WEBVTT - The Farewell: Dutiful & Grief

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<v Speaker 1>Toss Popcorn is a production of iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, I'm Leanna Holsten and I'm Sienna Jacob, and welcome

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<v Speaker 2>to Tossed Popcorn, the podcast where two idiots watched every

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<v Speaker 2>This podcast is a safe h This podcast is a

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<v Speaker 2>safe ethical quandary for people who don't know anything about movies.

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<v Speaker 2>Today we're watching The Farewell. Isn't it wrong to lie?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if it's for good, it's not really a lie.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it's so a lie, it's a good lie. Warning.

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<v Speaker 2>There will be spoilers about this recent film. Yeh the Sianna.

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<v Speaker 2>Had you seen this before? I had not, but you'll

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<v Speaker 2>hear that I knew stuff about it for my prediction. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>please may I hear it right now? Please? Huh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>no problem, I'll open it here. I go.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, Leanna, this is Ciena. I'm about to watch The Farewell.

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<v Speaker 3>I have not seen this film, but I'm I listened

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<v Speaker 3>to the podcast episode it's based on, I think because

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<v Speaker 3>it's about what.

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<v Speaker 2>A family who's not telling their grandma that she's who

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<v Speaker 2>terminally ill because I don't think you have to.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's the family member's decision in China, which I

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<v Speaker 3>thought was kind of like a good idea. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>I predict there will be moral quandaries and a lot of.

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<v Speaker 2>That.

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<v Speaker 3>It will be dramatic and sad, sad, I guess, oh

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<v Speaker 3>my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, all right, I love you goodbye. Whoa. Yeah

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<v Speaker 2>it was.

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<v Speaker 3>When it came out, I was like, wait a second,

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<v Speaker 3>I know this story. I think it must have been

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<v Speaker 3>in this American Life episode or something interesting. But it

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<v Speaker 3>was really good. It was like super interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was very excited about it when I heard

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<v Speaker 2>about it. Wow, yeah, oh my god. Okay, well here's

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<v Speaker 2>my prediction. I would lie to hear your brain prediction fantastic. Okay, ready, hi, Sienna,

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<v Speaker 2>it's Leanna. I'm about to watch the Farewell. I all

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<v Speaker 2>I know about this is it is devastuted, So I

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<v Speaker 2>predict I might be devastuted and familial relations, maybe a

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<v Speaker 2>bit of air travel will be involved. Okay, Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I think there might be some lovely score,

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<v Speaker 2>a lovely score of music to the film. But no

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<v Speaker 2>worries if not love you. How you doing? By the way,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm okay, well this is exactly why we put hey

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<v Speaker 2>girl right here. Oh yeah girl, By the way, Monday,

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<v Speaker 2>Monday is the deadline before we uh talk about you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm drinking okay, okay, look at this. I'm sorry. I

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<v Speaker 2>just thought you'd ask so I was answering. Okay, No,

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<v Speaker 2>I was asking, has me that's very bad. I'm loving

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<v Speaker 2>this beverage. That's extremely it. Cianna's drinking out of a

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<v Speaker 2>very art deco glass, a little bit of a chay moment.

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<v Speaker 2>All of this just feels like, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>you'd be proud of me. I don't know why. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 2>sure I'll be proud of you for that. What random

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<v Speaker 2>say you'd be proud of me for this? And then

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<v Speaker 2>you have to be yeah sure. I don't have further plans.

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<v Speaker 2>My partner's mom gave me a chi mix for my

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<v Speaker 2>for my birthday, and I actually made it on the

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<v Speaker 2>stovetop yesterday because it was like my first day off

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<v Speaker 2>in a while. Yeah, hey girl, though, I wanna I

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<v Speaker 2>am asking about you, Hey girl? What's up? Hey girl?

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<v Speaker 2>I My my old gym closed because a boutique fitness

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<v Speaker 2>studio hates to see me come in. No, at the

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<v Speaker 2>end of last month, what was it? What was the

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<v Speaker 2>you'd do? It was Orange Theory Fitness TM, which ism

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<v Speaker 2>whusive in the US. I was gonna say, like that

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<v Speaker 2>called that being called a boutique. It's boutique. But they

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<v Speaker 2>had four London locations and they closed all of them

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<v Speaker 2>at the end of January. I know all of them.

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<v Speaker 2>It's literally the third boutique fitness studio in as many

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<v Speaker 2>years that has that I have crossed the threshold of

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<v Speaker 2>and then soon after it has closed permanently, permanently. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like a portender of doom for boutique fitness studios. What

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<v Speaker 2>are you gonna do now? So I joined just like

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<v Speaker 2>a gym, a regular ass gym around the corner, an

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<v Speaker 2>ass gym. Honestly, yeah, a little bit. These days that's

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<v Speaker 2>the trend. And today I had when you join, you

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<v Speaker 2>get like a free personal trainer taster session is what

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<v Speaker 2>it was called. So you'd like do an hour with

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<v Speaker 2>a personal Yeah, I had. I got to lick one

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<v Speaker 2>personal trainer. No, you do a one hour session with

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<v Speaker 2>a personal trainer. And what I learned from it is

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<v Speaker 2>that every single part of my body is incredibly weak.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no way that's true. You're so strong every part

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<v Speaker 2>of my body. It was so humbling. I guess that's terrible.

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<v Speaker 2>I think really what happened is I got absolutely the

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<v Speaker 2>most out of this session because I went into it prepared.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, and as a result was

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<v Speaker 2>rapidly humbled because I went into it knowing what I

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<v Speaker 2>would like to work on and the areas that I

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<v Speaker 2>know i'd like to work on. Sure, and to no

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<v Speaker 2>one's surprised, those areas did turn out to be weak,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's why I need to work on them. But

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<v Speaker 2>as a result, it was just an hour of me

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<v Speaker 2>doing things I'm not good at. Huh, totally, and that

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<v Speaker 2>that was kind of a bummer. Yeah that's tough, Like

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<v Speaker 2>you impress them with anything. You're like, give me squats

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<v Speaker 2>and I can do them. Yeah no, yeah, yeah that would.

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<v Speaker 3>Be I understand that would be sort of disheartening, especially

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<v Speaker 3>when you've been working out so much for so long and.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you're like, oh, I'm sorry. I considered myself to

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<v Speaker 2>be a strong woman, but I guess every part of

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<v Speaker 2>my body that's ever existed is a piece of garbage. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I'm made up of pieces of garbage.

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<v Speaker 3>I was at my fitist a while ago in terms

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<v Speaker 3>of like most frequently working out, and then my friend

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<v Speaker 3>that I decided to go to like the gym in

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<v Speaker 3>my apartment complex, right before I moved out of this apartment. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and she handed me one set of twenty pound weights

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<v Speaker 3>and it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was over for me because I normally just do like

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<v Speaker 2>little weights. Yeah, And I was like, I don't actually

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<v Speaker 2>know how to interact with these, and yeah, I looked

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<v Speaker 2>like there was also a big mirror and watching myself

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<v Speaker 2>trying to lift these twenty pound weights was one of

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<v Speaker 2>the worst things I've ever had to see. No, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I thought of myself in my mind, I'm like this

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<v Speaker 2>like strong, badass, strong core, let's go. And then I

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<v Speaker 2>looked like SpongeBob lifting up those stuff animal workout like

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<v Speaker 2>the wells. It was so it was so humbling. I also,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't mean to blame TikTok for yet another foible

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<v Speaker 2>in our society, but what is good? What are people

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<v Speaker 2>doing at the gym these days? I haven't been to

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<v Speaker 2>a gym since like college, because then I was doing classes. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>for most of my adult life. Going back today, everybody

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<v Speaker 2>in the free weight whatever machine area, multiple people were

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<v Speaker 2>doing handstands. What's that for? In the middle of the room,

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<v Speaker 2>elaborate complex handstands. They were standing on their hands and

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<v Speaker 2>moving their legs around in the air in ways I'd

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<v Speaker 2>never seen before. And I said, what are we all

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<v Speaker 2>training for? And why are we all knowing how to

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<v Speaker 2>do this? You should only do that if you're like

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<v Speaker 2>a professional mascot or something. Thank you. If you have

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<v Speaker 2>to be very boldly doing things with your body for

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<v Speaker 2>all to see, not just working out. Yeah, I'll have

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<v Speaker 2>to keep an open mind when I return and remember

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<v Speaker 2>that these might be professional mascots and to give them

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<v Speaker 2>their training space. Are you about to be performing for

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<v Speaker 2>a huge crowd of spectators? Perhaps because you better. That's

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<v Speaker 2>the only reason I hope that I should hope that's

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<v Speaker 2>too much. That's not what was going on in gym's

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<v Speaker 2>back in my day. I wasn't seeing people doing handstands.

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<v Speaker 2>That's for a gymnasium. That's for gymnastics. That is so strange.

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<v Speaker 2>You're in the wrong gym, you guys. I'm so making

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<v Speaker 2>the gym for being upright or horizontal but upright on

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<v Speaker 2>your feet. It's too much. I'm just trying to get

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<v Speaker 2>myself to even like stretch my neck out this week. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>yesterday at the gym, I was stretching and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, am I the hottest woman alive? And

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<v Speaker 2>then I looked to my left and somebody was doing

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<v Speaker 2>the same exercise as me, but was a thousand times

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<v Speaker 2>hotter than I'll ever be in my life. And I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, I should kill myself. That is the

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<v Speaker 2>worst thing ever.

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<v Speaker 3>Going to a gym would be really hard in that way,

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<v Speaker 3>because I'm like, I'm super content with my body. But

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<v Speaker 3>if I were to see it in a row of

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<v Speaker 3>people who go to the GM every day, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know if I could see myself like try to do

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<v Speaker 3>like a good morning you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. I know people run on the treadmill

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<v Speaker 2>near me, and I have to pretend I'm like a

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<v Speaker 2>horse with blinders on. I'm like, the pace I am

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<v Speaker 2>going is acceptable, honest, I am an acceptable human woman,

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<v Speaker 2>pretending it's okay that I am running at this pace

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<v Speaker 2>and in this body, because it is okay that I

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<v Speaker 2>exist on this earth as this present human woman. I

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<v Speaker 2>am an acceptable human woman. I have to keep saying affirmations.

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<v Speaker 2>Pretending that you're a horse is probably an actually helpful

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<v Speaker 2>to do while you're on the treadmill. I just get

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<v Speaker 2>down on our fours and clomp clomp away. But they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>she's clopp she's really good. Ah, hey girl, hey girl,

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<v Speaker 2>let's see. Let's see what's going on with me.

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<v Speaker 3>I had some fun things to share, and now I

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<v Speaker 3>don't remember them. I was sick last week, which is

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<v Speaker 3>one of the reasons that I'm like so uncomfortable in

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<v Speaker 3>my body this week, because it turns out when you

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<v Speaker 3>lie in bed for a long time, it's very uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't that so dumb? Because it's meant to be recuperating,

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<v Speaker 2>it's the most comfortable thing in the world, and yet anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>it's ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm kind of getting back to my normal life.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just glad I'm not stuffy. I had a bunch

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<v Speaker 3>of jobs this week, and it just had to be

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<v Speaker 3>the week when I just felt just terrible. Just every

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<v Speaker 3>day i'd wake up and be like, maybe today's the

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<v Speaker 3>day I'm better, and it'd be like, how am I worse?

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<v Speaker 2>Now?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, here's one part of it. Here's something I found out.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I have an allergy now to some.

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<v Speaker 2>Of my god foods. What no, no, this is my

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<v Speaker 2>greatest fear.

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<v Speaker 3>I oh god, I have never had an allergy. But

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<v Speaker 3>then shortly after the fires, I ate a salad with

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<v Speaker 3>sesame sticks in it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, yes, I remember, and I gave around. I loved

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<v Speaker 2>delicious from Trader Joe's.

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<v Speaker 3>Let it be known, they're delicious. But the next day

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, my throat and my tongue burn.

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<v Speaker 3>It must be from the fires.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And then a few days later I ate another salad

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<v Speaker 3>with all these sesame sticks in them, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, dude, the fires are like having an

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<v Speaker 3>effect on me, like four days after that fact, even

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<v Speaker 3>though it went away for a while.

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<v Speaker 2>That's crazy, the fires. It's the fire fires.

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<v Speaker 3>But then I was eating a sesame stick and it

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<v Speaker 3>felt so bad to swallow, and I was like, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 3>wait a second, We're like maybe I'm allergic to sesame.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I haven't thought about it much since hasn't

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<v Speaker 3>come up. And then I worked a long day the

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<v Speaker 3>other day on a set and immediately went and got.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you ever get No, you're vegetarian. My god, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I just I'm so happy we still connect, even

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<v Speaker 2>though I talk about meat so much in more ways

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<v Speaker 2>than one. Mama, I'm always talking about uh uh.

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<v Speaker 3>I went to what's it called the Chicken Place, the

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<v Speaker 3>chicken place where all the family members like murdered each other.

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<v Speaker 2>What you don't know what? Oh, chicken, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>chicken lore, chicken. It's okay, yeah, but I ate it.

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<v Speaker 2>And the next day I was like, oh, I'm sick.

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<v Speaker 2>Even my throat hurts today.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't believe I'm getting sicker even though should be better.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the next day, as I was eating it again,

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<v Speaker 3>I looked down as I realized there was tahini.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>And to be honest, anybody who has allergies like I

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<v Speaker 3>could use some tips. I don't know anything about it.

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<v Speaker 3>My tongue is really irritated and has been all week.

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<v Speaker 3>I went to a dinner party and it was so

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<v Speaker 3>hard to eat everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I do not know what's gonna happen. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll pray for you. Thank you. Yeah. Speaking of great

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<v Speaker 2>tragedies and not knowing someone's health outcome, yes, yeah, would

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<v Speaker 2>you please give US A synopsis of the film The Farewell.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I'm pretty sure I finished writing it. Okay, The Farewell.

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<v Speaker 3>Billy's grandma gets tests back, reporting that she is terminally ill,

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<v Speaker 3>but she is not.

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<v Speaker 2>The one who receives them. Her sister does.

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<v Speaker 3>As is legal and oftentimes customary in Chinese culture, no

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<v Speaker 3>one in the family tells nine I the grandma that

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<v Speaker 3>she is sick. The whole family comes home to China

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<v Speaker 3>for a staged wedding in order to spend time with nine.

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<v Speaker 2>Nine before she passes. It is a very emotional ride

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<v Speaker 2>for our protagonist Billy.

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<v Speaker 3>Who is struggling to make ends meet in NYC and

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<v Speaker 3>loves her nine I very much. It's tough to think

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<v Speaker 3>about what life could have been like had she her

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<v Speaker 3>family stayed in China instead of moving to the US.

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<v Speaker 2>And of course it's tough because her grandma is dying.

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<v Speaker 2>It is sweet and interesting, there's lots of family time.

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<v Speaker 2>V end yes, yes, wow, yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Aquafina. Aquafina in a dramatic role. And dare I say.

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<v Speaker 2>She's a great job.

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<v Speaker 3>Certainly, Hey, no, no, nothing's wrong, You're completely fine. I

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<v Speaker 3>would just maybe recommend during this ad break going outside

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<v Speaker 3>getting some ice cream.

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<v Speaker 2>Living your life Okay, just really try to live your

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<v Speaker 2>life today. Okay, we'll be right back. You're gonna want

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<v Speaker 2>to take advantage of these three minutes, that's all I'll say.

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<v Speaker 3>Leana, show to move on to our phone notes, where

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<v Speaker 3>we talk about the notes Duke on our phone while

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<v Speaker 3>watching the movie.

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<v Speaker 2>God Please Please. Okay, oh my god. Well we've asked

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<v Speaker 2>similar questions to one another, so let's just do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Dive right into this. Okay, and Sienna, your first note

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<v Speaker 2>is would you like your family to be the ones

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<v Speaker 2>delivering your tough news or naw?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, and Leanna, you said, Sienna, if you were dying,

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<v Speaker 3>would you want to know? Okay, big questions, up topic,

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<v Speaker 3>big questions. My answer is no, you would not want

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<v Speaker 3>to know. Yeah, I'd love going.

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<v Speaker 2>Out this way really. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like I do understand if it's to a point

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<v Speaker 3>where you can't do anything about it, hmm, the stress

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<v Speaker 3>to me, I understand that, Like, there's a certain amount

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<v Speaker 3>of just enjoying life, and I think a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>people find the peace on their own in situations like this,

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<v Speaker 3>Like that's what you're striving for, is the piece that

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<v Speaker 3>you might feel if it was just like okay and

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<v Speaker 3>not the most stressful thing in the world. And one

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<v Speaker 3>way for that to be the case is just to

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<v Speaker 3>like keep going on with your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Hmm.

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<v Speaker 3>I personally love this, but I also understand that there's

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<v Speaker 3>like it's so you know, it makes sense, it works.

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<v Speaker 3>It seems like it works in Chinese culture because there's

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<v Speaker 3>already culturally so much of a as her uncle was

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<v Speaker 3>saying later, like an understanding of what the family does

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<v Speaker 3>for each other where it would be so random in

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<v Speaker 3>the United States since the family structures here are so random. Yes, yeah, families,

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<v Speaker 3>you have no idea if anybody's close, you have no idea.

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<v Speaker 3>If they do have responsibility for each other, you have

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<v Speaker 3>no idea if they care.

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<v Speaker 2>About each other. Like it's just like yeah, yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 2>a weird place trying to define family over here. That's

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<v Speaker 2>so true. Yeah, it's tragic. Yeah, I think I would

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<v Speaker 2>want to know. Yeah, I think I would want to

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<v Speaker 2>know because I like getting my ducks in a row,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'd want to have my trash taken out literally

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<v Speaker 2>and metaphorically before my time comes, and there's people that

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<v Speaker 2>I would I'd be like, I'd like to get an

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<v Speaker 2>apology from before I go, okay, who I think, I'd

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<v Speaker 2>oh so many an a lot of long listed men. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so you wouldn't want to say anything to anybody else.

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<v Speaker 2>You'd want them to say things to you, which is

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<v Speaker 2>completely absolutely absolutely I'd say, come to my bedside and

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<v Speaker 2>apologize to me. Now is the time. And then I think,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I think would be fun is I

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<v Speaker 2>would love to if I knew my time was coming,

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<v Speaker 2>I would throw my funeral before I died, so everybody

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<v Speaker 2>had to come and give nice speeches and recount silly anecdotes,

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<v Speaker 2>fun from our time together on the on this earth,

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<v Speaker 2>because like, what is the point of that happening if

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<v Speaker 2>you can't be there to witness it and get all

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<v Speaker 2>the compliments? You know? Yeah, so true, That's what I

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<v Speaker 2>would want, and I would want to look. I would

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<v Speaker 2>want to wear a big, glamorous dress in whatever state

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<v Speaker 2>I was in, and I'd like there to be a

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<v Speaker 2>talent show that is gorgeous. I want everybody. I want

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<v Speaker 2>all my friends to perform in a talent show and

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<v Speaker 2>do whatever it is that is their talent, do their

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<v Speaker 2>absolute very best as your fine whatever their talent is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's amazing, say really nice things about me and then

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<v Speaker 2>there's a talent show and then I can die like

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<v Speaker 2>whenever after that. I love that idea. Actually, so i'd

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<v Speaker 2>really I definitely want to know in advance so I

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<v Speaker 2>could play the show. Yeah, that's a great idea because

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<v Speaker 2>then you can be like, God, my friends really did slay,

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<v Speaker 2>Like look at all these friends I am asked, who slay?

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<v Speaker 2>That is so funny. That's what I would want. And

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<v Speaker 2>then your question, would you like your family to be

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<v Speaker 2>the ones delivering you tough news? What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, first of all, just kind of my

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<v Speaker 3>first thought was like, honestly, I'd love if my family

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<v Speaker 3>was the one who knew all this stuff about me instead,

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<v Speaker 3>so they can decide.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmmm. And you didn't have to. Yeah, so this

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<v Speaker 2>iss liked a lot what the uncle said about it's

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<v Speaker 2>our duty to carry that emotional Burthen.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I what was I just thinking about one

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<v Speaker 3>of the reasons I personally, Oh yeah, I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I get too precious about everything in life, like the

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<v Speaker 3>smallest things ever about like, oh, this needs to matter,

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<v Speaker 3>this needs to matter. So for me having that information

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<v Speaker 3>which thing about life?

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<v Speaker 2>You have no idea?

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<v Speaker 3>It's completely possible that I will someday receive information of

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<v Speaker 3>this sort and have to deal with it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I just.

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<v Speaker 3>Hopefully I'll be much older than and like more at

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<v Speaker 3>peace with things, because I tend to just like I'd

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<v Speaker 3>love to not overthink it and be.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, yeahs the matter, This needs to matter, This needs

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<v Speaker 2>to matter. This is what I'm suposed to do. This is

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm supposed to do. Know is like, it's just

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Can keep living life as you are. But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>guess I was just thinking about.

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<v Speaker 2>What it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>I started kind of thinking about how my family would

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<v Speaker 3>handle such information. I love my mom so much and

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<v Speaker 3>she's really tactful, but then also sometimes when she has information,

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<v Speaker 3>she like has to sort of insinuate it in some way.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that's like do you think your family could

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<v Speaker 2>keep this or like, do you think they'd handle it well?

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<v Speaker 2>Or like, I absolutely could. This is one thing your

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<v Speaker 2>family can really bring to the table. Is nobody talking

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<v Speaker 2>about the absolutely fantastic at not telling anybody that's any

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<v Speaker 2>of you. It could be on the table for any

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<v Speaker 2>of you right now. You wouldn't know, but do you

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<v Speaker 2>I yeah, I members of your family, it would be

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<v Speaker 2>they'd be struggling to keep feeling you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Senna, I just want to say, you might want

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<v Speaker 3>to get the ice cream today.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, what what are you talking about? This

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<v Speaker 2>life is actually for some of us really short. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>go outside, No, I'll just watch TV. You know today

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't feel like the best day to watch TV. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>let's go. God, it would feel so threatening about to

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<v Speaker 2>kill me. Am I getting the fareweld? Am I getting farewelled?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you guys fairwelling me right now? Wait a second,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to be honest. Is this a farewell? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh, I loved well. We'll get into the wedding

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<v Speaker 3>more later, I guess. But like it's just a bunch

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<v Speaker 3>of family members eating so much food, and then sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>people get up and give a speech or sing a song.

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<v Speaker 2>I please. I had the exact same opinion about this wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>I loved it so much, Like this looks incredible. This

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<v Speaker 2>is exactly what it should be, And you're sitting with

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<v Speaker 2>the people you like the most. They didn't make them

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<v Speaker 2>so anyone else. Yeah, they sat with their best family friends,

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<v Speaker 2>like the best get to play games. Yeah, play games

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<v Speaker 2>that are like mildly drinking related so you get to

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<v Speaker 2>sit down the whole time. Oh so fun. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>guess I'll keep going with it. Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, Leana, you said tea. God, I ate

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<v Speaker 3>breakfast during this Otherwise I would be starving. Oh I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I gotta get me a good meal today. I got

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<v Speaker 3>me a good meal.

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<v Speaker 2>Right after this. Girl. Honestly, my heart out today is

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<v Speaker 2>because fifteen minutes after that, a friend is coming over.

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<v Speaker 2>But in that fifteen minutes I have to leave and

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<v Speaker 2>go get a meal because I have nothing in my home.

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<v Speaker 3>I when I went to get chicken in THEBA before

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<v Speaker 3>I realized that I was allergic to it, of course,

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<v Speaker 3>I were just two meals instead of one.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was the smartest thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that, Yes, smart because then I didn't just

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<v Speaker 3>have food. I had a full meal waiting for me.

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't think I'm allergic to the other parts.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know. I mean, I hope. But it

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<v Speaker 2>was delicious. And you know what I ate this morning?

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<v Speaker 2>A bit of meat. I ate like a bite of beans.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, here, I go, let us let's contextualize

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<v Speaker 2>that for the listener. When I am sleepy and need

0:23:57.720 --> 0:24:00.200
<v Speaker 2>a blast of energy, which is all the time, every

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<v Speaker 2>day of my life. Siana texted me a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>years ago and was like, you know what you should do.

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<v Speaker 2>You should eat a bit of meat. Maybe just when

0:24:07.920 --> 0:24:09.920
<v Speaker 2>she is right. She is wrong for me, but she's

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<v Speaker 2>right generally and of meat. Just I completely.

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<v Speaker 3>I think vegetarianism is like one of the best things

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<v Speaker 3>that you can do, and I think you of it.

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<v Speaker 3>I love the idea, but I genuinely don't know what

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<v Speaker 3>you eat.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, me neither. I certainly have oats in the morning. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. It's also funny I talked about I don't

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<v Speaker 2>get enough protein. It's a real problem. I'm so sleepy

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<v Speaker 2>all the time. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I almost never cook meat because it's just like takes

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<v Speaker 3>one like, oh god, no, absolutely not, no, the risk.

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<v Speaker 3>I just eat it so hot, kidding feral. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, Leanna tell me more. You said the

0:24:49.160 --> 0:24:51.920
<v Speaker 3>overlaps between this and WASP culture are many.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, this was really fun. This was like a cultural

0:24:55.320 --> 0:25:00.920
<v Speaker 2>exchange because of course there are cultural differences, sure, but man,

0:25:01.000 --> 0:25:05.040
<v Speaker 2>were there similarities. A relative asking you within like minutes

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<v Speaker 2>of you arriving, if you're if you've started seeing someone

0:25:08.400 --> 0:25:14.360
<v Speaker 2>yet absolutely and I think that's universal. But hello from

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<v Speaker 2>my culture to theirs, I said, and I see you

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<v Speaker 2>mainly mainly just not telling people things. It's so funny

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<v Speaker 2>that it comes from like what we think of so different.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, like strongly collectivist and strongly individual individual mmm

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<v Speaker 2>mm hmmm. My granddad once called my mom and was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to let you know my surgery went well,

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<v Speaker 2>and she was like, what surgery? Oh my god. He's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to worry you, but it's it's odd

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<v Speaker 2>I feel. I feel like in WASP culture it ends

0:25:52.960 --> 0:25:55.879
<v Speaker 2>up being very fracturing, whereas the purpose of it in

0:25:55.960 --> 0:26:00.280
<v Speaker 2>this culture was like to come together, like everybody bore

0:26:00.359 --> 0:26:06.720
<v Speaker 2>the burden together to help one person, if that makes sense. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, hm.

0:26:06.760 --> 0:26:10.720
<v Speaker 2>That is so so funny. Also, them being like I

0:26:10.720 --> 0:26:12.960
<v Speaker 2>don't think you should come. I'm sorry, and she's, oh

0:26:13.000 --> 0:26:16.600
<v Speaker 2>my god, I'm coming, like my grandma's dying. Wild you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna make it.

0:26:17.280 --> 0:26:20.240
<v Speaker 3>You're unfortunately going to be too emotional, so just don't

0:26:20.240 --> 0:26:21.200
<v Speaker 3>think you just don't come.

0:26:21.840 --> 0:26:24.400
<v Speaker 2>There were so many lines in this that were absolute bangers.

0:26:24.400 --> 0:26:28.080
<v Speaker 2>They were so devastating and they were so funny. Oh

0:26:28.160 --> 0:26:31.679
<v Speaker 2>my god, oh I think we are gonna have different

0:26:31.680 --> 0:26:34.320
<v Speaker 2>answers to this, but maybe not. You've written would you

0:26:34.440 --> 0:26:39.600
<v Speaker 2>enjoy getting a massage with your aunt? I as I was,

0:26:39.680 --> 0:26:41.720
<v Speaker 2>can we say, can we say oh yes or no? Answer?

0:26:41.760 --> 0:26:49.160
<v Speaker 2>On three? Yeah, let me think for one second? Okay, okay, yeah, ready, okay, yeah, one, one, two, three,

0:26:49.520 --> 0:26:56.560
<v Speaker 2>probably not okay, okay, all right. When I'm getting a massage,

0:26:56.560 --> 0:26:59.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm already embarrassed to be there, but just by myself,

0:27:00.200 --> 0:27:03.439
<v Speaker 2>nude body under a sheet, and I'm like, I'm so sorry,

0:27:04.240 --> 0:27:07.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm really sorry everyone that this is happening. I love

0:27:07.280 --> 0:27:11.560
<v Speaker 2>how close they are, but I was like, that is

0:27:11.720 --> 0:27:16.679
<v Speaker 2>actually crazy for some like this is just like not

0:27:16.760 --> 0:27:20.360
<v Speaker 2>everyone's experience of getting a massage with their aunt. No,

0:27:21.000 --> 0:27:23.399
<v Speaker 2>and they seem like like she calls her auntie, but

0:27:23.520 --> 0:27:27.320
<v Speaker 2>like when later when her dad is drunk and her

0:27:27.320 --> 0:27:29.560
<v Speaker 2>mom takes her dad's pants off so he can sleep

0:27:29.560 --> 0:27:31.760
<v Speaker 2>in his like shirt and box. Oh yeah. I was

0:27:31.800 --> 0:27:33.480
<v Speaker 2>like no, no, no, no, no no no no no

0:27:33.480 --> 0:27:35.600
<v Speaker 2>no no, that is crazy. To get out, exit the room,

0:27:35.680 --> 0:27:37.560
<v Speaker 2>run go, And then I was like, oh my god,

0:27:38.480 --> 0:27:47.200
<v Speaker 2>our culture our culture is just has read read sirens

0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:51.480
<v Speaker 2>about absolutely the wrong things, you know, it's like, oh, actually,

0:27:51.480 --> 0:27:52.399
<v Speaker 2>everyone is fine.

0:27:52.720 --> 0:27:54.960
<v Speaker 3>A number of times. I you know, what parts stood

0:27:54.960 --> 0:27:57.000
<v Speaker 3>out to me was when they go to the grave site.

0:27:57.440 --> 0:28:03.080
<v Speaker 3>They go to the cemetery, and every grave looked the same.

0:28:03.520 --> 0:28:06.000
<v Speaker 3>It's like you have at least at this plot, it's

0:28:06.000 --> 0:28:08.359
<v Speaker 3>like there's a specific kind that everybody had. But it

0:28:08.440 --> 0:28:10.520
<v Speaker 3>had like a little altar for all the families to

0:28:10.560 --> 0:28:13.159
<v Speaker 3>leave all sorts of stuff, and it was very like

0:28:15.040 --> 0:28:17.760
<v Speaker 3>there were so many different that's where like the uniqueness

0:28:17.760 --> 0:28:19.280
<v Speaker 3>comes in, is like what your family leaves.

0:28:19.800 --> 0:28:22.639
<v Speaker 2>But it was like it was just I thought it

0:28:22.680 --> 0:28:26.000
<v Speaker 2>was really beautiful. I had a couple moments in this

0:28:26.040 --> 0:28:29.199
<v Speaker 2>movie where I was like, oh, right, communism, I know,

0:28:29.880 --> 0:28:32.119
<v Speaker 2>and the only thing. Yeah, I was like that. And

0:28:32.160 --> 0:28:34.480
<v Speaker 2>it was like the apartment buildings at the beginning when

0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:38.200
<v Speaker 2>she first arrives in China, and I was like, oh,

0:28:38.280 --> 0:28:41.880
<v Speaker 2>that's why. I'm like, that's so beautiful. And I wonder

0:28:41.920 --> 0:28:43.120
<v Speaker 2>how they thought of oh.

0:28:43.080 --> 0:28:47.680
<v Speaker 3>H oh, okay, and you know, and you start getting

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:51.400
<v Speaker 3>behind it and then you're like, well, okay, but anyway,

0:28:53.280 --> 0:28:58.640
<v Speaker 3>uh huh, it's complex. Really need to learn more about

0:28:59.040 --> 0:29:02.800
<v Speaker 3>Chinese history because okay, her grandma fought in the war,

0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:03.960
<v Speaker 3>I know.

0:29:05.360 --> 0:29:07.520
<v Speaker 2>And that was not like a plot twist, I know.

0:29:08.440 --> 0:29:10.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I was like, oh yeah, probably a nurse

0:29:10.480 --> 0:29:11.720
<v Speaker 3>or something. Nope, she got shot.

0:29:12.560 --> 0:29:15.440
<v Speaker 2>I very much was like, oh, boy, which war I know?

0:29:15.560 --> 0:29:17.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't know which war it is. I don't know.

0:29:18.840 --> 0:29:21.800
<v Speaker 2>We don't learn anything. We're not not a single thing

0:29:21.800 --> 0:29:27.240
<v Speaker 2>that does not involve us. Is crazy, Yeah, it is crazy.

0:29:27.280 --> 0:29:31.400
<v Speaker 2>I know so little about world history. I don't know.

0:29:31.520 --> 0:29:35.479
<v Speaker 2>Chinese history is so interesting, it's so long. I know,

0:29:36.120 --> 0:29:39.800
<v Speaker 2>there is so much history there ancient cultures. It is

0:29:39.920 --> 0:29:42.240
<v Speaker 2>actually crazy. I always think it's funny to watch.

0:29:44.800 --> 0:29:47.840
<v Speaker 3>Movies or TV from like cultures that have ancient roots,

0:29:47.880 --> 0:29:50.480
<v Speaker 3>because some of the tropes they have are like, oh, yeah,

0:29:50.480 --> 0:29:52.080
<v Speaker 3>this is a funny trope. We have like, oh that's

0:29:52.080 --> 0:29:54.560
<v Speaker 3>a funny trope. That's sort of like Charlie Chaplin. And

0:29:54.560 --> 0:29:56.080
<v Speaker 3>they'll be like, yeah, this is a funny trope that's

0:29:56.120 --> 0:30:01.400
<v Speaker 3>from like you know, three hundred bast or something. You're like,

0:30:01.520 --> 0:30:04.280
<v Speaker 3>oh my god, you literally have so many characters.

0:30:04.520 --> 0:30:11.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah that spans dynasties. Awesome, that's really cool. Anyway, Yeah, absolutely,

0:30:11.200 --> 0:30:14.320
<v Speaker 2>I love that. Uh Leanna, you said, okay, boo sucks.

0:30:14.880 --> 0:30:18.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, that's the one shot that Boo sucked,

0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:23.040
<v Speaker 2>and immediately I said, oh, bad vibes, bad vibes off

0:30:23.040 --> 0:30:27.000
<v Speaker 2>this kid. My name is not little Bao, it's Boo,

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:31.760
<v Speaker 2>just bow. Okay. Yeah, he's like playing his video games

0:30:31.760 --> 0:30:34.920
<v Speaker 2>the whole time. Yeah, he has that like phone neck

0:30:35.080 --> 0:30:37.560
<v Speaker 2>or whatever it's called where you're so used to hunching over.

0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:41.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, technic. Yeah, that would be terrible to do that.

0:30:41.200 --> 0:30:44.200
<v Speaker 2>It'd be terrible to have that. It'd be terrible for

0:30:44.240 --> 0:30:46.360
<v Speaker 2>your next person. I know. I say that. I don't

0:30:46.400 --> 0:30:50.920
<v Speaker 2>also have that. Yeah, do you have to get married

0:30:50.960 --> 0:30:53.360
<v Speaker 2>to someone you've been dating for three months so that

0:30:53.400 --> 0:30:56.280
<v Speaker 2>your entire family has an excuse to go visit your grandma?

0:30:57.800 --> 0:31:01.800
<v Speaker 2>Maybe try talking to that person this ad break. We'll

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:13.640
<v Speaker 2>be right back, ah Leanna, we both were down. This

0:31:13.720 --> 0:31:18.880
<v Speaker 2>line you wrote down is yeah, you wrote down she's

0:31:18.920 --> 0:31:22.480
<v Speaker 2>she's dumb. I don't like her. Like I also wrote

0:31:22.520 --> 0:31:26.440
<v Speaker 2>that down. This movie is so full of bangers, you said, Oh,

0:31:26.840 --> 0:31:29.600
<v Speaker 2>and you said, lol me about all my friends partners,

0:31:31.680 --> 0:31:34.160
<v Speaker 2>she's dumb. I don't like her, I said, my friend's partners.

0:31:34.200 --> 0:31:37.240
<v Speaker 2>But it's like also just anybody who's brought into my

0:31:37.240 --> 0:31:39.640
<v Speaker 2>life that I don't want to spend time with that's

0:31:39.680 --> 0:31:42.360
<v Speaker 2>so real, that's I love. I think we as a

0:31:42.400 --> 0:31:46.000
<v Speaker 2>society need to accept that there are people who are

0:31:46.040 --> 0:31:47.560
<v Speaker 2>friends are friends with who we are not going to

0:31:47.600 --> 0:31:50.720
<v Speaker 2>be friends with. And that's okay. I am really concerus. God,

0:31:50.760 --> 0:31:53.040
<v Speaker 2>reaction is gonna be she's dumb. I don't like her.

0:31:53.120 --> 0:31:54.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to point in my life where I'm confused

0:31:54.520 --> 0:31:58.520
<v Speaker 3>about myself because I think myself as being quite nice

0:31:58.760 --> 0:32:01.760
<v Speaker 3>and accepting of people, and like, yeah, sometimes to an

0:32:01.760 --> 0:32:05.680
<v Speaker 3>extent that's like it annoys me, how like just default

0:32:05.760 --> 0:32:07.760
<v Speaker 3>nice I am versus like having some when.

0:32:07.600 --> 0:32:10.680
<v Speaker 2>People first me. But a number of people recently have

0:32:10.720 --> 0:32:14.440
<v Speaker 2>told me, like, I'm really mean to some people. You

0:32:14.480 --> 0:32:16.800
<v Speaker 2>are that the thing is, I'm just really mean to

0:32:16.840 --> 0:32:19.840
<v Speaker 2>just random guys, like I just mean to boys, of course,

0:32:20.280 --> 0:32:22.520
<v Speaker 2>but like especially just like boring.

0:32:23.520 --> 0:32:25.280
<v Speaker 3>I guess what's happening is that I thought I've been

0:32:25.320 --> 0:32:27.400
<v Speaker 3>really discreet about people that I don't like, But I'm

0:32:27.440 --> 0:32:28.320
<v Speaker 3>not being the school.

0:32:29.560 --> 0:32:31.320
<v Speaker 2>Have I told you I just stopped talking to them

0:32:31.320 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 2>and turn away. Oh my god? Have I told you

0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:38.080
<v Speaker 2>the story of the time that my flatmate's friend visited

0:32:38.160 --> 0:32:40.440
<v Speaker 2>us for a weekend. I thought I was masking it

0:32:40.520 --> 0:32:45.040
<v Speaker 2>so well. And then months later my flatmate mentioned them

0:32:45.160 --> 0:32:46.400
<v Speaker 2>and was like, oh my gosh, yeah, I like that

0:32:46.400 --> 0:32:49.480
<v Speaker 2>person who hates so much. And I was like, what

0:32:49.960 --> 0:32:54.760
<v Speaker 2>do you think I hate? And they were like, yes,

0:32:54.840 --> 0:32:59.680
<v Speaker 2>it was so obvious the entire time they were here.

0:33:00.840 --> 0:33:03.000
<v Speaker 2>It's so funny. And I was like, what are you

0:33:03.040 --> 0:33:05.040
<v Speaker 2>talking about. They were like, he said something and you

0:33:05.080 --> 0:33:10.680
<v Speaker 2>said shut up? I said, or no. They were like,

0:33:10.840 --> 0:33:13.959
<v Speaker 2>every time he made a joke, you said shut that's

0:33:14.040 --> 0:33:18.720
<v Speaker 2>so funny. That is so funny. Shut up.

0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:21.240
<v Speaker 3>My friend said something of like, yeah, well, Cianna's really

0:33:21.240 --> 0:33:22.520
<v Speaker 3>mean to all the guys were bringing into the house,

0:33:22.520 --> 0:33:29.160
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, what, We've never addressed that, but

0:33:29.240 --> 0:33:32.240
<v Speaker 3>I guess I'm like, my friend brought a friend over

0:33:33.640 --> 0:33:35.280
<v Speaker 3>who she's really close with, but I think it's just

0:33:35.320 --> 0:33:36.480
<v Speaker 3>egotistical and annoying.

0:33:36.600 --> 0:33:38.880
<v Speaker 2>And he like told her to go. He was like,

0:33:38.920 --> 0:33:39.840
<v Speaker 2>put your shoes.

0:33:39.560 --> 0:33:42.720
<v Speaker 3>On, and I like to her because they were going

0:33:42.800 --> 0:33:44.480
<v Speaker 3>to go somewhere, and I was like, Oh, you're just

0:33:44.520 --> 0:33:46.120
<v Speaker 3>gonna come into my house and just talk to someone

0:33:46.160 --> 0:33:46.400
<v Speaker 3>like that.

0:33:46.400 --> 0:33:49.840
<v Speaker 2>That's how you feel brought up. Oh my god, I

0:33:49.880 --> 0:33:52.360
<v Speaker 2>remember when you met my somebody I had a crush

0:33:52.360 --> 0:33:54.040
<v Speaker 2>on for a long time. You met them in person

0:33:54.080 --> 0:33:56.920
<v Speaker 2>for the first time, and afterwards you just went all

0:33:56.960 --> 0:34:06.440
<v Speaker 2>I can say is you g l Why? No, it

0:34:06.480 --> 0:34:08.200
<v Speaker 2>wasn't even after it was while we were still in

0:34:08.280 --> 0:34:14.400
<v Speaker 2>his home at the party he was having. I literally

0:34:14.440 --> 0:34:16.640
<v Speaker 2>think I'm so discreet sometimes, and then I'm like, why

0:34:16.640 --> 0:34:18.120
<v Speaker 2>did this person not talk to me? And it's like, Santa,

0:34:18.120 --> 0:34:20.520
<v Speaker 2>because you were literally bullying them the entire time that

0:34:20.560 --> 0:34:24.480
<v Speaker 2>you met them. You spelled out the word ugly to

0:34:24.680 --> 0:34:27.600
<v Speaker 2>describe them. I completely stand by it. I literally support

0:34:27.600 --> 0:34:34.840
<v Speaker 2>everyone in this world except for hear me up specifically boring, boring, inconsiderate, unfunny,

0:34:35.320 --> 0:34:38.800
<v Speaker 2>lame white dudes. Nice. Okay, I have to read some

0:34:38.840 --> 0:34:40.960
<v Speaker 2>of these nuts. Leonti who said if my whole family

0:34:41.000 --> 0:34:43.320
<v Speaker 2>came to visit me but they all looked ugly and sad,

0:34:43.360 --> 0:34:46.960
<v Speaker 2>I'd be pissed too. Wait, that is what the grandma

0:34:47.040 --> 0:34:49.759
<v Speaker 2>keeps doing. She's like, yeah, you look really ugly. I

0:34:49.760 --> 0:34:51.920
<v Speaker 2>don't think you should go out today. All of you

0:34:51.960 --> 0:34:54.480
<v Speaker 2>look really bad and like somber, Like what the hell

0:34:54.560 --> 0:34:58.840
<v Speaker 2>is going a joyful time? I'd be pee, Oh you

0:34:59.000 --> 0:35:01.719
<v Speaker 2>look awful. Why did you come here if you're gonna

0:35:01.760 --> 0:35:02.560
<v Speaker 2>be sad? And ugly.

0:35:02.880 --> 0:35:07.080
<v Speaker 3>Honestly, her Grandma's observe at af Then you've also said

0:35:07.560 --> 0:35:10.200
<v Speaker 3>you can't be weird at the wedding. Me to myself.

0:35:14.280 --> 0:35:16.319
<v Speaker 2>Last summer and this year, I'll be going to a

0:35:16.360 --> 0:35:19.719
<v Speaker 2>cousin's wedding in the US and will be so much

0:35:19.719 --> 0:35:23.560
<v Speaker 2>that doesn't exist. No, I don't know when that one's happening,

0:35:23.960 --> 0:35:27.759
<v Speaker 2>but it's real and will happen. My cousin's getting married

0:35:27.760 --> 0:35:31.120
<v Speaker 2>in March, and I'm much like last year. I'm flying

0:35:31.120 --> 0:35:33.600
<v Speaker 2>in the day before from the UK. I will be

0:35:33.719 --> 0:35:37.080
<v Speaker 2>so jet lagged the entire time, and I just have

0:35:37.120 --> 0:35:40.880
<v Speaker 2>to be like upright and normal and cheerful. Oh, I

0:35:40.920 --> 0:35:43.240
<v Speaker 2>can't be weird at the wedding. Don't be weird. Don't

0:35:43.280 --> 0:35:45.759
<v Speaker 2>be weird at the wedding. Oh my god, Siena, I

0:35:45.840 --> 0:35:49.360
<v Speaker 2>had the same thought you wrote these graves kind of lit, yeah,

0:35:49.400 --> 0:35:54.239
<v Speaker 2>and I wrote something almost identical to that. You said,

0:35:54.719 --> 0:35:58.879
<v Speaker 2>is this when you said this is honestly kind of yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

0:35:58.920 --> 0:36:01.399
<v Speaker 2>Oh I thought I said lit, but was sleigh. Oh

0:36:01.400 --> 0:36:04.400
<v Speaker 2>my god, embarrassing for me. The personal trainer today, at

0:36:04.400 --> 0:36:05.759
<v Speaker 2>the end of the session he was like, who's your

0:36:05.800 --> 0:36:07.840
<v Speaker 2>favorite music artist? Just like randomly can I ask? And

0:36:07.880 --> 0:36:10.080
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, probably Beyonce and he was like

0:36:10.160 --> 0:36:13.839
<v Speaker 2>I knew it. I was like, what what does that mean?

0:36:14.200 --> 0:36:15.200
<v Speaker 2>And then I was like, wait, do I give off

0:36:15.239 --> 0:36:16.359
<v Speaker 2>that energy? He was like yeah. I was like, well,

0:36:16.360 --> 0:36:17.600
<v Speaker 2>that's actually that means a lot to me. Thank you

0:36:17.600 --> 0:36:19.200
<v Speaker 2>for saying that. But then I was like, what gave

0:36:19.200 --> 0:36:21.120
<v Speaker 2>it away? And he was like, you kept saying slag

0:36:23.760 --> 0:36:26.080
<v Speaker 2>nine times out of ten. When people say slay a lot,

0:36:26.120 --> 0:36:30.640
<v Speaker 2>it's because they love Beyonce. Okay, that's so good. That's nice.

0:36:31.400 --> 0:36:33.920
<v Speaker 2>I love to imagine how many times you were saying

0:36:33.960 --> 0:36:37.359
<v Speaker 2>slay during this person session. I will say I did

0:36:37.480 --> 0:36:44.759
<v Speaker 2>literally up topay every rep Okay, instead of grunts, I

0:36:44.800 --> 0:36:51.360
<v Speaker 2>say sleigh. That's so funny. Anyway, I loved this scene

0:36:51.360 --> 0:36:54.000
<v Speaker 2>at the grave where they bring like items that the

0:36:54.280 --> 0:36:57.080
<v Speaker 2>person loves. I love that. I was like, that is

0:36:57.160 --> 0:37:00.720
<v Speaker 2>just it feels like there are so many divides between

0:37:00.760 --> 0:37:02.959
<v Speaker 2>Eastern and Western culture, and I feel like one big

0:37:03.000 --> 0:37:04.600
<v Speaker 2>thing is like I feel like a lot of Eastern

0:37:04.640 --> 0:37:08.480
<v Speaker 2>cultures have a dialogue around death. Yeah, we do not

0:37:08.800 --> 0:37:11.600
<v Speaker 2>at all in the West, and they will like, like,

0:37:11.680 --> 0:37:14.680
<v Speaker 2>death is not the end for people, And this was

0:37:14.719 --> 0:37:16.920
<v Speaker 2>one of those lovely ways of like keeping that person's

0:37:16.920 --> 0:37:19.720
<v Speaker 2>spirit alive, of like going and bringing their favorite foods

0:37:19.760 --> 0:37:23.799
<v Speaker 2>and like smoke, like cigarettes, and like a coat, a

0:37:23.840 --> 0:37:25.759
<v Speaker 2>paper coat for the winter so they don't get cold.

0:37:25.800 --> 0:37:29.879
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, I love that. Yeah, we don't

0:37:29.880 --> 0:37:35.240
<v Speaker 2>do death very good over here, No, we do not. Leonna,

0:37:35.239 --> 0:37:39.719
<v Speaker 2>you said Ellen, Oh what the dog dog? The dog

0:37:39.840 --> 0:37:42.600
<v Speaker 2>name was Ellen. The dog's name was Ellen. That was

0:37:42.600 --> 0:37:44.239
<v Speaker 2>really funny. I loved it the whole. That reminds me

0:37:44.280 --> 0:37:46.839
<v Speaker 2>of your family, an entire family, just facing a dog

0:37:51.840 --> 0:37:54.160
<v Speaker 2>that is that's absolutely us. Yeah. It's like just trying

0:37:54.200 --> 0:37:56.520
<v Speaker 2>to get the dog to do absolutely anything, and then

0:37:56.520 --> 0:38:03.680
<v Speaker 2>the dog does and we all go yes, yay, yeah

0:38:03.560 --> 0:38:09.520
<v Speaker 2>a hundred Sienna, mm hmmm. Yes. Your final notes are

0:38:09.920 --> 0:38:15.560
<v Speaker 2>wait is still with us, but this movie is out now?

0:38:17.239 --> 0:38:21.719
<v Speaker 2>Leanna you said yes, ny night, Yes, Okay. For context,

0:38:21.719 --> 0:38:24.280
<v Speaker 2>everybody at the very end, well the beginning, the first

0:38:24.320 --> 0:38:28.080
<v Speaker 2>like the title card is like based off a true

0:38:28.400 --> 0:38:32.479
<v Speaker 2>lie hi, and then the very end they're like nine,

0:38:32.480 --> 0:38:38.400
<v Speaker 2>I uh was diagnosed and six years later she's still

0:38:38.400 --> 0:38:42.280
<v Speaker 2>with us, And you're what does this movie is out

0:38:42.320 --> 0:38:47.280
<v Speaker 2>now mean? I guess you listened to the podcast episode

0:38:47.600 --> 0:38:49.600
<v Speaker 2>what I meant to communicate with this, and it was

0:38:49.680 --> 0:38:51.520
<v Speaker 2>quite late by that time, so I pretty much chyped

0:38:51.560 --> 0:38:54.960
<v Speaker 2>that like uh, and then immediately fell asleep. So I apologize.

0:38:56.200 --> 0:39:01.040
<v Speaker 2>But this movie is out now. What I'm struggling to

0:39:01.120 --> 0:39:07.960
<v Speaker 2>understand is that she's not supposed to know. She's not

0:39:08.000 --> 0:39:09.600
<v Speaker 2>supposed to know, and.

0:39:09.520 --> 0:39:13.879
<v Speaker 3>She's alive, and they did a whole movie about how

0:39:13.920 --> 0:39:15.880
<v Speaker 3>she doesn't know about this thing. You'd think she probably

0:39:15.920 --> 0:39:20.920
<v Speaker 3>found out question mark.

0:39:22.280 --> 0:39:24.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, she's like, what's your movie about, honey.

0:39:25.200 --> 0:39:30.040
<v Speaker 2>She's like, uh, nothing, I don't know. I'm curious about that.

0:39:30.080 --> 0:39:33.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure there's like I hadn't thought about that at all. Also,

0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:35.800
<v Speaker 2>the podcast had come out well before. I can understand

0:39:35.800 --> 0:39:38.120
<v Speaker 2>her mom not I mean, her grandma not listening to that,

0:39:38.280 --> 0:39:42.440
<v Speaker 2>but the movie, Yeah, I don't know.

0:39:43.680 --> 0:39:45.719
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I guess I asked that question, but there's no

0:39:45.719 --> 0:39:48.440
<v Speaker 3>way for us to have answers. So we'll find out

0:39:48.440 --> 0:39:50.160
<v Speaker 3>in the trivia, which makes me think, should we move

0:39:50.160 --> 0:39:50.960
<v Speaker 3>on to our next segment?

0:39:51.560 --> 0:40:00.000
<v Speaker 2>Yes, please move to where we award badges for banquets.

0:40:00.400 --> 0:40:03.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yeah, I mean, honestly not this bow badges

0:40:03.880 --> 0:40:06.600
<v Speaker 2>for banquets and tradges for.

0:40:10.800 --> 0:40:14.360
<v Speaker 3>Uh traveling for hours and hours and hours. Oh and

0:40:14.440 --> 0:40:15.480
<v Speaker 3>everyone's mad to see you.

0:40:16.840 --> 0:40:25.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that would suck. I have like four badges okay,

0:40:25.160 --> 0:40:29.680
<v Speaker 2>I have seven. Okay, yeah, I assume you're talking about

0:40:29.680 --> 0:40:31.239
<v Speaker 2>the dog a few times, so you probably have more,

0:40:31.400 --> 0:40:34.759
<v Speaker 2>only ones, thank you. I have a badge for the

0:40:34.840 --> 0:40:39.319
<v Speaker 2>doctor is a woman. Yeah, very beginning, the doctor they

0:40:39.320 --> 0:40:46.560
<v Speaker 2>talk to is a woman. Hig girly high girl. Badge

0:40:46.600 --> 0:40:52.800
<v Speaker 2>for this couple. I loved the couple who was getting married,

0:40:52.800 --> 0:40:56.320
<v Speaker 2>who like barely knew each other. Oh, they were cracking

0:40:56.360 --> 0:40:59.799
<v Speaker 2>me the heck up. Oh they're so awkward. They were

0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:05.799
<v Speaker 2>medic relief. It was so hard to watch. They were

0:41:05.840 --> 0:41:12.160
<v Speaker 2>so awkward that they ever spoke. Sorry, no, I don't

0:41:12.160 --> 0:41:14.160
<v Speaker 2>think they Well, we'll get to that in my trages.

0:41:15.160 --> 0:41:18.520
<v Speaker 2>A badge for that bejeweled and lacy baseball cap that

0:41:18.560 --> 0:41:21.839
<v Speaker 2>the ant is wearing in the first scene. Loved it.

0:41:23.160 --> 0:41:25.200
<v Speaker 2>Badge for quality time.

0:41:25.280 --> 0:41:27.600
<v Speaker 3>This family spending so much quality time together, like they're

0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:33.960
<v Speaker 3>barely on their phones except for now, and uh, it

0:41:34.040 --> 0:41:34.560
<v Speaker 3>was just nice.

0:41:34.560 --> 0:41:39.480
<v Speaker 2>They just enjoyed each other's company. So nice. Yeah, badge

0:41:39.480 --> 0:41:44.000
<v Speaker 2>for it must be much nicer in America. It's just different.

0:41:44.960 --> 0:41:50.680
<v Speaker 2>That was so real. And is a direct exchange, a

0:41:50.760 --> 0:41:54.640
<v Speaker 2>verbatim exchange that I have had so many times in

0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:57.440
<v Speaker 2>the UK. Really, do people think it's better in America

0:41:57.520 --> 0:42:03.080
<v Speaker 2>or worse? Better? Well now they know, yeah, like post

0:42:03.120 --> 0:42:06.359
<v Speaker 2>election it's been different. But my first like year and

0:42:06.440 --> 0:42:12.920
<v Speaker 2>a half here or so, especially for comedy, everybody was like, oh,

0:42:12.920 --> 0:42:14.640
<v Speaker 2>it must be so great in LA, like the scene

0:42:14.640 --> 0:42:17.960
<v Speaker 2>there must be so good. And I was like, it

0:42:18.120 --> 0:42:19.040
<v Speaker 2>seems different.

0:42:19.280 --> 0:42:21.759
<v Speaker 3>It's so so different in the UK watching you do

0:42:21.800 --> 0:42:23.880
<v Speaker 3>all these like festival like like little festival things and

0:42:23.920 --> 0:42:26.440
<v Speaker 3>like competitions, like I don't know anything like that.

0:42:26.440 --> 0:42:28.840
<v Speaker 2>In LA. It's like, I think it's different. Yeah, I

0:42:28.880 --> 0:42:31.000
<v Speaker 2>think it's really different and getting your shows and getting

0:42:31.000 --> 0:42:34.000
<v Speaker 2>reps to come and I don't know. Yes, it's just different.

0:42:34.200 --> 0:42:39.080
<v Speaker 2>It's just different. It's definitely different. It's definitely different. Badge

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<v Speaker 2>for this grandma. I just loved her vibe so much.

0:42:41.360 --> 0:42:44.920
<v Speaker 2>She was so loving and so funny. Yeah, I just

0:42:45.040 --> 0:42:50.160
<v Speaker 2>love touching your little butt, like, oh my god. But yeah,

0:42:50.840 --> 0:42:54.880
<v Speaker 2>a badge for hahaha. These umbrellas the scene where Grandma's

0:42:54.920 --> 0:42:57.440
<v Speaker 2>in hospital and they're all trying to find the hospital

0:42:57.480 --> 0:43:00.319
<v Speaker 2>and it's four of them with different colored umbrellas was

0:43:00.360 --> 0:43:02.799
<v Speaker 2>so really fun. Yeah, so fun to watch.

0:43:02.840 --> 0:43:04.840
<v Speaker 3>I also love when they walked into a room and

0:43:04.840 --> 0:43:06.080
<v Speaker 3>they're all trying to find an ear ring.

0:43:06.560 --> 0:43:10.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, yeah, that is fun. That is fun,

0:43:10.960 --> 0:43:14.400
<v Speaker 2>just like moments of such like mundane every day Yeah

0:43:14.440 --> 0:43:21.960
<v Speaker 2>stuff peppered in totally badge for carrying the emotional burden

0:43:22.040 --> 0:43:26.400
<v Speaker 2>for her. Wow, that's beautiful, that's what I wrote. Yeah,

0:43:27.120 --> 0:43:31.319
<v Speaker 2>A badge for that doctor is hot, a doctor that

0:43:31.360 --> 0:43:33.440
<v Speaker 2>the grandma immediately tried to cut Billy up with. I

0:43:33.480 --> 0:43:37.120
<v Speaker 2>was like, you're right to do so, Grandma, great instincts.

0:43:39.360 --> 0:43:41.799
<v Speaker 2>Badge for showing somebody I'm adding.

0:43:41.520 --> 0:43:45.120
<v Speaker 3>This one, which is one okay, badge for I forgot

0:43:45.120 --> 0:43:48.920
<v Speaker 3>to say it earlier. Badge for showing somebody who's thirty

0:43:49.000 --> 0:43:53.399
<v Speaker 3>in a global city struggling to find work. Oh yep,

0:43:53.800 --> 0:43:56.320
<v Speaker 3>they're just like, yep, have you gotten like just getting

0:43:56.560 --> 0:44:00.319
<v Speaker 3>uh getting an email back that says, oh you didn't

0:44:00.320 --> 0:44:04.040
<v Speaker 3>get the fellowship. Yeah, like unfortunately thousands of people applied,

0:44:04.080 --> 0:44:07.000
<v Speaker 3>and you're like, well yeah, that happens every year.

0:44:07.560 --> 0:44:12.879
<v Speaker 2>Horrible. A badge for this dog Ellen Ellen Ellen, who

0:44:13.000 --> 0:44:19.600
<v Speaker 2>sings Oh I love Ellen obsessed. And my final badge

0:44:19.640 --> 0:44:21.720
<v Speaker 2>is a badge for OMG. This is the song Beyonce

0:44:21.920 --> 0:44:28.840
<v Speaker 2>sings so wow, Okay, I do love Beyonce. During the wedding,

0:44:29.040 --> 0:44:31.279
<v Speaker 2>one of the people who does karaoke sings a really

0:44:31.280 --> 0:44:35.279
<v Speaker 2>beautiful operatic song. Yeah, and Beyonce sings that song in

0:44:35.360 --> 0:44:39.960
<v Speaker 2>her sings a bit of that in her song Daughter

0:44:40.239 --> 0:44:43.520
<v Speaker 2>off the album Cowboy Carter, Oh my gosh. And it's

0:44:43.560 --> 0:44:48.680
<v Speaker 2>like Italian opera or some form of opera's Gorgina Gorgina

0:44:49.640 --> 0:44:51.480
<v Speaker 2>trages trages.

0:44:54.480 --> 0:44:55.759
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I also want to give a badge for the

0:44:55.800 --> 0:45:01.040
<v Speaker 3>after credit song. Did you like that song after credit song?

0:45:01.520 --> 0:45:06.799
<v Speaker 2>Wait, the during credits song? Oh, I definitely noticed it.

0:45:06.840 --> 0:45:10.240
<v Speaker 2>I don't remember it now, so I guess not because

0:45:10.280 --> 0:45:16.600
<v Speaker 2>they didn't uh trages. Yes, This trage I have is

0:45:16.640 --> 0:45:19.600
<v Speaker 2>more of a confusion sort of situation where I just

0:45:19.600 --> 0:45:24.960
<v Speaker 2>don't understand, so like, are the cousin the cousin and

0:45:25.040 --> 0:45:28.600
<v Speaker 2>just girlfriends like they're married now? Are they gonna get

0:45:28.640 --> 0:45:31.040
<v Speaker 2>divorced or are they forced to stay married or.

0:45:32.840 --> 0:45:33.000
<v Speaker 1>Man?

0:45:33.120 --> 0:45:35.120
<v Speaker 2>She Al said that grandma lived for six more years.

0:45:35.120 --> 0:45:41.040
<v Speaker 2>You know, yeah, I don't know. I have two trages

0:45:41.440 --> 0:45:44.600
<v Speaker 2>on that, Okay. The first one is a trage for

0:45:45.160 --> 0:45:47.880
<v Speaker 2>it's crazy to me how the cousin is not helping

0:45:47.880 --> 0:45:52.520
<v Speaker 2>his fiance at all. She literally doesn't even speak the language. Yeah,

0:45:52.840 --> 0:45:55.919
<v Speaker 2>and he never is translating for her except once during

0:45:55.920 --> 0:46:03.680
<v Speaker 2>the wedding scene. They do not seem like a good couple. No, yeah, yeah,

0:46:03.719 --> 0:46:11.720
<v Speaker 2>in his defense, he almost never speaks. Yeah, that is true.

0:46:12.000 --> 0:46:14.439
<v Speaker 2>Do you have another badge on that or trage on that? Yes,

0:46:14.520 --> 0:46:17.439
<v Speaker 2>my other trage and this is not nice, so I apologize.

0:46:17.880 --> 0:46:20.920
<v Speaker 2>My other trage is the cousin is so ugly, it's crazy.

0:46:24.280 --> 0:46:30.600
<v Speaker 2>He definitely, they definitely gave them they they were they were.

0:46:30.640 --> 0:46:32.920
<v Speaker 2>They had the look of comic relief. I'll say that

0:46:34.600 --> 0:46:37.080
<v Speaker 2>I thought she was really pretty though, and then he

0:46:37.200 --> 0:46:41.319
<v Speaker 2>was really funny. The hair was so bad, and I

0:46:41.360 --> 0:46:43.719
<v Speaker 2>was like, what the hell? What the hell is going on?

0:46:44.000 --> 0:46:46.480
<v Speaker 3>Both of their facial expressions were cracking me up so much.

0:46:46.480 --> 0:46:49.040
<v Speaker 3>They were very like they were like Napoleon Dynamite levels

0:46:49.040 --> 0:46:49.560
<v Speaker 3>of awkward.

0:46:50.239 --> 0:47:01.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, trage fur What did I write down? Oh?

0:47:01.360 --> 0:47:01.959
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

0:47:02.560 --> 0:47:06.319
<v Speaker 3>What I wrote down was trage for she'll come to

0:47:06.400 --> 0:47:10.120
<v Speaker 3>her wedding, And what I meant was tragh ford that

0:47:10.239 --> 0:47:12.640
<v Speaker 3>moment where the Grandma's like, oh well, don't worry for

0:47:12.680 --> 0:47:14.279
<v Speaker 3>your wedding, We'll do this, And that's the kind of

0:47:14.280 --> 0:47:17.480
<v Speaker 3>thing of like grief and realizing oh, you won't be there.

0:47:18.200 --> 0:47:25.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so heart wrenching. Mm. My final trage is trag

0:47:25.080 --> 0:47:28.320
<v Speaker 2>for the dog was only in one scene. Yeah, that's true,

0:47:29.400 --> 0:47:32.439
<v Speaker 2>because the dog was on the poster for the film

0:47:32.520 --> 0:47:36.320
<v Speaker 2>when I clicked play, but only on one scene. Tragh.

0:47:36.320 --> 0:47:38.400
<v Speaker 3>My final trage is this is personal taste, and I

0:47:38.440 --> 0:47:41.320
<v Speaker 3>wonder how you feel about it. But the very final

0:47:41.480 --> 0:47:47.840
<v Speaker 3>song of the movie, I was like, oh what, Oh.

0:47:48.320 --> 0:47:50.080
<v Speaker 2>I know they chose it on purpose and there's probably

0:47:50.080 --> 0:47:53.600
<v Speaker 2>some significance, some like emotional significance, and so I shouldn't

0:47:53.640 --> 0:47:55.600
<v Speaker 2>be just a hater on it. But it was like

0:47:57.000 --> 0:47:59.759
<v Speaker 2>I really didn't like it. It was was it just like

0:47:59.800 --> 0:48:01.040
<v Speaker 2>a in English?

0:48:01.320 --> 0:48:03.919
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was just a song in English sung by

0:48:04.880 --> 0:48:07.920
<v Speaker 3>like a theater person is what it sounded like, or

0:48:07.960 --> 0:48:09.640
<v Speaker 3>like it was a choir song or something.

0:48:10.280 --> 0:48:12.560
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't know. I felt like the point was

0:48:12.560 --> 0:48:15.320
<v Speaker 2>that it's very raw and maybe it was a cappella

0:48:15.440 --> 0:48:17.600
<v Speaker 2>or something. But I was just like, hmm, I'm not

0:48:17.680 --> 0:48:26.760
<v Speaker 2>liking this. Yeah boo, Well, Sienna, let's get engaged into

0:48:26.800 --> 0:48:29.960
<v Speaker 2>our next segment. How to pretend you've seen this film.

0:48:30.040 --> 0:48:33.359
<v Speaker 2>This is for you are at your cousin's wedding and

0:48:34.000 --> 0:48:36.600
<v Speaker 2>Boo comes up to you while you're just trying to

0:48:36.640 --> 0:48:39.000
<v Speaker 2>play a fun game with your family and interrupts the

0:48:39.040 --> 0:48:41.080
<v Speaker 2>game and says, oh my gosh, Wow, playing a game

0:48:41.080 --> 0:48:44.200
<v Speaker 2>with your family at a wedding really reminds me of

0:48:44.200 --> 0:48:46.719
<v Speaker 2>a beautiful film about a young teen boy and his

0:48:48.880 --> 0:48:52.080
<v Speaker 2>cell phone. And I'm going to talk to you all

0:48:52.160 --> 0:48:55.200
<v Speaker 2>about it. It's called The Farewell. And here's every single

0:48:55.239 --> 0:49:00.960
<v Speaker 2>thing I know. And in order to uh put Boo

0:49:01.040 --> 0:49:04.600
<v Speaker 2>on a plane and send him away, here are a

0:49:04.600 --> 0:49:06.200
<v Speaker 2>few things you can say to pretend you've seen the

0:49:06.200 --> 0:49:11.040
<v Speaker 2>film The Farewell. Hmm, yes, Boo, I've seen The Farewell,

0:49:11.160 --> 0:49:14.799
<v Speaker 2>and I understand that you are going to try to

0:49:14.800 --> 0:49:18.160
<v Speaker 2>talk to me about it, but everyone thinks it's better

0:49:18.200 --> 0:49:24.160
<v Speaker 2>if you don't. Yes, Boo, I have seen the film

0:49:24.200 --> 0:49:28.000
<v Speaker 2>The Farewell. Extremely fun and slay fact. In addition to

0:49:28.080 --> 0:49:31.720
<v Speaker 2>writing and directing the film, Lulu Wang also plays piano

0:49:31.920 --> 0:49:34.759
<v Speaker 2>in this for the soundtrack. Oh my gosh, she is

0:49:34.800 --> 0:49:38.120
<v Speaker 2>literally did she absolutely rip it on the piano during

0:49:38.120 --> 0:49:44.960
<v Speaker 2>that one scene? I don't know. Yeah, that was sick. Awesome, Boo,

0:49:45.440 --> 0:49:49.760
<v Speaker 2>I've seen The Farewell. Please stop talking and eat something.

0:49:49.880 --> 0:49:57.600
<v Speaker 2>Look at your face, it's not right right. They said

0:49:57.600 --> 0:49:59.440
<v Speaker 2>the meanest things that also were true.

0:50:00.360 --> 0:50:06.520
<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, uh as you were just asking, yes, yes, bow,

0:50:06.600 --> 0:50:09.480
<v Speaker 3>I have seen the film The Farewell. The person playing

0:50:10.120 --> 0:50:16.160
<v Speaker 3>the piano in that apartment scene is Aquafina No way,

0:50:16.320 --> 0:50:18.920
<v Speaker 3>she like she studied jazz and she's really good at piano.

0:50:19.480 --> 0:50:23.879
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, that's awesome. Badge for that. Damn yeah,

0:50:23.880 --> 0:50:29.160
<v Speaker 2>that was that was awesome. I'm sorry, Bao, I've seen

0:50:29.200 --> 0:50:31.359
<v Speaker 2>The Farewell, but I can't listen to you talk about

0:50:31.400 --> 0:50:33.719
<v Speaker 2>it right now because somebody's just come on the mic

0:50:33.760 --> 0:50:52.799
<v Speaker 2>for karaoke and it's Ellen. Yes, this is I guess interesting. Yes, Boo,

0:50:52.880 --> 0:50:55.560
<v Speaker 2>I have seen the film. I've seen the film The Farewell.

0:50:56.920 --> 0:50:59.960
<v Speaker 2>The director and writer Lulu Wang when she made them,

0:51:00.400 --> 0:51:05.960
<v Speaker 2>she discovered that she had really underestimated, considerably, considerably underestimated

0:51:06.000 --> 0:51:10.320
<v Speaker 2>the rates she would have to pay Chinese actors. For example,

0:51:10.560 --> 0:51:12.520
<v Speaker 2>the woman who plays nine Ie is a very popular

0:51:12.560 --> 0:51:15.520
<v Speaker 2>actress in China, which makes sense because she was so good, amazing,

0:51:16.840 --> 0:51:20.240
<v Speaker 2>and Lulu Wang had to personally plead her to accept

0:51:20.280 --> 0:51:24.560
<v Speaker 2>the role. She plead with her, yes, which I'm so

0:51:24.640 --> 0:51:27.200
<v Speaker 2>glad she did. I'm so glad she did because it

0:51:27.280 --> 0:51:32.719
<v Speaker 2>was awesome. She was so good, little round butt. All right, Sienna,

0:51:34.040 --> 0:51:36.440
<v Speaker 2>let's have a sham wedding in the form of our

0:51:36.520 --> 0:51:39.799
<v Speaker 2>segment should you watch this or where we tell you

0:51:39.880 --> 0:51:42.680
<v Speaker 2>our beloved listeners if we think you should watch this

0:51:42.760 --> 0:51:45.200
<v Speaker 2>film or if you should do something else with your time.

0:51:47.320 --> 0:51:49.080
<v Speaker 2>My opinion is that yes, you should watch it. I

0:51:49.160 --> 0:51:53.360
<v Speaker 2>really loved it. Yes, Leanna, what do you think I

0:51:53.400 --> 0:51:57.239
<v Speaker 2>would say? Yeah? Absolutely, you can watch The Farewell. It's

0:51:57.239 --> 0:52:00.680
<v Speaker 2>a cool one hour forty minute. We love that it

0:52:00.760 --> 0:52:06.640
<v Speaker 2>deals with themes so true. It's interesting to watch it

0:52:06.680 --> 0:52:08.879
<v Speaker 2>if you were raised in like a very very very

0:52:08.880 --> 0:52:12.040
<v Speaker 2>Western culture. Yeah, I think if you're looking for something

0:52:12.080 --> 0:52:16.920
<v Speaker 2>that's episodic and also about kind of like a meeting

0:52:16.960 --> 0:52:19.640
<v Speaker 2>of like Eastern and Western culture, and I think we'll

0:52:19.640 --> 0:52:23.319
<v Speaker 2>be discussing death a lot. You could watch season three

0:52:23.360 --> 0:52:27.040
<v Speaker 2>of The White Lotus, which just started and it's set

0:52:27.040 --> 0:52:30.400
<v Speaker 2>in Thailand this season and I'm one episode in and

0:52:30.440 --> 0:52:33.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm loving it. Oh my gosh, I'm about to start

0:52:33.040 --> 0:52:36.759
<v Speaker 2>watching it today probably. Oh, I'm so excited. Sianna, what

0:52:36.760 --> 0:52:38.480
<v Speaker 2>would you rate the film, The Farewell.

0:52:38.960 --> 0:52:42.319
<v Speaker 3>Honestly, I had a wonderful time. I really really enjoyed it.

0:52:42.719 --> 0:52:43.920
<v Speaker 3>This is the kind of movie I love, So.

0:52:43.920 --> 0:52:46.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna go ahead and give us a five. Yeah,

0:52:46.360 --> 0:52:48.560
<v Speaker 2>gives this movie. It's so much I'm rating them so

0:52:48.640 --> 0:52:50.800
<v Speaker 2>much higher now that we're just watching movies directed by women.

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<v Speaker 2>To know, there's so much easier to watch, It's insane.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, oh, yeah, I enjoyed that experience. I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, sometimes generalizing works because I always say that female

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<v Speaker 3>directors are the best.

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<v Speaker 2>But now I know it for sure, we are approving it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I will give this film five delicious family feasts out

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<v Speaker 2>of five. What about yourself? I will give The Farewell

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<v Speaker 2>four Little round butts out of four. I'm out of

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<v Speaker 2>five little round bots, little round butts out of five.

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<v Speaker 2>I enjoyed it a lot. I think it was like

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<v Speaker 2>a personal taste thing of like, it wasn't my favorite

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<v Speaker 2>movie ever totally. I think because a lot of it

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<v Speaker 2>was just like really real. But I loved learning about

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<v Speaker 2>a different culture and their approach to something, and also

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<v Speaker 2>seeing how it really really overlapped with my culture. Are

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<v Speaker 2>who freaking knew?

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<v Speaker 1>Ah?

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<v Speaker 2>And that's it. Everyone that has been our review of

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<v Speaker 2>the Farewell. Thank you so much for listening. We are

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<v Speaker 3>Now and join us next week when we will be

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<v Speaker 3>watching the PoTA Ladies.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited. I have already had it. I've already

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<v Speaker 2>so excited. Here, thank you, we love you. Bye Farewell.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I loved during the wedding photoshoot when

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<v Speaker 2>a different bride and groom walked into their set o.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry we're lost. The little settings of this film yeah

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<v Speaker 2>really fun, Like, what was that place