1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can'tfully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: the Black Effects. And just like that, we're back with 3 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 1: yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl. 4 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:19,760 Speaker 2: Just hilarious. 5 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: What I be doing, I'll be fixing mess and it 6 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,440 Speaker 1: is what it is, okay, all right, and I'm here 7 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 1: with my best friend of games. So I get I 8 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: saw a lot of comments, y'all happier when she on. 9 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: The ratings is higher when she on because they like you. 10 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 2: So say what's up? What's a So that's what say? Say? 11 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 2: Say it about it? I think you can do better 12 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 2: than that. What's up? 13 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:45,959 Speaker 1: Do a little bit better? One more for the one time? 14 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,480 Speaker 1: Say it for the people on a back? Baby, what's up? 15 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 2: What's up? Guys? Now? 16 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 1: If I have said there, say it for the gays 17 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: in the back, she'd have been standing screaming, shouting and 18 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: hanging from the roof. All right, all right, so let 19 00:00:57,520 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: me tell you something right now. Well, we're not gonna 20 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: do is talk about it, talk about us, the gays, 21 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: Oh y'all. Oh, okay, I know us, baby, I'm not gay, 22 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: not not gay. I was, but I am not now, thanks, 23 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: all right? I mean it was cool, but. 24 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 2: I'm a big straighty All right, look, we're gonna jump 25 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 2: straight in. We got a voice membo today. 26 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,199 Speaker 1: Y'all do not know how happy I am after reading 27 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: them long ass, incomplete ass sentences that sy'all be sending me. 28 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: But I can't help because I'm anna be okay. I know, 29 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: I know I'll be struggling to read over this. 30 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 2: Motherfucker. You be struggling right with me. I don't know. 31 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 3: I know. 32 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 2: Listen, we ain't gonna struggle to day though. 33 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: This is an update, the first one i'm gonna jump into. 34 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: So she sent two paragraphs commenting on the last week's episode, 35 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: and then she sent a voice memo so we can 36 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: jump into our mess. 37 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: So I'm gonna read her comment first. 38 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: She said, I'm listening to the best the episode, and 39 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: I'm listening to y'all joke about these voice notes bruh, 40 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: and then sent a. 41 00:01:55,920 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 2: Bunch of middle finger emojis and said, I. 42 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: Sent some, but for real, the situation is worse now 43 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: and I'm even more lost on what to do with 44 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: maybe what not to do? Fuck these incomplete stories. I 45 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: would like some help please. All Right, I'm sorry, I'm 46 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:13,079 Speaker 1: always fussing about I ain't got no voice notes, and 47 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 1: y'all keep typing these lung progress and meanwhile, I motherfucking answers, 48 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: like bitch, I sent voice notes, and. 49 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 2: You keep skipping over my shit. 50 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: All right, So we're gonna get into our story, okay, okay, 51 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out if I ever got into 52 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 1: our story before or not. I felt like I did, 53 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: and I feel like she missed that episode because I 54 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: did this story before. But now she said some shit 55 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: got worse, So we're going to jump into the news story. 56 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 2: There we go. 57 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 4: So after all of that happened, and I told you. 58 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 3: About her trying to do some more wildness, and I 59 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 3: didn't know if I should tell her or not. I 60 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 3: did end up telling her because she kept talking about 61 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 3: it and I just was like, girl, like really enjoy it. 62 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 4: Like you really sound like a victim right now. 63 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:57,679 Speaker 3: And I I don't understand why, because nobody told you 64 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 3: to go ahead and go chill with anybody. So now, 65 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 3: fast forward, fast forward, fast forward, different situation. 66 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 4: She sends a lot of reels. 67 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 1: Right. 68 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 3: I got tired of people sending me real so I 69 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 3: started demanding for people to stop setting me. 70 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:12,239 Speaker 4: Didn't got damn reels. 71 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 3: It's getting too much. Notifications is out the ass every morning. 72 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 2: Turn them off then, girl. 73 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 3: I mean so like I saw the notification and I 74 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 3: told her, like, bro, stop sending the reels. Mind you, 75 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 3: this is my friend of fifteen years pretty much, so 76 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 3: like really I felt like I can just talk to 77 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 3: her like I would talk to my brothers because she's 78 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 3: pretty much my sister, because she's around all of my family, right, 79 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 3: So so yeah, I was like, bro, so I'm sending 80 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 3: me so many reels, Like it's at a point where 81 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 3: I feel like I want to block you, and I 82 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 3: really shouldn't have to, Like why I don't even. 83 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 4: Watch these reels. 84 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 3: We don't talk about them, we don't engage with them, 85 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 3: like you just sending them and then that's it. Just 86 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 3: keep setting them. I don't even send you reels. So 87 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 3: I was sending her. 88 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 4: I'm like, I like spiritual stuff and. 89 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 3: Her and I talk about a bunch of different things, 90 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 3: and so like there's this one lady that I would 91 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 3: send her a horsecope from where also I also have 92 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:07,119 Speaker 3: to say she is a Pisces and Pisces is in 93 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 3: my birth turn. So yeah, like I had sent her 94 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 3: a couple of things, so I went to the page 95 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 3: to see if she had like looked at it, and 96 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 3: the messages came up weird. So I asked her, hey, 97 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 3: did you even follow me? And she was like, no, 98 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:23,279 Speaker 3: I am blocked you. I mean I blocked you. And 99 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 3: I was like why why, she says, so to prevent 100 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 3: you from getting reels. 101 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't gonna lie. 102 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 1: You made that shit a big deal her sending you reels, 103 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: and all you gotta do is look at them or 104 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 1: not look at them. You ain't got to open them 105 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 1: and look at them boom. You know what I mean, 106 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: cut them up, fucking okay, notifications off if you're trying 107 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: to save your battery off is just plain and simple 108 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 1: and simply annoying to you. You don't got to open 109 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 1: them up boo. So, I mean, it was petty for 110 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: her to block you, but that was just her being 111 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: petty because you you made a petty argument of you 112 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: not wanting reels being sent to you. 113 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 2: Me and my best friend we sent reels all day 114 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 2: and we never talk about them. We just send them. 115 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 2: That's how we communicate them. That's what it is. 116 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 4: And so yeah, so now. 117 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 3: She so then I laughed at it, and I was like, 118 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 3: that's mad petty, like all you had to. 119 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 4: Do was just stop clicking my name. 120 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 3: And I felt the way more so because like you. 121 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 4: Just blocked and didn't say nothing. 122 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 3: Mind you, I'm the type of person that I will 123 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 3: definitely block and say something. I would yeah, but oh 124 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 3: you know what, I'm let me take that back, because 125 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 3: I did block her a couple of years ago because 126 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,359 Speaker 3: she used to project like her size problem seem to me, 127 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 3: like her size insecurities and I'm a stity girl. 128 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 4: I never really had a problem with my size. 129 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 3: It's only on some other people feel like they want 130 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 3: to say something or clown about it. They want to 131 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 3: really pay attention and so and I won't even say 132 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 3: that's now. 133 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 4: But like, you know, definitely around that time, so I 134 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 4: did block. 135 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 3: Her because I didn't know how to tell her nicely, 136 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,359 Speaker 3: and I would have just been rude. And I know 137 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 3: that I can hit way below the belt. I'll go 138 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 3: to hell with viers insults. So I didn't want to 139 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 3: like do that because I do love her. I just 140 00:05:58,120 --> 00:05:59,239 Speaker 3: didn't like what she was saying. 141 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 2: Then wait, why are y'all go to hell? Though? That's 142 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 2: how it be sometimes for your friend? 143 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 1: I wish the fuck you would go to hell on me, bitch, 144 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:08,919 Speaker 1: and you already knew what's going on. 145 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 2: Baby, y'all go to hell with you every time. 146 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, you did need helling back, but yeah, I hey, 147 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: look you see how you just said all you had 148 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 1: to do was stop clicking my name? Why did you 149 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 1: have to block me? And then don't say nothing? At 150 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: least if you're gonna block me, be woman enough to 151 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 1: tell me what's going on. Like, all right, you complaining 152 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 1: about the reels, I'm blocking you. But just like you said, 153 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: all she had to do was not click your name. 154 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 1: That's all you had to do, was not click her name. 155 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: When you see she's sending these childish ass rails. If 156 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 1: she already told her that she don't want them, you 157 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 1: know she don't like them. 158 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna know what you sent me. I have 159 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 2: to click it to know that you said this to me. 160 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, well, she complaining about her sending her 161 00:06:56,440 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: reels constantly. I don't look at them, I don't like, 162 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: don't send them to me. But she sends her shit 163 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: and she expects for her to open it and look 164 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 1: at it because she's spiritual. 165 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 2: But because what she's sending is spiritual, it's more. 166 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: Okay, but the girl say she didn't like the spiritual. 167 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 2: Post No, she just didn't like that. She said, what's 168 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,239 Speaker 2: the problem. She made a big deal of her sending 169 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 2: her reels friends do it all day. 170 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 3: Girl. 171 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn if she told her that 172 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 1: she don't like the damn reels, don't turn the random. 173 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 2: Okay, Now, the moment that. 174 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: You say I don't like the spiritual readings, then this 175 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: friend can you don't send it? And she can't get 176 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 1: up saying you don't send it because I already voice 177 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: to you and communicated with you. 178 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 2: With I don't let go. 179 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: Okay, hold up, hold up, I know this shit getting good. 180 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: But listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial. 181 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen. 182 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 3: I also have had to work on my delivery, so 183 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 3: you know, it's just like like the time that we. 184 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 4: Wasn't talking and stuff like, I'm. 185 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 3: Just kind of through in my life and it's just 186 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 3: realizing like, okay, well I half the relationship. I just 187 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 3: don't really know how to tell her why we stopped 188 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 3: talking because somebody something like that. 189 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 4: So anyways, and she didn't end up hit me up. 190 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 3: I did end up telling her, and then we had 191 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 3: a whole conversation and so now this is. 192 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 4: Where we are. So yeah. 193 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 3: So I told her, like, bro, like why you can't 194 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 3: just not send me reels? 195 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:13,679 Speaker 4: Like why is this so hard? 196 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 3: She was like, oh, well, thank you for your understanding 197 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 3: for or something. 198 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 4: Like that, and so I was like, and I really 199 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 4: didn't want to argue. 200 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 5: I was like, all right, well cool, I. 201 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 4: Copy pretty much. Copy all right, thank you, I understand. 202 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 4: I appreciate your mind. 203 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: You. 204 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 3: When I asked a couple of people to stop sending 205 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 3: me real no, I told them I told him to 206 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 3: stop sending me reals, I said, thank you. 207 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 4: I love you, because I wasn't trying to be malicious. 208 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 4: It's just like I never asked for all of this stuff. 209 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 3: Like I really didn't, and every time I did ask, 210 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:41,679 Speaker 3: she kept blowing it off. 211 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 4: So I was like, all right, now I gotta give. 212 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: Yo, what is the motherfucker is she sending you porn 213 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:51,559 Speaker 1: or the rituals? And what the how is she sending 214 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: you here? Because that ship has tainted in your spirit? 215 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:56,559 Speaker 2: You do not like it? Lord? 216 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, now I got to actually get. 217 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 1: I don't even know how to. 218 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 4: I just got to put my foot down on. 219 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 3: It like it's now it's just seeming like a joke 220 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,680 Speaker 3: and I really not here for it. I actually found 221 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 3: out that my aunt blocked me too, which I just feel, 222 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 3: in my opinion, is weird. I get that everybody you know, 223 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 3: like does things in their own way and stuff like that, 224 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 3: but it's just like you just really don't have to 225 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 3: click my name, like in my opinion, it's just just 226 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 3: my opinion. Now moving on, we haven't talked since then, 227 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 3: since that time when I asked her, Now, the next day, 228 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 3: her and I was working an event, or maybe like 229 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 3: the day after, her and I was working an event 230 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 3: like a wedding and stuff, and so we're in the car, 231 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 3: and I'm not the type of person that if you 232 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 3: don't talk about something, we're not about to be back 233 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 3: cool until we talk about the shit. 234 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 4: So I got in the car, she said hello, I said, 235 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 4: what's up. 236 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 3: I put my headphones in because I started watching some 237 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 3: videos and stuff like that, and she wasn't saying anything 238 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 3: to me. 239 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 1: To my little child, I hope it wasn't real you 240 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 1: was watching, because I knew you would have blew up 241 00:09:58,520 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 1: in that car. 242 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 3: So to my knowledge, she wasn't talking to me, And 243 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 3: she didn't like tap me or anything like that to 244 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:08,959 Speaker 3: like make me. 245 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 4: Like turn to her or acknowledge her or something. I'm 246 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,319 Speaker 4: just in my phone at this point, so and I'm 247 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 4: not really thinking anything of it. 248 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 3: So now we get to the place we're taking out 249 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 3: like the equipment that. 250 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 4: We need, and she dropped something. Now the best friend 251 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 4: of me, I wanted to make. 252 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 3: More fun of her, but I was just like, bro, 253 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 3: why did. 254 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 4: You just wait? Mind you? This is like a cloud machine. 255 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 4: I don't think you've ever seen a cloud machine or 256 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 4: if you have, it's heavy, like it's a case that 257 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 4: come with it and everything. So she tried to pick 258 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 4: that up out of the trunk of a van tower. 259 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 4: Why she's just about my size? Why are you doing that? 260 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 4: So I was like, bro, why are you just in 261 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 4: wait for me? 262 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 3: And I kind of said it with like a little smirk, 263 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 3: who little smile, like I really. 264 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 4: Wasn't being serious. She was like, well, you ain't have 265 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 4: to say nothing, like why are you coming at me? What? 266 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 5: What do you mean? 267 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:55,320 Speaker 4: Why am I coming at you? How am I coming 268 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:56,319 Speaker 4: at you? 269 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 6: See? 270 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 4: You had an attitude the whole time. 271 00:10:58,520 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, was supposed to talk. 272 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:02,599 Speaker 3: She said, you had an attitude the whole time, the 273 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 3: whole car ride and stuff like that. 274 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 4: And I'm like, how how did I have an attitude? 275 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 4: I said, Oh, so you assume you assume I had 276 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 4: an attitude. 277 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 2: Both of y'all answer, she just. 278 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 4: Walked away or I don't know what she oh, And then. 279 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 3: When she said you had an attitude, she like banged 280 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 3: on the case. And so I was like, what in 281 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 3: the hell is your problem? Like why are you being 282 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 3: so aggressive? 283 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 4: And so she didn't say nothing, and she just walked away. 284 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:27,079 Speaker 1: So then. 285 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:32,079 Speaker 4: So then what happened? So we're in the spot. 286 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all too was trying to figure out each other's temperature. 287 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:37,599 Speaker 2: Y'all can't. 288 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: Y'all can't communicate mentally, like you know, unless y'all got 289 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: some weird doctor stream shit going on, you know what 290 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,320 Speaker 1: I mean? Y'all both was trying to figure out each 291 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 1: other's temperature. Whether you say, whether you admit it or not, 292 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 1: you know, that's just how it is. 293 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 2: Y'all. 294 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: Both was quiet because y'all didn't know the other what 295 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 1: the other one was on. Y'all just know you from 296 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 1: your understanding, you was blocked, so you were so that 297 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 1: she an attitude with you, and she assumed you add 298 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 1: an attitude because you ain't say shit. You put the 299 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 1: headphones in the head down and then she dropped the 300 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 1: cloud machine and you laughed, you know what I mean. 301 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 3: So but yeah, like I said, fifteen years of friendship, 302 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 3: I'm gonna. 303 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 4: Talk to you like you're my sister because we've. 304 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 3: Known each other for just that damn well, you know, 305 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 3: and so and then I still I'm still confused that 306 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 3: to what attitude or like how I was coming at 307 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 3: her and stuff like that. 308 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 4: So I just felt like she felt away from that. 309 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 2: So now moving on, that's why you're talking out And I. 310 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 3: Was like, hey, so did you not do you have 311 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 3: a problem with me, like you don't want to be 312 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 3: friends anymore? 313 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 4: Or what's going on? Because I'm truly lost, like. 314 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 3: You were clearly bothered and you accusing me of having 315 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 3: an attitude and stuff when you're the one that dropped 316 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 3: this machine and you banging on the thing and everything 317 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:49,079 Speaker 3: and talking to me that aggressive. Now, mind you, I'm 318 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 3: the one to first step up and start trying to 319 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 3: fight in my technically because I'm I'm pretty straightforward person. 320 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 3: So there's no reason for me for us to say 321 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 3: you're like having animosity and nobody says anything. 322 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 2: So but but why step up and try to fight? 323 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 3: So really and truly it's more so like really to 324 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 3: ask you the same question. 325 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 4: To ask you from the first time. 326 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 3: Really with like a friend, how how. 327 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 4: Do you maneuver with this type of situation? Like I 328 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 4: don't I don't have a problem with her. 329 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 3: I would like to be her friend, but at the 330 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 3: same time, oh, I'm sorry, I'm leaving out a park. 331 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:37,439 Speaker 4: So when I. 332 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 3: Texted her, she did text me back, but she was 333 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 3: basically like, oh, well, if you were my best friend, 334 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 3: you knew that you didn't have to say anything, or like, if. 335 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 4: You're supposed to be my best friend, why did you 336 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 4: say anything? 337 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 3: It was so unnecessary and you had an attitude the 338 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:55,079 Speaker 3: whole time, and you wasn't talking to me and stuff 339 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 3: and I was. And so then I texted her some 340 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 3: long messages and stuff, right but like really and truly 341 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 3: like for me. Oh and then after the messages she said, oh, 342 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 3: I don't have the capacity to go deeper right now, 343 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 3: And I said, okay, yeah. 344 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 1: No, what the fuck was in the messages? What the 345 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 1: just super deep a long messages? 346 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 2: What was going on? 347 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 1: Because you did just admit that you will be the 348 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 1: first to step up and fight, cause niggas is quiet 349 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 1: and you're, like me, you're trying to hit them with them. 350 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 1: You're trying to get active and shit on your sister. Basically, Now, 351 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: we got a commercial and if you click off this podcast, 352 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. 353 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 2: Listen. 354 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 3: So my thing is like, how is it that you 355 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 3: had all of this to say when I asked you? 356 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 3: You know the thing like this is now about to 357 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 3: be a conversation, So what because I had so much 358 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 3: more to say. 359 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 4: Like you can't go deeper into it now or whatever 360 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 4: it is. 361 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 3: I also feel like I don't really want to assume 362 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 3: anybody's like feelings, so. 363 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 4: I didn't really like believe in that part of it. 364 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 4: But yeah, you're still just like, yeah, what. 365 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 3: Type of I'm starting to feel like, what type of 366 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 3: best friend are you? You feel like you can't talk to. 367 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 4: Me and we already had a. 368 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 3: Whole falling out, Yeah, so now why are you not talking? 369 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 4: So yeah, I'm feeling away from that and. 370 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 3: So yeah, like just how would you move in with 371 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 3: this type of situation? 372 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 4: Like, because I. 373 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 3: Feel like this is a time limit type of thing, 374 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 3: and I really feel like this is more of like, 375 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 3: I don't know, it's maybe a boundary, because what the like, 376 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 3: why are you acting like we're new friends? 377 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 4: You get what I'm saying? So please, please please if 378 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 4: you can see. 379 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 3: This, I hope so, because all these I'm incomplete messages 380 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 3: and stories is getting all my nerves, like this is 381 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 3: taking up whole episodes of nonsense. Oh and let me 382 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 3: bring this up to I am a person who I'm 383 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 3: sorry I gotta yell because I'm. 384 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 4: Back on the work floor. 385 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 3: I am a person who has always vividly dreamt. I 386 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 3: don't know how else to explain it. If you've never 387 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 3: heard of it, I'm really too sure. It's just real 388 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 3: life shit. 389 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 4: Okay. 390 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 3: I had a dream with her and I that we 391 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 3: basically were like talking to each. 392 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 4: Other, but no words were coming out, and we were 393 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 4: just like confused, Like I was like, what the fuck 394 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 4: is she saying? She looking at me like what the 395 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 4: fuck is she saying? And I told her to dream. 396 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 3: And now I don't know what that would have really 397 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 3: done or anything, but I just feel like that was 398 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 3: spirit telling me that, like, Okay, y'all are going to 399 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 3: have communication issues. 400 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 4: But I feel like if we're yeah, like pay attention, 401 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 4: maybe we could work do it. But she making me 402 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 4: feel like I don't give a damn. 403 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 2: What you said about that she. 404 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 6: I'm just saying this like they're talking at each other 405 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:32,920 Speaker 6: and nobody's listening. M h, So that that definitely seems 406 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 6: symbolic for that. None of y'all listen, both neither one 407 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 6: of y'all listen, And then we need before I play 408 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 6: this last note because. 409 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 4: She's not finished. 410 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 2: Well, let me playing hold on then I'll get it there. 411 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 5: Oh and just playing this for the people people, all 412 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 5: your on your nor what a complete story is? Stop 413 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 5: pating our time. If you have juicy story, give the 414 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 5: horn down the tree, give. 415 00:16:58,000 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 4: The whole story. 416 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 2: Goddamn, my damn nerves ship. 417 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:06,960 Speaker 1: I know the fuck that's right. And she's acutey, she's 418 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 1: so cute, like a little willow Smith looking mommy, She's 419 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: so cute. Okay, all right, so look, let's get into 420 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 1: this right here, right now. In my opinion, I feel like, 421 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 1: first of all, you two are very you two are 422 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: best friends. You said she's like your sister. I can 423 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 1: relate to that. My best friend is like my brother. 424 00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 1: She and okay, all right, not a okay, all right, 425 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 1: So she's with her brothers. 426 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 2: We're heavy and we're singing and we're colored. Get me 427 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:44,479 Speaker 2: in your no sorry all jokes to the left. 428 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 1: It sounds like no accountability is being taken on either part. 429 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 2: Both of y'all got the same issue. 430 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:55,400 Speaker 1: Like, like Shana said, if y'all constantly talking over each 431 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:57,480 Speaker 1: other and all of that shit, y'all not listening. And 432 00:17:57,520 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 1: even when you're not talking with each other, y'all are 433 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 1: not trying to listen to each other. Y'all think y'all 434 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 1: supposed to read each other's minds, like and that that's 435 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 1: not good, that actually happens in a lot of relationships. 436 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:11,720 Speaker 2: You feel like a person supposed. 437 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 1: To know what's going on, yeah, instead of just opening 438 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 1: your mouth and saying it. That car ride shouldn't have 439 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 1: been like that, Like and I'm I'm I'm like you 440 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 1: to a certain extent where you said, okay, you don't 441 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 1: feel like we can move forward until we had at 442 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:29,880 Speaker 1: a situation that was already going on. That should be 443 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:32,400 Speaker 1: the way things are in my opinion as well, because 444 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: how we're going, how we even. 445 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 2: Gonna move forward? 446 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 1: If I still feel sour about some shit that we 447 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: just went through and nobody's talking about it. 448 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 2: And then I've also been on the other end of 449 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:42,400 Speaker 2: that too. 450 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:45,120 Speaker 1: That always that that feels like, all right, I could 451 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: fall out with somebody and then don't say anything and 452 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 1: then well not even have a fault, I have a disagreement, 453 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 1: we don't talk about it. And then depends on how 454 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:54,440 Speaker 1: it depends on Yeah, it depends on the situation and 455 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 1: how severe you know the issue is, but nobody is 456 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 1: taking accountabil and then you I also see and just 457 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 1: just you know in that story, briefly, you're the type 458 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 1: of person who I think somebody supposed to get over 459 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:13,159 Speaker 1: something when you want them to get over something. And 460 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:16,640 Speaker 1: your best friend, thank you, pull read her fucking mind. Yeah, 461 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:19,640 Speaker 1: she she like she want to she want to hash 462 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 1: it out and y'all gotta get over it, be over it, 463 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: not get over it. 464 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 2: I think she just really want to talk about it. Yeah. 465 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:28,199 Speaker 1: I think she really just want to deal with it 466 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 1: in that moment. Yeah, And some people need time. 467 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, some people need time. 468 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 1: That that's basically what I mean, Like she want to 469 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 1: get it done right then and. 470 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:38,119 Speaker 2: There and. 471 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but it's like everybody don't operate the same, like, 472 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 1: what if Shorty the best. 473 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 2: Visit it? Right? 474 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 1: Is? 475 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 2: She ad taken time bomb too? 476 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 1: She said, I wanted to start. I just like to fight, Like, 477 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 1: all right, look, if we're not get she get frustrated 478 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:58,160 Speaker 1: quickly and easily with shit, like you wanted to fight 479 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 1: a whole community because they were sending you reels. 480 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:07,159 Speaker 2: I hope, I let me send you some reals. I 481 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 2: just feel like. 482 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 1: It's not that serious and I can't tell you how 483 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 1: I feel, right, And that's why I said, no, let me. 484 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 2: I can't tell you. 485 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 1: I can't. However, your aunt blacked you. She's like, you 486 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 1: got family members black with ship. 487 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:24,200 Speaker 2: It's like, what the fuck? What are we on social 488 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 2: media for? 489 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 1: Right to be able to share things, share how we 490 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 1: feel about things, post things, you know, that's a part 491 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 1: of being on social media. If you don't like social media, 492 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 1: get off of social media. 493 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 2: She ain't say that. No, That's why I say, if 494 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 2: if you yet, what is on social media? Pictures and reels? Ship? 495 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:47,360 Speaker 2: You want to look at some pictures? 496 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 1: All right? 497 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 2: You pull off the photo albums. That's what the fuck 498 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 2: you do? You get off the social media ship? All right? 499 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 6: Nah? 500 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:57,119 Speaker 1: That no, it's a little bit of truth in that. 501 00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 1: But I I do not want to discredit how you 502 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 1: feel about anything. I'm not like trying to diminish your 503 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:07,640 Speaker 1: feelings at all. I just want you to realize that 504 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:16,159 Speaker 1: people are dying, kim fuck and you better not go 505 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,480 Speaker 1: punch somebody in the face for sending you the fucking 506 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:19,439 Speaker 1: reals and we'll get mad that. 507 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,960 Speaker 2: You're on I didn't know that they And why is 508 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 2: there a problem because that's what people do on social media? 509 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:26,719 Speaker 4: Pooky. 510 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 1: But I'm with you. 511 00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:34,360 Speaker 2: I'm rocking with That's fine. Ye, I'm with you. 512 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 1: If I say don't do something, don't do it, period, cool. 513 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:40,479 Speaker 1: But what about what you do? You know what I'm saying, Like, 514 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 1: you don't have the best communication. 515 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 2: I'm not talking to. 516 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 1: You talking to her, Yo, you don't have the best communication. 517 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:51,199 Speaker 1: I feel like y'all have the same situation. You and 518 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,119 Speaker 1: your best friend are kind of like dealing with the 519 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:54,880 Speaker 1: same thing. 520 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 2: Y'all. 521 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: Communication is not there. And you may say, no, jes 522 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 1: I do communicate with her. No, you're very demanding. You're 523 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 1: very demanding, and that is totally fun because that's where 524 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:06,199 Speaker 1: you are. But then you turn around and be like 525 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 1: she's aggressive. Both of y'all asses are aggressive. Both of 526 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:12,719 Speaker 1: your asses need to go sit in the fucking corner 527 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,240 Speaker 1: and then come back and reconvene and talk and let 528 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 1: each other talk. 529 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,399 Speaker 2: Do not cut each other off. Let hurt me. But 530 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 2: tell her, yeah, tell her, tell me how you feel. 531 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 2: You also have to tell her. 532 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:23,879 Speaker 6: Yo. 533 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:25,920 Speaker 1: I can't read your mind. I'm not trying to read 534 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,679 Speaker 1: your mind. And I like how you said that you 535 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 1: are a vivid dreamer. That is actually I kind of do, 536 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 1: like have empathy with that. I do because I used 537 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:40,919 Speaker 1: to dream vividly too. But yeah, I do believe that 538 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 1: there are deeper meanings to a lot of people's dreams 539 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 1: than just surface. 540 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:44,920 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 541 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 1: So, like Shana said, that's because y'all don't listen to 542 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: each other. I can tell there's a lot of history 543 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:51,159 Speaker 1: and a lot of love. And I don't think you 544 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 1: should not be a friend. Work on your fucking friendship. 545 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:58,959 Speaker 1: It is so hard, yeah, fifteen years, like, come on, no, 546 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:00,840 Speaker 1: we not. And I know some people grow apart and 547 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 1: all that type of ship. But now you just say, 548 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 1: through all of that, you called this girl your sister 549 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 1: to me, So it's like if she's talking about it 550 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,920 Speaker 1: to the extent that she still truly can love and 551 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 1: they need to work on it. Yep, and you came 552 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 1: this is your second mess that it am fixed with 553 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 1: this girl. So there is something there. There is something there, 554 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,160 Speaker 1: and y'all just have to y'all just have to work 555 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:26,880 Speaker 1: it out, that's all. But we've come to the end 556 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 1: of another carefully workless episode which girl justslarius and my guy. 557 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 2: Hello and my guy my bad it Mike went out, Yeah, 558 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:39,359 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. 559 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:43,640 Speaker 1: We'll say something then, boy, sorry. 560 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,399 Speaker 2: All right, because don't believe me. I know who you 561 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 2: talking to because I'm a. 562 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 1: Girl, a girl, a girl, all right, y'all, Well we 563 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 1: all in November. I need y'all to put on y'all coats, 564 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:55,240 Speaker 1: y'all scoff y'all gloves. 565 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:56,639 Speaker 2: That is not the season where you need. 566 00:23:56,480 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 1: To try to Everybody is sick. Everybody is sick. Everybody 567 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:03,919 Speaker 1: is sick. So I need for y'all to take your 568 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:08,120 Speaker 1: emergency your vitamins, your airborne, your hot tea, get all 569 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 1: the home remedies. 570 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:10,160 Speaker 2: You can't. Everybody's sick. 571 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:14,119 Speaker 1: You coughing in the ass on all a round, all 572 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 1: the white people, and you know, white people cough in 573 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 1: their hands and then want to hug all over you 574 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 1: and dap you up and ship and I all got 575 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,240 Speaker 1: tide of that. So I'm in my deepest pan voice. 576 00:24:22,280 --> 00:25:37,639 Speaker 1: I see y'all next week. Can't Fully Reckless is a 577 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 1: production of iHeartRadio and The Black Effect. 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