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Speaker 1: to poor Minds where a drunk mind speaks. Yes, y'all

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Speaker 1: And I am so excited, y'all. I told y'all we're

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Speaker 1: gonna I said, y'all like four times. Got dang, y'all, y'all,

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Speaker 2: In the country came out for real? We have a

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Speaker 1: We told y'all we're gonna start bringing guests on and

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited. Y'all probably follow him on Instagram because

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Speaker 1: it be on that motherfucking clown and all day we

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Speaker 1: got our boy cast facts in the building. What's up? Cast?

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Speaker 2: What's going on? Yes?

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Speaker 1: We need cast podcast? What like last year was about

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Speaker 1: a year about a year ago? Yes, So now we

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Speaker 1: finally got Cass on our podcast. Yes, so she's about

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Speaker 1: to be crazy And I'm just super excited because y'all

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Speaker 1: never held he never holds back. That's a fact, little cast. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So y'all know, we did our first radio segment today.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to DJ Scream at ninety six to seven

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Speaker 1: The Beat and Maren and Moran. It was so live.

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Speaker 1: Thank you to everybody who tuned in. We appreciate all

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Speaker 1: the support. Y'all was really about to make us crawl.

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Speaker 1: All the reposting everything. No, honestly, I cried Sunday when

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Speaker 1: So basically, somebody had tweeted the other day and said

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Speaker 1: It's not a body type, and I said, I completely,

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Speaker 1: Thank you? You can't you can be stacked, thick, thick.

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Speaker 1: That's what they said. Little girl like a little bit

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna like they the men I don't.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not fucking Mixian. But the crazy thing is

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Speaker 1: mixed to me? That's how I feel about I don't

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Speaker 1: And I've never been one of those people to boast

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Speaker 1: with like my biological father and stuff. That's not something

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Speaker 1: like everybody cultural appropriation that everybody want to be black,

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Speaker 1: Everybody, everybody got a school, everybody, I got big lip

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Speaker 1: like the other day, like what's people's obstisions? What is

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Speaker 1: that's kind of always been around, but it's never really

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Speaker 1: And you know, I don't know, like no swingers like

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Speaker 1: with other couples, y'all go to the little party. What's half?

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Speaker 1: What's half? Swing?

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Speaker 2: Like my wife can't.

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Speaker 1: But you can another beach that's not a swinger, then

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Speaker 1: you just cheat. You just a cheating and you want

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Speaker 1: she can't join in. Wait why was she? So? What

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Speaker 2: Because that's different.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think most swinger couples, I mean, I can't

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Speaker 1: let me, let me, let me not lie. Some people

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Speaker 1: that actually happened to me last weekend. No no, no,

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Speaker 1: I feel like they need to send the woman in.

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Speaker 1: She was just basically not trying to hear. She didn't

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Speaker 2: So, but that's not swinging. That just taking a bit home.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, no, no, no no no. She like he were married.

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Speaker 1: They were No, they weren't married. They were in a relationship,

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Speaker 1: but they like to bring bitches home and swinging to me,

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Speaker 1: sing to me, swinging is exactly when you're married, and

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Speaker 1: y'all swing.

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Speaker 2: With other couples married. But if you bring like if

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Speaker 1: Feel like a couples, that's what swinging reasome they were

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Speaker 2: Well, I would say this, I feel, well, I guess.

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Speaker 1: Not an open relationship. I don't know. I yeah, i' relationship. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I'll say this, I feel like a lot of

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Speaker 1: Are like, oh, I'm a couple, because I feel like

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Speaker 1: most of the time that threesomes going on is with

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Speaker 1: y'all just bring another girl in. I don't feel like

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Speaker 1: I feel like maybe the woman should do the approaching

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Speaker 1: because he was just crazy aggressive and it was just weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of women know how to talk.

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Speaker 1: You might talk, right, I mean, and that's what he said.

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Speaker 1: He was like, he was like, man, I told her that,

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Speaker 1: It was so awkward. But I feel like she.

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Speaker 2: Was getting mad because you was.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because you talk about this on another.

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Speaker 2: See she not with it.

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Speaker 1: But she was in the living room the whole time.

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Speaker 1: I don't even think she saw.

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Speaker 2: He was Oh, yeah, okay.

430
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:23,960
Speaker 1: You don't think that like a couple needs to approach

431
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:27,480
Speaker 1: a black woman specifically. I feel like you just need

432
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 1: to approach a woman in general, like the woman needs

433
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,440
Speaker 1: to approach the woman. And I just feel like that's

434
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,119
Speaker 1: how it needs to go, because at the end of

435
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:36,840
Speaker 1: the day, if the man approached the woman, I feel

436
00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:40,720
Speaker 1: like things could get lost in translation because it might

437
00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:44,400
Speaker 1: not be completely understood that it's gonna be another woman involved.

438
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 1: But if you approach the woman as a woman and

439
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:48,960
Speaker 1: talk to her about it, like, hey, I want you

440
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:51,359
Speaker 1: to come back home with me and my men, she

441
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 1: gonna understand what the going on is. She gonna either

442
00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:54,959
Speaker 1: decline or excel.

443
00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:59,160
Speaker 2: It depends on her nigga. If it's that girls got

444
00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 2: access to a lot of girl to let the dude

445
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,639
Speaker 2: do it, but if it's a regular nigga, then your

446
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 2: girl should do it.

447
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:05,160
Speaker 1: I do agree with with that.

448
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,960
Speaker 2: To let your girls smash one on one without first

449
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 2: to get her comfortable, I agree.

450
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:16,479
Speaker 1: With that as well as well, because sometimes a girl

451
00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 1: need to loosen the girl up, so it's like you

452
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 1: know what you said, Oh wait, you said the girl

453
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 1: needs this man, Okay, I.

454
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,159
Speaker 2: Then introduce it to the side day.

455
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 1: I do agree with that because I do feel like

456
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 1: it is definitely power and like stadies and money and

457
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 1: all this type of sheating, Like.

458
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 2: If unless you just want to pay a nigga just

459
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:36,440
Speaker 2: want to pay for the three niggas do that, and.

460
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:39,159
Speaker 1: Some girls might be like cool, because that's got a

461
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 1: hot band for you, a hot band. Can you wild

462
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 1: what you said?

463
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,880
Speaker 2: Cash take forty?

464
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:52,879
Speaker 1: Okay this before it's gonna be more like yeah, nine sixty,

465
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 1: you need to see you know, you need to see

466
00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 1: ten forty exactly, nigga, because cashap got a limit of

467
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:03,200
Speaker 1: twenty five hundred. I know.

468
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, but some girls would take the bread if she

469
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,760
Speaker 2: already would do it for free. A lot of girls

470
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:10,920
Speaker 2: would take money for sut they they'll do for free, y'all.

471
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 2: The girls will take money for shit, they won't do

472
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 2: for free. That's that's when you a hooker. But if

473
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,400
Speaker 2: you already want wearing both of them, and they thought

474
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:18,880
Speaker 2: for you a thousand dollars just gonna take the bread,

475
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 2: nobody will not gonna take the bread.

476
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, ladies, don't ever give that pussy

477
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 1: up for a thousand dollars, y'all. Cats told me last week.

478
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 1: Cat told me on Friday that be she used to

479
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 1: be giving a pussy up for three margaritas and a

480
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:35,120
Speaker 1: thigh rud. Ladies, please don't be their girl.

481
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 2: With the vibe.

482
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 1: You're the god. I'm gonna say that now. I'm not saying, oh,

483
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 1: you have to have a price. If you're having a

484
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 1: good time and you're enjoying their company, you just wanna

485
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 1: have fun. Turn the fuck up, Like, yeah, you don't

486
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 1: have to necessarily going into won with some money.

487
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:49,119
Speaker 2: It's not all about that.

488
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 1: But I will say like, don't. I don't know, like

489
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 1: I said, I just feel like don't. First of all,

490
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 1: don't let nobody press you to do right. I agree

491
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 1: with don't let nobody press you to shit. But it's like,

492
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 1: if you want to have fun, go ahead and have fun.

493
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: But I definitely think that the woman needs to do

494
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 1: the talking, especially with Black women. That's just my personal

495
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 1: opinion because I feel like sometimes nigga has come at

496
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 1: women wrong ninety percent of the time. Anyway, I can

497
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 1: guarantee you the last ten niggas that have hit on

498
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 1: me and got curved caause their approach was all wrong.

499
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 1: But like, I don't, I don't like women.

500
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:21,639
Speaker 2: I don't.

501
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 1: I've been with women before. But I will say I'll

502
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: sit there and I'll have a conversation with a girl.

503
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:28,439
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, and if we end up

504
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 2: getting drunk, shit, you never know what can happen.

505
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 1: Seriously, that's it's a vibe. So I can agree with that.

506
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: So my own never vibe like that. My personal opinion

507
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: is like I don't necessarily have a price tag, But

508
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 1: like I said, I'll turn up with a girl. I

509
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 1: don't know if it's everybody got a price period. If

510
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 1: somebody come up to me right now and be like,

511
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: oh I got fifty bands for that pussy, Oh you

512
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 1: getting this pussy and his booty and his mouth and

513
00:24:56,200 --> 00:25:01,120
Speaker 1: his ear and for fifty that's all about the same.

514
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 1: I was just saying the number, but I'll suck for

515
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:09,400
Speaker 1: ten bands. That sounds more accurate. But I'm just saying.

516
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 1: But I'm like I said, everybody has a price, though,

517
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 1: so I have to keep them necessarily getting there of course.

518
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't feel.

519
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: Like everybody necessarily have a price, but I just feel

520
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 1: like at the end of the day though, like I

521
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 1: don't know, I just feel like, in your younger years, okay, cool,

522
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,880
Speaker 1: she like that, be cool, But once you get older,

523
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: it's like, what's the point You just like, yeah, what's

524
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: the point of when you're older? Just going with a

525
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 1: vibe puts you a nigga about you three Margada Dona

526
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 1: go home, and because you brought you, you might have

527
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 1: already left your house. I might give them like you

528
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 1: want you, But I'm talking about maybe a nigga that

529
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 1: you didn't even know you was gonna me.

530
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:49,119
Speaker 2: You ain't know that's different. You nigga a stranger, but.

531
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:55,199
Speaker 1: It ain't no vibe. You don't know that to get

532
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:55,880
Speaker 1: that place.

533
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 2: And you have to go from hate how you're doing.

534
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,120
Speaker 2: I'm such and such, I'm such and such.

535
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 1: And I appreciate Cast so much for being on the

536
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 1: show today, cause I feel like he just always sad,

537
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: like niggas do. Look at bitches this hole. So if

538
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,120
Speaker 1: you just fucking on the first night and he don't

539
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: know you like that and you don't have three, I mean,

540
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Like I've said this before. I've

541
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: had one nice stance before, and I had a one

542
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: nice stand and we ended up being a three year relationship.

543
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: Like sometimes it happened. I had one nice stands in

544
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 1: each relationship too, I have, but it was when I

545
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: was younger. Now, No, I don't think that he definitely.

546
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 2: Had I meet one of y'all. Y'all, y'all, y'all very attractive,

547
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 2: so thank you, y'all. Might be the hottest you in

548
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:38,919
Speaker 2: that nigga phone, you gotta think. So, he don't care

549
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:40,680
Speaker 2: if you give him the pussy fast. He's still gonna

550
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 2: cling on.

551
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 1: Like I'm not gonna go I'm dead, No, But I

552
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,159
Speaker 1: definitely agree with you on that there's certain niggas you

553
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 1: can get a pussy too, Yeah, and they gonna stick

554
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 1: around and it's gonna be ab and some niggas. But

555
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 1: I mean, but I've had some niggas, you know, a

556
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 1: little clown. Y'all end up having sex. So and it's

557
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,640
Speaker 1: just like he bobbed with you and you were cool

558
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 1: ass bitch. Yeah, and y'all keep viobbing. It's all about them.

559
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 1: I don't be giving a about the vibes. I be

560
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,880
Speaker 1: given the funk about the bank. The vibes is cool,

561
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 1: but I'm dead. Where's the money? Where's the coin? So

562
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 1: if there are any swingers, we can't keep buying your money.

563
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,880
Speaker 2: But swinging is discussing it. If you let her dude

564
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 2: whim your girl and go home with her and cuddle, and.

565
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 1: I agree, I'm not about to be no swinger when

566
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 1: I get married. The work, but you're about to be

567
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:28,159
Speaker 1: swinging like I'm not about to be niggas and you like, No,

568
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 1: we're not about to be exchanging trading places.

569
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 2: It's a place out here that's people.

570
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,640
Speaker 1: It's places and everything. It's a lot of places. It's

571
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 1: a place. Don't put it out that I'll be putting

572
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: people on blade.

573
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 2: No, it's a place, not a people. I'm not gonna

574
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: put nobody, but it's a known place to everybody to

575
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 2: go to swing.

576
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 1: I heard.

577
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:48,160
Speaker 2: Here.

578
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,400
Speaker 1: I need to hear that, Yeah, I think, like I said,

579
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: I think to eat your song. I don't like to

580
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: shame people for what they like. But as far as

581
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: whatever it is, okay, maybe swinging is different beause y'all

582
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: said it's couple on a couple of y'all educate me today.

583
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 1: But as far as a couple bringing another girl in,

584
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: I feel like I can't speak for all black women.

585
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 1: I can just speak on myself, but I know for me,

586
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 1: the first time I had a threesome, it was with

587
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 1: a couple and the girl approached.

588
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 2: Me, and I feel like she how she introduced her

589
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 2: dude to you.

590
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: It was like she we were flirting for so long

591
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,639
Speaker 1: and just like having fun at work, and it was

592
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: just stupid shit and like we had kiss before, like

593
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 1: nothing like serious, but I knew like whenever we were firing,

594
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 1: I knew she had a boyfriend the entire time, So.

595
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 2: No, I definitely wasn't, but it it was just like

596
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 2: fun flirting stuff.

597
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 1: Then it's like one night, like sh They used to

598
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 1: always have like house parties and people at they house,

599
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 1: so it got to points where I was always hanging

600
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 1: at their house with them, and so I was always

601
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: going over there and hang out with her. Then one

602
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: night we just got really really drunk and we just

603
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 1: all even go fucking and it was cool.

604
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 2: App was you was you attracted to her boyfriend?

605
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was a cute guy.

606
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 2: She was and she was a she was cute. It

607
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 2: put it on a shelf, no, cause cause it's like

608
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 2: you don't wanna wear her boyfriend?

609
00:28:59,560 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: She why?

610
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 2: No?

611
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 1: I mean I think they had but they had a

612
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: good formula going on. It was obvious that they had

613
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 1: done that ship before. But like I said, she had

614
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 1: made me so comfortable and she wasn't like a jealous

615
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: type of girl. Because I've had friends that have had

616
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: threesomes before and you definitely, yeah, you can't be jealousy

617
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 1: had them out and the thing was to do that.

618
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: They had a THREESOMEE was my homeboy and both of

619
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 1: them were my friends, and they fucked him, but one

620
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,239
Speaker 1: of my friends ended up really liking him, and then

621
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 1: the other girl came in and they was just it

622
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: was a whole fallout. So definitely, if y'all are a

623
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: couple ladies, approached the woman, but you can't be jealous,

624
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 1: and don't never apply, don't.

625
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 2: Approach, don't don't do that you're gonna make insecure.

626
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: Don't approach.

627
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 2: Because and you got good mouth and you wil ain't

628
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 2: he like, and she's like, damn, I never seen react

629
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 2: like that.

630
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: Then if you were that have a person that you

631
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: don't need to be having threesome, I just feel like

632
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: it agree with that never approached me because at this age,

633
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to have No. Three in his beach

634
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: about to give me some coins. And I mean, like,

635
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. It's gonna have to be in

636
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 1: the thousands. And I ain't talking about like three or four.

637
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:21,479
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, because at the end of the day, that's already,

638
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 1: that's already, that's already, that's already your beach. So it's

639
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 1: nothing that's about to come from the situations. Y'all just

640
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 1: want me in y'all bedroom because y'all want me.

641
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 2: Seven thousand.

642
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 1: You can record it, but it's gonna be on my phone.

643
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: Can you have another fee for me to go period? Like,

644
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 1: I just don't see a point at this point in

645
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 1: my life to have a threesome with a couple like

646
00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 1: when I and I'm not knocking it because when I

647
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 1: was young, your iddity, but I just think you a couple.

648
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: I had couple and afterwards we was drunk, so we

649
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 1: all just went to sleep, saying, but I've also had

650
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: threesomes as the girl who was in the relationship. Yeah,

651
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: so I mean I'm not opposed to that even even

652
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: now in the future, like I mean, because that's my man, Like,

653
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 1: I'm not opposed to me the girl in the Okay,

654
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: So since because I know you said this before, you're

655
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 1: in a relationship, you bring a girl in, would you

656
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: be willing to pay a girl if she's like you

657
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: like her? No, because bach ain't no home words paying

658
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 1: to me.

659
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 2: Money.

660
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: That don't mean that I think you hold is worth money.

661
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 2: Money.

662
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: That's me. That's what I do, and that's I feel

663
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 1: like what separates me and how I feel about things

664
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 1: from a lot of other women. I'm gonna always stay

665
00:31:59,000 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: what I wanted you.

666
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 2: And say, dragon, can you DM this girl? Okay, she

667
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 2: showed you some girl. He's bad, he's fire. He like

668
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 2: like like said, it's better if the girl approached her,

669
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 2: So like DM this girl. He like, you could get

670
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 2: her for us. And the girl was like, yeah, I'm

671
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 2: down with you. Turn the talk. She hits you with

672
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 2: the money to it, would.

673
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: You be like and then your niggas down to pa.

674
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. I don't feel like I be

675
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 1: fucking with niggas that's down to pay. No, I don't.

676
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I be fucking with niggas that

677
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: would pay a beach to have a threesome with us.

678
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 1: Because first of all, beach, I'm fine, it's fuzzed and

679
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 1: my niggas gonna be breaded up so and that's and

680
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 1: that's fine. But at the end of the day, no beach,

681
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: because you ain't ever about to be going around saying

682
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 1: me and my nigga paid due to a band to please.

683
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: Absolutely not, because we ain't gotta pay you. You know why,

684
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 1: because when the nigga got a certain level of money

685
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 1: and then you a bad beach and you look a

686
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 1: certain way too, it's plenty.

687
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 2: Of you want someone to bitched that niggas with money free.

688
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 1: But no, I'm not saying that I want that. I'm

689
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: just saying, you gotta understand what.

690
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 2: If like, we're not giving that bits no money seven thousand, then.

691
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: That's cool because I'm not losing nothing. You didn't pay,

692
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 1: you didn't want to give me what you what I

693
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 1: requested so that's fine.

694
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 2: We're just not gonna do. You just can't work. You

695
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 2: just can't work this out.

696
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: I'm not losing she though, because I'm straight. It's not

697
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 1: like I need your seven mans. My rint gonna be

698
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 1: paid regardless, My ship gonna be paid.

699
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 2: But if you want me to do this.

700
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 1: But I'm not, I'm good. You said seven mans.

701
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 2: The dick is a deal like that's stal you winning

702
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 2: whole ship. To me, I don't think like that.

703
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: So but we also speaking hypothetically though, because how many.

704
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 1: And that's why I'm speaking, That's why. That's why niggas

705
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: do that.

706
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 2: I know them.

707
00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 1: You already done lost me because I don't like you

708
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: didn't lose me. I will sign the daughter in law,

709
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: but they probably do be contracts involved, and I don't know.

710
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 1: I just feel like, to me, if it's not, if

711
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: I'm not reaping over benefit from the situation at this point,

712
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 1: I don't see a point to have a threesome with

713
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: a nigga in his beach, because that's your beach, that's

714
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 1: who you're going home with. I was just I was

715
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 1: just a tall but that's what the fuck you are.

716
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 1: If you let somebody fuck you for some money, you're

717
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 1: a last or if you let somebody fuck you for

718
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 1: free and he got a beach to me, I would

719
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:31,280
Speaker 1: rather walk away be in a talk with seven bands

720
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 1: in my couch. Yeah, it's like you just you, just

721
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 1: a beach that we fucked on and you go about

722
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:39,880
Speaker 1: your business and we do. You can talk about you,

723
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: but that's fine. But all I'm saying is I would

724
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: rather walk away from the situation having some extra money

725
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:51,800
Speaker 1: in my account and just because I felt the vibe. Vibe.

726
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: Don't move on, y'all.

727
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 2: Okay, so let us know how y'all feel about he

728
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 2: people that are in.

729
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 1: Relationships that approach you wanting to bring you in that

730
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 1: relationship to have sex. Would you feel more comfortable with

731
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 1: the men do the yeah, they comment, they comment, let

732
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 1: us know. Yeah, So let us know how y'all feel

733
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,919
Speaker 1: about you know, uh, couples that are open with having

734
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 1: three songs? Would you feel more comfortable with uh a

735
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 1: male approaching you or with the woman approaching you? Or

736
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: getting paid?

737
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:27,839
Speaker 2: I'm dead and what would have to be the Are

738
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 2: you a more of a vibe type of girl?

739
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: Or would you want some cash flow? Okay, so we

740
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:38,280
Speaker 1: gonna get into song. The song by as what cash

741
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: I needed on time. I'm talking bangor.

742
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 2: I have the same today.

743
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 1: I did that purpose for y'all that loved to hear

744
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: lex vocals. I really did that for y'all.

745
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 2: Y'all will because I wait now I want.

746
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 1: Y'all, I'm about to say, hit that home, wumo something

747
00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: bangor hor they loved. I mean over here like why

748
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: bro Okay, Okay, we're gonna move on into my favorite

749
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: top big a the bed, the baby, the bed, niggas

750
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:21,319
Speaker 1: we talk about things that go on in the bed.

751
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:21,760
Speaker 2: Okay.

752
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: So I want to talk about this because this is

753
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 1: something that happened to me about to get to the

754
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: real needy greedy. I wanted to talk about this because

755
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 1: this actually happened to me probably when I was about

756
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 1: twenty two or twenty three.

757
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 2: I knew I've always been like a sexual person. I

758
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 2: know my body very well.

759
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,399
Speaker 1: And the guy I was talking to at this time,

760
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:49,320
Speaker 1: we had good sex, but he just wasn't making me orgasm.

761
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 1: I felt like it wasn't enough, and I was just

762
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 1: so fucking confused to why. Okay, and I figured it out.

763
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: It's because I was rubbing my pussy too much. Bitch.

764
00:36:58,360 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 1: I was working that motherfucker out.

765
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 2: My pussy had a six pack, So you feel like

766
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 2: that's why you wasn't coming.

767
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 1: I felt like that you ain't sick, right, And I

768
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 1: want to talk about like are you masturbating too much?

769
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: So and shout out to horrible decisions because I actually

770
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 1: got this topic because we went to their live show

771
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,719
Speaker 1: in Houston and a girl was asking why you know

772
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: she wasn't having sex with.

773
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,359
Speaker 2: Her boyfriend and like, okay, are you masturbating a lot?

774
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: And she was like yes, So I want to talk

775
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 1: about masturbating and having sex so well, I want to

776
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,439
Speaker 1: get it from a guy's perspective. First of all, So, Cas,

777
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 1: do you still beat your meat?

778
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:33,879
Speaker 2: Yes?

779
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 1: I met, Fore we're gonna get more personal. How often

780
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 1: do you beat your meat week? Okay, that's a lot.

781
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 1: We're not we're not shaming you. Three days after week

782
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 1: you beat your meat?

783
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 2: Okay?

784
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: So when you have said, do you know is it hard?

785
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:00,360
Speaker 2: It depends on the pus see.

786
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: So you don't feel like masturbating effects.

787
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 2: I think if you master being get some fight pussy,

788
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 2: you still gonna bust and that yeah, maybe not the

789
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 2: next hour.

790
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,720
Speaker 1: But so when you masturbate, do you like to watch torn.

791
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not worth this.

792
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 1: Oh you can't.

793
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not worth you can't.

794
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: Just I was. I'm just asking because I feel like

795
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 1: sometimes it's women you could just master because.

796
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 2: You don't need a visual.

797
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 1: I have to have a visual.

798
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 2: Nah.

799
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: I can mean like especially if because I feel like

800
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 1: when you like inebriated and you have like liquor in

801
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: your system or like weed or something, you just be

802
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:40,320
Speaker 1: horny or like Amali or something, you just automatically be horny,

803
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: but and you just feel sexual. So I feel like

804
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 1: you could.

805
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,879
Speaker 2: But I would say, like one time a nigga could

806
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 2: text a girl be like yo, come see me D

807
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 2: D D, and then you could jerk off and not

808
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 2: want to see her no more. Oh the post not

809
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 2: clight term.

810
00:38:58,600 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: You never heard of.

811
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 2: Police, right, it's like damn so.

812
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,320
Speaker 1: You basically so you saying you masturbate before you go

813
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: see her. No, no, no, and you're not responding, and you're.

814
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 2: Not respond y'all come see me, you don't respond, go

815
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 2: for her, jerk up and then you be like, yo,

816
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 2: you still want me to come through.

817
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, just oh because you but That's what I'm saying,

818
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 1: So you haven't went it fucked it? Yeah, So do

819
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 1: you ever feel like, how often do you masturbate? I

820
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 1: would say I masturbate like maybe like twice a week, okay,

821
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 1: and just said I was an addict. I just feel

822
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 1: like rubbing your deep though it's a little deep rubbing.

823
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 2: Niggas don't real deep, did y'all y'all be like jerking?

824
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:41,800
Speaker 1: So but let me ask you this, cause now you

825
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: did say right now you aren't you haven't missed sexually?

826
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 1: I haven't.

827
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 2: So when you are like actively fucking with somebody, do

828
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:48,879
Speaker 2: you masturbate still?

829
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,839
Speaker 1: Two times a week? Hell, I'm masturbated while I'm fucking.

830
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,280
Speaker 2: Okay, So that's that's annoying.

831
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 1: Is it annoying for a girl to rub her while

832
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 1: y'all are having sex?

833
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:00,080
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm.

834
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 1: How do we get? Yeah? That's laying there, but I

835
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: also master. But I do also masturbating front of.

836
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 2: Like my nigga. Yeah, because you're about to. But I'm

837
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 2: talking about like just a loss by.

838
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: Yourself, like masturbating. Do you do that still when you're

839
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 1: fucking somebody actively? Oh? Yeah you do? Yeah, Okay, I

840
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: do because I'm not because I feel like it affects

841
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 1: you I'm sorry. Do you feel like it affects y'all sex? No,

842
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 1: I don't because one thing that I always say, and

843
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,240
Speaker 1: I've said this before on the show, I like fucking

844
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 1: with niggas who'll be having ship to do, Like I

845
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: don't need to see like and I'm just I've always

846
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 1: been a type of beach. I don't need to see

847
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: you every day, Like we don't need to fuck every day.

848
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 1: I don't need to see you every day. If I

849
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 1: see you three four times a week, maybe even three

850
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: times a week, that's cool with me. So I mean,

851
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:54,399
Speaker 1: if we only fucking like twice a week, I'm still

852
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 1: gonna masturbate, right, But I think.

853
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 2: You could jerk up a lot and still have a

854
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 2: good touch. I feel like you could still other ship

855
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:06,840
Speaker 2: in your life. Like if you do mad perks or drugs,

856
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 2: then you might not want to drink off, right, But

857
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 2: I don't do drugs.

858
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 1: But what makes well I'll say this when I when

859
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: I was at like my peak masturbation, when the ship

860
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 1: got really good to me, I'm not gonna lie. I

861
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 1: was doing that ship like seven days a week, like

862
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,439
Speaker 1: twice a day, like I would wake up in the morning.

863
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,800
Speaker 1: That's rubbing my pussy. Get off, worried be rubbing my pussy.

864
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:27,879
Speaker 1: I'll go to sleep. Oh, I ain't gonna lie when

865
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 1: I used to have a corporate job, I won't lie.

866
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 1: I you to sneak bathroom, A bullet in a bathroom,

867
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: a bullet everything.

868
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 2: The women that take a bullet to work and get another.

869
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 1: But I didn't. Used to use no bullet. My two

870
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 1: fingers working magic.

871
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 2: But then your panties drill.

872
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 1: But but yes, I used to take a little. What

873
00:41:52,640 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: he's saying, I don't wear penties. That that's hall mushy anyway.

874
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 1: So yes, I definitely that. I definitely used to take

875
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 1: bathroom breaks, nap break, go to my car. I a

876
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 1: masturbating on the clock. You never, I've never never masturbating.

877
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 1: I was like I would if I had some masturbaate.

878
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 1: I used to do it like before working, like I

879
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 1: still when I got off. But I would say this

880
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: when I'm fucking with somebody. I do not masturbate at all.

881
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 1: But let me tell you why though, Because I feel

882
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 1: like when I haven't touched myself or I haven't had

883
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: an orgasm in a long time, I'll be feeding for

884
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: that dick. So I want to make sure that my

885
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: pussy is super ready and super wet whenever I get

886
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 1: to my nigga. You know what I'm saying anyway, looking

887
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,319
Speaker 1: at that shit, but I know he about the poort

888
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:48,800
Speaker 1: this whole fucking bottle. He's so fucking childish for this.

889
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 1: Sorry y'all, cats had poured a whole bottle less it

890
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 1: still from the bottle. So yeah, I say this me now,

891
00:42:56,239 --> 00:43:00,919
Speaker 1: I feel like I enjoy masturbating, but I enjoyed sex more,

892
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 1: and I have the greatest sex when I'm being imp

893
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 1: it and I haven't had it in so long, saying

894
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,480
Speaker 1: you don't want the post clear, No, I don't want

895
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: none of that. Like I don't know, I know I'm

896
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 1: about to get some. I'm not gonna masturbate because I

897
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: feel like it's just different, Like if I'm masturbated, like dude,

898
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:17,840
Speaker 1: what's he gonna be straight? But it's not gonna be

899
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 1: as bad as if I haven't had an orgasm in

900
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 1: about two weeks. But I just lie because I actually,

901
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: actually I feel like sometimes when you masturbate before you

902
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 1: know you're about to go get some big y'all, could

903
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: he be like so weak? No, that's not that's not

904
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 1: for me. Yeah, that's not for me.

905
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 2: I hate when when I come to a girl crib

906
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,399
Speaker 2: and they smell like he's just not in her room. Yeah,

907
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 2: like why would it because he's just masturbated. So say,

908
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 2: like the coming over. I'm not trying to be.

909
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 1: Funny, but lake, do you feel like when you nut

910
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: or when you masturbate or whatever, it's not like he

911
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 1: has a smell does room?

912
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 2: No, but you don't smell it as the person that's

913
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 2: never you ever got caught fucking or when you was younger,

914
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:10,360
Speaker 2: and your mother will come like it doesn't linger. But

915
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:12,720
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about like no fish ship, I'm talking.

916
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:16,720
Speaker 1: About six has a smell, but I'm talking about mask

917
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: but masturbations.

918
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 2: Watching the whole it's the same smell. Yeah, I got

919
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 2: them rappers, that's that's cheek cool.

920
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:26,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I honestly, like I said, it was a

921
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 1: point where I was masturbating so much my sex and

922
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: my pussy wasn't even getting wet because I'm used to

923
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: it did because I was I had a vibe my

924
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 1: the the deal though I used to have it had

925
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 1: a little part that would be on the clip that

926
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 1: was vibrating and then it had the big that went

927
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:44,439
Speaker 1: inside and that was vibrating. So I'm getting the works

928
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:47,800
Speaker 1: on this. But how you expect that, nigga exactly exactly.

929
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 1: That's why I fucking stopped. That's all. You gotta use

930
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 1: toys during whenever I'm not But it's like whenever I'm

931
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: not fucking with somebody, I'm masturbating, you know, like only

932
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 1: like you know about four times a week about the same.

933
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 1: But when I'm fucking with somebody, I'm not masturbating. That

934
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 1: s and I feel like my sex life has gotten

935
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:09,879
Speaker 1: so much better m when I stopped masturbating while I'm

936
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 1: actively fucking somebody like fat, so you stop cut it

937
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,439
Speaker 1: like unless I know I'm not about to get done

938
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 1: for a while. Like I feel like between masturbating and

939
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,800
Speaker 1: me having good dick, I need at least like seven

940
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 1: days see and I'm not gonna lie. I don't feel

941
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 1: like it affects me. I really don't, Like I can

942
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 1: literally cause it. It has been times where like I

943
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 1: have masturbated and then like a hour later a nigga

944
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 1: that I was fucking with was like, come see me,

945
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 1: and I went over there. My pussy was already Wei. No,

946
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 1: I like and wild. That's what I'm saying. It's like

947
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: I ain't even that young no more. But it's but yeah,

948
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 1: of course, but I'm saying like it's always been there.

949
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: But but you have to realize me is kind of

950
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 1: like a a pre turner. But I'm saying, but I

951
00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 1: think for most women that out of the ordinary. For

952
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:03,320
Speaker 1: most women, we need to realize that our pussy is

953
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,320
Speaker 1: a fucking muscle. First of all, If you do thirty

954
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 1: push ups today, bitch, you're gonna get strong. I'm fucking dead. Yeah,

955
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:17,240
Speaker 1: dress a bodybuilders, body builders, and I got the bodybuilding mouth.

956
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 2: I'm dead.

957
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 1: So what she proved at the Cocktails Live show they

958
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 1: said she thought it was gone, I'll say I was

959
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: Actually she ain't teaching me, y'all. Let me letting her

960
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 1: take the pretty. Honestly, I'm not gonna lie. I think

961
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 1: she was shot. I actually was shot. Because I don't

962
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 1: like to talk about what I do in the bedroom,

963
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 1: but I do suck a mean dick. I will say

964
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 1: that that's something that I've learned at a very early age.

965
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:45,359
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I did. We talked about

966
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 1: the classic I knew I was a freak for a

967
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:49,479
Speaker 1: long time, Like I'm be I'm.

968
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 2: Gonna touching this pussy for a good y'all have y'all

969
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 2: over ten years? For over ten years?

970
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, well over ten years.

971
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 2: Decade, got a decade. I mean, I said, so did

972
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:09,399
Speaker 2: I have a party for the ten years years? Okay,

973
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 2: I'm just sucking dixince I was about fifteen.

974
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: I was like sixteen. Yeah, fifteen for sure. Yeah, busious

975
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,799
Speaker 1: experience was sucking some deep. But I will say, shout

976
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 1: out to the Cocktails live shout out. We went to Kina.

977
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 1: They have a super lit live show. Anybody that. Oh

978
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 1: we went to the Saturday show there he was, Yeah,

979
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: he was there. I met tah So shout out to Tahoe.

980
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 1: I have we didn't. We were sitting right by him. Yeah,

981
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:38,839
Speaker 1: had a whole bottle onduce stage.

982
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 2: So we got lit.

983
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 1: But Drea went on stage. They had a big sucking contest.

984
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 1: What my deal though, you guys, let me disclaimer because

985
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: I take I was texting cans and cats was like,

986
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 1: Dre or what the fuck you were sucking deeck on stage?

987
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 1: The deal dog? Of course, it was a motherfucking deal though.

988
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 1: It was a deal though, But like I said, I

989
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:03,879
Speaker 1: was actually purely shucked. I said, my good sess knows

990
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 1: how to suck a mean dick. You did, but I

991
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 1: I It's the reason I was surprised because, like I said,

992
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 1: I never talk about my skills and baggas. I just

993
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 1: think it's corey, but not that you do talk about

994
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 1: it a lot. But you know this pussy fire and

995
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 1: so as she kid, she'd be bragging, bragging, bragg and

996
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'm sure, but I was like, okay,

997
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 1: she might know how to suck a mean dick. I

998
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:35,879
Speaker 1: won because.

999
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 2: It looked at crazy, like what like? And then the

1000
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:41,799
Speaker 2: nigga on the stags, Oh, he.

1001
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 1: Was completely don't he thought he was gonna win, but

1002
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: he talked, I mean, I be the gay dude and

1003
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: not be the beach, but I gonna lie. They be

1004
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 1: saying that gay niggas know how to suck a meand

1005
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 1: I relaxed, so I feel I said that you want

1006
00:48:59,920 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: to talk about it, but I'm just being real, so

1007
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm not bragging up mediator. Yeah, she definitely brass a lot.

1008
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 1: That's why I was. Actually, I don't have to break

1009
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 1: my niega's bragged. So anyways, if you really want to

1010
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: get take you have one because no one that I fu.

1011
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 1: But if you was close to others, I'm sure they

1012
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: would have told you the same.

1013
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 2: Your head is trash. Neither on y'all.

1014
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,360
Speaker 1: No, Actually they was telling her my pussy was fired.

1015
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: But honestly, I will.

1016
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:36,839
Speaker 2: Say the dude was nobody that they can get fast.

1017
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 2: It was like, honestly, he would be he could stick

1018
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 2: his dick in the wall being pressed.

1019
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 1: First of all legs over here throwing bad shame. I'm

1020
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,279
Speaker 1: not going, but I would say you sucked. That did

1021
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 1: good and you may be proud sister. And so let

1022
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 1: us know, ladies, have you ever felt like you masturbated

1023
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 1: too much and you weren't having great orgasms? If you do,

1024
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: maybe stop masturbating so much. And the guys, do y'all

1025
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, beating your dick off? Does it

1026
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 1: effect your sex game? So we are going to get

1027
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 1: into ask poor minds. It is the part where we

1028
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 1: get emails from our good sisters and our good brothers

1029
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 1: and they ask us questions we can and we answer

1030
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 1: And this week cast is gonna chime in with his advice. Yeah,

1031
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:24,399
Speaker 1: so I'll go ahead. We have You're gonna go first. Yeah,

1032
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be the twenty five year old version. So

1033
00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 1: she wants to remain anonymous. So hopefully she recognized. I

1034
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: know she'll recognize what this is. So I'll go ahead

1035
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 1: and I'll start. So what you laughing at? As God? Damn, y'all.

1036
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:38,839
Speaker 1: Cast is drunk and I have to drink the rest

1037
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: of cast wine because I think he's had another one,

1038
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 1: another one. Okay, guys, we gotta say on target. Okay,

1039
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:57,919
Speaker 1: hold on, okay, it's a raisin in the sun.

1040
00:50:58,120 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 2: That's okay.

1041
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 1: We have some focus focused. I'm trying to mediate here.

1042
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 2: Anyway.

1043
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 1: Okay, So it says, hey, dram Lex, love your show.

1044
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 1: I would like to remain anonymous. I have been a

1045
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 1: fan of your show since I heard you guys on

1046
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions podcasts. I've watched all of you guys YouTube

1047
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 1: videos and listen to every podcast episode. Thank you Girls's

1048
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 1: really sweet. You guys remind me of me and my

1049
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:27,359
Speaker 1: friends and my cousins. So I'm a twenty five year

1050
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:29,920
Speaker 1: old virgin, not because of religion or nothing like that,

1051
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: but because I used to try to be the perfect

1052
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 1: daughter for my mother. She's always stressed how happy she

1053
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: was that I was pure and we're brad to everyone

1054
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:39,319
Speaker 1: that I was a virgin, and me and my mother

1055
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:42,839
Speaker 1: always been extremely close, so I became accustomed to living

1056
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 1: how she wanted me to live. I also dealt with

1057
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:50,879
Speaker 1: low self esteem, but I've worked on I'm sorry, I'm drunk, y'all.

1058
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: I've worked on a low self esteem issue in living

1059
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:58,399
Speaker 1: how I want to live it for me this past year,

1060
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 1: I do get belitani. I get compliments on my looks

1061
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 1: at times, have a degree with a good job, and

1062
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:06,720
Speaker 1: even get asked by people if my body is natural

1063
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 1: or my ass is real, which I'm natural, and I've

1064
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 1: been built this way since I was probably thirteen. Growing up,

1065
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,720
Speaker 1: people would say I was too built and was grown

1066
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 1: so I think that's why my mother stressed me to

1067
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 1: be so much to be a virgin. I say that

1068
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: all to give y'all a little background about me. So

1069
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,799
Speaker 1: my question is how do I go about dating? You're

1070
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 1: making me nervous? Back up. My virginity used to bother me,

1071
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:30,799
Speaker 1: but now that I'm twenty five, I'll be honest. At

1072
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:33,439
Speaker 1: this point, I'm embarrassed about being a virgin and feel

1073
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:35,320
Speaker 1: once a god finds out that I'm a virgin, he

1074
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 1: would view me as weird or wouldn't want to date

1075
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 1: me anymore. I just feel like I'm getting older and

1076
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 1: at twenty five, you don't meet too many virgins, and

1077
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 1: that's not for religious purposes. So every time I feel

1078
00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:48,840
Speaker 1: something is getting serious or God's showing too much interest,

1079
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,320
Speaker 1: I cut it off to save myself with the embarrassment.

1080
00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:53,879
Speaker 1: How do I go about dating? And also I'm tired

1081
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 1: of being a virgin and been tired of and been

1082
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 1: tired of not because of somebody else.

1083
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:01,839
Speaker 2: I'm just ready to get rid of it, like I'm

1084
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:03,760
Speaker 2: ready to move to the next chapter in my life.

1085
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 1: I just want an outside opinion, the one that's gonna

1086
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:08,280
Speaker 1: give a biased answer.

1087
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you girls, pussy though without being I'm damn.

1088
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 2: I feel like that.

1089
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 1: So why do you look at our Instagram?

1090
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 2: I'll give my not a good job? It says, so

1091
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 2: you're a version with a good job. You're twenty five,

1092
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:30,719
Speaker 2: no kids obviously, Okay, so.

1093
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: I'll say this. I feel like back when I was

1094
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 1: in high school, it was kind of cool to be

1095
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 1: a version because you were untouched, And I feel like

1096
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:39,359
Speaker 1: now niggas won't they want that wet pussy A bitch

1097
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 1: that know what she's doing. They want to turn her out,

1098
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 1: and I feel like, now a lot of guys don't

1099
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:46,719
Speaker 1: want to be like, oh, I'm the first person who

1100
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 1: fucked cause they feel like that comes with a lot

1101
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:50,799
Speaker 1: of baggage. So I get what she says as far

1102
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:54,760
Speaker 1: as being embarrassed. So I'll say this, you're hurting yourself

1103
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,560
Speaker 1: by not being honest with these people because you never know, like,

1104
00:53:57,960 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: you meet so many people with different walks of life,

1105
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 1: so that's just a part of who you are. I

1106
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:04,960
Speaker 1: am so against with hiding who you are just to

1107
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 1: impress somebody. So I feel like, if that's something that

1108
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:09,800
Speaker 1: you want to share with people right off top, the

1109
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 1: share that with them, and if they don't want to

1110
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:14,680
Speaker 1: fuck with you, then next that they have that right

1111
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 1: not to. But it's nothing to be embarrassed about. Let

1112
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: me tell you something. I've been with so many people

1113
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 1: and I'll tell them something about me and they don't

1114
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 1: like it and they move on. Who the fuck cares.

1115
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 1: It's a billion people in the world, So I don't

1116
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 1: feel like it's nothing to be embarrassed about. But also,

1117
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 1: since you've waited.

1118
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 2: So long, you don't want to give that shit to

1119
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:32,240
Speaker 2: just anybody.

1120
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 1: I feel like at least rehearse sum should be special, right, No,

1121
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: I agree. I feel like, at the end of the day,

1122
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:42,799
Speaker 1: it's so many niggas that I wish that I could

1123
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,760
Speaker 1: take this pussy back from. I would so many niggas

1124
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,960
Speaker 1: I wish I could unfuck and unsuck, but exactly for that.

1125
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 1: But like, yeah, so at the end of the day,

1126
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: I definitely do feel like, you know, it's no shame

1127
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:56,280
Speaker 1: in being a twenty five year old virgin.

1128
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 2: I know niggas that don't get pussy at thirty.

1129
00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:01,320
Speaker 1: Two, right, I don't feel like it's no shame to

1130
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 1: be in the version, especially if it's especially if it's

1131
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 1: a personal choice, like this has been your choice, Like

1132
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 1: you said, it's nothing that has to do with religion

1133
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: or anything like that, cause is just something that you

1134
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:13,759
Speaker 1: haven't experienced it. I don't think it's anything wrong with it,

1135
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 1: and I feel like if you are going to take

1136
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:18,280
Speaker 1: that next step, you do need to take it, especially

1137
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 1: at your age now, because I'm always a person who

1138
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:23,399
Speaker 1: is big on like, yeah, when you're younger, certain shit

1139
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:23,919
Speaker 1: is cool.

1140
00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:27,080
Speaker 3: When you're older, you have to make I feel like,

1141
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 3: at twenty five, you can't act like because you waited

1142
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 3: till you twenty five to get some dick that you

1143
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:34,359
Speaker 3: nigga's gonna treat it like a prize.

1144
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:36,880
Speaker 1: I thought, I'm.

1145
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 2: Like, you get be superna, look at it like that,

1146
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:46,040
Speaker 2: and I will say this.

1147
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 1: I look, I'm twenty nine that I been fucking girl

1148
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:51,720
Speaker 1: this pussy them in drive and throw to the side,

1149
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 1: to the side, you know.

1150
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 2: I'm saying, though, But I will say, it doesn't matter.

1151
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,440
Speaker 1: Sex change. The situations don't matter if you got good pussy,

1152
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:05,280
Speaker 1: bad pussy, virgin pussy, use pussy, if you and somebody

1153
00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 1: or vibing, are y'all not vibing? Sex changes things. So

1154
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: I don't want you to like have sex with somebody

1155
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 1: and get so attached, you know, because.

1156
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:14,360
Speaker 2: You gave it.

1157
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:16,279
Speaker 1: Because now you're at the point where, babe, you're ready

1158
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 1: to buck. You want that nig go ahead and get

1159
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 1: you some big I don't understand.

1160
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:22,719
Speaker 2: But she didn't saying she given mouth hugs. Though she

1161
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 2: might be giving mouth hugs.

1162
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:24,799
Speaker 1: You don't know what.

1163
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 2: She didn't say that she did. That's a good So

1164
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 2: right back and let them know if you're giving out

1165
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 2: mouth hugs or you get your mouth. Because some girls

1166
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:38,319
Speaker 2: with some girls when they was younger and not twenty five,

1167
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:40,280
Speaker 2: but they would just they would give head.

1168
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: Or they'll get headed because you had sex before, you know,

1169
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:52,439
Speaker 1: you know like I do. You don't feel like herb

1170
00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:54,879
Speaker 1: and twenty five years old. She's never had any type

1171
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:59,320
Speaker 1: of real sexual contact roll on that pussy before. But

1172
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 1: you don't think that in Yeah, I don't think she

1173
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 1: got here. I really don't. But what if it was

1174
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:07,320
Speaker 1: week head because niggas don't be knowing all the niggas

1175
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:09,440
Speaker 1: don't know how to give hair. All head is not equal.

1176
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 1: I don't think nobody eat.

1177
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 4: But he didn't say okay, so let me say this.

1178
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 4: I will say this, but I just feel like you

1179
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:24,479
Speaker 4: know how.

1180
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 1: To get head and I give fuck because you're experiencing

1181
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 1: the better you have experienced with dating, you have She

1182
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:33,240
Speaker 1: has not been dating and been cutting things dating. Yes, no,

1183
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 1: she says, she just cuts people off, but she doesn't

1184
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 1: get too club. Hey, well, I feel like she doesn't

1185
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 1: have experience in.

1186
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 2: The bed's going to be like, Okay, I'm good, I

1187
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 2: got my dud.

1188
00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:43,280
Speaker 1: That's my personal opinion, and there's nothing wrong with that.

1189
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 2: So honestly, what about her giving them out? Fuck?

1190
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 1: I don't know because I ain't sucking odigga find fucking.

1191
00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 2: You got menu and you a Virginia before y'all was up,

1192
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,400
Speaker 2: you fucking crazy the first time I gave him. This

1193
00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 2: is not about but yeah, but my thing is, don't

1194
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 2: act like it's up because dude's not gonna che And

1195
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 2: I agree with that beat. Don't expect him to be

1196
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 2: your Russell Wilson. He might, he might not. He might

1197
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 2: do you dirty might, and you don't have that much

1198
00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:15,160
Speaker 2: pressure as a woman. It's like being good. You a

1199
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 2: virgin sona make it work right, but it's not like

1200
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 2: a dude.

1201
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 1: I think it definitely needs to be with somebody.

1202
00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 2: My bad, y'all. We just had some technical difficulties, but

1203
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 2: we back so.

1204
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 1: Like I was saying, I definitely think it needs to

1205
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:29,520
Speaker 1: be with somebody that you at least care about, because

1206
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 1: I feel like you've waited this long, it might as

1207
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 1: well be with somebody that you don't have, like a

1208
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:36,560
Speaker 1: memorable experience at least like y'all don't think so No,

1209
00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:39,440
Speaker 1: I agree because I feel like and I always hear

1210
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 1: men say this about having sex with women that are virgins,

1211
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:45,920
Speaker 1: especially being older, it's a lot of pressure on them.

1212
00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 1: They feel like, so they don't really be wanting to

1213
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: engage in it sometimes, right, So I just feel like

1214
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 1: it definitely needs to be with somebody that fuck with

1215
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 1: you when you fuck with them, and you know, it

1216
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 1: could be a memorable experience for both of y'all to

1217
00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:04,440
Speaker 1: maxwell music to some maximum. No, no, don't picture it

1218
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: like that, cause it ain't gonna go down like that.

1219
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:08,120
Speaker 1: But I feel like it needs to be at least

1220
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 1: somebody that has feelings for you like you do for them.

1221
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 1: But like I said, still don't get attached to think, oh,

1222
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 1: he gonna act right because I gave him my virginity,

1223
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:22,440
Speaker 1: Cause it's never gonna be perfect like that. Bast of all.

1224
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 1: I was really just trying to give background music to

1225
00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:29,439
Speaker 1: the experience I'm talking to loud alright, Okay, so read

1226
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 1: the next one. Okay, So the next one from this

1227
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 1: week is coming from Gracie. Oh okay, Gracy ooh, So

1228
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 1: she said highly ex Andrea to start off, I love

1229
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:43,960
Speaker 1: love what both of you guys are doing with the podcast.

1230
00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 1: I'm a loyal fan. So here's my scenario. I've been

1231
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 1: fucking with this guy seriously for about five months now.

1232
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 1: He's leading to my DMS on Twitter. He's great, has

1233
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 1: a great job, He's driven like me, educated and incredibly attractive.

1234
00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: The sex is of maz cool every single time. Basically,

1235
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 1: the chemistry is undernovel. We live in different cities, but

1236
01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 1: we made it a transition to pull up on each

1237
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 1: other every month, and we've gone on vacation together as well.

1238
01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 1: Oh this sounds weird. Now here's the dilemma. When he

1239
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:18,800
Speaker 1: slid into my DMS, I checked out his profile and

1240
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 1: found it a direct link to his ig. I looked

1241
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 1: through his pictures and noticed that there was a Valentine's

1242
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: Day post from twenty eighteen of.

1243
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 2: Some girl on his page.

1244
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:30,520
Speaker 1: In summary, he was professing his love for her and

1245
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 1: the usual V Day stuff. Now this bothered me a

1246
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 1: bit because if he has a girl, why is he

1247
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 1: trying to talk to me? But then I was like,

1248
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 1: you know what, I bite and replied to see.

1249
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 2: Where it goes.

1250
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:44,960
Speaker 1: We immediately hit it off, and he pulled up to

1251
01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 1: my cit first to spend the weekend with me. I

1252
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:50,439
Speaker 1: didn't want him staying in my house on the first trip,

1253
01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 1: so he gladly agreed to get a hotel. We had

1254
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:57,400
Speaker 1: a long conversation that weekend and naturally the conversation transitioned

1255
01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:00,160
Speaker 1: to the topic of exis. He told me that his

1256
01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 1: last girlfriend lives to travel to Japan for work and

1257
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 1: that essentially she is out of the picture. I was

1258
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 1: a big calm now. I desperately wanted to ask why

1259
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:11,800
Speaker 1: was she still on his IG, but then I didn't

1260
01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 1: want to come across as desperate, especially as it was

1261
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 1: the first time I was hanging out with him. So

1262
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 1: time passed and our friendship grew. He's always facetiming me

1263
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:23,479
Speaker 1: at least three times every single day. I'm the last

1264
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:25,320
Speaker 1: person he talked to before he goes to bed, and

1265
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:28,600
Speaker 1: vice versa. Fast forward till May, he traveled on a

1266
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 1: trip with his voice to some state in America. I'm

1267
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 1: not going to put the name of the state in

1268
01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 1: case he ever comes across y'all talking about this. And

1269
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:38,640
Speaker 1: who do I see on his IG story? Miss Japan?

1270
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 1: I know I recognize her from the V day post.

1271
01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 1: I'm heedy, but I give myself time to collect myself

1272
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 1: and articulate my thoughts before going off. He was never

1273
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 1: alone with her in his stories, and I realized that

1274
01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:55,440
Speaker 1: they have mutual friends. I know that she did go

1275
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:57,600
Speaker 1: to Japan. But wasn't he supposed to tell me that

1276
01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 1: she was going to be there. I just feel very blind, Sidi.

1277
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 1: I don't know if she's back in America for good

1278
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: or if she's just visiting. None of this will be

1279
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 1: an issue if not for the fact that up until today,

1280
01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 1: the V Day post is still on his page. Is

1281
01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 1: it normal to keep the post of an x up

1282
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 1: on your page? After y'all end things? After he got

1283
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: backed from the trip, nothing has changed. He is still

1284
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 1: super sweet and is in fact already planning our next

1285
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 1: trip together. So now I'm confused because I don't understand

1286
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 1: what exactly is happening here. I was really on my

1287
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 1: own before this guy slid slid into my DMS. It's

1288
01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 1: not like I was the one chasing him, so I'd

1289
01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:36,200
Speaker 1: be really confused if he was going through all of

1290
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:38,920
Speaker 1: that effort to cheat with somebody who doesn't even live

1291
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 1: in his city. I eve, I have fallen deeply for

1292
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 1: this guy, and I just thought, and I just don't

1293
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 1: want to see myself set up for disappointment. I'm traveling

1294
01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 1: abroad for a year in the summer, and I want

1295
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:54,360
Speaker 1: to know if I should continue to invest my time

1296
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 1: in this situation or if it isn't worth it. I

1297
01:02:57,280 --> 01:03:00,720
Speaker 1: really believe in action showing a person's true see sheets.

1298
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 1: So what other reason could there be for him leaving

1299
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:07,680
Speaker 1: his exes Valentine's Day post up? Please still be ladies

1300
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:11,680
Speaker 1: before I go crazy over this situation. Loell, I forgot

1301
01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:14,840
Speaker 1: to add that I'm just twenty one and he's twenty seven.

1302
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 1: I don't know if that helps with Oh, that definitely helps. Okay,

1303
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 1: So this is what I have to say. First of all, girl,

1304
01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:24,480
Speaker 1: you twenty one, you're traveling the world, like, have a

1305
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 1: good time. This sounds like a guy that enjoys to

1306
01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 1: come seeing with you, comes to see you. Y'all have

1307
01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 1: amazing sex. Y'all going on vacations. Y'all are not in

1308
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 1: a relationship. You young It sounds like you have good

1309
01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 1: shit together. Just enjoy it for what it is. Y'all

1310
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 1: aren't in the same city. Y'all aren't in a serious relationship.

1311
01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 1: It's okay to have feelings for him, but you also

1312
01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 1: need to check your feelings because at the end of

1313
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 1: the day, you're still single and he's still single. He's

1314
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 1: probably still dealing with this girl. But not saying that

1315
01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 1: you have to be okay with it, But if you

1316
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:57,840
Speaker 1: want something to be more exclusive, then this is a

1317
01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 1: conversation that y'all should have been had like a long

1318
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 1: time ago. So I feel like I wouldn't take it

1319
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:06,200
Speaker 1: so serious. I feel like, as long as y'all having fun,

1320
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:11,640
Speaker 1: y'all using columns, I hope, and yeah, just enjoy his company.

1321
01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 1: And I think it's more of a fun situation than

1322
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:15,080
Speaker 1: it needs.

1323
01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 2: To be serious. That's my opinion.

1324
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I definitely agree. I feel like you shouldn't

1325
01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 1: be taking him too serious. And you really can't be

1326
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:24,720
Speaker 1: mad if y'all are not in an exclusive situation, you

1327
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 1: know what I mean. You can't expect for somebody to

1328
01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 1: not have certain stuff on their ig if y'all haven't

1329
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:32,440
Speaker 1: talked about it, especially if y'all are not exclusively dated.

1330
01:04:32,720 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, you talking about

1331
01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:37,919
Speaker 1: this meaning he cheating series. We tell y'all every week

1332
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: all these mega cheating, every single one, they all cheating.

1333
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:44,880
Speaker 1: They all cheating, all of them. And this is, like

1334
01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 1: I said, it's not necessarily cheating because y'all aren't in

1335
01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 1: a relationship. It's not exactly y'all not in a relationship,

1336
01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:52,600
Speaker 1: But we gonna let cash shine in because he's the

1337
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 1: meal and I feel like this situation specifically could definitely

1338
01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 1: use a meal person.

1339
01:04:57,120 --> 01:05:02,280
Speaker 2: If his girl to the bread winner or he using

1340
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 2: her companion past. But she said he has a good job. Yeah,

1341
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:10,360
Speaker 2: his girl work at the airport, a fight attendant. She

1342
01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 2: never home.

1343
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:11,720
Speaker 1: I'm good.

1344
01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 2: So he get to travel for free, come to your city,

1345
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:19,760
Speaker 2: pay for the little hotel, little buck, twenty wear you

1346
01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:23,160
Speaker 2: out and twenty one. Wait and then you're twenty one,

1347
01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:26,320
Speaker 2: so he looking at you like a young tender ronie.

1348
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:29,080
Speaker 2: She's probably cute. I got a little young and I

1349
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:30,000
Speaker 2: gotta do much for her.

1350
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:35,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, having tony don't But like I said, you're young.

1351
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 1: I'm sure you're beautiful.

1352
01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:39,440
Speaker 2: Like, don't take it to heart and don't get your

1353
01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:39,920
Speaker 2: feelings hurt.

1354
01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. You're only twenty one. Your

1355
01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:44,000
Speaker 1: heart about to get broken about six more times before

1356
01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:47,640
Speaker 1: you Another thing, honey, like before you find a man

1357
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:49,360
Speaker 1: of your dreams, So don't take it to heart.

1358
01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:51,240
Speaker 2: Another thing is she should be scared to ask a

1359
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 2: nigga about anything, and she giving him the pussy? Right,

1360
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:59,120
Speaker 2: are you scared? Page? And I'm so glad wear you out?

1361
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:02,600
Speaker 2: You wod I'm asking about that picture, make him lie

1362
01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:04,920
Speaker 2: to you. If he lies you, then it's up to

1363
01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 2: you to let his girl come between you.

1364
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 1: Special I'm so glad that cast itid that because I

1365
01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:11,880
Speaker 1: always say this, Well, I'm fucking a nigga. I ain't

1366
01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 1: never afraid to ask the nigga about nothing. I ain't

1367
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:16,960
Speaker 1: afraid to ask him about nothing, and I ain't I

1368
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 1: ain't and I'm not afraid to ask him for anything.

1369
01:06:20,200 --> 01:06:22,640
Speaker 1: So it's like, if you fucking that nigga, you deserve

1370
01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:24,120
Speaker 1: to know whatever the fuck you want to know, and

1371
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:26,680
Speaker 1: like cast it and he might lie about it, but

1372
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:30,880
Speaker 1: you can ask you know what time it is, so

1373
01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:32,280
Speaker 1: you know that he just can't be doing it and

1374
01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 1: getting away with it because I don't agree with it.

1375
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:38,840
Speaker 1: What no, because honestly, I'm not trying to be funny,

1376
01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:42,360
Speaker 1: but maybe he's obviously been moving sloppy for you to

1377
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:44,040
Speaker 1: see all this. At the end of the day, I

1378
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:46,840
Speaker 1: don't respect no niggas don't cheat regardless. But you're not

1379
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:49,360
Speaker 1: gonna move sloppy. That's what you're not gonna do. So

1380
01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 1: once you check that ship, he's still gonna be cheating.

1381
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 2: But that's not his girl.

1382
01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:57,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, still gonna be doing what he's doing, but

1383
01:06:57,760 --> 01:06:59,800
Speaker 1: maybe he'll be a little more respectful with it and

1384
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:02,160
Speaker 1: being so open and sloppy with it, like I said,

1385
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,080
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, you posting this

1386
01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:06,320
Speaker 1: girl on your story and he knows.

1387
01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 2: Like you gonna see it, or maybe that you have

1388
01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:10,200
Speaker 2: a possibility of seeing it.

1389
01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:13,400
Speaker 1: That's not cool. He's moving sloppy, So I feel like

1390
01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:16,320
Speaker 1: you definitely need to say something. I wouldn't necessarily say

1391
01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 1: check him, because that's not your man, but if it's

1392
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 1: something that's bothering you, never feel always speak your mind,

1393
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:24,840
Speaker 1: because let me tell you something, if you let this

1394
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 1: shit continue, you're teaching him how to treat you. So

1395
01:07:27,880 --> 01:07:30,080
Speaker 1: he's gonna he's gonna think that shit is cool, and

1396
01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:33,000
Speaker 1: the shit is gonna continue. You obviously done worse. It's

1397
01:07:33,040 --> 01:07:35,760
Speaker 1: only gonna get worse. You obviously don't wanna to continue.

1398
01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 1: But I would say say something, but don't make it

1399
01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:42,160
Speaker 1: an argument. Just ask him about it, and honestly, like

1400
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:44,640
Speaker 1: I said, it seems like maybe he's not taking a

1401
01:07:44,720 --> 01:07:47,520
Speaker 1: situation too serious. But y'all see each other like once

1402
01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:50,400
Speaker 1: a month, y'all travel together, have good sex, like it

1403
01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:53,480
Speaker 1: sounds like a fun ass situation to me, sis like casual.

1404
01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 1: I feel like it's find needs to be casual until

1405
01:07:56,800 --> 01:07:58,760
Speaker 1: one of y'all take it to the next Liverpool and

1406
01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 1: then it's like you go on a broad your girl,

1407
01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 1: go have fun and live y'all. It's like it's so

1408
01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:06,200
Speaker 1: many men out here, sister, like, and you're only twenty one.

1409
01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:08,680
Speaker 1: If I could have lived abroad when I was twenty one,

1410
01:08:08,760 --> 01:08:13,320
Speaker 1: let me tell you this pussy would have been in Africa, Japan, Russia. Like, bitch,

1411
01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:16,559
Speaker 1: you better live your life and have a good.

1412
01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:19,240
Speaker 2: Fucking and you just never know to what you traveling

1413
01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:20,040
Speaker 2: abroad and stuff.

1414
01:08:20,040 --> 01:08:22,160
Speaker 1: You might meet another nigga and then you meet somebody

1415
01:08:22,240 --> 01:08:24,320
Speaker 1: else and you ain't gonna even be worried about this nigga,

1416
01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:28,240
Speaker 1: Like you might might make him want to act right,

1417
01:08:28,360 --> 01:08:30,479
Speaker 1: and honestly, that's what I'm saying. You might say something

1418
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 1: to him and he'll be like, oh, well, ship, I

1419
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 1: didn't think it.

1420
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:34,519
Speaker 2: Was like that, but you know, let me to post

1421
01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:36,880
Speaker 2: an old dinner plate and be like I needed this

1422
01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:39,240
Speaker 2: date night I'm dead and make sure he said.

1423
01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 1: That's what you gotta do. See that you don't play

1424
01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 1: I do. Talking about.

1425
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:48,200
Speaker 2: About the.

1426
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:52,720
Speaker 1: Picture on this page, I'm dead period. I'm not with

1427
01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:58,080
Speaker 1: the playing games. I like other girl in yeah, like

1428
01:08:58,160 --> 01:09:00,639
Speaker 1: if he's if y'all have a sex y'all enjoyed other's company.

1429
01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:03,880
Speaker 1: But he's posting obviously his ex on his story. There's

1430
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:08,760
Speaker 1: still something going on there. They're still in communication. I'm there.

1431
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:12,640
Speaker 1: It's something. It's really be doing it. You'll feels all disappointed.

1432
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 1: But I would say every week. Honestly, like I said,

1433
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:18,880
Speaker 1: from my opinion, I think you're young, You're having a

1434
01:09:18,920 --> 01:09:22,000
Speaker 1: good time with him, enjoy it, take it for what

1435
01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:24,720
Speaker 1: it is. But you know, I say, after you say

1436
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:28,000
Speaker 1: something to him about hood I, depending on his response, beach,

1437
01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:31,400
Speaker 1: I say, could him off? That's what I say, because

1438
01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 1: I don't like bullshit with niggas, like don't let no

1439
01:09:34,320 --> 01:09:36,800
Speaker 1: nigga waste your time, and honestly, don't let no nigga

1440
01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 1: play games with you. You don't want to play. The

1441
01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:40,800
Speaker 1: game's not him. I'm dead, So I'll say this. I'm

1442
01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:44,800
Speaker 1: actually interested. So can you actually whatever you decide to do,

1443
01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:46,760
Speaker 1: can you email us back and let us know the

1444
01:09:46,840 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 1: outcome of this situation. I follow up because I need

1445
01:09:49,400 --> 01:09:52,400
Speaker 1: an update on this, my goodness. So we do we

1446
01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:56,280
Speaker 1: need to follow up shout out to you, Gracie, and

1447
01:09:56,479 --> 01:09:59,880
Speaker 1: the next we got the bop the b.

1448
01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 2: So, who wants to go first with the week gonna

1449
01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:04,240
Speaker 2: hear it?

1450
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:07,320
Speaker 1: You don't. We don't play. We just say, we just

1451
01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:10,800
Speaker 1: say what's We'll let Lok go first.

1452
01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 2: They gotta be a new song.

1453
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:14,320
Speaker 1: No, it doesn't have to be new. It's just something

1454
01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 1: that you like, something that's your song, like what you've

1455
01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:18,400
Speaker 1: been jamming this week. Damn.

1456
01:10:18,439 --> 01:10:21,599
Speaker 2: But they're not going to hear it. But but it's

1457
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:24,320
Speaker 2: I got to, I got to, Okay, come on. The

1458
01:10:24,400 --> 01:10:26,679
Speaker 2: first one is O T Genesis Bay.

1459
01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:28,439
Speaker 1: Oh that's about okay?

1460
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:31,280
Speaker 2: Like that, I mean like that?

1461
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:35,120
Speaker 1: Yeahank you okay.

1462
01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:41,160
Speaker 2: And the second one is it's my homie easy ask

1463
01:10:41,320 --> 01:10:41,839
Speaker 2: from Brooklyn.

1464
01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:42,559
Speaker 1: What's her name?

1465
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:43,240
Speaker 2: Easier?

1466
01:10:45,600 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 1: Easy? Okay. I like, I'm on the women rap thing

1467
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:50,360
Speaker 1: right now.

1468
01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:55,960
Speaker 2: Place with snakes, play plates with snakes.

1469
01:10:55,720 --> 01:11:00,880
Speaker 1: Plates with snakes. That's not like I know, So shout

1470
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:04,560
Speaker 1: out to Brooklyn Asia Asia, how do you spell that

1471
01:11:06,000 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 1: as plates with snakes? So shout out a little.

1472
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:12,000
Speaker 2: We're gonna jam that tonight and I'm gonna give a review.

1473
01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:13,880
Speaker 1: On you next week. Girls. So wasn't she on the

1474
01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:19,400
Speaker 1: show on B Okay, shout see you Okay interview though

1475
01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:23,560
Speaker 1: I did, I don't know you was there. Okay. So

1476
01:11:23,680 --> 01:11:25,599
Speaker 1: my bibe of the week is off a DJ Kelly

1477
01:11:25,680 --> 01:11:28,360
Speaker 1: new album. Okay, Calvin, come on. We has a song

1478
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:33,639
Speaker 1: called You Stay and it's with Meek Mill, Jeremiah, j Balvin,

1479
01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 1: and Little Baby. Shout out to Jeremiah because Jeremiah is

1480
01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:39,240
Speaker 1: so slept on because he was a diva. But he

1481
01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:40,559
Speaker 1: always makes fire music.

1482
01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:40,960
Speaker 2: He does.

1483
01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:43,160
Speaker 1: He always makes fire music and he always on the

1484
01:11:43,200 --> 01:11:46,400
Speaker 1: hottest track. So You Stay is about It's basically just

1485
01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:50,240
Speaker 1: a song about they all talking about like women who

1486
01:11:50,439 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 1: stay in relationships with niggas and you just be so

1487
01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:54,640
Speaker 1: loyal to that nigga, but that nigga don't deserve you.

1488
01:11:55,160 --> 01:11:57,320
Speaker 1: And I just feel like as a woman, we have

1489
01:11:57,439 --> 01:11:59,920
Speaker 1: all been there, we have all filthied and sounds like

1490
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:05,439
Speaker 1: gracy girl, shut the fuck up. But anyways, it's abob

1491
01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:08,679
Speaker 1: first of all, DJ Kelly album as a Hollies. It's cool,

1492
01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:10,120
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. He has a few good

1493
01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:13,360
Speaker 1: tracks on there, but that song is definitely wanted. I've

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Speaker 1: been jamming all week, so shout out to DJ Kelly,

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Speaker 1: Meek Meal, Little Baby, Jeremiah J Bobby. Okay, so I

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Speaker 1: got two bops of the week.

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Speaker 2: Of course they're female rappers, because you know I'm on

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Speaker 2: my female rappers shit right now.

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Speaker 1: So my first one, of course, is gonna be Meg

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Speaker 1: the Stallion A. She dropped Fever this week, and she

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01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:35,240
Speaker 1: has a few bops on there, but there's a there's

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01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 1: this one bop that's just been sticking out in my

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01:12:38,560 --> 01:12:40,840
Speaker 1: head and it's like I'm jammingt whole back to back.

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01:12:41,120 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 1: So she got this song called Ratchet drinking Henty at

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Speaker 1: the bottle. Let's get Ratchet A, Let's get Ratchet. Like

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01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:49,400
Speaker 1: Ratchet is so hard. I feel like it's definitely a

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01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:52,280
Speaker 1: twerk song. It's a turn up song like she had.

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01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:53,880
Speaker 1: Like I said, she has a few records on the

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01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:57,679
Speaker 1: album that I really love, but Ratchet is like my bob.

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01:12:57,800 --> 01:13:00,320
Speaker 1: I've been jamming that. So shout out to Meg album good.

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01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:02,680
Speaker 1: I went hard, I fucked with it. So that's my

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01:13:02,800 --> 01:13:05,599
Speaker 1: first bopp. Okay, So my second bop of the week.

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Speaker 1: I actually have a little story behind this because when

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Speaker 1: I first seen this girl on my timeline, it was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: watch y'all make She's coming for your crown and I

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01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:15,040
Speaker 1: was like, bitch, nobody coming from Mad Crown, which I

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01:13:15,080 --> 01:13:17,439
Speaker 1: don't feel like she's coming from Mad Crown. But I

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01:13:17,560 --> 01:13:19,160
Speaker 1: was like, let me go listen to him. Like after

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01:13:19,280 --> 01:13:21,560
Speaker 1: that happened, I was like, not speaking against her, but

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01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:23,680
Speaker 1: I was like, she not fucking with Meg. It's a

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01:13:23,680 --> 01:13:26,120
Speaker 1: little white girl from Dallas. I was like, she ain't

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Speaker 1: fucking with Meg. Okay. But I actually went to listen

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01:13:29,520 --> 01:13:32,439
Speaker 1: to her music, and I was like, bitch, go hard

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01:13:32,680 --> 01:13:35,120
Speaker 1: like she got. She got like some song if her

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01:13:35,200 --> 01:13:39,320
Speaker 1: name is tay Money, Okay, So I actually I don't know.

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01:13:39,479 --> 01:13:41,680
Speaker 1: It's actually hard because she got three songs that I

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01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:44,040
Speaker 1: really like. So the first song that I really like

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01:13:44,200 --> 01:13:47,280
Speaker 1: is called tay Money, so it's called tay Money by

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01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:49,760
Speaker 1: Tay Money. And the second song that she got is

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01:13:49,840 --> 01:13:52,600
Speaker 1: called Trappers. Be like, not gonna lie. I fuck with

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Speaker 1: Tay Money. White girl from Dallas, Texas, stand up, She's dope.

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01:13:56,400 --> 01:13:58,559
Speaker 1: I fuck with her. She's cute, she's really like, her

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01:13:58,640 --> 01:14:01,320
Speaker 1: style is really different, and I'll just cook with her.

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Speaker 1: So should I just take money and make the stallion

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Speaker 1: y'all my fucking bops of the.

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