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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: joining us another week. We're so excited to be back.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing today, Susan?

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Speaker 2: Much better? All the antibiotics are done. I'm freezing here,

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Speaker 2: but it's a good day.

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Speaker 3: You know, Susan and I were both sick.

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Speaker 1: I was sick for literally over a month, and we

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Speaker 1: both single handedly kept pharmaceutical companies in business. And I

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Speaker 1: personally just want to thank the creators of z Pax

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Speaker 1: personally thank them and steroids.

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Speaker 2: I went on steroids till.

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Speaker 3: It has been.

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Speaker 1: It has been a brutal, brutal winner for sickness.

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Speaker 2: But better now we have positive things coming up. First

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Speaker 2: of all, I hope you guys that are listening have

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Speaker 2: checked out some of our latest episodes. We've been having

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Speaker 2: a lot of fun in this new year, answering your

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Speaker 2: question and chatting with all your Bachelor Nation fans.

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Speaker 1: And you know what, don't you think now that it's

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Speaker 1: a new year, and you know we're well into the

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Speaker 1: new year. Now people aren't drinking because you know, dry January,

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Speaker 1: genuine and you know, fabulous fair February whatever they do

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Speaker 1: in February, so they have time to listen to us, right, but.

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Speaker 2: How about our special guests today? You want to introduce here, Kathy.

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Speaker 1: They're definitely going to be listening to this one. We

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Speaker 1: have one of the heart throbs of Jones season on

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Speaker 1: the Golden Bachelorette. Please help us welcome Jonathan.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Jonathan, how are you?

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Speaker 2: Hello?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 5: How are you? My gosh? Heartthrow are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: You're looking good? Jonathan?

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you I'm doing pretty good.

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Holidays and everything went well.

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Speaker 4: Everything went well, like no snow on the ground here

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Speaker 4: in the Midwest, so just nice.

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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, So wait you are in. Tell me where

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Speaker 1: you are now and where you live and where you're from.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm writing a book here.

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Speaker 5: I need the details, all right, So you want the details? Okay.

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Speaker 4: So I'm originally from Kansas City, Missouri, so that's kind

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Speaker 4: of neighborhood to which tak Kansas where.

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Speaker 2: Chalk is from Chalk is, Yeah, And.

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Speaker 4: I relocated up here to Omaha, Nebraska, where I work currently.

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Speaker 2: Is that why you relocate it? Because of work?

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Speaker 4: I relocated? Well, well, so we're going back Kansas City.

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Speaker 4: I moved up here in Omaha back in eighty nine

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Speaker 4: to like spread my wings as a youngster, and so

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Speaker 4: my mom had relocated up here a few years after

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Speaker 4: I had graduated high school, and so I kind of

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Speaker 4: was helping her out with her move and all that

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Speaker 4: other stuff. Next thing, you know, life happens, and I

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Speaker 4: ended up in Omaha, and so I work in Omaha, Nebraska,

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Speaker 4: and I'm currently living in Oakland, Iowa, which is about

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Speaker 4: a forty minute commute east of Omaha.

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Speaker 5: Do you like it up there in Oakland? Yeah, I

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Speaker 5: mean I like it.

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Speaker 4: I mean it's a small community of about maybe fifteen

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Speaker 4: hundred people, so it's a small, quiet area.

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Speaker 3: Not very diverse though, But say you're not a big

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Speaker 3: city guy.

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Speaker 5: No, I am a big city guy. I'm from Kansas City, Missouri.

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Speaker 2: So that's why I'm asking.

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Speaker 4: I'm saying you, well, yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: The only reason I'm in Oakland, Iowa is my kids

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Speaker 4: are there. You know. You know, my my daughter is

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Speaker 4: going to be a senior in high school next year,

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Speaker 4: school next year. So I'm there for at least another

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Speaker 4: five years.

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Speaker 1: Your kids are young, how is that racing teenagers?

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Speaker 5: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Everything, everything is good, I mean, my you know, when

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Speaker 4: I hear about people having trouble with teenagers, is I

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Speaker 4: don't understand because both of my kids are A plus students.

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Speaker 4: They're doing well in athletics and all their scholastics and

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Speaker 4: their friendships and so it's all good.

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Speaker 1: So so you know, I was an educational consultant for

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Speaker 1: thirty five years. Oh okay, so you can call me

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Speaker 1: when it comes time for college.

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Speaker 5: Okay, perfect.

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Speaker 4: I would love to do that, you know, because you know,

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Speaker 4: being a you know, being in Oakland, Iowa, and being

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Speaker 4: have some issues the questions that you know, i'd need

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Speaker 4: your advice.

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Speaker 2: What any of us we were all moms?

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Speaker 5: What year?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, how old is your oldest child?

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Speaker 3: What? What?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: Age?

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Speaker 1: School?

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Speaker 4: Okay, my daughter is sixteen and so she's a junior

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Speaker 4: in high school. Now big time.

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Speaker 3: You're already in the college thing now then? Or should be?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we're pretty close. She's already actually starting to look

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Speaker 5: at prospects for colleges for volleyball. She's a really good

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Speaker 1: Is she being is she being recruited?

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Speaker 3: Is she being recruited.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, she's been recruited.

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Speaker 4: I think she did a summer camp about a year

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Speaker 4: or two years ago at the University of Iowa. That's

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Speaker 4: where her mother is an alumni. And uh so she's

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Speaker 4: a big Hawkeye fan. So she went to this Hawkeye

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Speaker 1: Well, offline, feel free, Jonathan to reach out to me.

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Speaker 1: I'd be happy to, you know, share my welcome.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we're talking about your daughters. I've got some

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Speaker 2: juicy questions though. I hear that maybe you're in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: Is this true?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Did you hear that?

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Speaker 1: What I want to know is is this a new relationship?

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Speaker 3: Did you know this person before?

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Speaker 1: Maybe had you met her at a previous time in

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Speaker 1: your life?

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Speaker 3: You know what the scoop?

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Speaker 4: Okay, the scoop is Okay, so we're Gosh, on the seventeenth,

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Speaker 4: it'll be six months. So wow, So here's here's the scoop.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I love a man that knows the little anniversary.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you know, I'm close.

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Speaker 1: And may I say, since everything on the internet is true,

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Speaker 1: she's beautiful, but carry out.

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Speaker 5: We want the d well, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that she definitely stole my heart, that's

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Speaker 5: So so here's the scoop.

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Speaker 4: So, so you know, Joan didn't didn't keep me along

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Speaker 4: for the hometown visits, and so I came back to

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Speaker 4: And you know, I started this whole journey looking for love,

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Speaker 4: I was a little dejected, and so I kind of

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Speaker 4: I eventually went back online and I was just like

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Speaker 4: swiping and looking and and then I came across Michelle's

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Speaker 4: pictures and she eventually contacted me. We connected and uh, yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's it's it's been a beautiful pigure.

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Speaker 2: That's beautiful, all right. Which which site were you on?

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Speaker 5: Let's just say I was stung by a bee a Bumble.

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Speaker 4: Do you know?

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Speaker 1: The founder of Bumble is a woman and she lives

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Speaker 1: in Austin, Texas. Her husband started and I want to say,

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure which one, maybe Hinge and she was like,

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Speaker 1: why shouldn't women get a post?

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Speaker 3: And so she started Bumble.

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Speaker 2: That is true every time I was ever on Bumble,

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Speaker 2: and as well, Hinge. Everybody's from New York. There was

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Speaker 2: nobody local. Is she local?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: She you know, yeah, I mean you you two were

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Speaker 4: so she's from sauce Alito.

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Speaker 2: That's right. I got the message from the Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So what happened.

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Speaker 4: What what happened is then when I when I was

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Speaker 4: the Midwest. And so that's how I connected with her.

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Speaker 4: And then she discovered that I wasn't from Oakland, California,

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Speaker 4: but I was in Oakland, Iowa. Yeah, and so she

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Speaker 4: how we kind of connected. I was like, there's that

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Speaker 4: small possibility.

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Speaker 3: Is one of you moving to the others neighborhood.

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Speaker 5: You're moving fast, aren't you anywhere?

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Speaker 2: Your kids girls and son? Did they?

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Speaker 1: You know what?

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Speaker 4: I got this five year six year window, like when

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Speaker 4: know this, uh, this the this chapter to turn and

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Speaker 4: you know what I love. I'm loving California, but man,

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Speaker 4: it's expensive.

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Speaker 2: Oh gosh, it is being you're happy.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, thank you. I really appreciate that. I

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Speaker 4: truly am happy. I mean, she's a she's a wonderful woman.

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Speaker 4: She has a wonderful spirit. She has a playfulness that

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Speaker 4: that I think we both connect on and we just

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Speaker 5: And that's why I think that's what I love about it.

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Speaker 3: Since I'm sitting here speechless, because I.

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Speaker 2: Was going to ask him, would you go to Paradise?

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Speaker 2: I guess you're out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She was going to ask if you would go to

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Speaker 1: a Bachelor Golden Bachelor in Paradise if they had one,

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Speaker 1: You're out.

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Speaker 5: They I would go to Bachelor in Paradise.

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Speaker 1: You can't bring her, You can't bring the show?

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Speaker 5: Why no, No, I didn't say why I said.

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Speaker 4: I said, I, you know, if they had me on

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Speaker 4: a as a cameo to like, you know, give the

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Speaker 4: guy some advice on whatever.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well okay, so I haven't.

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Speaker 1: I'm really serious and very happy that you're happy. It's

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Speaker 1: with you know, everyone who finds love. I'm rooting for that.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah, But I just want to get back

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Speaker 1: to Jones show for a minute. Your dancing skills at

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Speaker 1: the at the uh strip you call whatever you want,

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Speaker 1: like the fundraiser, Yeah, the fund raiser.

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Speaker 3: Are you telling me?

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Speaker 1: Are you you didn't like you previous experience, Jonathan? Do

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Speaker 1: you want to do you want to fess up on that?

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Speaker 1: Come on, you had to have been a dancer.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, like professionally.

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Speaker 2: No, you just can dance. You got lose.

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Speaker 5: I can dance. You give me, you give me a beat.

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Speaker 4: My body, my body just does things that goes to

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Speaker 4: the beat, and.

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Speaker 2: So look good. You had the world watching.

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Speaker 5: Oh well, thank you, thank you. Yeah you know I did.

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Speaker 5: I did say.

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Speaker 4: I did say on the man tell all that I

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Speaker 4: did audition once for a mail strip, ben you. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 4: it was almost like the flash dance thing. I walked

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Speaker 4: in with this long Australian writing coat, my high black

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Speaker 4: boots up to my knees, my boom box, and I

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Speaker 4: played like Prance or something like that.

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Speaker 5: But I didn't do it. So that was you.

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Speaker 3: Am I measure up? Is that what?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh well, thank you.

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Speaker 4: I would just I would just say it's just years

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Speaker 5: I guess, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we want to get to know you even more. Wow, and.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what does it mean to you? And Jonathan? How

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Speaker 2: The attitude about energy and energy.

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Speaker 2: But don't you feel like at the stage in your

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Speaker 4: Not to It's kind of one of those things that's

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Speaker 3: Life, like what give me? Tell me?

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Speaker 3: Are you teaching your children, are you teaching your children.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, I actually have learned those principles through work here,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wish that. You know, I was in education

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Speaker 1: I wish that that was required teaching kids need to

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna learn how to do it. But you're gonna

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Speaker 3: But I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: I'm not upset at all, but leave me. I am

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Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, you know, because the fact that I got

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Speaker 5: It's a blessing. It's a blessing, and so I believe

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Speaker 4: And to think that I got picked out of the

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Speaker 2: Purpose that I was and sharing telling other men, as

448
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Speaker 2: we tell women, don't ever give up. There's so many

449
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Speaker 2: opportunities still.

450
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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what they're going to be, but absolutely Yeah,

451
00:19:59,320 --> 00:19:59,920
Speaker 5: it took me.

452
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Speaker 4: It took me a while to get over my divorce,

453
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Speaker 4: and it took me a while to go out on

454
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Speaker 4: some dates, and it took me a while to But.

455
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Speaker 3: Look where you are now. I always say look forward.

456
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:12,920
Speaker 3: I try, as I've said. You know, I've had some

457
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Speaker 3: horrible things in my life. You have Jonathan, so is Susan.

458
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Speaker 1: We all have.

459
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Speaker 2: You.

460
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Speaker 1: You don't get to the age that we are without

461
00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:25,520
Speaker 1: having some incredible triumphs and some incredible failures and sadness

462
00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:28,280
Speaker 1: in our lives. It's just that's what it is. But

463
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Speaker 1: I prefer and it sounds like you do, and I

464
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:35,120
Speaker 1: know Susan does, and maybe it's our age. We focus

465
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Speaker 1: on the positive things. We take the lessons from the hardships,

466
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Speaker 1: but we focus on the good.

467
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Speaker 2: You don't forget them, but you learn from things. And yeah,

468
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Speaker 2: it's all about being happy right now. Yeah, and sharing

469
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Speaker 2: a smile and kindness.

470
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Speaker 1: Well, Jonathan tell us to make sure his kids get

471
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Speaker 1: their homework done, so you know he's got that all right.

472
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Speaker 1: Since you seem Jonathan to be that's a wise not

473
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Speaker 1: a wise guy, but a wise man.

474
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Speaker 5: At the philadelphia'll show you was a wise guy.

475
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,360
Speaker 3: Look at him. Going from Boston. We'll talk about Boston.

476
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Speaker 3: We'll go to some patties, get.

477
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Speaker 5: Some I want to get some clum chowder in Boston.

478
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Speaker 2: I want Kathy, you skipped over the line there.

479
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Speaker 3: Did you see it? What I think?

480
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Speaker 2: Katy?

481
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Speaker 1: And I am like, what, totally I saw it? Totally skipped.

482
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Speaker 1: One of the questions Jonathan was who do you think

483
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Speaker 1: would be a good match for us?

484
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Speaker 3: You know, who would you match me up with? Who

485
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Speaker 3: would you match Susan up?

486
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Speaker 1: But since most of y'all, as we say in Texas,

487
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Speaker 1: are already taken, we just thought we'd skip on past

488
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Speaker 1: that one.

489
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Speaker 5: Yeah okay, yeah, yeah, yeah. A lot of guys are

490
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Speaker 5: like fell into relationships.

491
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, it's all right, they're all you know that.

492
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Speaker 1: That speaks well of you guys.

493
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Speaker 2: We were saying earlier that women are on social media,

494
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Speaker 2: on Instagram, on everything, and they're not shy anymore. They

495
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Speaker 2: reach out to you guys, and men are not. The

496
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Speaker 2: men don't even know how to get on.

497
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Speaker 1: And they're not on it and they're shy. Okay, but

498
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Speaker 1: we're gonna move on with advice because that's where we are.

499
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Speaker 1: So Michael, you just we're gonna Rea. I'm gonna read

500
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Speaker 1: a question. You're just gonna tell us what you think,

501
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Speaker 1: and we're gonna we're gonna make Michael's get some advice. Okay,

502
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Speaker 1: Michael asked, Hi, Kathy and Susan. My sister loves your podcast.

503
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:28,359
Speaker 1: I hear her listening to it all the time. You

504
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,560
Speaker 1: guys give really good advice. So I thought i'd reach

505
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Speaker 1: out to see if you can help me. I really

506
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Speaker 1: like this girl that is in the sorority. My frat

507
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 1: always mixes with I'm not the best with girls, so

508
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Speaker 1: I have no idea how to approach her. We've only

509
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:46,440
Speaker 1: met in passing a few times, so I don't know

510
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Speaker 1: how to approach her. What do you think I should do?

511
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Speaker 1: I want to ask her on a date, but I

512
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Speaker 1: don't want to freak her out. What says you, Jonathan,

513
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Speaker 1: how does he get this? How does he lock down

514
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Speaker 1: the steel?

515
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Speaker 5: Okay? So this is my advice. This is something that

516
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Speaker 5: I wish I would have been able to do as

517
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Speaker 5: a young man.

518
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Speaker 4: Okay, because I get I get very I don't want

519
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 4: to say envious of jealous of guys who are like

520
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:14,119
Speaker 4: assertive and you know they just if they see a

521
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Speaker 4: woman that they like you, just so my advice. Okay,

522
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Speaker 4: so I'm getting to the point. My advice is for

523
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Speaker 4: this young man is just be take a take a

524
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Speaker 4: take a big deep breath, know what he wants to ask,

525
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Speaker 4: and then just find that right moment and then just

526
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Speaker 4: say can I can I talk with you for a second,

527
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Speaker 4: and and then ask her out.

528
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Speaker 5: That's that's what I would suggest.

529
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Speaker 2: The worst that could happen is she says no, I

530
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Speaker 2: don't think there's going to be a freak out. Yeah,

531
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Speaker 2: that is insecurity, I think absolutely feeling like she's going

532
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Speaker 2: to freak out. Just say hey, I was thinking would

533
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Speaker 2: you like to get together? Sometimes like real not you lot.

534
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Speaker 1: You know, Michael, I will say to you. My advice

535
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 1: is very similar to Jonathan's and Susan's. The fact is,

536
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Speaker 1: you know, take good risks in your life. Asking this

537
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 1: girl out is a good risk. What is the worst

538
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,920
Speaker 1: that can happen? The answer could be no, you move on.

539
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:11,160
Speaker 1: A bad risk is like jumping off the Empire State Building.

540
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Speaker 1: You know, don't do that to get a date with her.

541
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Speaker 1: But you know you don't want to spend your time

542
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 1: saying I wish you don't want to get.

543
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Speaker 2: To our end regret and say I wish I ask I.

544
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Speaker 1: Wish I had asked her out. I wished I had

545
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Speaker 1: booked because what's the worst thing? You pick yourself up

546
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:29,159
Speaker 1: and say, okay.

547
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Speaker 2: We say that now because we're here. But I remember

548
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Speaker 2: feeling that way being that young, of course, But Michael,

549
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Speaker 2: you're as intimidated, you're you know, get over that, be

550
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Speaker 2: a man and just okay.

551
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Speaker 1: But she could do real quickly. Jonathan, what would you say, Uh, well,

552
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Speaker 1: wait a minute, Michelle reached out. I can't remember you said,

553
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Speaker 1: Michelle reached out to you?

554
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Speaker 3: Or you reach out?

555
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,400
Speaker 4: Okay, So okay, so you know you know how bumble works.

556
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Speaker 4: Is that ice wife? Because I see, I saw.

557
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Speaker 2: The women do the work.

558
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Speaker 5: Yeah, until until she responds. Then that then I know

559
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Speaker 5: that she's interested.

560
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Speaker 3: So so no, I know, wipe.

561
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Speaker 1: But the point is once you once you swiped that

562
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Speaker 1: you were interested and she reached out to you, then

563
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Speaker 1: how did you feel about that being you know, it's

564
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Speaker 1: it's different, Like you knew she was interested because she swiped.

565
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Speaker 4: Oh you know what from from the moment her her

566
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Speaker 4: first words to me was it just it just made

567
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Speaker 4: my heart warm.

568
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Speaker 3: And Jonathan, what were those words?

569
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Speaker 5: Something about you know? Something about she she said something

570
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Speaker 5: about my eyes.

571
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Speaker 4: She could tell something about my eyes was was warm

572
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Speaker 4: and kind or something along along that line. And so

573
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Speaker 4: that that let me know that she just wasn't looking

574
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Speaker 4: at you know. We made an eye connection, you know,

575
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Speaker 4: And I think, you know, the eyes are like, you know,

576
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Speaker 4: connection to your.

577
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Speaker 5: Soul, you know.

578
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Speaker 1: So I think eyes and we you know, we've interviewed

579
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Speaker 1: a lot of the eyes from your season, and I

580
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Speaker 1: think I'm not I think it's almost universal that we've

581
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Speaker 1: all said it's a smile and it's the eyes. That's

582
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Speaker 1: where I see all the time when people say, what's

583
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Speaker 1: the first thing you noticed about somebody, it's their eyes

584
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Speaker 1: and their smile.

585
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Speaker 5: Absolutely, you know.

586
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Speaker 4: And that that's why I chose the blindfold from my

587
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Speaker 4: uh my entrance out of the limo, because I remember

588
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Speaker 4: I wanted the eye contact between Joan and I, that

589
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Speaker 4: that first initial eye contact to see if there was

590
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Speaker 4: going to be something there, you know, so what and

591
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Speaker 4: and that's with with with Michelle's pictures, That's what I saw,

592
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 4: was that eye contact.

593
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Speaker 3: With Joan. Did you when did you apply for the show?

594
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Speaker 3: Did you apply because it was Joan or I didn't.

595
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Speaker 5: I didn't know it was gonna I didn't know it

596
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Speaker 5: was going to be Joan.

597
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Speaker 4: I was kind of hoping it was going to be

598
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Speaker 4: Joan because I had seen The Golden Bachelor and I

599
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 4: saw that when she had to leave and why she

600
00:26:58,320 --> 00:26:59,119
Speaker 4: had to leave, and.

601
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Speaker 1: He didn't want us.

602
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no no no no.

603
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Speaker 2: That's thanks Jonathan.

604
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 3: Wrap this episode of.

605
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Speaker 2: Seriously, though, before we have to go, we've got to

606
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,679
Speaker 2: play this little game, and this is about everybody else getting.

607
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 1: To know you.

608
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, all right, all right, We're going to

609
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:25,919
Speaker 2: do easy little questions and everybody else listening will get

610
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 2: to know you a little bit better. Are you ready?

611
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 2: All right, I'm ready, Okay, We're gonna there's ten questions.

612
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Speaker 2: Who was your favorite band or musician where you were

613
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 2: in high school?

614
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:38,679
Speaker 5: Michael Jackson?

615
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: Okay, all right. What's your favorite way to unwind after

616
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: a long day?

617
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 4: Kick off my shoes, sit on my couch, and have

618
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 4: my dog jump on my chest and give me some

619
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Speaker 4: some licks on.

620
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Speaker 5: The top of my head.

621
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Speaker 3: What kind of dog? What kind of dog?

622
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Speaker 5: Charlie is a beshng Oh?

623
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Speaker 3: Okay?

624
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Speaker 2: What is your favorite memory that you have when you

625
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Speaker 2: were a teenager?

626
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Speaker 4: My favorite memory when you were a teenager. Okay, I

627
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 4: remember my favorite memory was I was sitting outside of

628
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 4: high school. I had dropped out of the basketball tryal program,

629
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Speaker 4: and my high school basketball coach came up to me

630
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Speaker 4: one on one and basically I almost had like a

631
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Speaker 4: father's son conversation with me and said, hey, you know what,

632
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Speaker 4: You've got some potential, You got talent. If you would

633
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 4: have stuck with it, you'd be a great basketball player.

634
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Speaker 4: And he is like one of my mentors. He's my

635
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Speaker 4: almost my father. We still have a relationship to this day.

636
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Speaker 1: Lovely, how Jonathan, how tall are you?

637
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Speaker 5: Six ' four? So you met?

638
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Speaker 3: You would have made a great point guard.

639
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 5: If I had dribbling skills.

640
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 3: There is that what what would the title of your

641
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 3: autobiography be?

642
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 5: Title my autobiography?

643
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Speaker 2: It makes you think, doesn't that that question?

644
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 4: Yeah?

645
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 5: I would say, yeah, I kind of a go to

646
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 5: me myself.

647
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 2: And I okay, okay, if you were strict, we asked

648
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 2: everybody from the show by the way, ye a question

649
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 2: if you're stranded on a desert island and you could

650
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 2: only bring three guys from the mansion, who would they be?

651
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 3: Well, wait, to be fair, Susan, we've also said you're

652
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 3: taking Susan and me with you.

653
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 2: Regardless, who are the other three guys?

654
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Speaker 5: The other three guys? Okay, I would have to say Gary,

655
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Speaker 5: because you know Gary, I just love his laugh. I mean,

656
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 5: I got I can.

657
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Speaker 3: Hear like, oh look at you, imitatum.

658
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Speaker 5: That's perfect. Yeah.

659
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Speaker 2: I love Gary Keith bless a lot too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I'd love to bring Jordan because he's like has

661
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Speaker 4: that comic relief. And I'd have to bring Jack, you know, Jack, Jack, Jordan,

662
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Speaker 4: and Gary.

663
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Speaker 3: Do you see them all? Can you get together with

664
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Speaker 3: these guys?

665
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Speaker 4: I haven't I have and so far, you know, but

666
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Speaker 4: we we're kind of out the group text kind of

667
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 4: thing going on, and so yeah, we're kind of making

668
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Speaker 4: plans for that.

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Speaker 5: All right.

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Speaker 1: If you could bring back any fashion trend or old slang,

671
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Speaker 1: what would it be, and please don't say long basketball shorts?

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Speaker 3: Go ahead? What would you bring back?

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Speaker 5: Gosh? You know what? I would probably bring back bell

674
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Speaker 5: bell bottom and platform shoes.

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Speaker 2: Like the platform. I wear the Bell platform comfortable.

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Speaker 5: Keep thinking about John Travolta, you know, you know, do.

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Speaker 2: You have any fashion regrets from your younger days? Oh?

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Speaker 5: Regrets? Gosh?

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Speaker 2: I mean that's not even a good question. What would

680
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Speaker 2: you regret you were wearing it because it was in style.

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Speaker 2: We're going to skip that.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, thank you.

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Speaker 2: What's one thing about you now that you think would

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Speaker 2: surprise your younger.

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Speaker 3: Self to that for you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, not about your hair, that you are as confident

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Speaker 3: as you are now.

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Speaker 5: Oh that's that's very good. Absolutely, yep.

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Speaker 1: I would agree with it, just because I heard what

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Speaker 1: he said about his younger life. Now he wants his hair.

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Speaker 1: What you gonna say that he'ld be bald?

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Speaker 4: Despot on? Yeah, that I would be bald? Yeah, because

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Speaker 4: you know, well, yeah, this this happened. I never thought

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Speaker 4: that this happened by accident?

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Speaker 5: Can happen? This happened by accident?

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Speaker 3: What was the accent?

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Speaker 4: That I was on a date with the girl and

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Speaker 4: was drinking one or two or maybe three bottles of

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Speaker 4: wine and she looked at me with a little cross eyes.

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Speaker 5: She goes, you would look really hot bald. Can I

702
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Speaker 5: did I cut? Can I cut your hair?

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00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 4: So she cut my hair and the next morning I

704
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 4: looked in the mirror, thinking I had like this really

705
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Speaker 4: cool haircut shaved, and it was just patches of hair.

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Speaker 5: So I had no recourse except.

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Speaker 2: Just to shave it all out, and you've been that

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Speaker 2: way ever since.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and then when I went to work, everyone said,

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Speaker 5: j R. What did you do to your head? We

711
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Speaker 5: love it? So I've been wearing it ever since.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 1: That's his way. Can I just say I love you.

714
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Speaker 1: I want to get to know you better. You're a

715
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Speaker 1: super nice guy. But I am going to question your judgment.

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Speaker 1: She and you let anyone do anything to you after

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Speaker 1: three bottles of why?

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Speaker 3: What the hell were you thinking?

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Speaker 1: Well, he was drinking with so he didn't have good

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Speaker 1: He didn't say that.

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Speaker 3: He said. You didn't say that, Jonathan.

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Speaker 1: It's like you know, you said she had three bottles

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Speaker 1: of why? Oh no, no, we had say you were

724
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Speaker 1: drunk too. All right, okay, you're off the hood, all right.

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Speaker 1: What's something you've always wanted to do but you haven't

726
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Speaker 1: done yet? And if what and whatever it is, why

727
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Speaker 1: haven't she done?

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Speaker 4: Oh gosh, there's a number of things, but I think

729
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 4: one of the things is go up a hot air balloon.

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Speaker 4: I've always wanted to do that.

731
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Speaker 3: I want to I want to jump out of an

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Speaker 3: airplane in a parachute.

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Speaker 5: I would never do that.

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Speaker 1: I would do it in tandem. If I did it with,

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Speaker 1: you know, a train person, I would really a trainer.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I would.

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Speaker 1: They asked me that when I was interviewing on the

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Speaker 1: show what's something you want to do? I said, I

739
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Speaker 1: want to jump up. I'm scared to death to do it,

740
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Speaker 1: but I would do it if I was with an instructor,

741
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 1: you know instructor, or you're the looking guy who wanted

742
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Speaker 1: to date with me, I'd do with that.

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Speaker 5: Well there you go.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I think I think if

745
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Speaker 4: I went, if I went in the plane and flew

746
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Speaker 4: up and got to the point where its point time

747
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Speaker 4: to jump.

748
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Speaker 1: Push me, just push me out right.

749
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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's what you'd have to do.

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00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 4: Yeah.

751
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 3: Do you like roller coasters?

752
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Speaker 5: I do like roller coasters now, but as a kid

753
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Speaker 5: I didn't.

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00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 4: I remember my first, my first major roller coaster, going

755
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 4: up the you know, going up the incline.

756
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 5: I could hear the chains chaining and.

757
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Speaker 2: You're like, oh god, I hope it doesn't fall.

758
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I can almost get into the top. I

759
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 5: got so scared, I started screaming, Mama.

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Speaker 2: Get me up here. What more, what piece of advice

761
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 2: or bad that you received and you've never.

762
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Speaker 5: Forgotten advice that I received, good or bad, good.

763
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:12,320
Speaker 2: Or bad advice, but that you never forgot. Somebody said

764
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 2: something to you at one time, you never forgot it.

765
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Speaker 3: Oh, don't let a due woman shave your head next time.

766
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 2: That was new advice.

767
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Speaker 5: But right, Oh my gosh, that's that's hard.

768
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Speaker 3: I think it is hard, Kathy.

769
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Speaker 2: Do you know any that somebody gave you.

770
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Speaker 3: The best piece that I ever got that I've never

771
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Speaker 3: forgotten was.

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Speaker 1: When you're nervous about doing something new and you're walking

773
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 1: into a place where it's all new people. Whatever that

774
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 1: event is, it's okay because everyone's feeling the way you are,

775
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: So walk in feel confident because everyone's feeling the same

776
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Speaker 1: way you are.

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Speaker 5: That's good, that's good. Okay. I just remember one.

778
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Speaker 4: I just remember one, and it was it was it

779
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 4: was far as like I think, like, you know, I

780
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 4: did some acting at one point on stage whatever, like

781
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 4: you know, community theater. Remember or director told me once

782
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 4: is like if you if you forget your line or

783
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 4: if you forget your your movement, don't ever stop.

784
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 5: Just keep just keep moving and don't don't let them

785
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 5: see what you know is wrong.

786
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Speaker 3: It's the same thing like, don't let them see the Fair.

787
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Speaker 5: Do you sing, Jonathan, I have my I have my

788
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 5: moments where I tried to well know.

789
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Speaker 3: You said theater. Did you do musical theater?

790
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,800
Speaker 4: I've done you. I've done a couple of music theaters.

791
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,919
Speaker 4: The last one I did was I did rag Time

792
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 4: and so I did a little ensemble singing, so that

793
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 4: was pretty fun.

794
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: What what's your voice? Do you baritone tenor what are

795
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: you baritone? Baronet?

796
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 4: You know, as as I got older, my voice is

797
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 4: got raspier, or some people will say that I have

798
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 4: like this kind of a hairy Belafonte kind of a sound,

799
00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 4: and sometimes it sometimes it's it's frustrating because I want

800
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 4: to articulate clear, Yeah, I hear this raspiness and like

801
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,359
Speaker 4: sometimes it feels like I'm forcing my voice out.

802
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 3: So damn, this guy's talented.

803
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 2: He's got it all got it.

804
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,479
Speaker 3: You are an amazing guy. I was so good getting

805
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 3: to know you a little.

806
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 2: I'm telling you it was our pleasure, haven't you really?

807
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 2: I can dance and I can.

808
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 3: Sing, you know what.

809
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 4: I'm really sorry that we missed you in sas Alito,

810
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 4: because you want to that corner where you were is

811
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 4: literally right up the street, so I.

812
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 2: Can she had sent me an email and I just

813
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 2: now recently, within the last week, saw the message. Yea,

814
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 2: I took a hiatus in December. I didn't answer much.

815
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 2: I needed a little bit.

816
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:49,359
Speaker 3: So wait, she lives in Sasito, where we reached out.

817
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 2: You're in our neighborhood, you're in our backyard, come see us.

818
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:57,320
Speaker 5: We would have come absolutely, Yeah, of course.

819
00:36:58,160 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 1: Remember we walked on. We didn't know what to do

820
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 1: with ourselves. Yeah we did.

821
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 2: We had a day off and that's not normal. But

822
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,840
Speaker 2: if so find out we're there again, text my bone.

823
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,839
Speaker 5: Okay, we got to make sure we got numbers.

824
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 3: Numbers.

825
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 1: If Michelle it emailed me, trust me, and my phone's

826
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 1: glued to me, I would have looked at it.

827
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 2: But yes, seeh I don't get notified for everything. It

828
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 2: wasn't even an email, it was a d M or whatever.

829
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 5: I okay, I will definitely do that. I'll definitely do that.

830
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 2: We will continue this at some point for sure. And

831
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Speaker 2: it's been a great episode. Thank you so much for coming.

832
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Speaker 5: On with us. Please thank you for having me.

833
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Speaker 3: You are amazing. You gave some great advice those of you.

834
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839
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