Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.
Speaker 2: All Right, so today is all about hot topics. I
Speaker 2: love those. I love hot topic days. I do too.
Speaker 3: It's fun, it's it can be spicy. But also I
Speaker 3: think it's a conversation starter too, because I think we're
Speaker 3: very different.
Speaker 2: I know we are about everything. I saw this and
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I already know what this is
Speaker 2: going to look like, and this one's going to look like.
Speaker 2: So which one do you want to start with first?
Speaker 3: Because there's a few to discuss that are could be Well,
Speaker 3: all of them are good conversations, But which one would
Speaker 3: you like to discuss first?
Speaker 2: Well, two of them are my ideal fields of study. Well,
Speaker 2: then you started off KB. Do you want to talk
Speaker 2: about Jessica Simpson or sex in the city or would
Speaker 2: you like to talk about exes because there's a lot
Speaker 2: of people having an interpripose relation to relationships with their exes. Okay,
Speaker 2: let's start with Jessica. Okay, because rumor has it she
Speaker 2: lives in Nashville. Does she really She's making a temporary
Speaker 2: move to Nashville. Interesting? What if I see her at
Speaker 2: the grocery store and fainting on the five. Okay, thank
Speaker 2: you not I'm thinking about it.
Speaker 3: Jessica Simpson has been in denial about her and Eric
Speaker 3: Johnson's child walking in on them having sex. So here's
Speaker 3: the article. Jessica Simpson and Eric Johnson's marriage is still
Speaker 3: hot and heavy, which has led to some awkward moments
Speaker 3: for the couple and their kids. It's good to keep
Speaker 3: the romance there, even with three kids on top of
Speaker 3: our heads. Sorry, I can.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a very Jessica quote consistent, but she's not done.
Speaker 2: Here we goes. It's hard, but sorry, and I'm twelve.
Speaker 2: It's hard.
Speaker 3: But he'll leave me little notes. Just give He'll wake
Speaker 3: up earlier than me. There's so many little things in America.
Speaker 3: He'll leave me little letter. Simpson, forty three, told Access
Speaker 3: Hollywood on Saturday. There's a lot of things that make
Speaker 3: me like I can't wait to get my hands on
Speaker 3: him later. I think you have to have those little
Speaker 3: things as a couple that are just between you two. Unfortunately,
Speaker 3: for Simpson and Johnson, who share three kids eleven, ten,
Speaker 3: and four, some of those moments wound up being interrupted
Speaker 3: by their children. So the fashion designer said she and
Speaker 3: Johnson had been in denial after their child recently walked
Speaker 3: in on them having sex. Has this happened to any
Speaker 3: of you?
Speaker 1: Well, I have a question, go witch child. That is
Speaker 1: the most important question. And do we know the answer
Speaker 1: to this?
Speaker 2: I have a question for you. Does this happen to you?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Okay, close, but no? Because your kids are older, so
Speaker 2: I always want That's why I need to know.
Speaker 3: Because the four year old would have no idea. The
Speaker 3: ten and eleven year old that's a different for sure.
Speaker 3: No ballgame, guys, this is like a nightmare for me.
Speaker 3: Nightmare Go why because I don't know? Like I feel
Speaker 3: like I'm I'm pretty good. I honestly feel like when
Speaker 3: there's tough situations, I'm I do well at those situations
Speaker 3: because I can just plug in. I'm like, God, what
Speaker 3: do you want me to say? I don't I don't
Speaker 3: know what I would say in this situation. I mean,
Speaker 3: when do you When do you have the sex talk.
Speaker 2: With your kids? Well, people disagree with me, Okay, I
Speaker 2: want to know.
Speaker 1: Well, I had it with my eleven year old at nine,
Speaker 1: but it lent itself to that, Like lots of questions,
Speaker 1: I knew it was time I had to have the conversation.
Speaker 1: My fourteen year old was probably about nine two, but
Speaker 1: I knew of friends of his were talking about things,
Speaker 1: so I knew we had to get on it.
Speaker 2: But then the seven year old, I I don't know
Speaker 2: she she doesn't say, but it's not it's not her son,
Speaker 2: which is the four year old? I believe it's the
Speaker 2: eartiest one, the youngest, So it's not the oldest, is
Speaker 2: what you're saying. That's the middle child.
Speaker 3: So it's either the four or the eleven maps. Well,
Speaker 3: I have a question though, have you ever had kid
Speaker 3: walk in on you having sex?
Speaker 2: Though? No close, but now you guys, legend knows how
Speaker 2: to pick locks? Oh gosh, I make sure everyone's sleep.
Speaker 2: I don't even know how to pick a lock. This
Speaker 2: is so unbranded for his personality, Like he's either going
Speaker 2: to be like this kid needs a legal team. Well,
Speaker 2: like our locks are like kind of kid to help
Speaker 2: you if a kid was locked inside. So it's like
Speaker 2: you just need like a little flat thing to I
Speaker 2: mean I can do that too. Yeah, So he's the
Speaker 2: other day, we were trying to have a moment.
Speaker 1: So do you hear it when they're just like running around?
Speaker 2: See that's where I give.
Speaker 1: This is where this is where I'm different. I'm like,
Speaker 1: is everyone asleep, Go make sure, go count the children, make.
Speaker 2: Sure their eyes are closed.
Speaker 1: Lock the door.
Speaker 2: That's some four play cat, Go count all the children,
Speaker 2: literally triple check. I'm like, no, I mean, if they're
Speaker 2: super distracted and we can sneak away from mine, come
Speaker 2: in the bedroom all the time. I mean ours to too.
Speaker 2: That's one thing I like is that everything feels really
Speaker 2: like open to them. Yeah, but also sometimes I don't
Speaker 2: like that everything feels so open to them exactly whether
Speaker 2: their eyes have to be closed, they have to be sleeping, Like.
Speaker 3: What if you get a little frisky in the kitchen
Speaker 3: and they're like playing in the living room, that's yeah,
Speaker 3: did that happen?
Speaker 2: It's not happening in my house. That's happening in my house.
Speaker 2: But it's not like she's like, no, I'm not going
Speaker 2: to complete the task in the kitchen. I'm going to
Speaker 2: go to the other room. But they're going to go
Speaker 2: to the danger in the kitchen. Well, that's fair. It's
Speaker 2: getting hot in the kitchen. Oh my god, what about you, Janna, Yeah,
Speaker 2: let's talk a Kramer.
Speaker 3: Well, I think again, it's the age thing. So we're
Speaker 3: obviously very aware, like like we know Jason is going
Speaker 3: to get up at least three or four times to
Speaker 3: get a hug or cuddle even after I put him
Speaker 3: to bed, So we don't really start anything until at
Speaker 3: least an hour alf he goes to bed.
Speaker 2: Now, there have been times where.
Speaker 3: The old plural where you know, he's naked, I'm naked
Speaker 3: in bed and it's like, you know, you hear their
Speaker 3: little footsteps and it's like the hurry roll into the
Speaker 3: bathroom or you know. That was early stages though. I
Speaker 3: mean now I would just you know, stay in bed
Speaker 3: and cover up or whatever. But yeah, I make sure
Speaker 3: the kid didn't come in the bed. But you know
Speaker 3: what I mean, I just.
Speaker 2: Feel like Jolie and Love are so alike in this
Speaker 2: way that they're going to try to they would try
Speaker 2: to figure it out. Is Ramsey that way? Well?
Speaker 1: So another child of mine, who shall remain nameless, absolutely
Speaker 1: is that way. And definitely I feel bad by calling
Speaker 1: her out on this, but okay, she.
Speaker 2: Literally will okay, but she'll come.
Speaker 1: In and she'll be like, what are you all doing?
Speaker 1: What he'll doing under there? Do you have any clothes
Speaker 1: on under there?
Speaker 2: Oh? Okay, I know Jolie would never ask.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm saying I had to have this talk
Speaker 1: with you.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, She's just open, likes to talk and like it
Speaker 1: is the most uncomfortable, but we just roll with it.
Speaker 1: And sometimes I'm like, you can't ask us these questions.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I mean Julie would. I would not ask.
Speaker 3: But she also has no idea, Like she has no
Speaker 3: idea how this baby was made?
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Yes, right right, right.
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: So I think again, as at ages, you just have.
Speaker 3: To be a little bit more mindful again of the
Speaker 3: the ages that the kids are at. But also I
Speaker 3: wouldn't like I don't know, I mean with having someone.
Speaker 3: I will say this like there's a reason why I
Speaker 3: don't co sleep because I want to have sex.
Speaker 2: At night with my person. You know, how do you
Speaker 2: do that with the baby? I don't know how they
Speaker 2: do it, because you did. Those of you that can't see,
Speaker 2: all eyes are on me because I'm the co sleeping captain.
Speaker 2: Aligned would you just have sex with the No? No, no, no,
Speaker 2: we are like high school. We're just running at college
Speaker 2: for making out for sure, that's all we're doing. No,
Speaker 2: we're just like we. I mean I have told this
Speaker 2: story on wind Down the Tour before, but like we
Speaker 2: I mean there's times where I'm like, meet me in
Speaker 2: the backseat of the truck.
Speaker 3: So that is that when you that's where we're not alike,
Speaker 3: because to me, I'd be like, what if a neighbor.
Speaker 2: Saw what if Like I'd rather neighbor than my baby.
Speaker 2: Oh my, I'd rather just go like and lock a door. Well, sure,
Speaker 2: but you don't have a you don't have the little
Speaker 2: walksman living with you. No, honestly, like we're just I
Speaker 2: don't know. I mean there's a lot of day times
Speaker 2: for us because that's when the kids do their like
Speaker 2: little homeschool tutorial too, so.
Speaker 4: So they're in the other room homeschooling. No, no, no,
Speaker 4: when they go to their school. Yeah, yeah, I'm just guys,
Speaker 4: we have to keep he's never home. I need money's home.
Speaker 4: But I also like we do private time.
Speaker 2: Like I'll be like, hey, I want a couple of
Speaker 2: minutes with dad, Like we take showers together, and like
Speaker 2: nothing's happening when we're taking showers. It's just the only
Speaker 2: place there's no electronic So I like that, Like his
Speaker 2: phone is down. Sorry, you're a dirty bird.
Speaker 3: No, I'm just I'm thinking about something that happened last night,
Speaker 3: and I.
Speaker 2: Just when she got caught. No no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: I didn't get caught last night.
Speaker 3: But I'm just at the stage in pregnancy because you know,
Speaker 3: well when this airs, i'll be in my third trimester.
Speaker 3: But sex is just harder at this stage right now.
Speaker 3: And so I just was laughing because last night I
Speaker 3: just sound like I'm dying. It's so because you know,
Speaker 3: you get that cramp like after you and it hurts
Speaker 3: so bad.
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, like and also like again, sorry, t am,
Speaker 2: I like the very close veins, like it hurts to
Speaker 2: like have that oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you know. But
Speaker 2: I'm like I'm also like I want to and like yeah,
Speaker 2: he you know, wants to go.
Speaker 3: But I'm also like, can you turn the lights off,
Speaker 3: like I don't want you to see anything down there.
Speaker 2: I will say I'm a little insecure about the breast
Speaker 2: post baby. Oh that's a little I'm really telling everyone much.
Speaker 2: But mine are just so low and so like like
Speaker 2: if I collect them and put them in a brawl,
Speaker 2: they can still hold their own. But like otherwise I'm
Speaker 2: just like presence like I love them and I'm like, oh, like,
Speaker 2: I just it's like I'm getting insecure about them and
Speaker 2: I've never been that way before. And I'm honoring my body.
Speaker 2: It's done great work, and they are really low. How
Speaker 2: low can you go? Really low? The answer is very
Speaker 2: It's really hard for me right now. Yeah, so light
Speaker 2: feels good.
Speaker 3: Speaking of Jessica, though, there was also something about well,
Speaker 3: for two things, have you heard her daughter sing? Because
Speaker 3: apparently she's releasing new music next year and her daughter
Speaker 3: is going to have a little piece of it. I've heard,
Speaker 3: but apparently she's like an amazing singer too, which I'm sure,
Speaker 3: so I can't wait to hear that. But everyone's kind
Speaker 3: of right now focusing on her weight loss. Yeah, and
Speaker 3: I'm curious if you guys so I again, I know,
Speaker 3: we've kind of spoken about this pill and everyone's taking it,
Speaker 3: and I've seen, you know a lot of thingstead of
Speaker 3: how helped. But also it's like it's hard not to go, well,
Speaker 3: she must have taken ozempic whatever, but I don't know,
Speaker 3: but it's hard when that's like so available and everyone's
Speaker 3: taking it, and then.
Speaker 2: I don't know what you guys think yeah, I mean
Speaker 2: it's hard to tell.
Speaker 1: I think now my brain always goes to if someone's
Speaker 1: losing weight quickly, that they're on the shot. I mean,
Speaker 1: there's several of them that they can take, and a
Speaker 1: lot of people are. A lot of people won't admit
Speaker 1: they are, a lot of people do admit they are.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, it's hard to say.
Speaker 3: It's interesting though, like because I I hate the whole
Speaker 3: body talk. She did say, she didn't write. It's just
Speaker 3: it's just kind of she's always been up and down
Speaker 3: with her weight, which she has, yeah, for sure. And
Speaker 3: I also even hate having this conversation because it's, you know,
Speaker 3: talking about people's weight and the body issues, and I
Speaker 3: don't like that. Having said that, you know, obviously she's
Speaker 3: a public person, and then this whole pill stuff. I
Speaker 3: go to the thing saying okay, kind of like saying
Speaker 3: you didn't have plastic surgery, but you did have plastic surgery, right,
Speaker 3: So like it's it's like me going around saying, well,
Speaker 3: I didn't get a boob job, but who really cares
Speaker 3: whether I did or didn't. And I don't need to
Speaker 3: tell anyone, But I don't know. It's that like conversation
Speaker 3: where you well.
Speaker 2: You know, I'm open, like I tell everyone about botox
Speaker 2: and Jack, like it was just different.
Speaker 1: I mean, I had this conversation with three of my
Speaker 1: friends that do take the shot, who have for probably
Speaker 1: a year at this point, and I mean they're like,
Speaker 1: you have to admit it.
Speaker 2: Like when people why though in there and.
Speaker 1: They said this, not me, I'm not saying this, they said,
Speaker 1: because it is the easy way out.
Speaker 3: But in today when Simon has like an if maybe
Speaker 3: a thyrtish I don't, I don't know, or has like
Speaker 3: a diabetes or.
Speaker 1: I have nothing against it, so I'm not But literally
Speaker 1: one of the girls said that, She's like, I mean,
Speaker 1: it kind of is the easy way out. So I
Speaker 1: kind of feel like I have to admit it and
Speaker 1: be like, well, it wasn't It wasn't like I'm over
Speaker 1: here working out, you know, for five hours a day
Speaker 1: and you know, da da d da whatever.
Speaker 2: I mean, No, I think it's your choice, you get
Speaker 2: to use.
Speaker 3: But here's my thing with the easy way out. That's
Speaker 3: almost like saying, so, you know, I've been dealing with
Speaker 3: anxiety again, is the easy way out for me to
Speaker 3: take medicine?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: But it's it's something that can help me to kickstart
Speaker 3: maybe that again. Sure, So I'm like, is it really
Speaker 3: the easy because some people need to have that thing
Speaker 3: to help whatever medical thing they have that they can't.
Speaker 2: I don't know. Well, I mean it's just no idea
Speaker 2: again about control.
Speaker 1: It is just you're not hungry, you don't crave the
Speaker 1: things that we do, you don't mindlessly eat like it's
Speaker 1: just yeah, I mean that's what it is.
Speaker 2: But then when you come off of it, it is so.
Speaker 1: Many people have a friend, Yes, I have a friend,
Speaker 1: well two of them are off of it now and
Speaker 1: yeah they've getten some way way back in theory, you
Speaker 1: should make changes with your diet while you're doing it
Speaker 1: so that when you come off, you are making this smart.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'll be honest, I would love to do it,
Speaker 1: but that terrifies me. I know, I would be ravenous
Speaker 1: when I came off because I'm a hungry person, Like
Speaker 1: I would love to not have the appetite I do.
Speaker 2: But that scares me. But also like it's not healthy
Speaker 2: to not eat well.
Speaker 1: And that really have to keep eating some it's been
Speaker 1: different for all. Okay, one of my friends has been
Speaker 1: extremely tired on it. There's different levels at it. You
Speaker 1: start at a certain dosage and then you up up it. Okay,
Speaker 1: not everyone gets to a certain point. Not everyone can
Speaker 1: handle a certain point, different side effects. Some people are sick,
Speaker 1: some people are not, so it is different for everyone.
Speaker 1: One of my friends, she you know, she basically has
Speaker 1: to force herself to eat. One of them is like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm come dinner time. I'm pretty hungry
Speaker 1: and I just eat a full, full meal, whereas other
Speaker 1: people I see are eating like half the kuesadilla. So
Speaker 1: it's just it hits everyone very different.
Speaker 3: I just hate that, like someone like in her because
Speaker 3: she has been up and down since I mean the beginning.
Speaker 3: So it's to have that be a talking point again
Speaker 3: when it's not something more.
Speaker 1: Especially if she didn't do it and she's over here,
Speaker 1: that's where I would be.
Speaker 3: Yeah, frustrating, because I mean I lost a creptn of
Speaker 3: weight when I got divorced. I didn't take it, you know,
Speaker 3: I mean to me, I lost weight, you know, so
Speaker 3: looked I thought I looked different. But people go through
Speaker 3: those I mean, Chloe and.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm sure she was depressed as hell.
Speaker 2: With the I don't know. I mean, I mean I
Speaker 2: lost weight through my divorce, so I'm like, maybe she
Speaker 2: just you know people I don't know, well, yeah, and
Speaker 2: she has different resources than a lot of us too,
Speaker 2: Like because if I could have a trainer at my
Speaker 2: house every single day, someone cooking for you, yeah, I
Speaker 2: mean that's what I would go. If I had that,
Speaker 2: I would be It's just like I would really enjoy that.
Speaker 2: And those resources are available to some people, so they
Speaker 2: can do that and put that well.
Speaker 1: And for some people like me, especially like if I
Speaker 1: had like a chef in my home going this is
Speaker 1: what you should eat and here it is, I would
Speaker 1: make healthier food decisions.
Speaker 2: You know. I mean, I just so I do.
Speaker 1: I just I don't know. I mean, who knows if
Speaker 1: she's doing it. But if she says she's not, then.
Speaker 2: I think we can all agree she's still a goddess.
Speaker 2: Moving forward, Kim Catarle's return to Sex and the City.
Speaker 2: So if you watch and just like that, I personally
Speaker 2: I've been disappointed this season and I have to say
Speaker 2: I don't actually think it's going to end up well
Speaker 2: for Carrie and Aiden. Okay, I should have talked about
Speaker 2: this before we got I don't even know what's happening.
Speaker 3: So I've obviously never been a fan of Aiden. I
Speaker 3: think I agree. I don't like the fact that she
Speaker 3: called Big a mistake that wone kind of hurt. That's ridiculous,
Speaker 3: bit because I think Big was there for like that
Speaker 3: was I think that was her big love. I don't
Speaker 3: know if yeah, I mean they obviously were right in
Speaker 3: the very end together. He was not great in the beginning.
Speaker 3: Whatever people say it was toxictter No, No, wonder why
Speaker 3: you don't like Big because Aiden, you know, was healthy
Speaker 3: and Big was toxic either way.
Speaker 2: Not sure that that's true. But like, I don't like
Speaker 2: the fact that Aiden is so whiny about the apartment.
Speaker 2: Get over it.
Speaker 3: I understand things went bad there, but also like have
Speaker 3: peace with things, go back in and that you guys
Speaker 3: are both different versions of yourself.
Speaker 2: Also, she never lived there with Big, so what is
Speaker 2: this big beef with the apartment? Yeah, that bothered me.
Speaker 3: The second thing is is I just feel like something
Speaker 3: is going to go south. And also the reason why
Speaker 3: Big and Carrie didn't work or why because no one
Speaker 3: wants to see Carrie Like, Okay, yeah, they're happy and
Speaker 3: they're living happily ever after. So and what now Carrie
Speaker 3: and Aidan are to live happily ever after? Like we
Speaker 3: watched to see Carrie's dating stories.
Speaker 2: Well that's what it's all about.
Speaker 3: So this whole Aiden loves story, I just don't. I
Speaker 3: still just don't think that's her person. Okay, Virginia is
Speaker 3: not that far from New York. Would you like to
Speaker 3: start there with like just actual geography, because I confuse
Speaker 3: why we can't be dating.
Speaker 2: Like it's a quick flight. It's not. It's only like
Speaker 2: a six and a half hour drive get to each other, right,
Speaker 2: That's weird to me. I also think it's weird that
Speaker 2: Samantha came back.
Speaker 3: I like how they did it to say goodbye to
Speaker 3: the I like how she had a moment with it
Speaker 3: and said goodbye.
Speaker 2: It was fine.
Speaker 3: I just I personally, even though I have my own
Speaker 3: opinions about like her, I just think that I miss
Speaker 3: her presence on the show.
Speaker 2: I know, but we don't even get her presence, right,
Speaker 2: So it was just kind of like a letdown. Well
Speaker 2: and we all know too much, Like nobody watching the
Speaker 2: show is just like just started the season. So everybody
Speaker 2: that's watching the show is like, watched it for years.
Speaker 2: I feel like, so we all know what's really going on,
Speaker 2: so now we're just watching her. I don't know. And
Speaker 2: she didn't film with the other no, right, she just
Speaker 2: she made like a million dollars for seventy three seconds.
Speaker 3: Well that's why she's And she also said that she
Speaker 3: was never going to do the show, so I'm like,
Speaker 3: we just either stick to your word, but then money bays.
Speaker 3: So then she also has her own book series, right
Speaker 3: which I've watched. I'm on the last and I actually
Speaker 3: I like her in it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like her. I like her. I just think
Speaker 2: this whole thing is weird and like we all know
Speaker 2: too much, so just like, let her just be. I
Speaker 2: almost like it better when I like her not seeing her, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I like her living in London and I never see her.
Speaker 2: But this seasons I've really struggled with this season. I
Speaker 2: struggled with last, so I couldn't watch this one. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean I'll say this, I could watch it on mute. Really,
Speaker 2: I do love Carrie's words a lot, but I'm in
Speaker 2: it for the fashion a lot of times. And I
Speaker 2: don't know, I just feel like I've always had a
Speaker 2: hard time saying goodbye to people. This will be super shocking.
Speaker 2: Like I don't finish a lot of books. I leave
Speaker 2: the last twenty pages. So I like people to like
Speaker 2: be where they are, and I don't necessarily need it
Speaker 2: to like end end, So I'm kind of like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I just want to check in with them, like every
Speaker 2: week and the last.
Speaker 3: Twenty pages, because what I do is like Gudrton, I
Speaker 3: went to the last episode.
Speaker 2: I had to know that they were going to be together.
Speaker 2: Oh no oh yeah, but I read the end of
Speaker 2: the book pretty much before. This is us in a nutshell. Wow,
Speaker 2: this so well. Yeah, I don't want I want them
Speaker 2: to live in the place where they live. Yeah, Carrie's
Speaker 2: like a bff. So I just want to check in
Speaker 2: with her weekly and be like, yeah, girl, good outfit,
Speaker 2: glad you had fun. Oh you went to dinner. That's good,
Speaker 2: and they'll see you next week. I don't need to
Speaker 2: be real dramatic. I don't need to be so tumultuous.
Speaker 2: I just need to know she's doing great. I need
Speaker 2: Country Lurch to head on back to the fields. I
Speaker 2: also need to have different wardrobe, not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: I kind of like the guy that she ran Oh
Speaker 3: that was that. That was I was like, what with
Speaker 3: that coat? When he turned when I could not even
Speaker 3: I almost feel like the guy that she ran into
Speaker 3: on the bike.
Speaker 2: I liked him. I don't know about him. I think
Speaker 2: it would have been a fun thing. Well maybe this
Speaker 2: is my PTSD, but I don't like a guy that's
Speaker 2: this and meshed with his business partner, like you know,
Speaker 2: you get on in there and you're like, hang on
Speaker 2: a second. That actually was hysterical. Yeah, that was pretty funny.
Speaker 3: Actually, let's take a break and then we're going to
Speaker 3: come back with the fact that Derek Huff had his
Speaker 3: sister Julian's ex husband Brooks as his one of his
Speaker 3: grooms where his wedding b RB groomsmen, groomsmen?
Speaker 2: What do I say?
Speaker 5: Grooms grooms ben Here you go, I'll tell your break,
Speaker 5: all right.
Speaker 3: So Derek huffs grooms men included sister Julian Huff's ex
Speaker 3: husband Brooks lach Latch Late. So Derek married Hayley and
Speaker 3: had a beautiful ceremony. Uh and among that group was uh, yeah,
Speaker 3: Julian's ex husband Brooks as one of the grooms men.
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts? What are your thoughts? Kramer. I
Speaker 2: have thoughts. I know you do. We're different. I think
Speaker 2: so I loved it, and I'm I don't going to
Speaker 2: tell you why? Why is this welcome to Easter? Thank you? Why? Used?
Speaker 2: Why do you think we think it's funny? Of course
Speaker 2: you think this is okay? What is the big Why?
Speaker 2: Why are you guys laughing at me? I'm a poll
Speaker 2: everyone knows.
Speaker 1: But why you love everybody's exes and new ones and
Speaker 1: you're like friends with all of them?
Speaker 2: Really anymore? Oh? I mean like there it is there,
Speaker 2: we all finally have. Okay, it's a little different, a
Speaker 2: complicated at Easter and Thanksgiving. Okay, time out for a second.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you why I love it? So do
Speaker 2: you want me to tell you why? You sure? You go?
Speaker 2: At first, I go, oh wow.
Speaker 3: That was my very first reaction, like oh wow, because
Speaker 3: as Julian, I'd be like, oh, like having said that,
Speaker 3: I okay, okay. Let's take my ex for example. I
Speaker 3: did not have she his sister. We were not close whatsoever.
Speaker 3: We had nothing in common, not like I mean nothing.
Speaker 3: Having said that, I would have loved to have had
Speaker 3: a sister in law that you know, felt like a
Speaker 3: sister because I never had a sister, so that had
Speaker 3: been really cool, so really cool. So for me when
Speaker 3: I saw that, I was like, that's cool because there
Speaker 3: was nothing, to my knowledge, knew. There was no bad
Speaker 3: blood that broke up that marriage. There was no cheating,
Speaker 3: there was no I mean literally nothing. It was just
Speaker 3: two people that fell apart, didn't love each other. I'm
Speaker 3: sure they had stuff, but like nothing that was heavy.
Speaker 3: So the fact that Derek obviously they were together for
Speaker 3: you know, Julian and Brooks were together for a long time.
Speaker 3: So you to be like, you can't be friends with
Speaker 3: Brooks anymore, someone that you considered a brother or a
Speaker 3: brother in law, you know, in law. You know, I
Speaker 3: think that's I think that's cool. I think that's obviously
Speaker 3: something that I'm sure he told. You know that Julian
Speaker 3: knew that. Like they were, they stayed friends. And like,
Speaker 3: for example, if my brother divorced, so now again Alan,
Speaker 3: he's got a brother in Scotland and were close, but
Speaker 3: I mean there's no sister but my brother's wife, Kristin,
Speaker 3: if they were to ever get divorced, I would still
Speaker 3: stay friends with her because I love Kristin, Like she's
Speaker 3: become a sister after the seven years of marriage. Now,
Speaker 3: you know, so I like that piece, And unless she
Speaker 3: like cheated or like broke my brother's heart, I'd be like, I,
Speaker 3: you know, I'll still love you, but like I can't
Speaker 3: you know, I'm going to be on my brother's side
Speaker 3: on this one. So that's why I think it's cool
Speaker 3: if there's no beef, Like, what's this shue?
Speaker 2: I like the idea of friends groomsmen seems a little
Speaker 2: extra to me, but I get it. I do get it.
Speaker 2: And she's not married right or remarried or is she
Speaker 2: dating anyone? Because I thought, well, that's awkward for her.
Speaker 2: I just it's up to her. I think it's which piece.
Speaker 2: I just think.
Speaker 1: If I think about the friends of mine who have
Speaker 1: been divorced and whether I still have a relationship with
Speaker 1: their exes, it's based more on how they feel about it, right,
Speaker 1: It's based on how you know, are you okay with
Speaker 1: When Nick and I were separated, it was like I
Speaker 1: let everyone know, like, y'all are all great to still
Speaker 1: be friends, Like I'm great with that. But if I
Speaker 1: had said I'm not good with that, I feel like
Speaker 1: y'all would have been it would have been a different
Speaker 1: story truth.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I feel like with this situation, having it
Speaker 3: be like a groomsman situation, there had to have been
Speaker 3: a lots of conversations and everything's totally fine. I'm sure
Speaker 3: it was weird as heck. But also maybe it's not.
Speaker 2: He went to her birthday party? Who did Brooks to Julian's?
Speaker 1: I think so, yeah. I think he went to her
Speaker 1: birthday party was something that I had read. So they're
Speaker 1: probably just fine. And it's like, all fine.
Speaker 2: Can they get back together? Because I just like that
Speaker 2: they're such good friends.
Speaker 3: He's like Brooks is really he's into He's been dating this, Uh,
Speaker 3: she's like a big CrossFit girl for a while. So
Speaker 3: and I have no idea, but you know, people should
Speaker 3: interview be friends maturity. I like, so, I think it's great,
Speaker 3: but you say no, I just think groomsman, it's very intense.
Speaker 3: But that's just my personal opinion. And welcome to our
Speaker 3: craving section. This is the craving portion of wind Out.
Speaker 3: You want a cherry but plea, Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know, but if it's I mean, it obviously
Speaker 2: had to be okay with her or it wouldn't have
Speaker 2: happened just interesting to me as all. I think you
Speaker 2: could be friends, and I think he could be a guest,
Speaker 2: But I don't know that he necessarily needs.
Speaker 3: To be in the lineup. But what if it's Derek's
Speaker 3: best friend. I mean, obviously it's one of his best friends.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it wasn't his best friend first.
Speaker 3: Oh well, that kind of hits different. You're saying that
Speaker 3: this is.
Speaker 2: Best friend because he knows her through her Huh huh,
Speaker 2: that hits different. I still think it depends on how
Speaker 2: she feels about it.
Speaker 3: I guess that describes my Oh wow, then right, cool,
Speaker 3: all right, moving on vander pomp Rulestar Arianna. They say
Speaker 3: it right, Ariana Addix the Fens. Still sharing home with
Speaker 3: ex Tom Sandebal to avoid uh huh, I'm.
Speaker 2: Sorry, Yeah, yep, you read it right. Yep, it's not
Speaker 2: just getting out of my nose. Okay, really yeah.
Speaker 3: Still sharing home with ex Tom Sandival to avoid uprooting
Speaker 3: her dog an elderly cat yep in the background, Sweet Alan,
Speaker 3: I keep my door locked. Sand of pump Roles Star
Speaker 3: Ariana Maddox defended her choice to continue to live under
Speaker 3: the same roof as her ex boyfriend Tom Sandival, five
Speaker 3: months after they're split while navigating the end of their
Speaker 3: nine year relationship following his affair with her friend or Caul.
Speaker 3: The former couple have continued to reside at the Los
Speaker 3: Angeles home that they purchase for two million in twenty nineteen.
Speaker 3: Despite Bethany Frankel recently criticizing their awkward living arrangement on
Speaker 3: her Just Be podcast Through All the Stars, stated that
Speaker 3: she will not f u c k herself over by
Speaker 3: making any rash decisions. I have never been someone who
Speaker 3: came from money. I know how quickly that goes away,
Speaker 3: she explained. I'm taking care of myself personality. Went on
Speaker 3: to say that she is not rich and has a
Speaker 3: mortgage and other expenses.
Speaker 1: Oh it sounds like maybe it's more about that then
Speaker 1: than the dog and the cat.
Speaker 3: That's why nothing, nothing is meant like in that quote.
Speaker 3: I don't see anything that mentions the dog or cat.
Speaker 2: I don't even get a name to the dog.
Speaker 1: I can understand the like financial part of it, especially
Speaker 1: in LA especially if you own a house together.
Speaker 2: That makes sense. The other part did not, for sure.
Speaker 3: But I mean you see people like when we talk
Speaker 3: to Aurora coupolo, like she's you know, single mom in
Speaker 3: it like no one wants to get out of that situation,
Speaker 3: you know. It's like and I get her not having
Speaker 3: like everyone thinks just because you're on TV, you have
Speaker 3: so much money and again, everything is so expensive right now.
Speaker 2: But I could not do that.
Speaker 3: I could not either. But I know you guys think
Speaker 3: that I'm in bed with like.
Speaker 2: All, no, there's no way. A minute when we decide,
Speaker 2: when you decide on, we're done. At first I was like,
Speaker 2: no way, no way, and then I had a minute
Speaker 2: where I thought, if I'm her, I might I mean,
Speaker 2: it's you guys, life is life is expensive, is expensive.
Speaker 3: I'm being honest, though it kind of feels and I'm
Speaker 3: probably gonna hate for this. She I feel like she's
Speaker 3: using excuses for her dog and her cats that I
Speaker 3: can't get on board with. I just want to be
Speaker 3: It just feels like a little bit of excuse.
Speaker 2: Again.
Speaker 3: I can understand the money thing, but someone that you
Speaker 3: trash on a daily basis and you're to me, it
Speaker 3: seems like she's using the situation, you know, to benefit,
Speaker 3: you know, uh, not to benefit, but she's using how
Speaker 3: do I say this.
Speaker 2: To perpetuate the fame. No, I wouldn't say perpetuate fame.
Speaker 3: I would say she's, you know, she's staying in the
Speaker 3: situation because she obviously, you know, needs a place to
Speaker 3: stay at the moment while she gets on her feet.
Speaker 3: I guess again, I don't understand the whole cat and
Speaker 3: dog thing. That's confusing to me. But for someone she
Speaker 3: hates so much, it's interesting to me because again, I've
Speaker 3: been cheated on. I know I would never stay in
Speaker 3: the home of someone that did that, no matter how
Speaker 3: much money or how little money I had. I would
Speaker 3: stay with a friend or something. But it just feels
Speaker 3: like interesting, you hate him so much, you blast him
Speaker 3: on a daily basis, How is that good for any
Speaker 3: of you guys to be in the same house.
Speaker 2: I know, it just feels like there's a little.
Speaker 3: I don't want to say taking advantage because that's not
Speaker 3: the right word, but like, it just feels.
Speaker 2: It's interesting because I paid two rents at one point,
Speaker 2: now that we're talking about this, I paid rent two
Speaker 2: rents at one point because I was in a situation
Speaker 2: with a roommate that was not a healthy situation and
Speaker 2: I knew I needed to get out but I also
Speaker 2: needed to honor the fact that I had committed to
Speaker 2: living there, so there was I mean, I was in college, Like,
Speaker 2: I'm not making any money, I'm working like fifteen jobs,
Speaker 2: and I still made it work just because I knew
Speaker 2: I needed to get out. Like I'm not a stayer,
Speaker 2: so that's hard for me.
Speaker 3: I mean, electricity being turned off in Los Angeles, Like
Speaker 3: I get, I'm not being in the green or whatever.
Speaker 3: Like I get being in the red. I totally understand that,
Speaker 3: but I just couldn't stay at someone's house just because
Speaker 3: of my old dog or cat, especially someone that I
Speaker 3: again hate so much and trash all the time. But
Speaker 3: yet you're still staying there in a way, using.
Speaker 1: The locking the door for punishment for me, I just
Speaker 1: like you're asking for more drama at that point.
Speaker 3: This is again probably a very unpopular thing to say.
Speaker 3: But like, I get how angry and upset she was.
Speaker 3: Why do I say this about sounding like because people
Speaker 3: are always like you never get over the past, Like
Speaker 3: I was just talking about the past last week on
Speaker 3: the podcast, But.
Speaker 2: It's just so mean some of the things they said
Speaker 2: about Raquel. I get what she did was messed up.
Speaker 2: I get it. Wrong, so bad.
Speaker 3: But everyone is so so mean and so hurtful with
Speaker 3: their words, and she's living at the man's I don't know.
Speaker 3: It just seems a little like muddy to me.
Speaker 2: It's very muddy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just don't even think we're getting the full story.
Speaker 1: I just I just get the feeling that there's just
Speaker 1: I don't I have.
Speaker 2: To say, like she has resources. I mean I can
Speaker 2: say that pretty confidently. Like if she needs to go
Speaker 2: out and make extra money to be able to pay
Speaker 2: for something, this is a position she's in even I mean,
Speaker 2: I'm not even I'm not even anything on Instagram. I
Speaker 2: could I could start making money doing things if I
Speaker 2: needed to do things, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: So she can go make money. She has enough popularity.
Speaker 2: I know she has an agent.
Speaker 1: She can get you or like you're you're in a
Speaker 1: two million dollar house. You're used to a certain lifestyle,
Speaker 1: which is terrifying when it comes to like divorce house
Speaker 1: is in la are not that big. It's still probably nice.
Speaker 1: It's probably decent compared to what she'd have to get.
Speaker 1: And like you like yourtyle, I get it. It's not easy.
Speaker 2: But this is the exact quote.
Speaker 3: I live in my home that I own while working
Speaker 3: with my lawyer and financial advisors to navigate the best
Speaker 3: path forward before uprooting my dog and my elderly cat
Speaker 3: and causing more trauma for the three of us. So
Speaker 3: this is the cat and the dog quote. So again
Speaker 3: I get well alys to say this just to like
Speaker 3: play Devil's advocate. When my ex and I, when I filed,
Speaker 3: he technically did not have to leave the house. So
Speaker 3: there's something in there where, like you, there's a clause
Speaker 3: that no matter if I say get out of the
Speaker 3: house I filed for divorce, he can stay in that house.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
Speaker 3: So essentially, just kind of reading that quote, that's probably
Speaker 3: what she's doing. The lawyer is like, you don't have
Speaker 3: to be out, So in a way, she's probably like,
Speaker 3: you know what, double fu sure. So now I can
Speaker 3: kind of go Okay, now I might see where her
Speaker 3: motive is because if she got screwed over and she's
Speaker 3: in a place like yeah, I would probably use his
Speaker 3: dime too.
Speaker 2: Listen, I'm not it's the dog and the cat think yeah,
Speaker 2: Like this just seems like come on, now, let's she's
Speaker 2: going to figure out what she's going to do, Like
Speaker 2: she's got to come up.
Speaker 1: I actually think it's great, honestly, if I'm being because
Speaker 1: she's not just leading with emotion.
Speaker 2: She is.
Speaker 1: If that's the true story, and that's why she is there,
Speaker 1: she's trying to come up with a plan without being
Speaker 1: just hastily like I'm out blah blah blah blah whatever.
Speaker 1: But if she owns the home.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she owns it, yeah, because it sounded like from
Speaker 3: the very beginning he owned it.
Speaker 2: Or maybe they own it together. I don't know, and either.
Speaker 3: Way, but if it's just if they own it together
Speaker 3: or she owns it whatever, like, yeah, that that makes
Speaker 3: more sense to me. Now everybody needs a cat having that, okay,
Speaker 3: when I and I know they have to be like
Speaker 3: mean and stuff. But as much as I dislike the
Speaker 3: affair girls that my ex was with, I don't think
Speaker 3: I could to you guys behind closed doors, I would
Speaker 3: say I did say nasty things about her, but I
Speaker 3: wouldn't say them now. So I hope maybe like as
Speaker 3: she goes on too, she can like because Raquel, I
Speaker 3: don't think is a bad person. I just think she
Speaker 3: made bad choices. We've all made bad choices.
Speaker 2: And we've all said things about the people that made
Speaker 2: the bad choice that hurt us. Yeah, yeah, I know
Speaker 2: she would love to have Raquel on. I know she
Speaker 2: just did the best anyone, so probably not, but yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: a piece of me that's like, I don't know, I
Speaker 2: like to have Ariana on too. To discuss this. I
Speaker 2: would like to talk about the elderly cat. I'm a
Speaker 2: huge fan of the elderly cat and dog. I don't
Speaker 2: know if anybody noticed. I mean, I'm an animal lover.
Speaker 2: I have an eighteen year old Jack Russell right now, so.
Speaker 3: Because oh that guy, she's like, she's dating someone too,
Speaker 3: so that's just yeah, they.
Speaker 2: Just but she keeps her door locked. She made sure
Speaker 2: to mention that, well.
Speaker 3: No funny business going on there, so that's good. No,
Speaker 3: that sucks, by the way, Like that is the worst,
Speaker 3: especially when I don't know if this ever happened to you,
Speaker 3: but I remember when you used to get in fights
Speaker 3: and the like you leave and they were.
Speaker 2: Like no, I'm like, yeah, not having that that battle,
Speaker 2: because what did you do when you guys?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, about year seven, I was like, get
Speaker 1: out and he was like nope, And I was like,
Speaker 1: what do you mean no, Like, yes, get out?
Speaker 2: Would. I remember when President I got to fight with
Speaker 2: Time and he's like, do you not want me to
Speaker 2: come home? And I'm like, You're never home. I'm like,
Speaker 2: what do you mean? Nothing? Is more like ooh, that's
Speaker 2: like h.
Speaker 3: So moving on arena shake. She poses topless during beach
Speaker 3: day with ex Bradley Cooper amid rumored Tom Brady romance.
Speaker 3: On Sunday, the supermodel posted a steamy set of photos
Speaker 3: from her beach getaway. Some of the stories included a
Speaker 3: photo of Cooper that didn't make the grid. She some
Speaker 3: of the photos she dishes her bikini top only, wearing
Speaker 3: the bottoms with a black sweatshirt tied around her waist.
Speaker 3: She's standing in large boulders with while propping herself up
Speaker 3: with her arms in a pose that covers her chest.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 3: They spent the day and the beach comes after she
Speaker 3: was spotted on a string of dates with NFL star
Speaker 3: Tom Brady.
Speaker 2: What are you guys thoughts? And she had a little
Speaker 2: sleepover with Tom Brady. M m m hmmm.
Speaker 3: I'm just telling you right now, if I was topless
Speaker 3: on a beach with my ex, Alan would not like that,
Speaker 3: nor would I ever do that.
Speaker 2: That's just me. But she's a supermodel, so I would
Speaker 2: like to I feel like that. Also, she's topless on
Speaker 2: a beach, but she had socks and shoes on. That's
Speaker 2: just hard for me, and so let's just start there.
Speaker 2: It just starts to get a little logistical for me
Speaker 2: at times, like we've got this sweatshirt tied around our
Speaker 2: waist and we have socks and shoes on. But oops,
Speaker 2: why are they there together?
Speaker 3: Well, I mind, I want to believe they were on
Speaker 3: a family vacation. But then I also mine don't want
Speaker 3: to believe the kid because I wouldn't I wouldn't walk around.
Speaker 3: I mean, I think I just scarred my my daughter
Speaker 3: the day looking at my boobs. I was like, yes, honey,
Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: I mean, in my mind, i'd hope she's nursing and
Speaker 2: that's why the boobs are out on the beach. But
Speaker 2: I don't believe the child's young enough for that anymore.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think I like any of it.
Speaker 3: I am a very like old school man who wasn't
Speaker 3: you're gonna set you're very she's lying T T no,
Speaker 3: But like you know, I think, I mean, I know
Speaker 3: for a fact, but I also would never walk around
Speaker 3: topless around my ex husband.
Speaker 2: I just wouldn't do that. But again, European, so like
Speaker 2: maybe that's just the thing. Was it a topless beach?
Speaker 2: Probably I'm gonna have Eastern googles because I'm sure he
Speaker 2: wants to.
Speaker 1: Europe If it's if she's European and it's a topless speech,
Speaker 1: maybe it's a different discussion Eastern.
Speaker 2: Let me know.
Speaker 3: But also, like, should you be topless walking around while
Speaker 3: your ex husband's there? I just think that's a little weird.
Speaker 1: Well, I think it's weird being naked at a beach
Speaker 1: at all.
Speaker 2: Does anybody want to talk about why they're on a
Speaker 2: beach together? I asked earlier, why let's start with like
Speaker 2: two plane tickets.
Speaker 1: This is what's frustrating with all these topics. I don't
Speaker 1: have enough information. I need more information.
Speaker 2: I think it's also hard for me because like the
Speaker 2: rule kind of for us as guys and girls can't
Speaker 2: be friends. What's tricky is that I don't have any
Speaker 2: kids with my ex, so that just makes things different.
Speaker 2: But I can. I have lots of friends that have
Speaker 2: kids with their exes, and I feel like they're not
Speaker 2: topless on a beach. I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 3: So it's interesting because let's take the topless part away. Okay,
Speaker 3: in a in my how do I say this?
Speaker 2: In my very.
Speaker 3: Happy world, happy brain where everybody just gets along. I
Speaker 3: think it would be cool because I remember seeing a
Speaker 3: photo of Gwyneth Paltrow Dakota Johnson. They were on a
Speaker 3: vacation together, and I remember thinking, and I might have
Speaker 3: still been married.
Speaker 2: At this point.
Speaker 3: I don't know, but when we get divorced, I hope
Speaker 3: we can do that.
Speaker 2: Maybe there was a small admittance long before there was admittance.
Speaker 2: But is Tom Brady there?
Speaker 3: Well, no, that's but this just leads me to a
Speaker 3: different conversation because obviously they're so new that like Tom
Speaker 3: Brady shouldn't be there, right, But like with this situation,
Speaker 3: I'm like, you know what, I would never do an
Speaker 3: Alane trip with my ex husband and the kids.
Speaker 2: I don't think.
Speaker 3: Maybe like maybe no, not now, not now that I'm
Speaker 3: with Alan, but like if I was still single and
Speaker 3: you know, we want to take the kids on a
Speaker 3: vacation together, maybe, but like I think it'd be fun
Speaker 3: to go, Hey, we're all going to Florida for fall break.
Speaker 3: If you want to come for a few days, you're
Speaker 3: more and welcome, because I think that'd be fun for
Speaker 3: the kids. That's something where like I would love to
Speaker 3: be able to get there and put my own stuff aside,
Speaker 3: and if it's comfortable for Alan, I think that's cool.
Speaker 2: I think that's neat. I don't think kids are on this.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm topless excursion. Do we have any confirmation?
Speaker 2: Where were the children?
Speaker 1: Like, we're going to get back to them kids, they're
Speaker 1: literally just there.
Speaker 2: She's topless. I'm like, there's nothing you couldn't talk over,
Speaker 2: like PF chanks. Why do we have to go to
Speaker 2: a topless beach? Why can't we just meet for like
Speaker 2: a little din, chat some things out and move along
Speaker 2: little din. Yeah, I'm I don't know, but I don't
Speaker 2: think they care.
Speaker 3: That's because she's walking back to don't think anybody cares.
Speaker 2: Maybe and Tom Brady is just a friend, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 2: It's the thing. Yeah, Like I just think it's one
Speaker 2: of those things where they're like, maybe the sleepover with
Speaker 2: Tom Brady gapple in out of proportion. Well, how do
Speaker 2: we even know they had to sleep over? We saw
Speaker 2: photos she was leaving his house. My point, we shouldn't know.
Speaker 2: But listen, we're not here to talk about things we
Speaker 2: don't know, Kat, We're here to talk about pop culture
Speaker 2: because it keeps us young, so that I need to
Speaker 2: know these things.
Speaker 3: I know anyway, So that's that's all a pop culture.
Speaker 3: I got you, guys, Guys, I got a.
Speaker 2: Lot of googling to do. I didn't know Jessica Simpson's
Speaker 2: daughter can sing, so I have to go. Yeah, you
Speaker 2: need to go. I've got to get together. But all right, well,
Speaker 2: I love you, guys, and we will see you next week.
Speaker 2: Bye bye,