WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Barwreck

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<v Speaker 1>Second date updated. You know, I googled the top ten

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<v Speaker 1>most awkward things that can happen on a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>They had severely late, your date talks too much, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't talk at all, boy, or they talk out of

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<v Speaker 1>a weird part of their body that isn't their mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh are they doing that?

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<v Speaker 1>J I'd actually like to see that.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that your knee talking yet?

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<v Speaker 1>But none of those compared to what actually happened on

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners first dates. His name is Will,

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<v Speaker 1>and today he needs our help. So Will, welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, everybody has gone.

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<v Speaker 1>Now are you talking to us out of your mouth

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<v Speaker 1>with that? Will? Or where is that voice coming from?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm not sure. Somewhere else wherever you're talking out?

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<v Speaker 1>If that's fine with us, just tell us about why

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<v Speaker 1>you emailed the show like you had a problem with

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<v Speaker 1>your first date the other night.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh. Yeah, So I've been chatting with this girl. Her

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<v Speaker 3>name's Leanne. You know, she's really pretty, and our chats

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<v Speaker 3>online they've been really good, but it's been heating up

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<v Speaker 3>more and more.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, are you excited about that?

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to meet up with her, you know, but

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't officially said anything up or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the craziest thing happened. I randomly ran into

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<v Speaker 3>her while I was yeah, I was out on another

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<v Speaker 3>date with a different girl at a bar.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa wait, well, what do you mean? Like you saw

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<v Speaker 2>her down the bar? She came up to you?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>I was sitting at the bar top with my date

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<v Speaker 3>and two people walk up to the bar and they

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<v Speaker 3>sit directly to my right. I look over and the

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<v Speaker 3>person who's next to me, I don't recognize them, but

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<v Speaker 3>one chair over it's Leanne.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude?

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<v Speaker 2>Was she also on a date?

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<v Speaker 3>No, it was some other girl, maybe a friend.

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<v Speaker 2>I would be hiding the entire time. I wouldn't tend to.

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<v Speaker 1>Underneath the bartop. What do you do there?

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<v Speaker 6>Will?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I mean that would all be good and well,

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<v Speaker 3>except for we locked eyes with one another.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god, who said something first?

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<v Speaker 3>I introduced her to my date.

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<v Speaker 4>My that's funny, though, I mean, you have to write,

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<v Speaker 4>does what did you say?

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<v Speaker 3>I dropped the f B my friend Leanne.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's fine, that's fine from his perspective, But

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<v Speaker 1>what's Leanne's take on that?

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<v Speaker 3>The look on Leanne's face, it was basically like, are

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<v Speaker 3>you e F and kidding me?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, I mean, but what other word where he's

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<v Speaker 4>supposed to use as long as you didn't introduce your

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<v Speaker 4>date as like your wife or something like right your girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I would imagine that you tried to cut

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<v Speaker 1>off that conversation as quickly as possible.

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<v Speaker 3>I tried. I mean there's also another level to this,

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<v Speaker 3>because she'd asked me before if that same night worked

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<v Speaker 3>for us to go out, and I told her I

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<v Speaker 3>couldn't because I was busy. Oh my god, Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>You why you got caught busy? You didn't say what

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<v Speaker 1>he was busy with.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're just talking to her.

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<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't know if you were want to go on

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<v Speaker 4>like you wouldn't want to know someone's going on to

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<v Speaker 4>date that night.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's no cheating or anything. It's just awkward. Thing

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<v Speaker 2>is weird?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? And you know, in all fairness, I had booked

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<v Speaker 3>the date with that girl before, so technically I was busy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I ask you who were you most excited to

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<v Speaker 4>go out with, Leanne or the girl you were already

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<v Speaker 4>out with?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you know, well here's an easier question. Who are

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<v Speaker 1>we calling today?

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<v Speaker 3>We're calling Leanne?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so that's the answer you should probably give.

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<v Speaker 4>That's probably because he already has another date lined up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, you guys can edit that pause out right?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, No, no we can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, so, how so that's already extremely uncomfortable for everybody involved.

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<v Speaker 1>How did the rest of that night go?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, add insult to injury, My Dave was like flirting

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<v Speaker 3>and touching my arm the whole time, Like, I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>over there. I'm trying to finish up my drink as

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<v Speaker 3>quickly as I can so we can get the hell

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<v Speaker 3>out of there.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, I get it, I get it, I'm cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just get out of here.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I mean eventually Leanne and her friend got

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<v Speaker 3>up and left.

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<v Speaker 2>They left first.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's not a good look. Have you heard.

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<v Speaker 3>Anything from Leanne after the date? I texted her and

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<v Speaker 3>I was like just trying to do damage control. I'm like, hey, sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>that was pretty awkward, but I really do want to

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<v Speaker 3>see you, And of course I got no response, which

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<v Speaker 3>fuck yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>It could just be hard.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I mean, even though it's like you did nothing wrong,

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<v Speaker 4>like she'll never be able to see you without that

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<v Speaker 4>other girl, now, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, right, well, you know, a lot of times when

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<v Speaker 1>we do these types of calls that seem fairly obvious

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<v Speaker 1>for the reason why you're not getting a call back,

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<v Speaker 1>it turns out not to be that. So maybe I'm

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<v Speaker 1>thinking Leanne just had a bad snack at the bar,

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<v Speaker 1>a little tummy, it had to go home. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>he only had one date. What a loser. Maybe Alexis

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<v Speaker 1>is this fixable?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think so. For sure. He didn't do anything wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just awkward, so we just gotta make up for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he never actually, like completely lied, He just

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<v Speaker 1>said that he was busy, so that works in his

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<v Speaker 1>favorite He must be very, very good looking if he

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<v Speaker 1>has multiple women wanting to go out with him, totally

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<v Speaker 1>And he didn't in her face either that night, Like

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<v Speaker 1>he could have been a jerk about it and been

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<v Speaker 1>really open, but he was trying to be like koy

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<v Speaker 1>and quiet and like get out of there.

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<v Speaker 4>Point yea was the other girl isn't like way more

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<v Speaker 4>ugly or way more hotter than she is.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it'll be fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Texas and some pictures of these girls.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, just like there's a weird thing if you're like

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<v Speaker 4>on either spectrum some reason, Well.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll work on that, and in the meantime, we'll come

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<v Speaker 1>back and we will call Leanne for you and try

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<v Speaker 1>to convince her to give you another chance with your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Right after this second date update, out

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<v Speaker 1>of all the bars and all the towns and all

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<v Speaker 1>the world, our listener, Will had to pick the worst

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<v Speaker 1>one because he was on a first date with a

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<v Speaker 1>woman and another girl that he'd been chatting with on

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<v Speaker 1>the dating apps just happened to walk.

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<v Speaker 2>In, Oh, sit right next to him.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you do? He decided to introduce the

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<v Speaker 1>two of them to each other.

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<v Speaker 2>They already made eye contact. Jeff, there was no way back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you can't hide at that point. And Leanne, the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that we're about to call here today, is not

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<v Speaker 1>texting Will back after that awkward bar encounter. I am

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<v Speaker 1>no curious, Will. What about that other girl that you

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<v Speaker 1>were with? Where are you at h with her? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that still on the table? Well?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, totally still on the table. I'm just kind

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<v Speaker 3>of how do I put.

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<v Speaker 2>This shopping around?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I'm kind of waiting to see what Leanne says. So,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. My mom always raised me, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>a bird in the hand is worth to the bush right.

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<v Speaker 2>God means keep one on the line.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah you know, yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>You never know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but we're not going to say those things while

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<v Speaker 1>Leanne is on the phone. Yes, of course we should

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<v Speaker 1>bring up the awkward encounter, but we'll trying lightly gloss over.

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<v Speaker 4>And he's putting more effort into this date with Leanne obviously.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sure, yes, yes, we have a game plan. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>call her, we'll see if she picks up. Here we go, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Leanne? Hey Leenn. You're on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>right now with a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Brain Freeze. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>My co host is frequently drinking during the show, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's probably so she gets accent. But just to cut

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<v Speaker 1>right to it, we're doing a segment here called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update, and we're trying to help out one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners who you've been chatting with online recently

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<v Speaker 1>named Will. Okay, but I mean you're not laugh You're

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<v Speaker 1>not chatting with him anymore.

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<v Speaker 6>According to him, definitely not.

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<v Speaker 4>I cannot wait to hear your side of this story,

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<v Speaker 4>because yes, we have heard about kind of an awkward

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<v Speaker 4>run in that happened between you and him at a bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Ohh he was on a date with another woman, super

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<v Speaker 1>super awkward.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, tell us what I mean from the beginning,

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<v Speaker 4>you walk into the bar and then what I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>I was totally shocked because he told me he couldn't

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<v Speaker 6>meet up that night because he was busy. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>he wasn't lying, he was busy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, right, not the excuse you wanted to see. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we understand that you probably didn't feel great

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<v Speaker 1>about what you saw.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, no, And I mean it was uncomfortable to be

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<v Speaker 6>sitting there, but it was literally the only seats. And

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<v Speaker 6>my friend was like, oh, there's two seats at the bar,

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<v Speaker 6>and she led us over there and I sat down

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<v Speaker 6>and I looked over and there with Will and I

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<v Speaker 6>was like at first, like initially kind of thinking, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>what a coincidence, maybe he's just here, And then I

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<v Speaker 6>see there's a girl next to him, and I was

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<v Speaker 6>like mortified. I thought I was going to die. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. Clearly there was someone more important than

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<v Speaker 6>me because he.

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<v Speaker 5>Girl.

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<v Speaker 6>That kind of sucks.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Philip, I don't think that you should take it personally.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he was really excited about you. You just

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<v Speaker 2>already made plans with somebody else.

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<v Speaker 6>I decided I'm not playing that game. I'm bound out.

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<v Speaker 2>You think it's a game, yes, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Mean if you're dating a ton of people, like, it's

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<v Speaker 6>not something that you're looking for a real connection. You're

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<v Speaker 6>just looking for connections, And that's not what I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're not talking to anyone else.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I I was looking to talk to one person,

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<v Speaker 6>and when I found somebody that I connected with, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't really talk to anybody else because that's just

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<v Speaker 6>not my vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, hear what you're saying. And I think I would

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<v Speaker 1>feel the exact same way as you do if I

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<v Speaker 1>was in your shoes, like, feel like I'm getting passed

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<v Speaker 1>over for somebody who's being chosen ahead of me. But

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing. We've actually talked to Will, and he

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<v Speaker 1>told us how much he was connecting with you, and

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<v Speaker 1>how excited he was to eventually meet up with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and how terrible he felt about the situation that happened, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>is there any possible way that you could see yourself

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<v Speaker 1>being open to just having a conversation with him about it?

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<v Speaker 6>What is there even to talk about? Like, we both

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<v Speaker 6>know what happened. I'm surprised he even wants to go

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<v Speaker 6>this route.

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<v Speaker 4>Why why he's not doing anything wrong? Like what he's

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<v Speaker 4>doing is more normal, Like he didn't know probably even

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<v Speaker 4>that you only wanted to talk to him, Like.

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<v Speaker 6>I definitely said, I am not someone who sleeps around.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not someone who dates around.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, but everybody says that, you know, they don't really

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<v Speaker 4>mean a different dating patterns.

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<v Speaker 1>Morality isn't really the strength of this show.

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<v Speaker 2>So he who hasn't said I never do this.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I think we need to hear what Will

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<v Speaker 1>has to say in this situation, because he is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now, listening and wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>He's on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's how the segment works. I think he's well.

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<v Speaker 6>That I have said right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you heard all that.

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<v Speaker 2>Please don't you.

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<v Speaker 6>Want to hear it? Not really, That's why I did

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<v Speaker 6>not respond to him. I didn't really want to talk

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<v Speaker 6>to him at all.

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<v Speaker 1>He's trying to.

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<v Speaker 6>Talk to you, So now I don't have choice. I

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<v Speaker 6>have to talk to him whether or not.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Leanne, I look, I just want to say I

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<v Speaker 3>am so sorry you felt disrespected. I mean to be

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<v Speaker 3>honest with you, I felt terrible the entire time. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 3>what are the odds that we would end up at

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<v Speaker 3>the same exact bar the same night? Crazy?

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<v Speaker 6>Actually, I think are pretty good odds, because now that

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<v Speaker 6>I've talked to a few of my girlfriends about it,

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<v Speaker 6>apparently this probably would have happened regardless.

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<v Speaker 2>What huh?

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<v Speaker 3>Why? I mean?

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<v Speaker 6>I went home that night after the bar immediately told

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<v Speaker 6>my friend about what showed her your photo and she goes,

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<v Speaker 6>oh my god, are you kidding? He's been chatting with

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<v Speaker 6>me about going out too.

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<v Speaker 1>No, what shut up?

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<v Speaker 6>A lot?

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<v Speaker 1>Is your friend.

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<v Speaker 6>Dating the whole city?

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<v Speaker 5>It's a small.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a little weird that you're coming at me for

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<v Speaker 3>just talking to a lot of girls. That's normal, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you know? Did you know you were talking to

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<v Speaker 2>her friends, like, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>On their social media? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Men, men don't usually go that far. We're just like,

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<v Speaker 1>are they good looking?

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<v Speaker 2>You've gone on a date with her best friend already?

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<v Speaker 6>They had planned it, they just haven't done it yet.

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<v Speaker 2>She was on the schedule.

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<v Speaker 4>Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so Will's roster of potential dates is too big

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<v Speaker 1>for your liking.

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<v Speaker 2>Lean potential dates.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually gone out with any of these women yet, But

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<v Speaker 1>just the fact that they're even in the lineup.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if it's your best friend, it is kind

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<v Speaker 4>of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently it's more than just a best friend. It's an

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<v Speaker 1>entire apartment building of friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, radius on zero point zero one model,

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<v Speaker 4>I think more than anything.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your like profile? Tips? Because it sounds like.

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<v Speaker 1>What was your name again? I'll just change no, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Well you you wanted to say something, go.

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<v Speaker 3>Ahead, listen.

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<v Speaker 5>I understand I may be talking to too many people,

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<v Speaker 5>but look, you know we hung out, and I promise

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<v Speaker 5>to drop that number under to under ten to under ten.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember, Leanne, we've talked to a lot of guys on

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<v Speaker 1>this show, and I can say that is a extreme

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<v Speaker 1>gentleman move right there.

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<v Speaker 3>And the other thing, I can even show you the profiles.

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<v Speaker 3>They are really like, really good looking women to it,

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<v Speaker 3>and I would give that off.

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to show the ones that you're willing to

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<v Speaker 2>drop to prove to her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, not for girls.

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<v Speaker 2>She should see them.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure there's no other connection. You know, we're running

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<v Speaker 1>out of time here, so I got to offer, Leanne,

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<v Speaker 1>we would like to send you out on an official date.

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<v Speaker 1>With Will. We'll almost make a bunch of money if

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<v Speaker 1>he's got all these dates. And you're right, Will doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>need money because we're going to pay for this date

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<v Speaker 1>if you agree to it, and he knows a bargain.

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<v Speaker 1>So there you go. What do you think, Leanne?

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<v Speaker 3>Will come on?

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<v Speaker 2>At this point? All right, Leanne, what is it?

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<v Speaker 6>I just got to say I'm not interested? And I

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<v Speaker 6>can say my roommate isn't interested, either the best.

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<v Speaker 2>Friend or no good. It's clarification either way.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a double no, which you rarely ever get on

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<v Speaker 1>this show. Two knows from two different people. Well, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>seven other options. You have seven hundred other options, so

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<v Speaker 1>there's more than that. You're luck whittling it down, buddy, Sorry, Will?

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<v Speaker 5>All right, in all fairness, look, I'm bummed, len are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you bummed?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're gonna be bummed for about five minutes until you.

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<v Speaker 4>Boats brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Dating really has changed a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought she would be like such a stickler, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like I was like, oh, come on, and then the

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<v Speaker 4>more he talked.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just a complete like there's gotta be a middle ground. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you could date a few people it feels like he's

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<v Speaker 1>talking to probably like fifty sixty women all at once,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe more. I mean that's like Leonardo DiCaprio dating Rose

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<v Speaker 1>and everybody else on the Titan all at the same time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's got girlfriends in first class and second class, all

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<v Speaker 1>the way down in the boiler room.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, we should have picked a girlfriend that was on

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<v Speaker 4>a boat, for God's sake, Take the one on the door.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, get them away from each other. Anyway, make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you listen to our podcast. I know it didn't work

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<v Speaker 1>out for us here, but we are actually pretty decent

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<v Speaker 1>at getting these second dates. Yeah, so you can hear

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<v Speaker 1>all of them, and make sure to slide into Jose's

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<v Speaker 1>d MS if you have a second If you want

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<v Speaker 1>a good time, please do. I'll show you a great

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<v Speaker 1>time before I annoy.

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<v Speaker 2>Will's got extras

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<v Speaker 3>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.