1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,359 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast. 2 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 2: All Right, so today is all about hot topics. I 3 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 2: love those. I love hot topic days. I do too. 4 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 3: It's fun, it's it can be spicy. But also I 5 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 3: think it's a conversation starter too, because I think we're 6 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 3: very different. 7 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 2: I know we are about everything. I saw this and 8 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:26,279 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I already know what this is 9 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 2: going to look like, and this one's going to look like. 10 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 2: So which one do you want to start with first? 11 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 3: Because there's a few to discuss that are could be Well, 12 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 3: all of them are good conversations, But which one would 13 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 3: you like to discuss first? 14 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 2: Well, two of them are my ideal fields of study. Well, 15 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 2: then you started off KB. Do you want to talk 16 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 2: about Jessica Simpson or sex in the city or would 17 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 2: you like to talk about exes because there's a lot 18 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 2: of people having an interpripose relation to relationships with their exes. Okay, 19 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 2: let's start with Jessica. Okay, because rumor has it she 20 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 2: lives in Nashville. Does she really She's making a temporary 21 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 2: move to Nashville. Interesting? What if I see her at 22 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 2: the grocery store and fainting on the five. Okay, thank 23 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 2: you not I'm thinking about it. 24 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 3: Jessica Simpson has been in denial about her and Eric 25 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:20,199 Speaker 3: Johnson's child walking in on them having sex. So here's 26 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 3: the article. Jessica Simpson and Eric Johnson's marriage is still 27 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 3: hot and heavy, which has led to some awkward moments 28 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 3: for the couple and their kids. It's good to keep 29 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 3: the romance there, even with three kids on top of 30 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 3: our heads. Sorry, I can. 31 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a very Jessica quote consistent, but she's not done. 32 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 2: Here we goes. It's hard, but sorry, and I'm twelve. 33 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 2: It's hard. 34 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 3: But he'll leave me little notes. Just give He'll wake 35 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 3: up earlier than me. There's so many little things in America. 36 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 3: He'll leave me little letter. Simpson, forty three, told Access 37 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 3: Hollywood on Saturday. There's a lot of things that make 38 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 3: me like I can't wait to get my hands on 39 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 3: him later. I think you have to have those little 40 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 3: things as a couple that are just between you two. Unfortunately, 41 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 3: for Simpson and Johnson, who share three kids eleven, ten, 42 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:18,080 Speaker 3: and four, some of those moments wound up being interrupted 43 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 3: by their children. So the fashion designer said she and 44 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 3: Johnson had been in denial after their child recently walked 45 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,359 Speaker 3: in on them having sex. Has this happened to any 46 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 3: of you? 47 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: Well, I have a question, go witch child. That is 48 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: the most important question. And do we know the answer 49 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: to this? 50 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 2: I have a question for you. Does this happen to you? 51 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: No? 52 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 2: Okay, close, but no? Because your kids are older, so 53 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 2: I always want That's why I need to know. 54 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 3: Because the four year old would have no idea. The 55 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 3: ten and eleven year old that's a different for sure. 56 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 3: No ballgame, guys, this is like a nightmare for me. 57 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 3: Nightmare Go why because I don't know? Like I feel 58 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 3: like I'm I'm pretty good. I honestly feel like when 59 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 3: there's tough situations, I'm I do well at those situations 60 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 3: because I can just plug in. I'm like, God, what 61 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 3: do you want me to say? I don't I don't 62 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 3: know what I would say in this situation. I mean, 63 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 3: when do you When do you have the sex talk. 64 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 2: With your kids? Well, people disagree with me, Okay, I 65 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 2: want to know. 66 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: Well, I had it with my eleven year old at nine, 67 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: but it lent itself to that, Like lots of questions, 68 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 1: I knew it was time I had to have the conversation. 69 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 1: My fourteen year old was probably about nine two, but 70 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 1: I knew of friends of his were talking about things, 71 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: so I knew we had to get on it. 72 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: But then the seven year old, I I don't know 73 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 2: she she doesn't say, but it's not it's not her son, 74 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 2: which is the four year old? I believe it's the 75 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 2: eartiest one, the youngest, So it's not the oldest, is 76 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 2: what you're saying. That's the middle child. 77 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 3: So it's either the four or the eleven maps. Well, 78 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 3: I have a question though, have you ever had kid 79 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 3: walk in on you having sex? 80 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 2: Though? No close, but now you guys, legend knows how 81 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 2: to pick locks? Oh gosh, I make sure everyone's sleep. 82 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 2: I don't even know how to pick a lock. This 83 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 2: is so unbranded for his personality, Like he's either going 84 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 2: to be like this kid needs a legal team. Well, 85 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 2: like our locks are like kind of kid to help 86 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 2: you if a kid was locked inside. So it's like 87 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 2: you just need like a little flat thing to I 88 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 2: mean I can do that too. Yeah, So he's the 89 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 2: other day, we were trying to have a moment. 90 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 1: So do you hear it when they're just like running around? 91 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 2: See that's where I give. 92 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 1: This is where this is where I'm different. I'm like, 93 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 1: is everyone asleep, Go make sure, go count the children, make. 94 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:43,599 Speaker 2: Sure their eyes are closed. 95 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:45,039 Speaker 1: Lock the door. 96 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 2: That's some four play cat, Go count all the children, 97 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 2: literally triple check. I'm like, no, I mean, if they're 98 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,840 Speaker 2: super distracted and we can sneak away from mine, come 99 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 2: in the bedroom all the time. I mean ours to too. 100 00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:59,599 Speaker 2: That's one thing I like is that everything feels really 101 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 2: like open to them. Yeah, but also sometimes I don't 102 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 2: like that everything feels so open to them exactly whether 103 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 2: their eyes have to be closed, they have to be sleeping, Like. 104 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 3: What if you get a little frisky in the kitchen 105 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 3: and they're like playing in the living room, that's yeah, 106 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 3: did that happen? 107 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 2: It's not happening in my house. That's happening in my house. 108 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 2: But it's not like she's like, no, I'm not going 109 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: to complete the task in the kitchen. I'm going to 110 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:25,600 Speaker 2: go to the other room. But they're going to go 111 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 2: to the danger in the kitchen. Well, that's fair. It's 112 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 2: getting hot in the kitchen. Oh my god, what about you, Janna, Yeah, 113 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 2: let's talk a Kramer. 114 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 3: Well, I think again, it's the age thing. So we're 115 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 3: obviously very aware, like like we know Jason is going 116 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:48,919 Speaker 3: to get up at least three or four times to 117 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 3: get a hug or cuddle even after I put him 118 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 3: to bed, So we don't really start anything until at 119 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 3: least an hour alf he goes to bed. 120 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 2: Now, there have been times where. 121 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 3: The old plural where you know, he's naked, I'm naked 122 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:14,040 Speaker 3: in bed and it's like, you know, you hear their 123 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 3: little footsteps and it's like the hurry roll into the 124 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:21,599 Speaker 3: bathroom or you know. That was early stages though. I 125 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 3: mean now I would just you know, stay in bed 126 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 3: and cover up or whatever. But yeah, I make sure 127 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 3: the kid didn't come in the bed. But you know 128 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 3: what I mean, I just. 129 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 2: Feel like Jolie and Love are so alike in this 130 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 2: way that they're going to try to they would try 131 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 2: to figure it out. Is Ramsey that way? Well? 132 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: So another child of mine, who shall remain nameless, absolutely 133 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: is that way. And definitely I feel bad by calling 134 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 1: her out on this, but okay, she. 135 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 2: Literally will okay, but she'll come. 136 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: In and she'll be like, what are you all doing? 137 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: What he'll doing under there? Do you have any clothes 138 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: on under there? 139 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 2: Oh? Okay, I know Jolie would never ask. 140 00:06:58,000 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 1: That's why I'm saying I had to have this talk 141 00:06:59,760 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 1: with you. 142 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 2: Yeah. 143 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, She's just open, likes to talk and like it 144 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: is the most uncomfortable, but we just roll with it. 145 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: And sometimes I'm like, you can't ask us these questions. 146 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I mean Julie would. I would not ask. 147 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 3: But she also has no idea, Like she has no 148 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 3: idea how this baby was made? 149 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Yes, right right, right. 150 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: Right? 151 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 2: So I think again, as at ages, you just have. 152 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 3: To be a little bit more mindful again of the 153 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 3: the ages that the kids are at. But also I 154 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 3: wouldn't like I don't know, I mean with having someone. 155 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 3: I will say this like there's a reason why I 156 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 3: don't co sleep because I want to have sex. 157 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 2: At night with my person. You know, how do you 158 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 2: do that with the baby? I don't know how they 159 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 2: do it, because you did. Those of you that can't see, 160 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 2: all eyes are on me because I'm the co sleeping captain. 161 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 2: Aligned would you just have sex with the No? No, no, no, 162 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 2: we are like high school. We're just running at college 163 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 2: for making out for sure, that's all we're doing. No, 164 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 2: we're just like we. I mean I have told this 165 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 2: story on wind Down the Tour before, but like we 166 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 2: I mean there's times where I'm like, meet me in 167 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 2: the backseat of the truck. 168 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 3: So that is that when you that's where we're not alike, 169 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 3: because to me, I'd be like, what if a neighbor. 170 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 2: Saw what if Like I'd rather neighbor than my baby. 171 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 2: Oh my, I'd rather just go like and lock a door. Well, sure, 172 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 2: but you don't have a you don't have the little 173 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 2: walksman living with you. No, honestly, like we're just I 174 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 2: don't know. I mean there's a lot of day times 175 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:37,680 Speaker 2: for us because that's when the kids do their like 176 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 2: little homeschool tutorial too, so. 177 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:43,080 Speaker 4: So they're in the other room homeschooling. No, no, no, 178 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:47,439 Speaker 4: when they go to their school. Yeah, yeah, I'm just guys, 179 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 4: we have to keep he's never home. I need money's home. 180 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 4: But I also like we do private time. 181 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 2: Like I'll be like, hey, I want a couple of 182 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 2: minutes with dad, Like we take showers together, and like 183 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 2: nothing's happening when we're taking showers. It's just the only 184 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 2: place there's no electronic So I like that, Like his 185 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 2: phone is down. Sorry, you're a dirty bird. 186 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 3: No, I'm just I'm thinking about something that happened last night, 187 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 3: and I. 188 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 2: Just when she got caught. No no, no, no, no, no, 189 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 2: I didn't get caught last night. 190 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 3: But I'm just at the stage in pregnancy because you know, 191 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 3: well when this airs, i'll be in my third trimester. 192 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 3: But sex is just harder at this stage right now. 193 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 3: And so I just was laughing because last night I 194 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 3: just sound like I'm dying. It's so because you know, 195 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 3: you get that cramp like after you and it hurts 196 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 3: so bad. 197 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, like and also like again, sorry, t am, 198 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 2: I like the very close veins, like it hurts to 199 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 2: like have that oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you know. But 200 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,719 Speaker 2: I'm like I'm also like I want to and like yeah, 201 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 2: he you know, wants to go. 202 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 3: But I'm also like, can you turn the lights off, 203 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 3: like I don't want you to see anything down there. 204 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 2: I will say I'm a little insecure about the breast 205 00:09:55,679 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 2: post baby. Oh that's a little I'm really telling everyone much. 206 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 2: But mine are just so low and so like like 207 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 2: if I collect them and put them in a brawl, 208 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 2: they can still hold their own. But like otherwise I'm 209 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 2: just like presence like I love them and I'm like, oh, like, 210 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 2: I just it's like I'm getting insecure about them and 211 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 2: I've never been that way before. And I'm honoring my body. 212 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 2: It's done great work, and they are really low. How 213 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 2: low can you go? Really low? The answer is very 214 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 2: It's really hard for me right now. Yeah, so light 215 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 2: feels good. 216 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 3: Speaking of Jessica, though, there was also something about well, 217 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 3: for two things, have you heard her daughter sing? Because 218 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 3: apparently she's releasing new music next year and her daughter 219 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 3: is going to have a little piece of it. I've heard, 220 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 3: but apparently she's like an amazing singer too, which I'm sure, 221 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 3: so I can't wait to hear that. But everyone's kind 222 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 3: of right now focusing on her weight loss. Yeah, and 223 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 3: I'm curious if you guys so I again, I know, 224 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:56,079 Speaker 3: we've kind of spoken about this pill and everyone's taking it, 225 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 3: and I've seen, you know a lot of thingstead of 226 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:03,319 Speaker 3: how helped. But also it's like it's hard not to go, well, 227 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 3: she must have taken ozempic whatever, but I don't know, 228 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 3: but it's hard when that's like so available and everyone's 229 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 3: taking it, and then. 230 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 2: I don't know what you guys think yeah, I mean 231 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 2: it's hard to tell. 232 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 1: I think now my brain always goes to if someone's 233 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 1: losing weight quickly, that they're on the shot. I mean, 234 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 1: there's several of them that they can take, and a 235 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:25,320 Speaker 1: lot of people are. A lot of people won't admit 236 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:27,080 Speaker 1: they are, a lot of people do admit they are. 237 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 1: So I don't know, it's hard to say. 238 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 3: It's interesting though, like because I I hate the whole 239 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 3: body talk. She did say, she didn't write. It's just 240 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 3: it's just kind of she's always been up and down 241 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 3: with her weight, which she has, yeah, for sure. And 242 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 3: I also even hate having this conversation because it's, you know, 243 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 3: talking about people's weight and the body issues, and I 244 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 3: don't like that. Having said that, you know, obviously she's 245 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 3: a public person, and then this whole pill stuff. I 246 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 3: go to the thing saying okay, kind of like saying 247 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 3: you didn't have plastic surgery, but you did have plastic surgery, right, 248 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 3: So like it's it's like me going around saying, well, 249 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 3: I didn't get a boob job, but who really cares 250 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 3: whether I did or didn't. And I don't need to 251 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 3: tell anyone, But I don't know. It's that like conversation 252 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 3: where you well. 253 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,319 Speaker 2: You know, I'm open, like I tell everyone about botox 254 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 2: and Jack, like it was just different. 255 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I had this conversation with three of my 256 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: friends that do take the shot, who have for probably 257 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: a year at this point, and I mean they're like, 258 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 1: you have to admit it. 259 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 2: Like when people why though in there and. 260 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: They said this, not me, I'm not saying this, they said, 261 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: because it is the easy way out. 262 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 3: But in today when Simon has like an if maybe 263 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 3: a thyrtish I don't, I don't know, or has like 264 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 3: a diabetes or. 265 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 1: I have nothing against it, so I'm not But literally 266 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: one of the girls said that, She's like, I mean, 267 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:48,719 Speaker 1: it kind of is the easy way out. So I 268 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 1: kind of feel like I have to admit it and 269 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: be like, well, it wasn't It wasn't like I'm over 270 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:55,719 Speaker 1: here working out, you know, for five hours a day 271 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 1: and you know, da da d da whatever. 272 00:12:57,760 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 2: I mean, No, I think it's your choice, you get 273 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 2: to use. 274 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 3: But here's my thing with the easy way out. That's 275 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 3: almost like saying, so, you know, I've been dealing with 276 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 3: anxiety again, is the easy way out for me to 277 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 3: take medicine? 278 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 2: No? 279 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,359 Speaker 3: But it's it's something that can help me to kickstart 280 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 3: maybe that again. Sure, So I'm like, is it really 281 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 3: the easy because some people need to have that thing 282 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 3: to help whatever medical thing they have that they can't. 283 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 2: I don't know. Well, I mean it's just no idea 284 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 2: again about control. 285 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 1: It is just you're not hungry, you don't crave the 286 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 1: things that we do, you don't mindlessly eat like it's 287 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: just yeah, I mean that's what it is. 288 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:44,559 Speaker 2: But then when you come off of it, it is so. 289 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: Many people have a friend, Yes, I have a friend, 290 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 1: well two of them are off of it now and 291 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: yeah they've getten some way way back in theory, you 292 00:13:55,480 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: should make changes with your diet while you're doing it 293 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 1: so that when you come off, you are making this smart. 294 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I'll be honest, I would love to do it, 295 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: but that terrifies me. I know, I would be ravenous 296 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: when I came off because I'm a hungry person, Like 297 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 1: I would love to not have the appetite I do. 298 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:17,080 Speaker 2: But that scares me. But also like it's not healthy 299 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:18,319 Speaker 2: to not eat well. 300 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 1: And that really have to keep eating some it's been 301 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 1: different for all. Okay, one of my friends has been 302 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: extremely tired on it. There's different levels at it. You 303 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 1: start at a certain dosage and then you up up it. Okay, 304 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 1: not everyone gets to a certain point. Not everyone can 305 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: handle a certain point, different side effects. Some people are sick, 306 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: some people are not, so it is different for everyone. 307 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 1: One of my friends, she you know, she basically has 308 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 1: to force herself to eat. One of them is like, no, 309 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm come dinner time. I'm pretty hungry 310 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 1: and I just eat a full, full meal, whereas other 311 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 1: people I see are eating like half the kuesadilla. So 312 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 1: it's just it hits everyone very different. 313 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 3: I just hate that, like someone like in her because 314 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 3: she has been up and down since I mean the beginning. 315 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 3: So it's to have that be a talking point again 316 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 3: when it's not something more. 317 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 1: Especially if she didn't do it and she's over here, 318 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 1: that's where I would be. 319 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, frustrating, because I mean I lost a creptn of 320 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 3: weight when I got divorced. I didn't take it, you know, 321 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 3: I mean to me, I lost weight, you know, so 322 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 3: looked I thought I looked different. But people go through 323 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 3: those I mean, Chloe and. 324 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm sure she was depressed as hell. 325 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 2: With the I don't know. I mean, I mean I 326 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 2: lost weight through my divorce, so I'm like, maybe she 327 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 2: just you know people I don't know, well, yeah, and 328 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 2: she has different resources than a lot of us too, 329 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 2: Like because if I could have a trainer at my 330 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 2: house every single day, someone cooking for you, yeah, I 331 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 2: mean that's what I would go. If I had that, 332 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 2: I would be It's just like I would really enjoy that. 333 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 2: And those resources are available to some people, so they 334 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 2: can do that and put that well. 335 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 1: And for some people like me, especially like if I 336 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 1: had like a chef in my home going this is 337 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: what you should eat and here it is, I would 338 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 1: make healthier food decisions. 339 00:15:58,120 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 2: You know. I mean, I just so I do. 340 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: I just I don't know. I mean, who knows if 341 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: she's doing it. But if she says she's not, then. 342 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 2: I think we can all agree she's still a goddess. 343 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 2: Moving forward, Kim Catarle's return to Sex and the City. 344 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 2: So if you watch and just like that, I personally 345 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 2: I've been disappointed this season and I have to say 346 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 2: I don't actually think it's going to end up well 347 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 2: for Carrie and Aiden. Okay, I should have talked about 348 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 2: this before we got I don't even know what's happening. 349 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 3: So I've obviously never been a fan of Aiden. I 350 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 3: think I agree. I don't like the fact that she 351 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 3: called Big a mistake that wone kind of hurt. That's ridiculous, 352 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 3: bit because I think Big was there for like that 353 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 3: was I think that was her big love. I don't 354 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 3: know if yeah, I mean they obviously were right in 355 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 3: the very end together. He was not great in the beginning. 356 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 3: Whatever people say it was toxictter No, No, wonder why 357 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 3: you don't like Big because Aiden, you know, was healthy 358 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 3: and Big was toxic either way. 359 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 2: Not sure that that's true. But like, I don't like 360 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 2: the fact that Aiden is so whiny about the apartment. 361 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 2: Get over it. 362 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 3: I understand things went bad there, but also like have 363 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 3: peace with things, go back in and that you guys 364 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 3: are both different versions of yourself. 365 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:19,159 Speaker 2: Also, she never lived there with Big, so what is 366 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:21,399 Speaker 2: this big beef with the apartment? Yeah, that bothered me. 367 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:25,400 Speaker 3: The second thing is is I just feel like something 368 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 3: is going to go south. And also the reason why 369 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 3: Big and Carrie didn't work or why because no one 370 00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 3: wants to see Carrie Like, Okay, yeah, they're happy and 371 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 3: they're living happily ever after. So and what now Carrie 372 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 3: and Aidan are to live happily ever after? Like we 373 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:41,360 Speaker 3: watched to see Carrie's dating stories. 374 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 2: Well that's what it's all about. 375 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 3: So this whole Aiden loves story, I just don't. I 376 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 3: still just don't think that's her person. Okay, Virginia is 377 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 3: not that far from New York. Would you like to 378 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 3: start there with like just actual geography, because I confuse 379 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:55,680 Speaker 3: why we can't be dating. 380 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,439 Speaker 2: Like it's a quick flight. It's not. It's only like 381 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:02,880 Speaker 2: a six and a half hour drive get to each other, right, 382 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 2: That's weird to me. I also think it's weird that 383 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 2: Samantha came back. 384 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:13,159 Speaker 3: I like how they did it to say goodbye to 385 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 3: the I like how she had a moment with it 386 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:16,919 Speaker 3: and said goodbye. 387 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:17,920 Speaker 2: It was fine. 388 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 3: I just I personally, even though I have my own 389 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 3: opinions about like her, I just think that I miss 390 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 3: her presence on the show. 391 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:28,120 Speaker 2: I know, but we don't even get her presence, right, 392 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 2: So it was just kind of like a letdown. Well 393 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 2: and we all know too much, Like nobody watching the 394 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 2: show is just like just started the season. So everybody 395 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 2: that's watching the show is like, watched it for years. 396 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 2: I feel like, so we all know what's really going on, 397 00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:44,119 Speaker 2: so now we're just watching her. I don't know. And 398 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 2: she didn't film with the other no, right, she just 399 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 2: she made like a million dollars for seventy three seconds. 400 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:53,639 Speaker 3: Well that's why she's And she also said that she 401 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 3: was never going to do the show, so I'm like, 402 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 3: we just either stick to your word, but then money bays. 403 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 3: So then she also has her own book series, right 404 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 3: which I've watched. I'm on the last and I actually 405 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 3: I like her in it. 406 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like her. I like her. I just think 407 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 2: this whole thing is weird and like we all know 408 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 2: too much, so just like, let her just be. I 409 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 2: almost like it better when I like her not seeing her, Yeah, 410 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 2: I like her living in London and I never see her. 411 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 2: But this seasons I've really struggled with this season. I 412 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 2: struggled with last, so I couldn't watch this one. Yeah, 413 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 2: I mean I'll say this, I could watch it on mute. Really, 414 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 2: I do love Carrie's words a lot, but I'm in 415 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 2: it for the fashion a lot of times. And I 416 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:36,159 Speaker 2: don't know, I just feel like I've always had a 417 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 2: hard time saying goodbye to people. This will be super shocking. 418 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 2: Like I don't finish a lot of books. I leave 419 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:44,199 Speaker 2: the last twenty pages. So I like people to like 420 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 2: be where they are, and I don't necessarily need it 421 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:48,640 Speaker 2: to like end end, So I'm kind of like, yeah, 422 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 2: I just want to check in with them, like every 423 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:51,960 Speaker 2: week and the last. 424 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 3: Twenty pages, because what I do is like Gudrton, I 425 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 3: went to the last episode. 426 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:57,600 Speaker 2: I had to know that they were going to be together. 427 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 2: Oh no oh yeah, but I read the end of 428 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:05,360 Speaker 2: the book pretty much before. This is us in a nutshell. Wow, 429 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:08,680 Speaker 2: this so well. Yeah, I don't want I want them 430 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 2: to live in the place where they live. Yeah, Carrie's 431 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:13,960 Speaker 2: like a bff. So I just want to check in 432 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:15,879 Speaker 2: with her weekly and be like, yeah, girl, good outfit, 433 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:17,719 Speaker 2: glad you had fun. Oh you went to dinner. That's good, 434 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 2: and they'll see you next week. I don't need to 435 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:22,400 Speaker 2: be real dramatic. I don't need to be so tumultuous. 436 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,400 Speaker 2: I just need to know she's doing great. I need 437 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 2: Country Lurch to head on back to the fields. I 438 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,919 Speaker 2: also need to have different wardrobe, not gonna lie. 439 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 3: I kind of like the guy that she ran Oh 440 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 3: that was that. That was I was like, what with 441 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,440 Speaker 3: that coat? When he turned when I could not even 442 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,640 Speaker 3: I almost feel like the guy that she ran into 443 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:42,120 Speaker 3: on the bike. 444 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 2: I liked him. I don't know about him. I think 445 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:48,959 Speaker 2: it would have been a fun thing. Well maybe this 446 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 2: is my PTSD, but I don't like a guy that's 447 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 2: this and meshed with his business partner, like you know, 448 00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:59,399 Speaker 2: you get on in there and you're like, hang on 449 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 2: a second. That actually was hysterical. Yeah, that was pretty funny. 450 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 3: Actually, let's take a break and then we're going to 451 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,959 Speaker 3: come back with the fact that Derek Huff had his 452 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:12,919 Speaker 3: sister Julian's ex husband Brooks as his one of his 453 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 3: grooms where his wedding b RB groomsmen, groomsmen? 454 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 2: What do I say? 455 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 5: Grooms grooms ben Here you go, I'll tell your break, 456 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:36,160 Speaker 5: all right. 457 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:41,399 Speaker 3: So Derek huffs grooms men included sister Julian Huff's ex 458 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 3: husband Brooks lach Latch Late. So Derek married Hayley and 459 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:53,120 Speaker 3: had a beautiful ceremony. Uh and among that group was uh, yeah, 460 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:55,920 Speaker 3: Julian's ex husband Brooks as one of the grooms men. 461 00:21:56,880 --> 00:22:00,959 Speaker 2: What are your thoughts? What are your thoughts? Kramer. I 462 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,719 Speaker 2: have thoughts. I know you do. We're different. I think 463 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 2: so I loved it, and I'm I don't going to 464 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 2: tell you why? Why is this welcome to Easter? Thank you? Why? Used? 465 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 2: Why do you think we think it's funny? Of course 466 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:30,479 Speaker 2: you think this is okay? What is the big Why? 467 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 2: Why are you guys laughing at me? I'm a poll 468 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:37,920 Speaker 2: everyone knows. 469 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 1: But why you love everybody's exes and new ones and 470 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 1: you're like friends with all of them? 471 00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 2: Really anymore? Oh? I mean like there it is there, 472 00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 2: we all finally have. Okay, it's a little different, a 473 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 2: complicated at Easter and Thanksgiving. Okay, time out for a second. 474 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 2: Let me tell you why I love it? So do 475 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 2: you want me to tell you why? You sure? You go? 476 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 2: At first, I go, oh wow. 477 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:20,639 Speaker 3: That was my very first reaction, like oh wow, because 478 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 3: as Julian, I'd be like, oh, like having said that, 479 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 3: I okay, okay. Let's take my ex for example. I 480 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 3: did not have she his sister. We were not close whatsoever. 481 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 3: We had nothing in common, not like I mean nothing. 482 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 3: Having said that, I would have loved to have had 483 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 3: a sister in law that you know, felt like a 484 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:48,199 Speaker 3: sister because I never had a sister, so that had 485 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 3: been really cool, so really cool. So for me when 486 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 3: I saw that, I was like, that's cool because there 487 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 3: was nothing, to my knowledge, knew. There was no bad 488 00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,919 Speaker 3: blood that broke up that marriage. There was no cheating, 489 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,439 Speaker 3: there was no I mean literally nothing. It was just 490 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,880 Speaker 3: two people that fell apart, didn't love each other. I'm 491 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,679 Speaker 3: sure they had stuff, but like nothing that was heavy. 492 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:12,360 Speaker 3: So the fact that Derek obviously they were together for 493 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,920 Speaker 3: you know, Julian and Brooks were together for a long time. 494 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:19,120 Speaker 3: So you to be like, you can't be friends with 495 00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 3: Brooks anymore, someone that you considered a brother or a 496 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 3: brother in law, you know, in law. You know, I 497 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:29,760 Speaker 3: think that's I think that's cool. I think that's obviously 498 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:33,159 Speaker 3: something that I'm sure he told. You know that Julian 499 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 3: knew that. Like they were, they stayed friends. And like, 500 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 3: for example, if my brother divorced, so now again Alan, 501 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 3: he's got a brother in Scotland and were close, but 502 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 3: I mean there's no sister but my brother's wife, Kristin, 503 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 3: if they were to ever get divorced, I would still 504 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 3: stay friends with her because I love Kristin, Like she's 505 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:58,080 Speaker 3: become a sister after the seven years of marriage. Now, 506 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:02,399 Speaker 3: you know, so I like that piece, And unless she 507 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,639 Speaker 3: like cheated or like broke my brother's heart, I'd be like, I, 508 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 3: you know, I'll still love you, but like I can't 509 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 3: you know, I'm going to be on my brother's side 510 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 3: on this one. So that's why I think it's cool 511 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 3: if there's no beef, Like, what's this shue? 512 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 2: I like the idea of friends groomsmen seems a little 513 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:22,119 Speaker 2: extra to me, but I get it. I do get it. 514 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 2: And she's not married right or remarried or is she 515 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 2: dating anyone? Because I thought, well, that's awkward for her. 516 00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 2: I just it's up to her. I think it's which piece. 517 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:32,680 Speaker 2: I just think. 518 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 1: If I think about the friends of mine who have 519 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 1: been divorced and whether I still have a relationship with 520 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:44,639 Speaker 1: their exes, it's based more on how they feel about it, right, 521 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: It's based on how you know, are you okay with 522 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 1: When Nick and I were separated, it was like I 523 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:53,000 Speaker 1: let everyone know, like, y'all are all great to still 524 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: be friends, Like I'm great with that. But if I 525 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: had said I'm not good with that, I feel like 526 00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: y'all would have been it would have been a different 527 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,000 Speaker 1: story truth. 528 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I feel like with this situation, having it 529 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 3: be like a groomsman situation, there had to have been 530 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 3: a lots of conversations and everything's totally fine. I'm sure 531 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 3: it was weird as heck. But also maybe it's not. 532 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 2: He went to her birthday party? Who did Brooks to Julian's? 533 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,359 Speaker 1: I think so, yeah. I think he went to her 534 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,360 Speaker 1: birthday party was something that I had read. So they're 535 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 1: probably just fine. And it's like, all fine. 536 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 2: Can they get back together? Because I just like that 537 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 2: they're such good friends. 538 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 3: He's like Brooks is really he's into He's been dating this, Uh, 539 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 3: she's like a big CrossFit girl for a while. So 540 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 3: and I have no idea, but you know, people should 541 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:48,359 Speaker 3: interview be friends maturity. I like, so, I think it's great, 542 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:52,920 Speaker 3: but you say no, I just think groomsman, it's very intense. 543 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 3: But that's just my personal opinion. And welcome to our 544 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:59,159 Speaker 3: craving section. This is the craving portion of wind Out. 545 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 3: You want a cherry but plea, Yeah, I don't know. 546 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,959 Speaker 2: I don't know, but if it's I mean, it obviously 547 00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 2: had to be okay with her or it wouldn't have 548 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,159 Speaker 2: happened just interesting to me as all. I think you 549 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:11,760 Speaker 2: could be friends, and I think he could be a guest, 550 00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:13,480 Speaker 2: But I don't know that he necessarily needs. 551 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 3: To be in the lineup. But what if it's Derek's 552 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:18,320 Speaker 3: best friend. I mean, obviously it's one of his best friends. 553 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:19,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it wasn't his best friend first. 554 00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 3: Oh well, that kind of hits different. You're saying that 555 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 3: this is. 556 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:31,360 Speaker 2: Best friend because he knows her through her Huh huh, 557 00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 2: that hits different. I still think it depends on how 558 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 2: she feels about it. 559 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 3: I guess that describes my Oh wow, then right, cool, 560 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:46,560 Speaker 3: all right, moving on vander pomp Rulestar Arianna. They say 561 00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:49,919 Speaker 3: it right, Ariana Addix the Fens. Still sharing home with 562 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:53,679 Speaker 3: ex Tom Sandebal to avoid uh huh, I'm. 563 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,879 Speaker 2: Sorry, Yeah, yep, you read it right. Yep, it's not 564 00:27:55,920 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 2: just getting out of my nose. Okay, really yeah. 565 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:06,159 Speaker 3: Still sharing home with ex Tom Sandival to avoid uprooting 566 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 3: her dog an elderly cat yep in the background, Sweet Alan, 567 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:20,880 Speaker 3: I keep my door locked. Sand of pump Roles Star 568 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,880 Speaker 3: Ariana Maddox defended her choice to continue to live under 569 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 3: the same roof as her ex boyfriend Tom Sandival, five 570 00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 3: months after they're split while navigating the end of their 571 00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 3: nine year relationship following his affair with her friend or Caul. 572 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 3: The former couple have continued to reside at the Los 573 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 3: Angeles home that they purchase for two million in twenty nineteen. 574 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 3: Despite Bethany Frankel recently criticizing their awkward living arrangement on 575 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 3: her Just Be podcast Through All the Stars, stated that 576 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:51,800 Speaker 3: she will not f u c k herself over by 577 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:55,959 Speaker 3: making any rash decisions. I have never been someone who 578 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 3: came from money. I know how quickly that goes away, 579 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 3: she explained. I'm taking care of myself personality. Went on 580 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 3: to say that she is not rich and has a 581 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 3: mortgage and other expenses. 582 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 1: Oh it sounds like maybe it's more about that then 583 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 1: than the dog and the cat. 584 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 3: That's why nothing, nothing is meant like in that quote. 585 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 3: I don't see anything that mentions the dog or cat. 586 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 2: I don't even get a name to the dog. 587 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,960 Speaker 1: I can understand the like financial part of it, especially 588 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 1: in LA especially if you own a house together. 589 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 2: That makes sense. The other part did not, for sure. 590 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 3: But I mean you see people like when we talk 591 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,880 Speaker 3: to Aurora coupolo, like she's you know, single mom in 592 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 3: it like no one wants to get out of that situation, 593 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 3: you know. It's like and I get her not having 594 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 3: like everyone thinks just because you're on TV, you have 595 00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,480 Speaker 3: so much money and again, everything is so expensive right now. 596 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 2: But I could not do that. 597 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 3: I could not either. But I know you guys think 598 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 3: that I'm in bed with like. 599 00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 2: All, no, there's no way. A minute when we decide, 600 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 2: when you decide on, we're done. At first I was like, 601 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:00,680 Speaker 2: no way, no way, and then I had a minute 602 00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:04,240 Speaker 2: where I thought, if I'm her, I might I mean, 603 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 2: it's you guys, life is life is expensive, is expensive. 604 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,320 Speaker 3: I'm being honest, though it kind of feels and I'm 605 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:16,320 Speaker 3: probably gonna hate for this. She I feel like she's 606 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,960 Speaker 3: using excuses for her dog and her cats that I 607 00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 3: can't get on board with. I just want to be 608 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:22,040 Speaker 3: It just feels like a little bit of excuse. 609 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 2: Again. 610 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 3: I can understand the money thing, but someone that you 611 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 3: trash on a daily basis and you're to me, it 612 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 3: seems like she's using the situation, you know, to benefit, 613 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:38,240 Speaker 3: you know, uh, not to benefit, but she's using how 614 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:38,960 Speaker 3: do I say this. 615 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 2: To perpetuate the fame. No, I wouldn't say perpetuate fame. 616 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 3: I would say she's, you know, she's staying in the 617 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 3: situation because she obviously, you know, needs a place to 618 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,760 Speaker 3: stay at the moment while she gets on her feet. 619 00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 3: I guess again, I don't understand the whole cat and 620 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 3: dog thing. That's confusing to me. But for someone she 621 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 3: hates so much, it's interesting to me because again, I've 622 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:07,080 Speaker 3: been cheated on. I know I would never stay in 623 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:10,479 Speaker 3: the home of someone that did that, no matter how 624 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 3: much money or how little money I had. I would 625 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 3: stay with a friend or something. But it just feels 626 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 3: like interesting, you hate him so much, you blast him 627 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 3: on a daily basis, How is that good for any 628 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 3: of you guys to be in the same house. 629 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 2: I know, it just feels like there's a little. 630 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 3: I don't want to say taking advantage because that's not 631 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 3: the right word, but like, it just feels. 632 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 2: It's interesting because I paid two rents at one point, 633 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 2: now that we're talking about this, I paid rent two 634 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,200 Speaker 2: rents at one point because I was in a situation 635 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:47,840 Speaker 2: with a roommate that was not a healthy situation and 636 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 2: I knew I needed to get out but I also 637 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 2: needed to honor the fact that I had committed to 638 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 2: living there, so there was I mean, I was in college, Like, 639 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 2: I'm not making any money, I'm working like fifteen jobs, 640 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 2: and I still made it work just because I knew 641 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 2: I needed to get out. Like I'm not a stayer, 642 00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:03,560 Speaker 2: so that's hard for me. 643 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 3: I mean, electricity being turned off in Los Angeles, Like 644 00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 3: I get, I'm not being in the green or whatever. 645 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 3: Like I get being in the red. I totally understand that, 646 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:15,479 Speaker 3: but I just couldn't stay at someone's house just because 647 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 3: of my old dog or cat, especially someone that I 648 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 3: again hate so much and trash all the time. But 649 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,520 Speaker 3: yet you're still staying there in a way, using. 650 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 1: The locking the door for punishment for me, I just 651 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:33,240 Speaker 1: like you're asking for more drama at that point. 652 00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 3: This is again probably a very unpopular thing to say. 653 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 3: But like, I get how angry and upset she was. 654 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 3: Why do I say this about sounding like because people 655 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 3: are always like you never get over the past, Like 656 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 3: I was just talking about the past last week on 657 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 3: the podcast, But. 658 00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 2: It's just so mean some of the things they said 659 00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,040 Speaker 2: about Raquel. I get what she did was messed up. 660 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,720 Speaker 2: I get it. Wrong, so bad. 661 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:07,200 Speaker 3: But everyone is so so mean and so hurtful with 662 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 3: their words, and she's living at the man's I don't know. 663 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,960 Speaker 3: It just seems a little like muddy to me. 664 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 2: It's very muddy. 665 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just don't even think we're getting the full story. 666 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 1: I just I just get the feeling that there's just 667 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:21,400 Speaker 1: I don't I have. 668 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,959 Speaker 2: To say, like she has resources. I mean I can 669 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 2: say that pretty confidently. Like if she needs to go 670 00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,720 Speaker 2: out and make extra money to be able to pay 671 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 2: for something, this is a position she's in even I mean, 672 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 2: I'm not even I'm not even anything on Instagram. I 673 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 2: could I could start making money doing things if I 674 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 2: needed to do things, do you know what I mean? 675 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 2: So she can go make money. She has enough popularity. 676 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 2: I know she has an agent. 677 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 1: She can get you or like you're you're in a 678 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,840 Speaker 1: two million dollar house. You're used to a certain lifestyle, 679 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 1: which is terrifying when it comes to like divorce house 680 00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 1: is in la are not that big. It's still probably nice. 681 00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:58,960 Speaker 1: It's probably decent compared to what she'd have to get. 682 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,520 Speaker 1: And like you like yourtyle, I get it. It's not easy. 683 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 2: But this is the exact quote. 684 00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 3: I live in my home that I own while working 685 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 3: with my lawyer and financial advisors to navigate the best 686 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,919 Speaker 3: path forward before uprooting my dog and my elderly cat 687 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,799 Speaker 3: and causing more trauma for the three of us. So 688 00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:18,000 Speaker 3: this is the cat and the dog quote. So again 689 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,719 Speaker 3: I get well alys to say this just to like 690 00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 3: play Devil's advocate. When my ex and I, when I filed, 691 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:30,440 Speaker 3: he technically did not have to leave the house. So 692 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,720 Speaker 3: there's something in there where, like you, there's a clause 693 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 3: that no matter if I say get out of the 694 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 3: house I filed for divorce, he can stay in that house. 695 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 2: Oh yeah. 696 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,640 Speaker 3: So essentially, just kind of reading that quote, that's probably 697 00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:44,239 Speaker 3: what she's doing. The lawyer is like, you don't have 698 00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 3: to be out, So in a way, she's probably like, 699 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,319 Speaker 3: you know what, double fu sure. So now I can 700 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:51,000 Speaker 3: kind of go Okay, now I might see where her 701 00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 3: motive is because if she got screwed over and she's 702 00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:56,120 Speaker 3: in a place like yeah, I would probably use his 703 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:56,759 Speaker 3: dime too. 704 00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:02,120 Speaker 2: Listen, I'm not it's the dog and the cat think yeah, 705 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,719 Speaker 2: Like this just seems like come on, now, let's she's 706 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 2: going to figure out what she's going to do, Like 707 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:07,239 Speaker 2: she's got to come up. 708 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,440 Speaker 1: I actually think it's great, honestly, if I'm being because 709 00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 1: she's not just leading with emotion. 710 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 2: She is. 711 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,000 Speaker 1: If that's the true story, and that's why she is there, 712 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,280 Speaker 1: she's trying to come up with a plan without being 713 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:22,320 Speaker 1: just hastily like I'm out blah blah blah blah whatever. 714 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:23,880 Speaker 1: But if she owns the home. 715 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, she owns it, yeah, because it sounded like from 716 00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 3: the very beginning he owned it. 717 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,880 Speaker 2: Or maybe they own it together. I don't know, and either. 718 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,560 Speaker 3: Way, but if it's just if they own it together 719 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,799 Speaker 3: or she owns it whatever, like, yeah, that that makes 720 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:41,720 Speaker 3: more sense to me. Now everybody needs a cat having that, okay, 721 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,600 Speaker 3: when I and I know they have to be like 722 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 3: mean and stuff. But as much as I dislike the 723 00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,279 Speaker 3: affair girls that my ex was with, I don't think 724 00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:54,279 Speaker 3: I could to you guys behind closed doors, I would 725 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:58,440 Speaker 3: say I did say nasty things about her, but I 726 00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:01,279 Speaker 3: wouldn't say them now. So I hope maybe like as 727 00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:03,320 Speaker 3: she goes on too, she can like because Raquel, I 728 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,080 Speaker 3: don't think is a bad person. I just think she 729 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,439 Speaker 3: made bad choices. We've all made bad choices. 730 00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 2: And we've all said things about the people that made 731 00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 2: the bad choice that hurt us. Yeah, yeah, I know 732 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 2: she would love to have Raquel on. I know she 733 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:17,279 Speaker 2: just did the best anyone, so probably not, but yeah, yeah, 734 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 2: a piece of me that's like, I don't know, I 735 00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 2: like to have Ariana on too. To discuss this. I 736 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,160 Speaker 2: would like to talk about the elderly cat. I'm a 737 00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:28,920 Speaker 2: huge fan of the elderly cat and dog. I don't 738 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:30,879 Speaker 2: know if anybody noticed. I mean, I'm an animal lover. 739 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:32,960 Speaker 2: I have an eighteen year old Jack Russell right now, so. 740 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:36,719 Speaker 3: Because oh that guy, she's like, she's dating someone too, 741 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 3: so that's just yeah, they. 742 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:39,520 Speaker 2: Just but she keeps her door locked. She made sure 743 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:40,920 Speaker 2: to mention that, well. 744 00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 3: No funny business going on there, so that's good. No, 745 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,800 Speaker 3: that sucks, by the way, Like that is the worst, 746 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,040 Speaker 3: especially when I don't know if this ever happened to you, 747 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:51,959 Speaker 3: but I remember when you used to get in fights 748 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,720 Speaker 3: and the like you leave and they were. 749 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:57,800 Speaker 2: Like no, I'm like, yeah, not having that that battle, 750 00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:59,480 Speaker 2: because what did you do when you guys? 751 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,560 Speaker 1: Oh my god, about year seven, I was like, get 752 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,839 Speaker 1: out and he was like nope, And I was like, 753 00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,680 Speaker 1: what do you mean no, Like, yes, get out? 754 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,239 Speaker 2: Would. I remember when President I got to fight with 755 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,440 Speaker 2: Time and he's like, do you not want me to 756 00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,840 Speaker 2: come home? And I'm like, You're never home. I'm like, 757 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 2: what do you mean? Nothing? Is more like ooh, that's 758 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:19,840 Speaker 2: like h. 759 00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:36,919 Speaker 3: So moving on arena shake. She poses topless during beach 760 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 3: day with ex Bradley Cooper amid rumored Tom Brady romance. 761 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,040 Speaker 3: On Sunday, the supermodel posted a steamy set of photos 762 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:48,880 Speaker 3: from her beach getaway. Some of the stories included a 763 00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:55,279 Speaker 3: photo of Cooper that didn't make the grid. She some 764 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,680 Speaker 3: of the photos she dishes her bikini top only, wearing 765 00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,359 Speaker 3: the bottoms with a black sweatshirt tied around her waist. 766 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:03,319 Speaker 3: She's standing in large boulders with while propping herself up 767 00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,160 Speaker 3: with her arms in a pose that covers her chest. 768 00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:06,880 Speaker 2: Uh. 769 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,279 Speaker 3: They spent the day and the beach comes after she 770 00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:12,120 Speaker 3: was spotted on a string of dates with NFL star 771 00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 3: Tom Brady. 772 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,439 Speaker 2: What are you guys thoughts? And she had a little 773 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,160 Speaker 2: sleepover with Tom Brady. M m m hmmm. 774 00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:21,880 Speaker 3: I'm just telling you right now, if I was topless 775 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,759 Speaker 3: on a beach with my ex, Alan would not like that, 776 00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:25,320 Speaker 3: nor would I ever do that. 777 00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,759 Speaker 2: That's just me. But she's a supermodel, so I would 778 00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:33,239 Speaker 2: like to I feel like that. Also, she's topless on 779 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,160 Speaker 2: a beach, but she had socks and shoes on. That's 780 00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 2: just hard for me, and so let's just start there. 781 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 2: It just starts to get a little logistical for me 782 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,680 Speaker 2: at times, like we've got this sweatshirt tied around our 783 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 2: waist and we have socks and shoes on. But oops, 784 00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:47,880 Speaker 2: why are they there together? 785 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,279 Speaker 3: Well, I mind, I want to believe they were on 786 00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,640 Speaker 3: a family vacation. But then I also mine don't want 787 00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:56,960 Speaker 3: to believe the kid because I wouldn't I wouldn't walk around. 788 00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 3: I mean, I think I just scarred my my daughter 789 00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 3: the day looking at my boobs. I was like, yes, honey, 790 00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. 791 00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:06,680 Speaker 2: I mean, in my mind, i'd hope she's nursing and 792 00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,319 Speaker 2: that's why the boobs are out on the beach. But 793 00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:10,560 Speaker 2: I don't believe the child's young enough for that anymore. 794 00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think I like any of it. 795 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:20,120 Speaker 3: I am a very like old school man who wasn't 796 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:26,600 Speaker 3: you're gonna set you're very she's lying T T no, 797 00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:29,400 Speaker 3: But like you know, I think, I mean, I know 798 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:32,040 Speaker 3: for a fact, but I also would never walk around 799 00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 3: topless around my ex husband. 800 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:38,840 Speaker 2: I just wouldn't do that. But again, European, so like 801 00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,239 Speaker 2: maybe that's just the thing. Was it a topless beach? 802 00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,200 Speaker 2: Probably I'm gonna have Eastern googles because I'm sure he 803 00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:45,719 Speaker 2: wants to. 804 00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:52,040 Speaker 1: Europe If it's if she's European and it's a topless speech, 805 00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 1: maybe it's a different discussion Eastern. 806 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:54,920 Speaker 2: Let me know. 807 00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:58,040 Speaker 3: But also, like, should you be topless walking around while 808 00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,439 Speaker 3: your ex husband's there? I just think that's a little weird. 809 00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:02,799 Speaker 1: Well, I think it's weird being naked at a beach 810 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 1: at all. 811 00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:04,719 Speaker 2: Does anybody want to talk about why they're on a 812 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:09,200 Speaker 2: beach together? I asked earlier, why let's start with like 813 00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 2: two plane tickets. 814 00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 1: This is what's frustrating with all these topics. I don't 815 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:15,680 Speaker 1: have enough information. I need more information. 816 00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 2: I think it's also hard for me because like the 817 00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:21,520 Speaker 2: rule kind of for us as guys and girls can't 818 00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:23,879 Speaker 2: be friends. What's tricky is that I don't have any 819 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,600 Speaker 2: kids with my ex, so that just makes things different. 820 00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 2: But I can. I have lots of friends that have 821 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:31,520 Speaker 2: kids with their exes, and I feel like they're not 822 00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:36,359 Speaker 2: topless on a beach. I don't know. I don't know. 823 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:41,320 Speaker 3: So it's interesting because let's take the topless part away. Okay, 824 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,319 Speaker 3: in a in my how do I say this? 825 00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:47,960 Speaker 2: In my very. 826 00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:57,759 Speaker 3: Happy world, happy brain where everybody just gets along. I 827 00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 3: think it would be cool because I remember seeing a 828 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 3: photo of Gwyneth Paltrow Dakota Johnson. They were on a 829 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:08,120 Speaker 3: vacation together, and I remember thinking, and I might have 830 00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:08,920 Speaker 3: still been married. 831 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:09,200 Speaker 2: At this point. 832 00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:14,080 Speaker 3: I don't know, but when we get divorced, I hope 833 00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:15,000 Speaker 3: we can do that. 834 00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:19,759 Speaker 2: Maybe there was a small admittance long before there was admittance. 835 00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:21,360 Speaker 2: But is Tom Brady there? 836 00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,400 Speaker 3: Well, no, that's but this just leads me to a 837 00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:28,239 Speaker 3: different conversation because obviously they're so new that like Tom 838 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:31,880 Speaker 3: Brady shouldn't be there, right, But like with this situation, 839 00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,560 Speaker 3: I'm like, you know what, I would never do an 840 00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,360 Speaker 3: Alane trip with my ex husband and the kids. 841 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:40,279 Speaker 2: I don't think. 842 00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:44,160 Speaker 3: Maybe like maybe no, not now, not now that I'm 843 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 3: with Alan, but like if I was still single and 844 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:48,200 Speaker 3: you know, we want to take the kids on a 845 00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:54,600 Speaker 3: vacation together, maybe, but like I think it'd be fun 846 00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:58,120 Speaker 3: to go, Hey, we're all going to Florida for fall break. 847 00:41:58,200 --> 00:41:59,759 Speaker 3: If you want to come for a few days, you're 848 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 3: more and welcome, because I think that'd be fun for 849 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:07,640 Speaker 3: the kids. That's something where like I would love to 850 00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:10,920 Speaker 3: be able to get there and put my own stuff aside, 851 00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:14,279 Speaker 3: and if it's comfortable for Alan, I think that's cool. 852 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:16,880 Speaker 2: I think that's neat. I don't think kids are on this. 853 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:21,840 Speaker 2: That's what I'm topless excursion. Do we have any confirmation? 854 00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:22,920 Speaker 2: Where were the children? 855 00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:27,960 Speaker 1: Like, we're going to get back to them kids, they're 856 00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:28,920 Speaker 1: literally just there. 857 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,680 Speaker 2: She's topless. I'm like, there's nothing you couldn't talk over, 858 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:33,719 Speaker 2: like PF chanks. Why do we have to go to 859 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:35,480 Speaker 2: a topless beach? Why can't we just meet for like 860 00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:38,000 Speaker 2: a little din, chat some things out and move along 861 00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:44,480 Speaker 2: little din. Yeah, I'm I don't know, but I don't 862 00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:45,120 Speaker 2: think they care. 863 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:49,200 Speaker 3: That's because she's walking back to don't think anybody cares. 864 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:53,200 Speaker 2: Maybe and Tom Brady is just a friend, it doesn't matter. 865 00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,360 Speaker 2: It's the thing. Yeah, Like I just think it's one 866 00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,480 Speaker 2: of those things where they're like, maybe the sleepover with 867 00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:00,040 Speaker 2: Tom Brady gapple in out of proportion. Well, how do 868 00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,239 Speaker 2: we even know they had to sleep over? We saw 869 00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:06,160 Speaker 2: photos she was leaving his house. My point, we shouldn't know. 870 00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:09,600 Speaker 2: But listen, we're not here to talk about things we 871 00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,840 Speaker 2: don't know, Kat, We're here to talk about pop culture 872 00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:15,520 Speaker 2: because it keeps us young, so that I need to 873 00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:16,560 Speaker 2: know these things. 874 00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,080 Speaker 3: I know anyway, So that's that's all a pop culture. 875 00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:20,560 Speaker 3: I got you, guys, Guys, I got a. 876 00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,560 Speaker 2: Lot of googling to do. I didn't know Jessica Simpson's 877 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,880 Speaker 2: daughter can sing, so I have to go. Yeah, you 878 00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:29,640 Speaker 2: need to go. I've got to get together. But all right, well, 879 00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:33,880 Speaker 2: I love you, guys, and we will see you next week. 880 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:36,560 Speaker 2: Bye bye,