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Speaker 1: to another episode of It's up to the podcast. You know.
Speaker 1: Today we got our usuals in and it's me, it's
Speaker 1: Jay Styles, and it's day Ship d right. I know
Speaker 1: y'all love that because that is what we've been giving
Speaker 1: y'all for the last couple of weeks, and y'all just
Speaker 1: have been giving a good comment. So we funck with y'all.
Speaker 1: Now we want big facts. Now. We want to start
Speaker 1: off to day saying first, this is our first sure twin,
Speaker 1: So we definitely want to put out some homes. Happy
Speaker 1: New Year, Happy New Year, Happy New Year. How was
Speaker 1: New Year for y'all? How was New Year for y'all?
Speaker 1: New Year? It was nice for me? All right, it's
Speaker 1: up there. So my New Years was well, it was
Speaker 1: kind of random, but you know it was cool. I
Speaker 1: had a good time. That's for something. New Years for me,
Speaker 1: was it? Okay? I can't when I tell you take
Speaker 1: for my New Year. She had me and her dying
Speaker 1: laughing like she was in the room loud like. So
Speaker 1: while we can't what happened, it was just you just
Speaker 1: got it was random. I mean, it was fun, but
Speaker 1: it was random. I had a great time. You know.
Speaker 1: It's like a complete weirdo, Like for real, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: here laughing like, Okay, it was a great day. That's
Speaker 1: what's up. That's what's what about your New Year? What
Speaker 1: you do? I'm gonna keep it always. Gee, I ain't, man,
Speaker 1: look like you doing That's why I see. That's how
Speaker 1: that's how my end my New Year ended up the
Speaker 1: way it ended up because my dude, like you, I
Speaker 1: ain't do nothing. I ain't I'm telling my man. I
Speaker 1: was at the house. I was just like I'm gonna
Speaker 1: just chill. I ain't doing that. It's too cold, I mean,
Speaker 1: and the cold don't get along. And it was really cold,
Speaker 1: it was, but I had on a dress and everybody
Speaker 1: with my little peak cold, I was looking out good.
Speaker 1: I don't care about the cold when it's cold, but
Speaker 1: you feel everything didn't. That's like I don't for me. Man.
Speaker 1: There's something about criminals ready for the hope, something about
Speaker 1: that cold. I don't get along with it. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying that ship right now is we're gonna
Speaker 1: have to hit the heat like we don't do like
Speaker 1: you know, laces is an important, uh fabric. You know,
Speaker 1: lace is one of the leading I would tell you
Speaker 1: about lace now you know. You know I don't even try.
Speaker 1: But you know, it's been a whole bunch of shit
Speaker 1: going on, man, y'all know, like since we've been gone. Man,
Speaker 1: it's it's been I don't know, it's been so much
Speaker 1: shit going on. We got I know, Joe Button, let's
Speaker 1: talk about that, okay, Joe Budden left complex. We didn't
Speaker 1: get a chance to speak on that because we you know,
Speaker 1: we're doing a show right now. This that's something like
Speaker 1: what you know, what he represented and what they brought
Speaker 1: to the table. So I got some clips and you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, I'm gonna play these. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: play the clip of you know, it's like a five
Speaker 1: minute clips of y'all bear with it. Is Joe Budden.
Speaker 1: He letting know why he left. So we're gonna get
Speaker 1: into that and then we're gonna come up with a
Speaker 1: response and see what's going on. I don't have worries, right,
Speaker 1: That's not really the case for a lot of other creators. Man,
Speaker 1: let me paint this timeline for some people. And I
Speaker 1: want to start this timeline. And again, we're not here
Speaker 1: to bash anyone. We love everyone that we have worked with.
Speaker 1: But I start, I start this timeline with the good
Speaker 1: people with Complex telling me for nine months that I
Speaker 1: can't smoke in the bathroom. So we knew that that
Speaker 1: was not allowed. Creators, I'm talking to y'all. We are afforded,
Speaker 1: We are afforded some different rights while we knew that
Speaker 1: was not allowed for the job that we were doing.
Speaker 1: Inside of the building, Nigga, they would go build you
Speaker 1: a smoking chamber if you wanted to smoke a cigarette,
Speaker 1: if you wanted to smoke a blunt. If you wanted
Speaker 1: to smoke crack cocaine last decade at a record label
Speaker 1: and you were profitable, they would find a way to
Speaker 1: appease you. That is important here because every time them
Speaker 1: nigga said to me, why are you smoking in the bathroom?
Speaker 1: For me, it was a constant reminder of people that
Speaker 1: were out of touch with culture. I'll put it to
Speaker 1: you this way, Rory. Three weeks ago, they attacked. They
Speaker 1: attacked security at complex downstairs, attacked, trampled a man who
Speaker 1: was trying to break in to that building to get
Speaker 1: to complex to speak to academics or myself, I being
Speaker 1: the famous person there. When people are famous, you have
Speaker 1: to kind of cater to their notoriety, is what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So let's fast forward. I create a show. I do
Speaker 1: not care what the end credits of that show say.
Speaker 1: Noah along with Elliott, along with some other people, understand
Speaker 1: how this show came to Fruition. There wasn't very much
Speaker 1: to negotiate when I created this show because I just
Speaker 1: created a show. I mean, it wasn't profitable at all.
Speaker 1: As a creator. I went into this venture with a
Speaker 1: vision for what it could become. What it quickly became
Speaker 1: was the best hip hop show ever. That dynamic between
Speaker 1: the three of us on that screen does not exist
Speaker 1: without everybody playing a part. I think that part from
Speaker 1: day one was disregarded and ignored by whoever it is
Speaker 1: that is running Complex. Let me speed this time line
Speaker 1: up for a little bit. Day one, when I walk
Speaker 1: into All Complex, I look at their objective. They're at
Speaker 1: the company's objective on the board to see what it
Speaker 1: is they need to meet as a company. I was
Speaker 1: aware of the company's standing when I got there in
Speaker 1: month one and month two, I noticed that all of
Speaker 1: that shit was out the fucking window. Nobody really gave
Speaker 1: a fuck the way that I did. The money didn't
Speaker 1: make anybody right or wrong. It just means Joe is
Speaker 1: a lot more passionate and psychoneurotic and obsessive than some
Speaker 1: other people. Month three, they come to us and they say,
Speaker 1: Nike has Vapormax sneakers and we're doing a sponsor integration
Speaker 1: or some shit. We need you niggas to wear this.
Speaker 1: My business mind told told me I knew better than that.
Speaker 1: I wore it anyway. That's a check, people, and it's
Speaker 1: not a small check. It is a rather large check.
Speaker 1: Complex solicits rather large checks. Do they share with the creators? No,
Speaker 1: fast forward. Spotify calls them. They want to, They want to.
Speaker 1: They want us to talk about a rap caviar playlist.
Speaker 1: They want to insert topics for me to speak about
Speaker 1: Candid under the guise of it being air quotes Candid
Speaker 1: for no money or very little money. As the creator
Speaker 1: of this show. That's a problem, right, So Joe says, no, no,
Speaker 1: what they said? Fuck you, Joe will do it without
Speaker 1: you know what Spotify said? Sorry, Complex, No you won't.
Speaker 1: So Joe, noo. I'm telling you about it. Come company
Speaker 1: that has now damaged a relationship with one of the
Speaker 1: top three streaming providers creators. Because I'm not talking to everyone,
Speaker 1: everyone will not understand what Joe fights for. I'm talking
Speaker 1: to the creators. I cannot create a show and you
Speaker 1: sell the fucking properties of that show without cutting a
Speaker 1: slice to the niggas that make that fucking show possible. Sorry, anyway,
Speaker 1: they lose the fucking relationship with Spotify. They keep moving
Speaker 1: like nothing has occurred. Great, so I can see now
Speaker 1: you wanting to walk say fuck that you make too
Speaker 1: much money off me. I'm not doing this again unless
Speaker 1: you renegotiate and I get a percentage of Nike vapor
Speaker 1: of the Spotify bullish story where we are, let me,
Speaker 1: let me, let me respond to you, so you save
Speaker 1: some breath where you are. This is the renegotiation. This
Speaker 1: is the end of the contract. I thought the complex
Speaker 1: would recognize what academics and myself as outside entities and
Speaker 1: vendors have done for that conglomerate, and at the end
Speaker 1: of the contract they would show that they have appreciated
Speaker 1: the best year that they have ever had more subscriptions
Speaker 1: than they've ever had, more audiences now, today, yesterday, today, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm an audience. My R show increased numbers for all
Speaker 1: the shows. Okay, So that was a lot to take in.
Speaker 1: It's a whole bunch, it's a whole bunch involved in that.
Speaker 1: But this man made them fifteen million dollars and they
Speaker 1: didn't cut them no money. So when when the thing
Speaker 1: about it is like, it's like the more money you
Speaker 1: make a corporation, the more that you would expect for
Speaker 1: them to pay you. Right, he's in a position where
Speaker 1: he created a lane for them. They was I wouldn't
Speaker 1: say necessarily, they're they're being in sneaker coach and all
Speaker 1: of that. But those guys wasn't have y'all watched the
Speaker 1: show before. I know we did clips on it on
Speaker 1: our podcast, but hey, you watched them before, all right,
Speaker 1: so we did clips. What it was is DJ Academics
Speaker 1: Joe Buddon had a show on Complex. Complex is owned
Speaker 1: by verizon Um. The show was called every Day Struggled.
Speaker 1: The Ashanti clip we talked about was from there, the
Speaker 1: clip from Safari to Jesus, certain clips I was pulling
Speaker 1: from them. We would talk about it. But Joe Budden
Speaker 1: created the show right, and he grabbed Academics and grabbing
Speaker 1: the desker for me looking at it because when he
Speaker 1: say he talking to the creators, he talking to niggas
Speaker 1: is doing what we're doing. You know what I'm saying
Speaker 1: that saying loo yo, let's get let's get with bro,
Speaker 1: let's make some ship, let's get together, let's make some
Speaker 1: shit go. And then a co operation come in get
Speaker 1: it and they make fifteen millions and they don't feeding you. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I mean. You don't even get the loaf.
Speaker 1: Listen them folks getting They went from getting ten twelve
Speaker 1: fifteen thousand, twenty thirty forty thousand thumbs up on their
Speaker 1: videos to now they're getting twenty thirty forty thousand thumbs down,
Speaker 1: like and and then the internet world. If people who
Speaker 1: don't understand what that means, you don't get as many advertisers,
Speaker 1: you don't get as many you know, things won't tone
Speaker 1: right right. People wanting to promote on your channel when
Speaker 1: it's such negativity surrounded, they might attached somebody else brand
Speaker 1: with the negativity. You see what I'm saying, so so
Speaker 1: so so brands want to stay away from you know,
Speaker 1: shit like that. But you know what they're saying is
Speaker 1: Joe Budden saying with M would revote for five million.
Speaker 1: You know, I hope, hope that's a your thing because
Speaker 1: you know, Joe Budden is instrumental in this media. He
Speaker 1: does a good job. You know, I'm saying, y'all need
Speaker 1: to check him out. If you ain't, if you ain't
Speaker 1: heard of anything of Joe Budden, I would, I would, um,
Speaker 1: I would ask people to go check him out. Here.
Speaker 1: Real good in this space. It's a real, real unique thing. Now.
Speaker 1: A couple of weeks ago, we did talk about Cameron
Speaker 1: and Jude Jude. Y'all remember what so so Cameron basically
Speaker 1: said it wasn't fun no more. You know, they asked him,
Speaker 1: why wouldn't he would and that's what that's what's his response.
Speaker 1: You know, it wasn't fun no more. And and this
Speaker 1: was her response back to that. This is what she
Speaker 1: said back to him, saying his interview on Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: Now we're gonna get into this. This is that's why
Speaker 1: y'all can never jump in here once out of the story,
Speaker 1: because you know, guys like like they're so tough in
Speaker 1: every situation when it's always more to the story. Let's see,
Speaker 1: all right now, he said the reason that you guys
Speaker 1: broke up was it just wasn't fun anymore. You know.
Speaker 1: That was really hurtful to me because um Keim and
Speaker 1: I had, uh you know, we were really good friends.
Speaker 1: And he said it wasn't fun for him anymore, and
Speaker 1: that I was concerned about what was going on Instagram
Speaker 1: and saying who he was following, and that's not true. Um,
Speaker 1: I basically was more concerned about a respect level, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. There's dick picks up and down
Speaker 1: my Instagram as well, and I don't like them out
Speaker 1: of respect. People were sending you his dick picks. No no no,
Speaker 1: no, no no no, I'm just saying no no, I'm just saying, like,
Speaker 1: just as you're in a relationship people, if if somebody
Speaker 1: has like the Coucia or the Bootya and you liking
Speaker 1: the pick, then I, oh, Ca'm just like my pick
Speaker 1: sliding the DM touched it. My thing was, don't do
Speaker 1: what I don't do to you, like respect me. Because
Speaker 1: there's dick picks that flopping down my Instagram as well,
Speaker 1: and I can like them too, but out of respect
Speaker 1: for you, I don't do that. So I just wanted
Speaker 1: the same respect. I don't want to wake up and
Speaker 1: look at Instagram and you're at a game with somebody
Speaker 1: talking about all me and my friend. If that's your friend,
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with it. I don't have
Speaker 1: a problem with you being having female friends. But it
Speaker 1: has to be a respect level. Tell me, hey, babe,
Speaker 1: I'm going to the you know, to the game. Why
Speaker 1: do I have to see it on Instagram? And it's
Speaker 1: not because of Instagram. It's because of the things that
Speaker 1: you were doing concerning Instagram, and then you didn't respect
Speaker 1: my feelings, you know, what I'm saying. So that was
Speaker 1: more of it. What were you going to say? Cam
Speaker 1: for the past year was just like basically pushing me away,
Speaker 1: Like I didn't go to any of his concerts, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't go to any of his whole things. And I
Speaker 1: was like, yo, what's up? Like you know this me,
Speaker 1: like we're like best friends, like peas in the pot,
Speaker 1: Like what's up? Oh, you got your own thing going on?
Speaker 1: You wouldn't He said, I couldn't go. He said I
Speaker 1: had my own thing going. And I never understood. I'm like,
Speaker 1: what does that mean? And he's like, now you got
Speaker 1: your own thing going on. I'm like, well, what happened
Speaker 1: in the year that now I have my own thing going?
Speaker 1: Because for the past nine years I've been going to
Speaker 1: everything and I've been cheering you on and been, you know,
Speaker 1: behind you. So what's going on In the same token,
Speaker 1: I didn't understand what was going on and why I
Speaker 1: felt that because Cam introduced me to this industry, that
Speaker 1: me working hard because I worked just as hard as
Speaker 1: he works, you know what I mean? And I worked
Speaker 1: like that because I wanted to make him proud and
Speaker 1: show him like Cam's been in the industry, for twenty years,
Speaker 1: So if he wanted to sit down and live off
Speaker 1: the real estate we have in the businesses he have.
Speaker 1: I want to be able to be like they've sit ow.
Speaker 1: I got it, you know what I mean. I'm bringing
Speaker 1: something to the table as well. I never knew that
Speaker 1: me going for my education, going for my degrees, working
Speaker 1: hard as well as like as hard as he's working,
Speaker 1: was gonna turn into that's not fun. You know. He
Speaker 1: never told me that. I heard it when you know
Speaker 1: the snippet I saw on Instagram, and it was really
Speaker 1: hurtful because I'm like, yo, like you're gonna let go
Speaker 1: a friendship of fifteen years because you're saying it's not
Speaker 1: fun for you no more. I'm sorry. I can't be
Speaker 1: the two thousand and nine, two thousand and ten juju.
Speaker 1: We're almost in a new century, like we're going into
Speaker 1: twenty and eighteen. I can't do it. This thing called
Speaker 1: life is about elevating and growing and if that makes
Speaker 1: me not fun, then I'll I'm okay with that. Respect
Speaker 1: feel huddup because men do like to be double sided.
Speaker 1: Like if you don't want that woman doing certain things,
Speaker 1: what's wrong with me saying respect? Me to a level
Speaker 1: to where you duty. So you don't do that because
Speaker 1: you concerned about how I would feel if I saw that.
Speaker 1: But it's not even with your girlfriends that I don't
Speaker 1: even probably know of. Maybe I didn't know about them,
Speaker 1: or maybe I hope she knew about him. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying this, what's wrong with letting her no
Speaker 1: Communication is the best thing you can have. But the
Speaker 1: thing is with the Instagram thing, like him going out
Speaker 1: with girls and stuff. That was smile she really there
Speaker 1: was his cry for attention, which men don't know how
Speaker 1: to just come and say, look back like I'm sport
Speaker 1: as hell, I'm you saving all of your attention. I've
Speaker 1: been feeling neglected to your work, you know, just saying it,
Speaker 1: and then maybe we can find a balance. So instead
Speaker 1: they go and last shouting like okay, she yet her
Speaker 1: own thing going off and to start doing me posting
Speaker 1: pictures on Instagram he did. She liked it on purpose
Speaker 1: for to get her attention because she was focused on
Speaker 1: leveling up. It was nothing like I'm over here worried
Speaker 1: about another man. I'm trying to get on the level
Speaker 1: of her. She said, I'm doing this to make him proud. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and so I respect. I respect. I respect when you
Speaker 1: understand you as a woman you want to try to
Speaker 1: get out there and match my hustle, and you know
Speaker 1: it's appreciation involved in that. I can respect that. You know,
Speaker 1: um with this situation, her side of things. See, we
Speaker 1: gotta always remember both sides are coming from. It's some
Speaker 1: truth in both for them. But I wouldn't say either
Speaker 1: one um or one hundred percent the truth. And that's
Speaker 1: how it usually happens. That's truth. You're a side of
Speaker 1: the thing, right. So now with women, and especially a
Speaker 1: woman of her education level, she's able to articulator. He
Speaker 1: didn't even take the time and articulator. So what he
Speaker 1: and I understood him. See, certain niggas can understand him
Speaker 1: when he said it wasn't fun no more. Did he
Speaker 1: mean I'm gonna get into that. But I want to.
Speaker 1: I want I want to, I want to clear, I
Speaker 1: want to I want to put the I want to
Speaker 1: put it out there that there is a distinguish. The
Speaker 1: difference on how to approach was. Her approach was, well,
Speaker 1: it wasn't really I was trying to She went down
Speaker 1: through there about all. Listen that what this man in
Speaker 1: my In my opinion, what he meant was but loved.
Speaker 1: You don't start to become insecure, like you're showing me insecurities.
Speaker 1: So when you're saying it's because I'm bossing up, it's like, nah,
Speaker 1: I don't invite you to my shows no more because
Speaker 1: it's seventy five women hollering and I know you're insecure. See,
Speaker 1: my thoughts have changed on on your outlook, on the situation.
Speaker 1: When I didn't think you were insecure, you was women
Speaker 1: the bitches out hidn't mean nothing out of nine years though,
Speaker 1: Like I'm right, but Instagram, social media has changed things.
Speaker 1: I don't care about that. If we got ten years
Speaker 1: and it's nothing the social media can do not for
Speaker 1: a woman stand strong, but you can stand strong, but
Speaker 1: your man may not be he telling her she can't
Speaker 1: even take pictures with certain people with their arm around
Speaker 1: her or something like that, when this is business. But
Speaker 1: how many times I have I said that men operate different.
Speaker 1: Just accept it. But now you have to because that's no.
Speaker 1: We don't say you say say when you getting your
Speaker 1: car and your gas like pop on ima, motherfucker, you
Speaker 1: ain't got the accept that. You ain't got the accept
Speaker 1: that your cofference run out of gain. But you can
Speaker 1: keep all right mother if you're won't too what I'm telling.
Speaker 1: So the reality of the situation, right is men operate
Speaker 1: different than women. That's period. I don't you don't got accepted,
Speaker 1: but you are greedy. I just want you to understand
Speaker 1: that ownership is important for evorite man. But I'm say
Speaker 1: you introduced me to this, and you set me up
Speaker 1: for this situation, and don't true, we got nine years
Speaker 1: in change out of nowhere. What kind of nigga would
Speaker 1: I be nine years in not to put you in position?
Speaker 1: So now I'm getting faulted for putting you in position
Speaker 1: and position. I'm now that I told you in position.
Speaker 1: I at loop you in position and you felt to
Speaker 1: or you insecure in that light because when you were
Speaker 1: just playing the back, it was good when I when
Speaker 1: I said, come on, you've been in the back long enough. Man,
Speaker 1: You you mean more than meet than this. Come on
Speaker 1: at you when I threw you out there, and then
Speaker 1: it it's like damn, so help me, I'm gotta we
Speaker 1: gotta talk about it. Help me understand. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: understand where you or coming from. I'm at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, what dude, the respect level that you
Speaker 1: hold me to got to do with what job title
Speaker 1: I didn't took or whatever. Like I'm saying, like, why
Speaker 1: do I have to find out social media? I'm saying,
Speaker 1: that's your woman of nine years. Why do I have
Speaker 1: to find out on anything with another woman? And I
Speaker 1: know about it? That's not a business with a female
Speaker 1: is not a business. I'm sure that she wouldn't do
Speaker 1: with her being at her education level like you said,
Speaker 1: or certain moves that she wouldn't make because she protecting
Speaker 1: his image or holding him to a certain type of
Speaker 1: light to where she got to respect him. That's the
Speaker 1: same thing she feels. So naw, if I'm on the
Speaker 1: spotlight and now all of a sudden that you just
Speaker 1: would random women on pictures and everything, you got to
Speaker 1: know that's really gonna come in and take what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Would you know that you opening up a doorway for
Speaker 1: people to come to me with things that I shouldn't
Speaker 1: even have to be understand what you're saying. But okay,
Speaker 1: so it ain't concern me and process from a different waever,
Speaker 1: you don't have to listen what cancerns me is if
Speaker 1: you heard this interview. I heard that. Did you hear
Speaker 1: the whole interview? And it's entirety. Let me tell you
Speaker 1: something about this woman right here. She's totally one thousand
Speaker 1: percent in love with him and want to be with
Speaker 1: him us. So the key to this is what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: is you lost a ten year relationship with this guy
Speaker 1: that you know you love over insecurities and over like No,
Speaker 1: not lost it like she said. She said, if it's
Speaker 1: not fun for him anymore, I'm good on it. But
Speaker 1: then she's not saying that she's giving up to She
Speaker 1: said that they get into little arguments and vice like
Speaker 1: everybody else. But when you go from not talking to
Speaker 1: me and we because because y'all process, and that's fine
Speaker 1: and I understand it and it's great, but women don't
Speaker 1: process this tedious bullis shit that the men is like, bitch, okay,
Speaker 1: so vice versa. Let me let me give you this.
Speaker 1: Do this same tedious bullshit to you because I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I don't like being that person, but past
Speaker 1: relationships have made me a tip for ted ass motherfucker.
Speaker 1: So look you at the basketball game with your homegrown
Speaker 1: last week. Next week fucking I'm going to the game
Speaker 1: with my homeboy what's up? And I'm gonna post it
Speaker 1: on Instagram and I tell you what fucked up? Then
Speaker 1: then guess what, No, it's not even gonna be that
Speaker 1: if it was vice versa last week when it was
Speaker 1: you and I say something, Look, it ain't nothing, just
Speaker 1: it with business. Mean we led to the basketball I
Speaker 1: had to ticket. I just forgot to mention it. But
Speaker 1: vice versa, I'm at the basketball game and I'd be like,
Speaker 1: oh baby, want nothing. You know, after we had a
Speaker 1: business dinner, we decided to catch them end of the game. Okay,
Speaker 1: next thing you knowing your man she fucking sucking out
Speaker 1: within him. Yeah, but been dealing with jobbing doing this
Speaker 1: behind my back this whole time. This is the key
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And I get what you're saying, which is important.
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to justify what I'm trying. I'm telling you.
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to justify. I'm just trying to help
Speaker 1: you understand saying that there's certain things that go on
Speaker 1: that y'all nothing knowing. So when a man is like,
Speaker 1: damn that offended you, like we tenure in see y'all
Speaker 1: looking at pictures and then even not even with him
Speaker 1: saying that, I'm just saying it's something as far as
Speaker 1: once once you're on another level, once you're on another level,
Speaker 1: little shit like that that may be okay, nine years ago,
Speaker 1: he'll like a picture. Nobody gave a fuck, Nobody told
Speaker 1: you ju shit. But I'm thinking, but I'm saying today
Speaker 1: because she's leveling up and she's out here in the scene.
Speaker 1: Mother can't western run back all you know, Kim was
Speaker 1: liking something. You know, it doesn't matter. Don't nobody want
Speaker 1: to hear that bullshit coming from the outside that creates
Speaker 1: bulls And that's that's fucking fact. If you would have
Speaker 1: told me off top, I went to the I'm going
Speaker 1: to the game with something. But and that's one hue
Speaker 1: up on me and had me feel like I'm the
Speaker 1: outside of any wrong for that. But this is what
Speaker 1: you have. But you're still missing. I'm not missing. What
Speaker 1: I'm saying is when these women are with these guys
Speaker 1: and they don't know that it's offending them or not
Speaker 1: offending them, that it's concerning him. So it's like this
Speaker 1: happens and your reaction is that and it's like Damn,
Speaker 1: I didn't even know something like that to bother you
Speaker 1: and then that. But this is what concerns a man
Speaker 1: in Cam's position. Now, I'm concerned. I don't build this
Speaker 1: foundation with some holes in it, like I'm I've been
Speaker 1: building on these ten years and you telling me that
Speaker 1: a game. I'm concerned about this. I've been building this
Speaker 1: the whole ten years, Brick for brick. I don't put
Speaker 1: this together only for you to question some skinny bitch.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter she like that look, bro. At the
Speaker 1: end of the day, social media is at the same
Speaker 1: It makes any bitch right there readily available for anybody.
Speaker 1: So you licking a picture like she said you might
Speaker 1: like a picture. Gel could be going She might DM
Speaker 1: you what's up, Oh, I'm in your city this weekend, y'all.
Speaker 1: Might it might be like she's trying to do business
Speaker 1: or anything. Come on, you never know where the female
Speaker 1: on the other end is coming from. This might be
Speaker 1: a bitch who got a hall old grudge. This might
Speaker 1: be a female who just complete. It's not about insecurities,
Speaker 1: it's about like, let me tell you something about long
Speaker 1: big dollar saying I'm gonna tell you about me. Guess
Speaker 1: what my bitch, excuse me because word because I so
Speaker 1: mean it right, I know what come off from, right,
Speaker 1: come on from? But now man's mans, I need you
Speaker 1: to be so locked into yourself, de folks can't. I
Speaker 1: don't need you to be affected by shit like that.
Speaker 1: I understand where you're coming from. I understand one hundred
Speaker 1: percent where your concerns your Your female is not in
Speaker 1: a limelight like you. She was a the lime like
Speaker 1: like you. That will bother her because I don't need
Speaker 1: people constantly coming to me saying it when I'm more
Speaker 1: concerned about names. I got it. I built a tornado, shelt, right,
Speaker 1: I built this motherfucking tornado shelt, and the fucking tornado
Speaker 1: was here, and I keep telling to get in it,
Speaker 1: and she just standing out there with the we ten
Speaker 1: years in. We ain't got no understanding on nothing. So
Speaker 1: that whole love but love it. I haven't been through
Speaker 1: the when I met you, I was just not getting in.
Speaker 1: We ain't got no we ain't created no understanding. So
Speaker 1: why is you questioning a niggle about a bit like
Speaker 1: I said, Cam was making a thing like she was
Speaker 1: constantly at his nigga about she said it. She said
Speaker 1: that I was, but it wasn't. More so, like what
Speaker 1: he was saying, she trying to just the fact. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that it's not it's justifiable. I mean,
Speaker 1: but I get where she's coming from. Like she said,
Speaker 1: it's not about it's not about that. Okay, let's switch homes.
Speaker 1: I've been there right now. I can't guess what I'm
Speaker 1: been in her situation. Fucking I'm just for the air
Speaker 1: out the way out there ten years with a man
Speaker 1: ten hale teen like for real, for real, my dude,
Speaker 1: like for real, my man? Yes, okay, you on Instagram liking.
Speaker 1: First of all, you never post me, which I'm not
Speaker 1: tripping because anytime anything you posted, I'm right there beside you.
Speaker 1: So I'm not tripping. I really live in this life
Speaker 1: with you. So that's cool. I just won't post you.
Speaker 1: You feel it's all good, No no issue there. But
Speaker 1: I do have a problem with Oh, I can't follow you,
Speaker 1: you can't follow me, I'm blocked. But then I go
Speaker 1: on a female page, you liking every fucking picture? What
Speaker 1: do you like? Like? What worried? Where is this coming from?
Speaker 1: My boy? And I mean it's nothing I'm worried about. Her.
Speaker 1: I'm not worried about her. I can't worry about something
Speaker 1: on the outside. But this is but this is what
Speaker 1: I need you to understand. Instagrams are portraits. Don't give
Speaker 1: a damn. So I don't like these portress of thirsty
Speaker 1: Skis was half first traps, trap first trap. It doesn't matter,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. No no, no, no no, no, no, no, no
Speaker 1: no no. They don't know, they don't know. These niggas
Speaker 1: got this fake Gucci and shit. I don't need. It's
Speaker 1: just following for the every day playing dazzling. You boys
Speaker 1: got them fake rollers for Christy. Ask what candidate? But
Speaker 1: but what I'm saying, But what I'm saying, but for
Speaker 1: real what I'm saying. But for what I'm saying, it's
Speaker 1: ten years in all right, So okay, I want to
Speaker 1: paint this picture because Patty, come on, let me give
Speaker 1: you some more colors. You need someone. I want you
Speaker 1: to know what's what's a risk and what's you understand me,
Speaker 1: So let me try to do this. And the reaction
Speaker 1: was the same ten years. I get what you're saying,
Speaker 1: but let me do it. And if you do it,
Speaker 1: then I know you ain't listening. You just ain't sing right,
Speaker 1: So yeah, big fact. Now ten years there, I met you.
Speaker 1: When I met you right, you were working at the airport.
Speaker 1: You're just a pretty little thing, you dig. I fuck
Speaker 1: with you. You're pretty. I'm boused up. I'm already in
Speaker 1: and out these ports. You dig. That don't mean nothing
Speaker 1: pertaining to you. It means something pertaining to the situation.
Speaker 1: Not get to that later. But to you that may
Speaker 1: not mean none, yes or no. Who gives a fuck.
Speaker 1: The status is gonna stay the same if you love it,
Speaker 1: liking or not. Right, But I'm in and not these
Speaker 1: airports I bumped through. I see you. I say, now,
Speaker 1: what's so shit? Now? I take a liking to huh right,
Speaker 1: I take a lot for whatever reason, I start building
Speaker 1: with hard in. I moved down here with you while
Speaker 1: you in college. I'm already on the road getting made
Speaker 1: your money right now. I moved down here with you
Speaker 1: like it's a you win a rich status. We rich together.
Speaker 1: We've been together ten years, in and out all these cities,
Speaker 1: all these memories, and there's no understanding creating. So you
Speaker 1: saw whole up. You said you're dealing with it. You
Speaker 1: so go ahead. She just said she's not the two
Speaker 1: thousand and nine and two thousand and eight childrew Okay,
Speaker 1: that's okay, and that's fine, And it's not that it's
Speaker 1: not that we don't have an understand but it's not
Speaker 1: that we don't have an understanding. But we have to
Speaker 1: do what you have to realize that she hurt hurt
Speaker 1: time everybody get hurt. She's hurt, she's hurt off, she's
Speaker 1: hurt on the part of that of that personal relationships.
Speaker 1: You hurt yourself because you being insecure. Bout no, I'm
Speaker 1: so tought. That Shou's favorite words, but that's a man's
Speaker 1: favorite words. That's a man's favorite word. As soon as
Speaker 1: they get caught up in some shit and you ask
Speaker 1: them or confront them, I'll stop being insecure. It's not
Speaker 1: about being insecure, because who's worried. I'm telling you now,
Speaker 1: I realized. I realized, but I realized this like a
Speaker 1: few years ago. Every female, every female is feeling herself.
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what she looked like, a
Speaker 1: big butter flat butter black light in blue, green, purple.
Speaker 1: Every female feels their self on the regular me and
Speaker 1: a insecure They don't know how to disgrest it. See
Speaker 1: when men, when a man feel insecured, when a man
Speaker 1: feel insecued, flippy, they try to flip it and say
Speaker 1: things like you know, you got your own thing going on,
Speaker 1: or if you just talk to a dude that he
Speaker 1: starts saying like, oh naw, you you gonna talk to that,
Speaker 1: you got your own thing going on. The problem, I've
Speaker 1: identified a character flow. Yeah you're not You're not who
Speaker 1: I'm used to. Once I identify character flow, which is insecurity,
Speaker 1: and I've been with you all this time, I have
Speaker 1: a major on a new level, I have a major
Speaker 1: problem spending my time with a motherfucker right brick by
Speaker 1: brick by brick by brick, and you ain't got when
Speaker 1: you ain't ready for the rain, This ain't you wasn't
Speaker 1: ready for no type of yeah nah, I don't understand that.
Speaker 1: And I don't even think she's insecure. The only thing
Speaker 1: I think she's asking him. And then whatever, be up front,
Speaker 1: You tell me, You tell me even if I do
Speaker 1: feel some type of way, even if I do feel
Speaker 1: some type of way about you doing this with a female,
Speaker 1: because every woman is gonna feel some type of way
Speaker 1: of her man doing business with a beautiful woman. And
Speaker 1: y'all got you know, may have some little bumps in
Speaker 1: the past, or whatever the situation may be, it's always
Speaker 1: gonna be something like, I hope they're really doing business.
Speaker 1: Even if you're a secure woman and feel like I
Speaker 1: know this is my man, he's not on if this
Speaker 1: is what you gotta understand, Golden State. Golden State got
Speaker 1: steph her and check this out. When they go in
Speaker 1: their time out, I guess who they ain't talking about
Speaker 1: the other team that I'm telling understand, But they do
Speaker 1: talk about the other team in the locker room before
Speaker 1: they get to the game, or before they go to
Speaker 1: the goal, to the game, whoever game they go to. People,
Speaker 1: it's an understanding that we ain't discussing it when we
Speaker 1: get out here in public for what. Because we got
Speaker 1: this understanding at the foundation, at the weed to we
Speaker 1: have to learn how to do We got to learn
Speaker 1: how does she watch sports? She was ready for that.
Speaker 1: She wasn't ready for that. I didn't even get done.
Speaker 1: You did get done talking about the other thing when
Speaker 1: they call the time out. So what I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: what that matter for means is who I'm laying with,
Speaker 1: praying with, and stand with. That's what's important to make
Speaker 1: sure date on the same page. Fuck them, I don't
Speaker 1: care what the rest of them say me. And you
Speaker 1: like this here, then you keep walking. I don't give
Speaker 1: a fuck what they're talking about. We understood you're saying that,
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. You have to care. So
Speaker 1: now what you gotta trust is now because Loon gotta
Speaker 1: trust what he done with beloved. So if this is
Speaker 1: my woman, if that's my woman and not instilled, And
Speaker 1: I know we've been rocking for some years. I know
Speaker 1: were here, but you still don't create that space to
Speaker 1: make what I'm saying. I know we're here. I can
Speaker 1: send her in the club and I ain't worried about that.
Speaker 1: You know why, because I understand the boys can't even
Speaker 1: yeah right. So this one, I'm telling you it posed
Speaker 1: to be some by the arm on this ship. Ain't
Speaker 1: no by the arm on this ship. Niggas ain't working
Speaker 1: hard with you like this here, and I'd be rich
Speaker 1: the last decade, bitch, I could have been a dog.
Speaker 1: I've been rich man. When I was the hottest nigg
Speaker 1: in the world rocking pink, you was my girl. I
Speaker 1: was still fucking like I was. You Come on, man
Speaker 1: ain't nobody on them on this ship, not even held
Speaker 1: it down through all it. See that. I get where
Speaker 1: you're coming from, But it goes both ways. Like I,
Speaker 1: like I said, we're gonna have to agree to disagree
Speaker 1: because Cam is right on his end. I feel where
Speaker 1: he's coming from. Like, don't sweat the smile she because
Speaker 1: I'm learning to get in a place like that with
Speaker 1: me and like because it turns into something that's not
Speaker 1: even worth it at the end of the it doesn't.
Speaker 1: But but I'm also learning to let them me. And no,
Speaker 1: don't run up on me about this smile shit either
Speaker 1: because guess what now I don't want to hear about
Speaker 1: hold On, let me be clear because niggas is using
Speaker 1: me at this point, and I'm just catching niggas is
Speaker 1: using me as escape goes, and I'm on to it.
Speaker 1: You know, they're not able to put it out there
Speaker 1: like this, and they cut it on when they go home.
Speaker 1: So now let me say this, This ain't fuck you niggas.
Speaker 1: That's trying to prove yourself to a woman or trying
Speaker 1: to get a woman to be in your life. This
Speaker 1: is for foundations that's already been set. It needs to
Speaker 1: be understanding and knows. That's what I'm saying. So I
Speaker 1: ain't saying a nigga gonna come in with this up
Speaker 1: and down side way shit and it's cool. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that. What I'm saying is, if y'all been rocking
Speaker 1: for a second and y'all got some understanding, let's try
Speaker 1: to keep it where it post to be. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Let's try to keep it where it posted.
Speaker 1: I definitely agree with where you coming from. Now. If
Speaker 1: it's a relationship where y'all got a foundation being together.
Speaker 1: You know this show man, you know this show woman,
Speaker 1: don'ts with the smilester because it creates bullshit. They don't
Speaker 1: even need to be in ya in y'all's personal space. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I think that with social media is so new
Speaker 1: that it's affecting everything from the presidency all way down
Speaker 1: to relationships, shopping to music too. I mean, it's literally
Speaker 1: hitting everything in But I feel like once a person
Speaker 1: know the power of social media, you have to be
Speaker 1: more consciously aware of what you do. What I'm saying
Speaker 1: to what social media calls, that's what I'm saying, really
Speaker 1: don't want me? Do we know you do we know
Speaker 1: how that's like? If you come, if you come, I
Speaker 1: don't know how it works. I'm what I'm saying, if
Speaker 1: I like the picture, right, what I'm saying, we don't
Speaker 1: know what place people are liking from. Like I can
Speaker 1: literally be liking saying that's a great picture, or I
Speaker 1: could be saying, how I fuck the hell out of you? Like.
Speaker 1: So what I'm saying is as women as men, we
Speaker 1: haven't identified. So listen to what I'm saying. I'm sure
Speaker 1: she didn't say that this man can't like women's picture.
Speaker 1: She said with and they ask and shit out out,
Speaker 1: but we like he don't want her liking certain things either,
Speaker 1: with things in it that she might like to. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying about this. I exactly I want to
Speaker 1: like that big motherfucker, but I'm not gonna like it
Speaker 1: because I respect you on to ser I mean enjoy
Speaker 1: you don't have what do you have to like it?
Speaker 1: Just admirried it for twenty minutes, I'm sure in debate,
Speaker 1: the debated though so important. This ain't thirst. I don't
Speaker 1: know if it's thirst. What I'm saying is there's so
Speaker 1: many different places it can come from. It can really sick.
Speaker 1: It ain't too many places, it ain't put first. Oh,
Speaker 1: it's a nice and this is what women does. This
Speaker 1: is what women does, and it concerns me. I'll know
Speaker 1: why you want to have this conversation with us, and
Speaker 1: it's fine, but this is what I'm telling you. Sometimes
Speaker 1: like on the picture as a co sign, like if
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, you don't even know whether this ship
Speaker 1: coming from it's so many different places. Why are you
Speaker 1: co signing on another woman's picture? Which means I'm famous? Right?
Speaker 1: So what happens is when I like it, people that
Speaker 1: follow me, you see what I'm saying, So it's just
Speaker 1: service and then they can go both ways. So once
Speaker 1: you like it and other people see it, they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: J cam over there like I don't know I heard that,
Speaker 1: but we expect we got we got one, and you're
Speaker 1: not at home letting me know that, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like the but I'm saying that communication communication like this
Speaker 1: communication for them too. Exactly what's the difference. I want
Speaker 1: a brand ambassador for Magnums, so I had to like,
Speaker 1: out of big pictures, let's let's let's let's let's let's
Speaker 1: relax for a second and let me say this, anyone
Speaker 1: that I'm dealing with currently or in the future, if
Speaker 1: you want to like a dick picture, please let me
Speaker 1: know so we can not exactly thank you conversation over
Speaker 1: next up. She just proved our point. Dude, the dumb
Speaker 1: dumb come on, give next subject, next subject, your case closed?
Speaker 1: Next they now, but now for real, don't like you know,
Speaker 1: I know y'all don't want to hear people gonna be
Speaker 1: in the in the comments and there you know there
Speaker 1: there they're see that, y'all nott y'all not letting me
Speaker 1: get it out because y'all women, it's no like id
Speaker 1: it's too sad. We're gonna go on with this sea.
Speaker 1: They both fought it on both ends. Y'all think men
Speaker 1: and women they are the things they do are looked
Speaker 1: at the same. No, but they that has nothing to
Speaker 1: do what we're talking about though. Okay, so that's y'all
Speaker 1: problem right there, because y'all want to stand on this.
Speaker 1: It ain't looked at it. Y'all looking at it because
Speaker 1: we look I'm a grown ass woman dog at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, I'm on this woman. If you're
Speaker 1: doing I'm doing it. I look at something because that's
Speaker 1: gonna make you feel a certain type of way. If
Speaker 1: that happened, then exactly think about that like serious and
Speaker 1: men don't like that. That's the that's the perfect thing
Speaker 1: for you men when y'all get ready to do some
Speaker 1: extra shit or not even extra shit, even if it's
Speaker 1: something innocent that you think is innocent thing, what I
Speaker 1: want hut doing this if if y'all we're following in
Speaker 1: y'all low down, doggish footsteps, I'm damn fools, I'm saying
Speaker 1: because I talk to people out of time on the hairstyle,
Speaker 1: so I connect with people. These women do these things
Speaker 1: because of the things that you men do. I'm telling you.
Speaker 1: It's very truss comes I'm telling you, and it's very
Speaker 1: it's very popular. Now you should be the sweetest girl.
Speaker 1: That's why I used to be such a sweetheart. I'm
Speaker 1: quit playing with me dial because whatever you do, that's
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna cut
Speaker 1: y'all cut me out. By way, I may cut you
Speaker 1: out because you know, women are so sweet tang and
Speaker 1: y'all don't even be knowing because y'all don't know, and
Speaker 1: it'd be so hard for us to act like this,
Speaker 1: saying I hate to say it, but I'm saying, y'all
Speaker 1: don't know we swifted in y'all think Yeah, y'all, I
Speaker 1: really love Tell me what you mean the gateways? What gateways?
Speaker 1: Let's talk shit that y'all do to women and I
Speaker 1: ain't and then try to try to make a rason
Speaker 1: for it. Look boot the tricks at I'm talking about job,
Speaker 1: y'all open it dough. She like, okay, he want to
Speaker 1: do such such such constantly repeatedly Okay, I ain't. I ain't,
Speaker 1: so y'all, but it don't even be on that level now.
Speaker 1: So y'all accepting niggas doing certain shit together, What do
Speaker 1: you think I'm supposed to accept what's going on? And
Speaker 1: going on we're not even talking about that. That's what
Speaker 1: we're not talking about, a like of a picture, just
Speaker 1: talking about in general things that men can do, and
Speaker 1: it'll be okay. Like I said, that's like different. So
Speaker 1: you can go on a bitch, you can go after businessman,
Speaker 1: you can go out with your co worker who's a
Speaker 1: female or whatever. It's fine, y'all. Was at y'all you
Speaker 1: come to the house, you kind of tipsy. We had
Speaker 1: a couple of drunks. I was with Maria from such
Speaker 1: and such. Okay, that's fine, I'm not tripping you good.
Speaker 1: I'm glad you made it home safely. But then next
Speaker 1: week me and Robert had a couple of drinks after
Speaker 1: the fucking um company. Pick not because that's two stage
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm saying my own boyfriend in one night.
Speaker 1: I don't know what time it was, y'all. It was
Speaker 1: late though, so you know, I'm like, okay, I ain't
Speaker 1: even ona say nothing. You know what I'm saying. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna let you come in this motherfucker with some peace
Speaker 1: of man to know that I ain't even raised hell,
Speaker 1: I don't know where you're being or nothing, but I'm
Speaker 1: telling you not tomorrow, not thirsty next week, but it's
Speaker 1: gonna be a fucking day. I'm coming in this motherfucker
Speaker 1: around the same time, and I need the same respect
Speaker 1: that I showed you when you came in here exactly.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. Tiffa Tad. My Tiffa Tad
Speaker 1: might not be you know what I'm saying, when it comes,
Speaker 1: I need that s how if you if your gall
Speaker 1: tipfa t is right. How if your gap tad is
Speaker 1: right away, do that, then you should be the same way.
Speaker 1: That's the type of respect and trust you should have.
Speaker 1: But how to do that? Let me ask you this then,
Speaker 1: So my question is is the tech because you're doing
Speaker 1: the tech, he doing the tick, but it ain't really
Speaker 1: the tack be intentionally done. But it's probably gonna happen
Speaker 1: because I mean, listen, we're not getting no punts out.
Speaker 1: How can you say to me that I understand stand
Speaker 1: that it's gonna happen at some point you wouldn't, right,
Speaker 1: but you know what's gonna happen, not on purpose, though
Speaker 1: it might just be there. And you know what, one
Speaker 1: of the nice when I did it, I was guess
Speaker 1: what I was. Let's understand what we're saying. I'm like, damn,
Speaker 1: I need to get home. I'm saying I was at
Speaker 1: her house one night and there may not be no problem.
Speaker 1: But let me understand they may not may not be
Speaker 1: a problem. Keywords come man, man, not yea they mean
Speaker 1: it's us. Yeah, it's a misunderstanding because see what I'm
Speaker 1: what I'm saying to y'all lives. What I can't do,
Speaker 1: what I don't understand is how the fuck is y'all
Speaker 1: gonna see here and look at the situation and say
Speaker 1: that I know it's gonna happen. I know it's gonna happen,
Speaker 1: but it ain't intentional anything. You know, premeditated, it's intentional. Okay,
Speaker 1: So you know it'll be more premeditated and intentional if
Speaker 1: I said a select day for this to go on.
Speaker 1: But I know that in the cloud, because once it's
Speaker 1: in the cloud, it's up there. Because this is this
Speaker 1: up there podcast. Once it's up there, I just want
Speaker 1: you to know that it's up there. So when that
Speaker 1: day come, I expect the same. I get that, But
Speaker 1: my question, I didn't get it out. So he did
Speaker 1: the tick, right, he came in, Right, he did, he
Speaker 1: came in late, right, he did the tick. Now when
Speaker 1: he came in you, so I want to make sure
Speaker 1: we understand what we're saying. When he came in, you
Speaker 1: register that violation so bad, didn't communicate or anything, right,
Speaker 1: so boom, you registered as a violation. Wam. Now you
Speaker 1: see him he's at home. Now I'm not raising hell,
Speaker 1: but in my mind, I know that's a violation. That's
Speaker 1: a strike. Now I got you revenge. No, it's not
Speaker 1: like revenge. No saying no, it's that I'm gonna give
Speaker 1: him the benefit of the doubt to know that he
Speaker 1: probably was doing whatever he just said here and told
Speaker 1: me he was doing. But guess what, I just want
Speaker 1: you want to I want you to have no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I want to focus on the mother conversation. When you
Speaker 1: said that when he do the tick, it's Tick for Tech.
Speaker 1: So y'all say, y'all subscribe to Tick for Tech. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean so tick. But you said revenge like he
Speaker 1: comes like a team and be like, yeah, by definition,
Speaker 1: not by your man, because when you're in a relationship,
Speaker 1: you know, times like boundaries on wing you. That's fine,
Speaker 1: that's understood. He know he violated whatever. I'm focused on you.
Speaker 1: Let's focus on see this is this is the thing
Speaker 1: that women do too. I want to say, they changed
Speaker 1: the conversation. Hey, and I love them and they love me.
Speaker 1: But I want to say this, let's not change the conversation.
Speaker 1: Nor come on, come on, come on, come on, you
Speaker 1: last question because we got to move on. So you're
Speaker 1: in a relationship, what's going on? Listen here? I want
Speaker 1: to personally think anyone that's watching this clip right now,
Speaker 1: because that even means you watching the podcast of mind.
Speaker 1: You either on my page or you clicked something that's
Speaker 1: involved what I'm doing in my campaign. So I would
Speaker 1: like to say thank you first and foremost for your
Speaker 1: support and the efforts that you show me when I
Speaker 1: do attempt to show that I want to present things
Speaker 1: to the world. So first of all, I want to
Speaker 1: say thank you for that. Second, I want to say,
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Speaker 1: so I can see your last question because we got
Speaker 1: to move on. So you're in a relationship. He came in,
Speaker 1: you said she did the thing you did. Now listen,
Speaker 1: so yeah, now take for tech. So you're telling me
Speaker 1: that that don't come from a hurt place. No, it
Speaker 1: comes from a clear mind. Why it's logical? What the
Speaker 1: hell do you mean it's not in me? This is
Speaker 1: me because you know people do text. Because you said,
Speaker 1: we always on different levels of how we need to
Speaker 1: handle our relationship. So I'm saying my trust level for
Speaker 1: you has to be outstanding. Now I want to test
Speaker 1: what yours is on me. Do you trust me? I
Speaker 1: just want to know and see. Now you coming from
Speaker 1: that man place like she really? But look, do you
Speaker 1: know that's the look you're again when you came in
Speaker 1: and having morning trying to explain the story. He was
Speaker 1: sitting there looking at you like he gave us the face. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you that's the exact FACIALIK. I'm gonna give
Speaker 1: you that respect. But you got me fucked up. That's
Speaker 1: what you're thinking in your mind. But I wasn't. But
Speaker 1: this is what I'm saying to be on the level
Speaker 1: because now we're talking about Now do y'all women, when
Speaker 1: y'all fucking with a nigga building, do y'all really understand
Speaker 1: that all list that he's doing is not hoping that
Speaker 1: something bad happens that but any event that some shit
Speaker 1: go left for some ship turn. Yeah, I do. I
Speaker 1: get that. How can you stand the rain with me? Yeah?
Speaker 1: But that's the rain should be different than no, Wow,
Speaker 1: we don't live into that work out. You rain gum
Speaker 1: drops in our world and rain got them real rain.
Speaker 1: I'm saying nothing. Hell know that men and women have
Speaker 1: different issues. Were any women right? So my issue can
Speaker 1: be six yours can be you don't you're not paying bills?
Speaker 1: Those are two different issues, right, someone attention? So what
Speaker 1: I'm That's what I'm saying, so for me, and sometimes
Speaker 1: it could be attention, Sometimes it's not the attention. What
Speaker 1: I'm saying is we can't ignore that we have two
Speaker 1: different outlooks on the situation and that you ain't gonna
Speaker 1: That's what and that's what I'm saying. Let's agree to
Speaker 1: disagree and move on because women are women, Men are men,
Speaker 1: and men do things and expect women just to expect
Speaker 1: what I think. What I don't like, not that I
Speaker 1: don't like. What concerns me. What concerns me is that
Speaker 1: we were now having conversations in which y'all are on
Speaker 1: the fish with me, like we're not. It's still up.
Speaker 1: It's not me us women on any end, because at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, it's clear that we I
Speaker 1: don't know what's up with you, right, It's good. What
Speaker 1: I'm saying is the conversations y'all are having them trying
Speaker 1: to be like, uh, you ain't gonna win. You're not
Speaker 1: because you have a penis, so just be quiet, trying
Speaker 1: to make the vis what most men need to realize
Speaker 1: that when it comes to this type of ship right here,
Speaker 1: when it's coming to this type of sh right here,
Speaker 1: you might as well just say keep y'all point in
Speaker 1: your head. And that's what I'm getting. This is what
Speaker 1: we're doing. So now Na and Nikki, I like them,
Speaker 1: broke up together. I thought they were so cute. Didn't
Speaker 1: didn't say nothing about them. I mean I did, but
Speaker 1: it was like pictures I'm saying, but I just I
Speaker 1: just love them a cute couple. I'm not saying like
Speaker 1: as far as I don't know, I think personal relationship.
Speaker 1: Was just saying looks wise like they complimented each other
Speaker 1: very well, Yeah, why didn't break up? What happened? Safari
Speaker 1: can form? No, I'm just I'm starting to wonder when
Speaker 1: you see a man when you see a woman. I'm
Speaker 1: not nick up, but when you see a woman it
Speaker 1: can't keep a man? Is that? Is that concerning this
Speaker 1: my muma? She didn't call it three times? Let me
Speaker 1: call it. I'm just saying it could be. I mean,
Speaker 1: it could be just because she's such a woman of
Speaker 1: power some of me and can't deal with it. It
Speaker 1: goes back to the cam and Juju situation. Some people
Speaker 1: may be too intimidated about her lifestyle. She's Nicki minaj.
Speaker 1: Nothing about her life is private. Even if she get
Speaker 1: a man and try to keep a private come on there,
Speaker 1: it's not gonna happen. But even when people say just
Speaker 1: can't keep a man, sometimes you go through different men
Speaker 1: to know what you're going to accept and what you're
Speaker 1: not gonna accept. Your no, who vibe with you or
Speaker 1: what you know? Like if you change as a person
Speaker 1: when you date people, you should because you should learn
Speaker 1: from all your relationships. So I'm saying I can't say
Speaker 1: I would look at her in the negative light because
Speaker 1: she got different men. But what's going on in her
Speaker 1: relationship For me to really say that, I don't know
Speaker 1: if it's her or them, I can't say. Sometimes to
Speaker 1: be personal, people just be Some should just be a
Speaker 1: deal break. Some people don't like to compromise either. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's saying some stuff is just a deal break. So
Speaker 1: if I meet him last month and he was some
Speaker 1: shit that I okay on to the next I met
Speaker 1: another guy like him and he but that's what dating is.
Speaker 1: It's not like she's married the one like, so, I mean,
Speaker 1: they're just cleaning out the garbage to know what I
Speaker 1: don't like. Yeah, when you see the sthing. Matter of fact,
Speaker 1: somebody in my job people saying, like we talk about
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian like she just be slotting it up out
Speaker 1: here or something like that. You know, but everybody that
Speaker 1: she didn't did someone has been her man or whatever.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, that's the same fun you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like, who cares? Yeah, don't be
Speaker 1: stuck with the same guys thanking that he gonna change
Speaker 1: A fright of people gonna call you a whole world
Speaker 1: that you don't have been with two many guys. If
Speaker 1: he ain't doing what he's supposed to be doing, keep
Speaker 1: it moving on to the Knicks. If he ain't doing
Speaker 1: what he doing, keep it moving on to the Knicks,
Speaker 1: and song and so forth. Toil you find your who.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, but choice is wise. I'm just I'm not saying,
Speaker 1: just give you yea, yeah, I forgot. We got different
Speaker 1: types of Let me be clear, a little lady. To
Speaker 1: be clear, I'm not saying to Nick like I'm not
Speaker 1: saying it like analyzed the last one. You know. I'm
Speaker 1: saying I walked off for ten many like I said, Jack,
Speaker 1: keep it moving toil you find you in a nutshell.
Speaker 1: In a nutshell, I just mean. I just mean if
Speaker 1: you're dating. I'm not saying everybody you dating you got
Speaker 1: you know, you're just going out of yall in a
Speaker 1: full blowd relationship and all of that. I'm saying, I've
Speaker 1: been dating a guy, y'all, I've been talking for a
Speaker 1: month or two. When you see some flowers and bullshit
Speaker 1: and keep it, it's puss I'm hoping not. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm speaking like, no, you can't test your
Speaker 1: pussycat on everybody what we do see and we have
Speaker 1: a problem doing this. We put out these instructions and
Speaker 1: don't put out the direction. You know, those are two
Speaker 1: different things. It's very true. I don't even know why.
Speaker 1: But anyway, so so so now you so what do
Speaker 1: you consider that soft period? Then? Because I just came
Speaker 1: back to a bad man, I didn't know what we're
Speaker 1: going though these days. You really don't know the soft
Speaker 1: period because y'all female so friendly with y'all little pussycat like,
Speaker 1: you can't just be like that sweetheartest cop. If you
Speaker 1: got to get off that bad just master back. You know.
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to put that out there, but that's
Speaker 1: the best thing I'm just saying. I mean, I'm just
Speaker 1: saying like it's a good thing because it keeps it
Speaker 1: keeps your vagina healthy. Definitely promote, but seriously, ladies, don't
Speaker 1: just give y'all cookies up to anybody, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. Logically speaking, I'm not saying like out here
Speaker 1: like okay, girl, let me try him, not his dec ones.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying test the waters, like as far as
Speaker 1: testing the penis. I mean, like, if you're dating, no
Speaker 1: dick is not involved. I'm not saying I'm saying dating
Speaker 1: dating like im porton, going out on days, getting to
Speaker 1: know each other. He comes with some bullshit and you'd
Speaker 1: be like, Okay, you know, maybe I'm not gonna deal
Speaker 1: with this. You feel like that, just let the she go.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying they have had the sicks or whatever
Speaker 1: and you feel like it, but you need to get
Speaker 1: these understandings. Yeah, still leave, But I said, try, try
Speaker 1: to get these understandings before you give him the pussycat.
Speaker 1: And if you have got him the pussycat, don't don't
Speaker 1: say him pussy cat. You know, try and the next time,
Speaker 1: you know, don't give the pussycat away. You gotta get
Speaker 1: out of You gotta get out of fast. Get the
Speaker 1: whole resume on the mine before you do that. What's
Speaker 1: that guy? You know something that was funny because you
Speaker 1: you said something you said even if you get the
Speaker 1: niggative push let him, let him go if he dogging you,
Speaker 1: So he's gonna stand what I'm talking about. Listen, we're
Speaker 1: talking about moving on after man doing something anything that's
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I figured out this escape goal. It
Speaker 1: ain't your standards. Kiss My motherfucking died. I see what
Speaker 1: the the oh, okay, so the thoughts just hadden behind this.
Speaker 1: I figured it out just now. It fucking click. What
Speaker 1: you gonna say is, well, it just ain't up to
Speaker 1: my standards. Every child on hold on, you gotta have
Speaker 1: some mores and standless everything. It just went up to
Speaker 1: my standard, yaas it was. It's just it's just one
Speaker 1: to standard. That's what I'm saying. I don't want Okay,
Speaker 1: I didn't want y'all to take it the wrong way.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, ladies, listen, when you're dating logically, not
Speaker 1: on a thought shit out on this twenty eighteen dating
Speaker 1: she not on this. I want to fuck everybody I
Speaker 1: talk to dating shit, I mean like really dating, like
Speaker 1: going on dates, talking on the phone, text and getting
Speaker 1: to know each other. No sexual contact has ever been done.
Speaker 1: If a guy shows you something, if a person shows
Speaker 1: you who they are, believe them. Don't keep on speaking
Speaker 1: around for them to keep on being about I said, no,
Speaker 1: sax you, No, it's a different question. It sakes part
Speaker 1: of your decision making when choosing a man or a woman.
Speaker 1: So you mean to tell me I ought to be
Speaker 1: with a woman or you ought to be with a man.
Speaker 1: That cannot satisfy you. But people be with each other first.
Speaker 1: They don't even have sex until they're married. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: I mean, it can't be. It can't or it can't
Speaker 1: be a deal breaker because you can always learn. Six.
Speaker 1: Come on, it shouldn't it's for some people they might be,
Speaker 1: but I'm saying it shouldn't be. This shouldn't be because
Speaker 1: it's supposed to be water six. But I'm saying, and
Speaker 1: it's like I said, you can people have a good
Speaker 1: sexual bond with each other, and you know some people
Speaker 1: hold off. They don't want to test it, Kyle, they
Speaker 1: want to just smack it the day they get it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but what if it kylerad little muff, I'm saying what
Speaker 1: you should have been. So yeah, like I'm saying, that's
Speaker 1: alway about to say at that point, if you don't
Speaker 1: know what they like, you're gonna love the person and
Speaker 1: the sex gonna anyway. Don't you got the connection? I'm
Speaker 1: telling you it's it's I don't eat you struggled, No,
Speaker 1: But now that's I don't know. It's like it's like though, man,
Speaker 1: but I just remember what we was talking about about
Speaker 1: certain things happening in relationship. Y'all don't want to. You know,
Speaker 1: we'll get it at some other time when y'all a
Speaker 1: little more relaxed. I no, see, we've been off so
Speaker 1: long that y'all back in here, y'all like talking said, nigga,
Speaker 1: nigga ain't nothing. We all just chill out. Yeah yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we'd be back in right right right. My bad And
Speaker 1: I'm not bad. But in a way. Um, what about
Speaker 1: the H and Them thing? Man? For people that didn't
Speaker 1: see it, the H and Them had a brand campaign
Speaker 1: in which they had a black boy um, a young
Speaker 1: king um on one of their brands with the with
Speaker 1: the sweater on and had a monkey on it that
Speaker 1: said coolest monkey in the Jungle. I don't even think
Speaker 1: it had a monkey on it. I think he was
Speaker 1: was the coolest monkey in the junk. Yeah yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: and um and then social media blew up, you know,
Speaker 1: blew up about this ship and everybody ever what was
Speaker 1: just going to fuck off? What y'all? What y'all think
Speaker 1: about that? I mean I feelt like that was a
Speaker 1: very negligent on H and M's end because as a
Speaker 1: bread or a company, Piero and I felt like NICKI
Speaker 1: minaj and everybody should have snatched their stuff from them
Speaker 1: because she had h and them too. She should have
Speaker 1: snatched her stuff like my homie did from Kemp what's
Speaker 1: his name? I can't think not to drink, but I know,
Speaker 1: I know. Yeah, but anyway, that was like a black woman.
Speaker 1: But anyway, you know, and then they give a little
Speaker 1: white boy the little shirt that's like he had the
Speaker 1: best survival. I'm just saying, like this is like this
Speaker 1: is like symbolism almost, like it's like you intentionally unintentionally
Speaker 1: given a message that you know you're given, but you're
Speaker 1: trying to say, oh, it just slipped through the cracks. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well why didn't the little white boy had a shirt on?
Speaker 1: That's how it slipped through the cracks right there. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: I just man, you picked a little dark his little chocolate,
Speaker 1: this little boy to say he was a monkey. I
Speaker 1: felt like all that was and who his parents need
Speaker 1: to be sit down and talk to because why would
Speaker 1: y'all let you? And they defending it, but you know
Speaker 1: what I know about what they're trying to say. It's okay,
Speaker 1: you can call us monkeys. We embracing that now like
Speaker 1: we do nigger. Yeah, I don't know what that's about.
Speaker 1: How activists on I don't know what they for real,
Speaker 1: I don't know what they But but you know the
Speaker 1: thing about these thinking about these y'all crazy man, then
Speaker 1: think about these big corporations, and what I know is
Speaker 1: that these niggas is making forty million a yeah, and
Speaker 1: all of that that's making the decisions on which way
Speaker 1: that they're branding and marketing at their product. They're trusting
Speaker 1: like their kids, and like they don't have no ear
Speaker 1: to the street per se, you know, like rapp as
Speaker 1: rappers a little more, they can still send word to
Speaker 1: the hood and figure out what's what's really on the
Speaker 1: ground and what people like the coolest monkey in the
Speaker 1: jungle that I'm saying. So for them, what I'm saying
Speaker 1: is they don't even have They don't even have no
Speaker 1: one to turn to the even ass And you have
Speaker 1: to understand my point of about my poor thing. You think,
Speaker 1: listen though, my point about it deals do you really
Speaker 1: understand how many steps that it has to go through
Speaker 1: before yes, that's a commercial maid exactly, Nigga is ten
Speaker 1: steps at least that has that ten people got a
Speaker 1: sign off on this motherfucker through everybody. So that's that's
Speaker 1: what concerned me. And then for the mama to say, well,
Speaker 1: it's all good, y'all, Tripp and I was right modeling.
Speaker 1: He's done plenty of bread. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: She's using her son. That's her that's her livelihood right there,
Speaker 1: without him being the coolest monkey in the jungle. She
Speaker 1: ain't eating. But now I'm sorry, we have or something
Speaker 1: we need to boot. And then on top of that,
Speaker 1: like I said, even with the Hi and M thing,
Speaker 1: okay it is I can't like with the Ahian M thing.
Speaker 1: It is really fucked up, sad that they did that.
Speaker 1: But just think about it. Almost every brand we've wear
Speaker 1: his own by filthy rich, non black motherfuckers. Half of
Speaker 1: them don't like black people. Versaci, Gucci, yall these brands,
Speaker 1: they don't fucking like black people. And we're gonna spend
Speaker 1: thousands of allegedly, Yeah that I'm just saying they don't allegedly,
Speaker 1: But these things have been said, these have been topics,
Speaker 1: disgusting everything too. But y'all don't make a big hoop
Speaker 1: fly when y'all rocking Gucci, Louis and all of this shit.
Speaker 1: So why does y'all complain about it. I mean, I understand,
Speaker 1: make a stand, but let's make a stand for everything.
Speaker 1: That's the thing about that same I'm saying this is
Speaker 1: I'm saying that was like make a stand board and
Speaker 1: you just do some black paint on it. You don't
Speaker 1: need to see it. I understand. I mean, we definitely
Speaker 1: should take a stand for him, But I saying, take
Speaker 1: us stand for everything. So serious about not hearsay or
Speaker 1: somebody is saying something, so we don't really say these
Speaker 1: are like, these are facts, Like these designers have said
Speaker 1: these things. No Thomas said it, but we've been other
Speaker 1: designers have said this in the past. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: that's the thing. We always want to focus on this
Speaker 1: one thing. Okay, let's say fuck all of this shit,
Speaker 1: make our own brands are clothes. We could do that,
Speaker 1: but let's make we can do two things at the
Speaker 1: same time. Let's not just focusing. If everybody come together
Speaker 1: and do we do that. What I'm saying is if
Speaker 1: it was clear knowledge, public knowledge. The way that this
Speaker 1: is that some of those people said that, because I've
Speaker 1: never heard it in my jacket. I shopped at these
Speaker 1: places a lot and I've never heard it, but not
Speaker 1: saying they didn't say it. I maybe not be searching
Speaker 1: for that information. But if it's made readily available the
Speaker 1: same way that this anti and them campaign wars, it'll
Speaker 1: affect the sales, like what I've seen in South Africa?
Speaker 1: Would they is this alone? Ninja stand dig stout? Oh godda,
Speaker 1: oh ninja ninja? That did y'all? They were standing out there,
Speaker 1: Man was hundreds of them, motherfucking African man out there
Speaker 1: like y'all got us fucked up? Shut this motherfucker down.
Speaker 1: They were like, we're sorry, we don't want to know. Sorry,
Speaker 1: y'all got the goal. They were telling them they got
Speaker 1: a goal. I'm saying, y'all got the universe. That's all
Speaker 1: I got to say. Yeah, they you know, like the
Speaker 1: black dollars important and powerful and see like I tell you,
Speaker 1: like I tell you, they didn't know what they were
Speaker 1: doing with this internet. It even affected that, it even
Speaker 1: affected our oppression. Who it affect our oppression? They didn't
Speaker 1: know that. They didn't know. They thought that what I'm
Speaker 1: telling you, so they thought they were gonna baby to
Speaker 1: hold it and just not Now we started spreading knowledge
Speaker 1: and nigga starts. There's a lot of people that don't
Speaker 1: watch TV. They don't watch that, and they watch YouTube first.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be thinking I'm crazy because I watched you
Speaker 1: because I feel like it's more valid information and it's
Speaker 1: targeted and see, it's what you win too. That's what
Speaker 1: I always tell That's what I always tell Hot Depth,
Speaker 1: Shout out hot Del, shout out you, MICHAELA. When you're
Speaker 1: going YouTube, you're able to target what you want to
Speaker 1: look at, so that that takes this large as TV
Speaker 1: shit where you just flipping flipping, flipping, hoping something catch
Speaker 1: your eye. You can bring it down and say, man,
Speaker 1: I want to look at U basketball documentary intrigued. So
Speaker 1: that's important and see, so that's important. How you tube
Speaker 1: put that together. They search engine is so powerful because
Speaker 1: you could be looking for I can look at Charlemagne
Speaker 1: the God, and then Somemer pop up. He done over here,
Speaker 1: and then something done over there. It's just I ain't
Speaker 1: even ask for this, but they know, oh you're watching him.
Speaker 1: We got this on him, we got that on him.
Speaker 1: They hard late videos they had and also, um, I've
Speaker 1: seen on the Breaths Club that Charlemagne them they was
Speaker 1: talking about the genuine one thing. The transgender tried to
Speaker 1: kiss kiss him and he said no, and I feel
Speaker 1: like nothing is wrong with it. Gene one is a man.
Speaker 1: I feel like, stop they're trying to force people. Ain't
Speaker 1: nobody transphobic? Because I don't want to put my mouth
Speaker 1: on you. You know, like I'm saying, even if you
Speaker 1: wasn't a transgender and I just told you no, I
Speaker 1: don't want to kiss you because you're a man, would
Speaker 1: I be man phobic? Like putting making up these fucking
Speaker 1: words that don't even make sense, because what is transphobic?
Speaker 1: That ain't When did that even become a word? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Like that man don't want to kiss a man? Fuck
Speaker 1: it what Charlemagne saying? I said, Boy, he was clever
Speaker 1: for putting it that way. He said, no, let's call
Speaker 1: it what it is. He stopped that person from sexually
Speaker 1: assaulting him exactly because if I try to kiss you
Speaker 1: right then you don't want me to kiss you. That
Speaker 1: fucking we was just talking about great and boy, and
Speaker 1: when he flipped it. As soon as it came out,
Speaker 1: he flipped it. I said, see that's that said sew
Speaker 1: man and nigga man. He instantly flipped when it was like, oh,
Speaker 1: he didn't want to kiss a transgend. The first thing
Speaker 1: he said was no, that was sexual assault. No, let's
Speaker 1: call it what it is. He didn't How did you
Speaker 1: literally get mad at me because I don't want to
Speaker 1: kiss a fucking First of all, I don't have to
Speaker 1: kiss anybody. I don't want to. I don't want to
Speaker 1: kiss a woman. I don't want to. Exactly how I'm saying,
Speaker 1: why is this a problem? Because everybody, because that's trying
Speaker 1: to everybody gaze afraid of being gabhole white. I'm not
Speaker 1: trying to kiss you. They're trying to make They're trying
Speaker 1: to force everybody, and nobody has to accept it. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not against it, but nobody has to. You know what. Listen,
Speaker 1: somebody asked me too, and they are part of the
Speaker 1: LBGT community. They said, how did they make transgender its
Speaker 1: own fucking race or something? When the T is in
Speaker 1: the LBGT, Like, how can you just take it out
Speaker 1: and make his own thing? Like it's always been a
Speaker 1: part of the community. Why is it so focused on
Speaker 1: now it's a whole nother human race or something everybody
Speaker 1: to be like? And first of all, you have to
Speaker 1: understand that most of them don't look they don't they're
Speaker 1: not complete because a lot of people that's doing it
Speaker 1: ain't rich. So they're doing it in phases. A lot
Speaker 1: of times when you see one of them, they're just
Speaker 1: in phase one and it does not look appealing to you.
Speaker 1: How can they tell them mother? How can they tell
Speaker 1: the motherfucker that he can't God damn if I don't
Speaker 1: want the mother kissing, No, he ain't kissing. Hey, listen,
Speaker 1: just think you don't want to nigga kissing you all yell?
Speaker 1: They read the boy, I'm skin all of them. Man,
Speaker 1: shit is crazy. Man. Then I seen speaking of Africa
Speaker 1: two of the h and them thing. I've seen what
Speaker 1: doctor Ouma m Johnson was. Have you seen that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: He's not. What's so crazy because I haven't been listening
Speaker 1: to Doctor with Mike Johnson for a million and shout
Speaker 1: out to doctor with my Johnson. If you ain't trying
Speaker 1: to take the people money, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I know how they try to throw jackets on you
Speaker 1: and ship, but I'm saying results speak louder than words.
Speaker 1: So I'm saying, like he got does come out with
Speaker 1: something so so I try to give them the benefit
Speaker 1: of the doubt. I am. But then when some I
Speaker 1: did see a video so well put together, but I
Speaker 1: know how they'll try to put the wall video, and
Speaker 1: it was so well put together, y'all. I'm telling y'all,
Speaker 1: I was like, damn selling duel. But see, my thing
Speaker 1: was when I started looking it up. Um, I've seen
Speaker 1: that he was going through court water State was taking
Speaker 1: his license, and I know how the government and stuff
Speaker 1: worked to you know, or the hire people who do whatever.
Speaker 1: I don't know, y'all, and go fund me what I'm saying, like,
Speaker 1: I know how to y'all try to silence the motherfucker
Speaker 1: before me into where they probably can't say something. They
Speaker 1: got you looking like this is what you're doing? Really
Speaker 1: making a beat? He see something else? Something else? Yeah,
Speaker 1: bad motherfucker speaker And maybe man, he was talking to
Speaker 1: the mothers and sometimes like I ain't be talking. I
Speaker 1: never heard, I mean, and now these videos I heard,
Speaker 1: I don't know if they was out that doctor he
Speaker 1: was saying some shit. I want to hug up all
Speaker 1: these ads. I'm just saying, but I don't know that
Speaker 1: he's sick of it. I'm saying it's the truth though
Speaker 1: he was saying. I said, I would have to hear
Speaker 1: the entire interview for me to judge him out there
Speaker 1: a little small clip you show me because something, because
Speaker 1: I was honest, and he like, fuck it, I can't
Speaker 1: just sugarcoating. You need to hear this. He liked that
Speaker 1: because of you. He don't need to be with him,
Speaker 1: desire to be with a mama like you did about it,
Speaker 1: so you don't need him. He just be keeping it red,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And I heard him say
Speaker 1: something today and the resonator with me so bad. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. One of my biggest strength is being
Speaker 1: able to take in all this information but not digested,
Speaker 1: be able to pick through, you know, the things that
Speaker 1: can fit my life into things that can inspire and
Speaker 1: help me, and then trash the ship that may or
Speaker 1: may not be effective. You know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: he said something man to day when I was listening
Speaker 1: to him, said Marcus Garvey said that a strong man
Speaker 1: is strong everywhere. And what he said that what he
Speaker 1: meant was oh yea, I know what he meant too.
Speaker 1: If you had somebody liked the police, maybe killing these
Speaker 1: Chinese kids like they kill and black kids. China going
Speaker 1: to shut this shit down. They not going to let
Speaker 1: you kill all their kids. We don't have Africa standing
Speaker 1: behind us, so that's a black man, so he weak everywhere.
Speaker 1: So nobody respects the black man because I hold. And
Speaker 1: what he's saying is we're strong in spurts, you know,
Speaker 1: anything you know in basketball and entertainment, you know, and
Speaker 1: we're strong and need certain facets. But what he's saying
Speaker 1: is and it resonated even deeper than that with me,
Speaker 1: even to myself, just breaking our way down to my
Speaker 1: life is like, all right, so am I strong? Am
Speaker 1: I strong? And everything that I do? Like because some
Speaker 1: people can say why I do this pretty good? But
Speaker 1: I don't do that pretty like? So work on being
Speaker 1: strong and everything and then that's when the results are
Speaker 1: really start popping out. But but what he was saying,
Speaker 1: as you right, is is that like we're strong, but
Speaker 1: we're not strong in America. We're not strong and not
Speaker 1: strong in Africa's not strong no black people because we
Speaker 1: don't have nobody who's gonna press the button for us.
Speaker 1: It was some ship going wrong with us. We're just
Speaker 1: some people them and it made sense because they were
Speaker 1: talking that's what he's saying. They was talking about rebuilding
Speaker 1: Africa and place to go back to people to feel
Speaker 1: comfortable coming there, because that's a big shift. And I
Speaker 1: was like so excited when I hear it, because y'all
Speaker 1: know I'm real pro, but I was really excited to
Speaker 1: hear that because I know I didn't make a lot
Speaker 1: of people who more just talk so down on Africa.
Speaker 1: I've never even been to Africa, because it was amazing
Speaker 1: parts of Africa which I ain't never been able. I
Speaker 1: haven't seen some people that haven't been to some beautiful
Speaker 1: place to shop. But it'll make them feel more comfortable
Speaker 1: on coming back to the motherland though, that's what I think.
Speaker 1: I thought it was a great idea, though, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, we got Valentine coming up, the income text
Speaker 1: time coming couple seeing a tax let's identify hashtag tax
Speaker 1: identify all ta. We need y'all to sneaker pick do whatever.
Speaker 1: I haven't seen a couple though, so I'm doing taxes, y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all better call me to it. Said time though it's
Speaker 1: different because Nigga locking them with them big now, y'all
Speaker 1: gonna get some nice VDA gives guys. But now you
Speaker 1: know something, I think the government got PITTI. So the
Speaker 1: government said, you know what, I know you bitches blowing
Speaker 1: your money. I don't need nigga for Valentine Day. So
Speaker 1: if you claiming kids, we ain't even letting your claim
Speaker 1: to the end of February. So they're making our little
Speaker 1: motherfuckers claim March or some shit like that. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: nigga don't get nothing. Struggling, yeah, struggle a money, yeah,
Speaker 1: but love it. But love it. I say, y'all niggas
Speaker 1: gotta stick it out for an extra month. So why
Speaker 1: are people are women? You think women are able to
Speaker 1: ide the fact that there is in that situation, but
Speaker 1: just deal with it that they just want somebody wait
Speaker 1: for that time because they know that they're gonna have
Speaker 1: someone around. That's graciousness. Because I'd be so single around
Speaker 1: this time. I would love it. Oh, I'd be blocking them,
Speaker 1: So how they Nope, Nope, nope, nope, But but I'm
Speaker 1: so happy right now. I don't need nobody because I
Speaker 1: got the tax check coming. That's all the thing I
Speaker 1: need to hold me. Then you got to think about
Speaker 1: these dudes. I here selling these dreams. Give me. What
Speaker 1: they need to do is data. If a nigga said,
Speaker 1: you give him tax check? Come like these men cutting
Speaker 1: y'all off, These y'all make it. I told no check
Speaker 1: then checked. Let's ask you a question, because see, ain't
Speaker 1: no check mand you that you're starting to change your
Speaker 1: position on thing? No? Are you the perspective right there?
Speaker 1: The women need to quit being used, So what I'm
Speaker 1: saying there? All right? So what about the desperate women
Speaker 1: who want to be loved and a paid be desperate
Speaker 1: up until time come for you to get that change?
Speaker 1: If you're gonna be desperate with your money and take
Speaker 1: a vacation and relax or something, so I don't take
Speaker 1: him with you? Who I love relaxing alone? Would you
Speaker 1: go out of telling about yourself? Yeah? I have before.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: tell about myself. I'm not like you know, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: like be Do women get excited about like I'm going
Speaker 1: with my dude hotel? I would definitely love to travel.
Speaker 1: I love to travel more with my man versus the
Speaker 1: girl because I'd be thinking that shit fake? Because you
Speaker 1: know me, I questioned, everything, but I'm respect every women
Speaker 1: love to travel with their man over their friends. One
Speaker 1: person do things together versus because you know, something the
Speaker 1: old more like your guy gonna be more easy going,
Speaker 1: like he want to do what you want to do,
Speaker 1: not say anything about you, but you know, it's like,
Speaker 1: you know when it's a different a lot of different females,
Speaker 1: I don't want to do this. You know, your guy like, okay, baby,
Speaker 1: whatever you want to eat, you know, yeah, yeah, let's
Speaker 1: go to the beach. Let's go. Yeah. And so you know,
Speaker 1: because I'm I've never really had said in my life, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm so excited. So when a girl says that, to know,
Speaker 1: I've never said I'm excited, guys don't get Guys don't
Speaker 1: get it. Guys never do because I'll always be like,
Speaker 1: you know, in the past, I'm like, you're not excited.
Speaker 1: I mean that guys are excited that their woman is excited. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a cool thing, but but I sometimes think, real,
Speaker 1: you real, it's like the lady being excited, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: being happy, happy, happy on a triple her man though,
Speaker 1: That's like what I'm saying is she's happy about the triple,
Speaker 1: she happy about going with me. On the trip. Is
Speaker 1: that what you're asking? I don't know. It's just like
Speaker 1: I don't be knowing what it is. I'd be more
Speaker 1: so like is it real in terms of is she
Speaker 1: really excited about us? Because I've seen you. I'm saying,
Speaker 1: what type of excitement you're looking for? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm saying with somebody says they said it to me,
Speaker 1: like because I got out of the country, another trip
Speaker 1: coming and the person I'm going with. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Just she like sounds just so excited about
Speaker 1: It's created memories with you, like having fun with you,
Speaker 1: like I'm telling you, I'm telling you she like that
Speaker 1: like this, Yes, Like that's that's a beautiful feeling. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie and I don't, like I said, I
Speaker 1: haven't been out of the country and stuff with my
Speaker 1: significant other. It's a beautiful feeling. Then you feel so
Speaker 1: safe and secure you with your man, you know, and
Speaker 1: she gonna happen. Everything's gonna be perfect exactly how you up.
Speaker 1: You know, we was having a conversation in the shop
Speaker 1: the other day that was that was really interesting to me,
Speaker 1: and uh, it just popped in my head. I really
Speaker 1: don't know why. But it was about because we ain't
Speaker 1: gotten that much longer. Um, but it was about Fallacio
Speaker 1: that went all the way left. Can we get the fact?
Speaker 1: Don't something? So what? So we we spoke about what
Speaker 1: was the appropriate time in which a man should expect
Speaker 1: and a woman should be willing to give a felaciot.
Speaker 1: What did you say? Of course? Um, first, I I
Speaker 1: my expectations are every day. I'm not fucking you if
Speaker 1: if I can't get money, he's saying, the first time
Speaker 1: y'all have sex, you gotta suck. Oh that was always
Speaker 1: thood like how many podcasts? Right? Yeah? Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: it goes with it does go with six, you know.
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna say like I'm the like just
Speaker 1: just because I'm just looking at it against because I like,
Speaker 1: if I'm in a relationship with a guy and like,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I enjoy it first six I'm
Speaker 1: talking about I enjoy it first time. Oh he didn't
Speaker 1: say first, He said how many times? When is it? Okay?
Speaker 1: When first? So for me, it's first for me first
Speaker 1: time because first of all, I ain't pressed for your
Speaker 1: pussy nowhere, So we might be kicking as far as
Speaker 1: us being the relationship traveling issue, Like, so, so do
Speaker 1: you think first of all women, let me be clear,
Speaker 1: I know that a lot of I'm gonna say I
Speaker 1: agree with that. Uh, let the record reflect, yeah, understand
Speaker 1: me that the record reflect that. There's been a lot
Speaker 1: of flat yo giving on the first day, you understand,
Speaker 1: which is fine. I'm with it, but I'm with it.
Speaker 1: I'm if I feel like I wanna fuck you, I
Speaker 1: can eat your pussy. I don't understand the whole You
Speaker 1: can fuck me, but I don't want to suck your dick.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I don't understand. I mean,
Speaker 1: I mean that's like a little personal damn, Like what
Speaker 1: is the head? Yeah, because I mean even with me,
Speaker 1: Like I'm just saying it is. But I'm saying even
Speaker 1: if I'm like, if it's like our first time or something,
Speaker 1: I don't even want you down there on my pussy
Speaker 1: head doing holiday, that's fine, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So I don't that's kind of personal said first time,
Speaker 1: and then like I said, even my pussy is personal,
Speaker 1: in your dick is personal too. But I mean, if
Speaker 1: we got a condom on and holiday, so are we
Speaker 1: fucking prematurely are you? Are you guys fucking right? Maybe
Speaker 1: if she was giving you head with a condom, I'm
Speaker 1: not doing nothing. That's why it's a line right there,
Speaker 1: because a lot of people feel like, if I'm not
Speaker 1: having raw sex with this person, why would I have
Speaker 1: unprotected felacio or with this person? I like, what kind
Speaker 1: of personal sex I got feel for one people's I
Speaker 1: gotta fuck with you and feel something for me to
Speaker 1: just do that first of all having sex with somebody
Speaker 1: and they will never get here exactly because sometimes you
Speaker 1: might just be going on for what caliber individual it's
Speaker 1: going on. I'm telling you what's going on. It's going on,
Speaker 1: so heard on what's going on? Because I'm lost that
Speaker 1: people are fucking and not getting on flacip, Yes, you
Speaker 1: don't think that's going on. I'm never in that situation. Never.
Speaker 1: We're not speaking personally about you. I'm talking about guys
Speaker 1: like me. I don't. I know it's not a lot
Speaker 1: of guys like you. So what I'm saying, right, but
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm saying certain caliber thuds, and I know
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. What I'm saying is this,
Speaker 1: are y'all fucking befoult? Not y'all per se. All women
Speaker 1: fucking before they're absolutely ready, absolutely ready. Have y'all ever
Speaker 1: felt like kind of bagged into a corner and like, no,
Speaker 1: I haven't personally got up, but it's the right thing.
Speaker 1: I haven't personally because I'm not doing it. I hold
Speaker 1: that on your ass forever if I feel like it.
Speaker 1: And then sometimes I go with the floor if I'm
Speaker 1: in the moment sh being done, it's been, it's been done.
Speaker 1: I mean, you can't. I'm the type of person I
Speaker 1: go with the flow what I'm saying. If it's something
Speaker 1: I don't feel like, I don't have a problem, and
Speaker 1: you know, like look broke, keep your hands to yourself.
Speaker 1: You know we're kicking it, we're chilling, were cool. But
Speaker 1: if it's a motherfucking feeling, where were chick killing? Chilling
Speaker 1: and kicking And I'm like a little bits, Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: up up, It's all the way up. But see my
Speaker 1: thing is though, so y'all saying y'all haven't been damn
Speaker 1: thee like put in a position with its like this
Speaker 1: the right thing. We haven't personally, but I know that
Speaker 1: there's women who probably have. Like I said, some women
Speaker 1: are weak and Some people are desperate, some are insecure,
Speaker 1: some just you know, want to give a man everything
Speaker 1: they need and completely put their knees on the backburner.
Speaker 1: So I know it's a woman who have been to
Speaker 1: explain that. So like women that want to give a
Speaker 1: man everything they need and then put their knees on
Speaker 1: the backburn I think sometimes people can from the outside
Speaker 1: look in see that in relationships, Like I think that
Speaker 1: some people making look at my situation and say, it
Speaker 1: seems like that girl just puts all her needs on
Speaker 1: the backburner and just does what people look like. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, So, um, what are some of the
Speaker 1: needs that like that y'all think are being ignored on
Speaker 1: the man's side, like that the woman needs because I
Speaker 1: needs a totally difference like me and what we need
Speaker 1: from my women. It's totally different than what y'all need
Speaker 1: from us, you know what I'm saying. Like sometimes I
Speaker 1: can say it could be time and attention. That's probably
Speaker 1: no one of them. Now you got broken niggas with
Speaker 1: But that's what I was about to say. That's probably
Speaker 1: one of the things. But even as a working east,
Speaker 1: even as a working man, you have to balance life
Speaker 1: is about balance. So you can't be twenty four hours
Speaker 1: a day you work and working in every night you're
Speaker 1: coming into me at three o'clock in the morning. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we feel through rich. You got everything we need. But damn, nigga,
Speaker 1: I want you to hold me sometimes. I want to
Speaker 1: feel you beside me. I don't want to always sleep
Speaker 1: in this big ass house and biggest bed alone because
Speaker 1: you got making thousands of millions of dollars every day
Speaker 1: you got y'all, do you jeopardize foundation and structure? Because
Speaker 1: see what I've noticed as I've getting older, it's the structure.
Speaker 1: It is very hard to find in this world. And
Speaker 1: I think that's why a lot of women take a
Speaker 1: liking to me because it's like this nigga be kind
Speaker 1: of having structure. My thing is when when you have
Speaker 1: structure in your life, do you jep to ask that
Speaker 1: for the sake of like, oh, you're not holding me?
Speaker 1: Or do you hold on? And no, because the training
Speaker 1: deny like no, it's definitely a time and place for
Speaker 1: that for you to be even time and I'm tension
Speaker 1: and all of that. If we I mean living pole broken,
Speaker 1: ugly and you are trying to work and get the money.
Speaker 1: I can't be like, damn, you ain't gonna come in
Speaker 1: a home, bitch. We ain't even got no food, Like,
Speaker 1: come on them. But if we on this level where
Speaker 1: we gotta foundation time, just one of them gotta have more,
Speaker 1: gotta have more, gotta have more. Type people like baby,
Speaker 1: they can kill your relationships off. It's love more important
Speaker 1: than I mean it's money or your your job, more
Speaker 1: important than your family and your love life and your
Speaker 1: you know, that's really your livelihood. People get confused, like, yes,
Speaker 1: we do need money and jobs and all this shit
Speaker 1: to survive. But at the end of the day, you
Speaker 1: can ask plenty motherfuckers. It's lonely at the top. Motherfucker's
Speaker 1: a dog. Everybody they love forget about. People needn't get
Speaker 1: out of money. And then they just they it's just
Speaker 1: them and their money, and they like damn, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: and I've seen the Last Night, um, and see that's
Speaker 1: the thing about the money and about the success and
Speaker 1: all that. It kind of elienates you because people don't
Speaker 1: understand your struggle no more. I've seen Rollo go on
Speaker 1: Instagram and like, man, they keep asking me for money,
Speaker 1: and don't ask me for no money and shit because
Speaker 1: niggas probably add them like you gotta think broad. They
Speaker 1: see it's ahead from me and something in the picture
Speaker 1: of the videos that he got shit going on too.
Speaker 1: Niggas had a look at the niggas this pump faking
Speaker 1: to the women, be having the sobbage stories to the men.
Speaker 1: My thing gets take that side of story and do
Speaker 1: some weeddy because nigga, I came from where you came
Speaker 1: from and what I'm saying. So, but this is the thing,
Speaker 1: the women being some some of the men they be
Speaker 1: got them and so they be lost. They be thinking
Speaker 1: they me and something, and you'd be like, damn, But
Speaker 1: that's because a woman, a woman believes whoever her man
Speaker 1: tells him that he is off the back. When you
Speaker 1: meet a man, you don't go and say, I mean
Speaker 1: such and such, what's his You can come and tell
Speaker 1: him you can And then, like you said, we today
Speaker 1: social media you can be whoever the fuck you want
Speaker 1: to be. Yeah, a girl can look on your social
Speaker 1: media like you could be whoever. It's next week. We're
Speaker 1: gonna talk about that next week. Because social media dating
Speaker 1: is a real thing. Because we can't ignore the Internet.
Speaker 1: It's here, it's here to stay. It ain't going nowhere,
Speaker 1: and there's a lot of shit that can happen on
Speaker 1: social media. There has been another great episode of It's
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