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Speaker 1: Guys, what's up, Angel, I'm G G maguire, JORDI was

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Speaker 1: Jay Jordens. Listen, you guys just walked in on our

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Speaker 1: conversation about press, about press, not the kind of people

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Speaker 1: aren't getting crabs anymore.

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Speaker 2: Because people don't have as much pupa care like. It's

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Speaker 2: not trendy anymore.

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Speaker 1: So skims underwear.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, did you see that she had different textures.

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Speaker 2: To you had one aw whatever you want to be

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Speaker 3: You have a blonde joint, but not be blonde.

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Speaker 4: So the rugs don't match the curtains.

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Speaker 3: We have a literal ginger snack.

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Speaker 5: Snap.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I want to buy that one.

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Speaker 3: Redhead.

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Speaker 1: I don't jumped y'all right into this, but Jay Jorden

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Speaker 1: has a special and Hulu right now your dave you.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, that means a lot.

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Speaker 1: All of the stand up, the writing, everything is panel.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm excited. It was really cool.

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Speaker 2: I got to do it in New Orleans at the

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Speaker 2: Joy Theater, historic theater on Canal Street.

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Speaker 3: It was so fun.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I saw some people from high school that

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Speaker 2: came out to the show, so I was very So

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Speaker 2: why did.

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Speaker 1: You pick New Orleans? Because I know, a lot of

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Speaker 1: times you're trying to figure out, like where are we

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Speaker 2: So what happened is Comedy Dynamics, the production company. They

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Speaker 2: chose New Orleans because they were filming a couple of

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Speaker 2: kind of was a perfect fit because I'm from the South.

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Speaker 2: I mean, New Orleans is the gayest, blackest city in

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Speaker 2: Atlanta is new gay. New Orleans is okay.

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Speaker 1: New Orleans realized that, Yeah, I love New Orleans.

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Speaker 4: We love to eat there.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I can't.

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Speaker 2: I can't, I cannot. I can't make this up. The

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Speaker 2: day after I recorded my special, I went to a

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Speaker 1: True, it's just like I new New Orleans is a

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Speaker 6: I've never been because there's no comedy club out there,

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Speaker 2: There's one new club sports drink. It's like a smaller ya,

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Speaker 2: but they closed. They did close a lot of the

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Speaker 2: comedy clubs New Orleans. But that's because music is new

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Speaker 1: But they do have a lot of venues where you

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Speaker 2: But here's the thing with New Orleans. It's easier to

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Speaker 1: It just can kind of you know what, when I

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Speaker 2: You get to see white people dance like they are

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Speaker 3: They just get to walk around with like period.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's everywhere like the dakeries. It's all day,

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Speaker 4: Drinks that are like this.

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Speaker 2: You know what reminds me of you remember during the

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Speaker 3: It's like that all the time.

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Speaker 1: This was great when I tell you something that is

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Speaker 4: Me too, I'm ray you. We definitely got to plan

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Speaker 2: And New Orleans is fun because if you grew up

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Speaker 1: First time I went to New Orleans. I was with

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Speaker 1: And then but then the manager came up and was like,

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Speaker 3: That's all look at them.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, they're surprisingly more comfortable than you would think

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, listen is I don't know if you saw

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Speaker 6: She used to strip back and the.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny because New Orleans also has this history

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Speaker 1: I was, So, look, you are married, you're talking about

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he works for a crypto company and then just

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you get to keep the apartment.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we get to keep the apartment.

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Speaker 2: I always say crypto, I think I got some.

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Speaker 6: I know, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Nothing at all, but you better hope that it yeah

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so volatile crash do you.

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Speaker 1: So what I did was I got a little just

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Speaker 3: That's how That's how everyone is.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. My money is just money. I'm at the level

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can give you that. That's that's the boomer

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Speaker 1: How did you and your husband get together?

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Speaker 2: So we got together the kind of old fashioned story.

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Speaker 2: But he actually, I mean he made me way more

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Speaker 1: Dating somebody here, yeah, because if not, that's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was my senior year too. Now listen, earlier before

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yeah, he said earlier day he said he

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Speaker 6: Yeah, now you're fucking someone tomorrow morning. But that's not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, real appointment, real, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I'm him, but it's yeah, he's coming over tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: It's beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Like you said previously that maybe well never mind, no,

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Speaker 6: No, I'm versatile, yeah, I'm a full time home.

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Speaker 3: Was by his ears right now?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, are you that flexible?

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Speaker 6: No? No, God, maybe when I was in my twenties.

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Speaker 6: Do not gazed all this, it's like the Kim is

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Speaker 1: Like I watched your stand up. Yes, man, you've also

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: No, but I think in being married to someone who

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Speaker 1: He could be a coup.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how you actually watch a special.

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Speaker 1: Special And you're right, there's all different kinds of things

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Speaker 5: Have to be like, well no, every now and then

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Speaker 6: I want to let you know. I'm very rude.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, game is mad and call gens.

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Speaker 6: Exactly.

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Speaker 3: But I think that we're having it.

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Speaker 2: Really. I think we're having a bit of an uptick

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Speaker 1: But you're married, so you're allowed to about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a respect my husband.

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Speaker 2: What I will say is that I am an adult

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Speaker 4: So many amazing restaurants to eat anything.

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Speaker 6: Like the pizza.

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Speaker 1: We went finally, Yeah, I can't wait till you find

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean he's been in a relationships, he's just

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Speaker 1: I came out late us, but it's not that late.

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Speaker 2: And so then eventually came out and she my mom

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Speaker 6: And I came, I know, your family was like we know, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's to be the minority. Yeah, but he puts on

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it is so funny.

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Speaker 6: I don't think I do that that you do. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Still, you just get you just get a little bit

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Speaker 2: And I know why.

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Speaker 3: Hold on, I said, hold on, we both wear makeup.

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Speaker 1: You see where he's comfortable, Like when we're at work

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Speaker 3: Like, yeah, yeah, he's one of these.

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Speaker 4: I have a gay friend that I love dearly that

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Speaker 4: he does a code switched.

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Speaker 2: Straight to Well, what happens is you really want to

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Speaker 3: The same way with like, oh no, there's certain white.

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Speaker 2: But now we can.

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Speaker 1: Be not that could be myself.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The literally the risk goes from this to this around

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Speaker 1: And I think you said that you talked about straight

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Speaker 3: They're endangered.

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Speaker 2: There, Paul Bear, they're going away.

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Speaker 2: I think that like in comedy, comedy right now is

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Speaker 2: So you say comedy just so no, arenas you go

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Speaker 2: you mean bird like, it's like it's you're talking about

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Speaker 2: it's still like to be celebrated because like, we don't

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Speaker 3: We were talking about how many out, how many out?

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Speaker 6: Once again, how many out gay black men.

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Speaker 3: Comedy.

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Speaker 2: It's like, hey, yeah, it's not a lot. It's us

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Speaker 1: It was Richard Pryor.

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Speaker 6: About that women.

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Speaker 3: No, no, he had to joke about live and smoking.

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Speaker 6: He has the joke.

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Speaker 2: Boy says, fellas you ever had a fact suck you dick? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and he goes, I ain't gonna tell nobody, and you go,

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Speaker 2: I know he's gonna tell everybody.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he looked up Malon Brando, didn't you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's the rumor that Quincy Jones said, Quincy

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Speaker 6: Getting old enough to be like, yeah, the matter of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, please.

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Speaker 6: But I mean, like everyone knew Paul Mooney was gay,

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Speaker 2: But there was a roadster Richard Pryor where at one

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Speaker 2: just know between you and me, I know exactly we

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Speaker 2: The career was opening again, and Paul's sass was so

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Speaker 3: He was just like a big mom. You know what

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Speaker 1: See him at Caroline's Wins and he walked, bet he walked.

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Speaker 1: Tell you about half the comedy club left.

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Speaker 3: But I love that for him, and that he would

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I love that for him.

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Speaker 2: Jesus Christ and me means his auntie. Yeah, that's the

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Speaker 3: That's how.

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Speaker 2: That's how every every queer black person who saw Paul Mooney,

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Speaker 3: They're like, oh, he's like a viper.

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Speaker 5: Just you know.

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Speaker 1: That is one interview we had when I was on

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Speaker 6: I didn't know y'all interviewed Paul is crazy.

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Speaker 1: He said, it was a long time ago. I'm trying

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 2: I think that, like some people's idea of calm now

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Speaker 2: Sometimes comics used to give interviews that were crazy, and

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Speaker 2: I don't I don't hate that. Like every now and

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Speaker 2: Have you and you and you've interviewed so many you've

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Speaker 2: and ask good questions.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes people do. I remember I interviewed this one comedian

452
00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:39,280
Speaker 1: and the problem sometimes for comedians is he was being

453
00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:43,240
Speaker 1: completely serious, but people thought it wasn't real. And I'll

454
00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,320
Speaker 1: never forget this. He was talking about his gym teacher

455
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Speaker 1: and molested him.

456
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Speaker 6: God, and so don't you laugh.

457
00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:53,600
Speaker 3: So everybody's laughing trying to dodgeballs and dodgeball.

458
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:59,159
Speaker 1: So we're like thinking, there's a punchline coming, and he

459
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Speaker 1: was was he was you was serious? You thought you

460
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Speaker 1: was g yeah, and we're like, you know, where's the

461
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,280
Speaker 1: And so I think sometimes because a lot of comedians

462
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,159
Speaker 1: do have a lot of like trauma, that's why they

463
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:15,879
Speaker 1: hit the stage just kind of therapeutic, you know, for

464
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 1: that reason. And I've noticed that, like why you.

465
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:18,880
Speaker 3: Said it that way.

466
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 2: It's therapeutic, it's not therapy, because sometimes when a comic

467
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,719
Speaker 2: thinks it is therapy, what they're doing is like holding

468
00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 2: audience captive and just kind of like basically kind of

469
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,399
Speaker 2: doing what you said he did when like there are

470
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 2: moments where you go, Okay, I can say this, but

471
00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 2: it's not funny yet, so let me find the funny

472
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,359
Speaker 2: part and high like that and then maybe I can

473
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Speaker 2: get real and then go back to funny.

474
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Marlon Wayns is like you can find funny in

475
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Speaker 1: any every day.

476
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Speaker 4: Oh my god, he was here. We left the entire.

477
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, because he was like his family was at a funeral.

478
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Speaker 6: Yeah.

479
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 1: I think that.

480
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Speaker 2: I mean, Marlin Wayne is a perfect example. I think

481
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 2: someone can like continue to grow. Like if you would

482
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Speaker 2: have told me that Marlon Wayne was going to be

483
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 2: this trans youth advocate and like be such a champion

484
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:01,680
Speaker 2: for queer people would have said, Marlin for real, and

485
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,560
Speaker 2: look at Marlon ways I love that and it breaks

486
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,240
Speaker 2: my heart and people think that black people and specifically

487
00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 2: black comics can't do that. So I love Marlon waye's

488
00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 2: for what he's doing now.

489
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I agree, And I watched him and and

490
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 1: his growth just even as an actor. I'm him. I

491
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:20,159
Speaker 1: watch that movie and I think he did such an

492
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Speaker 1: excellent job.

493
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Speaker 6: He was it.

494
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,119
Speaker 3: But he remember he wasn't working for a dream too.

495
00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:28,760
Speaker 2: Yes, always he's always been the Wayne's brother where I'm like,

496
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 2: if they get if he gets the right role, there's

497
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:34,879
Speaker 2: gonna be like, you know, award buzz around him, just

498
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 2: because he loves acting. He fully commits the things where

499
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:41,360
Speaker 2: it be comedy or drama, and like most importantly, he's

500
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:42,680
Speaker 2: fine every time.

501
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:48,119
Speaker 3: Well because you want that sexual person to win the award.

502
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 2: Sean, him and Sean they were goofy like all the time,

503
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 2: Sean like everywhere.

504
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Speaker 3: So they were goofy, but like if you look back

505
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Speaker 3: on it, like they were models, they were so.

506
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,160
Speaker 1: But you know what else about Marlon, he's really nice.

507
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: He's like a nice person.

508
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:05,439
Speaker 6: He seems nice.

509
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 3: I've never met him, but he seems like unless you're

510
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:15,640
Speaker 3: DJ blad, Yeah, I can't. I get mixed it every

511
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 3: now and then, No, I'm glad.

512
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Speaker 1: I wanted to interview him, and Marlon was like forty

513
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 1: thousand dollars oh, and Blad was like no, but you know, Marlin,

514
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Speaker 1: I think he that's great.

515
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Speaker 6: Like, I think so too, because that is consistently uh,

516
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 6: trying to be part of the culture.

517
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is blade if the cookouts over there, Bladder

518
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:35,880
Speaker 2: is a defense like that girl.

519
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Speaker 6: Yeah, and we always and always play, and we need

520
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 6: to stop making him a play gray dogs.

521
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Speaker 3: They go, they passed into.

522
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Speaker 6: Him over the years ago.

523
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Speaker 3: There you go, Yeah, there you go.

524
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Speaker 6: I love talking.

525
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 3: Oh my god, this ain't nothing bad about him.

526
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Speaker 4: Man.

527
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:03,399
Speaker 1: You know, comedy beef is real too, though. Listen, I

528
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: don't heard some stars, And I.

529
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:09,479
Speaker 2: Think part of it is because like comedy is close

530
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 2: enough to wrap that, like you have to have a confidence,

531
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 2: you have to have a bravado, you have to have

532
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 2: a swagger, and you also have to think I'm pretty

533
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,199
Speaker 2: damn good, if not the best. So then someone when

534
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 2: someone else says I'm the best, you get to be like, no,

535
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 2: I'm the best.

536
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 3: And so then they they you know, spat it out.

537
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 1: And then it's also like an ego thing of like

538
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 1: who's opening for, who's going on?

539
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 5: First?

540
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,199
Speaker 1: Second thing? And you get like telling and.

541
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 3: Who's selling more's popping more?

542
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 1: Who got paid more?

543
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:37,199
Speaker 6: Yeah? Who's a better rap and they always better put

544
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 6: black people against each other too, and especially in any

545
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 6: type of beef but comedy wrap hip hop.

546
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Speaker 1: Do you feel like people have helped you along your.

547
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, A lot of Wanda Sides has always been there

548
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 2: for me. Wanda Sis like I met her in twenty

549
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 2: nineteen in Montreal and she's she like put me in

550
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:55,920
Speaker 2: the credits of a Netflix thing. I got to work

551
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 2: with her in Philadelphia. She's always been super con She

552
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 2: like always reaches out and checked stuff on me. So

553
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 2: uh wan, this has been super helpful. Bob the Drag

554
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,399
Speaker 2: Queen was super helpful to me early in my career.

555
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 2: Taylor Tomlinson took me and let me open for her.

556
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 2: So people have always been very helpful, even like even

557
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 2: in comedy right now, there's so many people who if like,

558
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 2: if a special is coming out, if they just share it,

559
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 2: then you, hey, this is really fun. A lot that

560
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 2: does a lot because if they have a million followers

561
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 2: and like at least like one hundred thousand people start

562
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:26,400
Speaker 2: on their story.

563
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,680
Speaker 1: And then plus if you get booked on Abbot Elementary.

564
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 3: I would love that. That is so funny.

565
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 2: I saw it's so funny. I saw Janelle twice. I

566
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 2: saw her at the beginning of Abbot, like when everything

567
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 2: was starting to pop off and like people were like

568
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 2: and then the second time I saw her, she was

569
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 2: like getting stopped all the time, famous, like she couldn't

570
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 2: go out in public.

571
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Speaker 6: Famous.

572
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: Now she does an amazing I love it.

573
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 2: She is so funny and she's so good on it.

574
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 2: And that character, that character is like it was you know,

575
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 2: it was written to be like a pretty important character,

576
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 2: but it's maybe the third most important character plot points sometimes,

577
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 2: but like every episode there's a moment where you go principle, she.

578
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 6: Doesn't want to emmy and I'm very mad.

579
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 3: Sometimes, you know, Awards.

580
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 2: It's one of those things where like it's you know,

581
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 2: it's the push. It's also like if they think, like

582
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 2: you deserve it now, also who you're up against, and

583
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 2: they were up against hacks, they were up against a juggernaut.

584
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:28,200
Speaker 2: When it came to like, uh, series lead and when

585
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 2: it came to like funny, women say you.

586
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Speaker 1: Never watched it. I don't think I did either, you.

587
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 3: Know, really, but I think you would like it.

588
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,160
Speaker 6: I probably would like it, but it's just so white

589
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 6: that I haven't watched it.

590
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:37,399
Speaker 3: I think I think you were like it.

591
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 1: Plus you also like white guys.

592
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 6: I don't exclusively like white guys.

593
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 1: Like every time you show me a picture of somebody,

594
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: it's like somebody not last.

595
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,679
Speaker 2: Every time he showed me, he would show me some folks.

596
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,880
Speaker 4: Tomorrow morning guy.

597
00:26:52,800 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, listen, listen, My body is for whoever wants. He said.

598
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 1: The man, have you ever got capfished?

599
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 4: Yes?

600
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: And do you still go through? How did you get

601
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: out of that?

602
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:20,159
Speaker 3: I well, you don't know what whatever. Gay guys have

603
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 3: to deal with that scenario because it does happen a lot.

604
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 6: This is what they used to do.

605
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 2: They go, it's stomach, Yes, that's it.

606
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 6: I was, oh no, that wasn't me, and I just

607
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 6: closed the door. I was like, that wasn't me.

608
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 2: Well no, because if you say, if you say your stomach,

609
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:39,920
Speaker 2: it really kind of makes gay sex.

610
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: Impossible because you're like, I don't need you.

611
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 6: Yeah. I literally had someone. I'm like, oh no, no, no, no,

612
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 6: I was. I was God was doing to days and

613
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 6: someone in albuty or whatever, and I was told, ad

614
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,640
Speaker 6: you know Artie for QUI I told already the story.

615
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 6: He's like, that's rude. I'm like, what do you do

616
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 6: he's like, oh the fun. I'm like, well, that's the

617
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:01,879
Speaker 6: difference between me.

618
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 5: And you.

619
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 3: That I came to throw them out like.

620
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 6: I'm like, no, he didn't look like there making the picture.

621
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 6: I'm not liar.

622
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: Listen, guy, I think will still do it. You know what,

623
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,199
Speaker 1: I will let you suck their dick just because they

624
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: feel like.

625
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 2: I have to ask you, guys, tell the marketplace. You

626
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 2: have to look at the economy, the economics of this.

627
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 2: There's there will always be more gay man sometimes straight

628
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 2: man go yeah, I'm not.

629
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 6: Putting dick is the easiest thing to get everyone here.

630
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 2: Yes, Exactually, dick is so easy to get people show

631
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 2: it unwanted on the subway.

632
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, anyone here and that straight man included. Anyone here

633
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 6: can show you wanted in your deal exactly.

634
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: Have you ever seen a dick in your DM and

635
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: been like, actually.

636
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 3: I don't really get yeah, but we can change that,

637
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 3: und what.

638
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 6: But I'm more the happy send the big picture my way,

639
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 6: please and thank.

640
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: You's not like pleasing to look at me like that.

641
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 4: Solicit.

642
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 6: It was all the time.

643
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 1: We had an email.

644
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 3: The email, yeah, the attachment.

645
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: It was pretty dick swag and turning pretty dick.

646
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, Well for me, those emails, we got it,

647
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 6: we got.

648
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 3: Don't stop it, you dig big dragon, we got to revisit.

649
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 1: No, dang you's you did it, your dick picked circulates

650
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 1: it did, but it hasn't got back to me yet.

651
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 1: I know somebody accidentally sent him back his dig pics.

652
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 6: Someone did on Grinding.

653
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 3: Oh someone sent you you yeah, yeah, on every app.

654
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's floating around too much. That means I

655
00:29:59,200 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: have erstand.

656
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 6: I don't her. Yeah, I don't know what that met.

657
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 3: What happens.

658
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 2: What happens though, is that like so many people, they

659
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 2: got comfortable sending everything out because like now it's not

660
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:13,959
Speaker 2: necessarily like a career ending situation, like I think who

661
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 2: like Vanessa Hudgens a couple of people have made it

662
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 2: so that like no matter Jennifer Lawrence, like there's been

663
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 2: enough leaks that like if someone who is in the

664
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 2: industry or something like oh there Dick League, you'd be like, well, yeah,

665
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 2: I mean they was out here and put.

666
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: Out an attractive picture. So if it like circulations like

667
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: oh that's a king.

668
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 6: And also, no one's gonna be surprised on Grinder. A

669
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 6: team's on Grinder. That's someone like his.

670
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 3: Act now back when it was polaroids, you have to work.

671
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 1: Would you take your grinder profile down?

672
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 3: You think?

673
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 1: Have you ever gotten that serious with somebody?

674
00:30:59,680 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 5: What?

675
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 6: I yes, I know.

676
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 2: That's that's the that's the serious thing for the gays

677
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 2: when they get rid of the grinder.

678
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 6: Yeah. I just needed it for like a month, and

679
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 6: I was like, just like I'm focusing on not on

680
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 6: like projects or whatever. But it's.

681
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 2: Because the dope, the dopamine a candy crush for some people.

682
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 2: It's not even like the sexual component of it's just

683
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: like validation from strangers.

684
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 3: Validation from strangers.

685
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 2: I'm kind of bored. I want to and like it's

686
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 2: also like a little bit of like a map of

687
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 2: like in New York. It's crazy.

688
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 3: If you weren't in New York, it wouldn't even be

689
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:34,479
Speaker 3: as fun New York.

690
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 1: No, No, okay, because you seem to know a lot of.

691
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 6: You would at one point.

692
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: You've been married for you've been in a relationship for

693
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 1: so long.

694
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, we take out I told you, he was like,

695
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 3: and then you.

696
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: Know, when you set up the profile, I'm like, yeah,

697
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: sometimes you.

698
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 6: Turn it on, like if you go to a different city,

699
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 6: you turn it on just because you're like popular, Like,

700
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 6: none of these games me, so you turn it on

701
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 6: just to see what the what the area is like,

702
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 6: and it's given.

703
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 2: It's giving gay men kind of what they wanted in

704
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 2: high school and college.

705
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 3: If they didn't get to have those actual.

706
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 1: Block that's excuse didn't come out to you with twenty five.

707
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 6: I didn't have the college experience to go to college,

708
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 6: but like I didn't.

709
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 5: You know.

710
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:25,479
Speaker 1: I was on his live one day he walked out

711
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: of the room. I think you went to get food,

712
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, just stay on my line. Oh yeah, yeah,

713
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 1: all these grinder things kept popping up. I was like,

714
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 1: how actively he opened any of these?

715
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 6: Didn't That's why I have a separate phone with a fault,

716
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 6: you know that.

717
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: Do you have videos too like that?

718
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, like three yeah, okay, but only me fucking

719
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 6: then my mom. I don't have video of me game.

720
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 3: But like I'm glad you.

721
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 2: I'm glad, Like we can talk about this pretty candidly,

722
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 2: but like right now, there's also like a bit of

723
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 2: a shift where like so many people who have like

724
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 2: normal nine to fives also like because of the pandemic

725
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 2: and because of how hard things are economically, people did

726
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 2: start dipping their toe into like only fans. So like

727
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 2: there are some people who like have you know, just

728
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 2: you know what people would consider regular boring jobs, and

729
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 2: they also have.

730
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 3: Another they also.

731
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 6: Is a good point.

732
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 2: And then they also have like this online sex work

733
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 2: that isn't to me. I think we're getting a point

734
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 2: where so many people be like, well.

735
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm okay, is it sex work?

736
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 3: Yeah? Sex work?

737
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 4: Yeah.

738
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 2: I think it's sex work because like they're interfacing with

739
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: other people. It's also sex work because the material is

740
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 2: of a sexual nature, even if it's just showing your

741
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 2: button the thong and showing a bulging some underwear.

742
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 1: Is that cheating if like, say you're dating somebody and

743
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 1: they're getting videos solictening videos on OnlyFans.

744
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, that's called them paying.

745
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 2: Yeah there, okay, yeah, I agree. If we're dating and

746
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 2: you have two jobs. On those jobs, it's lucrative only

747
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 2: fans put that card down.

748
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 6: Oh my god, were going.

749
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,319
Speaker 1: To the lounge now, Jay, how did this who lose

750
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: special happen? I want to know because I know it's

751
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: not easy to get an hour special.

752
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 2: So I've been working. I'd work with comedy Dynamics in

753
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 2: twenty nineteen. They helped record my album, and going into

754
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 2: twenty twenty five, I didn't know if I was going

755
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 2: to have a special. I thought, oh, I'm gonna have

756
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:29,799
Speaker 2: to figure something out by the middle of the year.

757
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 2: And they reached out to me because they were shooting

758
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 2: four of them and they said, we really like working

759
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 2: with Jay. We know Jay's looking for a special. We

760
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,360
Speaker 2: can we can shoot it and we can help produce it.

761
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:41,320
Speaker 2: And I also got to be ep and then we

762
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 2: can try to sell it, and like the risk you

763
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 2: take is like they own it, but then it might

764
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 2: not sell, so then we kind of have to figure

765
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 2: out how we're going to distribute it. But then I

766
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 2: was like, I'm okay with this risk. I have a

767
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 2: new hour that I'm touring currently. I had like an

768
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 2: hour and thirty at the time, so I chopped up

769
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 2: the hour and I said, you know what, I have

770
00:34:57,880 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 2: faith in me.

771
00:34:58,560 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 3: My team was like, Jay, just do it.

772
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 2: You right enough, you'll write something. You write a new

773
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 2: hour before the end of the year. And so I

774
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 2: kind of went out on this limb and it worked out.

775
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm so happy you did it.

776
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 6: Thank you.

777
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a lot I was, but he was like, oh,

778
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:13,800
Speaker 1: we got to watch you know my guy Jay, and

779
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 1: let's see if he can come on the show. And

780
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 1: I was like, I would love that.

781
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 3: Yay, Oh my god.

782
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 2: That means it worth Also, it's so to me, it's

783
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 2: so important that we still have people making new stuff.

784
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 2: And this is in shade to anyone who's older and

785
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 2: more establishing the industry. But it gets to a point

786
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 2: where like if every if you so, oh, who's your

787
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 2: favorite new up and coming comic and all of them

788
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:34,320
Speaker 2: are fifty something.

789
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 6: Like, you have to make it. No, it's true, though,

790
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 6: you have to make room for like thirty year olds

791
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 6: and not up and coming.

792
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying.

793
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 6: They might be.

794
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 3: It might be. So I think when it comes to

795
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 3: comedy right now, we're in a really cool place.

796
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 6: I think.

797
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 3: I mean, I talk a lot of shit as.

798
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 2: Far as like sometimes I think that we're in a

799
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 2: really weird place with some stuff, but I think we're

800
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 2: in a really good place. Nothing is going to continue

801
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 2: and for black comedy specifically to continue to thrive and

802
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 2: kind of be the benchmark because black people people made

803
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 2: stand up comedy popular in America. Black people continue to

804
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 2: set the trends when it comes for standing up comedy.

805
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 2: I think you have to also embrace queer black people.

806
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 2: You have to also embrace new, fun black voices when

807
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:11,400
Speaker 2: it comes to stand up.

808
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: You know, I love it because you were in there

809
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: and and doing your stamp, and I know I've seen

810
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: you live and then I've watched your special. But even

811
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 1: talking about like people in the audience and you know

812
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:24,919
Speaker 1: who laughs and who doesn't laugh at certain jokes best

813
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 1: that's funny.

814
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 2: You like, you can see when people love a joke,

815
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 2: and you can also hear sometimes I had this at

816
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 2: the first recording. There was a woman in the back.

817
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 2: You can hear it on some of the things because

818
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 2: it split over two shows.

819
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 3: Her laugh was this was her laugh.

820
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 6: You can't like. You can't like because you're supposed to do.

821
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 3: She's having a good time, but you, oh, my.

822
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 6: Time. But that was the first show.

823
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 2: She was drunk and she has she had a great show,

824
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 2: great time, She had great time, just hollering.

825
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, congratulations, I know you got to go. You're going

826
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: to comedy seller. Yes I am, but I appreciate you

827
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: for stopping.

828
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 6: Thank you for having me.

829
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 3: It really means a word of me it's one of

830
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 3: Jordan and you know what it's called Yes ma'am. Yes,

831
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 3: exactly three reasons.

832
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 2: So I say yes ma'am to my mom and one

833
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 2: of the jokes after I come out. And then I

834
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 2: also wanted to be a play on like how southern

835
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 2: but also how queer I am, So yes ma'am is

836
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 2: very respectful, Yes ma'am is also yes ma'am.

837
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 3: And then also have to play on yes ma'am, so

838
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 3: it's yes ma'am.

839
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,839
Speaker 2: So it's I mean, I think I had a couple

840
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 2: of things I really wanted to achieve in the special,

841
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 2: and I'm very happy.

842
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 3: I'm proud of it.

843
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 1: You know you should be. Thank you. So congratulations, you

844
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: got to come back.

845
00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 2: Thank you.

846
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 3: I would love to.

847
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 2: I want I want to come back. I mean, thank

848
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 2: you for having me. Also have to check up on

849
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 2: this one every now and then.

850
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, listen, I'm always checking up.

851
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 3: Thank you for having me.

852
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 5: You know what.

853
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 1: Not in the midst I wouldn't be offended if somebody

854
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna come over and have sex.

855
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 6: With you in the morning, you'd be offended because.

856
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:11,240
Speaker 1: In the morning, the night before, it's all about your schedule.

857
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:13,360
Speaker 6: In Jersey, so you have to have to come in

858
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:14,359
Speaker 6: and get fucking then go to work.

859
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 4: I'm not made at morning sets.

860
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 1: Well again, they get a Jay Jorden who just joined us.

861
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: Now I came. I wanted to got to you about

862
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: your holiday because you went and went to random people's houses.

863
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: He posted on social media, So tell us about this

864
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 1: whole experience.

865
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 6: So I don't like the holidays typically just because my

866
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 6: family's dead and all that other drama. So typically that's

867
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 6: been holidays alone in bed watching Golden Girls being sad.

868
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 6: And I was like, and I go viral on threads

869
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 6: a lot. So I posted something on threads basically making

870
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 6: a joke but also saying I don't have anythings giving plans.

871
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 6: I want a black family. I want to to yeah,

872
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 6: I want to make offer for having a third husband.

873
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 6: I just a joke. A day I went, I took

874
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 6: a nap, I woke up and had like five thousand likes, uh,

875
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:01,800
Speaker 6: three hundred thousand views. I had ninety eight d ms.

876
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 6: So people invited me to the houses people to go to. Well,

877
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 6: I well, I was gonna pick randomly, but my one

878
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 6: of my best friends, Mia Jackson, she was like, don't.

879
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 6: She's like you can't just go to random Niga's house.

880
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 6: You's gonna get taken. But you are already going to

881
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 6: I mean exactly. So I made sure. So I clipped

882
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,880
Speaker 6: on people that had that were followed by people that

883
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 6: you know. Yeah, that mutual follow was not I still

884
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 6: don't know them, but like someone that I know was

885
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 6: following them. Okay, So I'm like, okay, cool. So I

886
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 6: went to the first lady I went to. Her name

887
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 6: is Star. She's been following me for a long time.

888
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 6: And what she told me and the mutual following is

889
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 6: I think Sam J because I think she's She's like,

890
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 6: good w w, she's a she's a designer. But so

891
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 6: she did something with sam J or whatever, and I'm like, okay,

892
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 6: that's mutual. And and she was very sweet in the mess.

893
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 6: She's like, I've been following me for years, You're so funny.

894
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 6: I'd love to have you. And I'm like, okay, cool.

895
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 6: So she DM me and I picked her, and then

896
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 6: I just picked another person who actually knew you. Random

897
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 6: They said that they knew you. You guys went on

898
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 6: some some island excursion. I'm like, that sounds like Angela.

899
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 6: I always period used to be never and I'm like, okay, cool,

900
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 6: So I'm gona go. And I went to the first

901
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 6: one and they was so sweet. The food was amazing. Yeah,

902
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,280
Speaker 6: the food was in Brooklyn. It was the food was amazing.

903
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 6: It was a black family and we was we was

904
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 6: talking ship and keiki and like we've known each other.

905
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 6: Like they was telling me. They were telling me how

906
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 6: someone was a rolling stone. I'm like, oh, tell me

907
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 6: more about your uncle, Like.

908
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 4: Was it any drama A little.

909
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 6: Bit, not like drama, like drama, but like I was

910
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:40,919
Speaker 6: getting like the tea on, like the little family thing. Yeah,

911
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 6: it was cute. And then we took a picture and

912
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 6: then I posted on Instagram and they went crazy viral

913
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 6: over there. I got like almost a thousand new I

914
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 6: got twenty thousand followers now.

915
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 1: And then you went to a second family.

916
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 6: And then I went to a second and they was wild.

917
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 6: I didn't post any videos of that because they were

918
00:40:56,000 --> 00:41:00,080
Speaker 6: crazy close friends. I did. I got late, yeah, and

919
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 6: everyone was already drinking party and I'm like, okay, so

920
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 6: we were just y'all know, I don't drink, so we

921
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:06,799
Speaker 6: were just there and hanging out. And they were also

922
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 6: very sweet. I ate some of the food, but I

923
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 6: was already, girl, I was full, even picked too, but

924
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 6: I was full. But the dessert day was fire. She

925
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 6: had this pumpkin thing that she made. I don't know

926
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 6: what it was. It was like pumpkin upside down to.

927
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 1: This every year. Now it's my birthday, come to my house.

928
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:28,879
Speaker 6: Okay, but yeah, it was fun. I had nothing else

929
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 6: to do.

930
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: And then he came over on Sunday and oh yes.

931
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 6: And then I always he left over at Angela's house.

932
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: They did Thanksgiving on Saturday, right, so the next day

933
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 1: the next day, I tried to get him to come

934
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:40,720
Speaker 1: on Saturday.

935
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 6: But he was you know, I was tired already.

936
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

937
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:43,880
Speaker 6: I think I had a that night too.

938
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 1: Yeah.

939
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was fun. It was really fun. I was

940
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:50,320
Speaker 6: happy to do it. And they were very sweet and

941
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 6: they're like, we're gonna come to see you. So the

942
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 6: next time I have a show in the city, they're

943
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 6: gonna come out.

944
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,320
Speaker 1: What did you do with somebody try to take you?

945
00:41:56,480 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 6: I guess I'll just get taken all right. I'm not

946
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:00,880
Speaker 6: really a fighter.

947
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: This dummy.

948
00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 4: Take it.

949
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 6: But there was so many people invited me, like so

950
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 6: many white people, like I'm not black, but yeah, you

951
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 6: have to try.

952
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 1: Would have been like that one story next year just

953
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: to see.

954
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 6: But there was sweet people in Canada. Was like, come

955
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:19,920
Speaker 6: to Canada.

956
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 4: That's something I do. Though. I'm very open my home.

957
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 4: I'm very much a caregiver and I open my home

958
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 4: to friends that I know don't have family and they're

959
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 4: going to be alone. So at my Thanksgiving this year,

960
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 4: I actually had two friends that were not as close

961
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 4: to me or black family, but that came to spend

962
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 4: Thanksgiving with me and my family because they didn't have

963
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 4: anything else.

964
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:48,720
Speaker 6: I think that's super important to do, especially especially because

965
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 6: sometimes not as much anymore, but back in the day,

966
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 6: a lot of times, especially black people. Unfortunately gay black

967
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 6: kids didn't have like the support around family because like

968
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 6: they came out in the family just all and stuff

969
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 6: like that. So it's really important. I think a lot

970
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 6: of people used to do it a lot back then.

971
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 6: They still do it now for them to have that

972
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 6: open post. She was like, hey, you can come here

973
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 6: for me.

974
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 4: Living in Atlanta, we have so many transplants. I was

975
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 4: once a transplant. Yeah, so my first year in Atlanta,

976
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 4: I knew nobody besides the cousin that I was staying with,

977
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 4: So I didn't have anywhere to go on Thanksgiving and

978
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 4: one of my stripper sisters, she doesn't invited me to

979
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 4: her house. She's like, what you're doing things giving? Kind

980
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 4: of my house. I'm cooking, And then I just kind

981
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 4: of paid that forward.

982
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 6: Yeah. I think I just saw miss pat on an

983
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 6: interview talking about it that she does the same thing

984
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:33,320
Speaker 6: in Atlanta. She invites a bunch of Yeah, so it

985
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 6: was great. It was a really fun experience.

986
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 1: Okay, I cannot wait to see what you do for Christmas.

987
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 6: I don't know either. Me and Jeordie. We gotta do

988
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 6: light stuff though, because we lost.

989
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 1: We're going to go to Brooklyn Botannic Cook Guidens to see.

990
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 3: The Yeah, I want to care.

991
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 6: When is it?

992
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: It's now? Okay, it's Happeningmber.

993
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:52,879
Speaker 6: Yeah.

994
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:57,360
Speaker 1: Sometimes the next few weeks December, I supposed to do

995
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:03,320
Speaker 1: like date type things with me money and I know,

996
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:07,879
Speaker 1: and don't got to put out after well, listen, I Cam,

997
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming through, and thank you

998
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 1: for introducing us to Jay. I really love his energy

999
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 1: so much fun.

1000
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, I love he's very fun. Make sure you gotta

1001
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 6: check out his special Yes, ma'am.

1002
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: Remember that ma'am situation with Kwondo Ronald. I was like,

1003
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 1: this is ma'am. He calls me ma'am one more time.

1004
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 1: But yeah, so lift service. Check that out on who

1005
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 1: check out my guy? I came when he's coming to

1006
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: a city near you, follow.

1007
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 6: Him on Instagram and threads up the grinder. I don't

1008
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 6: have to pick on that will be up to day

1009
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 6: very soon hopefully.

1010
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 4: Service I know it period.

1011
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:45,440
Speaker 6: Bye