, but
Speaker 1: somebody's gonna need to shock me when I'm saying too much, Well, Carson,
Speaker 1: welcome to my world. I need to I need to
Speaker 1: have a tranquilizer or like one of those shock callers
Speaker 1: you give dogs and it's like you get too close
Speaker 1: to the electrical fens. It's like, whoa God. I wish
Speaker 1: I could I wish I could say all the things
Speaker 1: I want to say, But anyway, that's for the Calm
Speaker 1: Down After Hours podcast. You feel better, you got some
Speaker 1: things off your change. We started in hot I know,
Speaker 1: and I appreciate you letting me ran. I'm just really,
Speaker 1: I think I've reached a point that if you don't
Speaker 1: know the whole story, shut upp. Don't pretend like you
Speaker 1: know the ending. You know, if if you're missing some
Speaker 1: chapters in there because they were left out of the
Speaker 1: book on purpose or for other reasons, don't pretend like
Speaker 1: you know how the ending goes. And that same goes
Speaker 1: for me too, because I need to remember that that
Speaker 1: if I am quick to make snap judgments on people,
Speaker 1: there's always more to people's story. There's always things that
Speaker 1: are going on that you don't know. Be nice to
Speaker 1: other people and just recognize that they're all dealing with
Speaker 1: their own ships. So but if you're an asshole, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna call you out on being an asshole, okay, because
Speaker 1: I can I can take it. I can take it.
Speaker 1: I can take it, and then I'm gonna be like,
Speaker 1: you know what, We're good here. So thank you for
Speaker 1: letting me ran. For those of you guys that tuned out,
Speaker 1: an hour ago. Thank you, I love you and Carson
Speaker 1: get over here right now. This is the column podcast.
Speaker 1: We will put more on our I G and explain
Speaker 1: all the things you and um person need to do.
Speaker 1: Interview okay for the and to put it up on
Speaker 1: that Yeah, okay, I love it. Bye, guys, love it.
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