WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Cat Catfish

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<v Speaker 1>Second day. We've been hearing about all the different apps

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<v Speaker 1>that are out there now so that you can meet

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<v Speaker 1>new people. And there's the traditional ones like Tinder and

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<v Speaker 1>Bumble we all know about. I actually heard the other

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<v Speaker 1>day about a couple who met on next door. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>they were both complaining about some other neighbors loud music,

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<v Speaker 1>and so they met up. They had some wine together,

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<v Speaker 1>and next thing you know, they're married, making their own

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<v Speaker 1>loud noises. I know. I've even tried some untraditional dating sites.

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<v Speaker 1>I signed up for gas stationmatch dot com. Is that

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<v Speaker 1>why you were hanging outside? What was it? A seven

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<v Speaker 1>eleven for a bit? It was a shell stations sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>a shell station of love. But I've never heard of

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<v Speaker 1>the one where Janine met her dude recently, and now

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<v Speaker 1>she's reached out to us for help. So Janine, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the show. Hi, thank you for having me. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so curious. Jeffer's got me intrigued. Is it really

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<v Speaker 1>that bizarre? It's definitely off the beaten path. Yeah, what

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<v Speaker 1>is it? It's a dating site called cavvy. It's where

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<v Speaker 1>cat owners meet. Okay, that's cool. So you're a cat owner. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a calico cat named Molly. Okay, so you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a smart place for men to go. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>they're people. Yeah, I love cats, so maybe I should

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<v Speaker 1>get on this thing. I know you were just on

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<v Speaker 1>a cat Facebook group the other day that you were

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<v Speaker 1>showing me several back off even though you don't own

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<v Speaker 1>a cat, so cute. Which one of the guys that's

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<v Speaker 1>on the app did you match with? Who's he? So?

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<v Speaker 1>I mass with this guy named Seth? And so we

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<v Speaker 1>started talking. Is there a lot of like cat puns

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff when you start talking to somebody on a

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<v Speaker 1>cat dating app? Or does the cat get your tongue? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You know we're kind of nerdy. Yeah, I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's cute. That's where you're supposed to nerd

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<v Speaker 1>oup this, Yeah, this is where the ball of yarn

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<v Speaker 1>emoji gets used the most insa. Okay, so how was

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<v Speaker 1>your connection with Seth? We had fun banter cool. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was interested and we made a date to meet

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<v Speaker 1>up at a bar. Okay, And what was the initial moment?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm always so interested in that, Like you've never

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<v Speaker 1>seen someone face to face and then you're there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I thought he was really cute I thought

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<v Speaker 1>we hit it off right away, speaking of nerdy cat things.

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<v Speaker 1>When I first semented, my thought, it would be kind

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<v Speaker 1>of funny if I like licked the back of my

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<v Speaker 1>hand and then, you know, like hatted his hair down

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<v Speaker 1>like a cat. Did Did you really like or did

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<v Speaker 1>you just pretend like because I do that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>pretend like that? Um? I think that likes to my hand. Yeah, lover.

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<v Speaker 1>What was his response? Did he start purring? No, he's

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of laugh Okay, he was into it. This

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<v Speaker 1>is only something you could do this app and do

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<v Speaker 1>this move. It's like whoa, whoa, whoa. He's like, come

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<v Speaker 1>up with something original. The last three ladies I met

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<v Speaker 1>here did the same thing. Well, it sounds like he

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<v Speaker 1>has at least the same sense of humor as you

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<v Speaker 1>do at this point. And how did the actual date

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<v Speaker 1>go once he sat down? I thought it went really well.

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<v Speaker 1>We actually also had yoga in common. I'm a super

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<v Speaker 1>into like health and wellness, and we were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>that well, which is also a good side. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>an opening he's saying, I'm interested in something you're really into,

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<v Speaker 1>meaning I want you to show me more about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree. Every guy wants to see a girl do

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<v Speaker 1>her yoga. Y So how did the date end? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we were having a great time and then I had

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<v Speaker 1>to go home and I had to feed my cat,

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<v Speaker 1>and he didn't seem a creep, so I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>would be okay if I invited him back to my

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<v Speaker 1>claim to meet your cat on Is that a big

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<v Speaker 1>step for cat owners? Wait? What did your cat think? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>That was the thing. I was really nervous because my

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<v Speaker 1>cat doesn't get along with everybody. She can be a

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<v Speaker 1>little aggressive sometimes, but she loved him. He was like

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<v Speaker 1>going right up to him and letting him pet her.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to take that as a pretty good sign

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<v Speaker 1>or like mellow molly all of a sudden, And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he stayed for a little bit and we were just talking.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't send the night or anything. But I thought

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<v Speaker 1>we had a really great date overall. It was there

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<v Speaker 1>any like intimate time or make out. Such a fool

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<v Speaker 1>around is what she's trying to say. Um, no, your

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<v Speaker 1>must are just talking. Okay, that's nice and respectful. Books

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<v Speaker 1>really disappointed she was. Yeah, just just don't fully understand it.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're kind of a psychopathic. Maybe that's why I'm

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<v Speaker 1>more of a dog person. Looking back on the whole night, Janine,

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<v Speaker 1>is there anything that stuck out to you? Is maybe

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<v Speaker 1>the red flag or the reason that he wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>reaching out. I don't know. I'm like, maybe he thought

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<v Speaker 1>I was actually very weird when I did that little

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<v Speaker 1>cat move in the beginning, or maybe he didn't like

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<v Speaker 1>my cat. I don't know. But it's been like nine

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<v Speaker 1>or ten days and I haven't heard from him. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that he I mean, honestly, do you

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<v Speaker 1>think he just has too many options on the cat

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<v Speaker 1>dating site? Huh? I've never thought about it like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I thought that we had a really nice connection

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought he was really genuine. So I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of surprised it doesn't sound like it was a

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<v Speaker 1>catastrophe one. All right. I was really hoping we wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to end on that. But we're out of time,

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<v Speaker 1>so that joke is gonna have to be what you

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<v Speaker 1>go with. And as we play a song, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come back call seth try and get your second date

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<v Speaker 1>up date. Okay, thank you. I mean I thought the

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<v Speaker 1>drugmer medium belong on this app All right, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>let's start part two with a little doja cat for

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<v Speaker 1>our listener Jeanine, who is a cat lover herself, love

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<v Speaker 1>cat brilliant and there's a guy that she's hoping will

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<v Speaker 1>kiss her more. That's her Seth. Do you want Do

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<v Speaker 1>you want more of this? Because there's a lot, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of this. Well. They met on a dating

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<v Speaker 1>app design for people who love kiddies. Yeah, I went

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<v Speaker 1>out to a bar later. She actually introduced Seth to

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<v Speaker 1>her for a baby, which went really well. Her favorite

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<v Speaker 1>of baby being her cat, which went really well. Child.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't taking child, he say. But it's been Yeah. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been nine days and we're all left here wondering

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<v Speaker 1>if love is still a possibility. Are you wondering about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Write me out? We just lost half of artless audience

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<v Speaker 1>in the first How you feeling, Janine? I'm feeling a

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<v Speaker 1>little nervous because I don't know what he's gonna say.

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<v Speaker 1>But I really just want to talk to him because

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<v Speaker 1>I think communication is the f Yeah, for sure, Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>when you do tex it's different than actually speaking. And

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<v Speaker 1>I know I said that maybe he's just overwhelmed with

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<v Speaker 1>how many options he has on this cat dating site

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<v Speaker 1>because he's like a hot dude on it. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes you just need a little extra push to make

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<v Speaker 1>a decision to go out with you instead of all

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<v Speaker 1>those other cat lovers. Yeah, okay, yeah, so let's go

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<v Speaker 1>on and push him. Here we go, and we'll see

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<v Speaker 1>what Seth has to say. Let's do it. Hello. Hey

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<v Speaker 1>is this seth Um? This is Seth. Hey. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Okay, Hi, Seth. The whole crew is here.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, the crew of the radio. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're a crew. Yeah, crew, Okay, we just want to

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<v Speaker 1>put We just want to talk to you about some stuff. What. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I know this must be kind of confusing, but we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing something that we do on our show called a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. How did you get my number? Good question? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we got it from one of our listeners who got

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<v Speaker 1>it from you, and that listener is Janine. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you went on a date with Janine a little over

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<v Speaker 1>a week ago. It sounds like we went on a date. Why.

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<v Speaker 1>What is the why? Well, the way that this works

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<v Speaker 1>is Janine has reached out to us because she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>heard from you in quite a while, and she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>really understand why we're hoping maybe we can help get

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<v Speaker 1>her some answers. I mean that's a little that's a

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<v Speaker 1>little personal. Okay, well never mind it. Sorry for bothering me,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for your good man. Can we just start

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<v Speaker 1>with a simple question like did you like her? Um? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's definitely super cute for sure, really really sweet person like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh this sounds awesome? Oh yeah, So what's holding you

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<v Speaker 1>back from wanting to see her again? I just think

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes like nice girls like Janine is just like not

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<v Speaker 1>really for me in a way. What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I can kind of feel your you met her on

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<v Speaker 1>a cat daity map. What did you expect, like you

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<v Speaker 1>find a bunch of bad girls there? I mean, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we talked a lot, we had a really

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<v Speaker 1>nice time, but it was just like I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>thought like maybe we were going to hook up, but

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<v Speaker 1>it just I don't know it just so you felt

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<v Speaker 1>the same way that you did. She was like why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't they hook up? So I did say, like, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you know make out or kis at all? But

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<v Speaker 1>it's a first date and everybody has different boundaries and

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<v Speaker 1>that's like understandable. But that doesn't mean that, like, so

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<v Speaker 1>it just feels like you were just wanting her to

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<v Speaker 1>hook up that night and then you wouldn't have called

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<v Speaker 1>her back anyway. No, she did. I wouldn't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's more like I just think, like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think like she's a really nice person. You

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<v Speaker 1>keep saying that, Yeah, so what do we tell her

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<v Speaker 1>if she if she would have, if she would have

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<v Speaker 1>made out with you, then you would have called her back.

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<v Speaker 1>But since she didn't, she's too innocent for you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not like, um, a little like naive about certain things.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't I don't, I don't know. That's all

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say. It's obviously I hear you. I

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<v Speaker 1>know you. You might think that she's really sweet and

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<v Speaker 1>naive and innocent. She's cunning, isn't she has? Yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>has a little bit of cunning to her because she's

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<v Speaker 1>actually been on the other line quietly listening this entire time. Seth, Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I wants talk to you. Are you serious? Yeah, Janine?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you there? Him? I'm a little wait, Janine, this

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<v Speaker 1>is really you? Yeah? Hi, it's Janine. Um, I do

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<v Speaker 1>really know what to do, and I really liked you

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<v Speaker 1>and I just wanted to go on another date with you,

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<v Speaker 1>so I kind of did this silly thing. What are

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<v Speaker 1>you feeling right now, Janie? Are you mad or where

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<v Speaker 1>are you at? Um? I guess I just thought that

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<v Speaker 1>we had a connection, So I don't know, like if

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<v Speaker 1>you needed something more for me, I wish you had

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<v Speaker 1>just said something to me. It's a good point, like

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<v Speaker 1>did you even make a move? No, you're like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just not like a pure hearted good person as much

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<v Speaker 1>as like what probably Jane because she's waved just like

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<v Speaker 1>better than me in that respect with a cat, Like

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<v Speaker 1>why do you want a cat? Danty nap? Then? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like are you some drug dealer or something? What are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing on the side? No, I'm not a drug dealer. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you're saying because I had a

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<v Speaker 1>different impression of you. But also like are you meeting

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<v Speaker 1>other people on this app? Because I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to find a better connection what we had.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true like I introduced you to my cat and

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<v Speaker 1>she really liked you, and that never happens, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>literally never happened. She hasn't like anybody, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's one of the big reasons that I'm reaching

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<v Speaker 1>out to. It kind of felt like fate and the cat,

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<v Speaker 1>like you got I know, I know, I knew the

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<v Speaker 1>cat was gonna like me. That's not really like the

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<v Speaker 1>why why do you say that? Yeah, yeah, I'll put

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<v Speaker 1>it to you this way. I was reading this like, um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a men's blog just to so dating advice

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like tips and stuff. Um, if you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>for certain dating apps with like a certain ratio of

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<v Speaker 1>like girls to guys, you got to look in like

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<v Speaker 1>certain corners. So like the cat app kind of fit

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<v Speaker 1>pretty perfectly because like there's not there's way fewer guys

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<v Speaker 1>on there than there are into cats. I don't actually

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<v Speaker 1>have a cat the way, how did how did you

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<v Speaker 1>know the cat was gonna like you? Then? If you

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<v Speaker 1>don't even have a cat, well, I um, I use

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<v Speaker 1>a cheat CODEE I put a little cat nip in

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<v Speaker 1>my pocket. Oh you are a drug dealers, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>in a way, yeah, I do. I do keep something

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<v Speaker 1>on me. I guess did you have any idea? No?

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<v Speaker 1>And I also I don't understand. You posted a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of pictures of your cat and then we literally talked

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<v Speaker 1>about your cat for half of the conversation and I

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I like cats, but that's my sister's cat.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so you we're just looking to get laid. He's

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<v Speaker 1>got it all down to a science. Though. This is

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<v Speaker 1>like a weird cat fishing situation. Somehow cat actual cats,

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<v Speaker 1>azing cat. We all got it it kind that was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of good. Can I just I'm generally uncomfortable with

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<v Speaker 1>this whole setup, but that was a decent Joe. Did

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<v Speaker 1>he do it? Okay? Oh? Man? I mean I'm actually

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<v Speaker 1>really upset because I really liked you, and so it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like number one, you're a path to watchful liar,

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<v Speaker 1>and two that you're just going around and you're toying

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<v Speaker 1>with people's emotions. Like so, I knew he would get upset.

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<v Speaker 1>You did say he owned up to this. He tried

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<v Speaker 1>to get out, and you reeled them in. And I'll

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<v Speaker 1>give you props that you didn't follow through with it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all you hooked up with her, took advantage that night. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if she was willing, she's too sweet. He can't do

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<v Speaker 1>it to her. Oh he would. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean from everything that we've heard, the connection that you

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<v Speaker 1>two had was real. The only thing that he lied

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<v Speaker 1>about was owning a cat which just turns out to

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<v Speaker 1>be his sisters, and having the cat nip in his pockets.

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<v Speaker 1>Other than that, it was genuine. Yeah, but he but

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<v Speaker 1>he came in like Janine took it as they had

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<v Speaker 1>a good connect and that there was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a further relationship, like she wanted to develop something. He

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted a one night stand. But he didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>do that. But he would have, but he didn't. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're all, you're all right. I did like her. We

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<v Speaker 1>didn't hook up because I would have felt bad. I

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<v Speaker 1>know that that's not what she's looking for. So I

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<v Speaker 1>figured it'd be easier if we just like had a

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<v Speaker 1>really nice night and then never talked again after that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean, I just don't understand if if you

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<v Speaker 1>like her, you respect her, you think she's beautiful, you

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<v Speaker 1>get along with her cat, then why not at least

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<v Speaker 1>see her one more time the cat nap she knows

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<v Speaker 1>the truth, Nay, see if there's actually a real connection there.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Janine, are you even open to that anymore?

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<v Speaker 1>I no, No, Like I said, I went on that

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<v Speaker 1>app looking for quality people, and this is just not

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I can't really ask. Then if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>would want to go out on a second date and

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<v Speaker 1>we would pay for it, go to Petco SECN. I

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<v Speaker 1>just ask you. Are you still on the app? Um? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, no, I moved over to the iguana app.

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<v Speaker 1>Those girls are free, Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.