1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 1: Who baby a baby. I need you, Oh, hell, I 2 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: need you What to Expect as a production of I 3 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: Heart Radio. I'm your host Heidi Mrko, and I'm a 4 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: mom on a mission, a mission to help you know 5 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: what to expect every step of the way. So if 6 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: you know me, you know there's nothing that is tm 7 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: I in my book, at least when it comes to 8 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 1: mom's sharing their symptoms or concerns. Today we are devoting 9 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: the entire episode of What to Expect podcast on t 10 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 1: m I symptoms that you have shared and here to 11 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:47,879 Speaker 1: help me do that is Emma informally known as the 12 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: Queen of t m I across all social media because 13 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: there is nothing she hasn't shared or wouldn't share. And Sarah, 14 00:00:55,240 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: who is our fearless What to Expect community leader. Hey Emma, 15 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: Hey Sarah. Hi, I feel like I would like totally 16 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 1: post a picture of like my nipple when it was 17 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: falling off when I was pumping. I'm like that intense 18 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 1: with t m I. Well, I think moms do often 19 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: send in a lot of pictures or share pictures to 20 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: say like, Hey, is this normal? Is this weird? And 21 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 1: you know, sometimes you just got to do that. Yeah, 22 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 1: when when someone else is experiencing the same thing. But 23 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: t m I, it makes you feel a little better, 24 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 1: a little solidarity, little kumbay ya t m I sharing. 25 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: I love it. It's getting around the campfire. Yes. So, 26 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: speaking of sharing, when we had our pregnancy Q and 27 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: A episode, Heidi, we had a ton of questions and 28 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 1: we didn't have enough for one episode, so we needed 29 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: a follow up, and specifically with questions that you know, 30 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: maybe don't seem like people want to share with everyone, 31 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: or they might think or t m I and your 32 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: mission for what to expect has always been to have 33 00:01:57,280 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: a supportive and safe environment, and I think because of that, 34 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: our moms in our community have this high level of 35 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: support and they are comfortable with sharing. There are questions 36 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: that they might not want to talk to their doctor 37 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: about or their friends. And I think Heidi and Emma, 38 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: you both see this a lot across your social pages 39 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: as well. I've gotten a whole lot. Mine's more sex 40 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: oriented t m I. On my page, Sharing is caring. 41 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: So we asked our community what their most t m 42 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: I questions and concerns are, and man, they really came 43 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 1: through for us. So, just like in the Q and 44 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 1: A episode, where you answered some help me, Heidi in 45 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 1: a hurry questions. I'm going to go through the list, Heidi, 46 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: Emma jump in. We're asking is this normal? Kind of 47 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,399 Speaker 1: like a true or false thing. So the first one 48 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: was leaky boobs at week one, So not everyone starts 49 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: leaking coloss room, but some women do and can start 50 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: it leaking at about twenty weeks or so, and some 51 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: women never do the thing. Remember, though, it has nothing 52 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: to do with how much milk you're ultimately going to produce, 53 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: so keep that in mind. Oh that's good to know. 54 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: I think it was just one of those weird things 55 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: where I was like, this is interesting. Let's start using 56 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: breast pads in advance and see how that cos. So 57 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: you did have that, Sarah? I did. Yeah. Yeah, I 58 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 1: mean it wasn't anything crazy. It was just a little bit, 59 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 1: but it was just kind of like this, all right, Well, 60 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: you know, things are working, things are moving along, roll 61 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: with it. Yeah, but the good news is it's working anyway, 62 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 1: even if you don't notice any leaking. And in fact, 63 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: when I gave birth, I couldn't even squeeze any of 64 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 1: it out, but Emma managed to. Yet, Oh I have 65 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: so many things I could say, I don't know, I'm 66 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: gonna stop though. We'll get to that later. We'll get 67 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: done later, right, Okay. So another question was skin tags 68 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: in the Perry area. Okay, so let's back up. You 69 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: can get skin tags anywhere when you're pregnant. It's all 70 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: those extra hormones, thank you hormone owns um. But you're 71 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: especially likely to be blessed with them in areas that 72 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: are high friction, so under your arms, under your breast, 73 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: and also in your vaginal area. They're definitely harmless. They 74 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 1: can be removed, so yeah, run them by your doctor, 75 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: your midwife if you're concerned about them, and if they're uncomfortable, 76 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 1: they can always be removed. Another question was hair growth 77 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 1: on your belly. Is that normal? So pregnant bellies are 78 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 1: fuzzy bellies. You can also find hair sprouting in other 79 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:38,280 Speaker 1: places you would not expect it, like your lips, your breasts, 80 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: your timmy tin tin. You know what's interesting is that 81 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 1: like the only place I had hair on my body 82 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 1: when I was pregnant, I had like fuzz on my belly, 83 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 1: but everywhere else it was so spares, like normally, like 84 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: I shaved my legs, but when I was pregnant, I 85 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 1: barely got hair into my arms. I barely got hair 86 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: on my legs. Yeah that's actually pretty common. Yeah, I 87 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: feel like hair wasn't really a thing for me, but 88 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: just you know, like other things that you have on 89 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: your stomach, like the line and all that other stuff 90 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 1: that kind of I love the line mine still there. 91 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: I was pretty darned fuzzy, I have to say. But 92 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 1: it is hair. Hair today, gone to mark because you'll 93 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 1: you'll shed it after your pregnancy. I feel like that's comforting. 94 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 1: A lot of the stuff that happens during pregnancy, it 95 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: just goes away over time, like either right away or 96 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: a little bit over time. It's not always permanent. Oh, Heidi, 97 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: this one came from your Facebook page. She said, sharp 98 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: nipple pain. She has it so bad that it stings 99 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 1: in the shower and even a little breeze is unbearable. 100 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:38,359 Speaker 1: So yeah, first time mester nipple pain is real. It 101 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:42,599 Speaker 1: can be excruciating. In fact, I remember like it was 102 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: just yesterday. I mean I couldn't put on a bra 103 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 1: without it being agonizing. And it should taper off by 104 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 1: the second trimester. Of course. If you have any concerns, 105 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 1: check with your doctor, but yeah, be gentle. Yes, okay. 106 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 1: Another question was and it she anus and I think 107 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 1: we're talking about hemorrhoids here, babe, Oh my gosh, hemorrhoids 108 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: ahoy for me on both times. Yeah, the worst. That's 109 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 1: definitely the hemorrhoids. You can try ice packs and which 110 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 1: hazel pads? Check with your doctor about other options, Gentle? 111 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:22,679 Speaker 1: Does it when wiping? Pat? Pat? Pat? Yeah? But those 112 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 1: witch hazel pads? Mom, I think you recommend them to me. 113 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 1: They were really great. Who makes them? Talks talks? Thank you? Yeah, 114 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: I always keep them at my house because those hemorrhoids 115 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 1: are forever. I always associate that smell with just becoming 116 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 1: a new mom, like well forever because that was my 117 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: first introduction to Okay, so another good question. Can you 118 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 1: use a vibrator while you're pregnant? Um? Yes, please just 119 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: keep it clean. Yes. I never used a vibrator when 120 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 1: I was pregnant. I like the real thing for pregnancy 121 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: for me personally, but you know, you go girl. Okay. 122 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 1: Another question we had was lactating during sex normal? Oh yeah, 123 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: so breasts can definitely leak during sex um, both during 124 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 1: pregnancy and postpartum. Okay, so we can't get personal without 125 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: talking about vaginas. And we had a lot of questions. 126 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: So I'm going to read what our moms sent in, 127 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,239 Speaker 1: and the first one, I think a lot of moms. 128 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: You know you you want things to be looking nice. 129 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: So she said, I want to wax my badge. Can 130 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: I do that or at least make her nice? Is 131 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: that good or bad? Mom? You take this and then 132 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: I have a comment. Okay, I say, your age, your business, 133 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 1: whatever makes you happy. I mean, of course, ironically you 134 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: can't see down there, but if you are going to 135 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: go get wax, just make sure you choose an esthetician 136 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 1: who has experienced with pregnancy. Sensitive skin is going to 137 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: be extra extra gentle because you can get far more 138 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: irritated your Your skin is is super super sensitive in 139 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 1: all areas, but especially that area when you're pregnant. And 140 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: I would not try waxing at home simply because you're 141 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 1: not gonna be able to see what you're doing and 142 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 1: you could hurt yourself. I remember when I was pregnant 143 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 1: with Lennox. You got me a special day to get 144 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 1: waxed um in my business, and I have never felt 145 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: pain like that in my life because I was pregnant. 146 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: So that was the first and only time I got 147 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 1: waxed during pregnancy. But a lot of people do it 148 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 1: and they love it, but for me, I was like no. 149 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 1: I somehow managed to shave, but I mainly was just 150 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 1: worried about the delivery and like a bunch of people 151 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: seeing what was going on there. I shaved like the 152 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 1: night before, which was before when to labor. I had 153 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: no idea I was going to go into labor. But 154 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: I shaved. And then my mom I think she filmed 155 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 1: my birth and I saw my vagina. I was like, 156 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: oh wow, I really missed a few spots, Like my 157 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: mom filmed my verse two and I can't look at it. 158 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 1: I love that video. I can't do it. Okay. Another 159 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: question we had, and I think this came in a 160 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 1: lot moms wanted to know if their vagina is supposed 161 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: to be changing color? Is that normal? All your genitals 162 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: do get darker, They're deeper shade of the color they 163 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 1: usually are, So they don't exactly change color. They just 164 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 1: become deeper in their hue, including around the labia and aerials, 165 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,679 Speaker 1: of course, and those are those are keepers. Those are 166 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: keeper colors. I mean, you may fade somewhat, but you're 167 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: always going to be a little darker than you were. Yeah, 168 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: my vagina is a lot darker than it was. I 169 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: don't know about my nipples. My nipples are massive now. 170 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 1: I think both got darker for me. Maybe it's all good. Okay, 171 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 1: So we had some kind of a little more on 172 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: the personal side of t M I. You know, a 173 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:46,839 Speaker 1: lot of moms asked this, why does my vagina smell 174 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: different while pregnant? And not a good different? And actually 175 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 1: this was up there with the most asked question. You 176 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 1: definitely have more discharge, and as your pregnancy progresses, you 177 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: have more and more and more of it, and it's 178 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: actually a nature's way of preventing infection and of keeping 179 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: your pH nicely balance. It will, however, make a mess 180 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 1: out of your underwear, and it's it's milky like. It 181 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: will smell differently, but it shouldn't smell offensive. Um, And 182 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:21,959 Speaker 1: if it does smell offensive, then you should always check 183 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:25,439 Speaker 1: with a doctor or midwife about possibility of infection. And 184 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 1: the the other thing to keep in mind is that 185 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: when you're pregnant, your sniffer is far more sensitive, so 186 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: you might be smelling it more than anybody else. The 187 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: most important thing to remember is nature has your back 188 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: and has your business down there nicely taking care of 189 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 1: and so you don't want to introduce anything artificial, no doucing, 190 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: no sprays, no wipes, because then you will be interfering 191 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:55,679 Speaker 1: with your natural pH and and that could make you 192 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 1: more vulnerable to infection. But that's pregnancy or not. I've 193 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: always been told like not to douche even when you're 194 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 1: not pregnant, just because let your badge be your badge. No, 195 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 1: no douching is never a good idea, but especially especially 196 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: especially when you're pregnant. So a related question, um, we 197 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 1: had a few of these about yeast infection and if 198 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: they're frequent, how do you prevent them? They are way, way, 199 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 1: way more common during pregnancy, and some women are more 200 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 1: prone to them than others. Always get a diagnosis, don't 201 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: self treat. Even if you know the symptoms backwards and forwards, 202 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 1: you've had tons of them in your lifetime. You should 203 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: always get that diagnosis and that treatment plan from your 204 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 1: provider when you're pregnant. Now, one of the things that 205 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: sometimes helps is avoiding sugar, like excessive amounts of sugar 206 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 1: refined grains because yeast loves to feast on those kinds 207 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: of foods. Right. Also, taking probiotics, they're good for all 208 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:02,079 Speaker 1: your tummy troubles, but they also can build up your 209 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 1: troops of good bacteria and that keeps a bad bacteria 210 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 1: away the ones that are infection causing. Also make sure 211 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:14,839 Speaker 1: you keep your underwear cotton. Yeah, another question that came 212 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: up with a lot of moms was being frustrated with 213 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 1: bacterial vaginosis and wondering what's your advice on treating that. 214 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 1: So to be clear, um, this is different from a 215 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: yeast infection, and that's one of the reasons you should 216 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:31,719 Speaker 1: always have that diagnosis. When you think you have an infection. 217 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 1: There are telltale signs. They are similar to a yeast infection, 218 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 1: but there's a often a distinctly fishy smell, so you 219 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: want to look out for that. Now, that's that not 220 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 1: every woman has symptoms with b V. Sometimes there are 221 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: no symptoms at all. And something also I want to 222 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: make sure everybody understands is it's not an STD. A 223 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: lot of people think that it is, but it isn't. 224 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 1: If you're a symptomatic they probably won't treat, but if 225 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 1: you are symptomatic, you will need treatment with antibiotics, and 226 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: so that why you need to go see your provider. Okay, 227 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 1: I'm definitely going to mispronounce this. What are over very 228 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 1: very consitist. I don't know, yes, vericasitys. So we're talking 229 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 1: about very coast veins down there. The thing to remember 230 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,839 Speaker 1: is that you can get very coast veins anywhere when 231 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: you're pregnant, especially in your lower body, because the blood 232 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 1: is having a hard time circulating back up so attempts 233 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: to pull in your extremities. So that's why you get 234 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: very clost vans in your legs. In fact, did you 235 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:58,440 Speaker 1: know that hemorrhoids are actually very coast vans of the rectum. 236 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 1: I didn't know that. I didn't even know you could 237 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 1: get veracospins in your vagina. This is all new to me. 238 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: I actually hear this a lot. And one of the 239 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: things that you might feel is like a swelling, throbbing feeling, 240 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 1: not in a good way. Throbbing, I was going to say, 241 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:15,679 Speaker 1: because there is a lot of blood flows, so you 242 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: might think, oh, I'm throbbing there all the time. And 243 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 1: some women just are like highly sexually charged during especially 244 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: during early pregnancy. From all that blood flow. But this 245 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 1: is not in a good way. It might look a 246 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: little lumpy, it might even be a little bluish but 247 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: very very swollen feeling, and it's really important to to 248 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 1: get a diagnosis and treatment. It's nothing, nothing, nothing to 249 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: worry about, but it can become chronic. So there are 250 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: things like an ice pack and how um sitting on 251 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 1: a doughnut Kenny exercise you want to avoid long periods 252 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: of standing or sitting. And a support garment that's designed 253 00:14:57,040 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: for your paranneal area, even one for your will help 254 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 1: support it. Elevate your legs every chance you get. That 255 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 1: can also help with the very coast fans and your legs. 256 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 1: Nothing to worry about, but it can be a real pain. 257 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 1: So while we're on this vagina topic, we have so 258 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: many moms I can't even tell you how many moms 259 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 1: asking about how to identify their mucus plug. And like 260 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, from the history of time and community, 261 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 1: everyone post pictures of their mucus plug, like you can't. 262 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 1: It's hard to tell, and so people want to know, like, 263 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 1: how do I know if this is the mucus plug? 264 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 1: I get these all the time. Emma did show me 265 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 1: her mucus plug. I lost it in Babies Are Us 266 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 1: while we were filming. I remember losing mine and I 267 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 1: was all alone and I had no social media to 268 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 1: share with. So I saw it in the toilet and 269 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 1: I was like, what the heck is? That is that 270 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 1: the baby is not the baby. And by the way, 271 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: just in case you're getting excited, it does not mean 272 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 1: that labor is going to be a few hours away. 273 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 1: I lost mine three weeks before, but your body keeps 274 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 1: producing more of that mucus. So the mucus plug is 275 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: kind of like the cork that seals the cervix up 276 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 1: um and keeps your baby nice and safe and protected. 277 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 1: You might lose it all in one big gelatinous glob, 278 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: or you might lose it, you know, smaller pieces. If 279 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 1: you're the kind of person who who flushes and rushes, 280 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 1: you might not notice it at all. You might see 281 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 1: it on your underwear, you might see it on the 282 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 1: toilet paper, but it's not likely to be bloody. It 283 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 1: might just be a little pink tinge, but not bloody. 284 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: The mucus plug is generally clear. Okay, let's turn to 285 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 1: our favorite topic. I bet you can't guess what it 286 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: is sex. Yes, let's talk about sex. So we had 287 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 1: tons of juicy good sex questions and I want to 288 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: get into those. Okay, Which stage of pregnancy is unsafe 289 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 1: to have sex? Is it based on a level of comfort? Oh? Yeah, 290 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: So if you've gotten the go ahead, then go ahead. 291 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 1: Like comfort should be your only concern um and of 292 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 1: course your pleasure. But if your doctor midwife has said 293 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 1: go for it, go for it. The only time you 294 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 1: don't want to have sex is if your water has 295 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 1: broken just because bacteria. Right, Yeah, if there's a rupture 296 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 1: in your membranes, you don't want to have sex. But 297 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 1: I don't think you'd want to know that doesn't sound 298 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 1: like a good time. I was one of the unfortunate 299 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:27,400 Speaker 1: people to have placenta previous, so like I could have 300 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 1: sex in the beginning and at the very end where 301 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: it was like no and I wanted to be having sex, 302 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: but that whole second trimester it was like no, sorry, 303 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:40,919 Speaker 1: your body shop is closed. Yeah, so you were on 304 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:45,840 Speaker 1: the quote unquote pelvic rest. Yes, okay, So which positions 305 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 1: are safest and which are best when you're feeling uncomfortable, 306 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 1: You definitely should stay off your back after the fourth month. 307 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: But I mean, honestly, whatever feels good, you should do it. 308 00:17:57,720 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: You know, try it out first. You can. I always 309 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,439 Speaker 1: just doing a dry run with your clothes on, so 310 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 1: there's no pressure to see if everything's gonna fit well, 311 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 1: and you're going to find that what feels good in 312 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 1: the first trimester is going to feel not as good 313 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: later on second third trimester. Second second trimester is always 314 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:19,359 Speaker 1: best for sex because you're not yet so large. You 315 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:23,360 Speaker 1: can still fit yourself into many positions like the first trimester. 316 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:26,639 Speaker 1: The vest. Yeah, okay, sometimes it feels like my baby 317 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 1: is getting pushed out while I'm having sex. What is happening? 318 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 1: It does sound like she's feeling pressure, and you can 319 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:37,120 Speaker 1: feel that kind of pressure when you're having orgasm. When 320 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 1: you're having sex, your contractions, um, you get some contractions 321 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:43,159 Speaker 1: from that, and they're not the kind of contractions that 322 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 1: put you in labor, but your uterus does gently contract 323 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 1: and that can make you feel more pressure. And this 324 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: can happen during sex, it can happen after sex. But 325 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:58,399 Speaker 1: of course, if there's any pain, definitely definitely check with 326 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 1: your doctor. So this is like I think, a good 327 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 1: to no question for everyone. If I'm one centimeter dilated. 328 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: Is sex safe? Yes, and that's a really good thing 329 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:12,359 Speaker 1: because you can walk around one centimeter dial Yeah. I 330 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 1: think I was one centimeter for like months. And again, 331 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:19,680 Speaker 1: if your provider has not put any restrictions on your 332 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 1: pelvic activities, then you can go for it and keep 333 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:27,160 Speaker 1: going for it. Um you have Heide's blessing to get 334 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:30,239 Speaker 1: it on, Get it on? Okay. Is it true that 335 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 1: semen softens the cervix in theory? In theory because sperm 336 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:39,639 Speaker 1: contained prostaglandins, and so when you go to the hospital 337 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:42,879 Speaker 1: and they're ripening your service, they will do that with 338 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:49,360 Speaker 1: a similar yet not as natural substance. So those prostaglandins 339 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 1: might be able to soften your cervix and help get 340 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:56,680 Speaker 1: the labor party started, but only if conditions are ripe. Okay, 341 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 1: This one I'd never heard of. Is it true that orgasm, 342 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:03,919 Speaker 1: by the way of masturbation during labor is good. I 343 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 1: would argue that orgasm is always good. It's a win 344 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 1: win in theory because you release oxytocin during orgasm and 345 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 1: that causes the uterus to contract. There could be benefits. 346 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:20,639 Speaker 1: I would also argue that many women will not be 347 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 1: in the mood for masturbation during labor. So this is 348 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 1: another situation where if it feels good, go forward. Yeah. 349 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 1: I thought it was a really interesting question. Nothing I've 350 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 1: ever heard of before. Yeah, yeah, it's really cool, and 351 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 1: you know, good for you if you're that relaxed you 352 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 1: want to masturbate during labor. Okay, So we have some 353 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:55,359 Speaker 1: postpartum questions as well. In Heidi, I wanted to start 354 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 1: off with a story that another mom from your Facebook 355 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 1: page shared. She's said after delivery, I may or may 356 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 1: not have ran out of the bathroom crying, saying there 357 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:08,360 Speaker 1: were pieces of my placenta falling out. Nobody warned me 358 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 1: about blood clots. Mom, was that me? Remember after I 359 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,440 Speaker 1: held Seby, I thought it was my whole placenta that 360 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 1: came out at me. Mom. Remember I called you and 361 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: I was crying and I was freaking out, and I 362 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 1: like saved it and I brought it to the doctor 363 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:24,720 Speaker 1: and like a tupperware. So whoever wrote that question, you're 364 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 1: my soul sister. I feel you. It's true. I I mean, 365 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 1: I remember the same thing when I stood up for 366 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,240 Speaker 1: the first time in the hospital and all this blood 367 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 1: was gushing out of me. But that blood and tissue 368 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 1: was accumulated during pregnancy and it's got to exit the building. 369 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 1: Whether you've had a vaginal delivery or you've had a 370 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 1: C section, you will get some clots at first in 371 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 1: the first few days. You should always check with the 372 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,920 Speaker 1: nurse or the doctor or the midwife if you're having 373 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 1: really really large clots. So, Emma, that was a good 374 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: idea to go show them you're o be, but say, 375 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: if they're lemon size or larger, that's definitely, you know, 376 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:06,040 Speaker 1: more of a cause for concern that it's possible. That's 377 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:11,200 Speaker 1: completely normal. You know, they do examine the placenta when 378 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 1: it's delivered to make sure there are no missing pieces, 379 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:15,880 Speaker 1: but once in a while there there are a few. 380 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,959 Speaker 1: But you would have signs of infection following that if 381 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,680 Speaker 1: you did have any retained placenta. But for the most part, 382 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 1: placenta has come out intact, and uh, you don't have 383 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 1: to worry. So I think every mom heading towards a 384 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: vaginal delivery is concerned about this one. Are postpartum diapers 385 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:39,679 Speaker 1: for blood, urine poop, or all of the above. Yeah, 386 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: it can definitely be all of the above. You've got 387 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 1: blood for sure, as we discuss. Also keep in mind, 388 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:50,679 Speaker 1: besides all the blood that you've accumulated, UH, the placenta 389 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,960 Speaker 1: has separated from the uterus and that's going to cause 390 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:57,679 Speaker 1: bleeding as well. It should start tapering off. If it 391 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 1: isn't tapering off or it's increasing, all your provider right away. 392 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 1: Um after about two weeks, and then you'll just have 393 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 1: lighter bleeding that gets lighter and lighter now. P You 394 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,920 Speaker 1: may have some control issues at first, especially if you've 395 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 1: had a catheter because you had an epidural c section. 396 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 1: You also have a lot of fluid to pe out 397 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 1: uh to get rid of after you've delivered, do your keygels. 398 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 1: If you keep leaking, see your provider and get a 399 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 1: referral to a pelvic for physical therapist. Poop hard to 400 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: pass it first, then it might get hard to contain. 401 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,439 Speaker 1: For some moms, I actually heard this a lot, that 402 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 1: they had some vegal incontinence after delivery, and especially if 403 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:48,680 Speaker 1: you've had a significant tear or repair. Definitely, pelvic for 404 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 1: physical therapy can help a lot. It can be a 405 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:57,439 Speaker 1: game changer. Okay, what every pregnant new mom wants to know, 406 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 1: Will my vagina ever be this? You know? Remember that 407 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 1: a vagina is built to take it. It's designed, it's 408 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:09,360 Speaker 1: got according and like fold so it can accommodate a baby. 409 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 1: The parenneum is somewhat less elastic, but vaginas are remarkably 410 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 1: resilient and you probably won't notice a perceptible difference. Saying 411 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,399 Speaker 1: snugness and for some women, if they're too tight to 412 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 1: begin with, is actually welcome um. But the more tearing 413 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: there was a repair. Sometimes there's scar tissue. So if 414 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 1: you have continuing pain or you feel something's just not 415 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 1: right down there, definitely don't keep it to yourself and 416 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,920 Speaker 1: share that with your doctor. One last question I wanted 417 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,840 Speaker 1: to cover before we sign off. Where can I go 418 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 1: to ask random questions that aren't doctor worthy? But it's 419 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: too early to tell friends and family that I'm pregnant, 420 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 1: So first of all, any question is doctor worthy, so 421 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:02,360 Speaker 1: never think that your question is silly or or too embarrassing. 422 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 1: I feel like you should share anything that's on your 423 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 1: mind that's concerning you with your doctor or your midwife, 424 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 1: but you also have the entire what to expect community 425 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 1: of moms waiting to share your experiences, share their experiences, 426 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,399 Speaker 1: and let you know that you're not alone. You can 427 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 1: always come on my Instagram or on my Facebook and 428 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 1: ask me anything that's at. Heidi Murkoff and of course 429 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 1: Emma will always listen to your tm my questions. I 430 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 1: love a good sex question, so bringam at me. Thanks 431 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 1: everybody for sharing your tm my questions. Baby belof a, 432 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:46,879 Speaker 1: Baby Belof, I need you, Oh how I need you. 433 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:52,399 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Remember, I'm always here for you. What 434 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,439 Speaker 1: to Expect is always here for you. We're all in 435 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 1: this together. For more on what you heard on today's episode, 436 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 1: visit to Expect dot com slash podcast. 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