Speaker 1: Second day and the great prophet Rihanna taught us that
Speaker 1: sometimes you can find love even in the most hopeless
Speaker 1: of places. Oh yeah, yeah, wouldn't you know? It was
Speaker 1: right right because one of our listeners, Sean, emailed in
Speaker 1: saying he had a romantic connection recently in a place
Speaker 1: you probably wouldn't think to go find love.
Speaker 2: Oh interesting, I.
Speaker 1: Find that out in just a second. Where it is,
Speaker 1: we'll see, Sean. Welcome to the show man.
Speaker 3: Hey, how are you guys?
Speaker 4: I'm always concerned if Jeffrey's weirded out about where you
Speaker 4: found love just from his own love.
Speaker 2: Grocery store.
Speaker 1: I didn't say weirded out. I just said it was unexpected.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, that's true.
Speaker 5: That's a different definition.
Speaker 1: So where was this place, Sean? And how many unexpected
Speaker 1: holes did you find in the walls around you?
Speaker 3: So long story short. I had to do a community
Speaker 3: service for he did with the body of mine. But
Speaker 3: I chose to do volunteer work at a food bank
Speaker 3: the other week and cool, yeah yeah, yeah. So I
Speaker 3: met a girl named Sophie was really cute and she
Speaker 3: was also volunteering.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, hold on say also volunteering.
Speaker 2: She was volunteering. You were forced to be there.
Speaker 4: I mean it's cool that you chose a great yeah,
Speaker 4: but force volunteering.
Speaker 3: The bracker way to put it.
Speaker 1: Okay, did she know?
Speaker 4: Can I just ask right off the bat? Did she
Speaker 4: know that's why you were there?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: Good?
Speaker 3: I think she thought I was also just like volunteering.
Speaker 4: Okay, and you never mentioned it?
Speaker 1: Well why would you?
Speaker 5: Hey?
Speaker 1: Hey everyone, I don't want to be here. The courts
Speaker 1: made me, but uh, you know, let's help some people out.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, I'm not a volunteer.
Speaker 2: I'm a criminal.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I don't want to start for my
Speaker 3: deficit totally.
Speaker 4: Some people lead into the bad boy thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm curious. How did you start things off?
Speaker 1: What was the opener?
Speaker 3: I tried to make a joke. Well, we were there
Speaker 3: and it was a little inappropriate. I said, Yeah, they
Speaker 3: called me up because apparently they ran out of sausage.
Speaker 1: Oh wow wow.
Speaker 4: Wait wait she laughed at that.
Speaker 3: No, she didn't get it. Okay, she said, I don't
Speaker 3: think they can store meats here. It's mostly just canned. Good.
Speaker 4: I hope you didn't explain the joke.
Speaker 1: I hope you just want to No, No, it's funny
Speaker 1: because I'm referencing my body. Yeah, I'm talking about no.
Speaker 3: No, I'm glad I just moved on.
Speaker 1: Disguise.
Speaker 4: Let's not pull that one out anymore.
Speaker 2: Your choice of words, bro.
Speaker 1: So what ended up happening with you and Sophie?
Speaker 3: Well, we were there together for like three hours, and
Speaker 3: we were just side by side for a long time,
Speaker 3: just talking, getting to know each other. And the more
Speaker 3: we hung out, the more relaxed and comfortable I felt
Speaker 3: with her, And I think the feeling was mutual.
Speaker 4: Oh you do think so, because no one goes into
Speaker 4: volunteering at a food bank thinking they're going to meet somebody.
Speaker 4: She may have just you know, was friendly.
Speaker 5: Yeah, makeup and wear the nicest dress and go volunteers
Speaker 5: more cleavage.
Speaker 1: Getting the real natural Sophie.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Well, how often you with somebody for three hours straight nowadays,
Speaker 3: you know, besides like golfing?
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, we were together for like nine.
Speaker 4: Hours prison cell in your case.
Speaker 1: Oh that was important joke?
Speaker 3: All right.
Speaker 4: Did did you end up asking her out?
Speaker 3: Well? Yeah, I mean, well I'm in another joke at
Speaker 3: the end, and I was like, I've gotten empty backpack.
Speaker 3: We can load it up and have dinner.
Speaker 2: Now you're stealing from the food bank.
Speaker 4: Did she laugh? Then?
Speaker 3: Yeah, she laughed.
Speaker 1: She has a sense of humor.
Speaker 4: Joke, all right, did you go share canna spaghettios together?
Speaker 3: So I told her I wanted to volunteer again when
Speaker 3: she was working. So I got her number and we
Speaker 3: texted for like two hours that night.
Speaker 1: Oh that's good, I can keep the conversation going nice.
Speaker 4: So it was. It was obviously a romantic thing.
Speaker 3: Then, yeah, that's what I thought. Then. Ever since those
Speaker 3: two hours, nothing hasn't responded to anything.
Speaker 4: Have you gone and volunteered?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 4: No, no, I didn't think.
Speaker 1: Maybe your bad boy attitude rubbed off on her and
Speaker 1: now she's living a life of crime.
Speaker 2: She can't go back. She did steal a bunch of stuff.
Speaker 1: She took them, seriously, I.
Speaker 3: Had no idea. I'm just wondering. May I don't know.
Speaker 3: Maybe she lost her phone.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I think so, yeah, do you replace
Speaker 2: them immediately?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Maybe One of her roommates explained the sausage joke
Speaker 3: to her later.
Speaker 5: You know, I bet she didn't even remember that I did.
Speaker 1: Anything. She should like you more after she understands.
Speaker 2: She's like, oh wait a minute, she's hilarious.
Speaker 1: All right, So how long has it been since you volunteered?
Speaker 3: Like a week?
Speaker 1: Okay, she definitely has a phone. A week with no
Speaker 1: response is a big red flag. We're gonna call her
Speaker 1: and see if she even answers. Maybe she didn't actually
Speaker 1: change her number after working with you. I hope not.
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll find something in the middle when we come
Speaker 1: back with your second date update right after this update over,
Speaker 1: Like ninety percent of these calls now have people that
Speaker 1: meet on dating apps, but today's was different. These two
Speaker 1: met volunteering at a food bank.
Speaker 4: I think my heart will go on? Is that what
Speaker 4: I hear? It's low?
Speaker 1: Okay, thanks for derailing what I was saying. They met
Speaker 1: at a food bank, yeah, and that's where Sean ran
Speaker 1: into Sophie. They sparked a whirlwind romance there, filled with
Speaker 1: canned goods and canned.
Speaker 4: Laughter sausage jokes.
Speaker 1: But even though they texted for hours afterwards, suddenly she
Speaker 1: cut off all communication. Yeah, which is weird, and Sean
Speaker 1: rest of shirt. I talked to Brooke off the air,
Speaker 1: and she promised, unlike the last seven ones of these
Speaker 1: that we've done, She's not gonna throw you under the bus.
Speaker 1: Doesn't that feel good?
Speaker 4: I appreciate that broke Oh yeah, yeah, I think he
Speaker 4: swear it on that one.
Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't trust her, but that's what she says.
Speaker 4: I mean, it really feels, honestly, like this comes down
Speaker 4: to she thought you guys were friends, and maybe you
Speaker 4: finally made the move on text message and she finally
Speaker 4: got it right texting that could be just like three texts, yeah, honestly,
Speaker 4: and like scheduling when he was supposed to come in again.
Speaker 1: Right, Remember how we said we're not going to throw
Speaker 1: Sean under the bus.
Speaker 4: I don't know that she saw the same way you did.
Speaker 4: The relationship is a bad thing, but was hoping for.
Speaker 1: A little more hope when we.
Speaker 4: Okay, well maybe we can put her onto the idea.
Speaker 2: You know what.
Speaker 5: I hope that she got arrested and she's in jail
Speaker 5: and you guys are going to service sentence together.
Speaker 4: Sometimes under the.
Speaker 1: Point is we're all on your side here, Sean, no
Speaker 1: matter what. So let's do this right now.
Speaker 3: You guys appreciate your support a lot, Yeah.
Speaker 1: But supporting just like volunteer.
Speaker 4: Here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, is this Sophie?
Speaker 6: Yes calling?
Speaker 1: Good question? My name is jeff from a radio show
Speaker 1: you might have heard of called Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning.
Speaker 2: Ah.
Speaker 1: Okay, have thought.
Speaker 4: We were big on the volunteer circuit, but apparently.
Speaker 6: Not a radio voice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. Brook doesn't have a very good voice
Speaker 1: for radio's Wow.
Speaker 4: Okay, I was going to say, we called your mom
Speaker 4: just now.
Speaker 1: She would say, Jeffrey, I don't know what's going on,
Speaker 1: but Sophie, we're doing a segment called a second Date Update.
Speaker 1: We would like you to be involved because we're trying
Speaker 1: to help out one of our listeners named Sean.
Speaker 4: Oh and you guys didn't really go on a date.
Speaker 4: You just met out and volunteered.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I thought he seemed nice.
Speaker 4: Did you understand that he was like interested in you,
Speaker 4: you know, and wanted to Yes, you did?
Speaker 6: No, No, I mean I was thinking about him. I
Speaker 6: mean actually the high evening after that.
Speaker 4: Okay, so you dug him, you were into it?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just can't trust him.
Speaker 1: You can't trust him. Why why do you say that?
Speaker 4: So?
Speaker 6: I guess because I was thinking about him that night
Speaker 6: and I I went to bed and he was in
Speaker 6: my dream.
Speaker 3: We were back at the food bank.
Speaker 4: Okay, maybe the delivery of sausages, omry, what does that mean?
Speaker 2: Just about it?
Speaker 4: It's just so good.
Speaker 1: Why is it bad that he was with you in
Speaker 1: the dream at the food bank, so he.
Speaker 6: Was stocking shelves and his phone went off in your dream? Yeah,
Speaker 6: my dream, and I look over and it's his fiance
Speaker 6: and okay, it was very clear that he was cheating
Speaker 6: on her.
Speaker 4: In your dream.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's not a very good dream.
Speaker 4: Why is that why you can't trust him?
Speaker 6: Because I know it was a.
Speaker 4: Sign, a sign that you have some trust issues and
Speaker 4: relationships and now they're playing out in your dream games.
Speaker 6: No, it's more of a time that he's big trouble
Speaker 6: at the universe was warning me that I need to
Speaker 6: stay away from him.
Speaker 1: But it's just a dream though he didn't actually do anything.
Speaker 6: No, I know, I know, because that gives you really
Speaker 6: vivid No, It's the thing is, I have these types
Speaker 6: of dreams and they turned out to be real.
Speaker 2: Oh, you're like, very very intuitive.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm skeptical.
Speaker 4: I am too. I wonder the people like that that
Speaker 4: are psychic in their dreams. But okay, if even if
Speaker 4: that was the case, if you thought that they was real,
Speaker 4: why wouldn't you just ask him?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just trust my gut. And you know, back
Speaker 6: in high school I had a boyfriend high school was
Speaker 6: cheating on me.
Speaker 4: Yes, high school, but it happened.
Speaker 6: I dreamed it first and then.
Speaker 3: It was true confirmed it.
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh, they have intuitions.
Speaker 1: I think we probably do need to step back for
Speaker 1: a second. How could Sean be cheating when the two
Speaker 1: of you have any and gone out on an official date.
Speaker 6: It's a very good Yeah, but you know he's interested
Speaker 6: in me. He made that clear.
Speaker 3: He's flirting with the text and in.
Speaker 4: Your dream, he wasn't cheating on you. He was cheating
Speaker 4: on his pretend fiance or his real fiance.
Speaker 6: I mean, that's that's what I think happened.
Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, well luckily.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: We can know right now by punching up Sean, who's
Speaker 1: actually on the other line, O Sean, Yeah, he is done,
Speaker 1: I think so, Sean, can you put your fiance on
Speaker 1: the phone. I'd like to talk to the price.
Speaker 3: I don't have a fiance. I'm single.
Speaker 4: Believe that so easy to convince to go one way
Speaker 4: or the other.
Speaker 1: I'm looking at our textboard right now, and uh, there's
Speaker 1: a lot of people who are also skeptical about this.
Speaker 1: Ye just not calling a guy back over a dream
Speaker 1: that you had.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, sometimes my husband's cheated on me in
Speaker 4: my dreams, volunteer.
Speaker 1: That always your husband's the one who cheat you. Sean,
Speaker 1: you reached out about Sophia here. Let me just ask you.
Speaker 1: Let's just get this out in the open. Are there
Speaker 1: any other women that you're currently dating?
Speaker 3: Or so? I am talking to other women? But it
Speaker 3: would be weird if I want?
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's normal, I know it. I have the feeling.
Speaker 1: He's talking.
Speaker 4: That's how dating works. You.
Speaker 6: Yeah, guys say they're talking, but I know what that means.
Speaker 6: I mean, are you talking more vertically or horizontally?
Speaker 4: You guys haven't even again gone on the date.
Speaker 1: You're not being romantic with other people, right, Sean, doesn't matter?
Speaker 4: That would be fine.
Speaker 1: I mean she wants to know.
Speaker 2: I want to know.
Speaker 1: I think we all want to know.
Speaker 2: I want to know.
Speaker 3: You all want to know? What do you all want
Speaker 3: to know?
Speaker 2: Who have you been sharing your sausage?
Speaker 1: Wins you being romantic with other women?
Speaker 3: Creepy question?
Speaker 6: See, I told you he doesn't want to answer it.
Speaker 4: I mean he's thinking for a while to say something, guys,
Speaker 4: because you know what he wants to talk about. The
Speaker 4: other people are talking to with someone they're trying to
Speaker 4: pursue you ask that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Jeff, I'm the one.
Speaker 3: Guy I have who to believe if you have nothing
Speaker 3: to worry about, You're the one I'm interested in. You're
Speaker 3: the one I want to go out on a day with.
Speaker 1: That's nice.
Speaker 3: That is so weird.
Speaker 6: That's exactly what you said in my dream?
Speaker 1: What oh, word for words, it's not. This is a
Speaker 1: really creative way to blow off a guy without feeling
Speaker 1: bad about it.
Speaker 2: That's true, can use.
Speaker 6: I'm not trying to blow him off. That's what happened
Speaker 6: in the dream. The next thing I know, he's with
Speaker 6: his fiance.
Speaker 4: Maybe it's a sign that you're about to meet your fiance.
Speaker 4: Couldn't it be interpreted other ways? It is a dream.
Speaker 6: Look, the last time I had a cheating dream, it
Speaker 6: was two years ago where I dreamed I cheated it
Speaker 6: on my boyfriend and then I actually did it.
Speaker 5: Wait, wait, what you can't.
Speaker 2: I can dream when I kissed Jeff on the cheek,
Speaker 2: and I can do it right now.
Speaker 1: I want it, Jose, you look so.
Speaker 4: I don't think you want to change her mind on
Speaker 4: this one.
Speaker 6: I'm just saying the universe works in weird ways.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you might be right, Sophie, because
Speaker 1: I had a dream last night that the two people
Speaker 1: on the phone said yes to going out. The universe
Speaker 1: says you two should see each other again. I bet
Speaker 1: it was a romantic dream and we should pay for it.
Speaker 3: No, man, I just have to trust myself on this one.
Speaker 2: What if I pay for What.
Speaker 1: If I throw in a gift card for extra sausage?
Speaker 6: Why don't you keep saying sausage?
Speaker 4: Nor should you? Fine, I find Sophie.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: I'm giving up on this one.
Speaker 2: Sean did see each other?
Speaker 4: The volunteering, Yeah, Sean, you're gonna be volunteering again, like
Speaker 4: you said.
Speaker 3: Well, I gotta get back on the dating scene after
Speaker 3: being paroled for a while.
Speaker 6: I knew I should have my gosh, no, thank you,
Speaker 6: she had.
Speaker 1: A prison dream, Sophi, You're amazing.
Speaker 2: The fountain was a conjug.
Speaker 4: Rook.
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. Oh man, I can't stop thinking
Speaker 1: about that woman's ex boyfriend and what that conversation was
Speaker 1: like when she came back and told them, Sweetie it's
Speaker 1: not my fault. I cheated on you. I dreamed it first. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the universe forced it to happen.
Speaker 4: I could have prevented it wasn't my decision.
Speaker 1: How do you think he could have possibly taken that.
Speaker 4: I just have a feeling they got back together for
Speaker 4: a little while. I just do if he was with
Speaker 4: her to begin with.
Speaker 1: She's a little cuckoo, and you know the cuckoo ones
Speaker 1: are the best. We're gonna give ten points to Hufflepuff
Speaker 1: for creativity.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's mine.
Speaker 2: That's where I live.
Speaker 4: It is a huffle that makes sense.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but no, shocker, they didn't go out on another day.
Speaker 4: I don't know why she didn't dream that.
Speaker 5: What if she hasn't dreamed tonight though, that they went
Speaker 5: out and then she calls us back another dream It's possible.
Speaker 1: Oh, you never know.
Speaker 2: With her.
Speaker 1: We're going to keep our email open for her and
Speaker 1: for literally anybody else that we could help. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what we're here for.
Speaker 4: Obviously, have no standards.
Speaker 1: No email the show. We'll call that person wasn't calling
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Speaker 4: And if you could subscribe to that'd be cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah, only a few have time.
Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,