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Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl next pie?

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Speaker 2: And it's your Girl's ray in the cold?

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Speaker 1: Oh professional, and you are tuned in to another episode

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Speaker 2: Where's fronk mind speaks sober thought. What's up? Girl? You

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Speaker 2: look so cute today.

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Speaker 1: You know the skin is popping and given what it's

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Speaker 2: I love period, Yes, girl, So what's up? What's tell girl?

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Speaker 1: We just came back from our dealy show. It was

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Speaker 1: so fucking lee. I feel like I don't want to

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Speaker 1: say this. I want to tread lightly because you know,

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Speaker 1: we fuck with. Houston is home, but in Atlanta, so

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Speaker 1: of course, but I feel like the Daly show is

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Speaker 2: Like the crowd was crazy.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'll say. I think it was just like that.

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Speaker 1: I've never done anything in Dallas. I've never hosted a

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Speaker 2: First of all, the doors opened at seven o'clock. Them

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Speaker 1: Was on time, like they was waiting on us. They

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Speaker 1: talking about y'all like coming out, they were so ready.

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Speaker 1: It was lit, like I really love Dallas, Like it

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Speaker 1: was a super super lit show. I feel like, obviously

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Speaker 1: you know it's fright day. So where we at tonight? Columbia,

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Speaker 1: gonna be a super super lit week for Crazy weekend.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited the in Chicago next weekend. Yeah, so I

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Speaker 1: feel like, honestly, what I'm learning about touring and doing

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Speaker 1: live shows, it's so different from sitting in front of

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Speaker 1: the cameras and how y'all see us here?

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Speaker 2: If you have what's up y'all? Is your girl XP

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Speaker 2: and eat your girl Dre and the cold and.

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Speaker 1: We are bringing up for Rich or for Porter to

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Speaker 1: the Windy City. We're gonna be in Shytown August twelfth

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Speaker 1: at the VIC Theater. Yeah, y'all already sitting then tickets

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Speaker 1: been going so fuck bro, Chicago is outside buying them

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Speaker 1: tickets up. So y'all need to make sure y'all get

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Speaker 1: y'all tickets right now. Y'all gotta go to poor Mindes

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Speaker 1: dot com and get your tickets. A seven y'all know,

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Speaker 1: I love Chicago, Like, so y'all know we finna turn up.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna have some special guests for y'all. I know

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Speaker 1: y'all been seeing the cliffs and it's going up, So

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Speaker 1: get y'all tickets and we'll see y'all soon. August twelfth.

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Speaker 1: We haven't been to a Poor Mind's live show, Like

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Speaker 1: you have to go. It's just different than energy. It's

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Speaker 1: like we get to be in a whole nother element.

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Speaker 1: We actually get to like touch and see y'all. It's

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Speaker 2: It's like, Yeah, somebody was like it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Because Poor Minds is like a sex podcast, which we're not,

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Speaker 1: but we talk about a lot of six on him.

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Speaker 1: But it was like, there're sex podcast, but this is

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Speaker 1: really a fucking comedy show.

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Speaker 2: It's like a variety show.

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Speaker 1: They got performances, they got jokes, they got the moments

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Speaker 1: us about. Right, it was just it was a long weekend.

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Speaker 1: I'm dedicating to the craft. Bitch, I got hit hard.

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Speaker 2: This is like twenty fifteen, so it's like I even moved.

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Speaker 2: I'm just trying to remember, like why, what was the reason.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to be free. I felt confined. I

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Speaker 2: really wanted to see if I could fly. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: I really am.

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Speaker 1: But you know what I'm I decided I forget didn't

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Speaker 2: Oh that's what he took I forgetting hit by car.

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Speaker 2: You know, what a nigga got nine loves I got

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Speaker 2: about too long. I keep pushing it, dude, I keep

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Speaker 1: So I said, you know what, no, murger, I'm not

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Speaker 1: much the.

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Speaker 2: Night before live shows, not going out at all. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I was like, well, you love so it made me

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Speaker 1: But if I know you like to be treated this

439
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,560
Speaker 1: way and do this way, I'm going to do that

440
00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:08,560
Speaker 1: because I love you and it makes me feel good

441
00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:11,000
Speaker 1: to make you feel good. If you say, well, Lex,

442
00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:13,280
Speaker 1: you don't do this and it kind of makes me

443
00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:15,640
Speaker 1: feel like this, I'm be like, you know what, I'm

444
00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:18,960
Speaker 1: gonna change that. We change for niggas all the time.

445
00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:21,040
Speaker 1: I don't change for my friends to like, will not

446
00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:25,520
Speaker 1: change compromise to where I'm not gonna I never feel

447
00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:26,520
Speaker 1: like you should change.

448
00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:27,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, a person, and I'm.

449
00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:30,359
Speaker 1: Not gonna do something that makes me truly unhappy, like

450
00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,879
Speaker 1: for example, like if rubbing his feet really made me

451
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:34,639
Speaker 1: feel like gross, I'm not doing it.

452
00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:35,399
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do that.

453
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:40,200
Speaker 1: But I love loving people how they want to be loved.

454
00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,840
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess so.

455
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:46,560
Speaker 1: He had a grand he had a ball, bitch, he

456
00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:49,400
Speaker 1: was having a ball. Only reason I'm laughing so hard

457
00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:53,399
Speaker 1: is because I'm like having a visual in my mind.

458
00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:59,200
Speaker 1: He was just sitting there small and watching we was

459
00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:01,760
Speaker 1: watching to be a grand on what was y'all watching

460
00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:04,320
Speaker 1: on TV? Get on movie with that nigga that used

461
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:05,760
Speaker 1: to play that play Biggie in that movie.

462
00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:07,119
Speaker 2: You don't hear every twob movie?

463
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,600
Speaker 1: Oh the mom we need to have him on the

464
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:13,399
Speaker 1: show to him all the tea. But yeah, I mean,

465
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,040
Speaker 1: like I said, for me, a person doesn't have to

466
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:18,520
Speaker 1: check off all my boxes anymore. At this point, it's

467
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:21,720
Speaker 1: just certain things that I have that's like non negotiable. Right,

468
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 1: as long as you like meet all of my non negotiables,

469
00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:26,760
Speaker 1: we can negotiate on the other thing.

470
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 2: So do you feel like okay, so say a man,

471
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:29,920
Speaker 2: is that in you?

472
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,600
Speaker 1: He's like drag meets out, meets eight out of ten

473
00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:33,520
Speaker 1: of my criteria.

474
00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 2: She doesn't do these two.

475
00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,920
Speaker 1: Could you see yourself compromising and doing the other two

476
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:39,600
Speaker 1: things for him?

477
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 2: I mean, it depends on what it is. Yeah, because

478
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 2: why do I have to meet all ten boxes? You

479
00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 2: don't have to. But it's about compromising. But I'm saying

480
00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 2: to me, that is compromising.

481
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 1: If you meet somebody and they only check off eight

482
00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:55,600
Speaker 1: boxes out of tea and that's compromised.

483
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:57,240
Speaker 2: That's not a compromise. That's just you being you.

484
00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:01,119
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is that's them compromising two days all, Okay,

485
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 1: that's them already compromising.

486
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 2: Todate me.

487
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,400
Speaker 1: It depends on what it is. If it's some shit

488
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,200
Speaker 1: that I just don't do or I don't want to do. No,

489
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:11,119
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it to be with somebody. But

490
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,399
Speaker 1: I'm just a firm believer in I don't feel like

491
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,920
Speaker 1: I should have to change myself to be with a man.

492
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,400
Speaker 1: I don't feel like a man should have to change

493
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 1: hisself to be with me either.

494
00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:19,880
Speaker 2: Though.

495
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,919
Speaker 1: If we gotta do all that, we just not compatible

496
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:26,040
Speaker 1: and now we forcing it, and I don't believe in forcing.

497
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 2: She I think.

498
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 1: So I think for me it's just like, bitch, I'm

499
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 1: a Leo and you know we some lovers bitch.

500
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 2: So a lot. Really not though say that all the time.

501
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 2: I do. I'm a lover.

502
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 1: That's because your moon is Pisces. That has nothing to

503
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 1: do with you being a Leo on.

504
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 2: The blue corn so week the week. Look, that's why

505
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 2: you like being in love and you like this. But

506
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:51,880
Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying.

507
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:53,679
Speaker 1: But like I said, it's even like it's not and

508
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 1: I'm not just directly talking about me, and I'm talking

509
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 1: about my friends, my family.

510
00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 2: Whoever like mys.

511
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:03,240
Speaker 1: Like if a love language was making people feel loved,

512
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 1: that would.

513
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 2: Be my number one love language.

514
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 1: Like I love when people be like, man, look she

515
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 1: made me feel so good or thank you, like, oh

516
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 1: my gosh, this made me feel so good. Like I

517
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 1: love making people feel good. So I think for me,

518
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:18,400
Speaker 1: it's not about changing myself. I just enjoyed doing it.

519
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 1: Like people talking about all My man asked me for

520
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 1: a grilled cheese at three o'clock in the morning, I'm

521
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:25,360
Speaker 1: gonna do a bitch if dressing.

522
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 2: Bitch, it's three o'clock in the morning. I'm hungry. Can

523
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 2: you go to fucking the corner store and give me

524
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 2: some cheetos? Bitch, I'll move away for real? Why would

525
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 2: you lie like that? It was a lot.

526
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 1: But I have known you for seven years? Seven Yes,

527
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 1: I have known you for seven years.

528
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,360
Speaker 2: If not about to drive to.

529
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 1: No corner store, I would if you needed it, If

530
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:48,880
Speaker 1: you needed it.

531
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 2: Yes, I don't need hot cheetos. That's just the one.

532
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 2: That's not something I need.

533
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 1: But if you was like, Okay, if you was pregnant

534
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 1: and you was having a craving, absolutely yes, I would,

535
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:00,160
Speaker 1: like I feel.

536
00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, if I was pregnant, for sure.

537
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, but just on a whim me calling you being

538
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 1: like bitch, can you bring me somehow?

539
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 2: Maybe I wouldn't bring it, but I would door dash it.

540
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 2: What's up? Let a nigga make it? Door dash uber

541
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 2: eat you too good? For what's up?

542
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know because I never tested the theory.

543
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 2: I never tested it. I never say how far you

544
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 2: would go. I would. I'd go far for the people

545
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 2: I love.

546
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 1: But I have to love you, though, Like if it's

547
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 1: just somebody that's just like you answer the phone at

548
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 1: three am, I can vouch for that facts one thing

549
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:33,159
Speaker 1: about me.

550
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 2: I answer the phone for my Yeah. She she will

551
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 2: answer the phone no matter what about And.

552
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 1: Even if I fall and I don't want lifting and

553
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 1: I just be drunk and I just be wanting to talk,

554
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 1: She'll stay on the phone for Like, I don care

555
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 1: at five to ten min if I'm in the middle

556
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:46,120
Speaker 1: of talk.

557
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 2: If I'm in the middle of surgery, you hit me

558
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 2: my phone.

559
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 1: Not You're gonna wake up at the anesthesia to answer

560
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: my phone.

561
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 2: I will, I will.

562
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 1: I'm telling you when I walk up from surgery, you

563
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 1: was one of the first people I think I text you.

564
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I called you. I can't remember if I was

565
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 2: out of there.

566
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, I feel like when I love somebody, it

567
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 1: makes me feel good to love you how you want

568
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 1: to be loved. So even if I don't check off

569
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,880
Speaker 1: somebody's boxes, I'm not gonna try to just.

570
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 2: Change myself to for you to love me more.

571
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 1: I'm just I feel like it's okay to compromise, and

572
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 1: I'll do some things that necessarily I probably wouldn't do,

573
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 1: just because that's how.

574
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 2: I like to show my love. Yeah, I just feel

575
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 2: like that's not real love anyway.

576
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 1: Right now, I don't want to conform to what somebody

577
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,880
Speaker 1: thinks that I'm supposed to be in order for them

578
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 1: to fuck with me.

579
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 2: Either you fuck with me or you don't.

580
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 1: And I feel like once if you fuck with me,

581
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:40,160
Speaker 1: then yeah, over time, it's certain things that I think

582
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna want to do or change naturally, right right,

583
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 1: just because I care about you now we're talking, you

584
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,400
Speaker 1: know what I mean? But I don't want to never

585
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: feel like you're pressuring me. Are you putting the pressure

586
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,640
Speaker 1: on me to have to be this way because this

587
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 1: is what you like?

588
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:55,679
Speaker 2: And you know what, let me say this.

589
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of men that listen to

590
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 1: this show, they feel like, oh, they don't want to

591
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 1: do nothing, They don't want to.

592
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 2: Do nothing, or these women these days don't want to

593
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: do nothing.

594
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 1: If a woman is.

595
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 2: We are nurturers.

596
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 1: How many times do we have to say that we

597
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 1: are nurturing naturally? So if you feel like you fucking

598
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: with women that only ask you to take them out

599
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 1: and smoke hookah and for dickon this and that you're

600
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 1: not the man that she needs you to be, and.

601
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 2: That just is what it is.

602
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:25,679
Speaker 1: I mean, or in some cases they're just not fucking

603
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,399
Speaker 1: with the right women, because it is some women that

604
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: that's all they want. I mean, yeah, true, but I'm

605
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 1: speaking for the women they don't want to do nothing

606
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: in return. I mean no, but there are more women

607
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: that want to than not. Yeah, I don't know. Yes,

608
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: I feel like it's probably equal. I don't know all

609
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: the women in the world, but going off of I'm

610
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 1: going off of who I know exactly and people that

611
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 1: I've met, and I feel like, honestly, it's equal out

612
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:52,359
Speaker 1: of all my friends.

613
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 2: I know.

614
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 1: I know that if the right nigga came along, bitch,

615
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 1: And I'm not I'm not being like dramatic.

616
00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 2: I'm not being like, oh my friends.

617
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 1: All my friends are amazing women, smart, all make money,

618
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: all just on their shit. So I feel like, yeah,

619
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 1: we play the game, we be dating, whatever the case

620
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 1: may be, but if the right men came along, they're

621
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,360
Speaker 1: going to be the the.

622
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,920
Speaker 2: A good woman. But that's what I'm saying.

623
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: A lot men y'all aren't getting the results from these

624
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: women because you're not that nigga that you think you are.

625
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:26,640
Speaker 1: When you that nigga that you think you are, you're

626
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 1: gonna have the want the exact woman that you want

627
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: and she's gonna do what you want. This is and

628
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, this is gonna sound crazy, but I

629
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 1: feel like even sometimes when people get what they want,

630
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: it really ain't what they think they want.

631
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 2: What you mean, cause the math was a math and

632
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: in my.

633
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,640
Speaker 1: Head, even when people get what they think they want,

634
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 1: it's not really what they really want. I feel like

635
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 1: sometimes people can find the perfect person or what they

636
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: on paper say is the perfect person, but then you

637
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,439
Speaker 1: still not happy with the person because that but that

638
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: has issues within that person because you That goes with people, no,

639
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 1: because that goes within somebody who's always searching for more

640
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 1: or always feeling like they missing out on something. Like

641
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: to me, like I said, if I find somebody eight

642
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: checks off eight out of ten of my boxes, I'm

643
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:19,679
Speaker 1: happy because I know ninety percent of these niggas are

644
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 1: only checking off one or two of my boxes. Well,

645
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 1: I only said that because I feel like you could

646
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 1: meet somebody and then they check off eight out of

647
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 1: ten of your boxes, but then when you really start

648
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:29,400
Speaker 1: fucking with them, you're like, oh, this is some shit

649
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 1: I thought I cared about, But I don't really care

650
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 1: about these so this isn't really that big of a

651
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: deal to me, and so I feel like that goes

652
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,120
Speaker 1: into you don't know who your you don't know yourself.

653
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,719
Speaker 2: I disagree. I disagree.

654
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 1: I just think people change all the time, and then

655
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: sometimes when you get something, then that's when you realize, Okay,

656
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: well maybe.

657
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 2: Maybe that's what I used to like, but maybe that's

658
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 2: not what I see. But I feel like.

659
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 1: I'll give that to people in their twenties. Ah, things change,

660
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: But I feel like at thirty.

661
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 2: Three, I know what I want. It ain't no. Oh.

662
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 1: I thought I wanted a nigga who was like this

663
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 1: and I got it. Oh, never mind, I don't want

664
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 1: it anymore. Bitch, stop playing.

665
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 2: Do you know what you like?

666
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: You're you're a grown ass man, you a grown ass woman.

667
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: How do you not know that this.

668
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:17,239
Speaker 2: Old ripe age of thirty three what you want? I

669
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 2: feel like you can know what you want.

670
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: But I feel like, as humans, we change our minds

671
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 1: all the time and we can do that, and yeah,

672
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 1: yeah it happens.

673
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 2: And that's okay. But I also feel.

674
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: Like like it's shit that I thought I cared about

675
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: two years ago when it came to dating, that I

676
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 1: no longer really care about.

677
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 2: But you still a little puppy.

678
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 1: You went the full walla. Yet what do you mean

679
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 1: you're still a little puff? How am I still a

680
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 1: little puppy?

681
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 2: You still like growing and evolving?

682
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 1: You?

683
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 2: I mean you even at thirty three, like you know

684
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 2: what I mean? You can't say my age?

685
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 1: I can, Okay, so I'm thirty one, you thirty three.

686
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: Even at thirty t read I feel like not to

687
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: say much.

688
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 2: Will change but in that time, but okay, it will.

689
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 2: I mean, let me tell you something.

690
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: You could possibly be right because going back to what

691
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 1: I just said at twenty nine and then now me

692
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: beeing thirty one, I mean, I do feel like I

693
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 1: care about different things now.

694
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 2: And you know what's gonna happen to you? Draa? The

695
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 2: man that sweeps Draya off her feet.

696
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: It's he's gonna check off all her boxes, but it's

697
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: gonna be like nine out of ten he checks off.

698
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 1: But one of the boxes that he doesn't check off

699
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 1: is gonna just so happen to be one of.

700
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 2: Her non negotiables. Bitch, I doubt it. I'm telling you

701
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 2: That's how life works. M not mine. Hmm.

702
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: Maybe some people's I feel like I'm not. It's if

703
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: it's a non negotiable. It's a non negotiable. That's what

704
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 1: it is. It's non negotiable. We're gonna see child. But

705
00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 1: if it's negotiable, then I'm willing to you know, I'll

706
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 1: be flexible on that.

707
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 2: But it's certain.

708
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: It's like fourth things on at least there's no negotiable, okay, And.

709
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 2: It gotta be there. It gotta be there or it's nothing. Okay.

710
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: Well let's move on because bitch, we've been talking about

711
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 1: this for a long time because I can talk about

712
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: this shit.

713
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 2: What's up y'all?

714
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: A show girl XP and it's your girl drain or

715
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 1: Soul and we will be in the City that Never sleeps.

716
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 1: That's right, and YC, we coming to you August twenty

717
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 1: seventh at the town Hall. Yeah, and they definitely not

718
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: getting to sleep after this show. So make sure did

719
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 1: y'all get y'all sickens at.

720
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 2: Poor mind dot com. The show starts sixty seven pm.

721
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: Yees seven pm. And y'all know, I know y'all seen

722
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: the clips. Y'all never know who gonna pull up when

723
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: I tell y'all it's going stupid, dumb, don't get your

724
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: chopped cheese and show up at the dun't.

725
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, maybe not with you, chump cheese, but we'll

726
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 2: see y'all rock period. Okay, So go into the next topic.

727
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 2: My all right, So but the next topic I wanted

728
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 2: to talk about. MM I got a lot to say. Ooh,

729
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 2: I got a lot to say.

730
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 1: Somebody, do y'all ever feel like you know somebody that

731
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 1: daddy two five years ago, six years ago could never

732
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 1: have access to you right now because you've changed so

733
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: much as a person, or you evolved so much as

734
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: a person that you just it's no way that you

735
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: could ever go back and see yourself dating someone that

736
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 1: had access to you all of those years ago.

737
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 2: M I don't know. For me, I don't know what

738
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 2: you mean. You don't know, I don't know.

739
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, it depends on who it is, but it

740
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 1: also depends what the fuck you got going on. You

741
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: gotta realize, bitch, I'm not your claim to fame, and

742
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to talk my shit. But I'm trying

743
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 1: to talk my shit I got And the only reason

744
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: I'm I'm so I'm getting passionate about this, I see,

745
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: it's because it's.

746
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 2: It's niggas in the Fruit City from the fall.

747
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 1: Now I'm talking about Yeah, I used to be fucking

748
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: with Lex nigga. You wasn't fucking with Lix. You was

749
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: fucking with Tierra. First of all, a sixteen year old Tierra.

750
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 1: We said twenty seventeen. Okay, we just talking about in

751
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 1: the past in general.

752
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 2: Why NI be at eighteen? Why O can't date me? Now?

753
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 2: Why are you talking about a little puncy that you

754
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 2: had fifteen years ago? I was a little puff cause

755
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 2: it was the best probably maybe it was the best special.

756
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: We gonna name this episode a little puppy. Okay, girl,

757
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 1: I was a little puppy. Why is you talking about

758
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 1: me when I was a little pump Why do you keep.

759
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 2: Saying it like that?

760
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: So I'm a big dog now you a little puppy?

761
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 1: Cause that you still a little puffy now and you're

762
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 1: talking to a big dog. Bit y'all always been a

763
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: big dog. I never was a little poopy.

764
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 2: But all I'm saying is absolutely not.

765
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: I feel like I love growthing a person, And like

766
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 1: I said, I always like to relate things back to

767
00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: friends as well. This goes for friends, family, and niggas.

768
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 1: It's some people that I left when I moved to

769
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: Atlanta twenty seventeen. Since we're talking about a specific year,

770
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: it's a lot of people that I left in twenty

771
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: seventeen and life happened. Things happen, and I crossed paths

772
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: with them, and it's like you still in the same place.

773
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:24,440
Speaker 2: That I left you.

774
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 1: But we ain't talking about them type of people. See

775
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 1: that's the problem. What were we talking about? Ain't talking

776
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:31,479
Speaker 1: about them type of people? Facts like a person who

777
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: is in the same place that I left in me

778
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: and of course like.

779
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 2: You can never date me now, of course not.

780
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 1: But what if they doing way bitter or what if

781
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:42,240
Speaker 1: they have like really grown alike as a person.

782
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 2: Now see that's where we're talking about now what I

783
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,280
Speaker 2: have about, bitch. I'm trying to get to the nitty greedy.

784
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 2: Let's get to the knitty gritty.

785
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 1: Because if you dated me in twenty seventeen and then

786
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 1: you come back in twenty two.

787
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 2: Then twenty seventeen, that means you was with twenty seven.

788
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 1: I was twenty four in two twenty seventeen, you was

789
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:04,839
Speaker 1: definitely twenty seven.

790
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 2: You a snitch, That's how I know you. A little puppy.

791
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,399
Speaker 2: You say you thirty three all the time.

792
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 1: On this show, had the man Okay, so yeah, so

793
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: I feel like somebody got dated in twenty seventeen. I'm all,

794
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 1: I am a big person on timing. I do believe

795
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: in timing. I believe that sometimes the time is just

796
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: not right. So if I believe in it, I do.

797
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes you meet somebody in the time

798
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:35,919
Speaker 1: in his room, maybe they haven't grown into who they're

799
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 1: going to be, cause I feel like it's some.

800
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 2: Niggas that I met, like they met me and I

801
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 2: was a little puffy.

802
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 1: But you don't never just feel like you meet everybody

803
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: when you supposed to meet.

804
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:46,240
Speaker 2: And all I'm just playing.

805
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,439
Speaker 1: No, you don't never feel like you just meet people

806
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: when you supposed to meet them and that's what their

807
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: relationship is supposed to be. Maybe, but that's how life

808
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 1: is crazy because maybe this person, you met this person

809
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 1: cause they was supposed to teach you a lessen and

810
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 1: then you were supposed to row.

811
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 2: And then its full circle.

812
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 1: Because sometimes things are run it back, spend the block.

813
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 1: Let's run it back, because you know what it's been.

814
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: Sometimes I feel like I fumble.

815
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 2: I fumbled a nigga before well, I mean I had

816
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 2: I fumbled a little bit, okay, But I mean that's different. Thought.

817
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 2: You were so young. I was so young. I was

818
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 2: a little puppy.

819
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: You were very You was definitely a little puppy in

820
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: that situation for real, for real. But I know you

821
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: couldn't because you didn't have the knowledge, That's what I'm saying,

822
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: Like at that age that you were at, at that

823
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 1: time that you dated that specific person, Well, how much.

824
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 2: Knowledge could you have had about life? You hadn't lived

825
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:50,399
Speaker 2: that long, right, I was a little puppy. You you

826
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 2: hadn't been an adult that long.

827
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 1: Okay, So let me say this though, I feel like

828
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 1: sometimes you meet somebody you're not where you want to

829
00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 1: be in life. You have to grow me personally as

830
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: a woman. So what I have a question. Do you

831
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,879
Speaker 1: feel like you fumbled that person just because of like

832
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: who they are and what they have, or do you

833
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,440
Speaker 1: feel like you fumbled that person because you feel like, damn,

834
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:14,399
Speaker 1: that was potentially a soulmate of mine and I will

835
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: never find nobody else like that or have a connection

836
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 1: with anybody else like that.

837
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 2: And that's why I.

838
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 1: I think it's a mixture of both. I'm not gonna

839
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 1: sit up here a lot at the end of the day.

840
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 1: My soulmate is somebody who's successful, and y'all can yeah,

841
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 1: but y'all, but being a saul made is based more

842
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 1: on I feel like emotions, right, and my feelings and

843
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:39,319
Speaker 1: emotions are attached to this bag. And I'm not trying

844
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: to be funny, but like I am, my heart and

845
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,120
Speaker 1: my soul is invested in.

846
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 2: My job with you. But you know, I already like

847
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 2: I be.

848
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 1: Whoever I'm supposed to be with is gonna be a

849
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 1: nigga who got that bag. Don't be a nigga that

850
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 1: got some money, for sure, but it's a lot of

851
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:58,919
Speaker 1: niggas that got a bag that I feel like, try

852
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 1: to talk to me and that I have dated, right,

853
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:07,240
Speaker 1: it's not so, mate, I don't think he was my soulmate,

854
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 1: let me not lie. I feel like the relationship could

855
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: have gone further if I would have just been more

856
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:17,879
Speaker 1: you know, into my womanhood, you know what I'm saying.

857
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 2: I feel like I just wasn't ready. I wasn't ready. Yeah,

858
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 2: So I.

859
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: Feel like if me and this person cross pass again,

860
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: which we never will because I don't want that.

861
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 2: That's not what I'm saying.

862
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: Things would absolutely be different because, like I said, I've

863
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: grown as a woman, Like it's just been a lot

864
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 1: of girls.

865
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 2: So somebody from my past.

866
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like sometimes you meet people at the

867
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 1: wrong time and somebody is there to teach you a lesson.

868
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:41,840
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

869
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: When I met that nigga, I was a tiny, tiny

870
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: tot you was, But there are still things from that

871
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 1: situation that I apply to my life right now. And

872
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 1: that's why I'm saying when I say, like, it's lessons

873
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 1: that I learned from him in that situation that I

874
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 1: still use to this day when it comes to my

875
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 1: business and my relationships.

876
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 2: So for me, it's like it's it goes.

877
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 1: Beyond what you do for a living. It's like the

878
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 1: effect that you had on me.

879
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 2: Some men just have that effect on me.

880
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 1: Like, I'm not gonna lie, it's things that I've even

881
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 1: learned from like Rapper Bay, like that I'm gonna take

882
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 1: forever and apply to my personal life, applied to my business.

883
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 1: Like some people, they just have an effect on you

884
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: that's gonna last for life or for a lifetime.

885
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,720
Speaker 2: So it's like, yeah, deal on him or whoever.

886
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: In twenty seventeen, they could come back into twenty twenty

887
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 1: two because I remember, I will always remember the knowledge that.

888
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:41,360
Speaker 2: You gave me. Now, some people, no, it's actually not some.

889
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 2: It's a lot. Ninety ninety nine.

890
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,879
Speaker 1: Percent of people that I talked to shit even last year,

891
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: couldn't talk to me now.

892
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:50,800
Speaker 2: Agreed.

893
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 1: I feel like most niggas said I used to talk

894
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 1: to don't have no ex no access. Probably every day,

895
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 1: it's probably about two or three hmm, not that have

896
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: access to me.

897
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 2: But they can definitely get a little less segregated.

898
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 1: Pusson long as I'm still single, you're about to not

899
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 1: be single. I'm not saying that, Okay, okay, like what's

900
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,720
Speaker 1: going on. I'm saying as long as I'm still single,

901
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: because it's like if I find somebody and then I

902
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 1: end up in a relationship, then at that point it's but.

903
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 2: I don't know, I feel like people.

904
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: Because I think that's the problem with niggas too, Like

905
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:36,400
Speaker 1: niggas be wanting to wait too long and even snatched up.

906
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 2: Snatched up because a bitch like me is always gonna

907
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 2: get snatched So it's like, if I'm still single, then.

908
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 1: It's like probably three people there, you know, m I

909
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: was spend a block.

910
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 2: No, I don't I don't mind spending the block. I don't.

911
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: But like I said, that has to make sense because

912
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 1: you see a testament of my growth over the years,

913
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 1: because I never used to spend the block.

914
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I I don't mind spending the block.

915
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 1: But also at this point in our lives and other

916
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: people's lives, it's a lot of.

917
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 2: Like we got shit going on, we got shit to lose.

918
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 1: Not just us, I'm talking about a lot of people

919
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 1: out there, Like it's a lot of people with great

920
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 1: jobs out there, a lot of people who got kids

921
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: and a lot of responsibility. Like I'm not spending the

922
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,360
Speaker 1: block on somebody who brings who used to bring chaos

923
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 1: in my life as well.

924
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 2: I don't care how well you're doing now.

925
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: If you're somebody who's toxic and you're a firecracker, I

926
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: don't necessarily want that. I like peace. I'm all about peace.

927
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 1: Like I used to love the arguments and the toxic shit.

928
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:35,280
Speaker 2: I don't want that. I want peace.

929
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 1: What I said, Yeah, because I don't want you know what,

930
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 1: because guess what if I use to go now, y'all.

931
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 2: Licks used to be a little puppy, that's say, a

932
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:48,720
Speaker 2: little puppy.

933
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 1: Bro in a relationship the most toxic person.

934
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 2: Every growth growth that growth.

935
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: But let me say this, Like I said, I feel

936
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: like that's how I used to think that a man

937
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 1: loved me. I felt like if a man was arguing

938
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: and he was mad at me, that means he cared

939
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 1: and he loved me. Now I want to live in peace,

940
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: Like it's so good to just have fun with somebody

941
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 1: and enjoy the moments. A lot of people don't have

942
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: shit to lose, and a lot of people people live

943
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: for cloud. Cloud is a disease, Cloud is a drug.

944
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 2: At this point, somebody who don't got shit going on

945
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 2: could say, Man.

946
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 1: Let's got a nigga and I fucked her last night.

947
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: She don't fuck with that nigga. Hashtag poor minds.

948
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 2: People search the hashtag poor mindes.

949
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: They're gonna be like, because people search hashtags, that's all

950
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 1: you gotta do. Whatever you fuck with and every whatever

951
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 1: you like. If you search the hashtag, it's gonna be

952
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: some tea there.

953
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

954
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 1: So it's like you we have to be careful. And

955
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 1: I'm not just talking about us, I'm talking about anybody.

956
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 1: If you have anything going on. People like attention. People

957
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 1: want to be connected to something. We literally had somebody

958
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: the other day literally trying to call us dumb and

959
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 1: call us stupid for like the Chelsea boots thing that

960
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 1: went viral, totally joking.

961
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 2: God, the Chelsea boot Brigade.

962
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:16,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all keeping this motherfucker y'all was ready for Wall.

963
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 2: The Chelsea boot Brigade was mad as his.

964
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,319
Speaker 1: So some nigga said something, you like something crazy and

965
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 1: I said what I.

966
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 2: Said, said Chelsea and you said something to him?

967
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 1: You was like coming from a nigga who always be

968
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 1: in my mentions And he said, who said, I was

969
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 1: talking about you?

970
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 2: And I laughed at it. He was like, well, I don't.

971
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 1: Know why you laughing, Lix, I was talking about you

972
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:37,879
Speaker 1: when he literally had just tweeted us two weeks ago

973
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 1: asking us both to part.

974
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 2: In his face.

975
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,399
Speaker 1: Exactly, how are you gonna say, I'm a dumb bitch

976
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 1: and this and that and you just asked me to

977
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 1: fart in your face?

978
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 2: And I said this you He was like, oh, not

979
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 2: pooty tang part. That's what I'm saying. That's why we

980
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 2: have to be careful with who we interact with.

981
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: You have to realize tang parts to who you Wow Wiley,

982
00:43:57,640 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 1: but That's why I said, you have to be careful

983
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:01,759
Speaker 1: with who you interact with because sometimes people just want

984
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 1: a reaction.

985
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 2: This man has been tweeting us, just wanting the same

986
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 2: all the time. But yeah, he always tweets me. When

987
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:11,280
Speaker 2: you said, I said, let me say.

988
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:13,919
Speaker 1: Something, I said, oh this show, Yeah, nigga, I would

989
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:19,240
Speaker 1: never bless you with my flatulence. Okay, word of the week,

990
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 1: not word of the week, flatulence at a puff.

991
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 2: A hoot like this show. This show is hoots. So yeah, somebody.

992
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 1: Dating me in twenty seventeen, mm, ninety nine percent chance

993
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: you can't date me?

994
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:41,919
Speaker 2: Now, That's how I feel it. I grow a lot.

995
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 2: I just grow too much every day as a person.

996
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:45,879
Speaker 1: I do too, but I feel like other people grow

997
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: as well, Like you gotta give people.

998
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,439
Speaker 2: A little one. No, I definitely do give him brace

999
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: everybody grow.

1000
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: Nobody that I know that I dated in twenty seventeen

1001
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 1: is the same bracon that they are. Well, maybe that's

1002
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 1: not that goes with my taste of men, because I

1003
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 1: will say one, Well, I was.

1004
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:08,240
Speaker 2: In a relationship that year. Pouse, what boys, I'm scared?

1005
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 2: What are you about to tell you? You should be scared?

1006
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 2: Cause I'm gonna get on your ass right now. You

1007
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,719
Speaker 2: just said somebody did dated you in twenty seventeen? Could

1008
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 2: it date you now? Right? Oh? Who daddy mean twenty seventeen?

1009
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 1: Because he definitely cauld I was in a relationship in

1010
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 1: twenty seventeen. Okay, twenty seventeen, twenty fifteen, twenty sixteen.

1011
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 2: Does it ring a bell?

1012
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:32,839
Speaker 1: My man? My man?

1013
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 2: But that's why I said, how you lie? I said

1014
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:41,239
Speaker 2: ninety nine percent? I did not take one is and

1015
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 2: I love him zone you're white and you do lie.

1016
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:46,839
Speaker 1: I did not lie, I said ninety nine percent. Bro

1017
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 1: is the math, not Mathew. See, that's how I know

1018
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:51,439
Speaker 1: you a little puff nah, because I can go back,

1019
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: I can. I can name somebody else. No, No, I

1020
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 1: ain't gonna name him because you ain't gonna drop no names.

1021
00:45:56,719 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 2: But uh, what's up?

1022
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:00,759
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1023
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 2: As your girl like cree and it is your girls random. Oh,

1024
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1025
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Speaker 1: a you a messy bitch list for drama what I do?

1080
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1081
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 1: So for the band topic, we want us to talk

1082
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: about men sending nuds and nuts video.

1083
00:48:55,320 --> 00:49:00,080
Speaker 2: Personally me, I like a little slow mode.

1084
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 1: You do, I'll tell you want to be on my

1085
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 1: side about this?

1086
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 2: No, I wasn't, And that's your problem.

1087
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: It's my why, Ma, mama, My mama would be calling

1088
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 1: me when I said I like a slow monut video.

1089
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 2: That's a wild not freaky bar, freaky bar. Anyways, I

1090
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 2: do not like videos of men beating a dick. I

1091
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 2: don't want to see that.

1092
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:30,359
Speaker 1: It's just I don't want to see the actual like

1093
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to see I just want to see

1094
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 1: the outcome.

1095
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 2: You know what it is? Okay, So literally, bro.

1096
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 1: You you are disgusting. I just feel like, Okay, I

1097
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 1: am an aesthetic girl, aesthetic aesthetic, aesthetic girl.

1098
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 2: But you've been saying aesthetic the whole episode.

1099
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: I'm an aesthetic girl whatever, I just look at too

1100
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 1: much because when I take nudes, it's I think I

1101
00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 1: need everything to look good. My background gotta be perfect,

1102
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,919
Speaker 1: the lighting gotta be right. It's really news are art

1103
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:15,280
Speaker 1: to me? Like literally, I'm not trying to be funny,

1104
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 1: like I feel like when I send niggas news, they'd

1105
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:21,760
Speaker 1: be like wow, like I want to look like a picture.

1106
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 1: Niggas don't have that much thought. So one thing I hate,

1107
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: but what if a nigga sends you a nude and

1108
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:29,359
Speaker 1: he like.

1109
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 2: No, I don't want that. Why are you posing? So

1110
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 2: you don't like videos or pictures?

1111
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 1: Because I had a nigga send me a nut video

1112
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 1: and he had pulled down his draws and he had

1113
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 1: his draws like still around his ankle.

1114
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 2: Where was the camera like right here? And I can

1115
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:48,359
Speaker 2: see his feet? Did it wrong?

1116
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 1: He supposedly went from the bottom. Oh, like, I see,

1117
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,359
Speaker 1: I've never gotten one like that. So you can see

1118
00:50:55,360 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 1: that boty hole. You ain't a little booty You like

1119
00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: a little booty hole, So you're okay, So God, do

1120
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: you not like a little booty hole? I mean, ain't

1121
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:07,879
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with it being in the camera. We all

1122
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 1: got one, okay, So I'm not gonna lie loud. Now

1123
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:18,319
Speaker 1: that's a good angle, so fellas I know from because

1124
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 1: you can see the abbed up ab. You can see

1125
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:22,839
Speaker 1: the face when they be.

1126
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 2: Like, oh, I don't want that. I don't want to

1127
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 2: see that one.

1128
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 1: No, I mean okay, okay, I'll make him wear a

1129
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 1: ski mask.

1130
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 2: Make it fun. I see. I like a little ski mask.

1131
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,839
Speaker 2: Now we're talking a lie. Now we talking. You ain't

1132
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:42,800
Speaker 2: no little puppy. I'm not a little puffy.

1133
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 1: You're venting the game a big dog. I'm trying to

1134
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 1: see big dog.

1135
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 2: I like this ski mask. Camera on the floor balls

1136
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 2: a little boody hole.

1137
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 1: No, why came on the floor where it's supposed to be,

1138
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:59,320
Speaker 1: like on the bed, holding it like he's seeing and

1139
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:00,160
Speaker 1: holding it.

1140
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 2: Okay, I like that too. So then when he shoot it,

1141
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:08,520
Speaker 2: I liked it. Okay. Now you're getting a little.

1142
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 1: Out so we don't want the video to get flagged.

1143
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 2: I see. But that's what I'm saying.

1144
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 1: But whoever sent you that video, he was thinking about

1145
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 1: the views, the angles, like I appreciate art. Niggas don't

1146
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 1: know about the art when it comes to news. But

1147
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 1: sometimes you got a guy a nigga like I.

1148
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 2: Told a nigga what I wanted to see. Okay, so

1149
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 2: you told him an angle to do? Yeah? Like it

1150
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:36,840
Speaker 2: like that? I m because I.

1151
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,240
Speaker 1: See that's what when I before I take a nude,

1152
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:44,320
Speaker 1: I always baby oiled my body down. But we're women,

1153
00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:46,440
Speaker 1: we gonna baby oil it down anyway. That's why I'm

1154
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 1: sitting like this right now because this morning.

1155
00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 2: That's getting it's getting too loud. But yeah, I feel

1156
00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 2: like that's why.

1157
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: I like, the last time I got sent a nut video,

1158
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 1: he was like, take it was like from the top.

1159
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 2: He was just like and I could see his.

1160
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:09,919
Speaker 1: Under he looked like he don't know how to send

1161
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 1: a proper nude video nut video. I was disgusted and

1162
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 1: these niggas cannot be trusted. I was just like, this

1163
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 1: is not given what it's supposed to give.

1164
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 2: I'm not turned on. It was just not good.

1165
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:29,240
Speaker 1: But yeah, so I feel like for me, I wouldn't

1166
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 1: mind him.

1167
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 2: Now you've changed my mind. You have changed my mind.

1168
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:35,240
Speaker 1: If I got a news, it's a lot of ways

1169
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 1: you could do it as you can hit it from Yes,

1170
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 1: So I feel like men, if y'all got more creative

1171
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 1: with sending nudes and nut videos, maybe women.

1172
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 2: Would enjoy it, like they even got the little things.

1173
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:46,399
Speaker 1: Now they got like the little cases that you can

1174
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:50,320
Speaker 1: attach to your mirror, Okay, and it did like it

1175
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 1: just stick.

1176
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:52,879
Speaker 2: On the mirror. I'm stuck on. Then a nigga could

1177
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:53,879
Speaker 2: be standing there like.

1178
00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:55,759
Speaker 1: I'm stuck on the ski mask because if you got

1179
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: a ski mask and his chains on, bitch, not a change?

1180
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 2: Oh not you icy ye blessing or nothing. Now I

1181
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,439
Speaker 2: was supposed to say, now he icy and creamy. Oh

1182
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 2: a combo, bitch. That sounds like a donuting I want

1183
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 2: to eat right now.

1184
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 1: Icy creamy, take two dozen, give me the I like that.

1185
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 2: No, for real, you gotta.

1186
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 1: Min I don't know, I think because I'm just my

1187
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 1: mind is always thinking about so many different things that

1188
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:31,439
Speaker 1: one time.

1189
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:34,880
Speaker 2: I'm just always like a visual person. I'm a visual

1190
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 2: person too, and that's why I'm saying.

1191
00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 1: So I know how I want to see things like,

1192
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: but you gotta send it in a way I want

1193
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:44,720
Speaker 1: to see it, because yeah, if nigga got the fucking

1194
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:47,399
Speaker 1: camera pointed at his fucking feet and you can see

1195
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 1: that black toe now.

1196
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 2: Here you go. I knew it was coming.

1197
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:52,439
Speaker 1: I'm talking about your Nigga's not mine because they don't

1198
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:53,880
Speaker 1: be having black toes mine.

1199
00:54:53,920 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 2: No, but even still, I don't want to my nigg

1200
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 2: ain't got no black toe. I didn't say him.

1201
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:08,359
Speaker 1: Okay, I just feel like you has one or two

1202
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:11,479
Speaker 1: full off top.

1203
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:13,960
Speaker 2: Let me stop playing with you. Is that gonna be

1204
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:14,400
Speaker 2: in a comment?

1205
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:17,840
Speaker 1: It's like Drey always be trying to tell Lis business

1206
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:20,400
Speaker 1: and I'm like, what business?

1207
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 2: You all still don't know? She still don't know. No.

1208
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 1: So like if a nigga got the camera and you

1209
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 1: can see his feet, I feel like I don't want

1210
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 1: to see that.

1211
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 2: That's not a good angle. I like that.

1212
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:35,319
Speaker 1: So from the mirror head on, from the mirror head on,

1213
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 1: from from the bottom front the wall, from the window,

1214
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 1: a little thing.

1215
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:41,719
Speaker 2: You can stick to the walls. Okay, I like that.

1216
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:45,240
Speaker 1: I like that I never see the whole body, especially

1217
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 1: if you got a nice body. And I like the

1218
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:50,320
Speaker 1: ski mask thing. I feel like it's a little because

1219
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:53,319
Speaker 1: I keep I'm gonna give me as. I kind of

1220
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: want to funk with a ski mask on a little

1221
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 1: me too.

1222
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:57,880
Speaker 2: That's sound fun with cops and robberies.

1223
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, y'all role play absolutely, Oh that's you.

1224
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 1: You ain't already got a ski mask, No I have.

1225
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 1: I would love to sell dig with a ski mask on.

1226
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I've never done that, but I

1227
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 1: would like to do it.

1228
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:26,359
Speaker 2: Hmm hmmm mmmm. You are freaking okay. So men, I

1229
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:27,480
Speaker 2: know y'all watching.

1230
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 1: Y'all like to y'all don't like to say nothing because

1231
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:31,239
Speaker 1: y'all at this. I don't want no news though, let

1232
00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 1: me say that. So no pictures videos only that's weird.

1233
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 1: Why are you sending me fucking pictures of you your

1234
00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:38,920
Speaker 1: dick out and you pose me.

1235
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 2: I don't like that. What if he what if he

1236
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:50,879
Speaker 2: holding it? Absolutely? What if you do this? I don't

1237
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 2: like that. That's a good he not this the dick.

1238
00:56:55,719 --> 00:57:02,080
Speaker 1: Way, Okay, okay, So men, I know a lot of

1239
00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:04,880
Speaker 1: I said this at the show this past weekend. A

1240
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 1: lot of men watch poor Minds, but they don't want

1241
00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: to say but we be putting a lot of niggas

1242
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:12,919
Speaker 1: on game. So men, if y'all aren't shy or don't

1243
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 1: mind saying something, send us an email and let us

1244
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:18,160
Speaker 1: know how you take news or you shoot your nut

1245
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: videos because I think women would like them. I changed

1246
00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 1: my mind, honestly, at the beginning of the segment. I

1247
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 1: was like, no, hell no, But now that you said

1248
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:28,640
Speaker 1: it from those angles, I wouldn't mind it. I wouldn't

1249
00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:30,920
Speaker 1: mind it. So let us know how y'all techniques and

1250
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 1: sending up videos. Okay, So now we're gonna get into

1251
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: the bob love by bow by bow Bow bow bow

1252
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 1: about Okay, So for my bop of the week, y'all

1253
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:45,760
Speaker 1: know I talk about this man all the time, Xavier Omar.

1254
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 1: He just released a new EP and he has a

1255
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:53,280
Speaker 1: song on their called Concept. And the reason I love

1256
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:57,800
Speaker 1: this song so much is because I feel like love

1257
00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 1: is a lot simpler than what we make it out

1258
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 1: to be. So the opening line of the song is,

1259
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 1: treat me the way you want to be treated?

1260
00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 2: What a concept like? Treat people how you want to

1261
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:10,880
Speaker 2: be treated?

1262
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: Like if you really fuck with somebody, just treat them

1263
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:16,480
Speaker 1: how you want to be treated like. The another line

1264
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 1: in the song says, love me the way you want

1265
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 1: to be loved? What a mindset like? The concept? If

1266
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 1: you actually think about the concept of love, it's very

1267
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:30,320
Speaker 1: fucking simple, you know. So that's like the base of

1268
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:32,440
Speaker 1: the song, and I really love it. His voice is

1269
00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:38,160
Speaker 1: just like butter on toast, So shout out. Oh I

1270
00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 1: love a little butter of toast, So shout out to

1271
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 1: Xavier Omar.

1272
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 2: My bop of the week is a concept fire song.

1273
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 2: I'm fucking with it. Okay. First of all, beat.

1274
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 1: Beyonce album Just Drive, Go Ahead, Beyonce album just dropped.

1275
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 2: Why anybody ain't Why everybody in a room not clipping?

1276
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 2: Only Superstar? Even if I wasn't from Houston, I love

1277
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 2: to throw that out there from Houston.

1278
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,560
Speaker 1: I would still be part of the beehive either way,

1279
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 1: because Beyonce is just that amazing and she's that great.

1280
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:34,520
Speaker 1: But bitch, this fucking album and then it's like house music.

1281
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 2: It's like not idiom house music. It's a I think

1282
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 2: it is a mixture. It's a mixture of idiom house music.

1283
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 2: But would be beyoncey twist bitch, and you know she's

1284
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 2: gonna twist it.

1285
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,960
Speaker 1: And I'm fucking with the whole album. I mean, it's

1286
00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 1: not a lot of songs that I ain't fucking with.

1287
00:59:56,280 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 1: But let me tell y'all, my faves Alien Superstar are fire.

1288
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 1: That Hook, Oh my god, that girl. Do you think

1289
01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 1: that hook hits a little different because she's just like

1290
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 1: talking her ship, but and she gets so soft on

1291
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:18,320
Speaker 1: that hook.

1292
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:26,400
Speaker 2: Baby, Oh, it was perfection. She makes me want to

1293
01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:28,240
Speaker 2: go to What's the one? This is the one?

1294
01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:31,920
Speaker 1: I like America has a problem. Oh my god, I like.

1295
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:34,040
Speaker 2: America has a problem. No, that's the best song on

1296
01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 2: the album. I don't know.

1297
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:38,880
Speaker 1: America has a problem in aiding a superstar a super

1298
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:42,120
Speaker 1: Sorry is my sheet, but so is plastic off the sofa?

1299
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:48,480
Speaker 2: Burgo, what's the one? Grove? Oh my god, Burgo's groove hated?

1300
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:52,920
Speaker 2: Is this Beyonce's best album? Do you think?

1301
01:00:54,320 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 1: Is it? No?

1302
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:56,360
Speaker 2: I fear it's not.

1303
01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1304
01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 2: I fear no, I don't know.

1305
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's the best, it's time, but

1306
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:04,080
Speaker 1: it gotta be in my top three for me, top

1307
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:05,800
Speaker 1: three for me, it's top two.

1308
01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:10,720
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Four I don't know. It's fucking Beyonce. She

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Speaker 2: don't miss, she.

1310
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:15,600
Speaker 1: Don't miss, but I got a four oh four was different?

1311
01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 2: Four was different, Fears was everything be Different? Different, Dangerously

1312
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 2: in Love.

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01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 1: That was her first album Shows, So it's like, I

1314
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 1: don't know either. It's like, it's can we really categorize

1315
01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:31,919
Speaker 1: a Beyonce album and put order?

1316
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 2: It's like they are good. I wonder how it feels

1317
01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:37,760
Speaker 2: to be that great.

1318
01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:40,040
Speaker 1: They talking about if Beyonce, like if this was she

1319
01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 1: was when we was in quarantine, bitch, lock us back

1320
01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 1: up for real. That's how I felt when this album dropped.

1321
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, I feel like somebody haven't got

1322
01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:51,760
Speaker 1: to be on the album since like twenty seventeen.

1323
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:54,920
Speaker 2: I feel like twenty sixteen. This is what artistry is.

1324
01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 1: Though, because I talk about this all the time, I say,

1325
01:01:58,440 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of artists that get in

1326
01:01:59,840 --> 01:02:02,840
Speaker 1: this studio and they make a fire song and people

1327
01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 1: don't like it because sometimes we don't have the ear

1328
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:07,600
Speaker 1: that they have and we don't hear it. Well, I

1329
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:10,160
Speaker 1: respect the bobbs y'all don't got the rain. But but

1330
01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:12,920
Speaker 1: what I see a lot of complain Yeah, but what

1331
01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:15,640
Speaker 1: I respect about Beyonce and she she gets it and

1332
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 1: she understands her audience.

1333
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 2: The people that are complaining are not her audience. And

1334
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:22,200
Speaker 2: that's okay. You don't not everybody has to.

1335
01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:27,720
Speaker 1: Love Beyonce, cool, whatever, But you cannot deny that this

1336
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:29,560
Speaker 1: is a great fucking album.

1337
01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:31,439
Speaker 2: No you can. If it's not your rain.

1338
01:02:31,640 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: If it's not your rain, I feel like a lot

1339
01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:34,640
Speaker 1: of people this is just.

1340
01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 2: Not their range. Like they're like, okay, like this is

1341
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:38,760
Speaker 2: some shit.

1342
01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 1: This is a sound that I'm not used to, but

1343
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that it's not good. Like I've heard

1344
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 1: a lot of songs that I necessarily don't like, but

1345
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 1: I can't say that it's trash.

1346
01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:49,280
Speaker 2: Facts.

1347
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:53,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're you're open minded when it comes to

1348
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,440
Speaker 1: your musical taste. I feel like so am I I'm

1349
01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 1: very open minded when it comes to the list.

1350
01:02:59,080 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 2: Don't get me wrong.

1351
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:02,000
Speaker 1: Like I love some hood Shee and I love some

1352
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 1: all Yeah, and I love some old school R and

1353
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:07,600
Speaker 1: B as well. But I also will listen to pop,

1354
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 1: I will listen to rock music, I will listen to

1355
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:13,160
Speaker 1: country music. I will listen to EDM and house music,

1356
01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 1: not a little.

1357
01:03:14,040 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 2: Rock, a little bit country, and a little bit rock.

1358
01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:22,200
Speaker 1: And roll, not a little big country at rock and

1359
01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 1: roll anyway.

1360
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:26,960
Speaker 2: No, I'm not deep in my bags. Stop playing with me.

1361
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 1: Fucking Wollin has a DM on necklace and I can't

1362
01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 1: wait to watch it because y'all know I love but yees.

1363
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:40,120
Speaker 2: So I feel like it was a great album.

1364
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: Beyonce, like I said, top three, but I mean all

1365
01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:46,440
Speaker 1: of her albums are great.

1366
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Speaker 2: It's hard to write them. So I'm fucking well. I'm

1367
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:50,920
Speaker 2: not gonna lie. This might be a top two for

1368
01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:53,000
Speaker 2: me because I do you know, I love it.

1369
01:03:53,120 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 1: I have a whole. I'm really an idiom playlist. I

1370
01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 1: do have a whole.

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01:03:57,440 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 2: They don't cut us out. No, No, he's supposed to

1372
01:03:59,840 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 2: dr No.

1373
01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:03,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna drop this because it's already done. I don't

1374
01:04:03,200 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 1: have to work on it. Like I'm gonna put my

1375
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:08,680
Speaker 1: Dum playlist. It's on ours be done, but I still ain't. Yeah,

1376
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 1: I'll drop my DM playlist in the comments because it's

1377
01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:12,800
Speaker 1: already done. I listened to this playlist like every day

1378
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:14,760
Speaker 1: and it's like my favorite playlist, So yeah, I'll drop

1379
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:16,560
Speaker 1: that in the comments for I'm just shook.

1380
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:18,200
Speaker 2: It's a good album.

1381
01:04:18,360 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 1: About to be I can't wait till to I'm definitely

1382
01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 1: going to stop the post me too.

1383
01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 2: We're definitely going to the show, and I'm about.

1384
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 1: To start posting some reals because I feel like I

1385
01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:30,520
Speaker 1: can't let these songs go unused by me, not the

1386
01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:32,080
Speaker 1: alien superstar herself.

1387
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:36,640
Speaker 2: You know, all right, let's move on. Let's move on.

1388
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:42,200
Speaker 1: So y'all have been blowing up our messages, our comments, everything,

1389
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 1: talking about to watch movies so we y'all know, we

1390
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 1: talked about Secret Society about a year ago.

1391
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 2: We reviewed it because it was such a good movie.

1392
01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:53,320
Speaker 2: It was very good.

1393
01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 1: So they just recently came out with Secret Society too,

1394
01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 1: So we gonna talk about Secret Society too real quick.

1395
01:04:59,840 --> 01:05:01,520
Speaker 2: You you want to go through the movie. I don't

1396
01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:08,320
Speaker 2: want to spoil it for them. Disclaimer spoiler alert disclaimer spoiler.

1397
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:11,080
Speaker 1: Okay, So basically, one thing I will say I liked

1398
01:05:11,120 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 1: about the movie is that exactly picked up where the

1399
01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 1: other movie left off. It picked up right there when

1400
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:19,520
Speaker 1: she was in front of the little townhouse whatever. So

1401
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 1: basically the basis of this film is following the main character.

1402
01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 2: So list like after uh, what's her name? Tina?

1403
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 1: Tina dies? So what did you think about the movie?

1404
01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:36,320
Speaker 1: About the second one? I feel like the first movie

1405
01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 1: was very realasy, Okay, the second movie almost seemed fictional

1406
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 1: to Okay, like a fairy tale type of situation. Now,

1407
01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:50,400
Speaker 1: I do believe that sometimes your fairy tale can.

1408
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 2: Come true, but I will say, oh, I am for sure.

1409
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: The part about like her dating the celebrity guy, them

1410
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 1: falling in love, and her becoming famous, like that's not

1411
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 1: in but it does happen. Women and men sometimes are

1412
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 1: famous all the time just because of who their partners are.

1413
01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:11,640
Speaker 1: So that was realistic to me. That was yeah, I agree.

1414
01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:16,920
Speaker 1: Now when we're getting a part of like her, like

1415
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:21,160
Speaker 1: paying people off to kill Khalil and all that stuff,

1416
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 1: then it gets.

1417
01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:26,240
Speaker 2: A little like dramatic, like that could never happen. But

1418
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:28,760
Speaker 2: that ain't what you mean. That could never happen.

1419
01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 1: People be her and hit me in all But she

1420
01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:33,480
Speaker 1: didn't have that type of pool yet.

1421
01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 2: She wasn't there.

1422
01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:37,320
Speaker 1: But I will say they do be getting caught though,

1423
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:39,240
Speaker 1: because like even remember, well I don't know if you've

1424
01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 1: seen the movie How Sagucci.

1425
01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:42,360
Speaker 2: Oh I haven't watched it yet.

1426
01:06:42,840 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, so How Sagucci is a good ass movie, but

1427
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:46,600
Speaker 1: even that beach.

1428
01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:48,960
Speaker 2: Got caught, That's what I'm saying. So first, like she.

1429
01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 1: Was married to the Gucci air bro, you know what

1430
01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 1: I mean. So yeah, it's it's very rare situations that

1431
01:06:56,040 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 1: you hire hit men.

1432
01:06:57,840 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 2: I just feel like the first movie me, I'm dead exactly.

1433
01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:02,480
Speaker 2: So I feel like the.

1434
01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:04,960
Speaker 1: First movie was more realistic. Now I'm still confused. In

1435
01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 1: the second movie, I will say I do not like

1436
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:09,600
Speaker 1: the fact that they didn't use real trans women for

1437
01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:12,880
Speaker 1: this role, Like it was just very weird for me,

1438
01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:14,560
Speaker 1: Like why.

1439
01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 2: When they use real trans women.

1440
01:07:16,000 --> 01:07:18,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I do think it was more inclusive this time.

1441
01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:22,040
Speaker 1: I thought they had trans people in the movie. Yeah,

1442
01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 1: and then and they had a lot of more gay people,

1443
01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:30,320
Speaker 1: and they had more people from the LGBTQ community included

1444
01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:32,360
Speaker 1: in this movie than they did the last time. So

1445
01:07:32,440 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 1: I do think that that was them looking at the

1446
01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:38,080
Speaker 1: feedback and taking heed and you know, trying to make

1447
01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:42,600
Speaker 1: sure that they included more people. But I mean with

1448
01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:45,520
Speaker 1: the main characters, I mean that already who was the

1449
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:46,160
Speaker 1: main character.

1450
01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 2: They couldn't switch it.

1451
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:51,400
Speaker 1: Up, even though in the past and some sequels they

1452
01:07:51,400 --> 01:07:54,680
Speaker 1: do be switching up all the time, the characters all.

1453
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:57,680
Speaker 2: The time, fantastic beasts. They took out Johnny Death and

1454
01:07:57,720 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 2: replaced him real quick. If they can replace Johnny Depp,

1455
01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:03,320
Speaker 2: they can replace you too. But now she wants them

1456
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 2: to replace No, I didn't.

1457
01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:06,960
Speaker 1: Want them to replace because I and let me say this,

1458
01:08:07,520 --> 01:08:11,440
Speaker 1: the girl who plays Celessi's fucking beautiful, Like she looks

1459
01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:14,760
Speaker 1: absolutely gorgeous in this movie Black China.

1460
01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:17,040
Speaker 2: Absolutely, I don't care.

1461
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:19,000
Speaker 1: What y'all say about Black China and her body and

1462
01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:22,519
Speaker 1: this and that face card never declined. Oh my god,

1463
01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:25,439
Speaker 1: she looked absolutely amazing. Now let's talk about the fashions

1464
01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:25,920
Speaker 1: a little bit.

1465
01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:27,679
Speaker 2: That Money Club.

1466
01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:30,920
Speaker 1: Now, y'all know, y'all was out of fucking pocket for

1467
01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:31,599
Speaker 1: I get it.

1468
01:08:31,640 --> 01:08:32,120
Speaker 2: They're trying.

1469
01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:34,160
Speaker 1: I feel like what they try to do with Secret Society,

1470
01:08:34,200 --> 01:08:36,400
Speaker 1: which I like, is like push the envelope as far

1471
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:39,400
Speaker 1: as the fashions and make it like one of those

1472
01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:41,760
Speaker 1: movies like Okay, so you know how Corolla de Ville

1473
01:08:41,920 --> 01:08:44,160
Speaker 1: was the movie Corilla one hundred one Dominations that just

1474
01:08:44,160 --> 01:08:47,559
Speaker 1: came out. So one of the main things in the

1475
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:51,559
Speaker 1: movie was her outfits and how extravagant they were. So

1476
01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:55,559
Speaker 1: I get their vision because in a movie, fashion is

1477
01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:56,200
Speaker 1: a big deal.

1478
01:08:56,560 --> 01:08:59,880
Speaker 2: Absolutely, so I get a fashions in that Money Club.

1479
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 2: It's two different there's.

1480
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 1: Two different things. But I will say I liked most

1481
01:09:04,080 --> 01:09:06,320
Speaker 1: of the fashions. I wasn't mad at a lot I did.

1482
01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:08,439
Speaker 2: I liked it too. I thought it was cute. Yeah,

1483
01:09:08,479 --> 01:09:09,160
Speaker 2: I feel like that.

1484
01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 1: I think a lot of black movies should do that.

1485
01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 1: Y'all should push the envelope when it comes to the fashions.

1486
01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:16,559
Speaker 1: Because I liked it and she had the body for now,

1487
01:09:16,640 --> 01:09:18,800
Speaker 1: let me tell y'all. While why I felt like it

1488
01:09:18,840 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 1: was why I was confused on whether it was supposed

1489
01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:25,599
Speaker 1: to be realistic or fictional, the way that the friend

1490
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:28,920
Speaker 1: had died kept popping up and speaking over her shoulder.

1491
01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:30,360
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I da'd even been dead

1492
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:33,120
Speaker 1: for two years. That nigga ain't never popped up over

1493
01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:37,800
Speaker 1: my shoulder. And I heard him speak, look edny ain't

1494
01:09:37,840 --> 01:09:39,840
Speaker 1: saying She to me, girl, fuck you?

1495
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:41,800
Speaker 2: She That's what I'm saying.

1496
01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:45,240
Speaker 1: She's like, girl, I am about this bitch on the top, like, yeah,

1497
01:09:45,280 --> 01:09:48,320
Speaker 1: it's stay in up. They're not about to be over

1498
01:09:48,400 --> 01:09:51,519
Speaker 1: my shoulder speaking to me like what's going on. That's

1499
01:09:51,600 --> 01:09:53,880
Speaker 1: what made it worse is that the girl when she

1500
01:09:54,000 --> 01:09:56,599
Speaker 1: was talking to her, she was cussing me that beach.

1501
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:01,559
Speaker 2: What are you? Where are you at beach?

1502
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 1: Because you are not You ain't having talking like that.

1503
01:10:04,320 --> 01:10:06,240
Speaker 1: She was like, man, fuck that beach. Do you trust

1504
01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:08,599
Speaker 1: this whole? And it was some of the outfits for me,

1505
01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:11,559
Speaker 1: like why are you having dressing like you going to

1506
01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:12,960
Speaker 1: a New Year's party?

1507
01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:17,760
Speaker 2: Baby? No, she had to remember that first out. Oh

1508
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:20,840
Speaker 2: my god, the pearls, it's like you a diamonds and.

1509
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:29,280
Speaker 1: Prince des bro It was a wild time, so sacred

1510
01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:33,120
Speaker 1: society too. It's not bad, but it's not. It's just

1511
01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:36,679
Speaker 1: kind of unrealistic. But like I said, I really enjoyed

1512
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 1: the casting. Bobby Lights was in there. I like little

1513
01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:39,840
Speaker 1: Bobby Lights.

1514
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:40,719
Speaker 2: He funny whatever.

1515
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:45,360
Speaker 1: Terina, Yes, I feel like the casting was really good.

1516
01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:47,160
Speaker 1: Like I said, the main character, I don't know her

1517
01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 1: real name. I think it's Raina. I think her name

1518
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 1: is Rayda because I googled, I can't remember. Yeah, she

1519
01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:54,760
Speaker 1: is absolutely beautiful. I cannot wait to see her grow

1520
01:10:54,800 --> 01:10:59,200
Speaker 1: as an actress because something I say that Erica pinky,

1521
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:01,320
Speaker 1: and let me say that eric is actually a really

1522
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 1: good actress. And she's really pretty too. She's actually really

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Speaker 1: fucking gorgeous. And what I'll say a lot of things

1524
01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:08,519
Speaker 1: about like these TOOV movies and like kind of like

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01:11:08,560 --> 01:11:11,000
Speaker 1: you know, these movies that don't have bigger budgets.

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Speaker 2: A lot of our complaints is the acting. I'm not

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01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:17,360
Speaker 2: gonna lie. The acting was. The acting for me was great.

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01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:20,479
Speaker 2: I enjoyed that acting. I didn't think the acting was bad.

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01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:21,240
Speaker 2: I cannot wait.

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01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:24,920
Speaker 1: It was a storyline that wasn't that good. But as

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01:11:25,640 --> 01:11:28,920
Speaker 1: the actors and the actresses they can't do nothing. But

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01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:30,559
Speaker 1: and let me also say this, I.

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Speaker 2: Love the facts.

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01:11:31,360 --> 01:11:33,400
Speaker 1: I love a good come up story because I feel

1535
01:11:33,400 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 1: like the first time we saw Erica pinkin she was

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01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:37,800
Speaker 1: like on love and hip hop, she was like missy

1537
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Speaker 1: shit and so like to see her grow and really

1538
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:41,599
Speaker 1: just like in her bag and doing her thing.

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Speaker 2: I love.

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01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:45,439
Speaker 1: I love it because baby, what y'all gonna tell hub? Yeah,

1541
01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:48,519
Speaker 1: because she's actually a good actress. Yeah, I mean, and

1542
01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:52,920
Speaker 1: this is like the beginning. Yeah, so I'm excited to

1543
01:11:52,960 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 1: see her and the main character and more things. I

1544
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:57,960
Speaker 1: feel like, like, Tryna did a good job, and she

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01:11:58,040 --> 01:11:59,320
Speaker 1: looked a fucking amazing song.

1546
01:11:59,400 --> 01:12:01,320
Speaker 2: And they have this Fox up in there. We cannot

1547
01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:03,000
Speaker 2: forget unt you could.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know she the o g Yeah, we can't forget.

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Speaker 1: I love them because you know she's gonna have a

1550
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:09,360
Speaker 1: good role. But I feel like, and that's what I

1551
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:12,080
Speaker 1: enjoyed about it. It was in our other favorite y'all know,

1552
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 1: we love some ghetto cinema. Love Ghetto Cinema was to

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Speaker 1: the game.

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Speaker 2: All three, all three. So I will say, get them hit.

1555
01:12:23,320 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 2: I love it. I love it.

1556
01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:26,400
Speaker 1: So I will say it's not as good as the

1557
01:12:26,439 --> 01:12:28,880
Speaker 1: first one, but I enjoyed it.

1558
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:30,759
Speaker 2: It's on Amazon prim right now.

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01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:34,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would give it a little watch because it

1560
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:36,880
Speaker 1: feels like it gives an ending to the story or whatever.

1561
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:40,240
Speaker 1: Maybe they'll come out with a three whatever, but I'll

1562
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:44,080
Speaker 1: give it the first one ten.

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01:12:43,120 --> 01:12:45,120
Speaker 2: Out of ten. So with like and one, I'll give

1564
01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:45,759
Speaker 2: it a six.

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01:12:45,600 --> 01:12:48,000
Speaker 1: Out of ten. I'll give it six out of ten.

1566
01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:54,840
Speaker 1: About the team, Okay, okay, we can work with that.

1567
01:12:54,920 --> 01:12:55,600
Speaker 2: We can work with that.

1568
01:12:55,720 --> 01:12:59,400
Speaker 1: So yeah, Secret Society too, Amazon Prime. Yeah, y'all go

1569
01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:02,040
Speaker 1: watch it because y'all, for real, y'all gotta go watch

1570
01:13:02,160 --> 01:13:04,519
Speaker 1: this movie, even certain parts. But I feel like I

1571
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:06,639
Speaker 1: know when y'all watch it, y'all gota be like, I see,

1572
01:13:07,080 --> 01:13:09,200
Speaker 1: I see what Drea mean about, like come.

1573
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Speaker 2: On now, like come on, yeah, come on.

1574
01:13:12,040 --> 01:13:15,679
Speaker 1: What The acting was great, and I'm excited to see

1575
01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:18,240
Speaker 1: what the girls like Erica and the girl Rain now,

1576
01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:20,559
Speaker 1: I'm excited to see what they do after this and

1577
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Speaker 1: moving beyond because I really like, I'm actually fans of

1578
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Speaker 1: them now, like I love I love a bad bitch

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it because I feel like, okay, bitch,

1581
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Speaker 2: we got something coming in with us.

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Speaker 1: You know what I like to see the girls with

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Speaker 1: the range, So yeah, shout out to them.

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Speaker 1: So now we're gonna move on to our favorite segment

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Speaker 1: of the week. I'm sorry, y'all, it's been a lone episode.

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Speaker 2: We've been rambling.

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Speaker 1: So this is the pour your Heart segment of the show.

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Speaker 1: If you want your question answered on the show, make

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Speaker 1: email us and get your question answered at the live show.

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Speaker 1: So we have the same email, just you have to

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1652
01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:41,560
Speaker 1: this is why I said I know y'all. This is

1653
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:43,559
Speaker 1: why I said I know you fucking line, because before

1654
01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:49,160
Speaker 1: we went into the movie segment, I glipsed the real

1655
01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 1: quick if the question is this week.

1656
01:16:51,560 --> 01:16:54,160
Speaker 2: Can we tell y'all keep this shit.

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01:16:54,120 --> 01:16:56,960
Speaker 1: Keep this shit short into the point oh all of

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01:16:57,040 --> 01:16:59,759
Speaker 1: them long? That's why I said I know you fucking line.

1659
01:17:00,160 --> 01:17:02,000
Speaker 2: Well, they might get two of today.

1660
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Speaker 1: We might have to push some of these big yeah.

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01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:09,439
Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead, I gotta go first. I'll go first.

1662
01:17:12,680 --> 01:17:18,040
Speaker 2: This sister is right. Wait, we did that wrong? Is it?

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Speaker 1: One? Two?

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01:17:19,720 --> 01:17:22,320
Speaker 2: Okay?

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01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:27,520
Speaker 1: Okay, two out of three?

1666
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Speaker 2: Got toime of that.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Drean Lex, I just want to say that I

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Speaker 1: love y'all. I've been listening since Wine Down Wednesday. Y'all

1669
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Speaker 1: are amazing, and I love the friendship and bond that

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Speaker 1: y'all have. I feel like I'm a part of the

1671
01:17:41,040 --> 01:17:43,400
Speaker 1: ministry when I listen to y'all. So I need a

1672
01:17:43,400 --> 01:17:45,599
Speaker 1: little advice. I'm twenty eight and I've been dating this

1673
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Speaker 1: guy who's twenty I know, right, but I've always dated

1674
01:17:48,680 --> 01:17:51,720
Speaker 1: older guys, like eight years plus older than me. So

1675
01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:54,559
Speaker 1: when this relationship came along, I felt like I deserved it.

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01:17:54,600 --> 01:17:57,480
Speaker 1: He's a little thug. He's in the streets, but I understand.

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Speaker 1: I went through that. We've only been for about two

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Speaker 1: months so far, but within those two two months he's

1679
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Speaker 1: ghosted me twice. So the first time it happened, he

1680
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Speaker 1: stopped anentering my text and calls about twelve in the afternoon. Well,

1681
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Speaker 1: I got pissed off, so later that night he called

1682
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Speaker 1: me about twelve times.

1683
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Speaker 2: At eleven at.

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Speaker 1: Night, honey, my phone goes on do not disturb and

1685
01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:21,120
Speaker 1: nine fifteen I saw the calls, but I decided not

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Speaker 1: to answer. The next day, I called him back and

1687
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Speaker 1: send him a message like, hey, I send your calls.

1688
01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:29,479
Speaker 1: Is everything okay? He never responded, so I continually hit

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Speaker 1: him up the whole week. Not anything crazy, but just

1690
01:18:32,400 --> 01:18:36,040
Speaker 1: how I normally would. Never got a response. Then Friday,

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01:18:36,120 --> 01:18:38,200
Speaker 1: I sent him a message and basically told him, Look,

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01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:40,559
Speaker 1: if you don't want nothing to do with me, that's fine,

1693
01:18:40,560 --> 01:18:42,639
Speaker 1: but you can be honest and let me know. I'm

1694
01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:44,840
Speaker 1: a grown ass woman. I'll get over it, but you

1695
01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:48,920
Speaker 1: need to communicate with me. He responded, telling me, I'm sorry,

1696
01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:51,080
Speaker 1: but I'm not ready for this. You should look for

1697
01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:53,519
Speaker 1: someone else who would treat you better. I said, fine,

1698
01:18:53,840 --> 01:18:55,360
Speaker 1: I'm cool with that, and I let him be.

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01:18:55,760 --> 01:18:57,280
Speaker 2: Well. He added me on Instagram.

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01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:01,000
Speaker 1: After that started started herding my store, sending me some

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01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:03,280
Speaker 1: pictures and telling me to come over, and I was

1702
01:19:03,320 --> 01:19:07,360
Speaker 1: outside that night. Well, I went over. We started talking again.

1703
01:19:07,479 --> 01:19:10,040
Speaker 1: After that, we spent time together and got closer and

1704
01:19:10,080 --> 01:19:13,080
Speaker 1: we shared stuff, like personal stuff with each other. This

1705
01:19:13,200 --> 01:19:15,439
Speaker 1: past Sunday, I sent him a meme and I thought

1706
01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:18,160
Speaker 1: it was funny, but he reacted funny to it. Iddy

1707
01:19:18,280 --> 01:19:21,280
Speaker 1: k if he got defended, got offended or what. But

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01:19:21,320 --> 01:19:24,120
Speaker 1: it was like one of those memes that's like he's

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01:19:24,120 --> 01:19:26,559
Speaker 1: a tend but what is he? And I was like,

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01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:29,720
Speaker 1: he's you when I sent it. So after that I

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01:19:29,800 --> 01:19:32,360
Speaker 1: responded to him and he never responded back. I let

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01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:34,960
Speaker 1: it go, and the night before I went to bed,

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01:19:35,080 --> 01:19:36,160
Speaker 1: I texted him good night.

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01:19:36,439 --> 01:19:37,160
Speaker 2: No response.

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01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:41,080
Speaker 1: The next morning, no response, so I called him to

1716
01:19:41,120 --> 01:19:42,720
Speaker 1: see if he was all right and just talk.

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01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:43,639
Speaker 2: No answer.

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01:19:44,080 --> 01:19:46,200
Speaker 1: I said, fuck that, he's putting the same shit he

1719
01:19:46,240 --> 01:19:48,760
Speaker 1: did a month before. So far, I haven't called or

1720
01:19:48,800 --> 01:19:50,960
Speaker 1: texted him, and he hasn't called or texted me either.

1721
01:19:51,320 --> 01:19:53,400
Speaker 1: The weekend is coming up and I'm wondering if he's

1722
01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:54,679
Speaker 1: gonna be hitting me up.

1723
01:19:55,120 --> 01:19:56,760
Speaker 2: I know what I have to do. But do y'all

1724
01:19:56,960 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 2: what do y'all think about the situation? Girl? I think

1725
01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:02,880
Speaker 2: you should let this shit go. You already know the answer.

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01:20:02,920 --> 01:20:06,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like he's twenty eight, you're tony. No, I

1727
01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:11,240
Speaker 1: mean you're twenty eight, he's twenty. I feel like maybe

1728
01:20:11,439 --> 01:20:14,600
Speaker 1: if you was like forty three and he was like

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01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:15,519
Speaker 1: thirty five.

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01:20:15,560 --> 01:20:16,519
Speaker 2: People like where are you?

1731
01:20:17,280 --> 01:20:17,519
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1732
01:20:18,040 --> 01:20:18,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can agree with it.

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01:20:19,000 --> 01:20:22,599
Speaker 1: I feel like it's okay today, younger once you get

1734
01:20:22,640 --> 01:20:25,200
Speaker 1: to a certain age, because at that point people are

1735
01:20:25,200 --> 01:20:27,880
Speaker 1: a little bit you're but it's like you don't know

1736
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:30,320
Speaker 1: young then that nigga is even way younger.

1737
01:20:30,439 --> 01:20:31,400
Speaker 2: He don't even drink.

1738
01:20:32,600 --> 01:20:35,559
Speaker 1: Girl, you already know the answer. This nigga is playing

1739
01:20:35,560 --> 01:20:38,639
Speaker 1: you to the left. Obviously, he's juggling women. That's why

1740
01:20:38,640 --> 01:20:40,920
Speaker 1: he's not answering you all the time, and he's dealing

1741
01:20:41,040 --> 01:20:44,679
Speaker 1: with you whenever he wants to deal with you. Right, ladies,

1742
01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:47,720
Speaker 1: we got the pussy. Niggas are on our time. I

1743
01:20:47,760 --> 01:20:49,600
Speaker 1: don't know when y'all gonna realize that, but niggas are

1744
01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:54,240
Speaker 1: on our time. When you realize how much power your

1745
01:20:54,280 --> 01:20:57,000
Speaker 1: pussy gout. You ain't gonna be a little puppet no more.

1746
01:20:57,200 --> 01:21:02,200
Speaker 1: That's when you turn into a big dog. Question number two, Hey,

1747
01:21:02,280 --> 01:21:04,760
Speaker 1: Drea and Lys, I have a serious question for you.

1748
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:07,080
Speaker 1: I'm in a serious relationship with my nigga going on

1749
01:21:07,160 --> 01:21:10,320
Speaker 1: three years, and he does not eat pussy. No lie,

1750
01:21:10,400 --> 01:21:12,680
Speaker 1: I truly love him and the Decky's bombit's fuck, but

1751
01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:15,559
Speaker 1: he just doesn't eat. Don't get me wrong, I am

1752
01:21:15,680 --> 01:21:17,680
Speaker 1: very attracted to him, but at the same time, I

1753
01:21:17,720 --> 01:21:20,719
Speaker 1: need this pussy ad. I make sure every tithme we fuck.

1754
01:21:20,840 --> 01:21:24,240
Speaker 1: I eats the deck real good. At this time, oh

1755
01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:30,559
Speaker 1: my god, at this point, I'm starting to think he's

1756
01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:33,600
Speaker 1: gay cause I take really good care of myself and

1757
01:21:33,640 --> 01:21:36,040
Speaker 1: I know for a fact I taste good and I'm clean.

1758
01:21:36,400 --> 01:21:38,120
Speaker 1: But I want to know should I leave him because

1759
01:21:38,120 --> 01:21:40,160
Speaker 1: I'm not satisfied, or should I stick around because of

1760
01:21:40,200 --> 01:21:41,200
Speaker 1: these bombit's fucked.

1761
01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:43,080
Speaker 2: I do not think he's gay. You've been on him

1762
01:21:43,120 --> 01:21:45,000
Speaker 2: for three years, y'all need to stop saying that and

1763
01:21:45,120 --> 01:21:48,719
Speaker 2: doing that. He probably just.

1764
01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:50,920
Speaker 1: Don't like eating pussy, but you should have realized that

1765
01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:53,920
Speaker 1: within the first two three dates of you.

1766
01:21:54,400 --> 01:21:57,320
Speaker 2: Dating him three years ago. This nigga has never liked

1767
01:21:57,320 --> 01:21:57,960
Speaker 2: eating pussy.

1768
01:21:58,000 --> 01:22:00,200
Speaker 1: You decided to get in a relationship with him, and

1769
01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 1: like we talked about earlier, relationships are all about compromise.

1770
01:22:03,400 --> 01:22:06,000
Speaker 2: So if he's still not eating your pussy, he ain't

1771
01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:06,879
Speaker 2: willing a compromise.

1772
01:22:06,920 --> 01:22:08,800
Speaker 1: He's not willing to compromise. So is this a deal

1773
01:22:08,880 --> 01:22:12,080
Speaker 1: breaker for you. Let's have a conversation with him. But

1774
01:22:12,160 --> 01:22:14,040
Speaker 1: to say he's gay, it's a little bit of a stretch.

1775
01:22:14,400 --> 01:22:17,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, he running our gay. Don't like it? It's religious,

1776
01:22:18,439 --> 01:22:22,280
Speaker 2: like just some when women don't lie. It's so it's actually.

1777
01:22:21,920 --> 01:22:24,599
Speaker 1: Women, And I know with you it's women that don't

1778
01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:26,919
Speaker 1: really like getting they pussy ad like yes.

1779
01:22:26,800 --> 01:22:29,160
Speaker 2: I know I have a friend like that. And it's

1780
01:22:29,200 --> 01:22:30,479
Speaker 2: women who don't like sucking dick.

1781
01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:32,240
Speaker 1: Why is it like when women don't like sucking dick,

1782
01:22:32,320 --> 01:22:34,120
Speaker 1: we don't automatically assume they're a lesbian.

1783
01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:35,720
Speaker 2: So let's just not do that.

1784
01:22:36,080 --> 01:22:38,240
Speaker 1: But I will say, this is a conversation you should

1785
01:22:38,240 --> 01:22:40,600
Speaker 1: have had with him three years ago. You don't have

1786
01:22:40,640 --> 01:22:42,720
Speaker 1: nobody to be mad at but yourself. You're trying to

1787
01:22:42,720 --> 01:22:44,720
Speaker 1: be mad at this nigga. You have been in a

1788
01:22:44,760 --> 01:22:48,599
Speaker 1: relationship with this man going on three years. You should

1789
01:22:48,600 --> 01:22:50,639
Speaker 1: have been talked to him about this, So I feel

1790
01:22:50,680 --> 01:22:53,360
Speaker 1: like y'all need to have a conversation if there's no

1791
01:22:53,439 --> 01:22:56,200
Speaker 1: compromise on this end. How important is the sex to

1792
01:22:56,240 --> 01:22:58,679
Speaker 1: you in the relationship. Do you feel like it's worth

1793
01:22:58,720 --> 01:23:02,720
Speaker 1: it the checkboxes that goes back to the Yeah. And

1794
01:23:02,760 --> 01:23:04,960
Speaker 1: it's like what we always say, if you talk to

1795
01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:08,240
Speaker 1: people about things in the beginning, then you could figure out,

1796
01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:10,600
Speaker 1: like then it's fair because it's like, Okay, if this

1797
01:23:10,720 --> 01:23:13,439
Speaker 1: works for me, then I'll stick around. If it doesn't

1798
01:23:13,439 --> 01:23:16,280
Speaker 1: work for me, then I won't stick around. But when

1799
01:23:16,320 --> 01:23:18,760
Speaker 1: you wait this long and then you expect somebody to

1800
01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:22,439
Speaker 1: change to me, that's just unrealistic. Zebras don't really change.

1801
01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:25,599
Speaker 1: They strikes, they stay the same. I'm just a word,

1802
01:23:25,960 --> 01:23:26,479
Speaker 1: but I'm.

1803
01:23:26,320 --> 01:23:27,360
Speaker 2: Just being honest.

1804
01:23:27,479 --> 01:23:31,160
Speaker 1: Like, three years into the relationship, you want him to

1805
01:23:31,240 --> 01:23:33,760
Speaker 1: all of a sudden started, but you're being cool with

1806
01:23:33,880 --> 01:23:36,280
Speaker 1: him not doing it for three years, bro, because you

1807
01:23:36,360 --> 01:23:38,240
Speaker 1: knew he didn't do it and you meant you And

1808
01:23:38,280 --> 01:23:40,120
Speaker 1: you can't say you haven't been cool with it because

1809
01:23:40,360 --> 01:23:42,600
Speaker 1: you been with him for three years, right, so you

1810
01:23:42,760 --> 01:23:44,840
Speaker 1: been cool with it. But now it's a problem, Like

1811
01:23:44,880 --> 01:23:47,640
Speaker 1: you can't expect nobody to switch it up and be like,

1812
01:23:47,680 --> 01:23:49,519
Speaker 1: oh damn, she don't like this shit. Let me switch

1813
01:23:49,520 --> 01:23:52,120
Speaker 1: it up. If anything I can one hundred percent tell you,

1814
01:23:52,960 --> 01:23:54,559
Speaker 1: let me say ninety because I don't know what these

1815
01:23:54,600 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 1: means right right, but at least ninety percent tell you

1816
01:23:56,960 --> 01:23:59,000
Speaker 1: that if you bring it to his doorstep right now,

1817
01:23:59,000 --> 01:24:00,559
Speaker 1: he's gonna be like, well, you know I don't do that,

1818
01:24:00,680 --> 01:24:02,679
Speaker 1: and he not gonna start doing it all of a sudden.

1819
01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:04,920
Speaker 2: He gonna feel like, dam who been in your pussy?

1820
01:24:04,960 --> 01:24:06,800
Speaker 1: Off of a sudden you want it? I don't feel

1821
01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:08,599
Speaker 1: like he gonna feel like that, but he doesn't mean

1822
01:24:08,640 --> 01:24:10,599
Speaker 1: like if I ain't suck my nigga dick for three

1823
01:24:10,680 --> 01:24:12,040
Speaker 1: years and all of a sudden you talking about baby

1824
01:24:12,080 --> 01:24:12,800
Speaker 1: suck my dick?

1825
01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:18,080
Speaker 2: Who's been sucking your dick? Why you want it now? Mud?

1826
01:24:18,120 --> 01:24:21,280
Speaker 2: Be a vlopoint, all right? Question three? What's up? Oh?

1827
01:24:21,320 --> 01:24:22,800
Speaker 2: She used the fool nass? What's up?

1828
01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:26,240
Speaker 1: Drea, Nicole and lex P. I got a damn question,

1829
01:24:27,040 --> 01:24:31,599
Speaker 1: Damn bitch, I got a damn question. I have this

1830
01:24:31,680 --> 01:24:34,080
Speaker 1: female friend that I'm hard on and I love her

1831
01:24:34,120 --> 01:24:34,679
Speaker 1: like a sister.

1832
01:24:35,200 --> 01:24:37,120
Speaker 2: This friend let's call her r L.

1833
01:24:37,439 --> 01:24:39,680
Speaker 1: She is beautiful as fuck, but she fucks on these

1834
01:24:39,720 --> 01:24:42,600
Speaker 1: broke ass niggas. Her parents don't agree with men that

1835
01:24:42,680 --> 01:24:44,840
Speaker 1: she fucked with, so they cut her off and now

1836
01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:46,000
Speaker 1: she has to work.

1837
01:24:46,439 --> 01:24:47,599
Speaker 2: R L is thirty eight.

1838
01:24:47,640 --> 01:24:49,880
Speaker 1: By the way, she's in love for the MF that

1839
01:24:50,000 --> 01:24:51,080
Speaker 1: is sloppy and lazy.

1840
01:24:51,200 --> 01:24:52,400
Speaker 2: She has said it herself.

1841
01:24:52,600 --> 01:24:54,600
Speaker 1: This man doesn't give her no money, or if she

1842
01:24:54,720 --> 01:24:57,599
Speaker 1: asks for money, she has to pay him back. He's

1843
01:24:57,640 --> 01:25:00,960
Speaker 1: not giving bd B, not even close, mind you. This

1844
01:25:01,040 --> 01:25:05,000
Speaker 1: man lives with her. This nigga buys trucks and toys

1845
01:25:05,040 --> 01:25:07,839
Speaker 1: and blowing a bag when he is with his friends.

1846
01:25:07,920 --> 01:25:11,080
Speaker 1: But he's not helping her. She can't afford that. With

1847
01:25:11,240 --> 01:25:14,600
Speaker 1: being a single mother of three, she is struggling. I

1848
01:25:14,720 --> 01:25:17,439
Speaker 1: constantly tell her that she can have these men eating

1849
01:25:17,479 --> 01:25:20,160
Speaker 1: out the palm of her hand. I always tell her

1850
01:25:20,200 --> 01:25:22,400
Speaker 1: when it comes to a nigga, it costs to talk.

1851
01:25:22,439 --> 01:25:25,040
Speaker 1: If he ain't putting up, he need to get the

1852
01:25:25,080 --> 01:25:28,360
Speaker 1: fuck on. It costs to talk. If he ain't putting up,

1853
01:25:28,360 --> 01:25:29,400
Speaker 1: he needs to get the fuck on.

1854
01:25:29,520 --> 01:25:30,519
Speaker 2: Okay, that's how say.

1855
01:25:31,160 --> 01:25:33,320
Speaker 1: I only say this because the men that want her

1856
01:25:33,320 --> 01:25:35,439
Speaker 1: are willing to give her the world. She says she

1857
01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:38,280
Speaker 1: doesn't think those men will work out the nigga she got.

1858
01:25:38,360 --> 01:25:41,519
Speaker 1: Now she knows he's not leaving, but she tells me

1859
01:25:41,560 --> 01:25:43,960
Speaker 1: he doesn't please her sexually, and they have been together

1860
01:25:44,040 --> 01:25:44,880
Speaker 1: for five years.

1861
01:25:45,200 --> 01:25:47,720
Speaker 2: How long are you gonna be stupid for? So this

1862
01:25:47,880 --> 01:25:48,559
Speaker 2: was the blowout.

1863
01:25:48,800 --> 01:25:50,799
Speaker 1: We all plan to go on a trip and everybody

1864
01:25:50,880 --> 01:25:53,639
Speaker 1: have booked their own rooms in advance. This bitch ass

1865
01:25:53,720 --> 01:25:56,400
Speaker 1: nigga tells her three days before we leave that he's

1866
01:25:56,439 --> 01:25:59,000
Speaker 1: not paying for their room and that they're just gonna

1867
01:25:59,040 --> 01:26:00,120
Speaker 1: have to all stay with me.

1868
01:26:01,080 --> 01:26:02,519
Speaker 2: That's when I put my foot down.

1869
01:26:03,000 --> 01:26:05,679
Speaker 1: Doing that this far, when we booked four months in advance,

1870
01:26:05,760 --> 01:26:08,599
Speaker 1: is an inconvenience. So I took her kids and when

1871
01:26:08,600 --> 01:26:11,200
Speaker 1: she got pissed and not talking to me, I'm not

1872
01:26:11,320 --> 01:26:13,559
Speaker 1: apologizing for shit like this, nigga.

1873
01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:18,880
Speaker 2: Y'all gotta use punctuation, Okay, sold on. So I took her.

1874
01:26:18,880 --> 01:26:21,200
Speaker 1: Kids and when she got pissed and I'm not and

1875
01:26:21,320 --> 01:26:24,320
Speaker 1: not talking to me, and I'm not apologizing for shit

1876
01:26:24,520 --> 01:26:27,720
Speaker 1: like this, nigga using you, and I'm not gonna sit

1877
01:26:27,760 --> 01:26:29,200
Speaker 1: here and be used too.

1878
01:26:29,760 --> 01:26:30,719
Speaker 2: I told her.

1879
01:26:30,560 --> 01:26:33,000
Speaker 1: That she could come stay with us, but she's gonna

1880
01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:36,000
Speaker 1: have to leave that nigga at home. My reasoning is

1881
01:26:36,240 --> 01:26:39,000
Speaker 1: my kids are uncomfortable around him, and if my child

1882
01:26:39,040 --> 01:26:41,120
Speaker 1: says how they feels, then that's what I'm going with.

1883
01:26:41,640 --> 01:26:43,559
Speaker 1: She felt that I should have told my child to

1884
01:26:43,600 --> 01:26:46,040
Speaker 1: suck it up and deal with it. My question is

1885
01:26:46,160 --> 01:26:47,640
Speaker 1: I want to know if I was wrong for that,

1886
01:26:48,960 --> 01:26:50,880
Speaker 1: for what I did on the trip, and what is

1887
01:26:50,880 --> 01:26:52,080
Speaker 1: your view on this situation?

1888
01:26:52,600 --> 01:26:54,479
Speaker 2: Was I wrong for cussing her the fuck out?

1889
01:26:55,520 --> 01:27:00,439
Speaker 1: First of all, like I said before the past, y'all

1890
01:27:00,439 --> 01:27:02,960
Speaker 1: care too much about other people pussy and what they're doing.

1891
01:27:03,160 --> 01:27:04,240
Speaker 2: This woman is thirty eight.

1892
01:27:04,640 --> 01:27:08,400
Speaker 1: If she want to struggle, let that girl struggle with

1893
01:27:08,400 --> 01:27:10,120
Speaker 1: her friends. I know with her man, and I know

1894
01:27:10,160 --> 01:27:12,080
Speaker 1: that's your friend. And at the end of the day,

1895
01:27:12,760 --> 01:27:15,879
Speaker 1: you don't have to put your kids in any comformising position.

1896
01:27:16,680 --> 01:27:19,200
Speaker 2: Fuck these people. Do what you want to do. Know

1897
01:27:19,280 --> 01:27:20,640
Speaker 2: you wasn't wrong. At the end of the day. She

1898
01:27:20,760 --> 01:27:23,040
Speaker 2: looking out for herself. She still want to fuck with

1899
01:27:23,080 --> 01:27:24,400
Speaker 2: this nigga when everybody hate him.

1900
01:27:24,479 --> 01:27:27,840
Speaker 1: That's her business. You handle your business. These are my kids,

1901
01:27:27,840 --> 01:27:29,439
Speaker 1: and this is what I want to do. Y'all don't

1902
01:27:29,479 --> 01:27:33,320
Speaker 1: owe nobody anything. So when people are doing what they

1903
01:27:33,400 --> 01:27:35,599
Speaker 1: want to do, y'all need to learn to do what

1904
01:27:35,640 --> 01:27:37,160
Speaker 1: you want to do as well, so.

1905
01:27:37,240 --> 01:27:38,800
Speaker 2: Know you wasn't wrong, But I think y'all need to

1906
01:27:38,800 --> 01:27:39,719
Speaker 2: stop caring so much.

1907
01:27:39,840 --> 01:27:42,479
Speaker 1: If people want to struggle, you can't want something for

1908
01:27:42,600 --> 01:27:44,440
Speaker 1: somebody that they don't want for themselves.

1909
01:27:44,560 --> 01:27:47,320
Speaker 2: Let her struggle. That's how I feel.

1910
01:27:48,120 --> 01:27:49,800
Speaker 1: I can tell my friend if I see my friends

1911
01:27:49,800 --> 01:27:53,519
Speaker 1: struggling doing something and she just going left, I tell

1912
01:27:53,560 --> 01:27:55,760
Speaker 1: you one time and that's it.

1913
01:27:57,600 --> 01:27:59,519
Speaker 2: I still love you. As long as you're happy and

1914
01:27:59,560 --> 01:28:03,000
Speaker 2: you not getting beat on. I'm cool. If you want

1915
01:28:03,000 --> 01:28:06,320
Speaker 2: to work all these jobs and have that nigga doing

1916
01:28:06,360 --> 01:28:07,799
Speaker 2: you like this, that's your business.

1917
01:28:08,280 --> 01:28:10,160
Speaker 1: I just don't care that much about who my friend's

1918
01:28:10,160 --> 01:28:13,920
Speaker 1: fucking like I said, unless it's dangerous and you know,

1919
01:28:14,800 --> 01:28:16,599
Speaker 1: but other than that, girl, do what you want to do.

1920
01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:19,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree.

1921
01:28:19,120 --> 01:28:21,519
Speaker 1: I don't think it's their d I just think if

1922
01:28:21,520 --> 01:28:23,280
Speaker 1: that's your freendy, you love her, then like.

1923
01:28:24,160 --> 01:28:26,559
Speaker 2: What she doing and who she fucking with shouldn't matter.

1924
01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:29,400
Speaker 2: It shouldn't affect should right.

1925
01:28:29,560 --> 01:28:31,360
Speaker 1: So I mean, and at the end of the day,

1926
01:28:31,400 --> 01:28:34,240
Speaker 1: your kids are your responsibility. If your kids don't feel

1927
01:28:34,240 --> 01:28:38,720
Speaker 1: comfortable around him and you don't feel comfortable, girl, you

1928
01:28:38,760 --> 01:28:41,439
Speaker 1: don't own nobody nothing, but y'all can still be friends

1929
01:28:41,600 --> 01:28:43,920
Speaker 1: like you. He can still be friends, just don't have

1930
01:28:44,000 --> 01:28:49,240
Speaker 1: your kids around her. Yeah you read that questionouldn't. I mean,

1931
01:28:49,680 --> 01:28:50,080
Speaker 1: fuck it?

1932
01:28:52,920 --> 01:28:53,000
Speaker 2: So.

1933
01:28:53,080 --> 01:28:55,479
Speaker 1: I have been with my boyfriend slash baby daddy since

1934
01:28:55,600 --> 01:28:58,599
Speaker 1: March twenty twenty. Everything was perfect. I mean, this man

1935
01:28:58,640 --> 01:29:00,960
Speaker 1: will take me out and take me. He will take

1936
01:29:01,000 --> 01:29:02,920
Speaker 1: me on many trips and made sure that I was

1937
01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:04,080
Speaker 1: his number one priority.

1938
01:29:04,520 --> 01:29:06,800
Speaker 2: Fast forward to today. We have a one year old daughter.

1939
01:29:07,200 --> 01:29:09,879
Speaker 1: We've had a lot of issues within our relationship regarding

1940
01:29:09,920 --> 01:29:12,640
Speaker 1: toxic traits that I feel like we both have. I

1941
01:29:12,680 --> 01:29:14,639
Speaker 1: have a lot of healing to do, and he definitely

1942
01:29:14,680 --> 01:29:17,320
Speaker 1: has some anger deep down inside that he may not.

1943
01:29:17,320 --> 01:29:17,960
Speaker 2: Be dealing with.

1944
01:29:18,720 --> 01:29:21,360
Speaker 1: We've never gotten physically abusive with each other, but we

1945
01:29:21,479 --> 01:29:23,960
Speaker 1: have dealt with mental, verbal, and emotional abuse.

1946
01:29:24,320 --> 01:29:26,000
Speaker 2: Every time I try to get over our.

1947
01:29:25,880 --> 01:29:28,479
Speaker 1: Issues, it feels like something else happens to remind me

1948
01:29:28,520 --> 01:29:29,679
Speaker 1: why I shouldn't be with him.

1949
01:29:30,080 --> 01:29:32,080
Speaker 2: But he isn't the only problem. I know.

1950
01:29:32,200 --> 01:29:34,840
Speaker 1: I have anger deep down inside that I haven't dealt with,

1951
01:29:34,960 --> 01:29:37,080
Speaker 1: So I tend to become disrespectful in the way that

1952
01:29:37,160 --> 01:29:39,200
Speaker 1: I speak to him. Does that make it right?

1953
01:29:39,400 --> 01:29:39,599
Speaker 2: No?

1954
01:29:40,479 --> 01:29:42,960
Speaker 1: But he definitely has had his fair share of words too.

1955
01:29:43,479 --> 01:29:46,600
Speaker 1: There's definitely been way more situations that have happened that

1956
01:29:46,720 --> 01:29:49,040
Speaker 1: I have dealt with that has me on the fence

1957
01:29:49,080 --> 01:29:52,439
Speaker 1: about him. I just recently spoke to a celebrity slash

1958
01:29:52,439 --> 01:29:55,520
Speaker 1: YouTuber and got word that he would like to collaborate

1959
01:29:55,560 --> 01:29:57,479
Speaker 1: with me since I let him know that I have

1960
01:29:57,560 --> 01:30:00,800
Speaker 1: always wanted to model as my career. Now, mind you,

1961
01:30:00,840 --> 01:30:03,920
Speaker 1: my boyfriend has always known that I have wanted to

1962
01:30:03,960 --> 01:30:06,200
Speaker 1: model and has never spoken up about it being an

1963
01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:09,479
Speaker 1: issue until now. I have been thinking about working with

1964
01:30:09,520 --> 01:30:12,000
Speaker 1: this artist. How should I go about this? He's been

1965
01:30:12,080 --> 01:30:13,920
Speaker 1: hinting to me that the artist just wants to have

1966
01:30:14,040 --> 01:30:17,160
Speaker 1: sex and makes me and make me a groupie. He

1967
01:30:17,200 --> 01:30:20,080
Speaker 1: even keeps joking about the situation, calling me a groupie.

1968
01:30:20,240 --> 01:30:22,360
Speaker 1: I can't help but to feel like he's not supportive

1969
01:30:22,360 --> 01:30:24,559
Speaker 1: of me and my dreams. He has said that he

1970
01:30:24,640 --> 01:30:26,439
Speaker 1: isn't going to be with me as long as I'm

1971
01:30:26,439 --> 01:30:29,680
Speaker 1: a music video girl, laughing my ass off. Should I

1972
01:30:29,720 --> 01:30:31,880
Speaker 1: continue to be with this man or should I just

1973
01:30:31,960 --> 01:30:34,160
Speaker 1: let this shit go? I've been dealing with so much

1974
01:30:34,240 --> 01:30:37,640
Speaker 1: bs I'm at the end of my rope here, so girl,

1975
01:30:38,120 --> 01:30:41,040
Speaker 1: I feel like anybody who is not supportive of your

1976
01:30:41,120 --> 01:30:43,360
Speaker 1: dreams and the things that you want to do. Why

1977
01:30:43,360 --> 01:30:45,400
Speaker 1: would you say in a relationship with them, because you

1978
01:30:45,439 --> 01:30:48,080
Speaker 1: would have to be sacrificing and compromising what you want

1979
01:30:48,080 --> 01:30:50,559
Speaker 1: out of life to be with this person. And ultimately,

1980
01:30:50,600 --> 01:30:53,120
Speaker 1: if you're having to sacrifice and compromise what you want,

1981
01:30:53,400 --> 01:30:54,960
Speaker 1: you're not going to be happy.

1982
01:30:55,000 --> 01:30:56,519
Speaker 2: You're gonna always you're gonna end.

1983
01:30:56,439 --> 01:30:59,160
Speaker 1: Up having some type of presentments towards this person because

1984
01:30:59,160 --> 01:31:01,400
Speaker 1: you feel like you're a staff what you truly want

1985
01:31:01,520 --> 01:31:04,280
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with him. Yeah, y'all have

1986
01:31:04,360 --> 01:31:08,360
Speaker 1: a one year old daughter, but y'all can cop heering

1987
01:31:08,720 --> 01:31:11,719
Speaker 1: and outside of him not being supportive of your career

1988
01:31:11,840 --> 01:31:13,519
Speaker 1: and what you want to do. It just seems like

1989
01:31:13,600 --> 01:31:17,800
Speaker 1: y'all have a toxic relationship in general. So I don't

1990
01:31:17,880 --> 01:31:21,360
Speaker 1: feel like that's really conducive to the growth of y'all's

1991
01:31:21,360 --> 01:31:25,080
Speaker 1: family and good for y'all daughter. Y'all can very much

1992
01:31:25,160 --> 01:31:28,720
Speaker 1: live separately and be in separate relationships, separate households, and

1993
01:31:28,760 --> 01:31:29,760
Speaker 1: still raise y'all daughter.

1994
01:31:29,920 --> 01:31:32,120
Speaker 2: People always think that they need to stay.

1995
01:31:31,880 --> 01:31:36,240
Speaker 1: With their baby daddy baby mama just for the sake

1996
01:31:36,280 --> 01:31:38,680
Speaker 1: of the kid, But if the household isn't happy you're

1997
01:31:38,720 --> 01:31:41,200
Speaker 1: doing more hurt than helping the situation.

1998
01:31:42,040 --> 01:31:43,360
Speaker 2: I a hundred agree.

1999
01:31:44,400 --> 01:31:46,559
Speaker 1: And also I feel like, now, don't get me wrong,

2000
01:31:46,640 --> 01:31:49,519
Speaker 1: a lot of these artists and people be weird. So

2001
01:31:49,520 --> 01:31:50,880
Speaker 1: a lot of times they act like they want to

2002
01:31:50,880 --> 01:31:52,880
Speaker 1: work with you, but they're just trying to fuck. But

2003
01:31:53,160 --> 01:31:55,599
Speaker 1: the way he's saying it is coming from a jealous

2004
01:31:55,600 --> 01:31:58,519
Speaker 1: point of view, like he is scared that you gonna

2005
01:31:58,520 --> 01:32:01,240
Speaker 1: find somebody else and move on. It's just sounding like

2006
01:32:01,400 --> 01:32:01,840
Speaker 1: it's not.

2007
01:32:01,800 --> 01:32:05,200
Speaker 2: That he's like genuinely worried, he's just being a hater.

2008
01:32:05,400 --> 01:32:08,040
Speaker 1: So I think you need to leave this situation because

2009
01:32:08,080 --> 01:32:10,280
Speaker 1: outside of what you're trying to do for a living

2010
01:32:10,320 --> 01:32:13,080
Speaker 1: and what you're trying to be, he's hindering you from that.

2011
01:32:13,200 --> 01:32:15,240
Speaker 2: But other than that, you're just not happy.

2012
01:32:15,800 --> 01:32:17,719
Speaker 1: We need to be comfortable with moving on from people

2013
01:32:17,760 --> 01:32:19,000
Speaker 1: and leaving people alone.

2014
01:32:19,360 --> 01:32:24,400
Speaker 2: So absolutely, girl, I would stay. Leave me girl. All right,

2015
01:32:24,640 --> 01:32:28,040
Speaker 2: we made it through. This was a lone one, Yes

2016
01:32:28,120 --> 01:32:31,800
Speaker 2: it was. I wasn't I looked this. I started a

2017
01:32:31,840 --> 01:32:37,479
Speaker 2: clock late. We about twenty minutes byn really yes? Oh

2018
01:32:37,600 --> 01:32:40,160
Speaker 2: all right, y'all. Uh So make sure y'all check us

2019
01:32:40,160 --> 01:32:40,840
Speaker 2: out on tour.

2020
01:32:41,040 --> 01:32:44,080
Speaker 1: We are adding dates, We're actually dropping that next week

2021
01:32:44,360 --> 01:32:47,519
Speaker 1: the other tour dates. Yes, we comeing. Y'all been asking

2022
01:32:47,560 --> 01:32:51,400
Speaker 1: and we're coming. I promise you we coming. So www

2023
01:32:51,479 --> 01:32:54,960
Speaker 1: dot poor mindes dot com. Get your tickets right now.

2024
01:32:55,080 --> 01:32:57,960
Speaker 1: Chicago will see y'all next week. Birmingham will see y'all tomorrow.

2025
01:32:57,960 --> 01:33:01,240
Speaker 1: Columbia we'll see y'all tonight, period period outside.

2026
01:33:01,400 --> 01:33:02,559
Speaker 2: You ready to sing this song?

2027
01:33:03,360 --> 01:33:06,840
Speaker 1: I'm ready and ms mamas when you come coming on

2028
01:33:06,840 --> 01:33:10,599
Speaker 1: the show because I'm singing this just fun a voice?

2029
01:33:10,680 --> 01:33:14,280
Speaker 2: Hn you ready? You want to snap? You know I

2030
01:33:14,320 --> 01:33:15,920
Speaker 2: love a good snap. Yeah.

2031
01:33:16,400 --> 01:33:19,479
Speaker 1: Every man wants all own month with him and hockey

2032
01:33:19,680 --> 01:33:26,320
Speaker 1: just go hang uh just two other along kick doing it. O.

2033
01:33:27,680 --> 01:33:30,880
Speaker 1: Man wants an bun that can always keeping me in

2034
01:33:30,920 --> 01:33:34,880
Speaker 1: the move. Yeah, and ain't that so?

2035
01:33:35,040 --> 01:33:37,559
Speaker 2: This is what I tell him. I tell him to

2036
01:33:37,760 --> 01:33:41,559
Speaker 2: kick coffee shoes and relax feet. Party on down to

2037
01:33:41,640 --> 01:33:47,000
Speaker 2: the s K be just kicky, Just kick cat, Just

2038
01:33:47,360 --> 01:33:51,920
Speaker 2: kick cat, kick coffee shoes and relax feet. Party on

2039
01:33:52,040 --> 01:33:56,400
Speaker 2: down to the ESK. B this kid ca just kick cat,

2040
01:33:57,720 --> 01:33:59,160
Speaker 2: just kid cat.

2041
01:33:59,720 --> 01:34:03,000
Speaker 1: Every Man want someone y can cook him up for

2042
01:34:03,160 --> 01:34:06,479
Speaker 1: good man, a woman he can treat like it's home

2043
01:34:06,560 --> 01:34:07,719
Speaker 1: me and take.

2044
01:34:08,640 --> 01:34:09,200
Speaker 2: That's all right.

2045
01:34:11,240 --> 01:34:13,320
Speaker 1: I want to talk about Candy for a second though,

2046
01:34:14,640 --> 01:34:19,080
Speaker 1: And on that On God, Kenny meant what she said

2047
01:34:19,120 --> 01:34:21,160
Speaker 1: that I'm that kind of one, and now I'm that

2048
01:34:21,280 --> 01:34:26,240
Speaker 1: kind of woman. It was Natasha, not Candy. Was on

2049
01:34:26,280 --> 01:34:28,360
Speaker 1: the first verse, the second verse, that's what we was on.

2050
01:34:28,479 --> 01:34:30,200
Speaker 1: Oh I know, but I'm talking about the first verse.

2051
01:34:30,200 --> 01:34:36,600
Speaker 1: When Candy said that on that on she was on

2052
01:34:36,880 --> 01:34:41,360
Speaker 1: that on Up God. She meant that she because I'm

2053
01:34:41,400 --> 01:34:44,040
Speaker 1: that kind of girl. I ain't no little puffy, I'm

2054
01:34:44,080 --> 01:34:46,840
Speaker 1: that kind of girl. So this is what I tell

2055
01:34:46,960 --> 01:34:50,120
Speaker 1: my dude who wrote this. This is for the niggas,

2056
01:34:50,160 --> 01:34:53,920
Speaker 1: strictly for the niggas, for the niggas, the real niggas,

2057
01:34:54,960 --> 01:34:59,240
Speaker 1: for the niggas, strictly for the niggas. Cartis Mayfield sample.

2058
01:34:59,360 --> 01:35:01,160
Speaker 1: It was a sample Jesus for the nigs.

2059
01:35:01,680 --> 01:35:05,960
Speaker 2: I said, my girls. Macfield showed up to the stoke. Hey,

2060
01:35:06,479 --> 01:35:09,880
Speaker 2: this was about it was. I love to have all

2061
01:35:09,920 --> 01:35:10,240
Speaker 2: about it.

2062
01:35:11,000 --> 01:35:17,200
Speaker 1: That kind of gone, Okay, we'll see y'all next week.

2063
01:35:18,520 --> 01:35:21,560
Speaker 2: That's if I gotta listen to Dyne that kind of

2064
01:35:21,720 --> 01:35:26,799
Speaker 2: girl one week. I don't want to listen. Girl, I did.

2065
01:35:27,320 --> 01:35:37,280
Speaker 2: I already died it. Girl, girl leave you oh ship

2066
01:35:37,360 --> 01:35:39,800
Speaker 2: I fucking week