1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 1: It is asked the CLO with Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. Ready, Steve, 2 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 1: here we go. This one's from Marshall in Kansas City. 3 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: Marchelle says, I reconnected with a male friend after five 4 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: years of not talking because his sex was garbage. We 5 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: did it only once and I put him in the 6 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 1: friend zone afterwards. He wants us to try dating again. 7 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 1: So should I test the waters first to see if 8 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: he's better at sex? 9 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 2: I mean, what are you talking about? Should I test 10 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 2: the waters first before you what? 11 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 3: She does it again? 12 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 2: What do you mean test the waters first before she 13 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:42,600 Speaker 2: does it again? How do you test the water? 14 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:44,480 Speaker 4: It right on into the water again? 15 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: She wants to do it. 16 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's asked, Well, she did it, that's all. 17 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,200 Speaker 2: She did before? It was She did it one time. 18 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 2: It was garbage. She put him in the friend zone. 19 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 2: Now she's calling us to say, should I test the 20 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 2: waters again before I go in? 21 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 4: How do you test the waters? You will have sex 22 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 4: with you dude again? Right? 23 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 3: She wants to see if he's learned anything. If he's well, only. 24 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 4: One way to find out. You can't ask you what 25 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 4: you're gonna ask? Are you still garbage and bad? Baby? 26 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 4: I ain't never done. 27 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 2: I learned how to do it, yet I turned him up. 28 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 2: I turned him out, But he got five years. Depending 29 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 2: on how old he is, you know, if he and 30 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 2: his farty, it's gonna be the same. Now, if he 31 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 2: was twenty one, might be in for a surprise. 32 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 4: Oh it's a big surprise. But if it's. 33 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 2: Forty forty five, he the same dude, misguiding women. 34 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 4: He's a tide. 35 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 3: Should she take a chance or not? 36 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 2: Oh, you ain't the only that's why he available? You 37 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 2: ain't the only one. Discovery why you think every time 38 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: you talk to him, his is available? 39 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 4: That part after? Yeah, all right, go ahead, all right, 40 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 4: here we. 41 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: Go, Suki and Oklahoma, says my seven year old son told. 42 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 3: Me that his teacher is a brown cow. 43 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 1: He said his classmates call her that his teacher is black, 44 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: and he is one of the only three blacks in 45 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: the class. Do I need to start calling these racist 46 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: parents or should I talk to the principal? 47 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, you need to start calling these racist parents and 48 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 2: start with your little racist boy. 49 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 4: They got him. He down there repeating what he hear. 50 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 4: She's the brown cow. 51 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,519 Speaker 2: And it's to be a minute, and y'all need to 52 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 2: check you. Yeah, yeah, because this is how it starts. 53 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 2: If it goes unchecked, it gets it gets out of head. 54 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 4: And he's and he's seven, So yeah, you got to 55 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:48,799 Speaker 4: say something. 56 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right. Dakwanda in Terrytown says, my 57 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 1: husband told me that he offered his coworker a ride 58 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: to work after her car was stolen. I found her 59 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: page on Instagram and she's got a lot of revealing 60 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: pictures of her big old butt and she's cute. You 61 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 1: forbid him from taking her to work? 62 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 2: Why do you think he offered to ride. That's why 63 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 2: he offered to ride. So you can forbid him or 64 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 2: whatever you want. But you know he already offered. 65 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: Nice. 66 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 3: He wanted a friend. He wasn't doing that. 67 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 4: He wants a friend? 68 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 2: What s it's being nice? 69 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 4: For? 70 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 2: What me and everything men do is with purpose. Every 71 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 2: single thing is with purpose. Packing because you need a ride, 72 00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 2: let her daddy take her to work. She ain't got 73 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 2: no girlfriends can drop us off. But the women on 74 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 2: the job just got caused. Why you volunteer? You already 75 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 2: know the conversation he catches here, Go ahead and pick 76 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 2: up and see what happened. 77 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 4: Trying to be a better person than get a woman 78 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 4: to ride. That's all. I'm just trying to better get 79 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 4: an uber apping. 80 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 2: I don't get the problem all this stuff that's out here. 81 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:26,600 Speaker 2: Now she need to ride. Her car got stove. Now 82 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 2: you're finish, take our car over there in that racked 83 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 2: neighborhood and now we ain't got no ride. 84 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 4: You breaking it down yellow. 85 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 1: So you're telling Dakwanda, yes, she should forbid her husband 86 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:43,160 Speaker 1: from taking her to work. 87 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 4: Why he tell her all he had to do was 88 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:51,159 Speaker 4: go and pick her up. Well you even early? 89 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 2: Now you know I got some pre work things I 90 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 2: got to do. Anything can happen though, right because I 91 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 2: mean God forbid if you get an accident with this woman. 92 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 4: Well it's happening now. He'd have told the truth. And 93 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 4: look where he be a strawberry letter. I told you 94 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 4: all about this truth. 95 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 2: Now, I have told you over and over about this truth. 96 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 2: Just walking in the house confessing so stupid behind it 97 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 2: ain't tired for that. Now you'd have looked up her 98 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 2: page here he but if she wouldn't fine, it'd be okay. 99 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 2: If she wasn't fine, you wouldn't be offering the ride. 100 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 4: It's a catch twenty two I get it, understand. 101 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 2: Don't I want the lookly people that they call man. 102 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 2: I'm going to work people talking, well, Look who Steve 103 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 2: got over there? Boy? 104 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 4: He ain't doing good, is it? Man? Look at that dude. 105 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 4: He got a ride hair mo in the work. I 106 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 4: know I'll get a divorce. Just ain't about white. They 107 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 4: know what you're looking at over here. 108 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 2: This ain't Joe carm find your business. 109 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 3: He's being a nice man, just helping it help. 110 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 2: Wonderful personality too beautiful on the inside. 111 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 3: All right, Moving on last one. 112 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 1: Crazy uh Vedra in Memphis says, I've been dating a 113 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 1: guy for a while and his eight year old son 114 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 1: is very rough and likes to tackle me and wrestle 115 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 1: with me. I've had several bruises, and I've asked him 116 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: to control his son, but he won't. I avoid the 117 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: boy whenever possible, because I'm going to hurt him. Should 118 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,559 Speaker 1: I knock his little butt out one good time? 119 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 2: That's what you got to do it he coming at 120 00:06:55,720 --> 00:07:00,040 Speaker 2: a tackle, Just raise your knee, put it dead on 121 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 2: his chin, rock his little oop. Sorry, here's what you do. 122 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 2: Tackle him when he tackle him first he ain't looking. 123 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 2: Just put your foot in his lower back and send 124 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 2: him across the room dead into them blinds. He's eight. 125 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 4: Now you need it, and I stop all that tackling. 126 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: Uh huh, why what? Why wasn't his dad saying. 127 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 2: My grandson used to bite me when he saw me that. 128 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 2: I beat his back and we stopped all the biting ended. 129 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 3: You're listening hard Morning Show