WEBVTT - Lights Out! 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.359 Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast. 0:00:06.640 --> 0:00:09.840 All Right, so today is all about hot topics. I 0:00:09.920 --> 0:00:13.080 love those. I love hot topic days. I do too. 0:00:13.280 --> 0:00:17.400 It's fun, it's it can be spicy. But also I 0:00:17.400 --> 0:00:20.640 think it's a conversation starter too, because I think we're 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:21.280 very different. 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:24.919 I know we are about everything. I saw this and 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:26.279 I was like, oh, I already know what this is 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:28.040 going to look like, and this one's going to look like. 0:00:28.320 --> 0:00:29.760 So which one do you want to start with first? 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:35.160 Because there's a few to discuss that are could be Well, 0:00:35.200 --> 0:00:37.040 all of them are good conversations, But which one would 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:37.760 you like to discuss first? 0:00:37.760 --> 0:00:40.680 Well, two of them are my ideal fields of study. Well, 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:44.080 then you started off KB. Do you want to talk 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:47.840 about Jessica Simpson or sex in the city or would 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:51.120 you like to talk about exes because there's a lot 0:00:51.200 --> 0:00:54.760 of people having an interpripose relation to relationships with their exes. Okay, 0:00:54.800 --> 0:00:57.960 let's start with Jessica. Okay, because rumor has it she 0:00:57.960 --> 0:01:01.440 lives in Nashville. Does she really She's making a temporary 0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:05.840 move to Nashville. Interesting? What if I see her at 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:10.840 the grocery store and fainting on the five. Okay, thank 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:13.240 you not I'm thinking about it. 0:01:13.760 --> 0:01:16.400 Jessica Simpson has been in denial about her and Eric 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:20.199 Johnson's child walking in on them having sex. So here's 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:22.920 the article. Jessica Simpson and Eric Johnson's marriage is still 0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:25.319 hot and heavy, which has led to some awkward moments 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:27.640 for the couple and their kids. It's good to keep 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:30.080 the romance there, even with three kids on top of 0:01:30.120 --> 0:01:33.840 our heads. Sorry, I can. 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:39.679 Yeah, it's a very Jessica quote consistent, but she's not done. 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:46.040 Here we goes. It's hard, but sorry, and I'm twelve. 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:46.920 It's hard. 0:01:47.200 --> 0:01:51.000 But he'll leave me little notes. Just give He'll wake 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:54.160 up earlier than me. There's so many little things in America. 0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:57.080 He'll leave me little letter. Simpson, forty three, told Access 0:01:57.080 --> 0:01:59.600 Hollywood on Saturday. There's a lot of things that make 0:01:59.680 --> 0:02:02.720 me like I can't wait to get my hands on 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:05.720 him later. I think you have to have those little 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:09.960 things as a couple that are just between you two. Unfortunately, 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:14.240 for Simpson and Johnson, who share three kids eleven, ten, 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:18.080 and four, some of those moments wound up being interrupted 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:20.720 by their children. So the fashion designer said she and 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:23.560 Johnson had been in denial after their child recently walked 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:26.359 in on them having sex. Has this happened to any 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:26.600 of you? 0:02:26.639 --> 0:02:29.720 Well, I have a question, go witch child. That is 0:02:29.760 --> 0:02:32.200 the most important question. And do we know the answer 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:32.400 to this? 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:37.000 I have a question for you. Does this happen to you? 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:37.200 No? 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:40.200 Okay, close, but no? Because your kids are older, so 0:02:40.240 --> 0:02:41.880 I always want That's why I need to know. 0:02:42.120 --> 0:02:45.560 Because the four year old would have no idea. The 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:48.640 ten and eleven year old that's a different for sure. 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:51.680 No ballgame, guys, this is like a nightmare for me. 0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:56.360 Nightmare Go why because I don't know? Like I feel 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:59.520 like I'm I'm pretty good. I honestly feel like when 0:02:59.520 --> 0:03:03.079 there's tough situations, I'm I do well at those situations 0:03:03.120 --> 0:03:04.520 because I can just plug in. I'm like, God, what 0:03:04.520 --> 0:03:07.960 do you want me to say? I don't I don't 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:12.080 know what I would say in this situation. I mean, 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:14.160 when do you When do you have the sex talk. 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:18.160 With your kids? Well, people disagree with me, Okay, I 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:18.640 want to know. 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:21.320 Well, I had it with my eleven year old at nine, 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:27.280 but it lent itself to that, Like lots of questions, 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.800 I knew it was time I had to have the conversation. 0:03:31.120 --> 0:03:33.240 My fourteen year old was probably about nine two, but 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:35.560 I knew of friends of his were talking about things, 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:36.840 so I knew we had to get on it. 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:38.920 But then the seven year old, I I don't know 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:43.200 she she doesn't say, but it's not it's not her son, 0:03:43.720 --> 0:03:46.640 which is the four year old? I believe it's the 0:03:46.680 --> 0:03:50.120 eartiest one, the youngest, So it's not the oldest, is 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:52.720 what you're saying. That's the middle child. 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:56.760 So it's either the four or the eleven maps. Well, 0:03:57.040 --> 0:04:00.360 I have a question though, have you ever had kid 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:01.440 walk in on you having sex? 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:05.160 Though? No close, but now you guys, legend knows how 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:08.960 to pick locks? Oh gosh, I make sure everyone's sleep. 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:10.360 I don't even know how to pick a lock. This 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:13.000 is so unbranded for his personality, Like he's either going 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:16.920 to be like this kid needs a legal team. Well, 0:04:16.920 --> 0:04:19.479 like our locks are like kind of kid to help 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:21.719 you if a kid was locked inside. So it's like 0:04:21.760 --> 0:04:23.680 you just need like a little flat thing to I 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:26.640 mean I can do that too. Yeah, So he's the 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:29.000 other day, we were trying to have a moment. 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:32.800 So do you hear it when they're just like running around? 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:35.240 See that's where I give. 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:39.359 This is where this is where I'm different. I'm like, 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:42.800 is everyone asleep, Go make sure, go count the children, make. 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:43.599 Sure their eyes are closed. 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:45.039 Lock the door. 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:48.320 That's some four play cat, Go count all the children, 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:51.440 literally triple check. I'm like, no, I mean, if they're 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:53.840 super distracted and we can sneak away from mine, come 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:57.640 in the bedroom all the time. I mean ours to too. 0:04:57.680 --> 0:04:59.599 That's one thing I like is that everything feels really 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:02.960 like open to them. Yeah, but also sometimes I don't 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:05.520 like that everything feels so open to them exactly whether 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:08.880 their eyes have to be closed, they have to be sleeping, Like. 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:10.520 What if you get a little frisky in the kitchen 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:12.800 and they're like playing in the living room, that's yeah, 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:13.400 did that happen? 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:16.400 It's not happening in my house. That's happening in my house. 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:21.800 But it's not like she's like, no, I'm not going 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:23.960 to complete the task in the kitchen. I'm going to 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:25.600 go to the other room. But they're going to go 0:05:25.640 --> 0:05:28.600 to the danger in the kitchen. Well, that's fair. It's 0:05:28.640 --> 0:05:32.479 getting hot in the kitchen. Oh my god, what about you, Janna, Yeah, 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:33.600 let's talk a Kramer. 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:42.480 Well, I think again, it's the age thing. So we're 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:46.839 obviously very aware, like like we know Jason is going 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:48.919 to get up at least three or four times to 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:53.120 get a hug or cuddle even after I put him 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:57.160 to bed, So we don't really start anything until at 0:05:57.240 --> 0:06:01.280 least an hour alf he goes to bed. 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:03.839 Now, there have been times where. 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:11.159 The old plural where you know, he's naked, I'm naked 0:06:11.240 --> 0:06:14.040 in bed and it's like, you know, you hear their 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.440 little footsteps and it's like the hurry roll into the 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:21.599 bathroom or you know. That was early stages though. I 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:23.400 mean now I would just you know, stay in bed 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:25.960 and cover up or whatever. But yeah, I make sure 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:27.600 the kid didn't come in the bed. But you know 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:28.479 what I mean, I just. 0:06:28.480 --> 0:06:31.040 Feel like Jolie and Love are so alike in this 0:06:31.080 --> 0:06:32.720 way that they're going to try to they would try 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:36.120 to figure it out. Is Ramsey that way? Well? 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:40.640 So another child of mine, who shall remain nameless, absolutely 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:45.760 is that way. And definitely I feel bad by calling 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:47.920 her out on this, but okay, she. 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:50.560 Literally will okay, but she'll come. 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:52.400 In and she'll be like, what are you all doing? 0:06:52.480 --> 0:06:53.960 What he'll doing under there? Do you have any clothes 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:54.520 on under there? 0:06:54.680 --> 0:06:57.600 Oh? Okay, I know Jolie would never ask. 0:06:58.000 --> 0:06:59.719 That's why I'm saying I had to have this talk 0:06:59.760 --> 0:06:59.920 with you. 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:01.719 Yeah. 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:05.040 Yeah, She's just open, likes to talk and like it 0:07:05.120 --> 0:07:07.680 is the most uncomfortable, but we just roll with it. 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:10.320 And sometimes I'm like, you can't ask us these questions. 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:13.680 Yeah, no, I mean Julie would. I would not ask. 0:07:13.720 --> 0:07:15.440 But she also has no idea, Like she has no 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:16.880 idea how this baby was made? 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:19.520 You know what I mean? Yes, right right, right. 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:21.520 Right? 0:07:21.880 --> 0:07:24.120 So I think again, as at ages, you just have. 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:27.280 To be a little bit more mindful again of the 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:30.600 the ages that the kids are at. But also I 0:07:30.640 --> 0:07:36.320 wouldn't like I don't know, I mean with having someone. 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:39.120 I will say this like there's a reason why I 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:42.360 don't co sleep because I want to have sex. 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:45.280 At night with my person. You know, how do you 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:46.720 do that with the baby? I don't know how they 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:50.880 do it, because you did. Those of you that can't see, 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:54.240 all eyes are on me because I'm the co sleeping captain. 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:57.560 Aligned would you just have sex with the No? No, no, no, 0:07:57.600 --> 0:08:00.000 we are like high school. We're just running at college 0:08:03.080 --> 0:08:06.000 for making out for sure, that's all we're doing. No, 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:08.440 we're just like we. I mean I have told this 0:08:08.560 --> 0:08:11.280 story on wind Down the Tour before, but like we 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:14.360 I mean there's times where I'm like, meet me in 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:15.280 the backseat of the truck. 0:08:15.440 --> 0:08:19.320 So that is that when you that's where we're not alike, 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:21.720 because to me, I'd be like, what if a neighbor. 0:08:21.440 --> 0:08:23.960 Saw what if Like I'd rather neighbor than my baby. 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:27.840 Oh my, I'd rather just go like and lock a door. Well, sure, 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:29.480 but you don't have a you don't have the little 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:33.280 walksman living with you. No, honestly, like we're just I 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:35.280 don't know. I mean there's a lot of day times 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:37.680 for us because that's when the kids do their like 0:08:37.720 --> 0:08:40.760 little homeschool tutorial too, so. 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:43.080 So they're in the other room homeschooling. No, no, no, 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:47.439 when they go to their school. Yeah, yeah, I'm just guys, 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:50.480 we have to keep he's never home. I need money's home. 0:08:51.240 --> 0:08:53.040 But I also like we do private time. 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:54.280 Like I'll be like, hey, I want a couple of 0:08:54.280 --> 0:08:56.440 minutes with dad, Like we take showers together, and like 0:08:56.720 --> 0:08:58.959 nothing's happening when we're taking showers. It's just the only 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:02.000 place there's no electronic So I like that, Like his 0:09:02.080 --> 0:09:05.840 phone is down. Sorry, you're a dirty bird. 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:08.840 No, I'm just I'm thinking about something that happened last night, 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:09.240 and I. 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:12.840 Just when she got caught. No no, no, no, no, no, 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:13.960 I didn't get caught last night. 0:09:14.000 --> 0:09:16.880 But I'm just at the stage in pregnancy because you know, 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:18.840 well when this airs, i'll be in my third trimester. 0:09:19.000 --> 0:09:24.400 But sex is just harder at this stage right now. 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:26.760 And so I just was laughing because last night I 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:29.640 just sound like I'm dying. It's so because you know, 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:33.520 you get that cramp like after you and it hurts 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:33.880 so bad. 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:38.240 I'm like, oh, like and also like again, sorry, t am, 0:09:38.240 --> 0:09:40.400 I like the very close veins, like it hurts to 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:42.880 like have that oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you know. But 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:45.719 I'm like I'm also like I want to and like yeah, 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:47.520 he you know, wants to go. 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:50.720 But I'm also like, can you turn the lights off, 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:52.880 like I don't want you to see anything down there. 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:55.640 I will say I'm a little insecure about the breast 0:09:55.679 --> 0:10:00.360 post baby. Oh that's a little I'm really telling everyone much. 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:05.160 But mine are just so low and so like like 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:06.880 if I collect them and put them in a brawl, 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:09.240 they can still hold their own. But like otherwise I'm 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:12.680 just like presence like I love them and I'm like, oh, like, 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:14.880 I just it's like I'm getting insecure about them and 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:17.640 I've never been that way before. And I'm honoring my body. 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:22.360 It's done great work, and they are really low. How 0:10:22.440 --> 0:10:25.760 low can you go? Really low? The answer is very 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:30.040 It's really hard for me right now. Yeah, so light 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:31.000 feels good. 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:34.880 Speaking of Jessica, though, there was also something about well, 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:36.920 for two things, have you heard her daughter sing? Because 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:39.880 apparently she's releasing new music next year and her daughter 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:41.360 is going to have a little piece of it. I've heard, 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:44.280 but apparently she's like an amazing singer too, which I'm sure, 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:47.120 so I can't wait to hear that. But everyone's kind 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:50.320 of right now focusing on her weight loss. Yeah, and 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:52.840 I'm curious if you guys so I again, I know, 0:10:52.880 --> 0:10:56.079 we've kind of spoken about this pill and everyone's taking it, 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:59.800 and I've seen, you know a lot of thingstead of 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:03.319 how helped. But also it's like it's hard not to go, well, 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:06.160 she must have taken ozempic whatever, but I don't know, 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:09.480 but it's hard when that's like so available and everyone's 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:10.520 taking it, and then. 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:12.280 I don't know what you guys think yeah, I mean 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:13.000 it's hard to tell. 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:15.800 I think now my brain always goes to if someone's 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:20.520 losing weight quickly, that they're on the shot. I mean, 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:23.240 there's several of them that they can take, and a 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:25.320 lot of people are. A lot of people won't admit 0:11:25.360 --> 0:11:27.080 they are, a lot of people do admit they are. 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:28.640 So I don't know, it's hard to say. 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:32.200 It's interesting though, like because I I hate the whole 0:11:32.240 --> 0:11:34.800 body talk. She did say, she didn't write. It's just 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:36.480 it's just kind of she's always been up and down 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:38.600 with her weight, which she has, yeah, for sure. And 0:11:38.679 --> 0:11:42.840 I also even hate having this conversation because it's, you know, 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:45.560 talking about people's weight and the body issues, and I 0:11:45.600 --> 0:11:49.320 don't like that. Having said that, you know, obviously she's 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:52.280 a public person, and then this whole pill stuff. I 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:56.640 go to the thing saying okay, kind of like saying 0:11:56.679 --> 0:11:59.720 you didn't have plastic surgery, but you did have plastic surgery, right, 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:01.760 So like it's it's like me going around saying, well, 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:03.480 I didn't get a boob job, but who really cares 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:05.120 whether I did or didn't. And I don't need to 0:12:05.160 --> 0:12:08.640 tell anyone, But I don't know. It's that like conversation 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:10.160 where you well. 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:12.319 You know, I'm open, like I tell everyone about botox 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:14.440 and Jack, like it was just different. 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:17.160 I mean, I had this conversation with three of my 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:21.160 friends that do take the shot, who have for probably 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:24.000 a year at this point, and I mean they're like, 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:24.920 you have to admit it. 0:12:25.200 --> 0:12:29.240 Like when people why though in there and. 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:32.280 They said this, not me, I'm not saying this, they said, 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:34.160 because it is the easy way out. 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:37.960 But in today when Simon has like an if maybe 0:12:37.960 --> 0:12:40.040 a thyrtish I don't, I don't know, or has like 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:40.920 a diabetes or. 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:45.400 I have nothing against it, so I'm not But literally 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:46.880 one of the girls said that, She's like, I mean, 0:12:46.880 --> 0:12:48.719 it kind of is the easy way out. So I 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:50.480 kind of feel like I have to admit it and 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:52.920 be like, well, it wasn't It wasn't like I'm over 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:55.719 here working out, you know, for five hours a day 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:57.240 and you know, da da d da whatever. 0:12:57.760 --> 0:12:59.720 I mean, No, I think it's your choice, you get 0:12:59.760 --> 0:13:00.280 to use. 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:02.480 But here's my thing with the easy way out. That's 0:13:02.520 --> 0:13:05.200 almost like saying, so, you know, I've been dealing with 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:08.960 anxiety again, is the easy way out for me to 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:09.640 take medicine? 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:10.000 No? 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:14.359 But it's it's something that can help me to kickstart 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:18.040 maybe that again. Sure, So I'm like, is it really 0:13:18.040 --> 0:13:20.320 the easy because some people need to have that thing 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:23.960 to help whatever medical thing they have that they can't. 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:26.040 I don't know. Well, I mean it's just no idea 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:27.040 again about control. 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:32.520 It is just you're not hungry, you don't crave the 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:37.200 things that we do, you don't mindlessly eat like it's 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:39.800 just yeah, I mean that's what it is. 0:13:41.160 --> 0:13:44.559 But then when you come off of it, it is so. 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:47.280 Many people have a friend, Yes, I have a friend, 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:51.440 well two of them are off of it now and 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:55.360 yeah they've getten some way way back in theory, you 0:13:55.480 --> 0:14:00.240 should make changes with your diet while you're doing it 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:03.440 so that when you come off, you are making this smart. 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:05.880 I mean, I'll be honest, I would love to do it, 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:09.240 but that terrifies me. I know, I would be ravenous 0:14:09.280 --> 0:14:11.800 when I came off because I'm a hungry person, Like 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:13.840 I would love to not have the appetite I do. 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:17.080 But that scares me. But also like it's not healthy 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:18.319 to not eat well. 0:14:18.160 --> 0:14:21.120 And that really have to keep eating some it's been 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:23.840 different for all. Okay, one of my friends has been 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:26.240 extremely tired on it. There's different levels at it. You 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:30.440 start at a certain dosage and then you up up it. Okay, 0:14:30.520 --> 0:14:32.640 not everyone gets to a certain point. Not everyone can 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:35.560 handle a certain point, different side effects. Some people are sick, 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:38.480 some people are not, so it is different for everyone. 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:42.440 One of my friends, she you know, she basically has 0:14:42.480 --> 0:14:44.920 to force herself to eat. One of them is like, no, 0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:47.480 I'm you know, I'm come dinner time. I'm pretty hungry 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:50.720 and I just eat a full, full meal, whereas other 0:14:50.760 --> 0:14:52.880 people I see are eating like half the kuesadilla. So 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:54.640 it's just it hits everyone very different. 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:58.280 I just hate that, like someone like in her because 0:14:58.280 --> 0:15:00.920 she has been up and down since I mean the beginning. 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:04.400 So it's to have that be a talking point again 0:15:05.200 --> 0:15:06.840 when it's not something more. 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:09.080 Especially if she didn't do it and she's over here, 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:10.040 that's where I would be. 0:15:10.440 --> 0:15:12.520 Yeah, frustrating, because I mean I lost a creptn of 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:14.200 weight when I got divorced. I didn't take it, you know, 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:16.080 I mean to me, I lost weight, you know, so 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:18.680 looked I thought I looked different. But people go through 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:19.880 those I mean, Chloe and. 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:21.720 I don't know. I'm sure she was depressed as hell. 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:23.480 With the I don't know. I mean, I mean I 0:15:23.520 --> 0:15:26.640 lost weight through my divorce, so I'm like, maybe she 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:29.600 just you know people I don't know, well, yeah, and 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:34.040 she has different resources than a lot of us too, 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:36.120 Like because if I could have a trainer at my 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:39.960 house every single day, someone cooking for you, yeah, I 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:42.800 mean that's what I would go. If I had that, 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:45.080 I would be It's just like I would really enjoy that. 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:47.480 And those resources are available to some people, so they 0:15:47.520 --> 0:15:48.880 can do that and put that well. 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:51.560 And for some people like me, especially like if I 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:53.960 had like a chef in my home going this is 0:15:54.000 --> 0:15:56.280 what you should eat and here it is, I would 0:15:56.280 --> 0:15:58.480 make healthier food decisions. 0:15:58.120 --> 0:15:59.640 You know. I mean, I just so I do. 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:01.200 I just I don't know. I mean, who knows if 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:04.640 she's doing it. But if she says she's not, then. 0:16:04.560 --> 0:16:07.040 I think we can all agree she's still a goddess. 0:16:07.480 --> 0:16:12.680 Moving forward, Kim Catarle's return to Sex and the City. 0:16:14.000 --> 0:16:20.080 So if you watch and just like that, I personally 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:24.280 I've been disappointed this season and I have to say 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:26.400 I don't actually think it's going to end up well 0:16:26.440 --> 0:16:30.200 for Carrie and Aiden. Okay, I should have talked about 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:31.960 this before we got I don't even know what's happening. 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:36.280 So I've obviously never been a fan of Aiden. I 0:16:36.320 --> 0:16:38.520 think I agree. I don't like the fact that she 0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:41.400 called Big a mistake that wone kind of hurt. That's ridiculous, 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:46.440 bit because I think Big was there for like that 0:16:46.760 --> 0:16:49.280 was I think that was her big love. I don't 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:51.400 know if yeah, I mean they obviously were right in 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:54.040 the very end together. He was not great in the beginning. 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:56.760 Whatever people say it was toxictter No, No, wonder why 0:16:56.760 --> 0:16:59.960 you don't like Big because Aiden, you know, was healthy 0:17:00.240 --> 0:17:02.000 and Big was toxic either way. 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:05.720 Not sure that that's true. But like, I don't like 0:17:05.760 --> 0:17:07.960 the fact that Aiden is so whiny about the apartment. 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:08.600 Get over it. 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:12.320 I understand things went bad there, but also like have 0:17:12.480 --> 0:17:15.080 peace with things, go back in and that you guys 0:17:15.080 --> 0:17:16.720 are both different versions of yourself. 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:19.159 Also, she never lived there with Big, so what is 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:21.399 this big beef with the apartment? Yeah, that bothered me. 0:17:22.680 --> 0:17:25.400 The second thing is is I just feel like something 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:29.560 is going to go south. And also the reason why 0:17:29.600 --> 0:17:33.000 Big and Carrie didn't work or why because no one 0:17:33.040 --> 0:17:35.320 wants to see Carrie Like, Okay, yeah, they're happy and 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:37.760 they're living happily ever after. So and what now Carrie 0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:39.560 and Aidan are to live happily ever after? Like we 0:17:39.640 --> 0:17:41.360 watched to see Carrie's dating stories. 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:42.960 Well that's what it's all about. 0:17:43.240 --> 0:17:46.879 So this whole Aiden loves story, I just don't. I 0:17:46.920 --> 0:17:50.000 still just don't think that's her person. Okay, Virginia is 0:17:50.040 --> 0:17:51.840 not that far from New York. Would you like to 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:54.320 start there with like just actual geography, because I confuse 0:17:54.359 --> 0:17:55.680 why we can't be dating. 0:17:56.960 --> 0:17:59.439 Like it's a quick flight. It's not. It's only like 0:17:59.440 --> 0:18:02.880 a six and a half hour drive get to each other, right, 0:18:03.400 --> 0:18:07.160 That's weird to me. I also think it's weird that 0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:08.359 Samantha came back. 0:18:10.560 --> 0:18:13.159 I like how they did it to say goodbye to 0:18:13.200 --> 0:18:15.159 the I like how she had a moment with it 0:18:15.240 --> 0:18:16.919 and said goodbye. 0:18:17.119 --> 0:18:17.920 It was fine. 0:18:18.080 --> 0:18:21.280 I just I personally, even though I have my own 0:18:21.280 --> 0:18:24.160 opinions about like her, I just think that I miss 0:18:24.200 --> 0:18:25.359 her presence on the show. 0:18:25.720 --> 0:18:28.120 I know, but we don't even get her presence, right, 0:18:28.200 --> 0:18:30.080 So it was just kind of like a letdown. Well 0:18:30.119 --> 0:18:32.159 and we all know too much, Like nobody watching the 0:18:32.200 --> 0:18:35.440 show is just like just started the season. So everybody 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:37.760 that's watching the show is like, watched it for years. 0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:41.240 I feel like, so we all know what's really going on, 0:18:41.320 --> 0:18:44.119 so now we're just watching her. I don't know. And 0:18:44.119 --> 0:18:46.600 she didn't film with the other no, right, she just 0:18:46.840 --> 0:18:51.600 she made like a million dollars for seventy three seconds. 0:18:51.960 --> 0:18:53.639 Well that's why she's And she also said that she 0:18:53.680 --> 0:18:55.280