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Speaker 1: think could have led to a guy not calling you back, right, correct, Yes,

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Speaker 1: there is an important detail about Daisy that she doesn't

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Speaker 1: on what website was all right? Which, if you're going

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Speaker 1: is not necessarily the best either. What is it you

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Speaker 1: have like eleven fingers or something. No, I have the

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Speaker 1: right number of fingers. But in addition to the right

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Speaker 1: Is the reaction usually pretty good when you tell guys

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Speaker 1: But surprise, it's kind of mixed. Some guys are okay

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Speaker 1: As soon as you told me that, you would just

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Speaker 1: if I did something wrong? So that's why we're calling you, Alex. Okay,

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Speaker 1: do you remember going out with Daisy? Yeah? I had

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Speaker 1: would create hard feelings that I asked. You don't worry

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Speaker 1: about it, Alex Daisy's not pissed at you that you

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Speaker 1: turned out tunity to loan me your money. Why are

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Speaker 1: Come on, it's super weird to ask to borrow money.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't ask friends for money. That's like

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Speaker 1: something you ask family, like do you have an uncle

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Speaker 1: or like a cousin or something like, rather than asking

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Speaker 1: I suppose if I had someone else, I would have

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Speaker 1: it seems like super judgy to make assumptions about a

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Speaker 1: And Daisy, if I went out on a date. If

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Speaker 1: started telling me they we're having money problems and then

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Speaker 1: asked me for cash, I'm going to judge them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna say that you're trying to like milk

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Speaker 1: me out of money or especially if I met you online,

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Speaker 1: I don't know you at all. Not a lot of

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Speaker 1: trust can be had and a person that you just

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Speaker 1: met on a first date asking for money, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I get what you guys, are saying, I totally do,

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Speaker 1: and I just didn't look at it that way because

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Speaker 1: I am totally honest and I did have the money

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Speaker 1: on Friday. I would have totally paid him back, So

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Speaker 1: it didn't daunt on me that, you know, people would

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Speaker 1: jump to that conclusion. Regardless of all of that, I

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Speaker 1: did have a really great time on our date, and

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Speaker 1: I would like to see you again. Alex. Would you

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Speaker 1: like to go out with Daisy again? We will pay

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Speaker 1: for a second date. I'm Daisy. I'm not paying for

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Speaker 1: any Paris, but we will pay for a second date

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Speaker 1: if you'll go out with Daisy again. Alex, Um, you

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Speaker 1: know what I will. I'll go out with you again.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was a really awkward, weird first date,

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Speaker 1: but that's not the first awkward first date I've had.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations you two. You're welcome. Alex. Don't leave your wallet

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Speaker 1: out on the table in the morning.