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Speaker 1: Second date up dated.

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Speaker 2: Meeting a good single guy is like finding an open

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Speaker 2: parking space at Costco on a second.

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Speaker 1: They exist.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't believe that you got to

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Speaker 2: Yes, got to be aggressive and get kind of lucky

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Speaker 2: with it, or you could be like Brook and parking

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Speaker 4: It a day.

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Speaker 3: I didn't block the handicapped parking spot.

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Speaker 1: So that's how thoughtful point is.

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Speaker 2: Finding good men not easy, and that's why our listener

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Speaker 2: Laura says she had to find a strategy to help

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Speaker 2: her find a decent dude, and apparently she came up

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Speaker 2: with one.

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Speaker 1: So Laura, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 5: Is it bad that I'm hoping that your strategy also

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Speaker 5: helps me in the Costco parking lot?

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Speaker 4: Not at all.

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Speaker 2: Tell us about this guy that you met and the

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Speaker 2: strategy that you used to find him.

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Speaker 6: So first, let me start by saying, and I'm sure

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Speaker 6: everyone can relate to this, that I have met so

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Speaker 6: many people that were duds on both both on the

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Speaker 6: app and in person.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Problem is is we think we're catches and all of

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Speaker 1: us are awful.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly true.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, okay, So a while back I was listening

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Speaker 6: to this podcast and this girl was giving some really

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Speaker 6: fabulous dating advice.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god was it a Lexus on our Brook

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Speaker 5: and Jeffery.

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Speaker 1: Why what did she say?

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Speaker 6: Well, she said that women are in general having a

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Speaker 6: hard time finding a guy that's well put together. Like

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Speaker 6: you can meet a guy and he'll be great at first,

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Speaker 6: and then everything just goes south really really quickly.

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Speaker 1: Which is different than women who are perfect.

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Speaker 6: Right, No, no, no, no, it's a two way street.

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Speaker 6: I'll admit it's a two way street.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So what was the solution?

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Speaker 6: Okay, so you're gonna love this girl to go to

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Speaker 6: the gym at nine am on a Saturday? Uh okay,

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Speaker 6: and the reason being because most guys who are let's

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Speaker 6: because they were probably out partying the night before.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not just on a Saturday early. Like ever, I'm

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Speaker 2: not going to the gym. Yeah, I'm done.

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Speaker 1: But that's actually a decent strategy.

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Speaker 3: But you don't agree, No, I mean I get it, Yeah, sure,

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Speaker 3: I get it. But I think even earlier than that. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's so busy at nine you have a.

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Speaker 2: Body who literally works out to get rid of his

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Speaker 3: Okay, I.

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Speaker 2: Get the idea, though, you want to go at a

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Speaker 3: Who party, they can manage it. You know, they still

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Speaker 1: That's perseverance right there. What's the talent?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 1: At the gym at nine am on a Saturday.

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Speaker 6: Shockingly, a lot of really cute, well put together magh.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Jack putt okay. So did you have your pick

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Speaker 3: or what I had my pick?

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Speaker 6: I got like all decked out and I put on

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So who did you meet?

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Speaker 6: I met a guy named Franklin.

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Speaker 3: Franklin.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and I'm not gonna I'm not gonna lie. I

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Speaker 1: How Yeah, what did you do?

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Speaker 6: Well? Like I said, I got all decked out, and

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Speaker 6: I'm ashamed to say it, but I did. And he

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm still picturing you guys at the machine, Like

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Speaker 6: This is not porn, hob take it easy over there.

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Speaker 1: That picture more like hoos, like with the pot of

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Speaker 4: Can you help mecha?

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Speaker 3: I need a big strong man to help me rescue me.

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Speaker 1: So was the gym your date or did you guys

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Speaker 6: No, we went out. He took me to dinner at Nobu.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, I know, I know, and.

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Speaker 6: I had never been there, so I was really excited.

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Speaker 6: He suggested it and I was like, wow, you know

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Speaker 6: I was like, whoa Nobo? Okay, first date, that's like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 1: So how was it?

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Speaker 6: It was amazing.

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Speaker 4: We had a really good time.

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Speaker 6: We really connected. We tried some new sushi together, which

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Speaker 2: Before Yeah, did you play the damsel in distress again

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Speaker 1: I wish a big strong man could come over here

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Speaker 6: I actually had a friend that was Japanese who told

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Speaker 6: me that they don't use chopsticks, that they use their fingers.

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Speaker 6: So when I eat sushi, I eat my hands.

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Speaker 1: That's a look.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if that's true or not. And I

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Speaker 5: think it's really funny if your friend was trolling new.

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Speaker 1: An idiot just double fisted and sushi on the table,

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Speaker 1: all right, you had some hands sushi. That's nice hand sushi.

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Speaker 6: And then I mean they call them hand rolls.

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Speaker 1: What about the connection with Franklin, No.

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Speaker 6: We really did connect and we were talking like future,

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Speaker 6: which was was kind of like I was kind of like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Phone with us. There has to be something bad that

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Speaker 2: Already sounds though someone that's this put together, that's it's

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Speaker 1: It's like nobody's this charming and put I know.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 1: Wow, all right, So how did you end it?

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Speaker 6: We ended the night with a hug, and I assumed

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Speaker 6: that we'd go out again, of course, because we had

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Speaker 3: Have you reached out to him or have you gone.

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Speaker 6: To the gym? Okay? So I reached out to him

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Speaker 6: just one time. I didn't want to see meaty and no,

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Speaker 6: I never went back to the gym on the Saturday morning.

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Speaker 6: I set my own trap, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: I don't think that guys put that much thought into

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not even gonna put very much thought into

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Speaker 1: So let's come back and call this guy and do

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Speaker 1: your second date update right after this happening. Next second

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Speaker 2: Who knew nine am on Saturday was prime time for

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Speaker 3: Everybody knows now it's going to be slimmed.

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Speaker 2: Our listener Laura knew because she heard about it on

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Speaker 2: that's where she met hunky and responsible friends. He showed

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Speaker 2: her how to lift a five pound dumbbell. She showed

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Speaker 2: him how to eat sushi with your hands at nobuo.

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Speaker 1: This is the traditional way.

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Speaker 2: Jem apparently seemed like a match made in heaven. But

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Speaker 2: Franklin has now gone two weeks without setting up another date.

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Speaker 1: So either that.

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Speaker 2: Finger sushi hit real wrong or something else is going on,

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Speaker 2: so do not call.

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Speaker 5: It finger sushi sushi hit good.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I just see the tip of a thumb or something.

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Speaker 3: It's hitting on a.

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Speaker 4: Brook.

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Speaker 1: What do you think is going on?

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 5: I mean dating's just so hard, and people have so

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Speaker 5: many options, and life is so busy.

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Speaker 3: It's just it could not be you at.

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Speaker 1: All, could be literally anything.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I mean everything you describe sounded perfect. Okay, beside

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Speaker 2: Did you explain why you were eating with your hands?

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Speaker 1: You know, just do it?

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Speaker 4: Of course, all right.

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Speaker 1: Alexis thinks that the issue is the hand sushi thing

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Speaker 3: Doesn't know how to eat sushi.

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Speaker 2: You weren't feeding each other sushi with your hands, right,

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Speaker 2: it was your own hands.

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Speaker 3: I think that sounds fun.

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Speaker 1: That's how you.

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Speaker 2: Get banned from Nobo forever. But let's call Franklin here.

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Speaker 2: Let's call Franklin and see if he has some answers

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Speaker 2: for us. Hopefully he picks up and I'm.

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Speaker 4: Downing it right now, thank you? All right? Hold on, hello?

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Speaker 1: Hey, is this Franklin?

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Speaker 4: Uh? Yeah, who's speaking?

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Speaker 3: Man? I knew he didn't answer and be put together

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Speaker 3: right now?

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Speaker 1: It does sound put together.

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Speaker 2: My name is jeff and you're actually on a radio

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Speaker 2: show right now called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Morning.

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Speaker 4: Why am I on a radio show right now? What's

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Speaker 4: going on? Well?

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Speaker 2: One of our listeners asked us to reach out to

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Speaker 2: you because she had a great time getting sushi the

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Speaker 2: other day.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Laura.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, Laura.

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Speaker 2: She is such a fun show.

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Speaker 1: So you liked her? It sounds I like it.

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Speaker 3: I like let's let's sake that.

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Speaker 4: God.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Laura?

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Speaker 3: Is that how you meant it? Franklin?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I normally don't misread people.

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Speaker 5: Okay, that is so crazy, Like what a disconnect between

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Speaker 1: She loved the date?

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Speaker 4: All right? Yeah, So is that is that all you

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Speaker 2: We're doing a segment called the second Date Update because

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Uh yeah, I don't I don't know, man, I'm I'm

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Speaker 3: Why.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what does that mean? What do you mean?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know if I can

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Speaker 5: I thought you were kind of a high maintenance one

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Speaker 4: Even so, hold on, slow, slow down, guys. We're that

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Speaker 5: What she told us, it was your idea, and she

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Speaker 3: It's too expensive.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no. We were kind of tossing ideas back

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Speaker 3: Right, but you agreed to it, I mean a different place.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I didn't want to seem too difficult, so I

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Speaker 1: No, Oh god.

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Speaker 3: You didn't know. You didn't know, You didn't know.

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Speaker 5: Nobody's like this high end, super expensive restaurant.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, I'm a Chick fil a kind of guy.

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Speaker 1: Like I, well, I mean, what one tier below? It's

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Speaker 3: The only time I've been is with my agent.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, so did you pay the bit? Like how much?

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Speaker 1: Can we ask? How much?

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Speaker 4: Was? Yeah? Yeah, instead of a nice little Chick fil

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Speaker 4: a forty dollars day being like four hundred dollars.

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Speaker 7: Oh no, I feel bad for you, dude, I knew, Okay,

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Speaker 7: but honestly, like she thought that you were up for it,

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Speaker 1: She was because you were in it together.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, not quite. It was definitely her suggestion, and that

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Speaker 4: And then she started talking about spence of things like

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Speaker 7: Okay, people talk about fun things that are expensively.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like this has been a little bit

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Speaker 4: Oh gosh, you got to set up. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: It's international phone calls charging.

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Speaker 5: The good news is usually really wealthy people don't call

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, standards.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, Laura talked to Franklin.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Franklin, Laura, what are you? What are you doing

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Speaker 4: You putting on blast?

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Speaker 6: What are you doing being a typical jerk and disappearing

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Speaker 3: What the heck?

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Speaker 1: Where did that come from?

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Speaker 3: She's mad?

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Speaker 6: Well two weeks, dude, two weeks. I thought we had

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Speaker 6: really good time. And by the way, guys, nobu was

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Speaker 6: not my suggestion.

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Speaker 3: It was his, It was yours. He didn't even know

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Speaker 6: Like, yeah, maybe maybe I brought it up, but he

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Speaker 1: It was well, Franklin, you did mess up there, So

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Speaker 1: y'all admit that.

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Speaker 4: Or I didn't want to be difficult or anything, all right.

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Speaker 4: I just kind of went with the idea and I

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Speaker 3: He didn't know he was signing up. I mean, do

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 6: He probably he probably googled a coupon for Nobu before

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Speaker 6: we went out, now that I'm.

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Speaker 4: Hearing all this, Listen, I looked for a coupon, But

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Speaker 4: doesn't mean you didn't.

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Speaker 3: That's okay.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well, there's nothing wrong with going to nob on

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Speaker 2: Sorry, no, but you hear what he's saying, right, Like

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Speaker 6: I'm not looking to take his money. I make money too.

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Speaker 4: It's not about that.

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Speaker 6: There's nothing wrong with living extravagantly.

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Speaker 3: Totally. I think Jeffrey explained it wrong. He just thinks

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Speaker 5: Your lifestyle and his lifestyle don't meet up in the

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, I mean I didn't. I didn't realize

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Speaker 4: Did you say? I said, I realized he was this cheap.

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Speaker 6: He probably brings his own popcorn to the dollar theater.

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Speaker 3: Oh, dollar theater.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 4: Well, now we're getting I didn't know you were this

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Speaker 4: rude the theory turn off every time you start talking.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't get it.

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Speaker 4: It's not about rude.

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Speaker 6: If we were just talking about the future and I

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Speaker 6: agreeing with everything with me, so obviously you're not being

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Speaker 6: your authentic stelf on dates. Wow, okay, you probably asked

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Speaker 6: Charity if they have a happy hour special or something.

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Speaker 3: Did you write these downs?

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Speaker 4: God? No, wonder you were single.

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Speaker 1: Franklin, he's gone.

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Speaker 4: He's gone.

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Speaker 6: He growed you too.

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Speaker 2: All right, all right, well Franklin decided he didn't want

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Speaker 3: Poor guy.

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Speaker 1: Literally.

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Speaker 5: Oh man, Just for the record, it's not bad to

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Speaker 6: I've definitely been there.

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Speaker 1: I think we all agree with that.

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Speaker 2: But the fact that it's a dollar theater, I mean,

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Speaker 6: Honestly, it's not that it's expensive. It's usually just stale.

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right, popcorn, I guess no more gym at

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Speaker 2: Huh yeah, no, all right, Well, don't get a chance

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Speaker 2: to ask for another day.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, you scared him off pretty quickly.

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Speaker 6: You should find a more exclusive Jim Richard. Maybe I

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Speaker 3: I'm always I thought you wanted somebody who was rich.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, Jeffrey. In the morning, there's a lot

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Speaker 2: of texts coming in at seventy five nine two from

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Speaker 2: our listeners asking what is Nobu? Oh yeah, misspelled multiple ways.

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Speaker 3: That does that hurt your little privileged heart?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, those are listeners, but that's why we love them.

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Speaker 2: By the way, if you don't know, google Nobu n

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Speaker 2: O b U sushi restaurant, very very high end.

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Speaker 5: It's actually a chain though, which is I am funny

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Speaker 5: to me, but it is like so expensive.

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Speaker 1: Sushi for people that want to pay triple.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I've never been there, but I know.

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Speaker 2: Brooks sends pictures of herself dining there to her sponsored

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Speaker 2: children in third world's countries, saying, Hi and Dari.

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Speaker 1: I met Nobu again third time this week. Sorry to

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Speaker 1: hear your dad lost his fishing job and has to

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Speaker 1: go back to the cannery. I'll text you next week,

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Speaker 1: all right, Brooke.

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Speaker 3: Starting to believe that this stuff is actually real.

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Speaker 1: Josh, Yeah, Hey, maybe you sho have some class a

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Speaker 1: little bit, Brooke. You even the most evil woman in

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Speaker 2: So an unsuccessful second date, we are going to try

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Speaker 2: again tomorrow, though with a new couple. Make sure you

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Speaker 2: email the show if you want some help with your

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Speaker 2: love life. We'll call that person who's not calling you

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Speaker 2: back and go check out all of our second dates

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Speaker 2: wherever you get your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey