1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: Calm Down with Aaron and Carissa is a production of 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: I Heart Radio. WHOA, I have so many windows open, 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: I'm taking a picture. This is bringing it right back 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 1: to Jackie Quick. What do you mean remember how she 5 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:17,959 Speaker 1: made it fun of you from the window to the wall, 6 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: looked at this? Okay, anyways, this is for that. This 7 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: is for the I g welcome everybody to the Calm 8 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: Down Podcast. In case you missed the episode where air 9 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: a nice girlfriend, Jackie Quick pointed out that on Aaron's 10 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 1: phone she had seventy five windows open. I just realized 11 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: on my computer, who's been doing house and home? There's 12 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: so you can't even see it from here. It doesn't 13 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: even matter. I want everybody right now to go to 14 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 1: their Safari or whatever you're using and see what you have. Okay, 15 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 1: this is a fun game. I have nineteen tabs open. 16 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 1: It's not that. That is about considering what you had before. 17 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: How do you you have a quick count on it 18 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: like that? Yeah, this may be one of the new phones, 19 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: and uh it basically says what I have opened. I'll 20 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: take a look at. I'll tell you what I did 21 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 1: take a look at. I'm not really want to go 22 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: back and listen or watch what I do. I used 23 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: to do it early on in my career for like 24 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: different nuanced things that I don't realize I say, like 25 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 1: are that kind of stuff like film study? That's how 26 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 1: I used to look at it. Now I'm like, Okay, 27 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 1: if I don't have this ship figured out by now, 28 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 1: I should get a new profession. But I have went 29 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: back and listen because I've been in the car a 30 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 1: lot lately. To some of our podcast my voice is 31 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:27,839 Speaker 1: so fucking annoying. I need to bring it down a notch. 32 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 1: It's like, do you have that thing where you hear 33 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: yourself talk and you're like, that's what I sound like anyway? 34 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 1: So I apologize, Oh stop, I mess up every sentence. 35 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 1: I can't get it out. It's because my brain is 36 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: going quicker than my mouth can keep up, which is 37 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: usually why I'm in trouble in my marriage half of 38 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 1: the half the time. See right there, I just have 39 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: so many things to say, not enough time to cover 40 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 1: the ground. You know, I don't finish a thought. It's 41 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: very frenetic. Um all right, So I wanna be Jason 42 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: Bateman because he always does like SmartLess where he's like 43 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: talking like this, and he just so great and I 44 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: should start. Can you imagine if we started Fox or 45 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 1: Amazon that way? Um, Kevin, thanks so much. So it 46 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: will be interesting to see how the packers offense is 47 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 1: able to adjust without people would ship themselves. I'll tell 48 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 1: you what else too. I always forget that let the 49 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:23,399 Speaker 1: microphone do the work. Like, why am I yelling the microphones' 50 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: right here? Because I'm gonna tell you a few people 51 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 1: and they will remain nameless that I hear say things 52 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,359 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, bring it down a notch, sister 53 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: or brother. Why are we yelling welcome everybody? And you're like, 54 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 1: oh my blowing the windows? Carrie Underwood, Oh, my dad, 55 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 1: you shatter that window and wall. It's my dad always 56 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 1: like at the beginning of a game. I mean, I 57 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: don't have my phone on me, but I can usually 58 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: see it. It's in my bomb. But he uh, he 59 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: will always say if we're an allowed place like week one, 60 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: we're going to be in Minnesota, will be allowed. The 61 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 1: packers are there, my dad, I can always like guess 62 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 1: his first time, Hey, it sounds really loud and there, 63 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: make sure you hold that might close to your mouth. Steven, 64 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: what a dreamboat? Well, I'll tell you what's really loud 65 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 1: for those of you that are watching on YouTube or 66 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 1: seeing this on a clip, this lipstick that I have 67 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 1: on this little lip cran because I'm up at the lake, 68 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 1: so that means there's not a speck of makeup to 69 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 1: be found. Because guys, that's my new thing, like all natural. 70 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 1: Like back in the day, I used to wear a 71 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: saying this respectfully, a Tammy Faye Baker amount of makeup 72 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: like I was ready at all times seven inch to letter. 73 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: It's seven inches of foundation. Yeah, because I had fucking 74 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: terrible skin. I don't even swear, sorry, mom, and so 75 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: I would always be piling on the makeup. Well, thanks 76 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: to this new product. I'm just kidding. Um, I got 77 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 1: a great new dermatologist who finally suggested stuff. So I'm 78 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: not breaking out as much as I used to. But what, 79 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 1: I don't have any makeup up here, so I just 80 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: throw on this lip kran. I've got a new It's 81 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: very aggressive. I don't know if it's the one of 82 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: eight hundred supplements I'm taking right now. I'm I've been 83 00:03:57,960 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: off I VF for a minute, so I know that's 84 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: out of my body. I'm getting like little black heads 85 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: or zips around my lip line. Jared, don't you want 86 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: to kiss me right now? And I'm not really good 87 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 1: about leaving it alone, as you know, and I'm scarring. 88 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 1: So I saw you when I was with you last Tanny. 89 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 1: You were picking your face and I looked over you 90 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 1: and I said, stopped doing that in Jared, you out 91 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:23,679 Speaker 1: by the way. I did get it out the other day. Well, 92 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 1: a couple of things about that. Usually when I used 93 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: to get him around the lip line, it was from 94 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: the aforementioned lipsticks, so that would stay in there too long. 95 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: Or I'm an excessive chapstick user. I think you know 96 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: this about me, like two things I need to have 97 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 1: at all times a hair thing and chapstick. In fact, 98 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 1: I had a whole breakdown in Italy, like I you know, 99 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:41,919 Speaker 1: when you're like first dating someone, you're trying not to 100 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 1: be a total disaster. I lost my ship over a 101 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: hair thing and chapstick. And he's like, Okay, from now on, 102 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 1: I'm always going to have chapstick and a hair thing 103 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: on me. I was like, I need tell the story. 104 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: So I love this. All of you out there that 105 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: are starting in a new relationship, you can relate to 106 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 1: this and all of us that have been are in 107 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 1: relationship and the jig is up. We are neurotic. So 108 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 1: what happened? Okay? So uh, it's the first vacation and 109 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: again this was a vacation that again we're going back 110 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:10,359 Speaker 1: to Italy. For anyone that's over this conversation, it's not 111 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:14,479 Speaker 1: about the trip. It's about the dating someone new. So 112 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: you're trying to be cute and normal and not right, 113 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 1: not be a total disaster. I don't know what month 114 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: you get into dating someone where you finally are like, 115 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: fuck here, this is who I am? Likever seven it's 116 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: always like seven years your marriage falls apart seven months. 117 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: It's like you have your first massive fight in a relationship. 118 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, you told me the other day. 119 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,840 Speaker 1: Am I allowed to say that Mr and Mrs thing? Yeah? 120 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: Ashley fips a shout out to you. Okay, So Aaron 121 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: was telling me the other day whenever she gets in 122 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 1: an argument, it's called a MR and mrs, which I 123 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 1: think is so sweet. So, as someone who clearly as 124 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: a lot of um, how should I say this? Um, 125 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: I'm a nepped in the areas of relationships, and so 126 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,359 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get better at them. And my parents 127 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 1: have been married since were eighteen. I always solicited advice 128 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 1: from people that are successful in marriages. My mom and 129 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: my dad when they get in a fight, they call 130 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: each other name like opposite name, Like they have nicknames 131 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:12,600 Speaker 1: for each other Johnny and Julie. So my dad's like, Julie, 132 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: you're being a real bitch right now, and she's like, Johnny, 133 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 1: you're being a real asshole right now. So it's not 134 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: like they're saying it to each other, but they're actually 135 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 1: talking to their like alter ego. Okay, so fine, that's 136 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 1: a great tip. Then it's not personal anyway, Jar's the 137 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 1: Tommy and so many times over the rodeo this weegning, 138 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:33,039 Speaker 1: I was like, Tommy, Linda, I missed you so to 139 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: feel you guys in so I wouldn't visited Aaron who's 140 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 1: in Montana, and my boyfriend who I spoke about last podcast. Also, 141 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: but with me, he's the time we get it. He 142 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: has this thing where he refers to me as Linda. 143 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 1: Like when it's like Lynda is getting real upset she 144 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,040 Speaker 1: doesn't even hear things on her run now, Lynda is 145 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 1: getting real upset that she doesn't have any look state. 146 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 1: So it's just like a way to like lighten the 147 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 1: mood or whatever. I called him Tommy. He called me Linda. 148 00:06:56,520 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: Great but before we got into the nicknames on this trip, 149 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: and I'm like, Okay, don't lose it, don't lose it. 150 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 1: It's hot, like you know when you're trying to like 151 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 1: blow dry your hair and like be cute and the 152 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: whole thing, and then you're sweating and the whole deal. 153 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: We talked, you have a reservation, you gotta go. He 154 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 1: made the girl that's laid exactly, and I pried myself 155 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: on being not high maintenance, and I'm like, oh, I 156 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: can get ready in five minutes. Yeah, I got it 157 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 1: all of a sudden. Now I've decided to shave my 158 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 1: legs the razor stool. Now I'm bleeding. Now we're trying 159 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: to stop the bleeding. We're putting that there's a nose 160 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 1: hair hanging out. You realize you have like five on 161 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: your eyebrow. There's things to do, there's things to do exactly. 162 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: So now we're fifteen minutes in and I've just made 163 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: a point that I'm so quick and low maintenance. I'm like, fine, 164 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: I'll just slick back the hair. I'll be cute, put 165 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 1: on a bold lip and keep it moving. Can't find 166 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: the hair thing, and I'm like, god, damn, only I 167 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 1: have seven hundred hair things, you know, I can't find it. 168 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: He's like, what's the hair thing? Like, man like, don't know. 169 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: And then they's like the smallest things like was it 170 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 1: a rubber band you needed or a scrunch anything to 171 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: like me give me one bobby pin. That's another thing, Ladies, 172 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 1: where are there are they? When you meet him at 173 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: a time like this, you're scrounging around in the bottom 174 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: of the carry on bag. You're looking everywhere, you can't 175 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 1: find one when you don't need one. You've got enough 176 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 1: to do an updo anyway. So that's the perils of 177 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: being in like a new relationship. You're trying to be cute, 178 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: but he's adorable. So he's like, I'm just gonna keep 179 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: a plethora of hair things. You call them in chapstick 180 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 1: on um call or what's it called reserve? Who gives 181 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 1: on hand? Yeah, sure we'll go with that. So you guys, okay, 182 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:38,959 Speaker 1: So I mean, listen, I think it's amazing that you 183 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: went to Europe. You were eight cities, how many days together, 184 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,959 Speaker 1: different hotels, one toilet. We've all talked about it. But 185 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:50,839 Speaker 1: I mean, I think that's phenomenal in terms of, like, 186 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 1: you know, being adventurous and trying out your relationship. Have 187 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: you had a good MR and mrs as yet? Yeah, because, 188 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: as someone pointed out the other not know not over 189 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: that um. But it's no mystery, Like I got out 190 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 1: of a marriage and now I am in a new relationship. 191 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: And some people can think that's really fast. But people 192 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: only you and a few other business by the way, 193 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 1: it's not yours. Only you and a few people who 194 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: I am very close with. No the whole story. And 195 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: that's all that I need to say about that. But 196 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,079 Speaker 1: I know what, you don't have to explain yourself, and 197 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: I don't ask other people to explain in themselves. It's 198 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:31,959 Speaker 1: your business, it's your life. Guess what my girl's happy. 199 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 1: If anyone has any comments, concerns, or different user names, 200 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: feel free to check me out well security offline. I'm 201 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: going to tell you someone that brought something up to 202 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: me the other day and I was like, and I 203 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 1: wanted to go off want a text message to this 204 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 1: said person, And I was like, why I bring it up, 205 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,839 Speaker 1: don't say who it is? What what happened that that 206 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: they said, Oh, it's not a good look that she's 207 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 1: already in a relationship. Well you don't know what I've 208 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 1: been Excuse me, Okay, so you know we're going to 209 00:09:57,200 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: just leave it right there. The point is is that 210 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: I am very happy in my life, and it doesn't 211 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: matter who I say, who I say when I say who. 212 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 1: If you guys get the reference, it's pretty woman, okay, 213 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 1: if you don't get rented um, but yes, anyway, So 214 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,679 Speaker 1: I'm very happy and that's all that matters in my 215 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 1: life because I'm getting to a place and I know 216 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 1: you and I have talked about this at nausea, whether 217 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 1: it's professionally or personally. If it doesn't feel good, I'm 218 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 1: not doing it anymore. And I'm standing up for myself. 219 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,079 Speaker 1: I even did it on set the other day. And 220 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 1: I worried for a long time about being a quote diva, 221 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:36,959 Speaker 1: right because I try to be very malleable and very 222 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: patient and a lot of things on set because there's 223 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 1: a lot of people in this industry that won't and 224 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 1: they I think it's important to be a team player, 225 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 1: got it. I think it's a hopefully a characteristic that 226 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: other people I've worked with can say about me. But 227 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:53,200 Speaker 1: if things are taking too long or things aren't right, 228 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: you have the right. At least I feel like at 229 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 1: this point, fifteen years into this job, that I can 230 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 1: raise my hand and be like, no, we're not gonna 231 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: do that. No we're not gonna do it. And it 232 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: doesn't make me a bit and it doesn't make me 233 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,319 Speaker 1: a diva. I'm standing up for myself, got it. So 234 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 1: I'm doing that professionally and personally. My rant is over 235 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:11,319 Speaker 1: because what people don't understand is that for us, particularly 236 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: you and I, we could particularly is that a word 237 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 1: we have always been one of the guys you and 238 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,319 Speaker 1: I have. We go with the flow because you know what, 239 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: that's my first advice to people and girls in this industry. 240 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,319 Speaker 1: Don't shake the boat, don't rattle the boat, go with 241 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: the flow. Time. Yeah, yeah, you gotta do it because 242 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 1: be on time to the dinners, to be early if 243 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:35,839 Speaker 1: you find a hair thing for goodness, stakes because you're 244 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:39,359 Speaker 1: gonna get left. And it is hard for us sometimes 245 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: to stick up for ourselves because we don't want to 246 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:46,080 Speaker 1: be these dramatic rames that you and I know very 247 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 1: well in this industry that burn a lot of bridges 248 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 1: before they become what they think they really are. Any 249 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 1: who take it from there, Yeah, I just And whether 250 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 1: it's in this business or it's in any business. I mean, 251 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 1: I think for me, being a part of a team, 252 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: and that could be in a relationship that can be 253 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:05,959 Speaker 1: professionally is so important. Right, You're not always right, But 254 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 1: what's the greater good, you know, for the respective group, 255 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 1: for the relationship or the friendship. Like you and I 256 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 1: have had disagreements on stuff, it's like we we have 257 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 1: gotten to a place in our friendship where we can 258 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: be honest with each other. And if you can't be 259 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: honest in various aspects of your life, then you need 260 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 1: to get out of it. It's kind of the place 261 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:26,079 Speaker 1: that I'm at. But I think that comes with age. 262 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 1: I didn't find that in me until the last couple 263 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:30,959 Speaker 1: of years, where I'm like, you know what, I'm not 264 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 1: going to do that. It's okay to say no, and 265 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: if that opportunity passes me by, then so be it. 266 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 1: And it wasn't meant to be. But and I know that, 267 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: and we get a lot of questions, which I think 268 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:44,319 Speaker 1: is awesome, And I think there's a responsibility um for 269 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: anyone that like listens to this podcast and wants to 270 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,199 Speaker 1: be a broadcaster or anything. I don't know, I don't 271 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 1: maybe you don't even want to be a broadcaster, but 272 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 1: is to be a part of a team, but also 273 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: stand up for yourself when there's a time and there's 274 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 1: a place. I don't know how this became a ted talk, 275 00:12:57,440 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 1: but I'm just really over I'm you know what I'm 276 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 1: not doing anymore. I'm not apologizing and if it maybe 277 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:04,079 Speaker 1: it sounds like I am right now, but I'm a 278 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: fact I'm over it. Like I know who I am. 279 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 1: I'm proud of who I've become. I've made a lot 280 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: of mistakes along the way, but I'm all about continuing 281 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 1: to learn and get better. I have a therapy appointment 282 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 1: in an hour now. I don't which I should around 283 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:21,839 Speaker 1: here anywhere? Are you human? Yeah? You are great. Guess what, 284 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:24,719 Speaker 1: everybody is allowed to make mistakes if you're human. I 285 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 1: mean we always have to sit here and excuse other 286 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 1: people for bad behavior. You have not had bad behavior. 287 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: I just think what's funny and a lot of people 288 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 1: forget this is guys, when you're an A list celebrity, 289 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 1: which we're not. We're not at all. But listen, our 290 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:41,839 Speaker 1: lives are very much out there, and uh, you know, 291 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 1: my neighbor over here, I'm not asking them how many 292 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: times they've been married. I'm not judging them if this 293 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: is their third, second, fourth finn wife and I just 294 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:52,559 Speaker 1: think it's hilarious and also it pisces me off and 295 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:54,679 Speaker 1: I bow up a little bit with my girl. For 296 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 1: anyone that has an opinion, keep it to yourself. Guess 297 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 1: what not interested enough crap in this world is going on? 298 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 1: Keep it to yourself. Life is way too short. I 299 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 1: just got off a call about a campaign for heart health. 300 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: I was talking about how it's very much on my 301 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,160 Speaker 1: mind because of my dad and his heart attack a 302 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 1: couple of years ago. Life is too short. You don't 303 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 1: need to make excuses for yourself. You've got a lot 304 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 1: of people in your corner right now. You've got a 305 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: lot of really really good friends that have said to 306 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: you over and over, we love seeing that smile back. 307 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: Linda is just the house is out there ready. She 308 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 1: is ready wearing a floral dress from I don't know 309 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: what year this dress is from, but it was it 310 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 1: looks great, Cherry Red. I was at a Thai food 311 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: restaurant last year waiting to be seated, and this woman 312 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 1: asked if I was me and I said yes, and 313 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:51,840 Speaker 1: she goes, well, my god, you're prettier than you are online. Uh. 314 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 1: And I was like thanks, and she goes, you and 315 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: your girlfriend and your boots couldn't have been cure stop it. 316 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 1: Thank you that. It's so sweet. If everyone so worry 317 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 1: about your own ship, don't worry about mine, don't worry 318 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 1: about yours, worry about your own knocket. I love you. 319 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: Kathy Thompson says it says it best my mom. She's like, 320 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: you don't like everyone. Not everyone has to like you. 321 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 1: And I'm good with that, I really am. And I 322 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 1: think that I worried for a long time what other 323 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 1: people thought. But you and I have both had shitty 324 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: stuff happened to us, and you keep it moving. And 325 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: as long as the people are employers, as long as 326 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 1: our friends know what the truth is, then I'm good. 327 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 1: And the YadA YadA YadA, keep it moving. I'm gonna 328 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 1: tell you, go ahead, No, your hair looks great, and 329 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 1: I mean that that couldn't be dirty. Last NASCAR turn 330 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: but god, it's so dirty that where about e a sweatshirt? 331 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 1: It's so good, It's really good. Wait stands. Part of 332 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: our new lines we drop is coming really soon, you guys. 333 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 1: It's coming in a couple of weeks with the football season. 334 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 1: This is a this is really good for those of 335 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: you guys. It's my NFL one, which you're going to 336 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 1: be getting. Like we have these in all different teams, 337 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 1: all thirty two teams in the NFL, and so edge 338 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 1: in basketball and maybe another league coming up, but um 339 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 1: in hockey as well. But I wanted to tell you 340 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 1: as you're talking about, you know, people judging you, and 341 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 1: you know you are done making excuses and and and 342 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 1: explaining yourself to people. I'm gonna tell you what you 343 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: need in your life. What it's all I've been talking 344 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 1: about for the last week. This Derek Jeter Docu Serri. 345 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: I mean, it makes you want to stick your middle 346 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 1: finger up to everyone. And I felt this way when 347 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 1: I watched the last dance as well. Um, we didn't 348 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: get to cover Michael Jordan's so obviously that was like 349 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: I was dying for every little thing. But this Derek 350 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: Jeter one, Crissa, I know, I talked to you on 351 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: the phone about it the other day. It's unbelievable. The 352 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: guy is a walking quote machine. I wrote down some 353 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 1: of them. I'm obsessed and I'm obsessed how he just 354 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 1: his parents raised him so right, he did it the 355 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 1: right way. He my favorite quote, and I used this 356 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 1: the other day when I kind of got a rejection 357 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 1: with a business venture I was trying to do. Was 358 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: I remember everybody who said I couldn't do it or 359 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: told me no. I remember what they were wearing, I 360 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 1: remember where we were, and he's like, I'm a real 361 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 1: told you so guy. Him so much so. I haven't 362 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 1: seen it yet because I was traveling when the first one. 363 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:12,880 Speaker 1: I was leaving you. Actually, I think when the first 364 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:14,880 Speaker 1: one aired, then the second one I was traveling as well, 365 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 1: and I was trying to find it. And then I'm 366 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, I've there's so many apps in the 367 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:22,119 Speaker 1: download that there's too many. So I'm waiting for it 368 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 1: to restand. I'm gonna sit down. Okay, great, sit down 369 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,159 Speaker 1: and watch it. But you were going on and on 370 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:29,200 Speaker 1: about how great it was, and you know that I'm 371 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 1: like you and so many other people I'm sure that 372 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 1: listen to this or love sports are inspired constantly and 373 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 1: by guys like him. But you mentioned doing it the 374 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 1: right way, bringing it back circuitously to like the conversation 375 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 1: I was saying with even my own ship, if you 376 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 1: he didn't, him and George Clooney remain bachelor's for a 377 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:52,400 Speaker 1: long time. And you can't knock those people who cares 378 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 1: if you have seven thousand girlfriends care, you know what 379 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 1: I mean? Like, he just did things the right way 380 00:17:56,720 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: and I absolutely love someone like that, and he didn't 381 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 1: make excuses. So you mentioned some of the quotes. I'm 382 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 1: a quote person. I grew up my father had these 383 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 1: rules all written out for us and they were called 384 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:10,959 Speaker 1: rules for success. And there was a million different quotes, 385 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 1: Um Lombardi quotes, just inspirational things, and they were on 386 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:16,000 Speaker 1: the wall in our bedroom. Plan your work, work, your plan. 387 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 1: Those who you know failed to reach their goals, failed 388 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: to set them. So I'm all in on a quote. 389 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 1: What were some of the ones if you have them 390 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 1: in front of you that like you loved or stood 391 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 1: out to you. One of them I loved a lot 392 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:33,879 Speaker 1: was competition eliminates complacency. Competition eliminates complacency. Okay, I like 393 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 1: the complacent when there's competition. Was he referring to him 394 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 1: and a Rod. No, he was just referring to each year, 395 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 1: you know, doing better and better and wanting to be better. 396 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 1: You know, they won one year, but then you know 397 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 1: everybody's coming at you. This was the one for a 398 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 1: Rod and this is what I loved, and I thought 399 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: the way he handled it. I'm wondering if later on, 400 00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 1: now that two episodes have aired, we go, oh, we 401 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 1: will have to go back to that because a Rod 402 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:02,719 Speaker 1: then comes to the Yankees. He's not with the Yankees 403 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 1: yet in it, but it kind of talks about how 404 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:08,440 Speaker 1: they were on the scene at the same time. A 405 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 1: Rod had better numbers. Everybody was kind of talking about 406 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 1: he had better numbers. But they were still really good friends. 407 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: And they did a photo shoot. They did a bunch 408 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,959 Speaker 1: of articles together, and there was this one Sports Illustrated 409 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:24,879 Speaker 1: shoot or a Rod sitting and Derek standing kind of 410 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 1: above him and has his arm around him, and apparently 411 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 1: a writer says, a Rod, you know, he just says, 412 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: no way, Jose, I would never say that. Um, this 413 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 1: is going to be the last article I do with 414 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 1: Derek basically saying, you know, I have better numbers and 415 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 1: and and yadia. So the writer wrote about it a 416 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: rod is saying it never happened. Derek is like, here's 417 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:51,960 Speaker 1: the thing. Way I wrote it down. He was so 418 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 1: good about it. He just said, I compare who won 419 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: more and we won and that was it. He's like, 420 00:19:57,359 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 1: numbers you can talk about all day long. I can 421 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 1: bear who won more and we won more? So's it 422 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,359 Speaker 1: you brought this up? We were talking about on the phone. 423 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 1: Yes that you that, Yeah, tell tell the story because 424 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 1: what you heard Jared like whisper under his breath when 425 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:13,679 Speaker 1: you guys were watching it. Because I think it's all 426 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 1: I would love to watch this with like Kelly and 427 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: Matthew as well or something, and you know anyone who's 428 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 1: played professional sports. Watching it with my husband has been 429 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: so fun because there's so many times like he'll he'll 430 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 1: talk about game circumstances and it's like, you know, there's 431 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 1: two outs and you know I'm up and all that, 432 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,119 Speaker 1: and Jared will just say, Babe, I have chills, like 433 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: I'm sweating, And I love it because my husband just 434 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 1: puts himself in the position. It's so cool. But there's 435 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 1: so many times during this docuseries that Jared will start 436 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: mumbling and I'm like, what did you just say? And 437 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 1: he's like we we. Everything he says right now is we. 438 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:51,120 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I love this man. I love him. 439 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,359 Speaker 1: And that resonates with guys that are real team players, 440 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 1: like my husband was with his team. You know, my 441 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:59,359 Speaker 1: husband was a real Derek Jeter of the Los Angeles King. 442 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 1: But it's it's about being part of a team sport, 443 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 1: and this is what we're saying before, whether it's in 444 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: a work environment, we're a part of a team. Your 445 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 1: team is Kevin and Greg and your producer and Richie 446 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 1: and z like that's your team. My team is John 447 00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 1: and Michael and Charles like you lot of teams you 448 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 1: know what I and I can't. And I love being 449 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 1: in a good teammate. But being a good teammate is 450 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: also speaking up and saying what you need as well, 451 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 1: not trying to dominate, you know, and be the captain 452 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 1: if you're not. But my dad had a whole expression 453 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 1: that if when people talk, listen to how they talk, 454 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:37,440 Speaker 1: I mean my or we are us, I mean my people. 455 00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 1: And my dad managed a lot of employees for a 456 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,960 Speaker 1: lot of like a long time. He would always listen 457 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 1: to interview how he would ask them questions like almost 458 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:48,359 Speaker 1: he calls them logic traps. Scott's what a guy. He 459 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 1: would set people up to see how they would respond 460 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,159 Speaker 1: to questions and see if their answers included I mean 461 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:55,680 Speaker 1: my or if it was a we and us, and 462 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 1: if it was at a we and in us, then 463 00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,359 Speaker 1: He's like, great, then we can then we want that 464 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:01,600 Speaker 1: as part of our team, because you know, they're not 465 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 1: thinking selfishly, so there's a time and a place to 466 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 1: say what you want. But yeah, I'm really looking forward 467 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 1: to watching it, and I'm someone who likes to watch 468 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 1: it in succession, so maybe I'll wait till they're all 469 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: out speaking to succession. Is that showever coming back? Does 470 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,760 Speaker 1: anyone who answers? Oh my gosh, Yeah, that's like a 471 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 1: false situation. It'll come back in the fall. It's so good. 472 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,919 Speaker 1: We should be extras on it. I would I mean 473 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: I would love to be an extra and anything true, 474 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:30,400 Speaker 1: well you were an extra extra? Yeah, beg you off. 475 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:43,440 Speaker 1: I am watching right now. The offer okay has anyway, 476 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:47,640 Speaker 1: So the Godfather, we know, the whole you know trilogy, 477 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:50,120 Speaker 1: that is like one of the greatest movievies of all time. 478 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,960 Speaker 1: I actually watched The Godfather a couple of months ago 479 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 1: with my dad randomly, and so then I was on 480 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:56,399 Speaker 1: set the other day and how we long who like 481 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 1: I respect more than anything in the world. He says 482 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:00,520 Speaker 1: like jump, I say, how high? And so he's so 483 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,199 Speaker 1: sweet and he's like, are you watching any shows right now? 484 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 1: I was like, no, I'm not anything that I'm like 485 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 1: that into. And he's like, have you seen The Offer? 486 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 1: And I was like no, I've never even heard of it. 487 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 1: I need to get out from underneath the rock. I've 488 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:13,359 Speaker 1: been living in um under. So the Offer is the 489 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 1: prequel to It's not Frequel, but it's the story of 490 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:19,639 Speaker 1: how The Godfather got made, and it's on Paramount. I 491 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 1: am two episodes from being finished. It's a total of ten. 492 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: I have been from last night to this morning. I'm 493 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:26,679 Speaker 1: not gonna lie. The hair's wet, not because I worked out, 494 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 1: because I've been watching it up until about thirty minutes ago. 495 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,120 Speaker 1: Does Steve I get too obsessed? Like it's so good 496 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 1: And now we're gonna watch The Godfather tonight just to 497 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 1: see how it like it comes together. But I need 498 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 1: to do a little bit more research. I don't know 499 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 1: how much of it is fictional or like fact. I 500 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,640 Speaker 1: don't know. I'm hoping that, you know, like most things, 501 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,359 Speaker 1: it's like loosely based on fact. But it's awesome. And 502 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,120 Speaker 1: Miles Teller, who I've always thought as a great actor, 503 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,960 Speaker 1: is phenomenal in it. And there's also the girl Um 504 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 1: from ted Lasso, the cute wand a little one you know, 505 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,680 Speaker 1: she's his assistant. She's awesome. It's a great cast and 506 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 1: you and Jarret would love it. Love it, love it, 507 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: love it. You know who's a real EFFICI had auto 508 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 1: on The Godfather, Steve Arino Andrews. He knows history. I 509 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: it's a go to Christmas gift for him. I give 510 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 1: him all these books on like behind the scenes with 511 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,000 Speaker 1: The Godfather. My dad can tell you anything about it. 512 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,200 Speaker 1: I love it. Yeah, Marlon Brando's character and I don't 513 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 1: know who plays him in this, but it's very good. 514 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 1: If you guys are looking for a show. I highly 515 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 1: suggested the offer on Paramount. Now there's an app I'm 516 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 1: willing to download, you know, Yeah, there's an app. Um. Shoot, 517 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,479 Speaker 1: there was something on the tip of my tongue. Did 518 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 1: I write it down? Oh? So we talked about Derek 519 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 1: Jeter's corractus. I um, I also sat at a brunch 520 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 1: yesterday and I'm getting ready to go in an hour 521 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 1: or so. Learn how to do my hair with the 522 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:52,720 Speaker 1: dice and wrap with one. Carson and Harper Fit can't 523 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 1: take it. My favorite favorite gals in town. So you 524 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 1: came to Montana with Steve, and I was so excited 525 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 1: that you got to meet a family that means a 526 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:05,240 Speaker 1: lot to me. And their three children are so fantastic. 527 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,400 Speaker 1: And I've learned a lot out here in Montana about 528 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 1: raising kids and how you discipline them and how they 529 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 1: all get along and things like that. Um our girlfriend 530 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 1: Ashley is uh friends or yeah, it has these three 531 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 1: kids and their youngest. If you would tell me that 532 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 1: that was your daughter and I didn't know, I would 533 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 1: believe you. Carson, eleven years old, explained her. I mean, so, 534 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 1: Aaron's very sweet and extends the invitation. Now. I've been 535 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 1: out to Montana a couple of different times, but not 536 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 1: with you. Know. I always missed them the Hips Gang 537 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 1: when they're out there because I always come at different times. 538 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:41,159 Speaker 1: So I've been hearing about your friends for years. I 539 00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 1: feel like I know them even before I met them. Okay. 540 00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 1: So their daughter Carson, as you just mentioned, is so funny. 541 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:50,639 Speaker 1: I think she's ten or eleven and she acts like 542 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:54,159 Speaker 1: she's twenty five. There was this situation going on and 543 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 1: I was very concerned about it. They were involved dogs, 544 00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 1: and then you know us as a group, we collective 545 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 1: languagen owner. That was like the dog was in the car, 546 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 1: dogs were in the car for too long. I was 547 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: very concerned. So was she. She comes in and just 548 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 1: her little phrases, she's like, so, I've been doing some investigating. 549 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 1: I mean, like five years old and an eleven Chrissa, 550 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:18,359 Speaker 1: I've been doing some digging and and had the guy's 551 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 1: whole Wikipedia page for you. She's and you go, what's 552 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 1: the social Security? Because she was one step away. And 553 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: here's the thing. I feel like, because that generation is 554 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:30,920 Speaker 1: so quick to be able to like pull information and 555 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:34,199 Speaker 1: they're so savvy. They were telling us stories about how 556 00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,639 Speaker 1: what goes on in these schools and like how you 557 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,879 Speaker 1: and I were like this listening what I know because 558 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:42,639 Speaker 1: how long has it been since we've been in high school? 559 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 1: Way too long? And I am I don't know how 560 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: parents do it. I really don't. I have the most 561 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 1: respect for the fact that you've got to like patrol 562 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,159 Speaker 1: a social media world and a world that's out there 563 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 1: that I don't even know what how it exists. Um, 564 00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 1: but kudos to the Phipps family for being able to 565 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 1: do and so many other parents who can navigate that 566 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:06,360 Speaker 1: without being overbearing on your children. Like anyway, so I've 567 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: down a few Carson quotes because you told me to. Okay, great, 568 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,360 Speaker 1: So yesterday I didn't even tell her I was doing 569 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,760 Speaker 1: it until it was just so funny. So we were 570 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 1: sitting there and we're talking about football, and she was 571 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:18,479 Speaker 1: asking when I was going to see her, and then 572 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 1: she asked when you were going to see her? And 573 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 1: then she said, where's the super Bowl? And I said 574 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 1: it's in Arizona, and she goes, we should all go 575 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,040 Speaker 1: to the super Bowl. And I said, well, if a 576 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,880 Speaker 1: certain team makes it, I'm sure I'll probably see you there. 577 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,199 Speaker 1: And she said, I said, you know, Chris is going 578 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 1: to be at the super Bowl, right, and she goes, 579 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 1: you and Carrisa will be better than the halftime shop. 580 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,400 Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. You guys, we're going to put 581 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 1: Carson with her parents, provision her and Harper. I asked 582 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,480 Speaker 1: her to do it today, but I forgot to call 583 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 1: her over. I said, well, we'll do a fun little 584 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 1: thing with curs, right, okay. So here's another one. Somebody 585 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,360 Speaker 1: and her family was telling a story and she goes, 586 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 1: whoa pause, mute, take a second. What did she say? Wait? 587 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 1: This is how out of touch we are with like 588 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 1: that whole world, because everything she says is so funny. 589 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,880 Speaker 1: What did she say to you about you better work 590 00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,639 Speaker 1: or something? What did she say? Yeah, I kind of 591 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 1: went off one night in the car about something and 592 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 1: then I hadn't taken a breath. I was just like going, going, going, 593 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 1: and right at the end of it, she goes, you 594 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:32,000 Speaker 1: better slay Aaron. M final thing. When she's coming up 595 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,359 Speaker 1: with all these quotes, I said, Carcy, would you do 596 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:37,680 Speaker 1: our podcast tomorrow? She goes, I would love to, but 597 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:42,280 Speaker 1: somebody's gonna need to shock me when I'm saying too much, Well, Carson, 598 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: welcome to my world. I need to I need to 599 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 1: have a tranquilizer or like one of those shock callers 600 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 1: you give dogs and it's like you get too close 601 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,360 Speaker 1: to the electrical fens. It's like, whoa God. I wish 602 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 1: I could I wish I could say all the things 603 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 1: I want to say, But anyway, that's for the Calm 604 00:28:56,600 --> 00:29:00,040 Speaker 1: Down After Hours podcast. You feel better, you got some 605 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 1: things off your change. We started in hot I know, 606 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 1: and I appreciate you letting me ran. I'm just really, 607 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 1: I think I've reached a point that if you don't 608 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:12,400 Speaker 1: know the whole story, shut upp. Don't pretend like you 609 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 1: know the ending. You know, if if you're missing some 610 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 1: chapters in there because they were left out of the 611 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 1: book on purpose or for other reasons, don't pretend like 612 00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 1: you know how the ending goes. And that same goes 613 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 1: for me too, because I need to remember that that 614 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,360 Speaker 1: if I am quick to make snap judgments on people, 615 00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 1: there's always more to people's story. There's always things that 616 00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 1: are going on that you don't know. Be nice to 617 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 1: other people and just recognize that they're all dealing with 618 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,520 Speaker 1: their own ships. So but if you're an asshole, I'm 619 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 1: gonna call you out on being an asshole, okay, because 620 00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 1: I can I can take it. I can take it. 621 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 1: I can take it, and then I'm gonna be like, 622 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,640 Speaker 1: you know what, We're good here. So thank you for 623 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 1: letting me ran. For those of you guys that tuned out, 624 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 1: an hour ago. Thank you, I love you and Carson 625 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 1: get over here right now. This is the column podcast. 626 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 1: We will put more on our I G and explain 627 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,680 Speaker 1: all the things you and um person need to do. 628 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 1: Interview okay for the and to put it up on 629 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,400 Speaker 1: that Yeah, okay, I love it. Bye, guys, love it. 630 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 1: Calm Down with Aaron and Chrissa is a production of 631 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 1: I heart Radio. For more podcasts from my heart Radio, 632 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 1: visit the i heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever 633 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 1: you get your podcasts.