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Speaker 1: First Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Britt is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Sean,

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we're going to get him

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Speaker 2: on the phone and see if he'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if

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Speaker 2: she still wants one. But Britt, before we talk about

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Speaker 2: your date, how long has it been since you heard

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Speaker 2: from Sean?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Freakin twelve days?

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Speaker 5: You're not counting her? I'm sorry that sucks. Where how

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Speaker 5: did you meet Sean online?

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Speaker 2: On an app or something else?

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Speaker 4: Oh? And it's the only dating up I've ever really tried.

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Speaker 2: And then I've heard good things I have to that

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Speaker 2: makes sense. Yeah, let's go back. Let's go back to

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Speaker 2: the date. Can you tell us about that.

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Speaker 4: Well, it was good at first because we like met

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Speaker 4: at one of those like fun bars where there's like

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Speaker 4: you know, bar games, and he was paying for stuff,

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Speaker 4: you know, like he was getting her drinks and I

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Speaker 4: was winning. So it was fun and it was like

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Speaker 4: a flirty good time and you know we we even

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Speaker 4: like kissed. Okay, well we made out at the bar.

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Speaker 2: Oh was there any moment where's something weird happened? Why

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Speaker 2: you might be getting ghosted?

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I didn't plan this or anything at all,

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Speaker 4: but a group of my friends showed up and uh,

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Speaker 4: they you know, came and played a round of darts

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Speaker 4: with us, And that's the only thing I could think of,

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Speaker 4: because I mean, he left shortly after, but he had to.

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Speaker 4: He said he to get up for work or whatever.

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Speaker 2: Like how are the vibes?

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Speaker 4: When he left, he like kind of just was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I realized the time it is, I have to go.

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Speaker 4: So he like left kind of abruptly, but like you know,

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Speaker 4: I was definitely like including him and then like it,

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Speaker 4: I thought it was like going fine.

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Speaker 5: So I didn't think that would have been it were

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Speaker 5: your friends kind of monopolizing your time at that point?

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Speaker 4: No, No, that so I was like, I think, like

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Speaker 4: we were just all hanging out. Like the only reason

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Speaker 4: it could have been offer is just because they had

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Speaker 4: never met before, because it was like a first date.

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Speaker 4: But I think went fine. Like I even like text

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Speaker 4: them that night to apologize that they shut up. But

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Speaker 4: I thanked him for like being cool and said I

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Speaker 4: couldn't wait to see him again.

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Speaker 2: Did he say anything back to that or was that

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Speaker 2: the last time you heard from him?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 4: He text me back the next morning. So that's why

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh, yeah, you must have gone home,

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Speaker 4: gone to sleep early, because he woke up text me

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Speaker 4: He's like, yeah, I had fun and then ghost.

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Speaker 2: Is it possible he's dated any area of friends?

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Speaker 4: Uh? None of them said anything about that, so I.

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Speaker 5: Mean it also could be just awkward. I mean, Victoria,

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Speaker 5: remember when you had that date and you ran into

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Speaker 5: your friends. Oh, it almost feels like pressure in that moment, right, like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're already meeting their friends and you're just not

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Speaker 2: ready to go that far. Also, it's a very first state,

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Speaker 2: so like you're meeting their friends and you're like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: this is weird, but Hi, like you're introducing yourself and yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's kind of weird. Well that's besides the point though.

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Speaker 5: So if that's what happened and then he goes ghosts,

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Speaker 5: like something had to have happened in that interaction. Were

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Speaker 5: their guy friends there? So that was like guys and girls.

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Speaker 4: No, I's a group of girls.

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Speaker 2: And what was the last thing he said to you?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 4: He said that he had fun, and I did, like

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Speaker 4: try texting him within those twelve days, like one or

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Speaker 4: two more times.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, we'll see if we can figure it

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Speaker 2: out for you. Then we'll play a song come Back,

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Speaker 2: and then call him and see if you'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, Okay, thanks,

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Speaker 2: all right, we'll play a song come Back. Get your

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Speaker 2: first Day follow up, Next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first Day follow Up,

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Britt is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Sean. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call him and see if you'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why he's ghosting and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Britt, why don't you remind

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Speaker 2: everybody of the situation with Sean.

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Speaker 4: Okay, guys, I went out on a date with Sean,

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Speaker 4: who I met online, and we were having a super

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Speaker 4: fun first day at a bar and then randomly ran

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Speaker 4: into a group of my girlfriends. We had some darts

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Speaker 4: with them, and then Sean left, briefly texted me back

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Speaker 4: once and then goes to me and I don't know

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Speaker 4: why because it's a great first date.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're about to get him on the phone and

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Speaker 2: find out why. You're ready?

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Speaker 4: I'm ready?

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, mespeak to Sean. Please, Hicky.

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Speaker 2: Who is Sean? How are you? My name is Jubel

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Speaker 2: and I'm on a radio show called The Jebel Show. Hi, Sean,

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Speaker 2: I'm Nina. Also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: So this is a radio show called The Jubel Show.

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Speaker 2: How are you? I'm okay, I haven't talked to the radio.

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Speaker 4: What's this about?

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Speaker 2: Do you ever listen to the show at all?

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Speaker 4: I am not familiar with your guys with you guys show? No?

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Speaker 2: All right, well now you will be I guess. We

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Speaker 2: do a segment on the show, and it's called the

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Speaker 2: first Date follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and then it up end

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Speaker 2: up ghosting them, they can email us to get you

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Speaker 2: on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we got an email about you from a girl named

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Speaker 2: britt oh Ritt.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well that's a uh yeah, I can understand why

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Speaker 3: she might wanna might want to get some answers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she said, it's been twelve days since you guys

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Speaker 2: went out, and the last thing you texted her was

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Speaker 2: had fun, So it's up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I uh definitely did have to take a step

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Speaker 3: back and just give her some space after the last

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Speaker 2: Why is that?

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Speaker 4: It's not her?

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Speaker 3: It's uh And I'm not sure if she told you this,

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Speaker 3: but when we were out, we were into some of

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Speaker 6: Wasn't giving them more attention she was giving me. She

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Speaker 6: was making sure that she's being scared of both parties

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Speaker 6: and seen, you know, being on a date with me.

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Speaker 6: She just happened running to her friends. But okay, Uh,

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Speaker 6: it is because of her friend, Sabrina.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we used, Yeah, we used.

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Speaker 3: To hook up, and Sabrina at one point in time, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I know this is just like two years ago. But

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Speaker 3: Sabrina at one point in time cornered me and.

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Speaker 6: Basically was like, oh my god, I'm so good to

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Speaker 6: this other good stuff.

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Speaker 3: And then yeah, asked me if I wanted to have

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Speaker 3: a threesome.

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Speaker 2: What with her friend or.

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Speaker 3: Well, well, well, Sabrina and Brittany both at the both

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Speaker 2: I wonder if she knows that, yeah.

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Speaker 6: She wanted need a little bit of space.

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Speaker 4: It's a little weird.

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Speaker 5: Wait, so you think Britton knows about that?

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Speaker 3: I would I would guess that she does, because you know,

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Speaker 4: I feel like that came up in the conversation at

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Speaker 2: I don't really know what to say about that.

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Speaker 3: It's like, I mean, you know, it wasn't it just

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Speaker 2: You don't get down like that or I.

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Speaker 3: Get competitive during uh, during those types of things.

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Speaker 6: And uh, I'm not good at t projects.

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Speaker 2: All right, I can see that. Yeah, you know, Hey,

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Speaker 2: thank you for being honest, and I appreciate it. Also, no,

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Speaker 2: not at all. And I want to let you know

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Speaker 2: to talk to you. Uh what okay, Britt.

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Speaker 4: Hey, I wish someone would have told me that I

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Speaker 5: You had no idea that he used to suck up

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Speaker 4: Neither. I'm not that good at friends with Sabrina. She's

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Speaker 4: I only really see her in group setting. I don't

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Speaker 2: Just like of course everybody's going on.

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Speaker 5: She's like, I'm not going to technically steal her date

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Speaker 5: if I include Process, I'll ask him first because guys

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Speaker 5: will be down, and then I'll approach her. Wow.

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Speaker 4: God, the only thing we've ever done together is like

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Speaker 2: But that's a little different than a reason.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, so you didn't know anything about that at all.

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Speaker 4: No, I didn't hear that from our mutual friend. I

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Speaker 4: like I said, she's not that close her friends. So

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Speaker 4: that's like, whenever you guys have like, I don't care.

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Speaker 4: I still love a second chance.

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Speaker 2: With you, John, Are you like gonna hook up with Sabrina.

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Speaker 3: I've done that already. I didn't didn't want to keep

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Speaker 3: doing that, would like to would like to go on

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Speaker 3: a second date, just just the two of us though, No, don't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Sean, you would like to go out with brit again, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we'll pay for it.

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Speaker 3: That would be awesome, especially after the holidays. But if that,

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Speaker 3: if that could be a thing, you guys, the whole

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Speaker 2: I think that would be Brett.

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Speaker 5: You don't care that he's hooked up with Sabrina.

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Speaker 4: No, he's had it in the past.

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Speaker 2: And Okay, you want another date, Britt.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe we could do dinner or something where there's

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Speaker 4: only room for two of us.

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Speaker 7: In the book from this Wholesome Dinner, they're going to

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Speaker 7: be the only person going on a second date in

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Speaker 7: the restaurant who's demanding that.

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Speaker 2: They just make sure it's a table for two. That's it.

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Speaker 7: Nobody else at the same One of the waitress comes up.

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Speaker 7: They're like, no, yeah, no, we know what you're after. No,

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Speaker 7: we're trying to go out with each other. Well, congratulations,

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Speaker 7: you guys got another date.

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Speaker 2: Thank go.

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