Speaker 1: Second day. We've been hearing about all the different apps
Speaker 1: that are out there now so that you can meet
Speaker 1: new people. And there's the traditional ones like Tinder and
Speaker 1: Bumble we all know about. I actually heard the other
Speaker 1: day about a couple who met on next door. Really,
Speaker 1: they were both complaining about some other neighbors loud music,
Speaker 1: and so they met up. They had some wine together,
Speaker 1: and next thing you know, they're married, making their own
Speaker 1: loud noises. I know. I've even tried some untraditional dating sites.
Speaker 1: I signed up for gas stationmatch dot com. Is that
Speaker 1: why you were hanging outside? What was it? A seven
Speaker 1: eleven for a bit? It was a shell stations sorry,
Speaker 1: a shell station of love. But I've never heard of
Speaker 1: the one where Janine met her dude recently, and now
Speaker 1: she's reached out to us for help. So Janine, welcome
Speaker 1: to the show. Hi, thank you for having me. Oh
Speaker 1: I'm so curious. Jeffer's got me intrigued. Is it really
Speaker 1: that bizarre? It's definitely off the beaten path. Yeah, what
Speaker 1: is it? It's a dating site called cavvy. It's where
Speaker 1: cat owners meet. Okay, that's cool. So you're a cat owner. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I have a calico cat named Molly. Okay, so you
Speaker 1: kind of a smart place for men to go. Honestly,
Speaker 1: they're people. Yeah, I love cats, so maybe I should
Speaker 1: get on this thing. I know you were just on
Speaker 1: a cat Facebook group the other day that you were
Speaker 1: showing me several back off even though you don't own
Speaker 1: a cat, so cute. Which one of the guys that's
Speaker 1: on the app did you match with? Who's he? So?
Speaker 1: I mass with this guy named Seth? And so we
Speaker 1: started talking. Is there a lot of like cat puns
Speaker 1: and stuff when you start talking to somebody on a
Speaker 1: cat dating app? Or does the cat get your tongue? Yeah?
Speaker 1: You know we're kind of nerdy. Yeah, I like it.
Speaker 1: I mean it's cute. That's where you're supposed to nerd
Speaker 1: oup this, Yeah, this is where the ball of yarn
Speaker 1: emoji gets used the most insa. Okay, so how was
Speaker 1: your connection with Seth? We had fun banter cool. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I was interested and we made a date to meet
Speaker 1: up at a bar. Okay, And what was the initial moment?
Speaker 1: Like I'm always so interested in that, Like you've never
Speaker 1: seen someone face to face and then you're there? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I thought he was really cute I thought
Speaker 1: we hit it off right away, speaking of nerdy cat things.
Speaker 1: When I first semented, my thought, it would be kind
Speaker 1: of funny if I like licked the back of my
Speaker 1: hand and then, you know, like hatted his hair down
Speaker 1: like a cat. Did Did you really like or did
Speaker 1: you just pretend like because I do that, you know,
Speaker 1: pretend like that? Um? I think that likes to my hand. Yeah, lover.
Speaker 1: What was his response? Did he start purring? No, he's
Speaker 1: just kind of laugh Okay, he was into it. This
Speaker 1: is only something you could do this app and do
Speaker 1: this move. It's like whoa, whoa, whoa. He's like, come
Speaker 1: up with something original. The last three ladies I met
Speaker 1: here did the same thing. Well, it sounds like he
Speaker 1: has at least the same sense of humor as you
Speaker 1: do at this point. And how did the actual date
Speaker 1: go once he sat down? I thought it went really well.
Speaker 1: We actually also had yoga in common. I'm a super
Speaker 1: into like health and wellness, and we were talking about
Speaker 1: that well, which is also a good side. It's like
Speaker 1: an opening he's saying, I'm interested in something you're really into,
Speaker 1: meaning I want you to show me more about it.
Speaker 1: I agree. Every guy wants to see a girl do
Speaker 1: her yoga. Y So how did the date end? Well,
Speaker 1: we were having a great time and then I had
Speaker 1: to go home and I had to feed my cat,
Speaker 1: and he didn't seem a creep, so I thought it
Speaker 1: would be okay if I invited him back to my
Speaker 1: claim to meet your cat on Is that a big
Speaker 1: step for cat owners? Wait? What did your cat think? Well?
Speaker 1: That was the thing. I was really nervous because my
Speaker 1: cat doesn't get along with everybody. She can be a
Speaker 1: little aggressive sometimes, but she loved him. He was like
Speaker 1: going right up to him and letting him pet her.
Speaker 1: You have to take that as a pretty good sign
Speaker 1: or like mellow molly all of a sudden, And yeah,
Speaker 1: he stayed for a little bit and we were just talking.
Speaker 1: He didn't send the night or anything. But I thought
Speaker 1: we had a really great date overall. It was there
Speaker 1: any like intimate time or make out. Such a fool
Speaker 1: around is what she's trying to say. Um, no, your
Speaker 1: must are just talking. Okay, that's nice and respectful. Books
Speaker 1: really disappointed she was. Yeah, just just don't fully understand it.
Speaker 1: But you're kind of a psychopathic. Maybe that's why I'm
Speaker 1: more of a dog person. Looking back on the whole night, Janine,
Speaker 1: is there anything that stuck out to you? Is maybe
Speaker 1: the red flag or the reason that he wouldn't be
Speaker 1: reaching out. I don't know. I'm like, maybe he thought
Speaker 1: I was actually very weird when I did that little
Speaker 1: cat move in the beginning, or maybe he didn't like
Speaker 1: my cat. I don't know. But it's been like nine
Speaker 1: or ten days and I haven't heard from him. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: do you think that he I mean, honestly, do you
Speaker 1: think he just has too many options on the cat
Speaker 1: dating site? Huh? I've never thought about it like that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I thought that we had a really nice connection
Speaker 1: and I thought he was really genuine. So I'm just
Speaker 1: kind of surprised it doesn't sound like it was a
Speaker 1: catastrophe one. All right. I was really hoping we wouldn't
Speaker 1: have to end on that. But we're out of time,
Speaker 1: so that joke is gonna have to be what you
Speaker 1: go with. And as we play a song, we're gonna
Speaker 1: come back call seth try and get your second date
Speaker 1: up date. Okay, thank you. I mean I thought the
Speaker 1: drugmer medium belong on this app All right, hold on,
Speaker 1: let's start part two with a little doja cat for
Speaker 1: our listener Jeanine, who is a cat lover herself, love
Speaker 1: cat brilliant and there's a guy that she's hoping will
Speaker 1: kiss her more. That's her Seth. Do you want Do
Speaker 1: you want more of this? Because there's a lot, there's
Speaker 1: a lot of this. Well. They met on a dating
Speaker 1: app design for people who love kiddies. Yeah, I went
Speaker 1: out to a bar later. She actually introduced Seth to
Speaker 1: her for a baby, which went really well. Her favorite
Speaker 1: of baby being her cat, which went really well. Child.
Speaker 1: I wasn't taking child, he say. But it's been Yeah. Sorry,
Speaker 1: it's been nine days and we're all left here wondering
Speaker 1: if love is still a possibility. Are you wondering about it?
Speaker 1: Write me out? We just lost half of artless audience
Speaker 1: in the first How you feeling, Janine? I'm feeling a
Speaker 1: little nervous because I don't know what he's gonna say.
Speaker 1: But I really just want to talk to him because
Speaker 1: I think communication is the f Yeah, for sure, Sometimes
Speaker 1: when you do tex it's different than actually speaking. And
Speaker 1: I know I said that maybe he's just overwhelmed with
Speaker 1: how many options he has on this cat dating site
Speaker 1: because he's like a hot dude on it. But you know,
Speaker 1: sometimes you just need a little extra push to make
Speaker 1: a decision to go out with you instead of all
Speaker 1: those other cat lovers. Yeah, okay, yeah, so let's go
Speaker 1: on and push him. Here we go, and we'll see
Speaker 1: what Seth has to say. Let's do it. Hello. Hey
Speaker 1: is this seth Um? This is Seth. Hey. My name
Speaker 1: is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Okay, Hi, Seth. The whole crew is here.
Speaker 1: Good morning, the crew of the radio. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we're a crew. Yeah, crew, Okay, we just want to
Speaker 1: put We just want to talk to you about some stuff. What. Sorry,
Speaker 1: I know this must be kind of confusing, but we're
Speaker 1: doing something that we do on our show called a
Speaker 1: second date update. How did you get my number? Good question? Well,
Speaker 1: we got it from one of our listeners who got
Speaker 1: it from you, and that listener is Janine. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: you went on a date with Janine a little over
Speaker 1: a week ago. It sounds like we went on a date. Why.
Speaker 1: What is the why? Well, the way that this works
Speaker 1: is Janine has reached out to us because she hasn't
Speaker 1: heard from you in quite a while, and she doesn't
Speaker 1: really understand why we're hoping maybe we can help get
Speaker 1: her some answers. I mean that's a little that's a
Speaker 1: little personal. Okay, well never mind it. Sorry for bothering me,
Speaker 1: Thank you for your good man. Can we just start
Speaker 1: with a simple question like did you like her? Um? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's definitely super cute for sure, really really sweet person like,
Speaker 1: oh this sounds awesome? Oh yeah, So what's holding you
Speaker 1: back from wanting to see her again? I just think
Speaker 1: sometimes like nice girls like Janine is just like not
Speaker 1: really for me in a way. What do you mean?
Speaker 1: I can kind of feel your you met her on
Speaker 1: a cat daity map. What did you expect, like you
Speaker 1: find a bunch of bad girls there? I mean, well,
Speaker 1: you know, we talked a lot, we had a really
Speaker 1: nice time, but it was just like I kind of
Speaker 1: thought like maybe we were going to hook up, but
Speaker 1: it just I don't know it just so you felt
Speaker 1: the same way that you did. She was like why
Speaker 1: didn't they hook up? So I did say, like, you guys,
Speaker 1: didn't you know make out or kis at all? But
Speaker 1: it's a first date and everybody has different boundaries and
Speaker 1: that's like understandable. But that doesn't mean that, like, so
Speaker 1: it just feels like you were just wanting her to
Speaker 1: hook up that night and then you wouldn't have called
Speaker 1: her back anyway. No, she did. I wouldn't say that.
Speaker 1: It's more like I just think, like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I just think like she's a really nice person. You
Speaker 1: keep saying that, Yeah, so what do we tell her
Speaker 1: if she if she would have, if she would have
Speaker 1: made out with you, then you would have called her back.
Speaker 1: But since she didn't, she's too innocent for you. It's
Speaker 1: not like, um, a little like naive about certain things.
Speaker 1: And I don't I don't, I don't know. That's all
Speaker 1: I want to say. It's obviously I hear you. I
Speaker 1: know you. You might think that she's really sweet and
Speaker 1: naive and innocent. She's cunning, isn't she has? Yeah, she
Speaker 1: has a little bit of cunning to her because she's
Speaker 1: actually been on the other line quietly listening this entire time. Seth, Wait,
Speaker 1: I wants talk to you. Are you serious? Yeah, Janine?
Speaker 1: Are you there? Him? I'm a little wait, Janine, this
Speaker 1: is really you? Yeah? Hi, it's Janine. Um, I do
Speaker 1: really know what to do, and I really liked you
Speaker 1: and I just wanted to go on another date with you,
Speaker 1: so I kind of did this silly thing. What are
Speaker 1: you feeling right now, Janie? Are you mad or where
Speaker 1: are you at? Um? I guess I just thought that
Speaker 1: we had a connection, So I don't know, like if
Speaker 1: you needed something more for me, I wish you had
Speaker 1: just said something to me. It's a good point, like
Speaker 1: did you even make a move? No, you're like, I'm
Speaker 1: just not like a pure hearted good person as much
Speaker 1: as like what probably Jane because she's waved just like
Speaker 1: better than me in that respect with a cat, Like
Speaker 1: why do you want a cat? Danty nap? Then? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like are you some drug dealer or something? What are
Speaker 1: you doing on the side? No, I'm not a drug dealer. No,
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're saying because I had a
Speaker 1: different impression of you. But also like are you meeting
Speaker 1: other people on this app? Because I don't know if
Speaker 1: you're going to find a better connection what we had.
Speaker 1: It's true like I introduced you to my cat and
Speaker 1: she really liked you, and that never happens, Like it
Speaker 1: literally never happened. She hasn't like anybody, and so I
Speaker 1: mean that's one of the big reasons that I'm reaching
Speaker 1: out to. It kind of felt like fate and the cat,
Speaker 1: like you got I know, I know, I knew the
Speaker 1: cat was gonna like me. That's not really like the
Speaker 1: why why do you say that? Yeah, yeah, I'll put
Speaker 1: it to you this way. I was reading this like, um,
Speaker 1: it's like a men's blog just to so dating advice
Speaker 1: kind of like tips and stuff. Um, if you're looking
Speaker 1: for certain dating apps with like a certain ratio of
Speaker 1: like girls to guys, you got to look in like
Speaker 1: certain corners. So like the cat app kind of fit
Speaker 1: pretty perfectly because like there's not there's way fewer guys
Speaker 1: on there than there are into cats. I don't actually
Speaker 1: have a cat the way, how did how did you
Speaker 1: know the cat was gonna like you? Then? If you
Speaker 1: don't even have a cat, well, I um, I use
Speaker 1: a cheat CODEE I put a little cat nip in
Speaker 1: my pocket. Oh you are a drug dealers, I guess
Speaker 1: in a way, yeah, I do. I do keep something
Speaker 1: on me. I guess did you have any idea? No?
Speaker 1: And I also I don't understand. You posted a bunch
Speaker 1: of pictures of your cat and then we literally talked
Speaker 1: about your cat for half of the conversation and I
Speaker 1: I mean, I like cats, but that's my sister's cat.
Speaker 1: Oh so you we're just looking to get laid. He's
Speaker 1: got it all down to a science. Though. This is
Speaker 1: like a weird cat fishing situation. Somehow cat actual cats,
Speaker 1: azing cat. We all got it it kind that was
Speaker 1: kind of good. Can I just I'm generally uncomfortable with
Speaker 1: this whole setup, but that was a decent Joe. Did
Speaker 1: he do it? Okay? Oh? Man? I mean I'm actually
Speaker 1: really upset because I really liked you, and so it
Speaker 1: sounds like number one, you're a path to watchful liar,
Speaker 1: and two that you're just going around and you're toying
Speaker 1: with people's emotions. Like so, I knew he would get upset.
Speaker 1: You did say he owned up to this. He tried
Speaker 1: to get out, and you reeled them in. And I'll
Speaker 1: give you props that you didn't follow through with it.
Speaker 1: It's all you hooked up with her, took advantage that night. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if she was willing, she's too sweet. He can't do
Speaker 1: it to her. Oh he would. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: mean from everything that we've heard, the connection that you
Speaker 1: two had was real. The only thing that he lied
Speaker 1: about was owning a cat which just turns out to
Speaker 1: be his sisters, and having the cat nip in his pockets.
Speaker 1: Other than that, it was genuine. Yeah, but he but
Speaker 1: he came in like Janine took it as they had
Speaker 1: a good connect and that there was going to be
Speaker 1: a further relationship, like she wanted to develop something. He
Speaker 1: just wanted a one night stand. But he didn't even
Speaker 1: do that. But he would have, but he didn't. I mean,
Speaker 1: you're all, you're all right. I did like her. We
Speaker 1: didn't hook up because I would have felt bad. I
Speaker 1: know that that's not what she's looking for. So I
Speaker 1: figured it'd be easier if we just like had a
Speaker 1: really nice night and then never talked again after that. Well,
Speaker 1: but I mean, I just don't understand if if you
Speaker 1: like her, you respect her, you think she's beautiful, you
Speaker 1: get along with her cat, then why not at least
Speaker 1: see her one more time the cat nap she knows
Speaker 1: the truth, Nay, see if there's actually a real connection there.
Speaker 1: I mean, Janine, are you even open to that anymore?
Speaker 1: I no, No, Like I said, I went on that
Speaker 1: app looking for quality people, and this is just not
Speaker 1: I guess I can't really ask. Then if you guys
Speaker 1: would want to go out on a second date and
Speaker 1: we would pay for it, go to Petco SECN. I
Speaker 1: just ask you. Are you still on the app? Um? Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's like, no, I moved over to the iguana app.
Speaker 1: Those girls are free, Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.