1 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: You're listening to Jojasua Now with me Jojo Siua and 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio podcast. Oh, Happy freaking Almost Valentine's Day, or if 3 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: you're listening to this podcast more than two or three 4 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: days after it comes out, Happy After Valentine's Day. Today, 5 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: we are going to deep dive into one of the 6 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:29,479 Speaker 1: most loved and hated holidays that there is. Oh my gosh, 7 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. See, here's the thing with Valentine's Day. I 8 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 1: feel like, if you are in a relationship, it has 9 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: the potential to be the absolute best day of the year. Now, 10 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:44,919 Speaker 1: there are some cases I've experienced this where it can 11 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: actually be the worst day of the year because you're 12 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 1: expecting it to be the vest Lin it just comes 13 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: tumbling down faster than you can hold on to it. 14 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: But also, if you're not in a relationship, it's kind 15 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:59,319 Speaker 1: of a confusing day. And h That's where I'm at 16 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: this year. Now, don't get me wrong, I am definitely 17 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: like out there this year twenty twenty three, I was 18 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: very much so like here, I'm not talking to anybody. 19 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:13,199 Speaker 1: I am staying shingle. This year, I'm like, yo, let's 20 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: find some loan that sounds fun. But I haven't done 21 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 1: that yet by Valentine's Day, so that's that. But it's interesting. 22 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:26,320 Speaker 1: I actually have found that I enjoy Valentine's Day more 23 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 1: not in a relationship, and that truly is just because 24 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 1: my experience of Valentine's Day being in a relationship is 25 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: a bit jenky. And we will deep dive into that 26 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,559 Speaker 1: a little bit. I don't want to get too deep 27 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 1: into it because it is a pretty dramatic story, but 28 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 1: we'll get into that in the middle of this podcast 29 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: at some point in time. But I will say, asides 30 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: from that one Valentine's Day mishap, I do actually really 31 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: really think it is a fun holiday. I love seeing 32 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: what people do for each other. I like celebrating it 33 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 1: with people who I'm not in a relationship with a 34 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: friend's family. I think that is something that is so 35 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: cute that you can do. What do people do like 36 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 1: their little Gallantines. I think it's just it's fun. It 37 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 1: can be a fun holiday. I remember when I was little, 38 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 1: there was this one Valentine's Day where I was actually 39 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: in Palm Springs with my grandma and grandpa and it 40 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: was just me, just my mom, and then it was 41 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: actually my dad's parents, so it was my mom's in laws, 42 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 1: and so it wasn't like we were with her mom 43 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: or her dad. It was just it was the opposite 44 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: side of the family. Anyways, Cubic game and brought me 45 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 1: like this like cutey little like heart basket and it 46 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 1: was like a little Teddy bear and it was like 47 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: fun because especially as a kid, you know, you don't 48 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 1: even really know what Valentine's Day is or like what 49 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: it's about. You just you know the Easter money comes 50 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: and you go egg hunting and that's what Easter is, 51 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: but you don't You're like, what the heck is Valentine's 52 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: Day about? And so for my grandparents have my mom 53 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 1: to do that for me on Valentine's Day. It's one 54 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: of those memories that's so interesting because I have no 55 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: photos of it. My family and I never talk about it, 56 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 1: but somehow it is actually like really deeply engraved in 57 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: my memory, which is a little confusing because I feel 58 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: like from the time I was younger, the only memories 59 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 1: that I have are things like that I've seen on 60 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: my mom's Facebook or that I've been told about. But 61 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 1: that Valentine's Day memory is something that we never talk about. Actually, tonight, 62 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 1: I want to talk to my mom about that and 63 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,359 Speaker 1: see if she remembers that the same way that I do. 64 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I was probably four three, I was little. 65 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: I was really really little. But hey man, it's deep, deep, 66 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: deep engraved in my brain. I've actually had one Valentine's 67 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: Day where I was in a relationship. I had two 68 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: Valentine's Days, uh so one on one in the relationship 69 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: and then another one where I was talking to somebody 70 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: but it never went anywhere, but it was. It was 71 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 1: it was actually kind of like a cute vibe to 72 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: like be like we're celebrating Valentine's Day where each other's 73 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: Valentine's but we're not each other's Valentine's shit. Like it 74 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: was like it was like we're not because like that'd 75 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: be weird, but like we are because like I think 76 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: you're you're cool and you think I'm cool. It was, 77 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:10,119 Speaker 1: it was cute vibe. But I've only ever had one 78 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day where I was in a serious, serious relationship. 79 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: And I think where I went wrong is I was 80 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: expecting it to be the most magical day to freaking 81 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 1: ever happen, and I we we were not gonna be 82 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 1: with each other in person, but we were, you know, 83 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 1: of course, going to FaceTime and cooked dinner together over 84 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 1: the phone, and we had we had we had really 85 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: cute plans and yeah, it just it just came tolling 86 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: down really really fast. And it's actually like a joke 87 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:45,039 Speaker 1: that we still talk about today, like of what a 88 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:48,039 Speaker 1: freaking hot mess express and wreck it was. But I 89 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 1: think just creating the expectation of like, oh, this day 90 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 1: is gonna be so big, I mean I think I 91 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: think I thought it was gonna be like my wedding 92 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: day or something like. I was really really to the nine. 93 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 1: So for any first time or was out there there, 94 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 1: if this is your first time being in a relationship. 95 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 1: For Valentine's Day, I can't tell you how to have 96 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: a good one, but I can tell you how to 97 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: avoid a bad one, and that is by overhyping it 98 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: to be a super, super incredible one. Go in, have fun. 99 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: Is Valentine's Day. It's meant to be light. It is 100 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: not the biggest day of the year. It is not 101 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 1: your anniversary, it is not your birthday, it is not Christmas. 102 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: It's just Valentine's Day. It's a day to give some 103 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,919 Speaker 1: extra love. So if I could give any advice to 104 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: any any first timers out there going into your first 105 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 1: relationship based Valentine's Day, just enjoy it. Don't try to 106 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:41,280 Speaker 1: make it something that doesn't need to be. Because I've 107 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: been there, I've done that, and I will never do 108 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 1: that again. Also, if there's any people out there who 109 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 1: have any advice for me, please be my guest. I 110 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: need all the advice in the relationship world for me 111 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: this year. I feel like Valentine's Day, I'm actually gonna 112 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: be in Atlanta, where so who knows, maybe I'll go 113 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: on a tender date or something. But actually that's one 114 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: thing that I'm gonna do. This whole topic you'll hear 115 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: about this next week. Dating as a celebrity. It's very interesting. 116 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 1: I can't actually have like dating app profiles because they 117 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 1: see my name, they get deleted, and I, you know, 118 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 1: I put my put my driver's license in, I put 119 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: my passport in, get deleted. God. I could literally give 120 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: him my social Security number and they'd be like, that's 121 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: not you, and I'll be like, okay, I guess it's not. Yeah, 122 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 1: We'll get into that next week. Enjoy that that's gonna 123 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: be that's gonna be a fun topic to deep dive on. 124 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: Back to Valentine's Day. This year, I'll be working. I 125 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: feel like I'm gonna like want to have a friend 126 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 1: like come down to in landa they hang out with 127 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: me or something. I don't know. I'm gonna be there alone. 128 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: My family will bop in and out. But because it's 129 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 1: such a work driven trip and I'll be there filming 130 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: a bunch, it's kind of just like, you know what, 131 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 1: It's just like, let's all like, it's I want to 132 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: be living alone for the first time. It's gonna be crazy. 133 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: Expect a podcast about that one when I get back. Ideally, 134 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 1: my perfect Valentine's Day this year, Oh man, if I 135 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: could find a girlfriend in the next day, if we 136 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: counna have a nice movie night, that would be my 137 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: ideal Valentine's Day. But I can't. So let me just 138 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: fantasize here for a second. All right, I'm just gonna 139 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 1: fantasize for a bit. I feel like my perfect Valentine's Day, Okay. 140 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: You know what I've always wanted to do, like a 141 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: movie based date, so like I see people do it 142 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: with ratituey all the time. I've actually never seen Rati Twoe, 143 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: so I can't speak on it, but I'm gonna I'm 144 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: gonna use Elf as an example because I feel like 145 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: a lot of people have seen Elf. I know the 146 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: ins and outs of Elf. And so even though it's 147 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 1: not like a love movie, just like stick with me 148 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: here for a second. So we wake up in the 149 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: morning and we watch the movie and we get inspired. Now, 150 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 1: all the actions are pre activity are pre planned, the 151 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: meals are pre planned, but we watch a movie in 152 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 1: the morning to get inspired. So then like you know 153 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: how he for breakfast and Elf has the spaghetti with 154 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: all the like fricking candy and all that stuff on it. 155 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: We would do that, you know what I mean, we 156 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: would have we would have that for breakfast, and then 157 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: our day, you know, we would spend it in New 158 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: York City. We'd go into the we'd find we'd google 159 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: World's Best coffee shop, and we'd go there. We'd go, 160 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: you know, into the bedstore that like sells the mattresses 161 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: and like go jump on them, just like get kicked 162 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: out for fun and like make a memory. We'd frogger 163 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: across all of the streets to like that's what he 164 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 1: did in the movie, you know what I mean, go 165 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: around revolving doors, because that's how he was. We'd do 166 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: like just like funny things that like you could do 167 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:44,719 Speaker 1: that like was in the movie, to have like a 168 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:49,320 Speaker 1: full day inspired by the movie, right, and then eat 169 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:51,839 Speaker 1: all the food again. So like in that meal they 170 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 1: had another spaghetti dinner, but this stuff was good spaghetti 171 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 1: with I think doctor Pepper. Right, So we'd go out 172 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 1: for like fancy dinner, get some fancy spaghetti, and then 173 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: have some Doctor Pepper, you know what I mean, just 174 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: like really live it up. And then we go home 175 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: at night, we cuddle up, we cozy up, and what 176 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 1: do we do. We watch the movie again. Now, reason 177 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 1: being we watched the movie again is because think about 178 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 1: while watching the movie, the laughs that we would have 179 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 1: about ourselves being idiots throughout the day, like having those moments, 180 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:25,559 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. We'd see him eat the 181 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: breakfast and be like, oh yeah, that was so good, 182 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 1: this running haha and it he's so cute, so fun 183 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: and so cudly. Obviously Elf is a very very random 184 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 1: movie to do it with, but it was just so 185 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 1: easy to give the visual concept while you're probably just 186 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 1: listening to this, but you get what I mean. And 187 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: I think it would be so cute, so fun. I've 188 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: yet to do that. I think that'd be a perfect date. Look, 189 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 1: even if it's not Valentine's Day, because odds are with 190 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:53,599 Speaker 1: the track that I'm on right now, not gonna have 191 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: a girl by Valentine's Day. But that would just be 192 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 1: a cute date to do throughout any time of the year. 193 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: I feel like that's something that like you can only 194 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: do in your twenties. I mean, I feel like you're 195 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: doing it. It would just be word if my parents 196 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: did it, you know what I mean. And my parents 197 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:13,599 Speaker 1: my parents are God, my mom is forty nine. She 198 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: just turn forty nine, and my dad is fifty three. 199 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 1: They could just turn fifty three, maybe fifty four, I 200 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 1: don't know. But so that would be something that like 201 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 1: I would be like, all right, why are you all 202 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: recreating out for a date night? Like that's strange, but literally, like, 203 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: if that's your vibe, that's your vibe, live it up. 204 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: But I feel like that would that's that's that's my 205 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 1: perfect Valentine's Day. I feel like it is a day 206 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 1: you do gotta go above and beyond if you're in 207 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: a relationship and do something like that, Like I feel 208 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: like that is a pretty extravagant adventure. But if you 209 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: don't like to go above and beyond, I feel like 210 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:51,959 Speaker 1: just a nice sweet day cooking together, baking together. Oh 211 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: my god. Another cute one would be like if for 212 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 1: a Valentine's Day gift, I got my significant other, whoever 213 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 1: got their significant other like these like huty little baking outfits, 214 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: and then a bunch of stuff to bake, like get 215 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 1: muffin mix and cookies and cakes, and like all day 216 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: long you are just baking. You're baking as much stuff 217 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: as you possibly can, right, Cookies, cupcakes, cakes, muffins, everything 218 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 1: you can think of, brownies, freaking all of the above, rice, 219 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 1: crispy trees, oh my gosh, like think of baskets you 220 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: can make. Right, then you just have fun making it 221 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:26,439 Speaker 1: all day long. You're eating it all day long. You're 222 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 1: having fun with it all day long. You're listening to 223 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 1: fun music all day long. And then after you could 224 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 1: eat it, you could take it to like you could 225 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:34,560 Speaker 1: take your shelter and don't you could take to a 226 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: fire station. You could do something good with it. Man, 227 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 1: I need these dates to happen if my future girlfriend 228 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 1: is listening to this. Dear future girlfriend, here's a few 229 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 1: things you need. If my future girlfriend's listening to this, 230 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: those are the dates that I want to go on. 231 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: He boy, oh boy, I will say. One Valentine's Day, 232 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 1: this is the same one that was a little bit strange, 233 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:06,679 Speaker 1: but I got actually one of the best best Valentine's 234 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:09,319 Speaker 1: Day gifts from the person I was dating at this time, 235 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: and it was Lady Gaga Oreos. There was a lot 236 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 1: in the Valentine's DA package, but the Lady Gaga Oreos, 237 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god, we're so good. So the story was 238 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:22,559 Speaker 1: I was in Canada actually, and so they didn't make 239 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,679 Speaker 1: them and they were exclusive only in America, and so 240 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 1: she went out and bought them for me and shipped 241 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 1: them to me, and it was freaking awesome. That was 242 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: for sure the best Valentine's Day gift that I've ever received. Oh, lies, 243 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 1: I take that back. I think Ezra got his tattoo 244 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: for Valentine's Day. No, it so was for Valentine's Day. Okay, 245 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: So we were we were on tour and this was 246 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty two and as were at the time. 247 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: I mean we we we we were very very very close. 248 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: And the thing about Ezra is him and I have 249 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 1: a very very very special relationship. It's a very very 250 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 1: interesting unconditional love that I think, no matter what we 251 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 1: go through in life, and I mean I think he 252 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: would probably say the same thing, we will always unconditionally 253 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 1: love each other no matter what. And anyways, so go 254 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 1: back to twenty twenty two Valentine's Day. He was my 255 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 1: Valentine and we lived it up like we are both 256 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: the gay as gay can be, but we you would 257 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:27,199 Speaker 1: have thought we were married for the day. Anyways, he 258 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 1: loses all his things, and so for him I got 259 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 1: him like eight air tags and all the different holders 260 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 1: and like things have put it on, and then some 261 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 1: like Cuty candy and some Cuty fidget toys because he 262 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 1: was fishing with everything at the time, and so just 263 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 1: like some Cuty things that he needs. And he comes 264 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 1: up to me and he was like, I have to 265 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 1: just show you what I got you. You don't get 266 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 1: to keep it, but I have to show it to you. 267 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 1: And he had gotten my logo tattooed in white on 268 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: his I believe it's on his left leg right above 269 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 1: his kneecap might be on his right leg and now 270 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: it's I'm stuck quite literally stuck on him. And that 271 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: I mean, it was just so special, like what are like, 272 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: that's that's something that you only do for someone that 273 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 1: you know is gonna be around for forever. And that 274 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 1: is something that I will forever, forever cherish and that 275 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 1: was that was a sweet memory. He did it while 276 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: we were out on tour and it was just cute. 277 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: I remember the day he showed it to me, and 278 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 1: then the healing process and it's scatting and then he 279 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 1: had this like bright red version of my logo and 280 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 1: then it ended up being really cool. It's a white tattoo. 281 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 1: It's that was very special Valentine's I guess. So I'll 282 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 1: give that one to Ezra. There are actually Jojo like 283 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: Valentines out there. Jojo see what branded kids Valentines. There's 284 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: a bunch of different ones. There's these little gummy rings 285 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 1: that you can put in like Valentine's Day boxes. There's cards, 286 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 1: there's been like the things that you take to school, 287 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: you know, where it's like like pencil pack and stuff 288 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 1: like that. There's a bunch of different Jojo Valentine's ay cards, 289 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: and that is one of the products actually that when 290 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: I saw it in store the first time, I was like, dang, 291 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: my face is on that too, Like that's he said. 292 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 1: I never I never knew what my face was gonna 293 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 1: be on. I know that sounds very very strange, but 294 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 1: the way that it was all structured. A lot of 295 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 1: times products would come out in stores and I would 296 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 1: be seeing them for the first time, which at first 297 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: was something that made me very upset. But then once 298 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 1: I realized kind of the scale that things were on, 299 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: I realized, oh, there's just like no way they could 300 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 1: be like, hey, here's every single thing we're doing. And 301 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 1: so seeing the Jojo Valentines for the first time was 302 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: very interesting. I mean it was kind of like when 303 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 1: I saw the band aids for the first time. Or 304 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 1: there was like these like crunch packs, which is a 305 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 1: like lunch kit type of thing that has apples, fruit 306 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 1: snacks and animal crackers. There's like a little JoJo's juice 307 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 1: like energy drink or vitamin drink can. There's so many 308 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: crazy Jojo products, but I feel like there's like those 309 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: very certain ones. I was just like, dang, we really 310 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 1: did that like, that's that's pretty wild. Like seeing the 311 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 1: SpongeBob and Mickey Mouse and Jojo Valentines. That was something 312 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: that was very strange for me about my head around 313 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: and what was always crazy to me. And I did 314 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: this with all of my products, is I would go 315 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 1: into the store and I would see them and I 316 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: would compare it to what was next to it. So 317 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: just say my doll was next to an Elsa doll, 318 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 1: I would be I would take note of like, whoa, 319 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: there was one Jojo doll left, And a lot of times, 320 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna say that 321 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: about Elsa specifically because I also obviously still selling today 322 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 1: she sells very very well. But normally whatever I was 323 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 1: next to there was a lot more of. And I 324 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: noticed that with Halloween costumes and the Valentines. I noticed 325 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: that with there was a lot of everything that was 326 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 1: next to up, but only one or two Jojo Valentines left. 327 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: And so every time I was at the store, i'd 328 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: buy them because I just like, if there's only one 329 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 1: or two, like I want to have one. I want 330 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 1: to play. Uh. I feel like this year I need 331 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 1: people to give Valentines too. I could give them to 332 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 1: the people that I'll be working with. That'd be cute. 333 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 1: I could make everyone like a cute little Valentine. Oh wait, 334 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna do that. That'd be such a 335 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 1: fun project too, for me to do for the fierce 336 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: few weeks. WHI I'm in Atlanta. Yes, that's happening. That 337 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:25,120 Speaker 1: is happening. That is absolut freaking lutely happening. If I 338 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: was a kid right now and I could go to 339 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 1: the store and pick out a Valentine and make it 340 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:35,880 Speaker 1: like for my classroom, Oh my god, that's freaking precious. 341 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: I remember I got. I don't think I ever got 342 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 1: to for school, but I think I remember my brother 343 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:43,919 Speaker 1: doing it, and I got to for dance, like you 344 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 1: know how like in classes, like in school in grade school, 345 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:48,879 Speaker 1: you take it to like your class and you have 346 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:50,920 Speaker 1: your little box that you make with a little hole 347 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 1: in it. Then you pass them out and you get 348 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 1: some That is one of those things about school that 349 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 1: I alas. I always was like, oh my brother got 350 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 1: to do that, and I don't like I always thought 351 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 1: that was cute, But then I always got too. With 352 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 1: dancing at the dance studio, we're always in a Valentine's 353 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 1: exchange like that. If I was a kid, now, oh 354 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:09,440 Speaker 1: my gosh, I would go so full out Freddy, Eddie 355 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:11,679 Speaker 1: and Teddy one day. And my babies, they have no 356 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,199 Speaker 1: clue what they were getting themselves into. I saw this, 357 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 1: I saw this Instagram pos I was like a breakfast 358 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: charconery board, and I was like, oh, Freddie, Eddie and 359 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,160 Speaker 1: Teddy will be waking up to a breakfast charcreery board 360 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 1: every single morning. I cannot wait for it. If anyone 361 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 1: doesn't know, Freddy, Eddie and Teddy are my future children 362 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,159 Speaker 1: one day. I talk about them all the time. People 363 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 1: in my life at first are like, oh, Freddy, Andie 364 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 1: and Teddy, like this is a hilarious joke. But then 365 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 1: they realize like, oh wait, she's not kidding. No, no, no, 366 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:42,159 Speaker 1: I'm not kidding at all. So yeah, Freddy Andie and 367 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 1: Teddy are my my pretend babies. Freddy's a girl, Eddie 368 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 1: and Teddy are twin boys, and one day they will 369 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:48,880 Speaker 1: be here. But those kids, oh my god, they're gonna 370 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 1: have the most full out Valentine's Day boxes, No Valentines, 371 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 1: no dating. Think I'll let my kids date when they're 372 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 1: like you know what. Here's what I'll let my kids 373 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 1: date when they are mature enough, not old enough, when 374 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 1: they are mature enough to make a good decision about 375 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: who they want to spend a lot of their time with. 376 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 1: If you are thirteen and there's another good kid influence 377 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:13,679 Speaker 1: around you that you want to hang out with a bunch, 378 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 1: live your life. But if you're thirteen and there's a 379 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:20,160 Speaker 1: bad kid that you're like, man, this person's hot. Mother's 380 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:21,919 Speaker 1: girl boy, I don't care. I don't care who my 381 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 1: kids end up with. But if they're like, all, this 382 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:27,679 Speaker 1: kid's hot, I like them. It's a bad person. This 383 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 1: is great. No, that's not happening. That's not happening. If Freddy, 384 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 1: Eddie and Teddy can make a good decision at a 385 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 1: young age, that's fine. Go for it, have fun, live 386 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,199 Speaker 1: your life, be smart, call me when you need me. 387 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:40,439 Speaker 1: But if they can't, that's on the base things on 388 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: the base. Things with Freddy, Eddie and Teddy will when 389 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:44,679 Speaker 1: they're mature enough. Same thing with like getting a phone 390 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 1: when you're returned of I should do a whole podcast 391 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 1: about the future of my momhood, because then in a 392 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:51,639 Speaker 1: few years I could make a podcast listening back and 393 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 1: probably laughing at myself. Oh my god, that's actually great. 394 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: I fully want to do that. That'd be so fun. 395 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:01,879 Speaker 1: I will say A fun part about Valentine's Day is 396 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:04,680 Speaker 1: it is a great time of the year for the 397 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:09,920 Speaker 1: best love movies. I specifically am a romcom girl. One 398 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:13,639 Speaker 1: of my favorite freaking movies in the whole world is 399 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 1: Just Go with It. If you've never seen this movie 400 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 1: with Jennifer Aniston and Adam Sandler, you are freaking missing 401 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 1: out that movie. And then there's a Murder Mystery series, 402 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 1: Murderniversary one and Murder Mystery two. Both of those are 403 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 1: amazing that those ones also have Jennifer Aniston and Adam Sandler. 404 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:35,880 Speaker 1: And personally, Just Go with It I think is the 405 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:39,879 Speaker 1: funniest movie literally ever made. I watched it for the 406 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 1: very first time with two of my best friends on 407 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 1: a cruise ship, and I was hooked. Got my family 408 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 1: into it. I used to watch it every night before 409 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 1: I fell asleep. Like that movie, top tier movie. If 410 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 1: I can give you any advice on what movie to 411 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 1: watch for Valentine's Day, that's the winner. That would actually 412 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,120 Speaker 1: be a great one to recreate as a date. They 413 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 1: do a lot of fun stuff, and that they go 414 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 1: to like places like it's like the version of like 415 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 1: a chucky cheese. They go like swimming in a lake. 416 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:09,919 Speaker 1: They go, that would be so fun. They go to 417 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 1: freaking Hawaii to swim with dolphins or something. Future girlfriend 418 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,200 Speaker 1: we're recreating. Just go with it because that means I 419 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,679 Speaker 1: gonna watch a movie twice in one day, and that's 420 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 1: my freaking dream side form movies. Music also becomes really 421 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,920 Speaker 1: really popular amongst this holiday. I feel like, amongst all holidays, 422 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 1: Halloween rolls around, and you got all the Halloween songs, 423 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 1: Christmas rolls around, you got all the Christmas songs. Valentine's 424 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 1: rolls around, and you do got all the love songs 425 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 1: that come in. Personally, my favorite love songs are Love 426 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: of My Life, but Queen, I love that song. It's 427 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,719 Speaker 1: a little dramatic, but I love it, and good old 428 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 1: Fashioned Lover boy Ah. Both of those songs are just 429 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 1: so good. Queen is so good. Also, g Flip, anyone 430 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 1: who knows me knows how fucking obsessed I am with 431 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:59,360 Speaker 1: my drum teacher. G Flip is the coolest artist literally 432 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: in the world. I could hype them up every day 433 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 1: of my life. I do hype them up every day 434 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,119 Speaker 1: of my life. My poor my poor parents have to 435 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:11,160 Speaker 1: hear it all the time. They just released a cover 436 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 1: of them singing with on Triple J of them singing 437 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:19,119 Speaker 1: Cruel Summer. Oh my god, it is so good. So 438 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 1: g is non binary and they are married to Krishelle 439 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 1: from selling Sanset and they are the best married couple 440 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: literally ever. I look at their relationship and I just 441 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 1: freaking idolize them both. I mean, they're both amazing people 442 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 1: gotten to know them both, and they were both just phenom. 443 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 1: I mean I couldn't. I literally could gush over them 444 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,159 Speaker 1: for my whole life and never get tired of it, 445 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 1: never get bored of it. Anyways, my poor parents have 446 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:49,119 Speaker 1: to hear about it all the time. They released a 447 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:51,440 Speaker 1: cover of Cruel Summer, and I feel like that actually 448 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 1: might be like my Valentine's to hit of the year. 449 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 1: It's just od so good they made it. This is 450 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,120 Speaker 1: the rampage that I was starting go on. They're non binary, 451 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:03,199 Speaker 1: and so they make a version, a very very queer 452 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,679 Speaker 1: version of the song. You know, it talks about femaleset 453 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:09,160 Speaker 1: of male. It is. It is so good. They changed 454 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 1: that one. There she looks so pretty, like a devil 455 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 1: is cool and they made it. She looks up grinnin 456 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: like the devil. Oh my god, it's so hot. If 457 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 1: you haven't seen it yet, go watch it. Went freaking 458 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 1: viral as viral can be, as it should. But yeah, 459 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like Chrishelle and ge are 460 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: truly a couple that I really, really really look up to. 461 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 1: I think their relationship just feels very genuine, and I 462 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 1: think that's something that's trigging to tell us sometimes with celebrities. 463 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:42,679 Speaker 1: I mean, you look at celebrities and you're like, is 464 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 1: your relationship real? Is it not? Are you happy? Are 465 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 1: you sad? Or you think I feel like you see 466 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 1: so many celebrities and you're like, man, they have the 467 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 1: best relationship ever. Boom bam. Next day, some dramatic news 468 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: article comes out and it's like, wait, what I thought 469 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 1: y'all were the happiest humans ever. And so it's getting 470 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 1: harder and harder to tell off of social media, like 471 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:07,439 Speaker 1: who I would really really want to be like? I mean, 472 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,359 Speaker 1: I have a lot of best friends who are in 473 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:11,639 Speaker 1: very good relationships. I have Rachel and Abby, who's in 474 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 1: an incredible relationship with each other. My brother is also 475 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,880 Speaker 1: dating an incredible girl, my brother Jay, and her name 476 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,680 Speaker 1: is also Abby different Abby. Do not get them confused, 477 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 1: but I really I feel like I look to my 478 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 1: family for like good relationship influences. I definitely have been 479 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 1: in few relationships and I've been very public about them. 480 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,640 Speaker 1: And I have also been in that position of like, hey, 481 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 1: here's me and the happiest relationship ever, when really behind 482 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,199 Speaker 1: closed doors, it wasn't. And I think that's something that 483 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: you just kind of got to take for what it's worth. 484 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: Is know that sometimes the people who look the happiest 485 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,399 Speaker 1: truly or not, and so don't want social media cloud 486 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 1: your judgment on all these people look so happy, I'm 487 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 1: not happy. What is this? I'm I'm nah, You're only 488 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 1: saying they want to show you on Instagram and on TikTok. 489 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 1: I've been in that position. I've been that person. I 490 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,360 Speaker 1: will never be again. I My goal is to keep 491 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:12,159 Speaker 1: future relationships as private as private can be. I know 492 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,160 Speaker 1: they're going to be public just because I'm very, very 493 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,439 Speaker 1: very public. But at some point I feel like I 494 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 1: gotta gotta I gotta rein it in. I feel like 495 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,880 Speaker 1: I like casting my fish hook as far out into 496 00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,399 Speaker 1: the ocean as humanly possible. And now I'm like reeling 497 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,480 Speaker 1: it in so hard, but like my right arm's getting tired, 498 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,159 Speaker 1: so I gotta like hold it aquately and do it 499 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 1: with my left arm, but I'm still reeling it in. 500 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:34,640 Speaker 1: That's how I feel like with relationships. But it's it's fun, 501 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 1: it's entertaining. I feel like, to wrap up this podcast, 502 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:40,880 Speaker 1: I should let you all in on a little secret 503 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 1: on who my dream Valentine is. Believe it or not, 504 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,440 Speaker 1: I have about seventy two of them. I'm going through 505 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 1: a phase this year. I don't know what it is. 506 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:55,439 Speaker 1: I am. I'm just I'm very much so like I 507 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 1: think everybody in the freaking world this year is just 508 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:01,720 Speaker 1: like so perfect, so beautiful, so amazing. So I'm I'm 509 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 1: a little bit all over the place. But ideally my 510 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 1: dream Valentine of course, Billie Eilish, can't I mean, it's 511 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 1: Billie Eilish. Well, it's Billie Eilish, of course, Miley Cyrus 512 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 1: my ah, freaking oh amazing. Look I'm gonna say, I'm 513 00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 1: gonna say j Flip Anchorshell. I don't want either of 514 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:29,160 Speaker 1: them to be my Valentine. That's such a lie. But 515 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: you know what I want. I want to spend Valentine's 516 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: Day with them. Maybe it's with binoculars on from a 517 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,119 Speaker 1: mile away and they don't know that I'm there, but like, 518 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 1: I just feel like they would have the most perfect 519 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:43,479 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. They have each other as their Valentine, and 520 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,439 Speaker 1: I want them to live their life and have the 521 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 1: best day together. But I just want to witness it. 522 00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,680 Speaker 1: Like what does a dream Valentine's Day look like? Because 523 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:54,119 Speaker 1: I feel like they have it. Oh oh, that'll be amazing. 524 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 1: Aside from that, I feel like just friends this year. 525 00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,640 Speaker 1: I feel like friends are my vibe for Valentine's Day. 526 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,160 Speaker 1: Maybe Starzy, my puppy stars he can be my Valentine. 527 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: Who knows. I got a whole twenty four hours before 528 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,439 Speaker 1: the day starts. I could go find somebody quick. You know. 529 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 1: I saw this thing that's like, do a bunch of dates, 530 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 1: tell a bunch of people to show up to this 531 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 1: one place, don't tell them that it's you, YadA YadA YadA, 532 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,359 Speaker 1: and then you show up and you have your own personal, 533 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,400 Speaker 1: personal bachelorette. I was like, maybe I'll do that this year. 534 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,439 Speaker 1: Who knows, I'll find somebody, I got twenty four hours. 535 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop talking now and I'm gonna go find 536 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 1: myself a Valentine. I'm kidding, I'm not. I'm gonna stop 537 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 1: talking now, and we all know what i'm gonna do. 538 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna check my phone, I'm gonna get some water, 539 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 1: and then I'm probably gonna go play the drums. That's 540 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 1: basically what I do all day, every day now, is 541 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:42,680 Speaker 1: play the drums. I love y'all. Thank you so much 542 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 1: for listening to Jegesian now. I hope you have truly 543 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 1: a phenomenal Valentine's Day. If it's not a good one, 544 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:51,400 Speaker 1: don't worry. Rolls around every single year, same day every year. 545 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 1: You're gonna be fine. You're gonna have another one. I've 546 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 1: had a few sinds of my shitty one, and look 547 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,480 Speaker 1: at me. I'm still here. I'm still standing. The day 548 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:01,480 Speaker 1: goes on, and if you have good Valentine's Day, I'm 549 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,400 Speaker 1: so proud of you. I hope it was the best 550 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 1: day I ever Enjoy it, enjoy being happy, find something 551 00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,359 Speaker 1: to smile. Well. I love y'all, and I'll see you 552 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 1: next time, or I'll talk to you next time. You'll 553 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 1: listen to me next time. I don't know, probably won't 554 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,080 Speaker 1: see me though, because it is a podcast. This is 555 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening, everybody. 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