WEBVTT - Finding Your Confidence with Jonathan | Golden Hour

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>joining us another week. We're so excited to be back.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing today, Susan?

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<v Speaker 2>Much better? All the antibiotics are done. I'm freezing here,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's a good day.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, Susan and I were both sick.

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<v Speaker 1>I was sick for literally over a month, and we

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<v Speaker 1>both single handedly kept pharmaceutical companies in business. And I

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<v Speaker 1>personally just want to thank the creators of z Pax

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<v Speaker 1>personally thank them and steroids.

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<v Speaker 2>I went on steroids till.

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<v Speaker 3>It has been.

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<v Speaker 1>It has been a brutal, brutal winner for sickness.

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<v Speaker 2>But better now we have positive things coming up. First

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<v Speaker 2>of all, I hope you guys that are listening have

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<v Speaker 2>checked out some of our latest episodes. We've been having

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of fun in this new year, answering your

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<v Speaker 2>question and chatting with all your Bachelor Nation fans.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, don't you think now that it's

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<v Speaker 1>a new year, and you know we're well into the

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<v Speaker 1>new year. Now people aren't drinking because you know, dry January,

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<v Speaker 1>genuine and you know, fabulous fair February whatever they do

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<v Speaker 1>in February, so they have time to listen to us, right, but.

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<v Speaker 2>How about our special guests today? You want to introduce here, Kathy.

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<v Speaker 1>They're definitely going to be listening to this one. We

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<v Speaker 1>have one of the heart throbs of Jones season on

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<v Speaker 1>the Golden Bachelorette. Please help us welcome Jonathan.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Jonathan, how are you?

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<v Speaker 2>Hello?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi?

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<v Speaker 5>How are you? My gosh? Heartthrow are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 2>You're looking good? Jonathan?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you I'm doing pretty good.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Holidays and everything went well.

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<v Speaker 4>Everything went well, like no snow on the ground here

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<v Speaker 4>in the Midwest, so just nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, So wait you are in. Tell me where

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<v Speaker 1>you are now and where you live and where you're from.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm writing a book here.

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<v Speaker 5>I need the details, all right, So you want the details? Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm originally from Kansas City, Missouri, so that's kind

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<v Speaker 4>of neighborhood to which tak Kansas where.

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<v Speaker 2>Chalk is from Chalk is, Yeah, And.

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<v Speaker 4>I relocated up here to Omaha, Nebraska, where I work currently.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that why you relocate it? Because of work?

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<v Speaker 4>I relocated? Well, well, so we're going back Kansas City.

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<v Speaker 4>I moved up here in Omaha back in eighty nine

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<v Speaker 4>to like spread my wings as a youngster, and so

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<v Speaker 4>my mom had relocated up here a few years after

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<v Speaker 4>I had graduated high school, and so I kind of

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<v Speaker 4>was helping her out with her move and all that

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<v Speaker 4>other stuff. Next thing, you know, life happens, and I

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<v Speaker 4>ended up in Omaha, and so I work in Omaha, Nebraska,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm currently living in Oakland, Iowa, which is about

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<v Speaker 4>a forty minute commute east of Omaha.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you like it up there in Oakland? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 5>mean I like it.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it's a small community of about maybe fifteen

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<v Speaker 4>hundred people, so it's a small, quiet area.

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<v Speaker 3>Not very diverse though, But say you're not a big

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<v Speaker 3>city guy.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I am a big city guy. I'm from Kansas City, Missouri.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's why I'm asking.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm saying you, well, yeah, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>The only reason I'm in Oakland, Iowa is my kids

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<v Speaker 4>are there. You know. You know, my my daughter is

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<v Speaker 4>going to be a senior in high school next year,

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<v Speaker 4>and then my son will be a freshman in high

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<v Speaker 4>school next year. So I'm there for at least another

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<v Speaker 4>five years.

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<v Speaker 1>Your kids are young, how is that racing teenagers?

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<v Speaker 5>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Everything, everything is good, I mean, my you know, when

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<v Speaker 4>I hear about people having trouble with teenagers, is I

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<v Speaker 4>don't understand because both of my kids are A plus students.

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<v Speaker 4>They're doing well in athletics and all their scholastics and

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<v Speaker 4>their friendships and so it's all good.

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<v Speaker 1>So so you know, I was an educational consultant for

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<v Speaker 1>thirty five years. Oh okay, so you can call me

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes time for college.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, perfect.

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<v Speaker 4>I would love to do that, you know, because you know,

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<v Speaker 4>being a you know, being in Oakland, Iowa, and being

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<v Speaker 4>a single dad, and some times, you know, I may

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<v Speaker 4>have some issues the questions that you know, i'd need

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<v Speaker 4>your advice.

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<v Speaker 2>What any of us we were all moms?

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<v Speaker 5>What year?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, how old is your oldest child?

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<v Speaker 3>What? What?

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<v Speaker 1>What?

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<v Speaker 3>Age?

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<v Speaker 1>School?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, my daughter is sixteen and so she's a junior

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<v Speaker 4>in high school. Now big time.

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<v Speaker 3>You're already in the college thing now then? Or should be?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we're pretty close. She's already actually starting to look

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<v Speaker 5>at prospects for colleges for volleyball. She's a really good

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<v Speaker 5>volleyball player. And I don't think I need this.

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<v Speaker 1>Is she being is she being recruited?

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<v Speaker 3>Is she being recruited.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, yeah, she's been recruited.

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<v Speaker 4>I think she did a summer camp about a year

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<v Speaker 4>or two years ago at the University of Iowa. That's

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<v Speaker 4>where her mother is an alumni. And uh so she's

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<v Speaker 4>a big Hawkeye fan. So she went to this Hawkeye

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<v Speaker 4>summer camp and she actually got approached by the head

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<v Speaker 4>coach of Iowa.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, offline, feel free, Jonathan to reach out to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be happy to, you know, share my welcome.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so we're talking about your daughters. I've got some

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<v Speaker 2>juicy questions though. I hear that maybe you're in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this true?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? Did you hear that?

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<v Speaker 1>What I want to know is is this a new relationship?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you know this person before?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe had you met her at a previous time in

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<v Speaker 1>your life?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what the scoop?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, the scoop is Okay, so we're Gosh, on the seventeenth,

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<v Speaker 4>it'll be six months. So wow, So here's here's the scoop.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I love a man that knows the little anniversary.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, you know, I'm close.

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<v Speaker 1>And may I say, since everything on the internet is true,

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<v Speaker 1>she's beautiful, but carry out.

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<v Speaker 5>We want the d well, thank you, thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean that she definitely stole my heart, that's

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<v Speaker 4>for sure.

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<v Speaker 5>So so here's the scoop.

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<v Speaker 4>So, so you know, Joan didn't didn't keep me along

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<v Speaker 4>for the hometown visits, and so I came back to

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<v Speaker 4>Iowa with my tail between my legs, so to speak.

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<v Speaker 4>And you know, I started this whole journey looking for love,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, And so when I came back, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I was a little dejected, and so I kind of

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<v Speaker 4>I eventually went back online and I was just like

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<v Speaker 4>swiping and looking and and then I came across Michelle's

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<v Speaker 4>pictures and she eventually contacted me. We connected and uh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it's it's it's been a beautiful pigure.

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<v Speaker 2>That's beautiful, all right. Which which site were you on?

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<v Speaker 5>Let's just say I was stung by a bee a Bumble.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know?

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<v Speaker 1>The founder of Bumble is a woman and she lives

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<v Speaker 1>in Austin, Texas. Her husband started and I want to say,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure which one, maybe Hinge and she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>why shouldn't women get a post?

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<v Speaker 3>And so she started Bumble.

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<v Speaker 2>That is true every time I was ever on Bumble,

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<v Speaker 2>and as well, Hinge. Everybody's from New York. There was

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<v Speaker 2>nobody local. Is she local?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 4>She you know, yeah, I mean you you two were

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<v Speaker 4>in Saucelito not too long ago, right she uh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>so she's from sauce Alito.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right. I got the message from the Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, So what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>What what happened is then when I when I was

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<v Speaker 4>on bumble and I saw our picture, I think something

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<v Speaker 4>about her location or whatever. I think she was in

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<v Speaker 4>the Midwest. And so that's how I connected with her.

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<v Speaker 4>And then she discovered that I wasn't from Oakland, California,

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<v Speaker 4>but I was in Oakland, Iowa. Yeah, and so she

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<v Speaker 4>was originally born in Ames, Iowa. And so so that's

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<v Speaker 4>how we kind of connected. I was like, there's that

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<v Speaker 4>small possibility.

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<v Speaker 3>Is one of you moving to the others neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 5>You're moving fast, aren't you anywhere?

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<v Speaker 2>Your kids girls and son? Did they?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what?

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<v Speaker 4>I got this five year six year window, like when

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<v Speaker 4>my son graduates and both my kids are kind of

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<v Speaker 4>off doing their thing. It's like I got this. You

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<v Speaker 4>know this, uh, this the this chapter to turn and

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I love. I'm loving California, but man,

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<v Speaker 4>it's expensive.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh gosh, it is being you're happy.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, thank you. I really appreciate that. I

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<v Speaker 4>truly am happy. I mean, she's a she's a wonderful woman.

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<v Speaker 4>She has a wonderful spirit. She has a playfulness that

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<v Speaker 4>that I think we both connect on and we just

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<v Speaker 4>have fun with each other.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's why I think that's what I love about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Since I'm sitting here speechless, because I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was going to ask him, would you go to Paradise?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess you're out.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>She was going to ask if you would go to

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<v Speaker 1>a Bachelor Golden Bachelor in Paradise if they had one,

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<v Speaker 1>You're out.

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<v Speaker 5>They I would go to Bachelor in Paradise.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't bring her, You can't bring the show?

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<v Speaker 5>Why no, No, I didn't say why I said.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, I, you know, if they had me on

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<v Speaker 4>a as a cameo to like, you know, give the

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<v Speaker 4>guy some advice on whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well okay, so I haven't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really serious and very happy that you're happy. It's

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<v Speaker 1>with you know, everyone who finds love. I'm rooting for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah yeah, But I just want to get back

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<v Speaker 1>to Jones show for a minute. Your dancing skills at

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<v Speaker 1>the at the uh strip you call whatever you want,

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<v Speaker 1>like the fundraiser, Yeah, the fund raiser.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you telling me?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you you didn't like you previous experience, Jonathan? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do you want to fess up on that?

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, you had to have been a dancer.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, like professionally.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you just can dance. You got lose.

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<v Speaker 5>I can dance. You give me, you give me a beat.

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<v Speaker 4>My body, my body just does things that goes to

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<v Speaker 4>the beat, and.

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<v Speaker 2>So look good. You had the world watching.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh well, thank you, thank you. Yeah you know I did.

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<v Speaker 5>I did say.

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<v Speaker 4>I did say on the man tell all that I

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<v Speaker 4>did audition once for a mail strip, ben you. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>it was almost like the flash dance thing. I walked

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<v Speaker 4>in with this long Australian writing coat, my high black

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<v Speaker 4>boots up to my knees, my boom box, and I

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<v Speaker 4>played like Prance or something like that.

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<v Speaker 5>But I didn't do it. So that was you.

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<v Speaker 3>You were a real shy guy growing up.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, you know, actually I was.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I grew up in a small basically all

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<v Speaker 4>small Catholic schools growing up, and I was the only

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<v Speaker 4>student of color up until, like I think my junior

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<v Speaker 4>year or whatever, And so I had this big afro,

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<v Speaker 4>I had these big thick glasses. I wore corduroy bill

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<v Speaker 4>bottom pants.

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<v Speaker 2>That was the style.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, sure, so I was.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to say I was a nerd, but

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<v Speaker 4>you know what, I kind of felt a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>out of place, you know, being amongst you know. So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I was kind of shy, but I got along well

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<v Speaker 4>with everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you feel out of place at all when you

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<v Speaker 2>got to the mansion with all the men?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, not really.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean the only thing, the only thing that I

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<v Speaker 4>felt maybe out of place with the men is like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what, you know, what is this? What has

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<v Speaker 4>this guy done for a living? What is he retired?

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<v Speaker 4>Does he own a business? Does he on a restaurant?

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<v Speaker 4>Does he own a yacht?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that the male competitive deal?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Am I measure up? Is that what?

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<v Speaker 2>That's all?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I think so?

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<v Speaker 4>But you know what also too, I mean growing up

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<v Speaker 4>as kid, I had like I had low self esteem issues,

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<v Speaker 4>and so you know there's always that a certain sense

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<v Speaker 4>of uh, evaluating my inner work with someone else's outward network.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I just I just I get that that

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<v Speaker 3>is so smart?

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<v Speaker 1>What you just said, but it's also interesting as I

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't know you. I've just getting to

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<v Speaker 1>know you now. But what's interesting is you project you're

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<v Speaker 1>a very handsome man. You know that you're you're you

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<v Speaker 1>seem to be a very kind man, and you project

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<v Speaker 1>this confidence. And it's just a reminder to everyone that

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<v Speaker 1>we all have a history, right, we all have the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that you said that you know you you were

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<v Speaker 1>not confident. That it's just interesting to me. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>it's just I'm just commenting that, uh, you wouldn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>would never think that about you based on the man

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<v Speaker 1>you are today are now?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, oh well, thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>I would just I would just say it's just years

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<v Speaker 4>of experience of growing into it.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we want to get to know you even more. Wow, and.

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<v Speaker 3>The fans, so.

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<v Speaker 1>We you're going to help us also give a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of advice to some folks in Bachelor Nation. But

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<v Speaker 1>I first want to ask you, and we've asked many

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<v Speaker 1>of the Golden Men this question.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what does it mean to you? And Jonathan? How

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<v Speaker 3>old are you? Sixty two?

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<v Speaker 5>Sixty sixty two?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, sixty two, Okay, so I'm not sixty two I'm

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<v Speaker 1>seventy one and Susan sixty seven. What does it mean

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<v Speaker 1>to you to be in your golden years?

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<v Speaker 4>Gosh, you know what, For me, it's like I really

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<v Speaker 4>you know, for me, I think that's just the title.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't feel like I'm golden, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel I feel like my spirit is so youthful.

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<v Speaker 4>From inside of myself, I'm grateful that I'm that my

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<v Speaker 4>physical body is healthy, and I still want to be active.

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<v Speaker 4>I still want to lift weights, I still want to

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<v Speaker 4>like do cardio. But from the inner spirit, I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>I would actually say that the way I feel inside,

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<v Speaker 4>I would say I probably feel like I'm in my

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<v Speaker 4>early forties is the way I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you I feel so since and I talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this a lot. We feel the same way. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't date guys my own age. They don't have

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<v Speaker 1>enough energy.

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<v Speaker 2>The attitude about energy and energy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>But don't you feel like at the stage in your

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<v Speaker 2>sixties you've been through so much and you're more knowledgeable

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<v Speaker 2>and you know what to sweat out, what not to

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<v Speaker 2>sweat out, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Not to It's kind of one of those things that's

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<v Speaker 4>like you know, I look at my life in retrospect, like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, if I would have known what I know

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<v Speaker 4>is nothing, I probably would have made some changes. It's like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, especially okay, So for me, like in the

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<v Speaker 4>golden years, the one thing I can probably relate to

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<v Speaker 4>is that, you know what, there's a lot of like

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<v Speaker 4>financial knowledge that I have required later in my life.

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<v Speaker 4>But I wish I would have known younger in my.

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<v Speaker 3>Life, like what give me? Tell me?

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<v Speaker 1>What give me what?

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't have that family structure, So like what if

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<v Speaker 4>I had a family or a father, which I grew

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<v Speaker 4>up without a father or a father that was like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, said, hey, you know what, son, is very

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<v Speaker 4>important that you save early and teach me the principle

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<v Speaker 4>of compound, of compounding, and because right now it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what if I would have saved like at

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<v Speaker 4>sixteen years old or seventeen years old, even whether I

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<v Speaker 4>was working at you know, a fast food restaurant or whatever,

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<v Speaker 4>just want to yeah, yeah, just making a small little

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<v Speaker 4>contribution over these years and multiplying with the compound, I'd

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<v Speaker 4>be in a way better off shape than I am.

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<v Speaker 5>Round.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you teaching your children, are you teaching your children.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, I actually have learned those principles through work here,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, you know what, it's important for me

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<v Speaker 4>as a father, since I didn't get that from a father,

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<v Speaker 4>to pass that on to my children, even though that

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<v Speaker 4>they're young. At least the seeds plant. They may forget

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<v Speaker 4>about it for now, but at least that'll be my

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<v Speaker 4>responsibility that when they are starting to work to kind

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<v Speaker 4>of red to reiterate that principle to them.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I wish that. You know, I was in education

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<v Speaker 3>for a lot of years.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish that that was required teaching kids need to

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<v Speaker 1>learn the principles of money and just learn investing to check.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And you know what I and I think I think

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<v Speaker 4>in our school district at Riverside UH in Oakland, I

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<v Speaker 4>think they are that's part of the curriculum, you know, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, they're they're getting wiser as well. So let me

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<v Speaker 2>ask you. You said your holidays were good. Is there

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<v Speaker 2>anything I don't know if you're a New Year's resolution guy,

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<v Speaker 2>or anything you want to be more aware of or

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<v Speaker 2>something you would like to accomplish in this twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 4>Gosh, you know what I mean, there's there's there's new

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<v Speaker 4>goals and objectives I think that are that are starting

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<v Speaker 4>to come to fruition in my mind. And but I

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<v Speaker 4>think as far as like the New Year's resolution that

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<v Speaker 4>I post on my Instagram was that it came to

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<v Speaker 4>me is that I want to invest in people that

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<v Speaker 4>are going to invest in me. It's like you know

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<v Speaker 4>what relationships, friendships. You know, over the past years we

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<v Speaker 4>talked about experiences that is that people say they're going

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<v Speaker 4>to do something and I count on it, I rely

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<v Speaker 4>on it, and then it doesn't happen. That's and uh,

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<v Speaker 4>I have confidence in myself and what I can do.

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<v Speaker 4>If I don't know how to do something, I'm believing me.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna learn how to do it. But you're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>have my You're gonna have one hundred percent Jonathan, You're

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<v Speaker 4>gonna have my loyalty, You're gonna have my commitment. And

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<v Speaker 4>so as I'm sixty two, I want to be with

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<v Speaker 4>people or get involved with people that are going to

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<v Speaker 4>invest in me because you know what, they're going to

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<v Speaker 4>get that investment back, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you do for a living? I'm curious.

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<v Speaker 4>I work for a company that's basically in a data

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<v Speaker 4>analytics and consulting business, and so and so I work

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<v Speaker 4>in the what we call our document services support, uh,

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<v Speaker 4>kind of a logistics you know. We do a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of shipping on materials, curriculating things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, all right, So I wanted Susan to ask

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<v Speaker 1>this question, but she's not going to. So I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to ask it because Susan is divorced and I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm very curious about this answer. Okay, So you

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<v Speaker 1>did open up about your divorce on the show. What

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<v Speaker 1>was it like navigating that while also being a parent

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<v Speaker 1>and and you know, finding love again. What advice do

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<v Speaker 1>you have for parents on how to navigate a life

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<v Speaker 1>transition like that? Because my parents were divorced when I

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<v Speaker 1>was six, but my husband passed away. But I'm very

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<v Speaker 1>curious you're answering.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, okay, Yeah, that's a very good question. Thank you

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<v Speaker 4>for asking that because it helps validate or gives closure too.

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<v Speaker 4>From the very beginning when I thought about being on

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<v Speaker 4>the show, that was one of my main concerns. Was

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<v Speaker 4>I know that's going to come up, and how am

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<v Speaker 4>I going to address it? You know, had I had

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<v Speaker 4>to be very mindful and consider it of the divorce,

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<v Speaker 4>of my marriage, of my ex wife, and of my

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<v Speaker 4>children if they happened to see the show, or some

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<v Speaker 4>of their kids or parents see the show. So I

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<v Speaker 4>had to be careful about how I got that out

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<v Speaker 4>and and I wanted to do it in a way

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<v Speaker 4>that was going to be anyone enough that people could

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<v Speaker 4>understand what happened without going into any other nasty details.

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<v Speaker 4>It really wasn't It really wasn't a nasty divorce other

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<v Speaker 4>than it just caught me blindsided, right, And there were

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<v Speaker 4>some questions that, you know, I read some comments and said, well,

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<v Speaker 4>how could be blindsided? Sure you could have seen it coming,

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<v Speaker 4>but you know what, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't don't always coming right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And it's like, you know, I I tried to

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<v Speaker 4>look at it from different angles, but it's like, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what, Yeah, I was blindsided. And so I had

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<v Speaker 4>to be very careful and mindful about that how I

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<v Speaker 4>how I would tell Joan that and just to let

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<v Speaker 4>you know, when I when I said that that part

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<v Speaker 4>of my life about the divorce with Joan, I wanted

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<v Speaker 4>her to kind of get the gist of what it

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<v Speaker 4>was about, but for her to see how it affected

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<v Speaker 4>me because you know, just even talking to it about

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<v Speaker 4>it now just kind of makes me a little emotional.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean to upset you. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not upset at all, but leave me. I am

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<v Speaker 4>one hundred percent heeled, just like you know what, but

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<v Speaker 4>just like you know when you talk about things and

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<v Speaker 4>things happen and I and I was committed to the

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<v Speaker 4>show that to be vulnerable and let those things come

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<v Speaker 4>out as they happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think the show helped you be who you

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<v Speaker 2>are right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, absolutely, you know, because the fact that I got

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<v Speaker 4>selected for the show is like just it's amazing.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a blessing. It's a blessing, and so I believe

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<v Speaker 5>things happen for a reason.

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<v Speaker 4>And to think that I got picked out of the

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<v Speaker 4>thousands of men in just my vicinity and there's think

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<v Speaker 4>about the whole country, is such a privilege and such

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<v Speaker 4>a blessing that that there has to be something on

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<v Speaker 4>a very spiritual.

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<v Speaker 5>Message or.

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<v Speaker 2>Purpose that I was and sharing telling other men, as

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<v Speaker 2>we tell women, don't ever give up. There's so many

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<v Speaker 2>opportunities still.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you know what they're going to be, but absolutely Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>it took me.

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<v Speaker 4>It took me a while to get over my divorce,

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<v Speaker 4>and it took me a while to go out on

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<v Speaker 4>some dates, and it took me a while to But.

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<v Speaker 3>Look where you are now. I always say look forward.

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<v Speaker 3>I try, as I've said. You know, I've had some

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<v Speaker 3>horrible things in my life. You have Jonathan, so is Susan.

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<v Speaker 1>We all have.

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<v Speaker 2>You.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't get to the age that we are without

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<v Speaker 1>having some incredible triumphs and some incredible failures and sadness

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<v Speaker 1>in our lives. It's just that's what it is. But

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<v Speaker 1>I prefer and it sounds like you do, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know Susan does, and maybe it's our age. We focus

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<v Speaker 1>on the positive things. We take the lessons from the hardships,

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<v Speaker 1>but we focus on the good.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't forget them, but you learn from things. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's all about being happy right now. Yeah, and sharing

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<v Speaker 2>a smile and kindness.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Jonathan tell us to make sure his kids get

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<v Speaker 1>their homework done, so you know he's got that all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Since you seem Jonathan to be that's a wise not

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<v Speaker 1>a wise guy, but a wise man.

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<v Speaker 5>At the philadelphia'll show you was a wise guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Look at him. Going from Boston. We'll talk about Boston.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll go to some patties, get.

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<v Speaker 5>Some I want to get some clum chowder in Boston.

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<v Speaker 2>I want Kathy, you skipped over the line there.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you see it? What I think?

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<v Speaker 2>Katy?

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<v Speaker 1>And I am like, what, totally I saw it? Totally skipped.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the questions Jonathan was who do you think

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<v Speaker 1>would be a good match for us?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, who would you match me up with? Who

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<v Speaker 3>would you match Susan up?

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<v Speaker 1>But since most of y'all, as we say in Texas,

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<v Speaker 1>are already taken, we just thought we'd skip on past

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<v Speaker 1>that one.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah okay, yeah, yeah, yeah. A lot of guys are

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<v Speaker 5>like fell into relationships.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yes, it's all right, they're all you know that.

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<v Speaker 1>That speaks well of you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>We were saying earlier that women are on social media,

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<v Speaker 2>on Instagram, on everything, and they're not shy anymore. They

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<v Speaker 2>reach out to you guys, and men are not. The

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<v Speaker 2>men don't even know how to get on.

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<v Speaker 1>And they're not on it and they're shy. Okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna move on with advice because that's where we are.

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<v Speaker 1>So Michael, you just we're gonna Rea. I'm gonna read

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<v Speaker 1>a question. You're just gonna tell us what you think,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna we're gonna make Michael's get some advice. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Michael asked, Hi, Kathy and Susan. My sister loves your podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I hear her listening to it all the time. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys give really good advice. So I thought i'd reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to see if you can help me. I really

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<v Speaker 1>like this girl that is in the sorority. My frat

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<v Speaker 1>always mixes with I'm not the best with girls, so

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea how to approach her. We've only

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<v Speaker 1>met in passing a few times, so I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to approach her. What do you think I should do?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to ask her on a date, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to freak her out. What says you, Jonathan,

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<v Speaker 1>how does he get this? How does he lock down

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<v Speaker 1>the steel?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay? So this is my advice. This is something that

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<v Speaker 5>I wish I would have been able to do as

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<v Speaker 5>a young man.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, because I get I get very I don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to say envious of jealous of guys who are like

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<v Speaker 4>assertive and you know they just if they see a

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<v Speaker 4>woman that they like you, just so my advice. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>so I'm getting to the point. My advice is for

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<v Speaker 4>this young man is just be take a take a

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<v Speaker 4>take a big deep breath, know what he wants to ask,

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<v Speaker 4>and then just find that right moment and then just

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<v Speaker 4>say can I can I talk with you for a second,

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<v Speaker 4>and and then ask her out.

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<v Speaker 5>That's that's what I would suggest.

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<v Speaker 2>The worst that could happen is she says no, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think there's going to be a freak out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that is insecurity, I think absolutely feeling like she's going

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<v Speaker 2>to freak out. Just say hey, I was thinking would

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<v Speaker 2>you like to get together? Sometimes like real not you lot.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Michael, I will say to you. My advice

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<v Speaker 1>is very similar to Jonathan's and Susan's. The fact is,

0:23:59.600 --> 0:24:02.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, take good risks in your life. Asking this

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<v Speaker 1>girl out is a good risk. What is the worst

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<v Speaker 1>that can happen? The answer could be no, you move on.

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<v Speaker 1>A bad risk is like jumping off the Empire State Building.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, don't do that to get a date with her.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know you don't want to spend your time

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<v Speaker 1>saying I wish you don't want to get.

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<v Speaker 2>To our end regret and say I wish I ask I.

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<v Speaker 1>Wish I had asked her out. I wished I had

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<v Speaker 1>booked because what's the worst thing? You pick yourself up

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<v Speaker 1>and say, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>We say that now because we're here. But I remember

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<v Speaker 2>feeling that way being that young, of course, But Michael,

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<v Speaker 2>you're as intimidated, you're you know, get over that, be

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<v Speaker 2>a man and just okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But she could do real quickly. Jonathan, what would you say, Uh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, Michelle reached out. I can't remember you said,

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<v Speaker 1>Michelle reached out to you?

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<v Speaker 3>Or you reach out?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So okay, so you know you know how bumble works.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that ice wife? Because I see, I saw.

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<v Speaker 2>The women do the work.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, until until she responds. Then that then I know

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<v Speaker 5>that she's interested.

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<v Speaker 3>So so no, I know, wipe.

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<v Speaker 1>But the point is once you once you swiped that

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<v Speaker 1>you were interested and she reached out to you, then

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<v Speaker 1>how did you feel about that being you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's different, Like you knew she was interested because she swiped.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you know what from from the moment her her

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<v Speaker 4>first words to me was it just it just made

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<v Speaker 4>my heart warm.

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<v Speaker 3>And Jonathan, what were those words?

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<v Speaker 5>Something about you know? Something about she she said something

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<v Speaker 5>about my eyes.

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<v Speaker 4>She could tell something about my eyes was was warm

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<v Speaker 4>and kind or something along along that line. And so

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<v Speaker 4>that that let me know that she just wasn't looking

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<v Speaker 4>at you know. We made an eye connection, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>And I think, you know, the eyes are like, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>connection to your.

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<v Speaker 5>Soul, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think eyes and we you know, we've interviewed

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of the eyes from your season, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm not I think it's almost universal that we've

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<v Speaker 1>all said it's a smile and it's the eyes. That's

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<v Speaker 1>where I see all the time when people say, what's

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<v Speaker 1>the first thing you noticed about somebody, it's their eyes

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<v Speaker 1>and their smile.

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>And that that's why I chose the blindfold from my

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<v Speaker 4>uh my entrance out of the limo, because I remember

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted the eye contact between Joan and I, that

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<v Speaker 4>that first initial eye contact to see if there was

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<v Speaker 4>going to be something there, you know, so what and

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<v Speaker 4>and that's with with with Michelle's pictures, That's what I saw,

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<v Speaker 4>was that eye contact.

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<v Speaker 3>With Joan. Did you when did you apply for the show?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you apply because it was Joan or I didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't know it was gonna I didn't know it

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<v Speaker 5>was going to be Joan.

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<v Speaker 4>I was kind of hoping it was going to be

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<v Speaker 4>Joan because I had seen The Golden Bachelor and I

0:26:55.359 --> 0:26:58.200
<v Speaker 4>saw that when she had to leave and why she

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<v Speaker 4>had to leave, and.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't want us.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, no, no no no no.

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<v Speaker 2>That's thanks Jonathan.

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<v Speaker 3>Wrap this episode of.

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<v Speaker 2>Seriously, though, before we have to go, we've got to

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<v Speaker 2>play this little game, and this is about everybody else getting.

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<v Speaker 1>To know you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, all right, all right, We're going to

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<v Speaker 2>do easy little questions and everybody else listening will get

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<v Speaker 2>to know you a little bit better. Are you ready?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, I'm ready, Okay, We're gonna there's ten questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Who was your favorite band or musician where you were

0:27:35.280 --> 0:27:36.000
<v Speaker 2>in high school?

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<v Speaker 5>Michael Jackson?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right. What's your favorite way to unwind after

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<v Speaker 1>a long day?

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<v Speaker 4>Kick off my shoes, sit on my couch, and have

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<v Speaker 4>my dog jump on my chest and give me some

0:27:52.080 --> 0:27:52.600
<v Speaker 4>some licks on.

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<v Speaker 5>The top of my head.

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<v Speaker 3>What kind of dog? What kind of dog?

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<v Speaker 5>Charlie is a beshng Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>What is your favorite memory that you have when you

0:28:03.440 --> 0:28:04.240
<v Speaker 2>were a teenager?

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<v Speaker 4>My favorite memory when you were a teenager. Okay, I

0:28:10.520 --> 0:28:13.080
<v Speaker 4>remember my favorite memory was I was sitting outside of

0:28:13.160 --> 0:28:18.040
<v Speaker 4>high school. I had dropped out of the basketball tryal program,

0:28:18.160 --> 0:28:20.879
<v Speaker 4>and my high school basketball coach came up to me

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<v Speaker 4>one on one and basically I almost had like a

0:28:25.040 --> 0:28:27.440
<v Speaker 4>father's son conversation with me and said, hey, you know what,

0:28:27.600 --> 0:28:29.680
<v Speaker 4>You've got some potential, You got talent. If you would

0:28:29.680 --> 0:28:31.639
<v Speaker 4>have stuck with it, you'd be a great basketball player.

0:28:32.240 --> 0:28:34.720
<v Speaker 4>And he is like one of my mentors. He's my

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<v Speaker 4>almost my father. We still have a relationship to this day.

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<v Speaker 1>Lovely, how Jonathan, how tall are you?

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<v Speaker 5>Six ' four? So you met?

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<v Speaker 3>You would have made a great point guard.

0:28:45.320 --> 0:28:46.480
<v Speaker 5>If I had dribbling skills.

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<v Speaker 3>There is that what what would the title of your

0:28:52.520 --> 0:28:53.600
<v Speaker 3>autobiography be?

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<v Speaker 5>Title my autobiography?

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<v Speaker 2>It makes you think, doesn't that that question?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I would say, yeah, I kind of a go to

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<v Speaker 5>me myself.

0:29:05.320 --> 0:29:09.360
<v Speaker 2>And I okay, okay, if you were strict, we asked

0:29:09.520 --> 0:29:12.440
<v Speaker 2>everybody from the show by the way, ye a question

0:29:12.800 --> 0:29:15.600
<v Speaker 2>if you're stranded on a desert island and you could

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<v Speaker 2>only bring three guys from the mansion, who would they be?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, wait, to be fair, Susan, we've also said you're

0:29:24.360 --> 0:29:25.680
<v Speaker 3>taking Susan and me with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Regardless, who are the other three guys?

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<v Speaker 5>The other three guys? Okay, I would have to say Gary,

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<v Speaker 5>because you know Gary, I just love his laugh. I mean,

0:29:34.200 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 5>I got I can.

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<v Speaker 3>Hear like, oh look at you, imitatum.

0:29:42.080 --> 0:29:43.520
<v Speaker 5>That's perfect. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I love Gary Keith bless a lot too.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I'd love to bring Jordan because he's like has

0:29:50.040 --> 0:29:55.760
<v Speaker 4>that comic relief. And I'd have to bring Jack, you know, Jack, Jack, Jordan,

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:56.200
<v Speaker 4>and Gary.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you see them all? Can you get together with

0:29:58.240 --> 0:29:58.760
<v Speaker 3>these guys?

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't I have and so far, you know, but

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<v Speaker 4>we we're kind of out the group text kind of

0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 4>thing going on, and so yeah, we're kind of making

0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:05.600
<v Speaker 4>plans for that.

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<v Speaker 5>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>If you could bring back any fashion trend or old slang,

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<v Speaker 1>what would it be, and please don't say long basketball shorts?

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<v Speaker 3>Go ahead? What would you bring back?

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<v Speaker 5>Gosh? You know what? I would probably bring back bell

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:25.600
<v Speaker 5>bell bottom and platform shoes.

0:30:26.440 --> 0:30:31.600
<v Speaker 2>Like the platform. I wear the Bell platform comfortable.

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<v Speaker 5>Keep thinking about John Travolta, you know, you know, do.

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<v Speaker 2>You have any fashion regrets from your younger days? Oh?

0:30:41.440 --> 0:30:44.440
<v Speaker 5>Regrets? Gosh?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that's not even a good question. What would

0:30:47.040 --> 0:30:49.200
<v Speaker 2>you regret you were wearing it because it was in style.

0:30:49.440 --> 0:30:50.160
<v Speaker 2>We're going to skip that.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>What's one thing about you now that you think would

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<v Speaker 2>surprise your younger.

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<v Speaker 3>Self to that for you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, not about your hair, that you are as confident

0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:06.000
<v Speaker 3>as you are now.

0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:08.920
<v Speaker 5>Oh that's that's very good. Absolutely, yep.

0:31:08.960 --> 0:31:12.520
<v Speaker 1>I would agree with it, just because I heard what

0:31:12.640 --> 0:31:16.240
<v Speaker 1>he said about his younger life. Now he wants his hair.

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<v Speaker 1>What you gonna say that he'ld be bald?

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<v Speaker 4>Despot on? Yeah, that I would be bald? Yeah, because

0:31:20.440 --> 0:31:23.160
<v Speaker 4>you know, well, yeah, this this happened. I never thought

0:31:23.200 --> 0:31:24.480
<v Speaker 4>that this happened by accident?

0:31:24.920 --> 0:31:27.000
<v Speaker 5>Can happen? This happened by accident?

0:31:27.240 --> 0:31:28.040
<v Speaker 3>What was the accent?

0:31:28.200 --> 0:31:30.600
<v Speaker 4>That I was on a date with the girl and

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:33.400
<v Speaker 4>was drinking one or two or maybe three bottles of

0:31:33.480 --> 0:31:36.280
<v Speaker 4>wine and she looked at me with a little cross eyes.

0:31:36.320 --> 0:31:41.360
<v Speaker 5>She goes, you would look really hot bald. Can I

0:31:42.080 --> 0:31:43.880
<v Speaker 5>did I cut? Can I cut your hair?

0:31:44.040 --> 0:31:46.520
<v Speaker 4>So she cut my hair and the next morning I

0:31:46.560 --> 0:31:49.080
<v Speaker 4>looked in the mirror, thinking I had like this really

0:31:49.120 --> 0:31:52.360
<v Speaker 4>cool haircut shaved, and it was just patches of hair.

0:31:54.320 --> 0:31:56.040
<v Speaker 5>So I had no recourse except.

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<v Speaker 2>Just to shave it all out, and you've been that

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<v Speaker 2>way ever since.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and then when I went to work, everyone said,

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<v Speaker 5>j R. What did you do to your head? We

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<v Speaker 5>love it? So I've been wearing it ever since.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's his way. Can I just say I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get to know you better. You're a

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<v Speaker 1>super nice guy. But I am going to question your judgment.

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<v Speaker 1>She and you let anyone do anything to you after

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<v Speaker 1>three bottles of why?

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<v Speaker 3>What the hell were you thinking?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he was drinking with so he didn't have good

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't say that.

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<v Speaker 3>He said. You didn't say that, Jonathan.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you know, you said she had three bottles

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<v Speaker 1>of why? Oh no, no, we had say you were

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<v Speaker 1>drunk too. All right, okay, you're off the hood, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>What's something you've always wanted to do but you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>done yet? And if what and whatever it is, why

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<v Speaker 1>haven't she done?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh gosh, there's a number of things, but I think

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<v Speaker 4>one of the things is go up a hot air balloon.

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<v Speaker 4>I've always wanted to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to I want to jump out of an

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<v Speaker 3>airplane in a parachute.

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<v Speaker 5>I would never do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I would do it in tandem. If I did it with,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a train person, I would really a trainer.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I would.

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<v Speaker 1>They asked me that when I was interviewing on the

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<v Speaker 1>show what's something you want to do? I said, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to jump up. I'm scared to death to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would do it if I was with an instructor,

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<v Speaker 1>you know instructor, or you're the looking guy who wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to date with me, I'd do with that.

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<v Speaker 5>Well there you go.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I think I think if

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<v Speaker 4>I went, if I went in the plane and flew

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<v Speaker 4>up and got to the point where its point time

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<v Speaker 4>to jump.

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<v Speaker 1>Push me, just push me out right.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's that's what you'd have to do.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you like roller coasters?

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<v Speaker 5>I do like roller coasters now, but as a kid

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>I remember my first, my first major roller coaster, going

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<v Speaker 4>up the you know, going up the incline.

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<v Speaker 5>I could hear the chains chaining and.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, oh god, I hope it doesn't fall.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I can almost get into the top. I

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<v Speaker 5>got so scared, I started screaming, Mama.

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<v Speaker 2>Get me up here. What more, what piece of advice

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<v Speaker 2>or bad that you received and you've never.

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<v Speaker 5>Forgotten advice that I received, good or bad, good.

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<v Speaker 2>Or bad advice, but that you never forgot. Somebody said

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<v Speaker 2>something to you at one time, you never forgot it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, don't let a due woman shave your head next time.

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<v Speaker 2>That was new advice.

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<v Speaker 5>But right, Oh my gosh, that's that's hard.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it is hard, Kathy.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know any that somebody gave you.

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<v Speaker 3>The best piece that I ever got that I've never

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<v Speaker 3>forgotten was.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're nervous about doing something new and you're walking

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<v Speaker 1>into a place where it's all new people. Whatever that

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<v Speaker 1>event is, it's okay because everyone's feeling the way you are,

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<v Speaker 1>So walk in feel confident because everyone's feeling the same

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<v Speaker 1>way you are.

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<v Speaker 5>That's good, that's good. Okay. I just remember one.

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<v Speaker 4>I just remember one, and it was it was it

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<v Speaker 4>was far as like I think, like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>did some acting at one point on stage whatever, like

0:35:07.840 --> 0:35:11.000
<v Speaker 4>you know, community theater. Remember or director told me once

0:35:11.160 --> 0:35:12.840
<v Speaker 4>is like if you if you forget your line or

0:35:12.840 --> 0:35:16.840
<v Speaker 4>if you forget your your movement, don't ever stop.

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<v Speaker 5>Just keep just keep moving and don't don't let them

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<v Speaker 5>see what you know is wrong.

0:35:24.120 --> 0:35:26.480
<v Speaker 3>It's the same thing like, don't let them see the Fair.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you sing, Jonathan, I have my I have my

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<v Speaker 5>moments where I tried to well know.

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<v Speaker 3>You said theater. Did you do musical theater?

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<v Speaker 4>I've done you. I've done a couple of music theaters.

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<v Speaker 4>The last one I did was I did rag Time

0:35:39.040 --> 0:35:41.440
<v Speaker 4>and so I did a little ensemble singing, so that

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<v Speaker 4>was pretty fun.

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<v Speaker 1>What what's your voice? Do you baritone tenor what are

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<v Speaker 1>you baritone? Baronet?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, as as I got older, my voice is

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<v Speaker 4>got raspier, or some people will say that I have

0:35:53.680 --> 0:35:56.480
<v Speaker 4>like this kind of a hairy Belafonte kind of a sound,

0:35:57.040 --> 0:36:00.560
<v Speaker 4>and sometimes it sometimes it's it's frustrating because I want

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<v Speaker 4>to articulate clear, Yeah, I hear this raspiness and like

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes it feels like I'm forcing my voice out.

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<v Speaker 3>So damn, this guy's talented.

0:36:09.920 --> 0:36:11.960
<v Speaker 2>He's got it all got it.

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:14.479
<v Speaker 3>You are an amazing guy. I was so good getting

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<v Speaker 3>to know you a little.

0:36:15.480 --> 0:36:17.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you it was our pleasure, haven't you really?

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<v Speaker 2>I can dance and I can.

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<v Speaker 3>Sing, you know what.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really sorry that we missed you in sas Alito,

0:36:27.840 --> 0:36:31.040
<v Speaker 4>because you want to that corner where you were is

0:36:31.280 --> 0:36:33.880
<v Speaker 4>literally right up the street, so I.

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<v Speaker 2>Can she had sent me an email and I just

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<v Speaker 2>now recently, within the last week, saw the message. Yea,

0:36:42.239 --> 0:36:45.239
<v Speaker 2>I took a hiatus in December. I didn't answer much.

0:36:45.320 --> 0:36:46.160
<v Speaker 2>I needed a little bit.

0:36:46.160 --> 0:36:49.359
<v Speaker 3>So wait, she lives in Sasito, where we reached out.

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<v Speaker 2>You're in our neighborhood, you're in our backyard, come see us.

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<v Speaker 5>We would have come absolutely, Yeah, of course.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember we walked on. We didn't know what to do

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<v Speaker 1>with ourselves. Yeah we did.

0:37:02.200 --> 0:37:04.600
<v Speaker 2>We had a day off and that's not normal. But

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<v Speaker 2>if so find out we're there again, text my bone.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, we got to make sure we got numbers.

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<v Speaker 3>Numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>If Michelle it emailed me, trust me, and my phone's

0:37:16.440 --> 0:37:18.000
<v Speaker 1>glued to me, I would have looked at it.

0:37:18.080 --> 0:37:21.160
<v Speaker 2>But yes, seeh I don't get notified for everything. It

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't even an email, it was a d M or whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>I okay, I will definitely do that. I'll definitely do that.

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<v Speaker 2>We will continue this at some point for sure. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's been a great episode. Thank you so much for coming.

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<v Speaker 5>On with us. Please thank you for having me.

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