Speaker 1: You're listening to Jojasua Now with me Jojo Siua and
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Speaker 1: you're listening to this podcast more than two or three
Speaker 1: days after it comes out, Happy After Valentine's Day. Today,
Speaker 1: we are going to deep dive into one of the
Speaker 1: most loved and hated holidays that there is. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. See, here's the thing with Valentine's Day. I
Speaker 1: feel like, if you are in a relationship, it has
Speaker 1: the potential to be the absolute best day of the year. Now,
Speaker 1: there are some cases I've experienced this where it can
Speaker 1: actually be the worst day of the year because you're
Speaker 1: expecting it to be the vest Lin it just comes
Speaker 1: tumbling down faster than you can hold on to it.
Speaker 1: But also, if you're not in a relationship, it's kind
Speaker 1: of a confusing day. And h That's where I'm at
Speaker 1: this year. Now, don't get me wrong, I am definitely
Speaker 1: like out there this year twenty twenty three, I was
Speaker 1: very much so like here, I'm not talking to anybody.
Speaker 1: I am staying shingle. This year, I'm like, yo, let's
Speaker 1: find some loan that sounds fun. But I haven't done
Speaker 1: that yet by Valentine's Day, so that's that. But it's interesting.
Speaker 1: I actually have found that I enjoy Valentine's Day more
Speaker 1: not in a relationship, and that truly is just because
Speaker 1: my experience of Valentine's Day being in a relationship is
Speaker 1: a bit jenky. And we will deep dive into that
Speaker 1: a little bit. I don't want to get too deep
Speaker 1: into it because it is a pretty dramatic story, but
Speaker 1: we'll get into that in the middle of this podcast
Speaker 1: at some point in time. But I will say, asides
Speaker 1: from that one Valentine's Day mishap, I do actually really
Speaker 1: really think it is a fun holiday. I love seeing
Speaker 1: what people do for each other. I like celebrating it
Speaker 1: with people who I'm not in a relationship with a
Speaker 1: friend's family. I think that is something that is so
Speaker 1: cute that you can do. What do people do like
Speaker 1: their little Gallantines. I think it's just it's fun. It
Speaker 1: can be a fun holiday. I remember when I was little,
Speaker 1: there was this one Valentine's Day where I was actually
Speaker 1: in Palm Springs with my grandma and grandpa and it
Speaker 1: was just me, just my mom, and then it was
Speaker 1: actually my dad's parents, so it was my mom's in laws,
Speaker 1: and so it wasn't like we were with her mom
Speaker 1: or her dad. It was just it was the opposite
Speaker 1: side of the family. Anyways, Cubic game and brought me
Speaker 1: like this like cutey little like heart basket and it
Speaker 1: was like a little Teddy bear and it was like
Speaker 1: fun because especially as a kid, you know, you don't
Speaker 1: even really know what Valentine's Day is or like what
Speaker 1: it's about. You just you know the Easter money comes
Speaker 1: and you go egg hunting and that's what Easter is,
Speaker 1: but you don't You're like, what the heck is Valentine's
Speaker 1: Day about? And so for my grandparents have my mom
Speaker 1: to do that for me on Valentine's Day. It's one
Speaker 1: of those memories that's so interesting because I have no
Speaker 1: photos of it. My family and I never talk about it,
Speaker 1: but somehow it is actually like really deeply engraved in
Speaker 1: my memory, which is a little confusing because I feel
Speaker 1: like from the time I was younger, the only memories
Speaker 1: that I have are things like that I've seen on
Speaker 1: my mom's Facebook or that I've been told about. But
Speaker 1: that Valentine's Day memory is something that we never talk about. Actually, tonight,
Speaker 1: I want to talk to my mom about that and
Speaker 1: see if she remembers that the same way that I do.
Speaker 1: I mean, I was probably four three, I was little.
Speaker 1: I was really really little. But hey man, it's deep, deep,
Speaker 1: deep engraved in my brain. I've actually had one Valentine's
Speaker 1: Day where I was in a relationship. I had two
Speaker 1: Valentine's Days, uh so one on one in the relationship
Speaker 1: and then another one where I was talking to somebody
Speaker 1: but it never went anywhere, but it was. It was
Speaker 1: it was actually kind of like a cute vibe to
Speaker 1: like be like we're celebrating Valentine's Day where each other's
Speaker 1: Valentine's but we're not each other's Valentine's shit. Like it
Speaker 1: was like it was like we're not because like that'd
Speaker 1: be weird, but like we are because like I think
Speaker 1: you're you're cool and you think I'm cool. It was,
Speaker 1: it was cute vibe. But I've only ever had one
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day where I was in a serious, serious relationship.
Speaker 1: And I think where I went wrong is I was
Speaker 1: expecting it to be the most magical day to freaking
Speaker 1: ever happen, and I we we were not gonna be
Speaker 1: with each other in person, but we were, you know,
Speaker 1: of course, going to FaceTime and cooked dinner together over
Speaker 1: the phone, and we had we had we had really
Speaker 1: cute plans and yeah, it just it just came tolling
Speaker 1: down really really fast. And it's actually like a joke
Speaker 1: that we still talk about today, like of what a
Speaker 1: freaking hot mess express and wreck it was. But I
Speaker 1: think just creating the expectation of like, oh, this day
Speaker 1: is gonna be so big, I mean I think I
Speaker 1: think I thought it was gonna be like my wedding
Speaker 1: day or something like. I was really really to the nine.
Speaker 1: So for any first time or was out there there,
Speaker 1: if this is your first time being in a relationship.
Speaker 1: For Valentine's Day, I can't tell you how to have
Speaker 1: a good one, but I can tell you how to
Speaker 1: avoid a bad one, and that is by overhyping it
Speaker 1: to be a super, super incredible one. Go in, have fun.
Speaker 1: Is Valentine's Day. It's meant to be light. It is
Speaker 1: not the biggest day of the year. It is not
Speaker 1: your anniversary, it is not your birthday, it is not Christmas.
Speaker 1: It's just Valentine's Day. It's a day to give some
Speaker 1: extra love. So if I could give any advice to
Speaker 1: any any first timers out there going into your first
Speaker 1: relationship based Valentine's Day, just enjoy it. Don't try to
Speaker 1: make it something that doesn't need to be. Because I've
Speaker 1: been there, I've done that, and I will never do
Speaker 1: that again. Also, if there's any people out there who
Speaker 1: have any advice for me, please be my guest. I
Speaker 1: need all the advice in the relationship world for me
Speaker 1: this year. I feel like Valentine's Day, I'm actually gonna
Speaker 1: be in Atlanta, where so who knows, maybe I'll go
Speaker 1: on a tender date or something. But actually that's one
Speaker 1: thing that I'm gonna do. This whole topic you'll hear
Speaker 1: about this next week. Dating as a celebrity. It's very interesting.
Speaker 1: I can't actually have like dating app profiles because they
Speaker 1: see my name, they get deleted, and I, you know,
Speaker 1: I put my put my driver's license in, I put
Speaker 1: my passport in, get deleted. God. I could literally give
Speaker 1: him my social Security number and they'd be like, that's
Speaker 1: not you, and I'll be like, okay, I guess it's not. Yeah,
Speaker 1: We'll get into that next week. Enjoy that that's gonna
Speaker 1: be that's gonna be a fun topic to deep dive on.
Speaker 1: Back to Valentine's Day. This year, I'll be working. I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm gonna like want to have a friend
Speaker 1: like come down to in landa they hang out with
Speaker 1: me or something. I don't know. I'm gonna be there alone.
Speaker 1: My family will bop in and out. But because it's
Speaker 1: such a work driven trip and I'll be there filming
Speaker 1: a bunch, it's kind of just like, you know what,
Speaker 1: It's just like, let's all like, it's I want to
Speaker 1: be living alone for the first time. It's gonna be crazy.
Speaker 1: Expect a podcast about that one when I get back. Ideally,
Speaker 1: my perfect Valentine's Day this year, Oh man, if I
Speaker 1: could find a girlfriend in the next day, if we
Speaker 1: counna have a nice movie night, that would be my
Speaker 1: ideal Valentine's Day. But I can't. So let me just
Speaker 1: fantasize here for a second. All right, I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: fantasize for a bit. I feel like my perfect Valentine's Day, Okay.
Speaker 1: You know what I've always wanted to do, like a
Speaker 1: movie based date, so like I see people do it
Speaker 1: with ratituey all the time. I've actually never seen Rati Twoe,
Speaker 1: so I can't speak on it, but I'm gonna I'm
Speaker 1: gonna use Elf as an example because I feel like
Speaker 1: a lot of people have seen Elf. I know the
Speaker 1: ins and outs of Elf. And so even though it's
Speaker 1: not like a love movie, just like stick with me
Speaker 1: here for a second. So we wake up in the
Speaker 1: morning and we watch the movie and we get inspired. Now,
Speaker 1: all the actions are pre activity are pre planned, the
Speaker 1: meals are pre planned, but we watch a movie in
Speaker 1: the morning to get inspired. So then like you know
Speaker 1: how he for breakfast and Elf has the spaghetti with
Speaker 1: all the like fricking candy and all that stuff on it.
Speaker 1: We would do that, you know what I mean, we
Speaker 1: would have we would have that for breakfast, and then
Speaker 1: our day, you know, we would spend it in New
Speaker 1: York City. We'd go into the we'd find we'd google
Speaker 1: World's Best coffee shop, and we'd go there. We'd go,
Speaker 1: you know, into the bedstore that like sells the mattresses
Speaker 1: and like go jump on them, just like get kicked
Speaker 1: out for fun and like make a memory. We'd frogger
Speaker 1: across all of the streets to like that's what he
Speaker 1: did in the movie, you know what I mean, go
Speaker 1: around revolving doors, because that's how he was. We'd do
Speaker 1: like just like funny things that like you could do
Speaker 1: that like was in the movie, to have like a
Speaker 1: full day inspired by the movie, right, and then eat
Speaker 1: all the food again. So like in that meal they
Speaker 1: had another spaghetti dinner, but this stuff was good spaghetti
Speaker 1: with I think doctor Pepper. Right, So we'd go out
Speaker 1: for like fancy dinner, get some fancy spaghetti, and then
Speaker 1: have some Doctor Pepper, you know what I mean, just
Speaker 1: like really live it up. And then we go home
Speaker 1: at night, we cuddle up, we cozy up, and what
Speaker 1: do we do. We watch the movie again. Now, reason
Speaker 1: being we watched the movie again is because think about
Speaker 1: while watching the movie, the laughs that we would have
Speaker 1: about ourselves being idiots throughout the day, like having those moments,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. We'd see him eat the
Speaker 1: breakfast and be like, oh yeah, that was so good,
Speaker 1: this running haha and it he's so cute, so fun
Speaker 1: and so cudly. Obviously Elf is a very very random
Speaker 1: movie to do it with, but it was just so
Speaker 1: easy to give the visual concept while you're probably just
Speaker 1: listening to this, but you get what I mean. And
Speaker 1: I think it would be so cute, so fun. I've
Speaker 1: yet to do that. I think that'd be a perfect date. Look,
Speaker 1: even if it's not Valentine's Day, because odds are with
Speaker 1: the track that I'm on right now, not gonna have
Speaker 1: a girl by Valentine's Day. But that would just be
Speaker 1: a cute date to do throughout any time of the year.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's something that like you can only
Speaker 1: do in your twenties. I mean, I feel like you're
Speaker 1: doing it. It would just be word if my parents
Speaker 1: did it, you know what I mean. And my parents
Speaker 1: my parents are God, my mom is forty nine. She
Speaker 1: just turn forty nine, and my dad is fifty three.
Speaker 1: They could just turn fifty three, maybe fifty four, I
Speaker 1: don't know. But so that would be something that like
Speaker 1: I would be like, all right, why are you all
Speaker 1: recreating out for a date night? Like that's strange, but literally, like,
Speaker 1: if that's your vibe, that's your vibe, live it up.
Speaker 1: But I feel like that would that's that's that's my
Speaker 1: perfect Valentine's Day. I feel like it is a day
Speaker 1: you do gotta go above and beyond if you're in
Speaker 1: a relationship and do something like that, Like I feel
Speaker 1: like that is a pretty extravagant adventure. But if you
Speaker 1: don't like to go above and beyond, I feel like
Speaker 1: just a nice sweet day cooking together, baking together. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. Another cute one would be like if for
Speaker 1: a Valentine's Day gift, I got my significant other, whoever
Speaker 1: got their significant other like these like huty little baking outfits,
Speaker 1: and then a bunch of stuff to bake, like get
Speaker 1: muffin mix and cookies and cakes, and like all day
Speaker 1: long you are just baking. You're baking as much stuff
Speaker 1: as you possibly can, right, Cookies, cupcakes, cakes, muffins, everything
Speaker 1: you can think of, brownies, freaking all of the above, rice,
Speaker 1: crispy trees, oh my gosh, like think of baskets you
Speaker 1: can make. Right, then you just have fun making it
Speaker 1: all day long. You're eating it all day long. You're
Speaker 1: having fun with it all day long. You're listening to
Speaker 1: fun music all day long. And then after you could
Speaker 1: eat it, you could take it to like you could
Speaker 1: take your shelter and don't you could take to a
Speaker 1: fire station. You could do something good with it. Man,
Speaker 1: I need these dates to happen if my future girlfriend
Speaker 1: is listening to this. Dear future girlfriend, here's a few
Speaker 1: things you need. If my future girlfriend's listening to this,
Speaker 1: those are the dates that I want to go on.
Speaker 1: He boy, oh boy, I will say. One Valentine's Day,
Speaker 1: this is the same one that was a little bit strange,
Speaker 1: but I got actually one of the best best Valentine's
Speaker 1: Day gifts from the person I was dating at this time,
Speaker 1: and it was Lady Gaga Oreos. There was a lot
Speaker 1: in the Valentine's DA package, but the Lady Gaga Oreos,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we're so good. So the story was
Speaker 1: I was in Canada actually, and so they didn't make
Speaker 1: them and they were exclusive only in America, and so
Speaker 1: she went out and bought them for me and shipped
Speaker 1: them to me, and it was freaking awesome. That was
Speaker 1: for sure the best Valentine's Day gift that I've ever received. Oh, lies,
Speaker 1: I take that back. I think Ezra got his tattoo
Speaker 1: for Valentine's Day. No, it so was for Valentine's Day. Okay,
Speaker 1: So we were we were on tour and this was
Speaker 1: in twenty twenty two and as were at the time.
Speaker 1: I mean we we we we were very very very close.
Speaker 1: And the thing about Ezra is him and I have
Speaker 1: a very very very special relationship. It's a very very
Speaker 1: interesting unconditional love that I think, no matter what we
Speaker 1: go through in life, and I mean I think he
Speaker 1: would probably say the same thing, we will always unconditionally
Speaker 1: love each other no matter what. And anyways, so go
Speaker 1: back to twenty twenty two Valentine's Day. He was my
Speaker 1: Valentine and we lived it up like we are both
Speaker 1: the gay as gay can be, but we you would
Speaker 1: have thought we were married for the day. Anyways, he
Speaker 1: loses all his things, and so for him I got
Speaker 1: him like eight air tags and all the different holders
Speaker 1: and like things have put it on, and then some
Speaker 1: like Cuty candy and some Cuty fidget toys because he
Speaker 1: was fishing with everything at the time, and so just
Speaker 1: like some Cuty things that he needs. And he comes
Speaker 1: up to me and he was like, I have to
Speaker 1: just show you what I got you. You don't get
Speaker 1: to keep it, but I have to show it to you.
Speaker 1: And he had gotten my logo tattooed in white on
Speaker 1: his I believe it's on his left leg right above
Speaker 1: his kneecap might be on his right leg and now
Speaker 1: it's I'm stuck quite literally stuck on him. And that
Speaker 1: I mean, it was just so special, like what are like,
Speaker 1: that's that's something that you only do for someone that
Speaker 1: you know is gonna be around for forever. And that
Speaker 1: is something that I will forever, forever cherish and that
Speaker 1: was that was a sweet memory. He did it while
Speaker 1: we were out on tour and it was just cute.
Speaker 1: I remember the day he showed it to me, and
Speaker 1: then the healing process and it's scatting and then he
Speaker 1: had this like bright red version of my logo and
Speaker 1: then it ended up being really cool. It's a white tattoo.
Speaker 1: It's that was very special Valentine's I guess. So I'll
Speaker 1: give that one to Ezra. There are actually Jojo like
Speaker 1: Valentines out there. Jojo see what branded kids Valentines. There's
Speaker 1: a bunch of different ones. There's these little gummy rings
Speaker 1: that you can put in like Valentine's Day boxes. There's cards,
Speaker 1: there's been like the things that you take to school,
Speaker 1: you know, where it's like like pencil pack and stuff
Speaker 1: like that. There's a bunch of different Jojo Valentine's ay cards,
Speaker 1: and that is one of the products actually that when
Speaker 1: I saw it in store the first time, I was like, dang,
Speaker 1: my face is on that too, Like that's he said.
Speaker 1: I never I never knew what my face was gonna
Speaker 1: be on. I know that sounds very very strange, but
Speaker 1: the way that it was all structured. A lot of
Speaker 1: times products would come out in stores and I would
Speaker 1: be seeing them for the first time, which at first
Speaker 1: was something that made me very upset. But then once
Speaker 1: I realized kind of the scale that things were on,
Speaker 1: I realized, oh, there's just like no way they could
Speaker 1: be like, hey, here's every single thing we're doing. And
Speaker 1: so seeing the Jojo Valentines for the first time was
Speaker 1: very interesting. I mean it was kind of like when
Speaker 1: I saw the band aids for the first time. Or
Speaker 1: there was like these like crunch packs, which is a
Speaker 1: like lunch kit type of thing that has apples, fruit
Speaker 1: snacks and animal crackers. There's like a little JoJo's juice
Speaker 1: like energy drink or vitamin drink can. There's so many
Speaker 1: crazy Jojo products, but I feel like there's like those
Speaker 1: very certain ones. I was just like, dang, we really
Speaker 1: did that like, that's that's pretty wild. Like seeing the
Speaker 1: SpongeBob and Mickey Mouse and Jojo Valentines. That was something
Speaker 1: that was very strange for me about my head around
Speaker 1: and what was always crazy to me. And I did
Speaker 1: this with all of my products, is I would go
Speaker 1: into the store and I would see them and I
Speaker 1: would compare it to what was next to it. So
Speaker 1: just say my doll was next to an Elsa doll,
Speaker 1: I would be I would take note of like, whoa,
Speaker 1: there was one Jojo doll left, And a lot of times,
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna say that
Speaker 1: about Elsa specifically because I also obviously still selling today
Speaker 1: she sells very very well. But normally whatever I was
Speaker 1: next to there was a lot more of. And I
Speaker 1: noticed that with Halloween costumes and the Valentines. I noticed
Speaker 1: that with there was a lot of everything that was
Speaker 1: next to up, but only one or two Jojo Valentines left.
Speaker 1: And so every time I was at the store, i'd
Speaker 1: buy them because I just like, if there's only one
Speaker 1: or two, like I want to have one. I want
Speaker 1: to play. Uh. I feel like this year I need
Speaker 1: people to give Valentines too. I could give them to
Speaker 1: the people that I'll be working with. That'd be cute.
Speaker 1: I could make everyone like a cute little Valentine. Oh wait,
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna do that. That'd be such a
Speaker 1: fun project too, for me to do for the fierce
Speaker 1: few weeks. WHI I'm in Atlanta. Yes, that's happening. That
Speaker 1: is happening. That is absolut freaking lutely happening. If I
Speaker 1: was a kid right now and I could go to
Speaker 1: the store and pick out a Valentine and make it
Speaker 1: like for my classroom, Oh my god, that's freaking precious.
Speaker 1: I remember I got. I don't think I ever got
Speaker 1: to for school, but I think I remember my brother
Speaker 1: doing it, and I got to for dance, like you
Speaker 1: know how like in classes, like in school in grade school,
Speaker 1: you take it to like your class and you have
Speaker 1: your little box that you make with a little hole
Speaker 1: in it. Then you pass them out and you get
Speaker 1: some That is one of those things about school that
Speaker 1: I alas. I always was like, oh my brother got
Speaker 1: to do that, and I don't like I always thought
Speaker 1: that was cute, But then I always got too. With
Speaker 1: dancing at the dance studio, we're always in a Valentine's
Speaker 1: exchange like that. If I was a kid, now, oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, I would go so full out Freddy, Eddie
Speaker 1: and Teddy one day. And my babies, they have no
Speaker 1: clue what they were getting themselves into. I saw this,
Speaker 1: I saw this Instagram pos I was like a breakfast
Speaker 1: charconery board, and I was like, oh, Freddie, Eddie and
Speaker 1: Teddy will be waking up to a breakfast charcreery board
Speaker 1: every single morning. I cannot wait for it. If anyone
Speaker 1: doesn't know, Freddy, Eddie and Teddy are my future children
Speaker 1: one day. I talk about them all the time. People
Speaker 1: in my life at first are like, oh, Freddy, Andie
Speaker 1: and Teddy, like this is a hilarious joke. But then
Speaker 1: they realize like, oh wait, she's not kidding. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding at all. So yeah, Freddy Andie and
Speaker 1: Teddy are my my pretend babies. Freddy's a girl, Eddie
Speaker 1: and Teddy are twin boys, and one day they will
Speaker 1: be here. But those kids, oh my god, they're gonna
Speaker 1: have the most full out Valentine's Day boxes, No Valentines,
Speaker 1: no dating. Think I'll let my kids date when they're
Speaker 1: like you know what. Here's what I'll let my kids
Speaker 1: date when they are mature enough, not old enough, when
Speaker 1: they are mature enough to make a good decision about
Speaker 1: who they want to spend a lot of their time with.
Speaker 1: If you are thirteen and there's another good kid influence
Speaker 1: around you that you want to hang out with a bunch,
Speaker 1: live your life. But if you're thirteen and there's a
Speaker 1: bad kid that you're like, man, this person's hot. Mother's
Speaker 1: girl boy, I don't care. I don't care who my
Speaker 1: kids end up with. But if they're like, all, this
Speaker 1: kid's hot, I like them. It's a bad person. This
Speaker 1: is great. No, that's not happening. That's not happening. If Freddy,
Speaker 1: Eddie and Teddy can make a good decision at a
Speaker 1: young age, that's fine. Go for it, have fun, live
Speaker 1: your life, be smart, call me when you need me.
Speaker 1: But if they can't, that's on the base things on
Speaker 1: the base. Things with Freddy, Eddie and Teddy will when
Speaker 1: they're mature enough. Same thing with like getting a phone
Speaker 1: when you're returned of I should do a whole podcast
Speaker 1: about the future of my momhood, because then in a
Speaker 1: few years I could make a podcast listening back and
Speaker 1: probably laughing at myself. Oh my god, that's actually great.
Speaker 1: I fully want to do that. That'd be so fun.
Speaker 1: I will say A fun part about Valentine's Day is
Speaker 1: it is a great time of the year for the
Speaker 1: best love movies. I specifically am a romcom girl. One
Speaker 1: of my favorite freaking movies in the whole world is
Speaker 1: Just Go with It. If you've never seen this movie
Speaker 1: with Jennifer Aniston and Adam Sandler, you are freaking missing
Speaker 1: out that movie. And then there's a Murder Mystery series,
Speaker 1: Murderniversary one and Murder Mystery two. Both of those are
Speaker 1: amazing that those ones also have Jennifer Aniston and Adam Sandler.
Speaker 1: And personally, Just Go with It I think is the
Speaker 1: funniest movie literally ever made. I watched it for the
Speaker 1: very first time with two of my best friends on
Speaker 1: a cruise ship, and I was hooked. Got my family
Speaker 1: into it. I used to watch it every night before
Speaker 1: I fell asleep. Like that movie, top tier movie. If
Speaker 1: I can give you any advice on what movie to
Speaker 1: watch for Valentine's Day, that's the winner. That would actually
Speaker 1: be a great one to recreate as a date. They
Speaker 1: do a lot of fun stuff, and that they go
Speaker 1: to like places like it's like the version of like
Speaker 1: a chucky cheese. They go like swimming in a lake.
Speaker 1: They go, that would be so fun. They go to
Speaker 1: freaking Hawaii to swim with dolphins or something. Future girlfriend
Speaker 1: we're recreating. Just go with it because that means I
Speaker 1: gonna watch a movie twice in one day, and that's
Speaker 1: my freaking dream side form movies. Music also becomes really
Speaker 1: really popular amongst this holiday. I feel like, amongst all holidays,
Speaker 1: Halloween rolls around, and you got all the Halloween songs,
Speaker 1: Christmas rolls around, you got all the Christmas songs. Valentine's
Speaker 1: rolls around, and you do got all the love songs
Speaker 1: that come in. Personally, my favorite love songs are Love
Speaker 1: of My Life, but Queen, I love that song. It's
Speaker 1: a little dramatic, but I love it, and good old
Speaker 1: Fashioned Lover boy Ah. Both of those songs are just
Speaker 1: so good. Queen is so good. Also, g Flip, anyone
Speaker 1: who knows me knows how fucking obsessed I am with
Speaker 1: my drum teacher. G Flip is the coolest artist literally
Speaker 1: in the world. I could hype them up every day
Speaker 1: of my life. I do hype them up every day
Speaker 1: of my life. My poor my poor parents have to
Speaker 1: hear it all the time. They just released a cover
Speaker 1: of them singing with on Triple J of them singing
Speaker 1: Cruel Summer. Oh my god, it is so good. So
Speaker 1: g is non binary and they are married to Krishelle
Speaker 1: from selling Sanset and they are the best married couple
Speaker 1: literally ever. I look at their relationship and I just
Speaker 1: freaking idolize them both. I mean, they're both amazing people
Speaker 1: gotten to know them both, and they were both just phenom.
Speaker 1: I mean I couldn't. I literally could gush over them
Speaker 1: for my whole life and never get tired of it,
Speaker 1: never get bored of it. Anyways, my poor parents have
Speaker 1: to hear about it all the time. They released a
Speaker 1: cover of Cruel Summer, and I feel like that actually
Speaker 1: might be like my Valentine's to hit of the year.
Speaker 1: It's just od so good they made it. This is
Speaker 1: the rampage that I was starting go on. They're non binary,
Speaker 1: and so they make a version, a very very queer
Speaker 1: version of the song. You know, it talks about femaleset
Speaker 1: of male. It is. It is so good. They changed
Speaker 1: that one. There she looks so pretty, like a devil
Speaker 1: is cool and they made it. She looks up grinnin
Speaker 1: like the devil. Oh my god, it's so hot. If
Speaker 1: you haven't seen it yet, go watch it. Went freaking
Speaker 1: viral as viral can be, as it should. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like Chrishelle and ge are
Speaker 1: truly a couple that I really, really really look up to.
Speaker 1: I think their relationship just feels very genuine, and I
Speaker 1: think that's something that's trigging to tell us sometimes with celebrities.
Speaker 1: I mean, you look at celebrities and you're like, is
Speaker 1: your relationship real? Is it not? Are you happy? Are
Speaker 1: you sad? Or you think I feel like you see
Speaker 1: so many celebrities and you're like, man, they have the
Speaker 1: best relationship ever. Boom bam. Next day, some dramatic news
Speaker 1: article comes out and it's like, wait, what I thought
Speaker 1: y'all were the happiest humans ever. And so it's getting
Speaker 1: harder and harder to tell off of social media, like
Speaker 1: who I would really really want to be like? I mean,
Speaker 1: I have a lot of best friends who are in
Speaker 1: very good relationships. I have Rachel and Abby, who's in
Speaker 1: an incredible relationship with each other. My brother is also
Speaker 1: dating an incredible girl, my brother Jay, and her name
Speaker 1: is also Abby different Abby. Do not get them confused,
Speaker 1: but I really I feel like I look to my
Speaker 1: family for like good relationship influences. I definitely have been
Speaker 1: in few relationships and I've been very public about them.
Speaker 1: And I have also been in that position of like, hey,
Speaker 1: here's me and the happiest relationship ever, when really behind
Speaker 1: closed doors, it wasn't. And I think that's something that
Speaker 1: you just kind of got to take for what it's worth.
Speaker 1: Is know that sometimes the people who look the happiest
Speaker 1: truly or not, and so don't want social media cloud
Speaker 1: your judgment on all these people look so happy, I'm
Speaker 1: not happy. What is this? I'm I'm nah, You're only
Speaker 1: saying they want to show you on Instagram and on TikTok.
Speaker 1: I've been in that position. I've been that person. I
Speaker 1: will never be again. I My goal is to keep
Speaker 1: future relationships as private as private can be. I know
Speaker 1: they're going to be public just because I'm very, very
Speaker 1: very public. But at some point I feel like I
Speaker 1: gotta gotta I gotta rein it in. I feel like
Speaker 1: I like casting my fish hook as far out into
Speaker 1: the ocean as humanly possible. And now I'm like reeling
Speaker 1: it in so hard, but like my right arm's getting tired,
Speaker 1: so I gotta like hold it aquately and do it
Speaker 1: with my left arm, but I'm still reeling it in.
Speaker 1: That's how I feel like with relationships. But it's it's fun,
Speaker 1: it's entertaining. I feel like, to wrap up this podcast,
Speaker 1: I should let you all in on a little secret
Speaker 1: on who my dream Valentine is. Believe it or not,
Speaker 1: I have about seventy two of them. I'm going through
Speaker 1: a phase this year. I don't know what it is.
Speaker 1: I am. I'm just I'm very much so like I
Speaker 1: think everybody in the freaking world this year is just
Speaker 1: like so perfect, so beautiful, so amazing. So I'm I'm
Speaker 1: a little bit all over the place. But ideally my
Speaker 1: dream Valentine of course, Billie Eilish, can't I mean, it's
Speaker 1: Billie Eilish. Well, it's Billie Eilish, of course, Miley Cyrus
Speaker 1: my ah, freaking oh amazing. Look I'm gonna say, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say j Flip Anchorshell. I don't want either of
Speaker 1: them to be my Valentine. That's such a lie. But
Speaker 1: you know what I want. I want to spend Valentine's
Speaker 1: Day with them. Maybe it's with binoculars on from a
Speaker 1: mile away and they don't know that I'm there, but like,
Speaker 1: I just feel like they would have the most perfect
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. They have each other as their Valentine, and
Speaker 1: I want them to live their life and have the
Speaker 1: best day together. But I just want to witness it.
Speaker 1: Like what does a dream Valentine's Day look like? Because
Speaker 1: I feel like they have it. Oh oh, that'll be amazing.
Speaker 1: Aside from that, I feel like just friends this year.
Speaker 1: I feel like friends are my vibe for Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: Maybe Starzy, my puppy stars he can be my Valentine.
Speaker 1: Who knows. I got a whole twenty four hours before
Speaker 1: the day starts. I could go find somebody quick. You know.
Speaker 1: I saw this thing that's like, do a bunch of dates,
Speaker 1: tell a bunch of people to show up to this
Speaker 1: one place, don't tell them that it's you, YadA YadA YadA,
Speaker 1: and then you show up and you have your own personal,
Speaker 1: personal bachelorette. I was like, maybe I'll do that this year.
Speaker 1: Who knows, I'll find somebody, I got twenty four hours.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop talking now and I'm gonna go find
Speaker 1: myself a Valentine. I'm kidding, I'm not. I'm gonna stop
Speaker 1: talking now, and we all know what i'm gonna do.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna check my phone, I'm gonna get some water,
Speaker 1: and then I'm probably gonna go play the drums. That's
Speaker 1: basically what I do all day, every day now, is
Speaker 1: play the drums. I love y'all. Thank you so much
Speaker 1: for listening to Jegesian now. I hope you have truly
Speaker 1: a phenomenal Valentine's Day. If it's not a good one,
Speaker 1: don't worry. Rolls around every single year, same day every year.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be fine. You're gonna have another one. I've
Speaker 1: had a few sinds of my shitty one, and look
Speaker 1: at me. I'm still here. I'm still standing. The day
Speaker 1: goes on, and if you have good Valentine's Day, I'm
Speaker 1: so proud of you. I hope it was the best
Speaker 1: day I ever Enjoy it, enjoy being happy, find something
Speaker 1: to smile. Well. I love y'all, and I'll see you
Speaker 1: next time, or I'll talk to you next time. You'll
Speaker 1: listen to me next time. I don't know, probably won't
Speaker 1: see me though, because it is a podcast. This is
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening, everybody. Be sure to
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