WEBVTT - Home for the Holidays 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:03.720 Hey guys, So we are so excited to wind down today. Um, 0:00:03.920 --> 0:00:06.120 we have a great show. We have a great show, 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:11.080 and we have the whole family in here. We on Sunday. 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:14.160 We came in on a Sunday, so we had recorded 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:17.120 the show when it was a Babe last last Thursday 0:00:17.200 --> 0:00:20.840 or Friday. Yeah, it was last Friday, and we had 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:24.759 posted a photo on my Instagram feed and it was 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:26.599 just a cute photo of us being like, hey, we're 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:32.159 back to work and matching in our Jeane jackets. And 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:34.360 then all of a sudden, no, it wasn't actually all 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:37.479 of a sudden, we go home and then you know, 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:42.240 I'm unfortunately I look at my comments and sometimes people 0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:44.680 can be really mean, and usually I ignore it, but 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:47.199 I was so and I remember I came to you 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:49.839 and I go because you said what's wrong? And I 0:00:49.880 --> 0:00:54.480 looked kind of sad and said, people are body shaming 0:00:54.520 --> 0:00:57.880 me on my Instagram. That photo, he's like, which thought 0:00:57.920 --> 0:00:59.680 I was like, the photo of us back to work, 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:05.680 and you're like and and so I started to get 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:07.560 really upset because I was reading this comment, especially from 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:09.120 this one lady. I'm not going to mention her name, 0:01:09.160 --> 0:01:10.920 so I don't want to give any more attention than 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:16.399 she's already gotten. But she basically was saying a few things. Um. 0:01:17.080 --> 0:01:19.479 I looked at that. I that I had a tummy talk. 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:22.120 She's like, well, that's what happens when you're a celebrity 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:24.959 and you could have a tummy talk. Um. What else 0:01:24.959 --> 0:01:26.800 did she say? Well, that's what happens when you have 0:01:26.840 --> 0:01:29.640 fortunes and you could have a private chef. Um that 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:34.160 I faked my pregnancy that Um what else that was? 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:36.200 That was too thin? Because you have money, you can 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:38.280 afford a trainer. Yeah, I can afford a trainer every 0:01:38.280 --> 0:01:41.679 single day. Um. And that basically I was I was 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:44.119 too small post baby, and I was like, I'm getting 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:48.000 body shame for being too small. It's like if I 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:51.760 would have posted so anyways, Then after that, I started 0:01:51.760 --> 0:01:55.120 to defend myself in the comments, and so I thought, well, 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:58.760 we need to defend ourselves on this this platform. Yeah, absolutely, 0:01:58.800 --> 0:02:02.080 and you did. You did a great job in expressing 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:05.880 yourself in your post following well, and I had I 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:09.960 wanted to post a photo of the full image, and 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:12.000 I'm so glad that I didn't. I mean, I ended 0:02:12.080 --> 0:02:14.720 up showing a photo in my stories of the full 0:02:14.800 --> 0:02:18.800 image because you know, my my girlfriend Sarah Bryce was like, 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:21.240 you know what, let's start a movement, whether it's you know, 0:02:21.600 --> 0:02:25.520 postpartum is beautiful, whether you recover fast or you don't, 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:28.600 you know, don't recover as fast. And so I but 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:31.440 I cropped the photo at first because it's like, I'm 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:34.359 gonna get shamed for being too small, too big. It's 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:37.320 like everybody's bodies are different. Why am I getting shamed 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:41.520 for for bouncing back quicker? You know? I think I 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:46.000 think the most infuriating part of all of that is, Okay, 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:49.640 if people want to comment about someone else's body whatever, 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:52.040 people are always going to do that. But the fact 0:02:52.080 --> 0:02:57.639 that she wants to stereo type and jump to conclusions 0:02:57.680 --> 0:03:00.480 that you have a private chef, you work with a 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:02.400 trainer every day, you had a tummy tuck, and all 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:05.119 these outrageous things. Yeah, you have a chef. His name 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:08.400 is your husband. Me. When I'm not cooking, you're cooking, 0:03:08.760 --> 0:03:11.720 or it's Postmates or yeah, or we're fortunate to get 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:15.040 Hello Fresh every now and then. But we cook and 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:17.359 you work out with the trainer, yes, when you can. 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:20.320 Well that's the thing too. I was like, man, I 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:22.359 started to think back on how many times actually worked 0:03:22.360 --> 0:03:26.919 out with Aaron. It was maybe once a week maybe. Yeah. 0:03:27.080 --> 0:03:30.000 And the thing is too, it's like, because you took 0:03:30.040 --> 0:03:32.359 care of yourself during your pregnancy, you didn't just sit 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:35.240 on your ass and just you know, feel sorry for 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:38.480 yourself or anything. And some people during their pregnancy they 0:03:38.520 --> 0:03:41.520 can't physically do anything, and that's okay, but you had 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:43.880 the energy you had, you have the determination to get 0:03:43.920 --> 0:03:46.200 up and do something, and you want to bounce back 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:48.760 quick afterwards. That's why you work your ass off, You 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:51.480 eat great, you work out and all that stuff during 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:55.160 your pregnancy, and you reap the benefits afterwards. Again not 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:56.839 saying that everyone has to do that, because some people 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:59.080 physically can't. Just like you in the first trime, master 0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:01.400 you physically bear, they could get out of bed. Yeah, 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:06.360 and there's our baby. So yeah, there is a family 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:08.440 affair in here today because we're all upset about this, 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:10.960 and just leave my wife alone, leave people alone. And 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:14.440 it's not even about like sitting on your butt, because 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:17.680 it's just you know, Mama Training always said, she's like, 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:19.359 you have an excuse to be able to eat whatever 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:22.080 you want because you're gonna get big. But with this pregnancy, 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:24.839 I ate so much different than Jolie. With Jolie, I 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:28.600 had pasta and and and um potatoes because that's what 0:04:28.640 --> 0:04:30.279 I craved. I didn't crave any of that when I 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:32.920 was pregnant with Jayce. All I wanted was salads. So, 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:36.919 you know, it's you're just getting shamed for working hard, 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:40.200 which is so ridiculous, Which is just the whole thing 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:42.640 about people on on social media and all that they 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:45.200 want to hate on people and everything. Guess what, I 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:48.520 guarantee people that hate on other people aren't successful in 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:50.800 their life and they wait for things to come to 0:04:50.839 --> 0:04:53.000 them when hard work is how you get things done, 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:55.440 whether it be successful in your career and your personal life, 0:04:55.640 --> 0:04:58.599 with your body, whatever it is. You're getting really heated round. Yeah, 0:04:58.600 --> 0:05:00.560 because I wanted to defend you, because this is it's 0:05:00.640 --> 0:05:03.680 bs that someone attacks you like that when they don't 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:07.120 know at all how hard you work every single day 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:10.240 and how hard you did work during your pregnancy. So 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:13.840 it's unbelievable that people have the audacity to say these 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:16.880 kind of things. I know, Jolie, I agree with you, honey. 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:20.560 It's it's crazy. You know. It infuriates me though, is 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:24.520 that people think we're just like loaded for first of all, 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:27.760 there it's like if I, first of all, we don't 0:05:27.800 --> 0:05:29.800 have enough money to get a tummy talk, even if 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:32.400 I want to tummy. I'm not saying we're you know, 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:36.760 we're you know, we're we're we're comfortable, but we also 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:39.200 che and we're comfortable. Yeah, but we also don't know 0:05:39.320 --> 0:05:41.080 what next year is gonna hold. You know, nothing in 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:43.960 our businesses is guaranteed. I don't know if I'm going 0:05:44.000 --> 0:05:45.840 to ever book a movie again, our TV show, or 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:47.960 if if my music you know, people will buy it, 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:50.400 or it's this podcast is gonna I don't. We don't know, 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:53.880 so we have to really we can't do extravagant things 0:05:53.880 --> 0:05:57.800 and people think even sweet are are you know Michelle 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:01.039 who helps with Jolie, she was. I laughed at the 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:03.479 comments about the personal shop. People think that you have 0:06:04.240 --> 0:06:09.000 all this money, and it's like it's again, it's another 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:11.240 stereotype where you know, when I was playing in the NFL, 0:06:11.320 --> 0:06:13.719 people just that don't know, automatically think you have millions 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:16.080 of dollars. We're living in a square foot house right 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:18.880 now in Los Angeles. It's not it doesn't look like that, 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:21.239 like just because you're an entertainment and I would play football, 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:22.960 and now we're doing this. It's like, doesn't mean just 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:26.080 money just falls off the trees. Remember that, everybody else? 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:28.880 Remember that one comment we got on Instagram, They go, Wow, 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:31.640 your house is so dot dot dot normal. I'm like, 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:35.279 what is it supposed to look? Yeah? Again, people have 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:37.680 these perceptions. Not granted, we go back to Nashville, our 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:39.280 house will be a lot. Well, it's because it's the 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:41.520 Nashville and but again it's more affordable there. Yeah, and 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:44.200 which is why we're moving to Nashville's because we can't 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:48.560 afford a house that we need in l A. So 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:51.159 that's why we're moving. We don't have the money to 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:54.200 have a personal shop. It's so ridiculous that people just 0:06:54.240 --> 0:06:58.040 jumped to these conclusions. And it's just like why, Like, again, 0:06:58.400 --> 0:07:00.839 haters are gonna hate, They're gonna say the things, and 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:03.800 most of the time it is because they're miserable in 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:07.360 their life. Come your honey, Joey is having a mess. 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:14.040 I just that's okay, honey, we're all upset. I just 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:20.000 wish that women would support each other's bodies. Oh geez, Louis, 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:26.440 can you headphones? You want your headphones? You want? You 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:35.240 want your headphones? Okay? You want to tissue? Do you 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:41.760 want to starburst? That'll keep her quiet? You want your candy? Okay, 0:07:42.160 --> 0:07:51.559 you want I'm doing you a game. I just wish 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:54.760 that women would support each other and not body shame, 0:07:54.840 --> 0:08:00.480 whether you're too thin, too big, too whatever, or it's like, man, 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:03.800 you've been you look this way ten months postpartum or 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:07.280 one week postpartum, how dare you look too good? Well, 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:10.240 my friend Katherine, she goes, how dare you look too 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:12.280 thin after giving a birth? How dare you look too 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:14.360 fat after giving birth? It's like you can't win, No, 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:17.720 you can't. And it's just it's unfortunately, it's just women 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:21.080 that shame like that, that body shame. You don't think 0:08:21.080 --> 0:08:24.200 guys do not each other? No, you don't think so 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:28.320 at all. Guys don't body shame each other. And why 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:36.920 is that? I don't think the how a man's physical appearance. Unfortunately, 0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:41.640 for women, it's there's more of a pedestal on how 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:44.280 you guys are supposed to look, where men there's not. 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:46.960 There's not a stigma like there is for women. And 0:08:46.960 --> 0:08:50.440 that's just generations and generations of how society has been 0:08:50.440 --> 0:08:54.480 and perceived men versus women. So men don't body shame 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:58.480 each other. I really don't. I sometimes have body envy, 0:08:58.559 --> 0:09:00.640 Like I look at you know, Lauren Bush now and 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:03.080 I'm like, God, you're so thin and you're so fit. 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:05.240 I wish I looked like that. But then I'm like, 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:07.439 can I give myself a little grace? I just had 0:09:07.440 --> 0:09:09.400 a baby, even though I look in the mirror and 0:09:09.400 --> 0:09:11.559 I'm like, oh, this is not how I look before 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:13.880 a baby. So it's so I get depressed. I have 0:09:13.960 --> 0:09:15.840 my hormones going through my body, but at the same time, 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:18.520 what I just went through is a beautiful thing. I'm 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:20.240 a mother of two. My body is not going to 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:23.959 most likely look like that, and right, but I mean, 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:25.360 I've always kind of had a little bit of a 0:09:25.480 --> 0:09:27.760 you know, a pooch in my opinion, and so but 0:09:27.800 --> 0:09:29.800 I'm but I'm just saying, like it's it's you know, 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:32.000 I do have sometimes have body envy, but I would 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:35.040 never shame someone for looking a certain way, you know. 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:37.160 It's just it's really sad that women do that. And 0:09:37.160 --> 0:09:40.640 I just really hope that women can just have grace 0:09:40.679 --> 0:09:42.400 for yourself. You're not going to look the same as 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:44.960 somebody else, and that's what makes us beautiful and different 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:48.440 in our own personal ways. Absolutely, and that's okay. Yeah, 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:53.160 people are seeing to calm the ft down Onto wind Down, 0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:59.400 wind Down with j Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast. 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:03.360 We're out of the house. I mean, I just feel 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:08.640 so relieved sitting in the studio again. It feels like 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:10.959 it's been an eternity since we've been in here, I know, 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:14.240 And it just feels so nice to just like this morning, 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:16.880 I put on some makeup, I put some clothes on, 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:24.920 I put on deodorant, I got out, I breathed. How 0:10:24.920 --> 0:10:26.960 did I say that, I breathed in the fresh air. No? 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:31.080 Is that it works? Breathe breathed. It doesn't sound right, 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:33.439 doesn't sound right at all. I breathed in the fresh air, 0:10:34.840 --> 0:10:36.760 breathed in fresh air. No, but it was so like 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:38.400 I felt like I was skipping out of the house. 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:41.720 Not but I obviously I am so sad to leave 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:46.000 Jason Jolly home. But at the same time, we haven't 0:10:46.000 --> 0:10:48.679 we haven't left the house in a week. Yeah. Well 0:10:48.720 --> 0:10:51.000 actually and was just to run out and get something 0:10:51.040 --> 0:10:54.840 real quick, but were out of the house. I haven't 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:56.400 been out of the house, yeah, because I've had to 0:10:56.400 --> 0:11:01.600 take joulders because I was recovering for my c section, which, 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:04.439 by the way, I just have to say, it barely 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:07.800 looks like you're pregnant, Like you're ever pregnant. The studio's 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.120 ghost down today. But I was counting on a bunch 0:11:10.160 --> 0:11:11.840 of people saying that to you, because that's what everyone 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:13.720 we say. It's like, I can't believe you just had 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:15.800 a baby. Oh my gosh, Well I feel like I 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:19.280 just had a baby, and my stomach still feels incredibly 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:20.880 cut up, like I just had a baby. Well, you 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:23.760 look amazing. Thanks by um. I just have to say 0:11:23.800 --> 0:11:25.480 thank you to every single one of the wine Down 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:30.320 listeners for being so incredibly supportive about our last podcast 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:34.640 episode when we well, I've recorded the birth of Jace. I, 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:38.240 Michael and I were listening to it in bed that 0:11:38.400 --> 0:11:42.400 day and I made you turn it off. You're embarrassed. 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:45.160 I started crying. I was so embarrassed. I was like, 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:48.400 I knew that we were obviously doing a live podcast, 0:11:48.440 --> 0:11:51.560 but I didn't know that we were keeping everything in Easton. 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:54.319 I didn't know you were keeping in me like vomiting. 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:58.400 I mean, I was vomiting on the table that's that's 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:02.679 visceral stuff. I like, was there, right, But then I'm 0:12:02.720 --> 0:12:05.199 like when I was going no, no, no, no, Jane, Jane, Jane, 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:08.240 No no No, I'm like, oh my god, I'm so embarrassed. 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:11.240 You know how many people probably feel so much more 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:14.920 comfortable now with their experience or going into their experience 0:12:14.960 --> 0:12:17.280 because they know someone like you has been so open 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:21.840 and vocal and vulnerable about all this. Knowing that stars 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:26.920 they're just like no. But I literally made Michael turn 0:12:27.000 --> 0:12:28.559 it off. I started bawling my eyes out, and I 0:12:28.600 --> 0:12:31.760 was like, I'm so embarrassed. Everyone's gonna think I'm crazy, 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:34.720 and I just have to say I have just been 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:38.800 blown away by the support, and selfishly, I don't feel 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:41.280 as crazy now because a lot of other moms had 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:44.000 the same issue as friends of yours that you didn't 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:47.600 even you didn't even know how to kind of experiences. Yeah, like, oh, 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:49.800 I you know, I didn't feel anything up to my 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:53.480 throat or I was puking too, And I'm like, really, like, 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:55.679 so I again, I just said like ten times, so 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:59.440 I'm gonna stop that. But I just I'm so grateful 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:02.920 and I just can't thank you guys enough for making 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:06.439 me feel a little less crazy and making me feel 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:09.640 like I didn't look at that. I don't have to 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:12.679 be embarrassed. I'm not going to listen to it. I'm 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:16.319 not going to finish those things to it. But because 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:19.760 I remember it very vividly, I don't want to have 0:13:19.880 --> 0:13:25.040 to relive it. Yeah, I know. So I'm not thinking 0:13:25.200 --> 0:13:27.120 I'm proud of you. I know a lot of people 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:29.000 are proud of you. And I mean that takes a 0:13:29.040 --> 0:13:30.800 lot of a lot of ways, a lot of lady 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:34.199 balls to put yourself out there like that. So you 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:36.560 did amazing. Can we just say, real fast though, how 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:39.600 it was my idea to do the sweet messages to 0:13:39.640 --> 0:13:42.679 each other? Yeah, let's talk about this. Well, no, because 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:45.719 I just feel like so it was my idea. I 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:48.319 was like, hey, babe, I think we should I think 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:50.400 we should say like sweet notes to each other, like 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:52.880 right before. But when we separate and I go into 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:55.360 the operating room, we leave a message for each other. 0:13:56.000 --> 0:13:59.400 And so Michael gets all the credit because he left 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:02.400 me the sweetest voice memo and I had no idea 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:04.160 that I was when we separated, that I was going 0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:07.080 straight into the O R room. So I just trying 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:08.800 to say face right now and say that it was 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:13.439 her idea because I was just extremely thoughtful and super sweet. Crap. 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:16.080 I'll try. I don't just do my bunder here, honey, 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:18.200 he goes, well, I don't care. It makes me look better. 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:22.160 Right before the episode, before we listened to it, I 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:24.000 go obey. By the way, I didn't have a chance 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:26.800 to say, you know, thank you to Michael for being 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:29.480 but I'll do it right now. Michael, I just want 0:14:29.520 --> 0:14:34.560 to say thank you so much for being the fast 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:37.880 nine months. You've been incredible and I'm so proud of 0:14:37.920 --> 0:14:40.600 you and i just can't wait to have this baby boy. 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:48.840 There go, thanks so powerful. Yeah, so um that happened. 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:51.160 But again, I just can't thank you guys enough. I 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:54.880 don't feel as crazy, and I'm just really glad that, 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:58.080 um we did that. I am glad we did that. 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:02.760 But I'm also glad that we have Amazon Fire TV, yeah, 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:06.280 because we've been inside all the time. Yeah. And with 0:15:06.480 --> 0:15:10.880 watching we can watch movies, TV, YouTube, I mean anything 0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:14.440 we want from Netflix to Prime Video, Hulu. I mean, Michael, 0:15:14.480 --> 0:15:16.560 you can even stay up while you have Ja's for 0:15:16.600 --> 0:15:19.680 the nighttime feeding and you can do you can watch 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:23.440 a makeup tutorial. I'll pass on that, but I haven't 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:25.560 catching up on my shows on Netflix while I'm up 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:28.000 with our child. But it's so great though, I mean 0:15:28.120 --> 0:15:30.720 it's it's it's easy as saying, hey, Alexa, open YouTube. 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:35.560 So it's incredible. Um, head to Amazon dot com slash 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:38.440 wind down again. That's Amazon dot Com slash wind down 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:41.040 to order a fire TV of your very owned and 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.440 they make really great gifts too for the holiday season. 0:15:43.800 --> 0:15:46.600 I was thinking, yeah, maybe for your brother. I like 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:50.480 the work. So we have two really really great guests today. 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:54.400 I'm really excited because one was the original Power Ranger, 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:56.560 which you kind of wanna. That was in our notes 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:59.480 that she was the original Power Ranger. But you you 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:03.440 you're calling not she was on Power Rangers like Lost Galaxy, 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:08.400 which is awesome Nerds like you guys are the biggest 0:16:08.440 --> 0:16:11.760 nerds ever, Like, that's not the original Power Ranger. I'm 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:15.840 just saying, if you're going to use the word original, original, 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:21.200 was like, but she's original, She's still a Power Ranger. 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:24.720 You want her to show you the moves. I want 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:26.040 to know how she did them all? Did she do 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:31.200 her own stunts? Yeah? How much martial arts? Did she learn. 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:34.240 I mean, I have no idea. Hey, do we want 0:16:34.240 --> 0:16:37.440 to talk about that. We've had your parents in town 0:16:37.560 --> 0:16:41.160 for the last week. I'm sure it's been awesome. It 0:16:41.200 --> 0:16:43.960 hasn't been able to sleep. It's so funny though, how 0:16:44.000 --> 0:16:47.280 some people want guests after babies and some people don't. 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:50.560 You know, yeah, there, Yeah, it's two different mentalities. I know. 0:16:50.800 --> 0:16:53.320 I'm very curious how people handle because sometimes you know, 0:16:53.440 --> 0:16:56.720 in laws can be overbearing, parents can be overbearing in general. 0:16:57.200 --> 0:16:59.760 But I think it's been great though. They've been really good, 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:02.240 are very helpful. Yeah, it's so much so that now 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:04.879 we're like, my mom's gone, my dad already left, my 0:17:04.920 --> 0:17:08.439 mom's gone, and now it's like, wait, we don't have 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:11.720 a third person to help pop out, Like what do 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:14.040 we do now? What's the best thing about having jays 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:18.919 a son? Right now? Oh? Man? I think you know, 0:17:18.960 --> 0:17:20.800 I've said this numerous times to you and to other 0:17:20.800 --> 0:17:23.679 people that have asked me. I feel like there's something 0:17:23.720 --> 0:17:26.480 to be said for when you have a child that 0:17:26.640 --> 0:17:29.640 is the same sex as you. There's a little bit 0:17:29.640 --> 0:17:36.800 more initial connection, there's you know, there's I feel like 0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:40.760 there's a little bit more responsibility. So I think just 0:17:41.280 --> 0:17:42.680 like I told you the other night when you're like, 0:17:42.680 --> 0:17:44.040 why don't I come get you in the middle of night, 0:17:44.040 --> 0:17:46.199 because I was like, I even though he was like 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:49.399 five days old, I felt like we were bonding, you know, 0:17:49.520 --> 0:17:52.840 and that's just super cool to have that feeling already, 0:17:53.400 --> 0:17:55.520 let alone when he can actually interact with me and 0:17:55.760 --> 0:17:58.520 do those things. So I don't know, I just think 0:17:58.560 --> 0:18:00.600 it's it's just cool. It's just feeling said I didn't 0:18:00.600 --> 0:18:03.120 have with Jolie. Not to take away from Jolie, because 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:05.800 I love her just as much, but it's just there's 0:18:05.800 --> 0:18:08.640 something about it. Yeah. I told Michael in the hospital. 0:18:09.000 --> 0:18:10.879 I was just sitting in the hospital bed and I 0:18:10.880 --> 0:18:14.359 saw Michael holding Jason. I said, not taking anything away 0:18:14.400 --> 0:18:16.840 from Jolie, you were great, But I said, but you 0:18:16.880 --> 0:18:21.040 are so much different with this, with this birth. I 0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:23.680 don't I I think some of it's because you're in 0:18:23.720 --> 0:18:25.800 a better place and you're healthier, but I also think 0:18:25.840 --> 0:18:28.320 you just have, like you said, that connection, not that 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:29.960 you didn't have the connection with Jolie, but you're just 0:18:30.000 --> 0:18:32.239 so much more present and that helps you better with 0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:35.200 maybe the connection. Yeah, there's no question. I mean, it's 0:18:35.720 --> 0:18:38.280 you know, I don't know what percentages what how much 0:18:38.280 --> 0:18:40.919 of it is just my mental health and where I'm 0:18:40.960 --> 0:18:43.320 at now and my life is a way better than 0:18:43.359 --> 0:18:46.880 where it was when Jolie was born, fortunately and unfortunately. 0:18:47.800 --> 0:18:49.920 Um but so I think it's it's a mix of too. 0:18:49.920 --> 0:18:52.080 It's I'm I'm in a better place now and also 0:18:52.200 --> 0:18:55.199 because he's my little boy and there's just an immediate 0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:58.760 connection as opposed to Jolie, where it's like, yes there's 0:18:58.760 --> 0:19:02.440 a connection, but it's my daughter as opposed to myself. 0:19:02.680 --> 0:19:05.240 You know, I'm not saying putting one above the other 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:07.520 at all, And it's just I think anyone who has 0:19:08.000 --> 0:19:10.520 multiple children and of different sexes, I think they can 0:19:10.560 --> 0:19:14.280 probably relate. It's funny. I want to talk to the 0:19:14.400 --> 0:19:18.600 We have a therapist calling into Dr Dale Saltz. Yeah, 0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:23.280 and I'm curious to see if i'd like, I'd love 0:19:23.280 --> 0:19:26.080 to talk to you about the postpartum depression and and 0:19:26.200 --> 0:19:28.040 what's kind of normal and then what's just like your 0:19:28.040 --> 0:19:32.760 hormones balancing back, because even just after the after the birth, 0:19:32.760 --> 0:19:35.480 I mean obviously I've been crying at the randomest things, 0:19:35.560 --> 0:19:40.200 like you cut that lemon perfectly, Like I mean crying 0:19:40.240 --> 0:19:43.879 from that too, you know, am I depressed it, you know, 0:19:43.960 --> 0:19:47.840 do I feel depressed? Do I have this the same connection? 0:19:47.880 --> 0:19:50.080 Because I think, you know, I had obviously such a 0:19:50.200 --> 0:19:53.399 huge connection with with Jolie, and then when I had Jason, 0:19:53.400 --> 0:19:55.280 again not saying I didn't have that connection, but it 0:19:55.359 --> 0:19:59.080 was just from surgery and all the medicines. And then 0:19:59.119 --> 0:20:01.000 you start to compare, like, is this the exact same 0:20:01.040 --> 0:20:03.880 how I felt with Jolie? Oh my gosh, is it less? 0:20:03.920 --> 0:20:06.040 Oh no, do I not have a connection? And you 0:20:06.040 --> 0:20:09.040 start to freak yourself out that you're it's just so different, 0:20:10.240 --> 0:20:12.399 I know, but it's it's amazing how our hearts have 0:20:13.080 --> 0:20:16.639 grown in the Yeah, that's funny too. How literally the 0:20:16.720 --> 0:20:19.120 night before we're looking at Julie Wick. How can we 0:20:21.160 --> 0:20:24.520 love another human being as much as Jolie? And immediately 0:20:25.040 --> 0:20:28.199 as James comes out your heart, you know, it's like 0:20:28.200 --> 0:20:30.880 the Grinch like gets sometimes big, Like in a matter 0:20:30.960 --> 0:20:34.199 of a second, he's so perfect love and already we 0:20:34.280 --> 0:20:37.120 love him in so much, but in a different way. 0:20:37.400 --> 0:20:40.480 I know, he's our little boy. He's so handsome, he's 0:20:40.560 --> 0:20:43.199 so handsome. He might be cuter than Jolie he was. 0:20:43.280 --> 0:20:46.080 I'm just putting that out there. I think he might 0:20:46.119 --> 0:20:48.840 be a cuter baby then Jolie, which is crazy to think. 0:20:48.960 --> 0:20:51.440 I can't believe you didn't say that. Jolie is like perfect, 0:20:51.720 --> 0:20:55.600 she is, he's handsome. I don't know what to do 0:20:55.640 --> 0:20:58.679 with his peep though. It's like the balls and the 0:20:58.880 --> 0:21:01.080 you know, having to wipe around the ball like that's 0:21:01.080 --> 0:21:02.560 a lot of Like you guys have to deal with that. 0:21:02.600 --> 0:21:05.360 You gotta wipe your balls like that. I mean, as 0:21:05.359 --> 0:21:07.840 a grown man, I'm not pooping in a diaper soop 0:21:08.040 --> 0:21:11.240