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Speaker 1: All right, guys, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter

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Speaker 1: gonna read this one today. So before I actually read

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Speaker 1: the letter, I have to do a disclaimer here and

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Speaker 1: ask you please listen to the entire letter. It is

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Speaker 1: not what you'd think. Okay, it's gonna get a little

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Speaker 1: crazy in the middle, but stick with me, all right. Please,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Buggle up, hold on tight. We got it

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Speaker 1: for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject. You

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Speaker 1: can't have your cake and eat it too. All right,

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Speaker 1: one more time, you can't have your cake and eat

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Speaker 1: it too. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been dating a guy

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Speaker 1: for six months and he's one of the sweetest men

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Speaker 1: that I've ever met. This weekend, he disclosed some information

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Speaker 1: to me and I need your opinion. He and I

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Speaker 1: met when I moved out of my condo. He was

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Speaker 1: a supervisor of the moving company that I used, and

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Speaker 1: he was very professional and handsome. And when he asked

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Speaker 1: me out, I accepted. We started out as friends and

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Speaker 1: now we're in a relationship. On our first date, he

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Speaker 1: said his favorite thing about me was my skin tone

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Speaker 1: and how soft and supple it looks. I have not

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Speaker 1: had that much attention in a while, so I was overjoyed.

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Speaker 1: Whenever we go out, he caresses my skin with his

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Speaker 1: great big hands and kisses my shoulders and neck. We

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Speaker 1: finally got intimate over the weekend, and it was everything

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Speaker 1: I hoped for I had hoped for, but then it

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Speaker 1: got tricky. After sex, we were lying in bed and

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Speaker 1: as usual, he was rubbing on me and kept saying

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Speaker 1: how he loves my skin. He then whispered to me,

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Speaker 1: I just want to eat you. I giggled and turned

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Speaker 1: to look at him, thinking he wanted to go for

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Speaker 1: round two. But then he said to me, no, I

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Speaker 1: literally want to eat you. I looked at this man

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Speaker 1: and asked him to repeat himself. He said he fantasizes

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Speaker 1: about eating a part of a woman's body, and it's

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Speaker 1: a big fetish that he has not been able to

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Speaker 1: live that out. He elaborated that overseas it's a big

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Speaker 1: thing where a man will take part of a woman's

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Speaker 1: buttocks and eat it. He said, he's been fascinated by

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Speaker 1: cannibalism since he was young, but this is just a

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Speaker 1: fetish and nothing serious. You hurt me? He okay, that's

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Speaker 1: he said, he's been fascinated. Let me get through the letter,

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Speaker 1: please deve. He said, he's been fascinated by cannibalism, yes,

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Speaker 1: since he was young, but that but this is just

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Speaker 1: a fetish and nothing serious. So I need to know

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Speaker 1: if this is really just a fetish or should I

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Speaker 1: run before it's too late? Have you ever heard of such?

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Speaker 1: I'm falling for this guy, but I don't want to

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Speaker 1: end up with my butt in a frying pan. Please

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Speaker 1: help me? Okay, I mean all I can say initially

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Speaker 1: is what wth? I mean? Really? Did I read this correctly?

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Speaker 1: Like you know you said in the letter? Did you

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Speaker 1: hear this correctly? People don't eat people, That's not what

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Speaker 1: we do. What is he talking about? I mean, this

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Speaker 1: is a fantasy he hasn't been able to live out yet. Listen.

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Speaker 1: Sure he could be just kidding and this could just

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Speaker 1: be a fantasy and he doesn't really mean this. Sure

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Speaker 1: a booty burger? I mean, he could just be kidding.

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Speaker 1: But but why take this chance? I mean, seriously, he

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Speaker 1: knows too much about it, He's researched it. Uh. No,

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Speaker 1: to answer your question, we've never heard of such cannibalism

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Speaker 1: and things like this. I mean we know what it is,

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Speaker 1: of course, but we haven't literally heard of anyone doing this.

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Speaker 1: And yes, I would run. He sounds too freaky. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he sounds too freaky and crazy to me. That's not

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Speaker 1: freaky to you. That's beyond. That's beyond. Yeah, it's beyond. Uh.

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Speaker 1: He wants to literally eat you. The term is called

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Speaker 1: veraire philia. If you guys want to know vare philia.

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Speaker 1: All right, you know that? All right, Steve, I'm done.

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Speaker 1: I think she should. This is too crazy. Well, let's

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Speaker 1: go over the letter and just go along on the

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Speaker 1: journey that this letter was taken us all day six

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Speaker 1: moms dating this man wanted the sweetest men she ever mad.

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Speaker 1: You know. He was a supervisor of a moving company

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Speaker 1: that moved her, professional, handsome, and so he asked her out.

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Speaker 1: She said, all right, Well, they started out as friends

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Speaker 1: The attention about to dry this girl crazy. She was

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Speaker 1: over joy When we go out, he'd be caressing your

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Speaker 1: moving hand. You know, he got the big ass hand.

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Speaker 1: He picked up frigerators. Gosh, you're this big man ass

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Speaker 1: hand kissing all over your shoulder. You got enter it

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Speaker 1: over the weekend and large jeesus, who it was everything.

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Speaker 1: Then it got tricking after sex. Y'all was laying in bed,

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Speaker 1: you know, just like, oh, you're just rubbing on you

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Speaker 1: kept saying, love your skin, Denny whisper, I just want

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Speaker 1: to eat now, we've all heard this before. Careful, alright,

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Speaker 1: let's don't ask me one, Steve. Hang on. We'll have

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Speaker 1: boo of your response coming up at twenty three after

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Speaker 1: the hour. Subject of today's letter. You can't have your

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Speaker 1: cake and eat it too. We'll get back into it

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, Let's get

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Speaker 1: back into the letter. You can't have your cake and

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Speaker 1: eat it too. Let's recap. Ain't no damn recap. She

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Speaker 1: didn't got to movie company boy, she'd have fell in

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Speaker 1: love with her and he out on the date with

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Speaker 1: her talk about the favorite thing about her was her

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Speaker 1: skin tone and hose off and supple. Oh, she hadn't

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Speaker 1: had this kind of tension in the while. She was

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Speaker 1: overjoyed go out caressing the skin, had the great big

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Speaker 1: hands kissing all on her shoulder. He had the moving

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Speaker 1: man hand. Yeah, picking flipping, taking whole rugs down by self,

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Speaker 1: down the steps, picking up on walls and moving entertainment sinners,

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Speaker 1: hardest boy power. So you finally got intimate over the

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Speaker 1: weekend and Lord Emercy, it was everything she hoped for

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Speaker 1: and right after she said everything I hope folk period.

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Speaker 1: But then it got tricky. Oh. They laying up in

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Speaker 1: the in the after glow, they laying in bed just

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Speaker 1: like usually, just rubbing on me, and they kept how

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Speaker 1: much he loved my skin. Then he whispered to me,

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Speaker 1: I just now. She giggle turned because she won't to

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Speaker 1: say yes to this. That's what the giggle was about,

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Speaker 1: and turned and looked at him, thinking he wanted to

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Speaker 1: go for a round two. Na. No, now he was

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Speaker 1: hoping that he was talking about what you thought he

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Speaker 1: But then he said to me, no, I literally won't it.

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Speaker 1: I looked at this man and I asked him to

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Speaker 1: repeat himself, because you know what, if that's what you

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Speaker 1: really want to do, just gold say it to me.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know what you mean by literally, so

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Speaker 1: I asked him to repeat himself. He said that he

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Speaker 1: fantasizes about eating a part of a woman's and it's

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Speaker 1: out yet. Now at this point, you need to be

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Speaker 1: You need to start eyeing his ass because this this

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Speaker 1: it's a big thing where a man would take part

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Speaker 1: of a woman's buttox and eat it. Now, I don't

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Speaker 1: know wearing this letter. You kept typing, but this would

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Speaker 1: have been a hard letter to type. You're want you what?

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Speaker 1: I don't know who this sister is, but this conversation

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Speaker 1: with you want to eat, You're gonna take you, You're

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Speaker 1: gonna cut who ass, hold on any words. You're crazy.

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Speaker 1: He said. It's fast needed by candles cannibalism since he

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Speaker 1: was young. But this is just to fetish and nothing

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Speaker 1: says so I need to know if this is really

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Speaker 1: just to fetish or should I run before it's too late?

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Speaker 1: What the hell did you just ask us? You're trying

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Speaker 1: to figure out if this is a fetish? A man

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Speaker 1: just told you that he wanted to a slice of

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Speaker 1: your ass, just you know, like his cheese, like like

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Speaker 1: you just a ham a honey break, sitting up on

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Speaker 1: the table. It was just wanting a slice of your ass.

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Speaker 1: Cause now he'd talk about this overseas. He been rubbing

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Speaker 1: on your skin. Now, love the texture. Now he said

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Speaker 1: he'd been fascinated by Canada canibalism since he was young.

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Speaker 1: But this just to fetish it? Nothing says now here

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Speaker 1: know if this is really a fetish or should I

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Speaker 1: run for us too late? Have you ever heard, oh, such,

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Speaker 1: I'm falling for this guy, but I don't want to

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Speaker 1: so what is you're typing? Fall? Now? You might be

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Speaker 1: falling for this guy, but you ain't gonna be able

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Speaker 1: navid What you're gonna wake up one night numb? You

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna know what's going on? And he gonna be

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Speaker 1: sitting over there with a plate with some hot sauce,

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Speaker 1: and he's gonna have a napkin rounding that baby. What

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Speaker 1: you eat? Now, he'd numbed you while you sleep. You

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Speaker 1: ain't up, your little booty just tingling. You don't know

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Speaker 1: half of it. It's over there on that damn plate,

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Speaker 1: chewing your answer. You don't even know it. Joe stupid

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Speaker 1: behind Tom, have you ever heard of such a thing? Hell, no,

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Speaker 1: we're black people. Yeah, well no, we black people. The

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Speaker 1: first letter was kind of sexy. He he hall keep

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Speaker 1: talking about taking a slice of your ass, and you

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Speaker 1: don't learn enough and you send up in here. I

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Speaker 1: frying pan. But go ahead, your little biceps and that

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Speaker 1: everything else like a little five meat. Now, all right, look,

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Speaker 1: we gotta get rid of this food. We gotta let

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Speaker 1: the people know that they can email or instagram us

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Speaker 1: their email us. Nothing like this again on the Strawberry

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