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Speaker 1: Well he's like, he's like, you know, you don't need

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Speaker 1: The next day we had dinner and it was a

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Speaker 5: I did that one time. I took care of my

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Speaker 1: Come on?

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Speaker 5: So like she took me to sushi and and dinner

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Speaker 5: My great grandfather did have like eleven brothers, though you.

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Speaker 4: You're like, it's a big responsibility, big responsibility.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's me some comments. So Zero Joke says, it

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Speaker 1: I think we often are talking about love.

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Speaker 2: But the real question is do you love us?

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Speaker 1: If I am good to be walking hand in hand

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Speaker 1: I don't think I want anyone else. Cassie's everything one

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Speaker 1: Thanks everyone, you're all so kind. And there is another

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Speaker 1: to get cuter.

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Speaker 2: Dude, I don't know if I can take it.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, really quick, pitstop is op making all the right moves?

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Speaker 1: Should he continue down this relationship? Let us know in

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Speaker 1: the comments right now, John, what do you think?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, it's so adorable. They both seem like they're falling

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Speaker 2: Five, Oh so cute.

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Speaker 3: If I was Cassie, I'd be like, Yo, it's go

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Speaker 1: Let's go time right now?

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Speaker 2: Floor you me now done.

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Speaker 5: I have an apple orchard life seven minutes from my

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Speaker 1: All Riley wants to take some lucky lady to the

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Speaker 3: You have rillyed harder on this episode than any episode

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Speaker 2: After I looked after her goats.

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Speaker 1: I've read on here so far. Believe me, I'm no

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Speaker 5: Really, sometimes it's like a shock at first, it's like

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Speaker 3: Great, you filthy, filthy boys. Not even that funny to you,

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Speaker 3: old man, Oh, prim and proper, properst She hugged me

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Speaker 2: Damn dude, going crazy over here.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel like a narn high schooler again. This

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Speaker 1: is good as unusual Elevator two, five to three OP.

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Speaker 1: He responds, well, I've posted a few Mani ones in

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Speaker 1: going to surprise Cassie with a weekend ski trip. He's

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Speaker 2: There you go, bro is too perfect? What is this?

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Speaker 4: Billy eilisht I'm Joe's I'm wow.

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Speaker 3: But there is an update woo. One and a half

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Speaker 3: years later, whoa, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend just sent me roses to my workplace and

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Speaker 1: So I'm typing this out to get rid of all

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Speaker 1: Now I'm on my break and I can't stop thinking

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Speaker 1: about how much this completely caught me off guard. Can

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Speaker 1: someone please talk me down from going out to buy

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Speaker 1: her a ring after work?

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Speaker 2: Loll the cutest story ever.

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Speaker 1: I'm not talking you down. Go do it, do it?

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Speaker 1: At it?

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Speaker 3: Hey.

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Speaker 1: Everyone, I'm finally off work and I'm really flustered. But

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Speaker 1: Problem is, I don't know what yet. She deserves absolutely everything,

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Speaker 1: but I can't think of anything that would equal this.

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Speaker 1: I do have an idea of taking her on a

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Speaker 1: the woman in my story is Cassie from my previous posts,

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Speaker 1: and I do have some relevant comments close it out.

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Speaker 1: But everyone in the comments here, John, should he pop

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean I feel like, you know, year and.

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Speaker 4: A half, year and a half, I feel like the

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Speaker 1: Vibes are there. But part according five to four one

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Speaker 1: says so sweet, not going to stop you. Little Joe

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Speaker 1: Nicks five says if they're already talking about marriage being

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Speaker 1: Try to be a downer. I just don't want either

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Speaker 1: of you to get hurt. You both sound so sweet

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Speaker 1: and like an amazing couple. Try hard. Nineteen seventy six

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Speaker 1: Don't f this up by ever taking her for granted.

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Speaker 1: She's a keeper and you have to commit to being

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Speaker 1: relationship and scrub liminol says he's a keeper. She's a keeper.

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Speaker 1: Her son, Kenny's a keeper. This is a happy update.

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Speaker 2: Of the updates.

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Speaker 3: That story was awesome, so cute, so cute, cuteness overload.

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Speaker 1: Cute is O. I think Opie should maybe uh drop

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Speaker 1: some thoughts about marriage and maybe they should get together.

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Speaker 2: That was a good point.

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Speaker 3: If I haven't already, like had discussions in the past,

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Speaker 3: it would be good to do that.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, absolutely, yeah the vibes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like something that we've like. A rule

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Speaker 1: that we've learned on this show is marriage should never

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Speaker 1: be a surprise, but the proposal should be yes. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: But what do you think? Put your answers in the

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Speaker 1: comments below. Should Ope go in for the marriage? Is

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Speaker 1: Opie doing anything wrong? Is Opie going too slow? Who knows?

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Speaker 1: Let us know. Put your answers in the comments. Also,

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Speaker 1: do you have any qutes in your life that are

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Speaker 1: treating you right, giving you flowers? Tell us about it?

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Speaker 2: Let us know and the comments below.

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Speaker 1: But if you love these two qts, make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 2: We love you qtie and see it tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: This is an episode from Deep Within the Archives.

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Speaker 3: Time for okop rewash, I told my fat friend she's

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Speaker 3: fat and should feel bad?

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? My friend? Female twenty one

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Speaker 2: Tara has.

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Speaker 3: Always been a little bit overweight, big girl, and in

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Speaker 3: the past she couldn't accept it.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh already in the first sentence, the first

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Speaker 2: sentence were hero fe could accept how fat she was?

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Speaker 3: What she has tried so many diets but nothing lasted

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Speaker 3: for more than a few weeks. And as quote, her

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Speaker 3: love for food is so strong.

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Speaker 2: Who doesn't love food? Bruh?

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Speaker 1: Opi is like the bitchy girl at the popular kids

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Speaker 1: table a.

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Speaker 3: Few years ago she met a guy and that was

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Speaker 3: the hint she needed to get some serious help from

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Speaker 3: a professional doctor and start exercising. Also, op is not

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Speaker 3: like laying out like what where is she at? Like

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Speaker 3: if we're talking my six hundred pound life?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to know. I want to know, like

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Speaker 1: how big? How big a girl? We got?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I need to say she looked stunning after a

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Speaker 3: few months and was able to catch the guy. Let's

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Speaker 3: say that the pandemic got the best of them and

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Speaker 3: after long years of a relationship, he dumped her, so

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Speaker 3: if she looked stunning after a few months, like it's

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Speaker 3: a few months is not a lot of time to

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Speaker 3: lose weight, so she probably wasn't that overweight. She regained

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Speaker 3: almost all the weight she had lost previously, but after

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Speaker 3: some time, I and other friends managed to make her

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Speaker 3: get standing on her feet again. She came back to

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Speaker 3: hanging out with us, and she flirted with some guys,

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Speaker 3: but nothing serious. In the meantime, another girl joined our group.

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Speaker 3: Let's call her Maya. Maya's the kind of girl that's

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Speaker 3: naturally fit and doesn't need exercising at all, and that's

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Speaker 3: something Tera couldn't accept.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: She began teasing her all the time, saying things like, hey,

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Speaker 3: don't hug her too tight, you might break her, or hey,

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Speaker 3: how do you manage to hook up with guys?

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Speaker 2: A boy could crush you?

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Speaker 3: And I'm glad I gained my weight back because I

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Speaker 3: used to look like you. Okay, that's a little much,

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Speaker 3: that's that's too much, or even at least I have

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Speaker 3: some meat they can grab. If a boy grabbed you,

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Speaker 3: where would he put his hands your collar bones? Okay,

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Speaker 3: that's too fun, it's so bit What is wrong with everybody?

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Speaker 2: Everyone sucks everyone, Yeah, like this.

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Speaker 3: Maya always tried to laugh it off as she was

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Speaker 3: the new girl, but I could see her not being

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Speaker 3: comfortable at all last night. After the upteenth comment, I

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Speaker 3: blurted out, at least she conveyed some a pair of chains. Yo,

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Speaker 3: damn bro oh pay, this is freaking These people suck.

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Speaker 3: I would not want to be friends with any Yeah,

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Speaker 3: this friend circle, Maya leaving? Yeah yeah, Sam's like, oh something,

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Speaker 3: Maya naturally fill It's good respectfully, respectfully, this is a joke.

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Speaker 2: This humor satire disclaimer here.

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Speaker 3: Tara suddenly fell silent as the rest of the group

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Speaker 3: turned their heads towards me, and I continued, Oh hope,

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Speaker 3: he's not stopping there.

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Speaker 2: Bruh.

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Speaker 3: You shouldn't body shame someone over jealousy, and you shouldn't

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Speaker 3: be proud of being overweight either.

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Speaker 1: Yo.

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Speaker 3: You know that doesn't help with your medical conditions. Damn

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Speaker 3: good God Almighty. Tara stormed away, and a few girls

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Speaker 3: followed her to check in on her. Everyone called me

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Speaker 3: an a hole, saying that I shouldn't make fun of

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Speaker 3: her being overweight, nor should I bring up her medical

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Speaker 3: conditions in front of someone who doesn't know her that

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Speaker 3: much fair. I told them that it's hypocritical that they

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Speaker 3: would scold me about saying that something that's at least true.

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Speaker 1: Yo, you're being an asshole.

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Speaker 2: Of stop me.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't say a thing to Tara as she was

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Speaker 3: body shaming Maya, So am I the a hole.

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Speaker 1: Everyone's a fucking asshole here. Everyone sucks so much, dude.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be friends with any of you,

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Speaker 1: not at all at all. This is so bad, I

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Speaker 1: mean so bad. But Sam, there's an update. Oh, tonight,

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Speaker 1: I went to dinner to one of my friend's houses.

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Speaker 1: Tara and Maya were there. I knew that, and that's

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Speaker 1: partially why I wrote the post. As I arrived, I

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Speaker 1: to Tara and went into a separate room with her.

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Speaker 1: I told her I was sorry for what I said,

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Speaker 1: but that I talked out of frustration, and I also

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Speaker 1: told her that I think her bullying Maya all the

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Speaker 1: time is not cool at all, and that she should apologize.

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Speaker 1: She nodded and said that.

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Speaker 3: She totally understood my point of view, but wasn't going

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Speaker 3: to apologize because this wasn't the situation. Everything seemed fine

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Speaker 3: between us, even though I wasn't totally happy. With her answer,

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Speaker 3: and we went back to the others. Literally twenty minutes ago,

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Speaker 3: we had dessert. Do you see where I'm going?

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Speaker 2: Oh? No?

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Speaker 3: As I was eating my first bite of the cake,

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Speaker 3: Tara announced, as everyone knows, O P thinks I'm fat,

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Speaker 3: so I decided to go on a diet.

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Speaker 2: I almost choked.

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Speaker 3: Everyone laughed out of embarrassment, not knowing exactly what to

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Speaker 3: say or do. Then Maya turned her head and said, well,

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Speaker 3: that's the smartest thing I've heard you say.

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Speaker 1: Y my, I hate I know I'm Amaya did I

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Speaker 1: thought Maya was going to be like Redeeving Switzerland. Yoh

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Speaker 1: she no, she said, actually stooped down to the level.

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Speaker 3: I'm riding this from the passenger seat of Maya's car.

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Speaker 3: We both left the house because there's been a huge

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Speaker 3: fuss over Maya's comment. Both of us are realizing that

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Speaker 3: you don't have to hang out with people you don't

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Speaker 3: like anymore just because you were friends in high school.

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Speaker 1: I don't like you, please, I damn. These people like

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Speaker 1: need to rethink how they operate around people.

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Speaker 2: You're canceled who