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Speaker 1: beautiful people, Welcome to another episode of the Truth After Dark.

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Speaker 3: I am your host, Azar Faaraday.

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Speaker 4: Your boy Paul Anthony Pierce.

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Speaker 3: What it do? How you feeling. It's almost the end

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Speaker 3: of the year.

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Speaker 1: We've had a hell of a year, A lot of

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Speaker 4: Ooh, the biggest lesson I learned?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, man, that's a good one. You hit me

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Speaker 1: One or a significant one, well, you know, I think

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: And you can't let the highs get you too high

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Speaker 1: Like if you're like, oh my god, everyone's loving me

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm not going to let you get to me.

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Speaker 1: So Shark takes Barbara Cochrane Did I say her name?

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Speaker 1: But my question is do you feel like powerful men

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Speaker 2: I mean hell no, no, no, no. Like maybe you

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Speaker 2: I ain't. You don't get no passes because like when

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Speaker 1: I feel like all men have that temptation, And you know,

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Speaker 2: They they gonna do that weekly.

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Speaker 2: At he's saying, look, I'm gonna do this, and this

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Speaker 3: And now like that's gonna be in your head.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to have that stuff in my head,

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Speaker 3: Like I'm confused, Like I just talked to.

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Speaker 3: And as a woman like man can just like anything.

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Speaker 3: Does he like a brown skin skinny girl? Does he

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Speaker 1: So it doesn't even have to be about cheating to me,

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Speaker 3: We don't have that.

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Speaker 1: Where's the trust when someone tells you something and you

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Speaker 4: Little apps?

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Speaker 3: What apps do they have?

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Speaker 1: I heard the whole thing where they do the notes

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Speaker 1: doing all of that, just be single, please, if you

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Speaker 3: That's too much like to want to cheat that.

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Speaker 2: Bat What if it's creating balance with your life? What

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Speaker 2: you mean like this person is making up for what

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Speaker 1: That's that's something wrong with you. Then it ain't about that.

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Speaker 1: Why do you have to be fed so much in

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Speaker 4: Wait, why do you have to be fished?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you eat? Yeah, But the point is is why

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Speaker 1: Conversations that you have with you twenty percent right, But

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Speaker 1: let me tell you what ends up happening. You end

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Speaker 1: twenty percent of nothing because I wanted twenty extra percent

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Speaker 1: of twenty percent of what's.

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Speaker 4: Going to go groom the twenty percent.

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Speaker 1: It ain't gonna happen. You can't groom a twenty percent

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Speaker 4: You can because you only give a twenty percent of

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Speaker 2: If I teach a kid how to play basketball two

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Speaker 3: But if you're talking about a child, these are this is.

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Speaker 2: Just this is just the thirty This is just the

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Speaker 2: basic just things how they progress, like things get better

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Speaker 2: the more you work on it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I feel so you feel like it's I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to oh, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, Like I can't.

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Speaker 4: Even I forgot my point now, Oh I thought you

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Speaker 4: were done? How am I still? Okay? Go you jump in.

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Speaker 4: I forgot my point.

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Speaker 1: Now you know your point was you can groom a

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Speaker 1: twenty percent into an eighty percent right there. So you

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Speaker 4: No, I don't think you should go looking for a twenty.

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Speaker 3: Percent, but if it comes to you, it's cool.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying for guys out there who have that,

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Speaker 2: that's what we've been talking about.

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Speaker 4: Like, hey, like he.

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Speaker 2: Got this app where he talks to this other girl,

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Speaker 2: and you know, but it's like it ain't It ain't

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Speaker 2: a full deal because you with somebody, you just you

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Speaker 2: know what some men be like though. You know what

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Speaker 2: some men be doing. They'll have a whole relationship and

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Speaker 2: just be talking to other females just to talk to them,

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Speaker 2: just like seeing if he could just get at her

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Speaker 2: and then talk to her and then don't even talk

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Speaker 2: to her no more. Guys be just trying to That's

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Speaker 2: what dudes be doing. Like I just want to see

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Speaker 2: if I can holler it's.

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Speaker 3: For your ego.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, men have big egos. And yes it is because.

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Speaker 2: You ain't never connected with her, but she talked to

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Speaker 2: her like a couple of times, you just like block her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it is. You want to know why because another

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Speaker 3: the text. You look stupid.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna look stupid and be disrespected like nothing

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Speaker 1: he's untouchable. Baby, ain't nobody messing with him? Like no

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Speaker 1: so she could feel like she still got it. Baby,

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Speaker 1: I know I got it. I don't need to try that.

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Speaker 1: I don't need to do nothing. I walk outside every

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Speaker 3: Period. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I gotta talk to nobody to know that, like, period,

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Speaker 1: point blank. And that's how a man should feel too,

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Speaker 1: Like all this ego stroking, most men cheek because they

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Speaker 2: Just say just the ego stroke, you said most men

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Speaker 2: because they want the ego stroke.

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Speaker 4: Nah, girl, that you can't see the ego.

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Speaker 3: You can see this though, I cry.

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Speaker 1: So what are five things you're looking more for in

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Speaker 2: Uh. Looking to expand on my multi media career, Looking

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Speaker 2: oh man, play more basketball. I've been playing two or

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Speaker 4: In five.

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Speaker 2: Uh, you know, I'll just be more in tune with God.

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Speaker 2: You know, those are my five things I want to

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Speaker 3: I love that. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I would probably say for me, more snatched, more health.

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Speaker 3: Getting more snatched, study okay.

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Speaker 1: Lock, Okay, more snatched, more intim like just being more healthy,

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Speaker 1: locked in with God, and just maybe even like hitting

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Speaker 1: church a little more.

441
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Speaker 4: That's one. That's one. You're saying more than one.

442
00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:03,919
Speaker 1: So this is this is the second or more in

443
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:09,159
Speaker 1: tune with my spirituality, and that's that I'm doing. Yes,

444
00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:10,400
Speaker 1: fall and then.

445
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:12,920
Speaker 4: Going on you to say, okay, one.

446
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 1: Okay, one, two, Yes, more spirituality, more in tune with God,

447
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 1: and all that other stuff and with the word and everything,

448
00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:24,160
Speaker 1: I'm always gonna hit. Like I think, more like time

449
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 1: with family and just spending more time with my mom my, dad,

450
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:29,679
Speaker 1: and just like really locking in with them more.

451
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 3: That's really important to me.

452
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 1: More times, more like fun memories with people that I love.

453
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 1: I think that's really important, just like you know, tapping

454
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:45,280
Speaker 1: in and then obviously like more with my career and

455
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 1: the things that I want to do, and just like

456
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:51,440
Speaker 1: tapping into the trajectory of like where I see myself

457
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 1: going and how I get there is just by you know,

458
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 1: making more moves to doing more for me and going

459
00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,959
Speaker 1: in the right direction. More truth that after dark and

460
00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:04,399
Speaker 1: all of that all right, So I like it.

461
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 4: Positive energy flowing your way going into the twenty twenty six.

462
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 3: Positivity is what it's all about.

463
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Speaker 3: That's a fact. That's a fact. That's a fact.

468
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Speaker 1: I agree with that, But I also feel like too,

469
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 1: man will be at home and they'll feel down bad

470
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 1: about like they done messed up the whole relationship and

471
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 1: the woman is off of you, and so they're like,

472
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 1: let me just go feel something else now. But it's

473
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 1: like that's crazy to me because it's like you create

474
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 1: a distrust and ruin the relationship, and now I have

475
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 1: to suffer more because you don't feel good in this

476
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 1: relationship and you're not willing to just be disciplined, put

477
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 1: in the work and let us get back right.

478
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 3: So then it creates a bigger hole and a bigger.

479
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 1: Gap, and then that's why the relationship usually ends, because

480
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 1: it's like a man is pissed. A man over time

481
00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 1: is like, okay, you still have me in the dog house,

482
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 1: get over it. So now I'm about to go do X,

483
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 1: Y and Z because you're already mad. Then she finds

484
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,160
Speaker 1: out more and then now the relationship is over.

485
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 4: And that's a man's cycle.

486
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 1: That's a cycle for show, and it's a woman's cycle too,

487
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: to where it's like you get so disappointed by the

488
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 1: man that you lose respect for him because you're slopping,

489
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 1: you're loose, and you lack discipline. So how can I

490
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 1: respect you to lead me as a man, Like you

491
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 1: can't even be disciplined enough to say no, So if

492
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 1: you and most.

493
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:37,639
Speaker 2: Men cheat, most men cheat during a woman's pregnantcy, that's sad.

494
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 1: Like the first year, Yeah, that's super hurtful, Like I

495
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: just changed my entire body.

496
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 2: You know, it's so crazy before you go, because I

497
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 2: always I'll be on Yahoo a lot and I'll be

498
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 2: seeing a couples like, yeah, what's the divorced with a

499
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 2: six month year old? Like you see that all the time.

500
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:02,120
Speaker 2: Why that's pregnant divorce or a breakup? Like I always

501
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 2: read that like, Damn, she's seven months pregnant, Damn she

502
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 2: got a one year old. Damn she and the breakups

503
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 2: be happening because that's I'm telling you, a relationship be

504
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 2: changed and everything changed.

505
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 1: What's so sad is like you say that a lot,

506
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 1: and I feel like for me, I've realized that that

507
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 1: has discouraged me for years of like wanting to have

508
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,919
Speaker 1: a kid with a man like and literally because I

509
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 1: always think about that and I'm like, you know what,

510
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 1: like I'll be damned if.

511
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:30,880
Speaker 3: I'm changing my body.

512
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,719
Speaker 1: I'm feeling low about myself because I have this baby

513
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 1: that I'm caring for us in my body.

514
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 3: I have the baby.

515
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,879
Speaker 1: Now everything is different for me, like, my whole life

516
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: is different, my body is different. I'm feeling low self esteem.

517
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: And then you have a man who's cheating with a

518
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 1: woman who probably is in shape, looks better than you

519
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 1: because she didn't just carry a baby. You know how

520
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,640
Speaker 1: depressed you will be, Like I'm so scared of that.

521
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 1: As a woman, that is just like no, like I

522
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,239
Speaker 1: have to trust this man and love this man that

523
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Speaker 1: at my low wis he won't do that to me us.

524
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Speaker 4: As man, we psychologically damaged.

525
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 3: Women hard, hard real bad dahn.

526
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Speaker 2: I'm just listening to everything you saying, like psychologically just

527
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:12,120
Speaker 2: that's why women crazy.

528
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: No, I think that women are crazy because we are

529
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: hormonal because we have to have we have to bear children,

530
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: so we have our period and our period. You will

531
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 1: never understand as a kid, I didn't realize that a

532
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,880
Speaker 1: period really like makes you crazy because men will downplay

533
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 1: it like, oh, you're PMS and they just want to

534
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 1: make that as an excuse. And when you're older and

535
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,919
Speaker 1: you look at the scientific research that backs it and

536
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 1: you feel it as a woman, you realize, like that's

537
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 1: not a joke like PMS. Your emotional your crying, you're

538
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 1: going through it. Then after it, you're ovulating, you feel

539
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,159
Speaker 1: cool like you only have, like you go through so

540
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: many different emotions and feelings as a woman period. And

541
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: then put on top of that a man who's psychologically

542
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 1: breaking you by wanting, like by you giving him a child,

543
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,880
Speaker 1: being pregnant, bearing the child, having to be a mother,

544
00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 1: getting your titty sucked on. Now they're saggy. Now you

545
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 1: cheating with a girl with perkingtitties in a perfect body.

546
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 1: And I'm sitting here like, damn, I just gave this

547
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 1: man a baby, and I'm depressed, like you don't women

548
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,120
Speaker 1: go through that? And I'm just it's sad for really

549
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:14,199
Speaker 1: is anyways? Thinking of speaking of that, Kay Sanat opened

550
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:17,600
Speaker 1: up about his mental health and he just like did

551
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: a video on Instagram talking about like how you know,

552
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: his mental health struggles at times and he goes through

553
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: so much and people were clowning him and he now

554
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 1: came out and says, I understand why people don't get

555
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 1: vulnerable on social media or in front of a large

556
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 1: group of people, because when you do.

557
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,680
Speaker 3: People are going to clown a man as a man.

558
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:38,120
Speaker 4: For sure.

559
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, people are gonna clown you, especially a black man.

560
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 1: People are gonna clown you and make you feel like

561
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:46,199
Speaker 1: you're stupid for showing emotion.

562
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 3: Do you agree with that?

563
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,159
Speaker 4: Absolutely, that happens all the time.

564
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:55,160
Speaker 2: Like that's why us men don't show the emotion because

565
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 2: we're supposed to be looked at as strong and you know,

566
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 2: you're not supposed to be and you're not supposed.

567
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 4: To be weak and things of that.

568
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: And look, and then they look at a guy like

569
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 2: Hans and I who has the world in his hand,

570
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 2: who you know, who's done so much, need a lot

571
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 2: of money, become so famous around the world and doing

572
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 2: these things, and they're looking like people are like, he

573
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 2: can't even express hisself in the way to where it's

574
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,959
Speaker 2: like that could be depressing, Like you know, his world

575
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,719
Speaker 2: is like closing in on him, you know, and that

576
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:29,199
Speaker 2: could be depressing and people will never understand that. But

577
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 2: all they looking at is, Oh, he's a man and

578
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 2: he's making up so much money, and you know, that's

579
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 2: like you gotta understand, like people ain't like sometimes fame

580
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 2: ain't for everybody.

581
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 4: It's hard to be famous, you know.

582
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 2: And absolutely you lose so much being famous, rich and famous.

583
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 4: You lose friends, you lose family members, you.

584
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 2: Lose you lose a lot and all of the price

585
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 2: of like you making some dollars. That's why they say

586
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 2: money is the root of all evil, you know what

587
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So like most people who make a lot

588
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 2: of money been through depression, been through some shit, go

589
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 2: through some shit. And everybody who ain't in that position,

590
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 2: Oh you doing this and why you? And it's always

591
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 2: gonna be that. So now, as a black man, when

592
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 2: you start to show vulnerability, it's frowned upon, especially a

593
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 2: rich black man's frowned upon. It's laughed at, it's ridiculed.

594
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 2: It's like, come on, bro, you know I got I'm

595
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 2: human too, I got feelings too.

596
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I made all the money in the world.

597
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I live in this dope ass house and try

598
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 2: this dope ass car, and I got this fly ass female,

599
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 2: or I go all these places. But so that don't

600
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 2: that don't bring happiness the end of the day. Like

601
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 2: you could do all these things and still be poor inside.

602
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. People don't understand that. And

603
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 2: you know, I applaud him for opening up and you know,

604
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 2: telling his truth. And you know, and I say to

605
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 2: all people, and mostly maybe black rich men who go

606
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 2: through things who are scared to shed a tear and

607
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 2: scared to express themselves. Man, hey, if you need that release, yah,

608
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 2: do what you gotta do. You know what I'm saying. So,

609
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 2: you know, hats off to him, much love to all

610
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 2: his success because sometime, you know, success is is weight

611
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 2: bearing when you have the weight.

612
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 4: Of the world on your shoulders.

613
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, one hundred percent.

614
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 1: And I want to say this really quickly because people

615
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 1: say that you are biased towards like rich men and

616
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 1: you don't speak for the average man a lot, and

617
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 1: I feel like, I don't think that's true about you,

618
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: But you just said for black rich men, but it

619
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 1: is for all men. Black men they do go through

620
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 1: a lot and they're not able to express emotion because

621
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 1: they were raised that way. A lot of black men

622
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 1: were raised by strong, independent women who are like tough enough,

623
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Speaker 1: and the guy figures that were in their life they

624
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 1: had to be like yo, stop. So I don't want

625
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,719
Speaker 1: to just emphasize rich men. I feel like all men

626
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:06,959
Speaker 1: go through that.

627
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 2: Especially I emphasized rich men is because people look at

628
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:15,239
Speaker 2: rich men like they think they have everything, and they

629
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 2: look at it says, why are you complaining you have this?

630
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 2: You're you're rich.

631
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 4: You don't have to worry about where your next meal

632
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 4: come from. You don't have to work.

633
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 2: So people look at that and say that about you know,

634
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,719
Speaker 2: I get that you have a lot of money. So

635
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 2: that's why I emphasize, you know, guys, and consonize it's

636
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 2: not a position because people feel like you're not supposed

637
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 2: to have any feelings. You have the world in your hand,

638
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 2: when that's not like we deal with real life issues,

639
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So just like everybody else, maybe, uh,

640
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 2: you know, I'm not in the same position as this

641
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 2: person who looking for their next meal the next day

642
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 2: or what clothes they're gonna wear, or well, that's a different.

643
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 4: Type of struggle.

644
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 2: Struggle, you know what I'm saying, and applaud people who

645
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 2: get through those times and are strong enough to work

646
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 2: through it and sacrifice and do what they need to

647
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 2: do to get to the next level. So I mean,

648
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 2: it's you understand, mental health thrives no matter who you are,

649
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 2: Like nothing heals mental health. It's you know, it's something

650
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 2: it's really there's true mental health and then there's tho's

651
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 2: health that's brought to you. True mental health is people

652
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 2: with really mental health diseases like schizophrenia yea, like you know,

653
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 2: like you know, just a different mental like for real.

654
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 2: And then there's other mental health that's you really have

655
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 2: control over.

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00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 3: Truth, think that you over depression.

657
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 4: I think you do have control over it. I really do.

658
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 2: I really believe mentally we all have the power to

659
00:32:56,240 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 2: have control over our mental I don't know if it's

660
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 2: I don't even call it a disability. I call it

661
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 2: just just mental health. I think we, on the most part,

662
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 2: have control over our mental health. You can wake up

663
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 2: and choose like am I gonna be sad about not

664
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 2: having this or doing this? Or am I gonna wake

665
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 2: up and be positive? That's right there, that's right there

666
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 2: in your head. It's right there. I don't care what

667
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 2: nobody say. Like depression, you people take pills to do

668
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 2: all this. You don't need them.

669
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 4: Pills. You don't need though. It's right here. It's you.

670
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 2: Sometimes you just maybe you need a push, maybe you

671
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 2: need some family around you, or or you need some

672
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:35,959
Speaker 2: friends to pump you up.

673
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 4: But that's you, because.

674
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 2: The power of friends and family and positive reinforcement can

675
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 2: go a long way if you around that positive. Most

676
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 2: people who are depression are around depression.

677
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 4: I'm trying.

678
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 2: I'm telling you most of the people who are depressed

679
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 2: are around depression.

680
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 4: I don't know.

681
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 2: If you get yourself around some positive people, it'll it'll

682
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,239
Speaker 2: snap you right out of it, I'm telling you.

683
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 3: Well.

684
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: Moving on from that, the game has been going on

685
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 1: his podcast or he'd been talking on a lot of podcasts,

686
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 1: and one thing that's been pretty viral because he went

687
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 1: on Shannon Sharp and said it, and then he doubled

688
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:21,360
Speaker 1: down on Back on Fig and said it again. But

689
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,840
Speaker 1: he basically said that if he's committed to a girl

690
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 1: and he's taking care of her, that five K a

691
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 1: month is not allowed to pay a girl, and she

692
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 1: will fall behind and grow broke, especially in Los Angeles

693
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 1: considering rent bills, carn and she won't.

694
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 3: Have any more money moving around.

695
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 1: Because he said, basically, if you're in LA, your rent

696
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 1: is at least two something, and then you have a car, no,

697
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,839
Speaker 1: and then you have your other little bills. That's five

698
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 1: k right there, and then she doesn't have anything left.

699
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,840
Speaker 3: So you know, Terrell on Back on Fig was like,

700
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 3: so you think that dah da dah dah.

701
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: He was like, no, I'm doubling down on that like,

702
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: if I'm committed to a girl and I'm taking care

703
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 1: of that's not enough. So that's been going super vir

704
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 1: row everywhere. Yeah, he's just saying like, if you really

705
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 1: think about it, a woman's gonna be stressed out because

706
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 1: she all she can do is pay her bills and

707
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 1: then she don't have nothing left to do nothing else.

708
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 3: What are your thoughts?

709
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 4: Well, I'm just trying to figure out what was she

710
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 4: doing before him. I don't know, super stressed, Yeah.

711
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 3: Yes, don't have nothing. If he was dressed out, I.

712
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 4: Guess stressed out over the five.

713
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 1: I don't know if he was saying like he told

714
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 1: her like he wants to take care of her type

715
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: of thing, because that's how it was looking. He was like,

716
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 1: if I'm serious about a girl, and I'm like, I

717
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 1: want to take care of you. I think he's saying,

718
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:38,839
Speaker 1: like to have the luxury to do the things with

719
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: me that I want you to do, Like I can

720
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: go here, I could travel here. If you have a job,

721
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 1: you're not gonna be able to do all this and

722
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: be around me all the time how I.

723
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 3: Want you to.

724
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:48,959
Speaker 2: I mean, that's his program. But I think the one

725
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 2: thing that he shouldn't do. He shouldn't lead with money,

726
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 2: Like he can't lead with that. Like if he's into

727
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 2: a situation and it comes to that, okay, cool, But

728
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 2: like you know him going on the podcast now and

729
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 2: kind of appreciate that the girls listen knocking down like

730
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 2: she I'm that's enough for me, you know what I'm saying.

731
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 2: So like, but you can't go into it like that.

732
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 2: You know, you gotta feel a girl out, you got

733
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 2: to date them.

734
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:23,359
Speaker 1: But I talking about a woman he's really with. He's

735
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:24,319
Speaker 1: he was saying that.

736
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 3: He was like a woman I'm committed to. I'm taking serious.

737
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,959
Speaker 1: She's my girl, maybe going to be my wife. That's

738
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 1: what he's saying. He's not saying just like I'm dating

739
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 1: a girl. He said, a woman. I'm really serious about that.

740
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 1: I want to be around me and be with me everywhere.

741
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 1: I can't like, that's not I.

742
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 4: Think if you're a man in that position, I don't see.

743
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,760
Speaker 3: Nothing wrong with that, Okay.

744
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 2: I mean you know, like what if he dating somebody

745
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 2: and they got a job, and he like, man, I

746
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 2: don't I want to see you a little more. I

747
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 2: want to go to you know, to wherever I want

748
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 2: to take you to the eye in somewhere, but you

749
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 2: gotta work on Saturdays, and you gotta do all this.

750
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 2: He like, you know what, don't do that just you know, yeah,

751
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 2: you'll mess with me. I'll take care of you. I

752
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 2: get that.

753
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:09,919
Speaker 3: I think that's more what you think.

754
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:10,399
Speaker 4: I think.

755
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because you understayd His lifestyle is to where

756
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 2: he can do stuff.

757
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what he he with a.

758
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 2: Girl that gotta go to Mickey D's from nine to

759
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 2: five or whatever. I'm just her example, nine to five whatever,

760
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 2: whatever job it is.

761
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:23,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta work Monday through Friday.

762
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, He's like, man, I don't even like you too

763
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 2: tired to go out with me now, Like it's Monday night.

764
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 4: I want you to come on me.

765
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 2: And she like, I'm tired and got working. I got

766
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:36,840
Speaker 2: work in the morning, be up at six. And he like,

767
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 2: you know what, I want to I like you a lot,

768
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 2: you my girl. I want to be with you. Like, no,

769
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 2: we ain't gonna do that. We about to go to

770
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 2: New York, were about to go to you know, to

771
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 2: different places. You know, we ain't doing all No, if

772
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:49,359
Speaker 2: I'm serious.

773
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 3: About you, that's what he was saying. That's what he

774
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 3: was saying.

775
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 4: I get that.

776
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 2: Everybody gonna hate on it, But like I get what

777
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 2: he's saying, and people who are gonna hate on it

778
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:57,879
Speaker 2: don't understand that.

779
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, because if you have a certain life style and

780
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 1: your girl's like I work nine to five and you're like, no,

781
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 1: we're going to New York next to me, we're going

782
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 1: to hear for him, He's like, I can't. I want

783
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: my girl with me. So if I can't have you

784
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:13,240
Speaker 1: with me, then you know, like what's the point because

785
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 1: you can't a certain lifestyle and a man of that

786
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 1: statue who has it and can do that, he's like,

787
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:18,439
Speaker 1: I'll do it.

788
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 4: For you might need money to watch her kid.

789
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 2: Like all right, yeah, exactly, for the babysitter and all

790
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 2: of that, right right.

791
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 1: Right right, So that's what he's saying. Of course, like

792
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: women love it down, some men who don't have it

793
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 1: are hating on it, you know what I mean, because

794
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,399
Speaker 1: they're like, what, like I can barely afford my brand,

795
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 1: you know, but it's like it's for a certain lifestyle.

796
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:40,319
Speaker 3: When men like that speak, not everyone can do that.

797
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 1: He's saying, this is what I will do, and I

798
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: don't wear a five K and enough I gotta give

799
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:47,319
Speaker 1: her this then she needs this, that, that hair and

800
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:48,280
Speaker 1: all that stuff.

801
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 3: But he has the money.

802
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: So if a man doesn't have the money, then obviously

803
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 1: is that's not a conversation for you.

804
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 3: Right, That's what'll say it.

805
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 1: That's not a conversation for you if you can for that,

806
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 1: and that's okay. It doesn't mean it's the right way,

807
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 1: but it's what works for him, you know, a man

808
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 1: of his stature.

809
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 3: But I'm sure his DMS is blowing up right now,

810
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:09,919
Speaker 3: like yeah, yeah, yeah, I could be yea.

811
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I got it.

812
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 4: Yeah sure, so yeah.

813
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: Anyways, Tyresee actually went on a podcast as well recently.

814
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 3: I think it's Bishop td Jakes.

815
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:29,439
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, so he's been having a lot of good

816
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:34,479
Speaker 1: guests on his podcast. But basically, Tyresee said that all

817
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 1: women and men have a checklist, meaning of course, like

818
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 1: women are like I want a guy who's six feet

819
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: six or lot or looks a certain way or does

820
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: something for their career. And men too, man are like

821
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 1: I want a woman that has a big mutt. She

822
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: can't have a flat butter. She has this, so she

823
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 1: has that you know, whatever man feel. But that's what

824
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 1: he was saying, So let me just finish what he

825
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: was saying and then you can say your opinion. But

826
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 1: he was saying that, you know, he would have lists

827
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 1: for everything that he wanted in a woman, and like,

828
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:09,320
Speaker 1: you know, his ex wife was like light skinned kurry,

829
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: like you know, whatever that look or whatever the case is.

830
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 1: And he's saying like his current girl didn't meet a

831
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 1: lot of those things visually, Like there's a lot of

832
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 1: things that weren't the same. First of all, I'll be

833
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 1: so annoyed if my man went on any podcasts say that.

834
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 3: But anyway, he's losing it, Like excuse me.

835
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 1: Sir, But anyways, he said that there was a lot

836
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 1: of things that weren't checked off on his list, and

837
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 1: he said that his list was wrong, Like his checklist

838
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:40,400
Speaker 1: was wrong because he's been with this woman for five

839
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 1: plus years and it lasts longer than his marriage and

840
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 1: any other relationships he's been in, and it's a better

841
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 1: relationship than any.

842
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:47,959
Speaker 3: Of his past relationships.

843
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 1: So he's saying that sometimes the checklist is not who

844
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 1: God sent you.

845
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,839
Speaker 3: It just looks good on paper. How do you feel

846
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 3: about that.

847
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 2: Well, it sounds like this checklist was filled with a

848
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 2: lot of artificial ye see that, like outer lookings like

849
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 2: more of a visual type of checklist. But when you

850
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 2: start working to the core of what a man really

851
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 2: needs from a checklist and you don't realize it. At first,

852
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 2: it looks all good, like it's like window shopping. You

853
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 2: walk past it's all glitter and glitz and shiny, and

854
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 2: it looks good.

855
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 4: And then you bring it home and it ain't what

856
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 4: you thought it was. Right. He was like, damn.

857
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 2: When I was looking at it in the window, it

858
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 2: was this and that, but like it don't really do

859
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 2: like I'll tell you this, Like I remember I first

860
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 2: bought I bought a Bentley. I bought the Mussein, right, man,

861
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 2: I'm talking about that car with Dove's hell on the outside. Man,

862
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 2: when I tell you, I did not like that car

863
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 2: at all. I was like my worst car. It was

864
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 2: like expensive, it would look good, but then when I

865
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 2: got into it, the radio wasn't loud enough, the sun

866
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 2: roof didn't didn't come all the way back, it just

867
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 2: went up up.

868
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 4: I was like, man, this car is week.

869
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 2: So it ain't always about what you see on the

870
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 2: outside and the glints and glamorous. It's it's about you know,

871
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 2: you got to sit in that car and see what

872
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 2: to do really, because the inside don't really tell you

873
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 2: the most about a person. And I think he once

874
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 2: he revamped his list, it was like, you know, I

875
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 2: got to revamp my list. You know, I need a woman.

876
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 2: You know, I don't care about the long hair, big moity.

877
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 2: I need her heart at what's her? What's her? You know,

878
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 2: what's her relationship with God? When you start looking at

879
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 2: like the core of a person, you start seeing different

880
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 2: things and then you've realized that, oh list was off

881
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 2: all along. But as most men, most of our lists

882
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:41,919
Speaker 2: are off for the most part. We our lists be many,

883
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 2: be full of bullshit, and then we look like because

884
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 2: because we're trying to impress the next man, we're trying

885
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:47,719
Speaker 2: to be.

886
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 3: Crazy like trying to press other men.

887
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 2: Trying to take it like we're trying to impress like

888
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 2: just not even the next man, but like it's like

889
00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 2: your woman when you visually out with her, you know,

890
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 2: gouds be what they want to hold on. They be

891
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 2: looking at seeing who looking right, and it's just like

892
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 2: a flex but like they don't know, Like when I

893
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 2: go home, it's argument, it ain't really cracking like what

894
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 2: you see.

895
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 1: I still believe though men should still be visually attracted

896
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,240
Speaker 1: to their women, because I don't care what no one says.

897
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 1: Men are visual and I feel like if you are

898
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 1: not visually attracted to your woman, you are going to

899
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 1: cheat on her. I just really do believe that, Like

900
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: you cannot just be like, I'm not attracted to her

901
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 1: at all. That's crazy, like not being attracted to someone

902
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:37,319
Speaker 1: you're even me as a woman.

903
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 3: No, it isn't.

904
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying traction because I hadn't been around

905
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 2: females to like, damn, damn, she is beautiful, Like just

906
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 2: sitting there talking to her like damn.

907
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 1: Right from from an inner thing, but she was just

908
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 1: a dog unattractive, Like she was just unattractive.

909
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 4: Is not a look to me.

910
00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 3: Okay, I got you, but I just don'ts a.

911
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 2: Look because you like, because I have just seen some

912
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:04,280
Speaker 2: badss females look terrible.

913
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've seen that too, so I get you are terrible.

914
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 4: Like like when I look at.

915
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 3: You, I have that I know exactly what you're talking about.

916
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 2: Come on, it ain't about you across the room, Okay,

917
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 2: when I look across the room, But when you start

918
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 2: getting to the essence of somebody that that's a different look.

919
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 3: I agree with that.

920
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,720
Speaker 1: I can't agree with that one hundred percent, which goes

921
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:28,840
Speaker 1: into a conversation that's been started on social media that

922
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:32,919
Speaker 1: says men when they're looking for like long term relationships

923
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:37,400
Speaker 1: or their wives, they prioritize a woman's facial aesthetics, like

924
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 1: their face, versus when they focus on a woman's body

925
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 1: and shape they're looking for short term relationships.

926
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 3: Do you think that's true?

927
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 4: Wait, say that. Look at that they face bone structure.

928
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 1: So no, and they say nothing about bone structure. Oh

929
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,839
Speaker 1: Criyet they said that. There's a conversation and debate on

930
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 1: social media that says that men prioritize like a woman's face,

931
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 1: like she looks facially like in her face when he's

932
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 1: thinking about a long term relationship versus short term they're

933
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:07,439
Speaker 1: more focused.

934
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 3: On a woman's body.

935
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:09,399
Speaker 4: Okay, so this was a poll.

936
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is like a debate online that a lot

937
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 3: of people are talking.

938
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 4: About what like what race of men?

939
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 3: I'm sure I don't know the races.

940
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 2: See, I think when they start doing these poles, you

941
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 2: gotta go across the most influential, like racist, like you

942
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 2: gotta go.

943
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 4: Black. You gotta ask a group of blacks.

944
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 1: You gotta ask about the blacks the colors.

945
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 3: This is crazy.

946
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 2: You go, you go black, white, you go Chinese, and

947
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 2: then we gotta do one more. You do like you

948
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:47,839
Speaker 2: gotta ask the Mexicans. Let's do a poll across those

949
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 2: four races, Like I feel like some of these polls

950
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:51,439
Speaker 2: be done by one race.

951
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 3: Well, what is your question? What is the answer?

952
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: Would you rather be a woman with zero body but

953
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 1: a beautiful face or an ugly face with the banging

954
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:00,320
Speaker 1: body which.

955
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 2: Ugly face for real? Of course that's easy call. Look,

956
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 2: the blacks is gonna have one hundred percent.

957
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:13,800
Speaker 1: Because you know what, when we had the thing about

958
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 1: a man don't want to work all day, come home

959
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,240
Speaker 1: to a flat butt, and you were like, no, middler,

960
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 1: but that every moment was going crazy that They're like.

961
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 3: No, I don't give it down. You gotta have a button.

962
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 3: I'm not dealing with it. And that's fucked up.

963
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: I think at the end of the day, zero body

964
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 1: but a beautiful face, and I don't know that's crazy

965
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: or an ugly.

966
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,399
Speaker 3: Face, So you just wake up turn around ugly face

967
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 3: because you're.

968
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 4: Not always with that makeup though.

969
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 3: No, but you have to wake up to this person on.

970
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 4: The get that makeup going, so.

971
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 3: Make up in the bed.

972
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:47,320
Speaker 1: It's not gonna blow you waking up in the morning

973
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 1: turning around seeing.

974
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 2: This facet be rubbing on something though, So I'm gonna

975
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 2: be feeling cool.

976
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:56,240
Speaker 3: This is crazy. I can't lady, come.

977
00:46:56,120 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 4: On and be like, shoot, I ain't tripping, that's mom me.

978
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 3: Men are crazy to me.

979
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 2: I don't know what the black community.

980
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: Community, but that's still crazy.

981
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 2: To know even doubt. We gotta we gotta, you know,

982
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 2: the pole, gotta be like, let's see who, what the

983
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 2: po what's the ages of the men, what's the race.

984
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 2: You can't be just doing these poles. They can't get

985
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 2: credibility like that.

986
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: Okay, so question you. We're gonna do a few quick

987
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 1: little questions before we wrap it up. All right, the

988
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: three little scenarios. Okay, you meet your partner's family for

989
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 1: the first time and you realize you once dated their cousin.

990
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:44,399
Speaker 3: Nobody mentions it, mentions it. Do you like you.

991
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:45,760
Speaker 4: Over there for the holidays?

992
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 1: And the cousin is over there and you're like, oh

993
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: my god, but she don't say anything, and you don't

994
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:52,320
Speaker 1: say nothing.

995
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 3: But it's blowing you because you win.

996
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: And the cousin comes up to you like Hi, I'm Keisha,

997
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:02,760
Speaker 1: and you're like, hey, Kesha and Paul, are you gonna

998
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,240
Speaker 1: tell your girl like, ooh, I dated her before.

999
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 4: I think I am gonna break up. I don't like that.

1000
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: So what if y'all are in like a two year relationship,

1001
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, man, you know what, that's crazy to break

1002
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 1: up two year committed relationship and that happens.

1003
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 2: No, I got a tailor. You got a tailor. I

1004
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:27,320
Speaker 2: want somebody two years and that's your cousin.

1005
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:31,320
Speaker 4: You gotta tailor.

1006
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:32,640
Speaker 3: You gotta tell.

1007
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 4: Y'all gotta go get some drinks and be like, I gotta.

1008
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 3: Say something, not the drinks.

1009
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 1: Now, if it was the opposite and you've been with

1010
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 1: someone two years, you're really serious about this person, y'all

1011
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 1: live together or whatever, and you go, you know, y'all

1012
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:48,439
Speaker 1: go to the family's house and she's like, oh my god,

1013
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 1: and then she tells you like, look, I dated him

1014
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:51,320
Speaker 1: for a minute.

1015
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 3: We had a little situation. What are you doing?

1016
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 2: Like?

1017
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 1: It wasn't nothing serious, but we hooked up. We vied

1018
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 1: for a minute, but nothing really happened as far as

1019
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:01,920
Speaker 1: that's getting serious.

1020
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 4: And me and the girl, are serious?

1021
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,399
Speaker 3: You and the girl are living together? Serious in love?

1022
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 3: Budd up? What you doing?

1023
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep it proving I'm gonna like, I'm gonna

1024
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:15,439
Speaker 2: be cool. All right, we'll be cool.

1025
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 1: Are you gonna say anything to the cousin if he

1026
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 1: donna say nothing about it?

1027
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 2: Well, but then we came into the family function and

1028
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,319
Speaker 2: she saw him, and once she saw him, she was like, Oh,

1029
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 2: that's your cousin, and then she tell me.

1030
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 4: He didn't know what you mean.

1031
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 2: He doesn't know, Well, he just noticed it. They just

1032
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 2: both noticed it that night.

1033
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm saying, are you gonna say something after?

1034
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 1: What if he just still don't say nothing?

1035
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:39,799
Speaker 3: She don't know that.

1036
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,759
Speaker 2: She told me I'm gonna say nothing that i'ma way

1037
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 2: like a week, see if he say something?

1038
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 3: And what if he doesn't, Are you gonna say something

1039
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:45,320
Speaker 3: or you just let it go?

1040
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 4: An tell me though?

1041
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 2: Like he was like, you know what, man, y'all had.

1042
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 2: But then as a man you could be like, man,

1043
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 2: I know y'all had a good thing going. I didn't

1044
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 2: want to, like, you know, say nothing. I like y'all together, men,

1045
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 2: I do that. You know what I'm saying. So you know,

1046
00:49:58,960 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 2: either way, I'm not even tripp.

1047
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 1: Okay, So your best friend shows you that she he

1048
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 1: has an old DM from your partner, right, So like

1049
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 1: your girl and him DM a year ago before you

1050
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:18,240
Speaker 1: started dating, a year before you ever started dating, they.

1051
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:19,920
Speaker 3: Do have an old DM together.

1052
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 4: Okay, what are you doing?

1053
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,399
Speaker 3: You're not for that? What if?

1054
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:29,880
Speaker 4: Like, okay, oh DM, that's what message?

1055
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: You know that that has happened to me where I

1056
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 1: was with somebody in a relationship and then one of

1057
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:38,359
Speaker 1: my sisters was like, oh he tried to talk to

1058
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 1: me in twenty ten and showed me like a tweet

1059
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:44,720
Speaker 1: and I'm like, all right, like you're my sister.

1060
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:48,839
Speaker 3: We look alike now, y'all never did nothing like yeah?

1061
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 1: Like what like you know what I'm saying. It's like,

1062
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: why are you even telling me to be messy? Like

1063
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: because if it's not nothing for real, then it's nothing

1064
00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 1: like what it was a DM like. Okay, So should

1065
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 1: long this is my last question. Should long term couples

1066
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:11,759
Speaker 1: get a yearly free pass to sleep with someone else? Like,

1067
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 1: for instance, say you married when you've been since you

1068
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: were like twenty and now you guys been married and

1069
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 1: you're fifty.

1070
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 3: You've been married for thirty years.

1071
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 1: Would you say you get a free past yearly to

1072
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 1: prevent cheating or do you.

1073
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 3: Think that would destroy the relationship.

1074
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 2: I think that's on the couple. I don't think just

1075
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 2: sneaking do it, don't that's a free past. Just nah,

1076
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 2: just sneaking do it. Just don't get caught.

1077
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:42,879
Speaker 1: Why.

1078
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 4: I don't need to know. I don't need to know.

1079
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 4: I don't need to know. SEA can do it.

1080
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 2: I don't need to know. Just go ahead and sneak.

1081
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 2: Just make sure I don't find out. I ain't gonna

1082
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 2: be looking, but don't make sure I don't find out.

1083
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,320
Speaker 4: Sneaking. Do that. If you need to do that, sneaking

1084
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 4: do it.

1085
00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 3: I can say that.

1086
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:01,880
Speaker 2: I'm I don't want to know. I keep coming home

1087
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:05,680
Speaker 2: and ship I'm like, oh damn, I dang. They're still

1088
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 2: leaking from him.

1089
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 1: Crazy, that's what is this?

1090
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 4: Okay, still discharging? Yeah, blone me.

1091
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 3: That's out of control. So you think that you rather

1092
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 3: just the old fashioned cheese.

1093
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 2: Go ahead and old fast, that's what you need. You

1094
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:27,360
Speaker 2: feeling like that, go ahead and don't don't let me

1095
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:29,719
Speaker 2: catch you. You don't want to know that you're coming

1096
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:34,840
Speaker 2: back from getting took down, like come on like it

1097
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 2: was a good honey.

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00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:39,360
Speaker 4: I wasn't like did you did you? You know?

1099
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:44,319
Speaker 1: You know that is hilarious. Yeah, I feel that I

1100
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 1: don't want to know either.

1101
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 3: I'm I'm gonna be honest.

1102
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:48,840
Speaker 4: Go ahead, just sneak off.

1103
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:51,439
Speaker 1: So you don't think it should be a conversation like babe, look,

1104
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 1: I'm not happy.

1105
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 4: Let's divorce in our sex.

1106
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 3: If it's just like the man don't want.

1107
00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 4: To We're gone. I'm gone once you say, but.

1108
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:02,240
Speaker 3: You're seventy, I'm seventy.

1109
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:08,240
Speaker 2: I'm good still the woman she cooked? How you're not happy?

1110
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:08,399
Speaker 4: Girl?

1111
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 3: You's seventy, She's not seventy two.

1112
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 4: How you was like girl, stop player, you've been cooked

1113
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 4: for like forty years.

1114
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:17,320
Speaker 3: That's cool.

1115
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:20,760
Speaker 2: Like down if you don't sit your butt down, girl seventy,

1116
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 2: get that out of here.

1117
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 4: You a better age fifty five? You know? You know

1118
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 4: fifty five you still kind of made.

1119
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:33,799
Speaker 1: You're like, yeah, I think there's some people who are

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00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:38,240
Speaker 1: cracking like fifty vide it is. Anyways, Thank you guys

1121
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 1: so much for you another episode of the Truth after Dark.

1122
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 1: Happy holidays to everybody. I hope that you guys had

1123
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 1: an amazing year.

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00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,440
Speaker 4: And New Years All that good stuff. We're safe.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We're so grateful for everybody who has been supporting Truth

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00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:58,320
Speaker 1: after Dark for all of twenty twenty five. We started

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00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 1: this podcast at the beginning of the year and it

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00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 1: has grown immensely. We're so thankful for all of the support,

1130
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: all of the love, and all of the hate, and

1131
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 1: we thank you so much for just really rocking with us.

1132
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 1: We have so much amazing good things coming into new year,

1133
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 1: great guests, and just like more content altogether.

1134
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:22,959
Speaker 4: Thanks for joining us. We'll see y'all in twenty twenty six.

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Speaker 3: Peace.

1136
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Speaker 2: This is the taking over the game, all right, everybody,

1137
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Speaker 2: welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 3: Do you think that men or women are more toxic