1 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? It's your girl, Les Pete. Can it 2 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 1: to your girls? The call and you are tuned in 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: to another episode of Poor Minds, where a drunk Mine 4 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:17,920 Speaker 1: speaks sober thoughts. Are we drank and drinking? That was right? 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: That's because I think I'm holding with the wrong hand. 6 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: That's our own intro. It does. What's up? Sis? What's up? 7 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: What's ups? Year? It's a new year. I've just been working. 8 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: Aw you hell not. I still ain't ship. I'm still 9 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 1: popping this pussy. But oh I still got three dollars. 10 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: I thought you had four. You told me you see 11 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,319 Speaker 1: you calling under my Instagram post a few weeks ago 12 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: and said you had seven dollars. Well, no, that's because 13 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: the YouTube checking hit. But I had to spend it. 14 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: I was hongry. But you're about to get another one, 15 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: so you don't have three dollars. Somewhere I got them 16 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: chicks coming in. I got three dollars. I don't know 17 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: why people would be like for real, people be thinking 18 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: that you reach now and it be like I'm still 19 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: very much got God. But yeah, we on the way though. Yeah, 20 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 1: so uh, I've just been enjoying life. I feel good 21 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: in the new year. I just feel like, I don't know, 22 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 1: I've just been really really happy lately. I can't lie. 23 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: So what are you going to do this year? Get money? 24 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: I'm getting money. I'm gonna try to sh Now. I've 25 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 1: been in a good mood too, I have been in 26 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: a great mood. So on a past Patreon episode, I 27 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: talked about I went through a really really really hard time, 28 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: like uh like November December time, because me and throw 29 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: Back Bay had like year. Yeah, me and throw Back 30 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: Bay had fell off letely stop talking like he had 31 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: moved on, and I was just hurt. You don't have 32 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: our heart. He had him a grown lady, all right. Anyway, 33 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: it was a full grown It didn't last long because 34 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: I mean, he's back, he's vengeance, he's trying to come back. 35 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,119 Speaker 1: But the thing about it is, I wanted to talk 36 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: to you about this a little bit before we get 37 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: into the topics. You know how we always be like, oh, 38 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: niggas always come back, they always come back. But like 39 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: sometimes I feel like niggas just come back because it's 40 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: a convenience to them or they realize what they had honestly, 41 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: and I'm not for that shit, Like I know I'm 42 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: litt I know I'm amazing, but you cannot come back. 43 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: And we say that on the show all the time. 44 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: But like whenever I say it, I'm not like bragging, like, oh, 45 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 1: these niggas always come back cause like it's nothing to 46 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 1: brag about. They definitely come back because they feel like 47 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 1: they can, yeah, and because they can. And niggas hate 48 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 1: to see you happy without them too. So it's like 49 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: if you look like you you flourishing, and you do 50 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: your thing and you looking better and you smiling more, 51 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: niggas hate that shit. Niggas hate that right. And I 52 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: know I won't say I want to come back and 53 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: start fucking it up again. Well, I won't say that. 54 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: He ain't ship. It's just like the way we felt 55 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: was bad. But I will say this, I'm not even 56 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: happy because of another nigga right now. I'm just happy 57 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: because life is good, you know what I'm saying. So 58 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: I don't need you because you have your own things 59 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: going on. Ye have other things that you could focus 60 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: on and stuff. But I definitely feel like, I mean, 61 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, my philosophy when it comes 62 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 1: to fucking back with all niggas, it used to be 63 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: I'm not about to fuck back with a nigga that 64 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: I stopped, but they gotta pay the unblocked fee. Well, 65 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: it used to be that I will never fuck back 66 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: with a nigga once I was doing fucking with him. 67 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,119 Speaker 1: But I've done that, like in the past few years, 68 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: so I can't say that I wouldn't do that anymore. 69 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: But I just feel like he needs to be beneficial. 70 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: If you gonna do that, then it needs to be beneficial. 71 00:03:56,120 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: Ye Like, honestly, oh I miss him well nah for me. Honestly, 72 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: at this point in my life, I don't even care 73 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: if it's beneficial. I need my good energy, and yeah, 74 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: you could be beneficial towards me, but what the most importantly, 75 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 1: how are you benefiting me spiritually and emotionally? Because honestly, 76 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: no amount of money can make me bring somebody back 77 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: in my life that was toxic. I'm happy, I wake 78 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 1: up good. I don't care if you like paying this 79 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 1: and paying that, I can't do it. But that's what 80 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 1: I mean. I mean when I stay beneficial, I mean 81 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: in whatever way, that's what I'm saying. They're gonna assume 82 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 1: to say small minded, but I'm talking about whatever you 83 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: deem to be beneficial to let somebody back into your life, 84 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, whether it's spiritually or whether it's financially, 85 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 1: If it's financially for you, you know what I mean, 86 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 1: whatever it is that you feel like, this is what 87 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: these persons gotta do for me to allow them back 88 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 1: into my space. I feel like that's the only way 89 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: you should let a nigga back into your world. Good 90 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 1: energy only. That's one thing I say for the New Year, own, like, 91 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: if you not under standing what I have going on, 92 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 1: I can understand what you got going on, and we 93 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: having fun and we turning up. That's all I want. 94 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 1: And I just feel like too, I don't know, like hmmm, 95 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: Like I said, I just feel like niggas be trying 96 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: to come back into your life to like fuck she 97 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: they be reading a fuck shit, that is what I think. 98 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: I think. Niggas just hate to see you happy because 99 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: like one of my old niggas keep trying to back 100 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:26,359 Speaker 1: with me too, and I just be like, it's like 101 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: hunt they be like that bitch happy hold on, nigga, 102 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: No for real, that's really what it is Smellinglena, and 103 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: it's really sick. It is literally said, hold on, babn, 104 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,919 Speaker 1: she done post a way too many happy posts. She 105 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,039 Speaker 1: don't post like when I was like going through my 106 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: sad girl faces. You know, I go my sad girl 107 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: faces and I be posting my sad lyrics and my 108 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: sad songs, and I be sad girling. I don't be 109 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 1: seeing niggas I do on Twitter, because you don't be 110 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: on Twitter like that. I be on Twitter sometimes, but 111 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: I still don't be seeing I'll be posting like my 112 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: fucka you love so bad, I mean my feelings, and 113 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 1: I'll be posting to these niggas. I mean, yeah, I'm 114 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: a human. I am a human. Yes, I have feelings 115 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: for someone that I really cared about very deeply, and 116 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 1: he hurt my fucking feelings. So yeah, I was going 117 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,839 Speaker 1: through it, you know what I'm saying. But do you 118 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: ever feel like you ignore red flags? Oh? Hell yeah, 119 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 1: and that's why you slap me in the face mode 120 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: of his dick duo bitch, and I'll ignore that motherfucker. 121 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, because I feel like you be 122 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 1: getting red flags niggas, and you still be like fucking 123 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 1: I'm know me. Oh that's not a good thing. But 124 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: I was just saying, you know, I love to ignore 125 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 1: red flag and that's why your feelings be getting hard 126 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 1: because I didn't mean it like that. Of course we're 127 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: all human like of course everybody get they feelings hurt sometimes. 128 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:57,599 Speaker 1: But I feel like you be ignoring hello red flags, 129 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 1: and that's why your feelings always always hurt. But I'm 130 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 1: never gonna stop. I'm never gonna stop terrible. Hey, hey, 131 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: it's who I am. No, I don't mean I'm never 132 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: gonna I mean I'm never gonna stop like loving and charge. 133 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 1: I'm never gonna let a person like break me to 134 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 1: be like, I'm through in love. I'm not gonna do it. 135 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: What's the best song that Beyonce had, I'm through it it? Yeah, 136 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: I'm never going to be that Beyonce beyond say you 137 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 1: know you ain't gonna be through with love either. This 138 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: is married, since is married Mary much in line? Okay, 139 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: so uh yeah, but yeah throw back Babe is trying 140 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: to come back. But what are your thoughts? That's my nigga. 141 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 1: Like he cool like but as far as sucking his dick, 142 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 1: I'm not sucking a dick no more. Every time I 143 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: suck that he got something in his nut that go 144 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: to my head. I'm not fucking I'm not fucking him 145 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: no more. I'm not doing it. I'm not doing it. 146 00:07:58,000 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 1: We can I want to be. I want us to 147 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: have a good I ain't gonna saying that you don't 148 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: want me to say, but I already gotta feel that 149 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 1: You're gonna call me like off here and be like Dre, 150 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 1: I'm not sucking at big y'all. Lex y'all don't even 151 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: understand how much Lex tell me she's not gonna do 152 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: she and then like a week later, two weeks later, 153 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 1: call me like Drea, but me also judge, so that's 154 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: why she be calling me. But I just be over here, like, girl, 155 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: I already know who the fuck you thought you was fooling, 156 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: cause you wasn't fooling me. But I will say that's 157 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 1: the best thing about our friendship is that there's no judgment. 158 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: I like a lot of times people keep things from 159 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:39,959 Speaker 1: their friends and they don't telling each other. She I'd 160 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:42,200 Speaker 1: be like, oh, bitch, I don't fucked up, like or 161 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because if you are judging 162 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 1: your friend, like why are you You're not a real friend. 163 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: Like you also want to see your friends happy, like 164 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: whatever makes them happy in the moment, even if it's 165 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 1: something that you feel like, oh I wouldn't do these 166 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 1: or oh I don't want these for them. If it's 167 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: what makes them happy, then you should be like, okay, cool, 168 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: Like I always say, as long as the nigga is 169 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 1: not putting you in harm's way or like, you know 170 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 1: what I mean, beating on you or no, I'm just 171 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: being honest though, like doing something harmful to you, you 172 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: know what I mean. I feel like she your fun. 173 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: You only get one like and eventually I feel like 174 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 1: a lot of the time some people have to go 175 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: through things and bump their head a few times before 176 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: they get it. I think we both like that. Come on, now, 177 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 1: I'm for real. I think we both like that. So 178 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: I think that whenever you call me or you be 179 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 1: telling me you back fucking with somebody, I'll just be like, well, 180 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: maybe she got to fuck with him like two more 181 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: moms again, but I'm not fucking with this nigga. And 182 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: again I want to. I want But that's a but 183 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 1: this is not a topic we're planning on discussing today. 184 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 1: But why do women be thinking that they could be 185 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: friends with niggas that they were fucking. I can't be. 186 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: I have a friend that I am friends with and 187 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: we fucked and we used to be fucking fucking. But 188 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 1: I'm talking about like recently, like it's brand new, y'all, 189 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: just stop fucking. I'm not talking about a nigga that 190 00:09:56,720 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 1: you was fucking, because I could be friends with nigg 191 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: is that I haven't fucked in like five years too, 192 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: because it's nothing there anymore. But I'm talking about like recently, 193 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 1: the shit fresh like we was just honestly, I'll say 194 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: the reason is because I don't suck like two dicksons then, 195 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: So I mean he was lady, he was fucking that lady. 196 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 1: I'm damn no, yea. Both was fucking other people, but 197 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 1: I still knowing other people. When I was like really 198 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: really fucking with him, I wasn't. I'm saying after the fact, 199 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: he's st lady and I was to me and don't 200 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 1: do that. It was really one person that men oh, 201 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: and I love him. I love all my niggas. I 202 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 1: love every single I love every single one. The type 203 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: of girl like only one of my niggas gonna get 204 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 1: special treat me. I treat all the rest of them 205 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 1: like pis I No, I agree with that too, though, 206 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 1: like only what I only ever have one favorite niggas? 207 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I have one favorite. Like he gets it's 208 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 1: everything having a few on the side, they're like, I know, 209 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 1: I could call him yeah when you when I'm born 210 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:10,079 Speaker 1: and ship, but I always only got one. Yes, I 211 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,679 Speaker 1: definitely have a favorite nigga, definitely getting a relationship that 212 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: I only have one nigga in general. But you know, 213 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: I hate out there. I'm just saying because I don't 214 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: want nobody that I have a potential, you know, situations 215 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: with yeah, to think that I be having healing niggas 216 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 1: because I don't. When I'm single, I do, yeah, because 217 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 1: once I get a relationship, I only got one. But 218 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: the thing is, though, I think people need to realize, 219 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 1: like me and you are single. So the things that 220 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: we talk about on the show, we're dating, we're trying 221 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: to figure shit out as well ourselves. I mean, like, well, 222 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 1: if the shoe fie, I mean fucking lakes that bit yup, 223 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: I wear that motherfucker as long as it's just second right. 224 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Period, don't give a fuck 225 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: what y'all saying, I'm having fun. I'm trying to figure 226 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 1: out and whenever that right man comes along for me, 227 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 1: that's we both having fun. And especially after like years, 228 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 1: like I feel like the first few years that she 229 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 1: was here, like the first two weeks, I was locked up. 230 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 1: You was locked up, and like I've been a little 231 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:12,320 Speaker 1: locked up too. You was definitely locked up. I was 232 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 1: definitely a little lock And I just be looking back like, oh, 233 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 1: I'm glad, I'm glad. Whow what was thinking? Girl? Girl 234 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 1: that had that was a rough patch for the both 235 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 1: of us and our love life and our friendship each 236 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 1: other though, But you know what, I think we was 237 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: both mad and but listen, that's what I'm saying. We are. 238 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 1: We hated our relationships so bad we started hating each other. 239 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: Like that's how I like everything on, Like this is 240 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 1: your fault. My figure used to give me bad thinking, 241 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 1: like Drea, that's why I am in a bad mood today. 242 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 1: So this is I would just blaming everything on. Everything 243 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:59,200 Speaker 1: was b you and the motherfucking reason why they don't 244 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: get to it's because of legs. It's because of legs. No, 245 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 1: that shit's crazy. But I just be so glad that 246 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: we're not in that space. It goes back to like 247 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 1: what people always say about like once you really start 248 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 1: focusing on yourself and you need your shit together, you 249 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: know what I mean. And now that we have our 250 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:23,199 Speaker 1: shit together and our business is flourishing, I know what 251 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: should be making me lose my train of thoughts sometimes. 252 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 1: So yeah, so I feel like now that we like 253 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 1: have started focusing back on ourselves and like our business 254 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:35,319 Speaker 1: is flourishing, everything else in our life is just going 255 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 1: good too. Because we're focused on us. We're not focused 256 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 1: on these niegs. Like we still got niegs, but we're 257 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 1: not focused on these niggause that's not our first priority. 258 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 1: But that's why. But we've always said that, like we 259 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: always say, focused on yourself and your back. These niggas 260 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 1: gonna come and go get what you can from them 261 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 1: until that man, the man that's gonna be for you, 262 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 1: that's you know, that's gonna be your nigga. Until then, 263 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 1: just have fun. Turn up. And now with everything that 264 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, we both have going on, 265 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: we actually have like way more to bring to the 266 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 1: table too, to a nigga. Now, Yeah, at first I 267 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: had just you know, three dollars my kiss nails and 268 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 1: my synthetic wig. Now I have three dollars acrylic nails 269 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 1: and good weave. Shout out to Emerald Godda's hair. Ha 270 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 1: ha period. No, but I agree. I agree. I definitely 271 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: feel like I have way more to offer aniga now 272 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 1: and I'm more happy. I am more make somebody happy, 273 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: make a nigga more happy. Because I'm happy, you better 274 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: be happy, sis. We love the happy vibe. Okay, So 275 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 1: what's the first topic? Says we want to talk about 276 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: having your friends back? Yeah. I think that's a great 277 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: topic to talk about today because I feel like a 278 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 1: lot of people don't be having a friend bag. Okay, So, 279 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 1: so do have two different viewpoints on it, So I'll 280 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: let you go first. Okay, So I'll say this. The 281 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: Internet is a range place. So I don't give a 282 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 1: fuck if some of y'all are tweeting about me and 283 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: Dre are tweeting something about Drea. I don't. I don't 284 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 1: care about none of that shit y'all talking. I'm about 285 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 1: to have her back because let me tell you what 286 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:16,840 Speaker 1: the thing is, even if it's in real life, if 287 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 1: Drea does something wrong to somebody and you approach and 288 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: somebody approaches you about it, I'm going to have your 289 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 1: back period now. If you was wrong, I'm gonna tell 290 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: you behind closed doors though, because that's a conversation for 291 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: me and you have. But in public this is my 292 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 1: bitch and none of y'all can say nothing to her period. 293 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: So I'm always gonna have your back always, no matter what. 294 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 1: We are uniting friends. It's a united front, hund. This 295 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 1: is this, This is the the ratchet Bitch Navy period, 296 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: and we gonna rode on you, roding on your ad. 297 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 1: We got them ak's in the back period. You know 298 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. No, not the ratchet Beach Navy, the 299 00:15:56,080 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: RBN Nigga, the all be in, that's the ratchet Beach. Now. 300 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: They got they got the Navy seals, they got the Army, 301 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,760 Speaker 1: and they got the r b N. They got navy too. 302 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: We got we the r b N, the ratchet bitch Navy, 303 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: and that's on period. You the ratchet Beach Navy ship. 304 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 1: Fucking throw your ass up. That's an RN sign language. 305 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: I don't even know. Yeah, I used to know. I 306 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 1: used to do sign language. No, this is R No, 307 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 1: this is a r N. I think No, I think 308 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 1: I lied. You probably did because you do that this 309 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 1: how probably never even spoke sign language. Okay, no, this 310 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 1: is Q, this is our, this is no, this is H, 311 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 1: this is our all right, throw your okay? Okay, So 312 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 1: you feel about having your friends. I think you always 313 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 1: wanted to have your friend baby publicly. Yes, yes, but 314 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 1: I do feel this way. I feel like you gotta 315 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: take up for people who take up for themselves. I'm 316 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: not going out my way to take up from one 317 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: of my friends who don't need to take up for theirselves. Right, Okay, 318 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 1: I'll see what you're saying, cause I'm not about to 319 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:21,919 Speaker 1: be getting out of backlash because I'm going off on 320 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: you and saying so to you. But my friend ain't 321 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 1: even saying that. She ain't even defending her own self. 322 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: So why the fuck am I gonna defend you if 323 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 1: you're not defending yourself. That makes sense, That makes sense, 324 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:33,439 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But if I have a 325 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 1: type of friend who is always standing up for herself 326 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,640 Speaker 1: and she got something to say, I don't give a fuck. Yes, 327 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:40,400 Speaker 1: she a growndass woman. She could say, she could take 328 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:41,880 Speaker 1: up for herself, and she could say what she needs 329 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: to say. But I'm gonna say something too, Beach, because 330 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 1: I know her, right, and you out her fuck thud, 331 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 1: You're trying to demean her character, and I don't like this. 332 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: She I just think it's crazy because I understand that 333 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 1: how the Internet is so you don't have to address 334 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: everything online, but so you know, but sometimes when you're on, 335 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: like we have a pretty big platform, so sometimes the 336 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:04,919 Speaker 1: things happen on the Internet and people are saying things 337 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 1: they you have to address. But it gets frustrating to 338 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 1: and I think that's something that most people would never 339 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 1: understand because most people don't have like such large platforms. 340 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 1: But like it gets annoying as fuck, like people always 341 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 1: trying to speculate your life and speculate what they got 342 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 1: going on. Like I'm not trying to be funny, and 343 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: I'm I'm not trying to be funny and I'm not 344 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,239 Speaker 1: trying to be rude when I say these, but it's like, 345 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 1: Lex know what she got going on in her life. 346 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: I know what I got going on in my life. 347 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 1: We know what we got going on. Outsiders don't be 348 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: knowing nothing. Y'all just be speculating, right, And I think 349 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 1: sometimes it gets frustrating because it's like you ain't game. Well, no, 350 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 1: I'm just being honest though, you not like you don't 351 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 1: know nothing. You going off and he says she say 352 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 1: her together. I think a lot of people need to 353 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 1: realize that this is entertainment that too, like we're here. 354 00:18:57,359 --> 00:19:00,760 Speaker 1: We like I'll be like, oh, bitch, I just suck 355 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 1: some dick because I'm trying to crack a joke. But bitch, 356 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:06,639 Speaker 1: I probably ain't suck no dicking like Thuise exactly. You know, 357 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:11,199 Speaker 1: Like I just feel like and another thing it's like 358 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 1: for you, especially because I know like people like will 359 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:18,440 Speaker 1: say things, say things like they feel like, oh, Drea 360 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:20,439 Speaker 1: got an attitude with Lexus. We she must not be 361 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,640 Speaker 1: fucking with lex right now. They'd be like, what the 362 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 1: fuck do y'all be like they literally be pulling this 363 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 1: shit from they ass. Yeah, the YouTube comments a lot, 364 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:30,119 Speaker 1: They do that a lot. I definitely think that's weird. 365 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 1: And I also feel like, again going back to like 366 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 1: what you said at the beginning of the episode, like 367 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 1: I'm human. We're both human, Like sometimes I don't have 368 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:42,120 Speaker 1: the best days, lex don't have the best days. If 369 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 1: I seem like I got a little mood on me 370 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 1: or whatever, it's not towards her, and she be knowing it, 371 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:49,399 Speaker 1: like I be having real life. She going on and 372 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:51,960 Speaker 1: so do shit and that's just really all it is. 373 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 1: But I feel like people be so messy and they 374 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: thrive off of drama of negativity. They're like, ooh, I 375 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,920 Speaker 1: ho dre hates Lex today. It all weird because it's 376 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 1: like we're literally best friends, like literally, like if we're 377 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:09,040 Speaker 1: going through something, y'all will never know about it. I 378 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 1: swear to God, like y'all will never fucking know about it, 379 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:14,640 Speaker 1: like ever, ever, ever, ever, But yeah, because we don't 380 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 1: believe in putting our business on the internet like this. Yeah, 381 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:19,440 Speaker 1: and then it's like you have to realize a lot 382 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:21,639 Speaker 1: of people are waiting for that day. Yeah, a lot 383 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 1: of people are wanted, a lot of people. She probably 384 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 1: close to us too, thanks for sure. I mean people 385 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 1: be hating the girls behaving, people be hating for sure. 386 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, but I just have learned to look past it. 387 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 1: But I definitely feel like if you're a good friend, 388 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 1: you gonna have your friend big regards, right. You always 389 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,360 Speaker 1: supposed to take up for your friend, beaches you if 390 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: you ain't got my bag, right, Like if somebody come 391 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:47,680 Speaker 1: for me. That's why I love the poor crew though, 392 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 1: because when somebody said something to us, they be coming 393 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: for them. But that's why we gang know, Like that's 394 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 1: the same thing because poor crew y'all gang they gang 395 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 1: y'all were talking about the outside of that an't like 396 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 1: regular listeners because who just I told you so he 397 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 1: got our being in this bitch period. So like I 398 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 1: was fucking saying, if somebody say something to the poor girls, 399 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 1: like when they be in my mentions and stuff, I 400 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: was like, this is not the one. Hunt, this is 401 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 1: not the one because I feel like people need to 402 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 1: understand that our opinions are just that their opinions. You 403 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 1: don't have to be mad about it. So glad that 404 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:33,959 Speaker 1: you said that, because that's something that just really irritates 405 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 1: me so much, is because people act like the ship 406 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:39,439 Speaker 1: that we be saying. It's like Bible right, this is 407 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: not law, this is not not lost, just how opinion 408 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:48,480 Speaker 1: and this is what's worked for us obviously obviously it's 409 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 1: definitely worked for us. So I mean, for sure, but 410 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:52,640 Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. But I don't I don't never 411 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:54,159 Speaker 1: be trying to be like, oh you should do these 412 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 1: because this will work for you. Now you do what 413 00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 1: you want to do and live your life how you 414 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 1: see feed. We ain't never trying to tell nobody to 415 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:05,680 Speaker 1: do what we do, you know what I mean. It's 416 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 1: like if you take y'all put the girls on game. 417 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 1: Of course, we be trying to help out both sides. 418 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 1: We be trying to help out both parties. I'll be 419 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:15,320 Speaker 1: the main thing I can tell you niggas to do 420 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:18,480 Speaker 1: to help y'all get you some money. I say that everywhere. Yeah, 421 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 1: I agree, because that's really the main niggas that be 422 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 1: upset all the time. It's the woods that ain't got 423 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:26,159 Speaker 1: no money. I are very much peep it. And I 424 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:27,680 Speaker 1: also feel like I know they don't be having no 425 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,359 Speaker 1: money because if you want some money, you ain't about 426 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 1: to be up our commedi's doing our league. Yeah definitely not. 427 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 1: You got too much other shit to worry about it. 428 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 1: But not only that, like a man getting money be like, 429 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 1: oh that's all she wants. I swear to God, this 430 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 1: is how bdb's acts. When I tell them what I 431 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,399 Speaker 1: expect them a situation and what I want, they be 432 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:48,640 Speaker 1: like that's it. Oh that's really how they feel. That's 433 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 1: really how they feel so like it's only too much 434 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 1: when you ain't got it. Never to you much, never 435 00:22:55,160 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 1: to you, never to your yeah of r P Luther, 436 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 1: Damn nigga die Lufer, he died a long time ago. 437 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 1: Not Luther, put your up for Luthor man? Why are 438 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:16,920 Speaker 1: we putting on arms? Never too much? Never team out? 439 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:21,159 Speaker 1: Not time hear what the army? Yes, put your and 440 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 1: not be putting the l up. Why y'all putting the 441 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 1: army in nation? No Rby and gang. Luther died, he 442 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 1: being died legs and you knew that I'm not about 443 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 1: to play with you. That ma ain't been dead for 444 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 1: a long time before you was even legal. Damn Luth. 445 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 1: You said he was my baby, my baby, my baby. 446 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 1: I said he could really singing on all right, next topic, 447 00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 1: I'm a little testing. Now let's go. I wanted to 448 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:04,399 Speaker 1: talk about first impression and do you feel like first 449 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 1: impressions matter when you meet somebody, or like, does it 450 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: not matter to you? You know what I mean? Are 451 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,639 Speaker 1: you just gonna get to know the person as it 452 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 1: comes or are you really just going off of like 453 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 1: that first time that y'all meet each other. Because I 454 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:20,400 Speaker 1: feel like for me, first impressions I met her, Cause 455 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 1: what I feel like I thought about a lot of people, 456 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 1: even people that are still in in my life right now, 457 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:27,679 Speaker 1: what I thought about them when I meet them the 458 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:30,639 Speaker 1: first time, is it totally different, completely different from what 459 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 1: they are. So I'll say this, let me tell you 460 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 1: something about me. I'm a real last bitch, give a 461 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,360 Speaker 1: fuck by the niggas, period. So this is one thing 462 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:42,120 Speaker 1: that I've learned about myself as well. All me used 463 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 1: to try to like be quiet, not crack these jokes, 464 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 1: kind of be more conservatives so I can ease people 465 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 1: into my personality. Bitch, I can't do that no more. 466 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,359 Speaker 1: So I can't speak for other people, but I can 467 00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:57,679 Speaker 1: speak for myself when I say, on your first impression, 468 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 1: oh this is what you're getting. You getting allowed me 469 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 1: cracking Joe's being funny, because this is who I am. 470 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 1: So I don't want to surprise you later on down 471 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 1: the road because a lot of times you would be like, 472 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,240 Speaker 1: oh damn, I thought you was quiet. Oh I like 473 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 1: you because a lot of times some dudes do like 474 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 1: quiet girls. So why would I want to be a 475 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 1: quiet girl? No, I mean some men do like that, 476 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 1: Because some men be quiet theyselves, like you know them, 477 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:23,400 Speaker 1: you know them spiritual type people, like they just want 478 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,640 Speaker 1: a girl that's gonna sit around and you know, read 479 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,760 Speaker 1: books and meditating shit like that. Like I would read 480 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:29,880 Speaker 1: a book and I'm gonna meditate, But I'm still be like, hey, 481 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 1: not pussy too, you know what I'm saying, Like i'moula 482 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 1: do all that, but it's also some extras that come 483 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 1: with it. So I feel like your first impressions of 484 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 1: me personally is who I am, because I fucked up 485 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 1: a lot of times and wasted a lot of times 486 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 1: by pretending being pretending to be somebody that I wasn't. 487 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,919 Speaker 1: But people aren't comfortable in who they are. So a 488 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 1: lot of times you meet somebody and on their first impression, 489 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 1: they're trying to be something that they're not to impress you. 490 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:03,399 Speaker 1: That's say that's like people Honestly, Yeah, that's what I 491 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,400 Speaker 1: was gonna say too. I feel like most people put 492 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 1: their best foot forward in the beginning, you know what 493 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 1: I mean. People are rarely ever being their selves. That's 494 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,760 Speaker 1: why first impressions don't matter to me, because I really 495 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 1: feel like people are never really being theyself, their true 496 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,040 Speaker 1: self in the beginning. Everybody always trying to make themselves 497 00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 1: seem likable or trying to be what they think the 498 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: other person is going to you know what I mean, 499 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:25,360 Speaker 1: they gonna want to still fuck with me, or they 500 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,400 Speaker 1: gonna want to steal date me. And I think that 501 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 1: that's some bullsheet. But I think that most people do it. 502 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 1: But I also think people don't really always do it 503 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 1: consciously either. But no, I feel like some men they 504 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 1: definitely like especially with social media nowadays, men will look 505 00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 1: at your story, look at your tweets, find out the 506 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:46,479 Speaker 1: things that you like, and act like they're into it 507 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 1: just so they can be like, oh, so we can 508 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,560 Speaker 1: relate on this level, you know what I'm saying, a 509 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 1: lot of people do that. They watch your social media 510 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 1: and see the things that you be liking and tweeting 511 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,679 Speaker 1: and this like that, so y'all can have a light 512 00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:00,879 Speaker 1: conversation like, but if you're not into that, don't be 513 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 1: into that because of me. That could be something I'm 514 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,680 Speaker 1: teaching you about. Don't pretend like you're into the type 515 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 1: of music I'm into if you're not, but let me 516 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:11,639 Speaker 1: introduce that to you. So we can have these little 517 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:15,119 Speaker 1: moments and this and that. But don't pretend don't fake 518 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 1: it that and I'll see right through that shit. Yeah, 519 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. I also feel like first impressions don't 520 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 1: matter either, because I feel like when people first people's 521 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: first impression of me is usually not like how I release, 522 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: It's not at all. So because I know when I 523 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 1: first met you, I was like, Okay, what's next? Really? 524 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,520 Speaker 1: Why did you think that? You just seem kind of 525 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 1: like boring and I know you, That's what I'm saying, 526 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 1: Like when I first like, I don't be one thing 527 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 1: about me if I don't know you, or I don't 528 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 1: feel comfortable around you, like I'm not really about to 529 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 1: talk to you because I don't know you, and it's 530 00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: just how you know. Then, like I was like really 531 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 1: into my makeup and stuff, and you didn't wear a 532 00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 1: lot of makeup, not saying nohing was wrong with that. 533 00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,400 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, she's just very plain and kind 534 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 1: of whole, some wholesome bitch. I ain't just got my 535 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 1: titties done. But that doesn't mean that you can't be 536 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,160 Speaker 1: wholesome and get your titties done. I mean like, yeah, 537 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 1: but I also feel like I didn't know but I 538 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 1: didn't know you my first impressions. You didn't wear makeup, 539 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,719 Speaker 1: you were just very quiet, you were kind of boring. 540 00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 1: It was completely wrong. I was like, oh, this is 541 00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 1: a good girl, Like I can't rock with her like that. 542 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:23,880 Speaker 1: But then once we really started talking, I said, oh, 543 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 1: she get down, she gets down. You just like me. 544 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 1: You're just like not a mirror. I said, hold on, 545 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 1: but now for real, Like I definitely think that, Like 546 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,600 Speaker 1: because when I first meet people, and I always say this, 547 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 1: I'm very observing, Like I'll be just trying to observe 548 00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 1: the surroundings, observe the person, and then it's like if 549 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 1: I feel comfortable, then eventually I would like open up 550 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: to you. So obviously it was something that you did 551 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 1: or something at some point it was kiss. No, that's 552 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:57,960 Speaker 1: not what it was. It's not what it was, but 553 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 1: it was something eventually made me be like, Okay, I 554 00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 1: could really be cool with hood and I can fuck 555 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 1: with hood because I just feel like people be weird, 556 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 1: Like I just don't be into giving my energies to people. Yeah, no, 557 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 1: you're gonna get nothing until I feel like you deserve something. 558 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:15,960 Speaker 1: No that makes sense for show for show, I don't know. 559 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 1: I feel like first impressions is not really. Yeah, but 560 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 1: I know a lot of people do feel like first 561 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:24,640 Speaker 1: impressions are everything. But and that's so superficial because people 562 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 1: are fake. We live in a world like, like I said, 563 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 1: I'm a realized bitch. Y'all am saying first impressions matter. 564 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 1: They do matter. But what I'm saying is they matter, 565 00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:38,880 Speaker 1: but why cause people are fake. So if I know 566 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 1: I'm about to meet somebody, like if I know we 567 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: got a meeting with the I don't know. If somebody 568 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 1: just looks at my Instagram they don't see no poor 569 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,440 Speaker 1: mind's clips or nothing. They say, somebody just sees one 570 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 1: picture of me and they're like, oh my gosh, I'm 571 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 1: gonna pay you a million dollars to sell these bibles. 572 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:57,360 Speaker 1: Guess what I'm about to do for a million dollars. 573 00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,600 Speaker 1: I'm about to put on a church dress to say, Amen, 574 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 1: nice to meet you. My name is Sister Alex P. 575 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 1: And today I even say your real name. No, actually, 576 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:11,440 Speaker 1: I do need to say my real name so she 577 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: don't search LEXP and a dick sucker shit come up. 578 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna say my real name. I ain't gonna 579 00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 1: stay it on him. But that's what I'm gonna do 580 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,360 Speaker 1: to get that break right, you see what I'm saying. 581 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,080 Speaker 1: So people are going to change who they are in 582 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 1: whatever situation that they're gonna be in. I know me, 583 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,400 Speaker 1: I've been blessed to I have a job that I 584 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 1: can be myself and do myself. So guess what if 585 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 1: I heard hit us up tomorrow and I'm walking in 586 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:40,160 Speaker 1: and saying, what a paper? A second thing about what 587 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 1: we do too is that we could just relieve by ourself. 588 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:47,120 Speaker 1: But I'm saying I work. I have a job. Like 589 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 1: so I know when I was going in for like 590 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 1: job interviews, and I used to go in for job interviews, 591 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,640 Speaker 1: I used to be lying my ass yes, So it's 592 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,520 Speaker 1: like first to get the job. But it's like in 593 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,680 Speaker 1: real life, especially in dating and dealing with friends, that 594 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:04,560 Speaker 1: first impression ship that don't mean nothing. No, this should 595 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 1: be bullshie because people be lying. It's like you getting me. 596 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: I'm a master liar. I know a lie. You're not 597 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:14,960 Speaker 1: a master. Yes, I am a master liar. Would be 598 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 1: somebody that's good at lying. I'm very good at lying. 599 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 1: You're not even good at lying. You just a liar. 600 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 1: You just be lying, Like what was the name of 601 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 1: that movie Big Fat Liar. I love to lie. I 602 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:32,320 Speaker 1: just be like they believe That's not like a good liar. 603 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 1: But sometimes the nigga's out here who and women who 604 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,800 Speaker 1: are great lies. But I'm saying, but when they do 605 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 1: believe it, I'd be like, yeah, they believe that shit 606 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 1: I did that? Who be believe in these? Sometimes people 607 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 1: who don't on that first impression. So you be lying 608 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 1: on the first impression. No, no I don't. But sometimes, 609 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 1: like I said, when I go to a job interview, 610 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 1: I'll be lying. Would you say you're punctual? Yes, I'm 611 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 1: always on tom always, but you said you is always 612 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 1: on song? I am more than you. That's fine. I 613 00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:09,800 Speaker 1: don't ever lie about me now. But like just like 614 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 1: if I did the interview with your shirt, I ain't 615 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 1: gonna even lie on a fucking job interview because you 616 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 1: about to see you in two weeks I'm dead. No, 617 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 1: I'll definitely be lying on job interviews everything. I'm a live. 618 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 1: I remember my last little nine to five job I had. 619 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 1: I used to come here every day at like seven twenty. 620 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 1: What time did you have to be there? Seven m 621 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:33,959 Speaker 1: And I will sneak into my little diss all right. So, uh, 622 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 1: first impressions, they don't matter to you now, first impressions 623 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:38,800 Speaker 1: don't matter to me because I feel like all she 624 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 1: kept not kelt Hey, that ship do be kept. That 625 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 1: ship do be kept because I, like I said, I lie. 626 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:50,840 Speaker 1: I told you all before. In the past, I lie 627 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:54,400 Speaker 1: about anything. But I feel like first impressions now, especially 628 00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:56,640 Speaker 1: when it comes to my dating life, keep it real 629 00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:58,160 Speaker 1: with me. I'm gonna keep it real with you. First day. 630 00:32:58,200 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 1: I'll let you know. This is how I am, this 631 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 1: is what I dude, this is what we're about to do. 632 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 1: So if you win it, I do not. I'm just 633 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 1: at a point where I just be wanting niggas to 634 00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 1: fuck with me for me. Oh world, want niggas to 635 00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 1: fuck with me for me? Like I don't be wanting. 636 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 1: I don't wanted no niggas to think that I'm nothing. 637 00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 1: That I'm not like to think that I'm something want 638 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 1: in my room. Oh sorry, I goot you. I just 639 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 1: want you to get to know me. Oh that's sweet, 640 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 1: very sweet. Okay, So now we're gonna get into the ay. 641 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 1: Oh what about Wow, you just don't know. Okay. So 642 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 1: today I want to talk about something very important that 643 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 1: matters to me because we talked about sucking men's titties before. 644 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 1: We talked about the importance of I love band nipples. 645 00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,160 Speaker 1: I'm need to talk about the importance of nipple play. 646 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,479 Speaker 1: But we talked about it with men before because they 647 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 1: was like, oh, that's weird, but I'll suck a man 648 00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:09,439 Speaker 1: little titty. That's why y'all don't be getting bdbes because 649 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 1: y'all think everything weird. Yes, nipple play is very they 650 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,439 Speaker 1: do be hella freaky. You know, y'all pop the toe 651 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:22,879 Speaker 1: in the mouth and I do this again as long 652 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 1: as they nice toe. Okay, So do you like yourn? 653 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:29,279 Speaker 1: Do you like your titty sucks? I like it, But 654 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:34,040 Speaker 1: it's also not like something that you have to do. 655 00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:37,239 Speaker 1: Oh see, No, I need you to milk this cow baby. 656 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,360 Speaker 1: I need this thing milk like I like my my 657 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: nipples pinched. Oh so you're really getting it milked up. Yeah. 658 00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 1: I like what you gotta do with hard rings in there. 659 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:54,399 Speaker 1: But even when I had no, yeah, I definitely I see. 660 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 1: This is why I gotta fuck with men. Why real 661 00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 1: you are horny? That's why I really got to fuck 662 00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,680 Speaker 1: with men, because obviously I have big titties. So I'm 663 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:10,680 Speaker 1: trying to set this motherfucker in your mouth breastfeed. We're 664 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,360 Speaker 1: gonna breastfeed for about five minutes for we even fuck. 665 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 1: We said, come on, daddy, come on, why you doing 666 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,360 Speaker 1: when a nigga? When we first get in the bedroom, 667 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:22,479 Speaker 1: it ain't no titty is like the size of my head. 668 00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,200 Speaker 1: It ain't no four play, it ain't no nothing to 669 00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,880 Speaker 1: just come on, baby, it's a little dessert. We just 670 00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 1: got back from st K. You want a little milk, 671 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 1: So that's all I love. I loved getting my titties seup, 672 00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:37,239 Speaker 1: so you do. I love it. I love it. I 673 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 1: be walking in the room like this, But didn't you 674 00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:43,360 Speaker 1: say you don't have you don't have no sensation in 675 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,080 Speaker 1: your nose. Now the sensation in my nipples has like 676 00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,200 Speaker 1: came back, and yo, yeah it came back, but it 677 00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 1: took like a year to come back. So y'all, my 678 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:53,400 Speaker 1: boobs actually used to be bigger than this, and I 679 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,400 Speaker 1: got a breast reduction and I gained weight, so they 680 00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:57,200 Speaker 1: grew back. I'm gonna get them done again, but I'm 681 00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:59,600 Speaker 1: scared I'm gonna lose all the feeling now. But that 682 00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 1: just I lost feeling in my nipples When I got 683 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,560 Speaker 1: my BA, yeah, I lost a little feeling, but yeah 684 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:08,040 Speaker 1: it's back now and I just be like, I mean, honestly, 685 00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:11,520 Speaker 1: I'll be watching TV like this. It just feels good. 686 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:18,960 Speaker 1: It feels good baby. But now, I mean, I like 687 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 1: getting my TV suck. But it's like I said, it's 688 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,359 Speaker 1: not something that you just gotta do. Though. No, I 689 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:29,240 Speaker 1: like fucking niggas TV. You are, that's what you are. Crazy. 690 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,440 Speaker 1: You won't be you sucking niggas cities for real, not 691 00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,600 Speaker 1: sucking me. But you know I be fleaking me. Okay, 692 00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 1: So let me ask you a question. Does it only 693 00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:43,239 Speaker 1: work with like healtier men or does it me? I'm 694 00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,239 Speaker 1: just asking does it work with healtier men? Are like, 695 00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:46,880 Speaker 1: if a man's like in shape, do you still be 696 00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,480 Speaker 1: sucking on his step nipples? Yeah? Because it a football 697 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:55,279 Speaker 1: bay do I No? But he's equal trash but not 698 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 1: my football bab, my football back big is lit. Yeah. 699 00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:01,279 Speaker 1: But but he like to get his nipple souck. And 700 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:05,440 Speaker 1: he was like a fine nigga. He was fine, finest, 701 00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,080 Speaker 1: So yeah, he would like to get his nipples suck 702 00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 1: and he want me to pincher and stuff. You like, 703 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,560 Speaker 1: but you like that that you on. I like kinky stuff, 704 00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 1: but I know you do. But I'm saying, does that 705 00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:20,879 Speaker 1: turn you on? Really? Well? Like when you be playing 706 00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:26,480 Speaker 1: with nipples like you're rolling it up. You gotta do 707 00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:29,920 Speaker 1: it hard though, Okay, okay, so show me how to 708 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,160 Speaker 1: do my hands because I have long nails, so I 709 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:35,880 Speaker 1: gotta go like these and you gotta roll it. You 710 00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:42,080 Speaker 1: gotta take this part anle and twist the motherfuckers like 711 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 1: you start the car like be on top like that 712 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:51,960 Speaker 1: the nipple, do the nipple. Oh yeah, So I mean, 713 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, like I'm just really one of those 714 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:58,359 Speaker 1: people though I like whatever. The person I'm fucking like 715 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 1: whatever they like that turns you. Okay, now that's a 716 00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:05,080 Speaker 1: good kink to have. I'll do. So I'll do whatever 717 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:10,000 Speaker 1: you want me to do. You can have whatever you like. Okay, 718 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:11,960 Speaker 1: So yeah, but I mean I do. I guess I do. 719 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:15,319 Speaker 1: Like my nipples. I have big nipples that no motherfuckers 720 00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:18,880 Speaker 1: is big, like not my actual arealis. Yeah, but like 721 00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,920 Speaker 1: my nipple they look like little Vanna sausages. They're not 722 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:27,879 Speaker 1: that long. I mean, they're pretty thick, thick. Every time 723 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:30,960 Speaker 1: we go anywhere, they be like damn your nipples are 724 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 1: always hard, I know, and it's so crazy because I 725 00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:38,600 Speaker 1: don't know why, and I feel like they was just 726 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:42,319 Speaker 1: off just now even looking at me the whole time. 727 00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:45,399 Speaker 1: Can I say something They've been trying to say something 728 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,640 Speaker 1: the whole episode. Can I say something? First of all? 729 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 1: First of all, like, I don't know, like I have 730 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 1: really been nipples, So I I think that's something that 731 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:09,960 Speaker 1: women should brag about, though. Yeah, can we normalize that 732 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,319 Speaker 1: though Niggas be like, yeah, I got a big old dick. 733 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, yeah, I got some big old nipples. 734 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:22,640 Speaker 1: Nigga for real, came like more sensitive after I got surgery. 735 00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,239 Speaker 1: That's why you got to brag on it. So next 736 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:27,799 Speaker 1: time you see it, like a nigga that you like 737 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,400 Speaker 1: to be like, yeah, nigga, I got that big old nipple. 738 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 1: It's like your pinky, nigga. What's up? It's like your 739 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:38,360 Speaker 1: pinky because they might like it. Niggas like big nipples. 740 00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 1: It's like your pinky, nigga. You ain't never seen no 741 00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:47,440 Speaker 1: nipple like this. Try try nigga be like, oh, she 742 00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:51,040 Speaker 1: got the big nipple. I don't want to talk to that. 743 00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:53,160 Speaker 1: When I first meet. When you first meet him, like 744 00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:55,080 Speaker 1: when y'all fucking like before y'all fucked around, you know, 745 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:56,880 Speaker 1: niggas be like, yeah, I got that meat for you, 746 00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,000 Speaker 1: be like, yeah, I got that nipple for your it's 747 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,359 Speaker 1: saying that niggas saying it to you, Yeah, I got 748 00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,400 Speaker 1: that meat for you. Yeah, because I'll be like, I 749 00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:07,480 Speaker 1: got this gold feel for you. Hell yeah, I'm trying 750 00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:10,959 Speaker 1: to talk nasty. I'm about to start talking about my nipple. 751 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, talk nasty during six, but I'm talking 752 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 1: about before here. Yeah, when we when we know we 753 00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,719 Speaker 1: about the fuck like sometimes you know, I got this 754 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:22,680 Speaker 1: meat for you. Well, not necessarily like that, I got 755 00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:27,399 Speaker 1: this big for you. Are you a freak? No, not 756 00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,120 Speaker 1: like that, But I'm saying like, you know, sometimes when 757 00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:30,640 Speaker 1: you've been fucking with a nigga for a while, like 758 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:33,360 Speaker 1: y'all been talking y'all, you know it's coming. You know 759 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,879 Speaker 1: it's coming. I'll be like, yeah, these nipples I got 760 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 1: bout two centimeters on that motherfuck You got little nipples? No, 761 00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:45,839 Speaker 1: I don't don't do me. They you have a big 762 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:47,560 Speaker 1: nipples or something to brag about. Now you want to 763 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:50,280 Speaker 1: tell the people my nipples small? It's I hate nass bitch, 764 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:54,520 Speaker 1: I got about two centimeters on the mother little baby nipples. 765 00:40:54,520 --> 00:41:01,400 Speaker 1: No I don't, Oh my god, like I am shocked 766 00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:08,319 Speaker 1: that whoa anyway, So yes, it's very important. I have 767 00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:12,760 Speaker 1: nice boobs. I got pretty some pretty some printed head. Okay, 768 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:17,279 Speaker 1: So yes, nipple play is very important to me. I 769 00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:21,279 Speaker 1: love a good nip and do you suck nipples? I 770 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:24,360 Speaker 1: have before off of request, But it's not something that 771 00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:28,120 Speaker 1: I do on my everyday life. No, yeah, I don't 772 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:29,880 Speaker 1: do it in my everyday life neither. But like, if 773 00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,560 Speaker 1: a nigga want me to do it, I do it. 774 00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:34,200 Speaker 1: I either had a nigga ask me to, like put 775 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:38,240 Speaker 1: it between my toes, before his nipples and between your toes. 776 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:43,520 Speaker 1: All right, it's getting weird. It's getting weird. It's getting weird. 777 00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:48,839 Speaker 1: I did too, of course you did, okay to put 778 00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:53,640 Speaker 1: his nipple in your If I would, I pay. I 779 00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:56,120 Speaker 1: don't give a fuck. All these hoes for my nigga 780 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:59,840 Speaker 1: is available, ear nose, whatever, I got, an old p 781 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,600 Speaker 1: or some right here, if you could stick something in 782 00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:06,640 Speaker 1: there or stick it through bab. All these holes is available, 783 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,839 Speaker 1: all of them. My teared up. You want that too? 784 00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,640 Speaker 1: We got we got holes on holes on holes, stay 785 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:16,560 Speaker 1: clear in my eye? Have you ever got looting y'all? Oh, nigga, 786 00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:19,400 Speaker 1: that's a whole another topic. I really thought clear of 787 00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:22,239 Speaker 1: my eye, please, I really thought. I was like, damn, like, 788 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:25,320 Speaker 1: this is the last day to see, Like I'm gonna 789 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,480 Speaker 1: be blind? How am I gonna tell my mother that 790 00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,360 Speaker 1: I lost my vision? Yes? My ship was like pink. 791 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,520 Speaker 1: It was pink for like the next day. Yeah, I 792 00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:35,920 Speaker 1: heard it, give you pink on. Maybe I did have 793 00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,440 Speaker 1: pink ok, because I couldn't even blink. That ship was crusty. 794 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:45,120 Speaker 1: I woke up like, oh the nut. Then I can't say, 795 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:48,799 Speaker 1: ain't none in your eye? Is not? I don't care, 796 00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,879 Speaker 1: how bro, nut do not belong your eye? I'm gonna 797 00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:53,920 Speaker 1: just say that right a lot of places. But my 798 00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,479 Speaker 1: eyes was crust and shut, nigga, Like literally my eyes 799 00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 1: were crusted shut. I was like I thought I wiped 800 00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,720 Speaker 1: it all off. That's probably some bad lug. It probably 801 00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:05,640 Speaker 1: was because I was young too. I swear to god, 802 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,319 Speaker 1: I wasn't drinking no water. I was young as fuck. 803 00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:11,600 Speaker 1: I have never got nothing in my eye since then. Never, 804 00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 1: That's how bad it traumatized. Having you fucked up. I'd 805 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:24,120 Speaker 1: be like what in the fun I ain't lower rotting 806 00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:26,920 Speaker 1: on the wall. I was trying to change my life. 807 00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:30,040 Speaker 1: I said, I'm about to be blind and this whole okay, 808 00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:33,839 Speaker 1: So to the next topic. We want to tell y'all 809 00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:36,719 Speaker 1: about a little program me and Dre have used and 810 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,240 Speaker 1: have been using. You see me in a good mood, 811 00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:43,600 Speaker 1: you see it, You see it because the program is working. 812 00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:47,560 Speaker 1: So we use a betterhelp dot Com and it's basically 813 00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:51,239 Speaker 1: a virtual therapy. So you know, we still in the panoramic. 814 00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:53,880 Speaker 1: We're still in the panoramic, y'all. So if you feel 815 00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,000 Speaker 1: uncomfortable necessarily going to a doctor's office and you want 816 00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,759 Speaker 1: to get help and treatment in the comfort of your 817 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,200 Speaker 1: own home, this is the program for you. 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Like, this 826 00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:32,960 Speaker 1: is legit and we got y'all a little discount, So 827 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:37,040 Speaker 1: make sure you do www dot Betterhelp dot Com backslash 828 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,440 Speaker 1: Poor Minds and you'll get a discount off of your 829 00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,440 Speaker 1: first month of therapy. So if you've never tried therapy 830 00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:44,640 Speaker 1: before and it's something that you want to, you know, 831 00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:46,960 Speaker 1: just kind of test the waters, dip your little toe 832 00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:50,960 Speaker 1: in or dip your nipple in. Sometimes you want to 833 00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 1: dip something, you know what I'm saying. So, yes, Betterhelp 834 00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:56,920 Speaker 1: dot Com Backslash Poor Minds, get your first month of 835 00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:01,200 Speaker 1: therapy at a discounted rate. Okay, here, now we gonna 836 00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:09,359 Speaker 1: get into Dubbeue. Hey you want me to go first? Yeah. Ooh, 837 00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:12,120 Speaker 1: y'all know I love this is honestly one of my 838 00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,880 Speaker 1: favorite segments. So I wanted to talk about this art. 839 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I just y'all. I'm like, music wakes 840 00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:20,400 Speaker 1: me up in the morning. It gets me going. I 841 00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:24,799 Speaker 1: be like this in the morning, rubbing on them nipples 842 00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:28,760 Speaker 1: every time I hear a good song. This song definitely 843 00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,160 Speaker 1: makes me roll my nipples. And it has nothing to 844 00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,440 Speaker 1: do with sex, what kind of it does a little bit. 845 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,879 Speaker 1: So this song is called It's ain't the fun? Why 846 00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:39,480 Speaker 1: are we talking about nipples? Let's just keep it going, bitch. 847 00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:44,040 Speaker 1: So this is the artist I recently discovered. Her name 848 00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:48,080 Speaker 1: is Angelica Villa. She's an R and B singer. She's super, 849 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:51,920 Speaker 1: super cute. I love her look like. She's very, very gorgeous. 850 00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,680 Speaker 1: So she has a song called why And let me 851 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:56,799 Speaker 1: tell you how good this song is. Because y'all know, 852 00:45:56,840 --> 00:46:00,480 Speaker 1: I'm not a Jockeys fan, and jock Keys is on 853 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:04,080 Speaker 1: the song, and I still I'll be jamming the fuck out. No, 854 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,800 Speaker 1: nothing's wrong with him. I just don't like his music. 855 00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,480 Speaker 1: Not not everybody likes poor mind bitch, and that's okay, 856 00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:14,120 Speaker 1: I just don't. I'm not a Jockeys fan. I can't 857 00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,759 Speaker 1: e E. I can't get into it in a lie though, 858 00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:22,279 Speaker 1: I'm ha that's how he's saying. Ha ha ha ha 859 00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:28,480 Speaker 1: ha ha. That's all he does the whole song. And honestly, 860 00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:31,480 Speaker 1: she could have kept pop song. That's all he do, 861 00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:33,680 Speaker 1: So she really could have kept him off of this song. 862 00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:36,200 Speaker 1: But like I said, I'm not hating on jack Keys. 863 00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:40,000 Speaker 1: Do your thing, Black King, You're amazing. But like I said, okay, 864 00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:44,240 Speaker 1: So anyways, and Jelakavilla has a song called Why featuring Jaquys, 865 00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:47,359 Speaker 1: and this is such a I love hearing people make 866 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:49,920 Speaker 1: good R and B music like this is an R 867 00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:53,080 Speaker 1: and B song like in her feelings trying to figure out, 868 00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,480 Speaker 1: you know, should she get his nigga her pussy or 869 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:59,000 Speaker 1: should she not? Why I'm not giving you my energy? 870 00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,920 Speaker 1: I mean, is he a be? Is he a BDB? 871 00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:05,840 Speaker 1: Is he giving you good energy? Because that's what she 872 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 1: says in the song where is my energy? No? She said, 873 00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:11,520 Speaker 1: I can't waste my energy on you? So is you 874 00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:14,440 Speaker 1: bringing me good energy? Oh? If he ain't providing the voice? 875 00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:19,000 Speaker 1: The voice, it's all about the voice. So yeah, Villa, 876 00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:23,440 Speaker 1: Like I said, this song is super super fire love her. 877 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:28,480 Speaker 1: Yeah why feature and Jackies, Yeah, go ahead? What's your bot? 878 00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:32,160 Speaker 1: So y'all know I've been listening to a Little Dirt. 879 00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,480 Speaker 1: I'll get it you, Little Dirk go hard. I said that. 880 00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 1: I tweeted that a song called back Door, and I 881 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:47,080 Speaker 1: like that little song. It's real cute. Then Meek Mill 882 00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 1: got a song with a little Dirt MM called pain 883 00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 1: Away Okay, and I like that little song so so 884 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:55,560 Speaker 1: shout out to Little Dirt because Little Dirk really been 885 00:47:55,560 --> 00:48:01,080 Speaker 1: growing on me lately. I really wouldn't listen to him. 886 00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 1: But then you know, when the Little Song came out 887 00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:06,120 Speaker 1: and broke up in Miami, song that was my sheep, 888 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:07,799 Speaker 1: I was like, let me start listening to a little 889 00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:09,879 Speaker 1: dark a little more. Honestly. Yeah, Rapper Bay had put 890 00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,600 Speaker 1: me on a little darker while back, and I'm like, okay, yeah, 891 00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:16,520 Speaker 1: this nigga do go hard. He really does. He's definitely 892 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:21,279 Speaker 1: very underrated. Shout out to a dark Okay, So what's 893 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:26,120 Speaker 1: the lyrics to that? Oh? Today, so y'all know we 894 00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:31,880 Speaker 1: like to break these lyrics down. Today we're going to 895 00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:37,799 Speaker 1: be reviewing the lyrics of Nasty grind O. No about 896 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:41,399 Speaker 1: Auntie A Dina Now, y'all, don't only love a good 897 00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:45,080 Speaker 1: nasty song? Now? Adena Howard came out during the era 898 00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:48,839 Speaker 1: where we were very young, and it was like we 899 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:51,400 Speaker 1: wasn't supposed to be singing songs like this. Why we 900 00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 1: wasn't because she was saying it freaking the morning. Like 901 00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,880 Speaker 1: I said, I was a baby talking about and I 902 00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:03,080 Speaker 1: won't be a freaking don't tell her and I wa 903 00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:06,719 Speaker 1: wa song though, Well, you wasn't supposed to be listening today? 904 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,360 Speaker 1: I was how I was listening to your mama. You 905 00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:13,479 Speaker 1: know what's crazy though, like my mom. When I was little, 906 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:15,239 Speaker 1: My everybody used to think I was gonna do something 907 00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:17,040 Speaker 1: in the music industry because I used to sit in 908 00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:18,759 Speaker 1: front of that TV and I used to watch BT 909 00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,680 Speaker 1: for hours. Because I used to play music videos all 910 00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:25,960 Speaker 1: day long. I am a walking jukebox, bro anything, I'm 911 00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,840 Speaker 1: a singing so yeah, I was singing all them songs. 912 00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:32,960 Speaker 1: I was singing Genui, You're a home Now. That was 913 00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:36,399 Speaker 1: about though. Okay, go ahead with the lyrics. Okay, Now, 914 00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:41,239 Speaker 1: meet me in the shower in about an hour. You 915 00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:46,040 Speaker 1: wash my back in our washors take you to the bedroom. 916 00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:50,720 Speaker 1: I'm in a sixty mood. Ooh you do me watch 917 00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:57,600 Speaker 1: as I do you. I like this voice waking make 918 00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:00,600 Speaker 1: me nervous. Okay, so let me let me talk about 919 00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:04,560 Speaker 1: this first. Meet me in the shower. We don't got 920 00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,600 Speaker 1: to do that. Yeah, you don't have to meet me 921 00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:08,719 Speaker 1: in the shower. We already talked about shower sex on 922 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:12,959 Speaker 1: the past episode. Not feeling it, so aDNA. I feel 923 00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 1: like that's what old people like to doe, shower sex, 924 00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:19,560 Speaker 1: and they feel like the work, they be dirty, they 925 00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:22,360 Speaker 1: be like I like to sit in the bathtub with 926 00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:24,439 Speaker 1: my nigga and like take a bath and just like chill, 927 00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:26,440 Speaker 1: drink some wine and listen to music. But as far 928 00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:29,480 Speaker 1: as like fucking like we can get a little quick 929 00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,960 Speaker 1: pump or two. But let's get this over. Let's let's 930 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,160 Speaker 1: let's move to the bed. So okay, auntie, what else 931 00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 1: you got? Two bodies vibrating, your manhood is escalating? Tongue 932 00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:51,040 Speaker 1: touch bodies, trace, turnover. I don't want to see your face. Wait, 933 00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:53,239 Speaker 1: she told him to turn over. Now this is my 934 00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:57,080 Speaker 1: site for girl. She told him, turn over. I don't 935 00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,239 Speaker 1: want to see your face. So guess what. Let's guess 936 00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:05,280 Speaker 1: what's looking at up that booty, that booty. Adena Howard 937 00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:08,319 Speaker 1: was eating ass. We just solved it. This is the 938 00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:13,920 Speaker 1: whole point of breaking these lyrics. Adita Howard eats asked, 939 00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:16,920 Speaker 1: y'all can't say nothing about me no more. Shout out 940 00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:20,799 Speaker 1: to Adena. Period. We gang gang RBN in this hall. 941 00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,959 Speaker 1: Adena Howard is RBN. She eats ass. She just said 942 00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:28,319 Speaker 1: it was winking. That stank was winking. Hunt. Okay, I 943 00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:30,520 Speaker 1: love this. I did not know. Adina Howard eats ass. 944 00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:35,520 Speaker 1: Let's go. It's really not much left. Kishen nick Niya 945 00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:43,560 Speaker 1: bag your toes ex Adeena Howard sucks toll with nigs. Okay, 946 00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:48,960 Speaker 1: I love it. She was afraid. Adena was afraid. We 947 00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:52,040 Speaker 1: already knew that, though we did already know that, but 948 00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:56,720 Speaker 1: now we know there's some of Adena Howard in us. Ya. 949 00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:02,480 Speaker 1: You sucked toes. You didn't even know toes like I 950 00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:05,800 Speaker 1: does suck too toes. I mean, I ate two booty 951 00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:10,000 Speaker 1: holes and people. No, I have not. Y'all just act 952 00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:14,160 Speaker 1: like I'm around here, right, flip it over. No, you 953 00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:21,799 Speaker 1: were lying, now, bitch, you are lying, you know, and 954 00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:23,680 Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna lie to you. I haven't ate 955 00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:28,040 Speaker 1: ass in a very very long time. You at long. No, 956 00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,800 Speaker 1: niggas do not be down cause niggas don't like that ship. 957 00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,680 Speaker 1: So you've tried, and they was just like, nah, I asked, 958 00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:38,520 Speaker 1: I don't just try it. I asked, like, but niggas 959 00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:40,839 Speaker 1: do not like that ship. I have not ate ass 960 00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:52,439 Speaker 1: in a long time. No, I ain't a long time time. Yeah. 961 00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:56,360 Speaker 1: So Adena Howard eats ass and she sucks toes, and 962 00:52:56,520 --> 00:53:00,360 Speaker 1: so basically Adena Howard is Drea and Lex morphed into one. 963 00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:06,640 Speaker 1: That's what I got from that. Ain'men ain't man. Okay, 964 00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:11,000 Speaker 1: I'm indeed you fucking played What's next? Okay, now we 965 00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:13,399 Speaker 1: have to get into the question. Oh I'm sorry girl. 966 00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:16,080 Speaker 1: So if you want your question answered on the show, 967 00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:18,399 Speaker 1: make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at 968 00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:20,680 Speaker 1: gmail dot com. If you would like to skip the line, 969 00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:22,600 Speaker 1: because we have a lot of questions coming in, you 970 00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:25,520 Speaker 1: have to sign up for the top tier Patreon on 971 00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:27,720 Speaker 1: our Patreon site. I'll put the link in the bio. 972 00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:29,560 Speaker 1: So if you do that, you get to skip the 973 00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:32,040 Speaker 1: line and get your question answered. Other than that, just 974 00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:34,000 Speaker 1: make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at 975 00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:38,920 Speaker 1: gmail dot com and get your question answered on the show. Okay, 976 00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:43,040 Speaker 1: so we're gonna get into this first question. I'm nervous 977 00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:45,680 Speaker 1: because you're no, no, well, we don't have a Patreon 978 00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:48,319 Speaker 1: question this week. But honestly, I'll just be nervous because 979 00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:51,239 Speaker 1: the girls be asking some crazy ass he aching some 980 00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:55,200 Speaker 1: wowd she I'd be like shuok, like the girls don't 981 00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:58,279 Speaker 1: be knowing what they got going on. Okay, so you 982 00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:03,520 Speaker 1: ready go ahead? Oh you want me to read it? Oh? 983 00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:05,720 Speaker 1: You want me to read it? When you were saying 984 00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:07,840 Speaker 1: he like you knew what question he was? She? I 985 00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:09,480 Speaker 1: mean I'll read it if you want me to, I 986 00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:11,600 Speaker 1: can go ahead. I'm ready, Okay, I'll read it. I'll 987 00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:15,680 Speaker 1: read it. Okay, it's gonna be from I don't like 988 00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:19,400 Speaker 1: reading their names. Hold on you pull up, okay, Okay. 989 00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:22,759 Speaker 1: So this says, Hey, my name is Keith, and I 990 00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,279 Speaker 1: wanted to know if anything was wrong with me because 991 00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:29,240 Speaker 1: people say I'm nasty because I eat ass, sucked toes 992 00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:32,560 Speaker 1: and swallow cream and when my women squirt while rodding 993 00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:36,440 Speaker 1: my face, I swallow. I wanted a woman's opinion. Is 994 00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,160 Speaker 1: it okay for me to do those things or stop 995 00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:43,120 Speaker 1: for being called nasty? Please let me know that's not nasty. 996 00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:46,440 Speaker 1: That's normal to me. Keith tall old? Are you? I mean? 997 00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:49,520 Speaker 1: But he said people was calling him nasty? She know 998 00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:53,160 Speaker 1: him nasty? Yeah, you're supposed to, like, you know, if 999 00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:55,719 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie though, if I was squirting and 1000 00:54:55,760 --> 00:55:01,799 Speaker 1: a nigga opened his mouth, hold on, like you never 1001 00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:03,920 Speaker 1: had a nigga do that before. I mean because most 1002 00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:06,120 Speaker 1: of the time when I squirt, I squirt from penetration, 1003 00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:08,040 Speaker 1: So most of the time, like we're like fucking while 1004 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:10,560 Speaker 1: I'm squirting. So it's kind of like if a nigga 1005 00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:12,239 Speaker 1: just like pull it out. It's not gonna like like 1006 00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:16,080 Speaker 1: it's a water fountain. I would be like, oh, okay, 1007 00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:19,040 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna stop like you. I would like it, 1008 00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:21,440 Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna stop you. But you definitely a freak. 1009 00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:24,520 Speaker 1: But there's nothing wrong with that. Don't change that. Nobody 1010 00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:26,359 Speaker 1: make you feel a bad for being a free Yeah, 1011 00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:28,680 Speaker 1: don't change what you like just because that's not with 1012 00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,239 Speaker 1: some Obviously that's just not the person thing For're he 1013 00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:34,320 Speaker 1: enough for you. You need to find your mad, find 1014 00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:36,840 Speaker 1: your match. Don't change what you like in the bedroom 1015 00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:39,600 Speaker 1: just because you think it's all right. It's all right. 1016 00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:41,880 Speaker 1: You're gonna find somebody that's gonna let you squirt in 1017 00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:47,760 Speaker 1: their mouth all day long. I am dead? What should 1018 00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:51,239 Speaker 1: I do? Hello, lovely ladies. I just started watching you 1019 00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:53,359 Speaker 1: guys when I watched the episode of the eighty five 1020 00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:55,879 Speaker 1: South Show. Well, let's get to the point. I love 1021 00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:58,799 Speaker 1: you guys. I've been dating this older guy where ten 1022 00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:01,600 Speaker 1: years apart. We've been talking on and off for five years, 1023 00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:04,000 Speaker 1: and within the two years of me knowing him, I 1024 00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:06,520 Speaker 1: went through his phone and found all these random numbers 1025 00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:08,879 Speaker 1: from different area codes and found out he is having 1026 00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:12,279 Speaker 1: sex with multiple women over one hundred people from an 1027 00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:15,359 Speaker 1: escort service. So I came to him and I asked 1028 00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:17,960 Speaker 1: him about it, and he downplayed the whole situation, so 1029 00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:20,560 Speaker 1: I just lift it there. I just stopped fucking him 1030 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:23,200 Speaker 1: and start talking to somebody else for one year. I 1031 00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:26,400 Speaker 1: recently started back chilling and fucking him again in December 1032 00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,759 Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, and I love him more than ever. But 1033 00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:33,200 Speaker 1: I went through his phone again August twenty twenty and 1034 00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:36,480 Speaker 1: seeing he's doing the same thing with the escorts this time, 1035 00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:39,000 Speaker 1: I never asked him about it. Now I know he's 1036 00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:42,239 Speaker 1: going to change. No, I know he's not going to change. 1037 00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:45,279 Speaker 1: Should I just leave him alone? And also he is 1038 00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:49,680 Speaker 1: a BD. B. If he's a BD, that's just a 1039 00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:53,680 Speaker 1: big dal you're missing the most important love last B. 1040 00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:56,160 Speaker 1: She said, what should I do? I need you guys. 1041 00:56:56,280 --> 00:57:00,320 Speaker 1: He is horning. He is very corny on the horny 1042 00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,319 Speaker 1: high and honestly, I'm not trying to be funny, but 1043 00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:04,600 Speaker 1: sometimes with these escort services, you know, they can pay 1044 00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:08,400 Speaker 1: a little extra fifty dollars fee and get the fuck wrong. Yeah, hey, 1045 00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:11,040 Speaker 1: you need to leave this man alone. He is horny. 1046 00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:12,879 Speaker 1: No matter how much you love him, you fucking him. 1047 00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:15,479 Speaker 1: He is obviously not satisfied. He sounds like a sex 1048 00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:17,800 Speaker 1: addict to me, to be you found over one hundred, 1049 00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,560 Speaker 1: she said, over one hundred. Yeah, she did say, just 1050 00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:26,840 Speaker 1: leave that nigga alone. He is way too horny, That's 1051 00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:28,959 Speaker 1: all I got to say. Too much. That is way 1052 00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:31,240 Speaker 1: too much an escort service. You got all this pussy 1053 00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:32,960 Speaker 1: right and there you found it again, and then you 1054 00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:34,920 Speaker 1: started fucking with him, and then you started making fucking 1055 00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:36,560 Speaker 1: with him, and you've seen and he fucking with them. 1056 00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:40,480 Speaker 1: Howse again, he is horny and he's giving them money 1057 00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:43,320 Speaker 1: that he could be giving you. Oh that's and that's 1058 00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:44,800 Speaker 1: another thing you ain't say with her and I he 1059 00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:46,920 Speaker 1: be giving you no money or like what he be doing. 1060 00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:49,280 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's a night for me. It's no 1061 00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:52,160 Speaker 1: for me too. I don't like it, Okay, so let's 1062 00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:55,240 Speaker 1: go to the next one. It says, Hey, y'all, I'm 1063 00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:57,880 Speaker 1: twenty three and I haven't been in a relationship at all, 1064 00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,240 Speaker 1: but I have been in some situations since high school. 1065 00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:03,800 Speaker 1: Sometimes I feel like I'm the problem that I'm single 1066 00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:06,480 Speaker 1: because I'm picky, I pick the wrong niggas, and I 1067 00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:09,880 Speaker 1: distanced myself sometimes but other times I feel like guys 1068 00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:11,840 Speaker 1: just want to fuck me and don't see me as 1069 00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:14,680 Speaker 1: wifey material. But I feel like I have the whole 1070 00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:18,200 Speaker 1: package because I graduated college, I'm an entrepreneur, and I'm 1071 00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:21,080 Speaker 1: really talented. So what am I not doing right? Is 1072 00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:24,080 Speaker 1: it me or them? How can I be wifey material 1073 00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:25,960 Speaker 1: and not just seeing as a girl who I just 1074 00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:29,560 Speaker 1: want to fuck in these guys' eyes? Thanks? Thank you, guys, 1075 00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:33,280 Speaker 1: love y'all you want to go or you want me 1076 00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:38,320 Speaker 1: to go? I feel like niggas just be wanting to 1077 00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:41,880 Speaker 1: FuG in general when they first meet period, you know 1078 00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:43,840 Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, I don't really feel like no 1079 00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:47,000 Speaker 1: girl is just wifey type in the nigga eyes when 1080 00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:50,520 Speaker 1: he first meets them. Like over time, as he starts 1081 00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:52,600 Speaker 1: to care about you and stuff, he probably will be like, oh, 1082 00:58:52,760 --> 00:58:54,760 Speaker 1: I can see myself stilling down with these girls. I 1083 00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:57,320 Speaker 1: can see myself being with her. But in the beginning, 1084 00:58:57,520 --> 00:58:59,960 Speaker 1: I feel like niggas always is just trying to FuG. 1085 00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:03,600 Speaker 1: So I mean, if you want to be I don't know. 1086 00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:06,400 Speaker 1: I feel like, if you want to be taking more serious, 1087 00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:08,640 Speaker 1: I mean, how oft how quick do you be fucking? 1088 00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:14,200 Speaker 1: How quick do you even that? Don't got nothing to 1089 00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:16,800 Speaker 1: do with nothing. I to fucking nigga on the first 1090 00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:20,000 Speaker 1: night we were together for three years. It's all about 1091 00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:22,800 Speaker 1: if you are connecting with these people, maybe you need 1092 00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:25,160 Speaker 1: to try a different type of man that you're going 1093 00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:28,760 Speaker 1: for something. But like Drea said, niggas never look at 1094 00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:31,560 Speaker 1: somebody like it's very rare. Naw. I won't say it 1095 00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:33,840 Speaker 1: doesn't happen, but sometimes a man will be see somebody 1096 00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:35,800 Speaker 1: be like, Oh, that's that's gonna be my wife or 1097 00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:38,760 Speaker 1: that's gonna be my girlfriend. Very rarely that happens, but 1098 00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:40,280 Speaker 1: most of the time niggas be like, oh, I want 1099 00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:41,640 Speaker 1: to fuck you know what I mean? Times the nigga 1100 00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:43,320 Speaker 1: would thought he was about to fuck me and just 1101 00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:45,560 Speaker 1: send me on my way ended up really fucking liking 1102 00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:47,720 Speaker 1: me and fucking with me. And I mean, don't get 1103 00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:50,400 Speaker 1: me wrong, I agree with you, like I've definitely fucked 1104 00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:53,560 Speaker 1: the niggas when I first met them, and then we 1105 00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:57,720 Speaker 1: still ended up kept talking like years later, iss off 1106 00:59:57,720 --> 01:00:02,680 Speaker 1: the chain, but go on and do your time anyways. 1107 01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:04,760 Speaker 1: But what the reason that I said how quickly do 1108 01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:07,640 Speaker 1: you be fucking? Is because sometimes I feel like it's 1109 01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:10,360 Speaker 1: not nothing wrong with you know, fucking the dude, whenever 1110 01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:12,200 Speaker 1: you're ready, you should do it whenever you're ready. But 1111 01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:14,760 Speaker 1: I do feel like sometimes if you have six with 1112 01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:17,840 Speaker 1: somebody eat too quickly, then y'all don't really get to 1113 01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:22,240 Speaker 1: know each other. Yeah, and sometimes you don't want to 1114 01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:24,560 Speaker 1: be If you want to be seen as a wifey tight, 1115 01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:27,520 Speaker 1: then maybe you should kind of what But what is 1116 01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:30,360 Speaker 1: wifey type? I don't know. There's no such thing as 1117 01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:32,400 Speaker 1: wifey type because there's so many people I know that 1118 01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:36,080 Speaker 1: are married that are so different, Like I know hoes 1119 01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:38,960 Speaker 1: that are married, I know quote unquote good girls that 1120 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:41,680 Speaker 1: are married. There's no such thing as wifey type. It's 1121 01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,919 Speaker 1: just what you are to that person. What you gotta 1122 01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:47,400 Speaker 1: find somebody that sees the value in you. But you 1123 01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:50,120 Speaker 1: have to see the value in yourself first. See me, 1124 01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:54,400 Speaker 1: I'm not pressed because I know, like I'm lit an 1125 01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:57,840 Speaker 1: nigga that end up with me. It's gonna be lit period, Right. 1126 01:00:58,000 --> 01:00:59,880 Speaker 1: So it's like, once you see the value in yourself. 1127 01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:02,840 Speaker 1: I never questioned myself, oh when is my prince Charming 1128 01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:04,760 Speaker 1: gonna come? When is this When am I gonna be 1129 01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:07,720 Speaker 1: somebody's wife? Because I don't care. Yeah, same, I'm not 1130 01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:09,480 Speaker 1: saying that you shouldn't care because maybe you do want 1131 01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,760 Speaker 1: to be somebody's wife. O they But I think that 1132 01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:14,800 Speaker 1: what it sounds like in a letter. I'm not I'm assuming, 1133 01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:17,000 Speaker 1: but it sounds like your confidence is not all the 1134 01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:19,440 Speaker 1: way there and who you are as a person. So 1135 01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:22,680 Speaker 1: once you're confident who you are, men are attracted to 1136 01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:25,840 Speaker 1: confidence because guess what, every day I sit in the 1137 01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:28,480 Speaker 1: chair and I say I suck dick and I eat 1138 01:01:28,560 --> 01:01:31,400 Speaker 1: ass and I stand in it and they don't give 1139 01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:34,760 Speaker 1: a funk because this is you're supposed to stand and 1140 01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:38,280 Speaker 1: who you are. You definitely gotta be yourself. Ain't the 1141 01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:41,120 Speaker 1: way type of me You're gonna attract who you're supposed 1142 01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:44,960 Speaker 1: to attract by just being yourself period. But I feel 1143 01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:47,520 Speaker 1: like maybe if you feel like Nigga's not taking you serious, 1144 01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:49,480 Speaker 1: maybe you need to take a step back from the 1145 01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:52,520 Speaker 1: physical and we just more so try to get to 1146 01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:55,760 Speaker 1: know that person and let them get to know you. 1147 01:01:57,080 --> 01:02:00,440 Speaker 1: I agree undred percent, so quick, you know, unless you 1148 01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:01,720 Speaker 1: just like to get a pussy up and you just 1149 01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:06,040 Speaker 1: a freak and that's okay, this show business soon because 1150 01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:08,560 Speaker 1: I like to get a pussy up. So I'm I'm 1151 01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:12,640 Speaker 1: an advocate for either one. Whatever you choose, but from 1152 01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:15,200 Speaker 1: what you asking us, I definitely feel like, yeah, maybe 1153 01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:17,000 Speaker 1: just try to take a little more time out to 1154 01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:20,000 Speaker 1: like show the show them and who you really are. 1155 01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:24,439 Speaker 1: Got you? I agree? Okay, So next question, last one, right, Yes, 1156 01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:27,960 Speaker 1: how do I become more approachable? Hey, y'all, Before I 1157 01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:30,440 Speaker 1: even start, I just want to say I love the show. 1158 01:02:30,920 --> 01:02:33,360 Speaker 1: I've been listening to y'all since April twenty nineteen, and 1159 01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:36,520 Speaker 1: y'all keep me going, sending much love and success your way. 1160 01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:39,520 Speaker 1: So my question is how do I become more approachable 1161 01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:42,840 Speaker 1: to men? I do consider myself an attractive woman. I 1162 01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:45,400 Speaker 1: already know I'm beautiful, my body is amazing, and my 1163 01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:48,480 Speaker 1: mind and soul is the best part. However, a lot 1164 01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:51,080 Speaker 1: of people tell me I have resting bitch face, I 1165 01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:54,480 Speaker 1: look mean or stuck up, stuff like that. I'm dead ass, 1166 01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:57,160 Speaker 1: the nicest person ever. On top of that, I'm five ten, 1167 01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:00,520 Speaker 1: but that's neither here nor there. I'm still fine. So 1168 01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:02,800 Speaker 1: when we put it together from the outside, I look 1169 01:03:02,880 --> 01:03:06,240 Speaker 1: like a tall means stuck up beach, which I'm sure 1170 01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:09,200 Speaker 1: is unapproachable to most men. I know who I am 1171 01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:11,200 Speaker 1: on the inside, so I really don't care how people 1172 01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:14,480 Speaker 1: perceive me. But I know for sure niggas be eliminating 1173 01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:17,040 Speaker 1: me off the rit because I look rude. How do 1174 01:03:17,120 --> 01:03:20,320 Speaker 1: I change these? I'm really trying to widen my arsenal 1175 01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:24,600 Speaker 1: of niggas for twenty twenty one, love y'all, not the 1176 01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:29,640 Speaker 1: arsenal beach. I feel like as a as a tall 1177 01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:32,440 Speaker 1: woman myself and a little thicker myself, I feel like 1178 01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:35,439 Speaker 1: sometimes I am intimidating to men. I used to feel 1179 01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:38,160 Speaker 1: that way. Now I don't look at it like that. 1180 01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:40,760 Speaker 1: If a man, the man that's for me is gonna 1181 01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:42,640 Speaker 1: approach me, he's gonna be like, yeah, I want all 1182 01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:45,800 Speaker 1: of that rest the bitch facing all. You don't have 1183 01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,480 Speaker 1: to change who you are to get somebody to approach you. 1184 01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:51,040 Speaker 1: And that goes back to kind of the first impression thing. 1185 01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:54,640 Speaker 1: Stop changing who you are to attract certain type of people, 1186 01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:57,280 Speaker 1: because that's not gonna be the person for you. So 1187 01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:02,160 Speaker 1: maybe just then based off of who they think you, right, 1188 01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:05,320 Speaker 1: So just continue to be yourself. You gonna eventually be 1189 01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:07,280 Speaker 1: in the spaces where the right man gonna come along. 1190 01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:10,080 Speaker 1: Be like I want that resting bit, because Dre has 1191 01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:13,240 Speaker 1: a resting bitch face for real, and they don't stop 1192 01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:15,880 Speaker 1: these niggas from talking to you. No, it don't you 1193 01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:17,480 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Yeah, I mean that's what I 1194 01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:19,800 Speaker 1: was gonna say. I feel like I be looking mean 1195 01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:22,400 Speaker 1: as FuG but they don't be stopping niggas from trying 1196 01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:24,280 Speaker 1: to talk to me. They still be trying. And I 1197 01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:27,360 Speaker 1: feel like, even if a dude trying to holler at 1198 01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:29,680 Speaker 1: me and then I'm kind of like, oh, I'm not interested. 1199 01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:32,080 Speaker 1: Whatever I Doe had niggas who I talked him, I 1200 01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:34,400 Speaker 1: wasn't interested, and they kept trying and kept trying till 1201 01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:37,800 Speaker 1: they finally got a day. Yeah. So I feel like, so, yeah, 1202 01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:40,200 Speaker 1: it just all goes with who you are and the 1203 01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:42,040 Speaker 1: right men come along. Just maybe you're not in the 1204 01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,280 Speaker 1: right spaces around the right niggas because, like I said, 1205 01:04:44,560 --> 01:04:47,280 Speaker 1: I put my heels on, I'm probably like five ten, 1206 01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:51,360 Speaker 1: five eleven, I'm big, I got ass, I got tennis, 1207 01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:54,720 Speaker 1: I'm loud, I'm dancing, I'm twerking, and that never stops 1208 01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:57,160 Speaker 1: niggas from approaching trying to be funny. But any nigga 1209 01:04:57,160 --> 01:04:59,040 Speaker 1: that's scared to try to talk to me, oh, because 1210 01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:00,800 Speaker 1: they feel like, oh I look to me or I 1211 01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:03,160 Speaker 1: look stuck up or I look beaty or whatever, and 1212 01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:04,680 Speaker 1: you scared to come talk to me because of that. 1213 01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:07,560 Speaker 1: She ain't the fucking nigga for me, no way at all. 1214 01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:09,320 Speaker 1: I want to talk to you, no way because you're 1215 01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:12,120 Speaker 1: scary as fun. And then you're gonna be intimidated once 1216 01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:14,720 Speaker 1: you see these bikini picks on that. I ge houn's 1217 01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:20,280 Speaker 1: gonna be intimidated when you see these pussy Wait wait, wait, wait, 1218 01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:27,960 Speaker 1: how did we get from? Okay? All right, but that's 1219 01:05:27,960 --> 01:05:29,919 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You ain't gonna never get that because 1220 01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:33,479 Speaker 1: you're too scared. Don't make meaning I feel you said, 1221 01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:36,560 Speaker 1: they gonna be scared when they see that thing. You 1222 01:05:36,640 --> 01:05:40,080 Speaker 1: meant that ship. So yes, thank y'all for the letters 1223 01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:42,240 Speaker 1: this week. Make sure you email us at askfor Minds 1224 01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:44,360 Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. You got anything else you want 1225 01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:51,680 Speaker 1: to ask the closer I get you girls, man, I 1226 01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:54,479 Speaker 1: ain't know he passed night you did you know? The man? 1227 01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:59,760 Speaker 1: You make me touching my cheek like it's like you 1228 01:05:59,760 --> 01:06:01,360 Speaker 1: know how the videos used to be in the nineties. 1229 01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:08,760 Speaker 1: By giving you of God, You're the first captured me. 1230 01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:17,360 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. We wasn't ready trying to tell 1231 01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:24,960 Speaker 1: myself we could never be more than Frae. Well, no, 1232 01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:31,479 Speaker 1: the whole inside. No, his was a read the way 1233 01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:40,000 Speaker 1: you're making me fee you're not ready for trying his boss. 1234 01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:47,080 Speaker 1: We'll see y'all next week. You was killing it. I 1235 01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:52,439 Speaker 1: wasn't ready. I said, I don't know who's me, never 1236 01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:56,920 Speaker 1: heard it, don't see it. Your ass is crazy. My 1237 01:06:57,000 --> 01:07:00,120 Speaker 1: phone out right at the end. M