WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: No Fire In The Fireplace

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<v Speaker 1>Quick, Alexis, before the second date starts, tell everyone hello

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<v Speaker 1>in Australian.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, good day may Oh that must be.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason why we're charting in Australia comedy podcasts.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, totally hot.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, thanks for being here, and don't forget if

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<v Speaker 1>you do love this much of the show, We've got

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<v Speaker 1>forty five more minutes of it over on our main feed.

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<v Speaker 2>Just search Brooke and Jeffrey. Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Now they understand what we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get to what you can for.

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<v Speaker 3>It's your second date, second date, up date, Alexis, if

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<v Speaker 3>you could describe not the perfect guy for you, but

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<v Speaker 3>the feeling that you get when you're around that guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Close your eyes and tell us the three words that

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<v Speaker 4>he makes you feel.

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<v Speaker 2>A little bit roasted, Like I want him to be

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<v Speaker 2>mean to me.

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<v Speaker 5>A little bit, you know, like.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like a hard thing that comes to your mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Answer belittled as one full of food. I hope I

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<v Speaker 2>get to go the little tipsy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I don't know if I've ever met

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<v Speaker 1>anyone as scared of emotions as you are.

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<v Speaker 6>Terrified.

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<v Speaker 2>You should imagine this.

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<v Speaker 6>Is what everybody's perfect guy, A little bit different it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Like Michael B.

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<v Speaker 6>Jordan making fun of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you see two guys because you just have double vision.

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<v Speaker 4>I bring it up because one of our listeners says

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<v Speaker 4>she figured out how she wants to feel when she

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<v Speaker 4>meets her perfect guy, and maybe it even happened to

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<v Speaker 4>her this last date. I mean he's not calling her back,

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<v Speaker 4>but that doesn't matter. She that a certain way that.

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<v Speaker 2>Could feel good, though, like just a little bit not ignored.

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<v Speaker 1>It's one day.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, let's talk to Alice and hear about it. Alice,

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<v Speaker 6>how you doing?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm good in you guys.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm worried about Alexis, but I think the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>us are fine.

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<v Speaker 6>Would you like because we will.

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<v Speaker 4>I bring it up because in your email, you said

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<v Speaker 4>you felt the way that you wanted to feel when

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<v Speaker 4>you met up with this guy.

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<v Speaker 6>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, the dealness is that I've just been meeting the

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<v Speaker 5>wrong guys. My discernment hasn't been the best because I

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<v Speaker 5>usually go for guys that wind up being wrong for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you're taking a different approach, looking for a

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<v Speaker 1>different Yes.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, So I heard this podcast by this lady and

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<v Speaker 5>she said, instead of looking for your firecrackers. You should

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<v Speaker 5>be looking for your fireplace.

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<v Speaker 2>I heard this. You're supposed to go for the slow

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<v Speaker 2>bird type of.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so like firecrackers like for me, like I get butterflies,

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<v Speaker 5>and not to my stomach, like I get like an

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<v Speaker 5>adrenaline rush.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so fun.

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<v Speaker 5>It's scary, but it's like a ride I want to

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<v Speaker 5>go on, but then the ride crashes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, dangerous.

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<v Speaker 7>Fries.

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<v Speaker 5>You know. Now, a fireplace is actually more it's welcoming,

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<v Speaker 5>it's warm. You look forward to that comfort. You're not scared, right,

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<v Speaker 5>you're not scared, not all the bells and whistle.

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<v Speaker 4>So basically you're not supposed to be looking for the

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<v Speaker 4>exciting person anymore.

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<v Speaker 6>You're supposed to look for the safe person.

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<v Speaker 5>I need to be swiping right on the fireplaces.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So is this guy that you went out with

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<v Speaker 2>the fireplace?

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<v Speaker 5>He fits the profile where he's doesn't necessarily knock my

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<v Speaker 5>socks off, but but he does tick off the boxes

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<v Speaker 5>that I like, And that's what I found in.

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<v Speaker 4>Doesn't knock your socks off, and maybe he would mend

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<v Speaker 4>your socks if they'll.

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<v Speaker 1>Warm them, because he's a fire so what's his name?

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<v Speaker 5>His name is Paul.

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<v Speaker 6>He's got a fireplace name.

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<v Speaker 4>What did you and Paul decide to do? What did

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<v Speaker 4>you in this fireplace go?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So what we decided to do was to go

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<v Speaker 5>out to dinner at my thirty.

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<v Speaker 2>At five thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that his idea or were you just really push

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<v Speaker 1>at this old person?

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<v Speaker 7>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>No, actually he said he had to be home to

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<v Speaker 5>be in bed by nine thirty so that he could

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<v Speaker 5>go to work.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, okay, even when I was dating, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>go to bed at nine thirty. Yeah, you know, one

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<v Speaker 1>night to stay up.

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<v Speaker 5>Come on.

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<v Speaker 6>That's attracted to those firecrackers, that's why.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you were excited about this because this is

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<v Speaker 1>still like fulfilling what your thought is of him?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? How did dinner go?

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<v Speaker 5>Dinner went really well. I mean he told me he

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<v Speaker 5>likes to cook, he likes to bake. And when he

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<v Speaker 5>said that to me, it's like that gave me some

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<v Speaker 5>really nice, like low key fireplace vibes, which I really liked.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, So did you tell him this, because you've brought

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<v Speaker 1>it up so many times?

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<v Speaker 6>Did you use the term firecracker and fireplace with him?

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<v Speaker 5>That's what I mean, honestly, I didn't want to bring

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<v Speaker 5>up those terms because I just wanted him to be

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<v Speaker 5>himself and say that he had to be somebody else.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's good.

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<v Speaker 4>It's probably not going to go to well if you

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<v Speaker 4>keep referring to him as the safe fireplace.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, every guy wants to think of themselves as

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<v Speaker 1>a bad boy in some ways, right Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>So okay, he seems to be checking the boxes that

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<v Speaker 6>you want, right.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, he said he was looking for long term.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, he's into health and nature, and that to

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<v Speaker 5>me was perfect. I mean, I wasn't getting butterflies in

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<v Speaker 5>my stomach, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that should still be happening.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, no, you don't want to have that. Okay, that's

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<v Speaker 6>a firecracker.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I'm guessing, like you guys didn't end the

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<v Speaker 1>night with a kiss or anything.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, near the ending of the night, he tells me

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<v Speaker 5>a joke, and he said to me, did I want

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<v Speaker 5>him to teach me a car trick?

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<v Speaker 2>So I said okay, and then it's kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 5>He says, Oh, well I don't know any gotcha.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, Well, hopefully you didn't laugh too hard because

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<v Speaker 4>then you're gonna get too excited and that would be

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<v Speaker 4>a time.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that?

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<v Speaker 1>The only funny moment is that it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Just so specific.

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<v Speaker 6>What was there like any like hugger?

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<v Speaker 5>I'll say we did a nice little hug. I mean

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<v Speaker 5>I thought it was I thought it was a good date.

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't over the top, that's what you want though.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't like a bad experience or one big negative thing.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, So what's happened since the date?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? This is the thing. Now, I haven't heard back

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<v Speaker 5>or gotten a callback from this boring fireplace guy.

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<v Speaker 2>So are you just more mad that he's not calling

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<v Speaker 2>you back? Or do you really want to see him again?

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<v Speaker 5>I really would like to see him again. But I'm like,

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<v Speaker 5>how could you not call me back?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? Like?

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<v Speaker 5>What could you possibly have going on outside of what

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<v Speaker 5>you told me?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, I have a cat.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe we should dial down some of this language when

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<v Speaker 4>we actually get him on the fund.

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<v Speaker 6>But we're gonna call him.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll try and stoke that fire back up and not

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<v Speaker 4>too brightly when we do your second date update right

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<v Speaker 4>after this.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>I got the strangest text message from the Academy of

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<v Speaker 4>Radio broadcasters saying, we just hit a new radio record

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<v Speaker 4>for saying the word fireplace.

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<v Speaker 6>Over fifteen thousand times.

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<v Speaker 2>We know what we're looking for, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I'm only going to say it once more

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<v Speaker 4>because our listener Alice used that term as a simple

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<v Speaker 4>analogy for what she's looking for in her romantic partner.

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<v Speaker 4>She learned she needs to stop chasing fire crackers and

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<v Speaker 4>start looking for her fireplace.

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<v Speaker 1>What if you do, don't chase waterfalls either. We'll just

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<v Speaker 1>put it in there.

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<v Speaker 6>We don't need any more analogies thrown in.

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<v Speaker 4>Basically, it's stopped looking for the exciting guy who gives

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<v Speaker 4>you butterflies, start looking for the safe option.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, settle kind of not really.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's just like, yeah, just don't look for

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff that's going to fizzle out really quick.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you're looking for that feeling that's going to make

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<v Speaker 6>you feel like you're at home.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And now that she went down that road, the fireplace

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<v Speaker 4>is leaving her on red.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've said fireplace again.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not going to say it anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>We can't break our own record.

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<v Speaker 6>It's like our wood soggy, It just.

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<v Speaker 3>Won't you know.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, Now that's how you feel him before we call him.

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<v Speaker 5>Here, I'm feeling pretty good. I'm just hoping to figure

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<v Speaker 5>out why haven't heard back from Paul.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that you still have hope, but not too much.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, it's like.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like shifting everything to try to find the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that you're supposed to have, and even that is a

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<v Speaker 1>struggle right now. But I don't think it will be

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<v Speaker 1>at the end.

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<v Speaker 7>Of this I hope. So yeah, we all do.

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<v Speaker 4>It's interesting we're going to be calling a boring guy

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<v Speaker 4>for a radio segment here.

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<v Speaker 6>Not the best reading.

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<v Speaker 4>Strategy on our part, but you know what, let's dial

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<v Speaker 4>him up.

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<v Speaker 6>Anyways, stay tuned.

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<v Speaker 2>We've got a crackling fireplaces.

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<v Speaker 6>Hopefully we can squeeze a little bit of it. But

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<v Speaker 6>here we go. Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Paul.

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<v Speaker 7>This is Paul.

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<v Speaker 2>Not that we wanted you to come hot out of

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<v Speaker 2>the gate or anything.

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<v Speaker 5>Friend.

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<v Speaker 4>First of all, thank you so much for answering this

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<v Speaker 4>number that I'm sure you didn't recognize it.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, strangers, we know we're a radio station called Brook

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<v Speaker 6>and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, okay, nice.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, let's keep this going because what we're doing here

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<v Speaker 4>is called a second date update, and we're trying to

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<v Speaker 4>help out one of our listeners that you actually went

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<v Speaker 4>out to dinner with a few nights ago and she

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<v Speaker 4>had a really nice time with you.

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<v Speaker 6>Her name is Alice.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, good old Alice.

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<v Speaker 8>Huh yeah, Well, we'd like to open it up to

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<v Speaker 8>you for a second and tell us what you thought

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<v Speaker 8>about the date.

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<v Speaker 6>Which thought about it? Alice?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>What what is this for?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, it's a second ate update.

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<v Speaker 4>Basically, Alice has reached out to us because she told

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<v Speaker 4>us a little bit about your night together.

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<v Speaker 6>She had a great time. Well, how was it for you?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm just not really sure how the date went. I

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<v Speaker 7>guess I don't uh, I don't know. I don't get

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<v Speaker 7>I don't get a lot of matches. So I was

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<v Speaker 7>pretty nervous. That's been a long time doing my hair, and.

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<v Speaker 4>It makes feel better. She said that she was nervous

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<v Speaker 4>to meet up with you too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I told her a joke at one point and it

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<v Speaker 7>kind of failed but kind of worked at the same time.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not really did you tell her?

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<v Speaker 6>Are you talking about the magic trick joke? Yeah? Okaya.

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<v Speaker 6>She told us that, Yeah, you're funny. Okay, that's a compliment.

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<v Speaker 6>You feel good about that?

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you not be calling her back?

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<v Speaker 1>And why wouldn't you be excited right now? Like we're

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<v Speaker 1>telling you it was a good date.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>I just didn't know how to feel about it. And

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<v Speaker 7>then we did talk about going out again, but she

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<v Speaker 7>was talking about acts throwing. Yeah, and I don't know

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<v Speaker 7>about that, going out into the woods and throwing axes.

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<v Speaker 7>That seemed dangerous.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Yeah, I understand you.

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<v Speaker 6>You haven't dated in a while.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was like you might You might not know this,

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<v Speaker 4>but they actually have places set up where you're supposed

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<v Speaker 4>to go indoors and throw axes at the wall at

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<v Speaker 4>like targets.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't even have to date to know that.

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<v Speaker 7>I never heard of that. I thought it was sounded

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<v Speaker 7>kind of like a liability.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, you're going to be fine, man, You're going to

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<v Speaker 1>be fine.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to be a relief to her.

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<v Speaker 1>So you just weren't calling her back because you think

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<v Speaker 1>she liked you you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I guess that's kind of the gift.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it was probably really really relieved to hear

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<v Speaker 4>you say all those things. Is Alice, who is on

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<v Speaker 4>the other line right now wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, Paul, how are you.

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<v Speaker 7>Hi? I'm good.

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<v Speaker 6>You could hear the smile.

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<v Speaker 5>That it's good to hear your voice.

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<v Speaker 7>Paul.

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<v Speaker 5>I was wondering why I hadn't heard back from you.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sorry. I guess I was just kind of unsure.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't really know if you wanted to go out

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<v Speaker 7>again or it went well.

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<v Speaker 3>Well.

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<v Speaker 4>I think the axe throwing idea really scared him off there,

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<v Speaker 4>Alice like that. You're not married to that as the.

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<v Speaker 5>Next day, you know, like could there was always other

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<v Speaker 5>activities that we could.

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<v Speaker 7>Do, would be would be good. I tend to be a.

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<v Speaker 4>Leader, but you must feel good, like you understand, like Alice.

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<v Speaker 4>Alice likes you, right, Alice, you can even tell him yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>Now we don't have to your voice.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I really had a great time with you when

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<v Speaker 5>we had dinner. I think the conversation was pretty good.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if maybe you might have been a

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<v Speaker 5>little anxious, but I mean if you were, I couldn't tell.

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<v Speaker 2>Your confidence has to be through the roof right now, right.

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<v Speaker 5>Paul, Yeah, good?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay to him up for that and he knocked it

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<v Speaker 6>down all right. I mean I think that you guys

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<v Speaker 6>should give it one more show.

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<v Speaker 4>You choose like a safe act activity for you two

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<v Speaker 4>to do no sharp objects anywhere around.

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<v Speaker 8>The ballroom, bowling, bowling, Yeah, yeah, yeah, we could do that.

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<v Speaker 7>You could come see my collection collection.

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<v Speaker 6>What collection? The collection?

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<v Speaker 5>Huh?

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<v Speaker 4>You?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh? I collect antiqu gynecological chairs.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you say, gynocological like with the stirrup feet.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard dynacological like a dinosaurs like an ob g.

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<v Speaker 2>Y n chair.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, but like they're from the eighteen hundreds, you collect those? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>they're really kind of fascinating. Actually, you know why?

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<v Speaker 2>Why are they fascinating? Paul?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean it's that period is kind of, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>really interesting, not a.

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<v Speaker 2>Great period in women.

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<v Speaker 6>It was the experimental things. They're trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 6>what's going on now they did.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a little How do you feel about that?

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<v Speaker 5>That's a that's a little bit odd.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I think maybe the question we need to ask

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<v Speaker 4>is do you feel like you have butterflies right now?

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<v Speaker 6>Alice Hope, No, Well, that's a good sign for you.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the opposite of what you're looking for. So we

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<v Speaker 4>would love to send you two out on another date.

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<v Speaker 8>Paul.

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<v Speaker 6>We'll pay for this date, if you're willing to meet

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<v Speaker 6>up with Alice.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, that sounds great.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yes from Paul Alice, you're still up for it.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't have to go to his house, you don't

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<v Speaker 4>have to see the collection.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll say, maybe you can see pictures of his collection

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<v Speaker 1>first and then judge from there.

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<v Speaker 2>If there's a third day.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, I think that's what I would need to have

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<v Speaker 5>a visual of the collection of the dynacological chair.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's not say that I.

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<v Speaker 4>Take some photos of your collection and text them over

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<v Speaker 4>and then we'll send you guys out again on a date.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>I'll send a link to my website a website, alright, Tall,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm kind of excited.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,