1 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: It's really important to make things meaningful and to stop. 2 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: And meaning doesn't mean money, and meaning doesn't mean big. 3 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: Britt and I were supposed to go to the Jingle 4 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:22,119 Speaker 1: Ball in LA and then there was an iHeart party 5 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 1: on the Saturday night at Nobu, which is like Nobu 6 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: and she loves it and it's tiktokie and it's fancy 7 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: and it's like Adam Sandler goes Aaron. Brin's obsessed with 8 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 1: Adam Sandler. And it's Friday night and it's going to 9 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: the jingle Ball and it's getting dressed up and it's great. 10 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 1: But you're flying to LA for just two nights and 11 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: it's activating and it's exhausting. And it's in the middle 12 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 1: of December, which is our season. It's the holiday season, 13 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 1: people say. Paulaway says, I don't go big with my comedy. 14 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: We don't go big with our holiday stuff. Our tree 15 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: looks like a Charlie Brown misfit Christmas. And I see 16 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 1: all these people on social media with these perfect trees 17 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: and tree designers are coming and like, you know what, 18 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: and it's no disrespect. No one does Christmas like Chris Jenner. 19 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: It should be Christmas should be Kris Tmas. Chris Jenner 20 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: does Christmas like crazy Kathy Hilton. Kyle now is following 21 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: in Kathy's footsteps with all the trees and all the decorators, 22 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 1: and Kim's got fucking the Eiffel Tower lights and her 23 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 1: driveway and it's amazing. I really like our homemade misfit Christmas, 24 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: like I really wouldn't have it any other way. And 25 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 1: bring one year cried when someone that works with me 26 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 1: who put up the tree like a house manager, put 27 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: up the tree for us, but we said no ornaments, 28 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: and they put up all the fancy ornaments, like the 29 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: ones that have meaning. And it's such a meaningful thing 30 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 1: to do together. And we get so busy and it's overwhelming. 31 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: You're taking your tree out, your shit is out, it's clutter. 32 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: It's like you got other things to do. The game 33 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: moves so fast. So how we did it was I 34 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: had someone that works with me, and you may not 35 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: have that, so you'll do it. But you know, I'm 36 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: lucky and I'm working a lot. Put up the tree 37 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: like they just put the naked tree up, and then 38 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: you pull out all the ornaments. I really strongly recommend 39 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: organizers for your ornaments. It's just like you'll cry if 40 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 1: an ornament breaks. It's happened. It happens when we do 41 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: it perfectly. And then I could tell you later about 42 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: the ornament sleeves. We can discuss that later. But basically, 43 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 1: how I managed it, how I tackled it, was I 44 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 1: took out all those ornament things, and all the boxes 45 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: and all the bags and put them next to the tree, 46 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: and one by one I went through each and anything 47 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: that I didn't live for, anything I didn't live for, 48 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: or like it's a little juvenile, it's a little rusty, 49 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: or it's a little gross, it's a little broken, or 50 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 1: a little over it. It's just like it's too many stockings. 51 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: Pick the things you love. I got rid of all 52 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: that stuff, because God forbid you walk into one of 53 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: those TJ or Home Goods or CBS or any store, 54 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 1: not knowing the shit you already have, you're gonna just 55 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: have so much clutter, so much clutter. So I opened 56 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: everything up, and there were things. There were at least 57 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: like five things like these stockings, they're brand new, they 58 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: still have tags on them. We don't need nineteen stockings, 59 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: you know what. I'm putting a bottle one and that's 60 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: gonna be a gift bag. Like just went through everything. 61 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 1: Some of these, like Santa hats are a little gross 62 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: and dirty. Some of this battery operated shit we bought 63 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: it like some fucking the Radio City Music show. Like 64 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: throw that out, the memorabilia, dumb cups that the drinks 65 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: came in. Whatever. Okay, snow globes are great things to 66 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 1: buy when you go to an event, and so are 67 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 1: ornaments because you're gonna put them on your tree. They're 68 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: not just clutter hanging around in some box. This stupid 69 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: glitter garland that looked good and now it's getting ready 70 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: dump it. Okay, that's stage one, Stage two. Just dip 71 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: in and put like five ornaments on the tree the 72 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: first time. Another habit I got into is I got 73 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: rid of any non meaningful ornaments, any like big just 74 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: glitter balls or pink or purple that you bought in 75 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: bulk on mass goodbye, fuck off. Just have a nice 76 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: lit tree with like meaningful Oh this is when we 77 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 1: were in Santa Barbara, like meaningful tree. So now I've 78 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: put on like five ornaments. Then the next day brings 79 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: home and then she puts five and I put five 80 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: every time you walk by, and you do it together too, 81 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: like you have at least that like hour that you're together. 82 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: So you talk about it and what's your favorite and 83 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: do you remember this? And you do that and then 84 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:18,239 Speaker 1: you go with God and it's up. Don't get all crazy. Also, 85 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: the day you take out your Christmas decorations, you're like, 86 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: oh the other it doesn't fit in with all my 87 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:25,719 Speaker 1: other shit. I didn't need that I bought this year, 88 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean. You've got a candle out, 89 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: you got a vase now where you jamming this like 90 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: weird Christmas shit. Make it work. Don't just like pile 91 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: shit on top of shit because then it looks bad. 92 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: Like make it work. Have like you know, I had 93 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: this like nice jar that has like cinnamon whatever cinnamon 94 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: sticks are in and it's got like a nice bow 95 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: around it and some pine sticking out of it and 96 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: they're nice like vases, So like take down two other 97 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: vases or just like move things around and make it meaningful. 98 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: Like don't just throw the shit on top of your shit, 99 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: because then you're gonna be living in a cluttered mess. 100 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: And then you just did it. To do it, you 101 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 1: check the box make it so it makes sense and 102 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: it looks good. I strongly recommend this, honestly, Like get 103 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 1: a process for your Christmas program, same shit for Halloween, Easter, 104 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, that fourth of July. We love an excuse 105 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 1: to buy shit, put the shit out, put the shit away, 106 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: take the shit out. It's it's a George carl And 107 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: stuff special. But create a process for it. That whole 108 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:35,359 Speaker 1: exasperating story was to tell you that this was the 109 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 1: weekend that we did, like Hampton's meaning, and we didn't 110 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: go to the Jingle Ball, and we didn't exhaust ourselves 111 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 1: in La because we wanted to go to our house 112 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: and do our Charlie round Christmas tree and do our ornaments, 113 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: and we baked cookies and we played Christmas music and 114 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 1: then we did and we were gonna go ice skating, 115 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: but we got tired and we just lived in the 116 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: moment and we didn't go. And we did one holiday 117 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 1: thing a day, went to TJ max and bought gift stuff. 118 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:04,799 Speaker 1: We went to our favorite store in the Hampton's called Martyrs, 119 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: that has all these incredible ornaments and everyone looks like 120 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: someone you know, like there's a blow dryer or there's 121 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: an art set, or there's like books and an apple 122 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 1: for a teacher. It's amazing. And we each year have 123 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 1: a ritual where we pick out an ornament that represents 124 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,559 Speaker 1: the other person. And as we've been there for years, 125 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 1: they've changed them. So we bought a lot and they've 126 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: gotten harder. They've either like reduced their scope or something. 127 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: So this year, what did Brinn get me? Hers? What's good? 128 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 1: I forgot what Brins was for me. I'm gonna open 129 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: it on Christmas? What did she because I just saw 130 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: it for a second and then she put it away. 131 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 1: It reminded her of me. She's gotten me the margarita 132 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 1: one one year, I got her a peanut. God, I'll 133 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: have to let you guys know, but I got her 134 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: a little like rainbow troll, like a little with the 135 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: hair on the top trolls. And it's just so fun. 136 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: And then on Sunday, on the way home, because it's 137 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: on the way home, we go to Gingerbread University. Now 138 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: this is a college. I've belated. I've graduated, I have 139 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: a degree. I was going back for my master's. Now 140 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 1: Brinn has gone and she's an amazing artist. So you 141 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: go and like they give you the candy and you 142 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: decorate your gingerbread house. Or you could decorate a ginger 143 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: man or ginger person or ginger woman, or ginger bay 144 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:20,239 Speaker 1: or ginger cheat. You can decorate a ginger anything you want. 145 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 1: And I had they had a chocolate gingerbread house this year, 146 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: so I got to decorate a chocolate house because like, 147 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 1: there are a lot of blackbarns now in the Hampton, 148 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: So I did a blackbarn. But and she stayed in 149 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: there for an hour and a half extra. After my hour, 150 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: I was like running at it. Gas I went back 151 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: out into the car and it's just like relaxing. I'm like, 152 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 1: you're a crafts woman, so honor your craft. She came out. 153 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 1: You'll see it on my social media. It's like fucking 154 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: Pablo Picasso did her gingerbread house. It's like she's it's insane. 155 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: It's so stunning, but it's so meaningful. Toss that we 156 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: do this every year, and some years we haven't been 157 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: able to get out there, and then we just buy 158 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: a gingerbread house and all the candy and you can 159 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: do it yourself at home, but we like the ritual 160 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: of going there. It's so meaningful and she really relies 161 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: because I don't have a big family on my side, 162 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: and our version of family is these moments that we 163 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 1: never miss. We have not missed one Radio City Music 164 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 1: Hall Christmas Spectacular except for the pandemic since she was 165 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 1: like I want to say two to three, Like I've 166 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: stuck to that. Every year, go to the Radio City 167 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:32,959 Speaker 1: Christmas Show. Then we go look at the tree sometimes. 168 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 1: Now a new ritual is the jingle Ball every year. 169 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 1: I think we did it two years and then to 170 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 1: make it easier and faster to go see the Sax 171 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:43,199 Speaker 1: windows even though it's late at night and we're tired. 172 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 1: Then we drive after the jingle Ball in pajamas in 173 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: the car because we've been decked out, and we get 174 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:52,439 Speaker 1: undressed in the car to then go look at the 175 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 1: Sax windows. No one's there. It's twelve o'clock, you know, 176 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: it's eleven fifty five at night, And we look at 177 00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 1: the tree and we take a picture and then meet 178 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 1: means like less stress. On the Radio City day, we 179 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: buy an ornament which goes on our memory tree, like 180 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 1: we really do it. When she was a little kid, 181 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 1: we did Macy's every year. I just think that whatever 182 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 1: your version of that is. Is it that two nights 183 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 1: before Christmas you go ice skating somewhere or you go 184 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 1: you know, just whatever it is. But we've built them 185 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: and we've stuck to them, and we love them. And 186 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 1: this year there's a new ritual of waking up in 187 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: the morning. We're getting home the night before from skiing, 188 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: and she wants to drive out to the Hamptons from 189 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: Connecticut on the day of Christmas, like take a drive. 190 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: She doesn't want to be driven. We have a driver. 191 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:41,439 Speaker 1: She wants to make a meaningful and the two of 192 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 1: us get in the car in pajamas and if there's 193 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: a Starbucks open, we stop. She loves the ritual because 194 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 1: I love the ritual. And last year we couldn't. The 195 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 1: twenty fourth we traveled and like it was like a 196 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 1: Christmas movie. We almost dink it back for Sana and 197 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 1: we were freaking out. We wanted to beat Sanna, like 198 00:09:57,559 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: you know home. We got home like in the middle 199 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: of the night and still made it for presents in 200 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 1: the morning. And we're traveling the twenty fourth. So I 201 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 1: hope that the ritual isn't that we always have like 202 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: a terrible adventure where it takes us twenty one hours 203 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: to get home, but we're honoring the season. And while 204 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 1: I tell people to make it meaningful, full for them 205 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: and not be marketed, to make it meaningful for you 206 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: in your own way? Is that being alone? Is that 207 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 1: wearing fuzzy socks and pajamas? Is it that every year 208 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 1: you do your own thing, you know it doesn't have 209 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 1: to be expensive. That I can definitely tell you because 210 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 1: we could have gone to the jingle Ball and met 211 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 1: tons of stars, and we could have gone to Nobu 212 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,320 Speaker 1: and run into Adam Sandler if it was a Sunday night, 213 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: and we chose to do our meaningful, warm Charlie Brown 214 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 1: Christmas Tree, and we're so happy. It connected us so much, 215 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: so so much so that this morning whom was going 216 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 1: to school and she said, Mom, I only have acting 217 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 1: for the first for the first class. Can I come 218 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 1: in and snuggle with my mama? And she crawled into 219 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: my bed and we did like an hour, were like 220 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: warm body, mom, teenager snuggle and it was like eating 221 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: like warm, delicious, like oatmeal with like fresh like maple 222 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 1: syrup and brown sugar and like butter. It was delicious 223 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 1: that snuggle. So it all means something, and I believe 224 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:23,839 Speaker 1: that she's not. She's thirteen, so she's not connecting it. 225 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: But taking that weekend to bond all weekend was meaningful. 226 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: And with our kids. You know, you could think you're 227 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:36,439 Speaker 1: with your kids because they're home all day. They're in 228 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: their room, they're doing homework, they're talking to their teen friends, 229 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: they're putting their makeup on, they're growing out with their boys, 230 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: they're doing whatever, or you have kids over, or you're 231 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: with all your kids and you're not really bonding with 232 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: one per se. The one on one time is really 233 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: important because and doing these little adventures because it really 234 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: bonds you. So it bonded Brennan and I in a 235 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: way that's different. Many other times we could be together 236 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 1: but not really together. So that's important to me.