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Speaker 1: I signed up for gas stationmatch dot com. Is that

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Speaker 1: why you were hanging outside? What was it? A seven

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Speaker 1: the one where Janine met her dude recently, and now

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Speaker 1: she's reached out to us for help. So Janine, welcome

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Speaker 1: I'm so curious. Jeffer's got me intrigued. Is it really

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Speaker 1: is it? It's a dating site called cavvy. It's where

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Speaker 1: cat owners meet. Okay, that's cool. So you're a cat owner. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I have a calico cat named Molly. Okay, so you

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Speaker 1: kind of a smart place for men to go. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: on the app did you match with? Who's he? So?

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Speaker 1: I mass with this guy named Seth? And so we

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Speaker 1: started talking. Is there a lot of like cat puns

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Speaker 1: You know we're kind of nerdy. Yeah, I like it.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's cute. That's where you're supposed to nerd

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Speaker 1: oup this, Yeah, this is where the ball of yarn

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Speaker 1: your connection with Seth? We had fun banter cool. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like I'm always so interested in that, Like you've never

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Speaker 1: what Seth has to say. Let's do it. Hello. Hey

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Speaker 1: is this seth Um? This is Seth. Hey. My name

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Speaker 1: is jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. Okay, Hi, Seth. The whole crew is here.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, the crew of the radio. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: second date update. How did you get my number? Good question? Well,

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Speaker 1: you went on a date with Janine a little over

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Speaker 1: Thank you for your good man. Can we just start

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Speaker 1: Are you there? Him? I'm a little wait, Janine, this

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Speaker 1: did you even make a move? No, you're like, I'm

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Speaker 1: just not like a pure hearted good person as much

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Speaker 1: I mean, Janine, are you even open to that anymore?

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Speaker 1: I no, No, Like I said, I went on that

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