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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Riley is on the phone today for our first Date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Michael.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see if you tell us why he's ghosting her and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 3: But first, Riley, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 3: talked to Michael.

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Speaker 1: It's been about a week.

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Speaker 3: Have you reached out to him at all?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, I've tried calling and texting, but you don't

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Speaker 4: want to do it too much, you know, right, But

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Speaker 4: and that's that I should get a response.

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Speaker 5: So would he'd just be having a busy week.

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Speaker 3: I can't help but ask that whenever it's like a week.

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Speaker 4: No, Because before we were supposed to go out, you know,

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Speaker 4: we talked quite a bit, and.

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Speaker 1: Then after we were scheduled to go out, it was

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Speaker 1: like he was m I A.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you can tell the difference for sure. Yeah, why

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Speaker 5: don't you tell us about how you met him and

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Speaker 5: like how the date went?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, we met on bumble and I noticed that

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Speaker 4: he lived close to a pub. You know that I

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Speaker 4: usually go to.

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Speaker 6: It's right near my work.

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Speaker 4: And so we messaged and we planned on you know, uh,

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Speaker 4: you know, we talked a little bit. It seemed really good.

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Speaker 4: I like jazz. I grew up you know, my dad

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Speaker 4: loved jazz, so I grew up that way. So he

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Speaker 4: had this whole evening planned. We were going to go

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Speaker 4: to a jazz club. And that morning I got.

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Speaker 1: Sick, like food poison me I breakfast.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was really bad.

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Speaker 4: So I text him and just said, hey, you know,

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Speaker 4: I'm sick, can't make it, and you know I wasn't

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Speaker 4: going to go into detail, you don't want to know details.

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Speaker 4: And ever since then, I mean, no response at all,

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Speaker 4: and this whole week, you know, I kind of hey,

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Speaker 4: how are you can we you know, schedule another date

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Speaker 4: and nothing.

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Speaker 3: So well, how did he react when you said you

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Speaker 3: were sick?

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Speaker 6: Though?

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Speaker 3: He just didn't respond to you?

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Speaker 4: Or was he like, oh respond, No, it didn't respond

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Speaker 4: at all, which was really weird because before that, you know,

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Speaker 4: he was so sweet. We did talk a lot, you know,

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Speaker 4: got to know each other through text, you know how

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Speaker 4: that goes back and forth. And I mean he's super hot.

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Speaker 1: I'm not too shabby, I would say, but yeah, it

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Speaker 1: was just really nice and great conversation and he seemed

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Speaker 1: super sweet.

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Speaker 4: And then I mean, I wasn't going to go. Obviously

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Speaker 4: you're not going to force yourself to go. I'm just

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Speaker 4: saying that it was very bad.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I figured at least he would.

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Speaker 4: Say, oh, I'm sorry, how about we reschedule or text

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Speaker 4: me when you feel better? But absolutely nothing, like, no

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Speaker 4: no response, no thumbs up. I mean I would have

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Speaker 4: even taken an emoji. But you know, because at least

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Speaker 4: they acknowledge that, you know, whether good or bad. Sometimes

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Speaker 4: you just want to say, just answer, yeah, just answer,

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Speaker 4: no matter what you say, just answer and nothing.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything that you can think of? There would

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Speaker 2: be a reason for him the ghost you, I mean,

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Speaker 2: other than being sick.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 3: I wonder if he like had other girls on the roster.

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Speaker 3: Oh so whenever she said that she was sick, he

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Speaker 3: like picked out another one. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I just wonder because I mean, when you were playing

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Speaker 5: the apps, you know, like not everybody is just focused

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Speaker 5: on one person.

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Speaker 3: Now what you're think of when someone's sick, Nina, I

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Speaker 3: don't know, Oh, he says roster.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well you're talking to the girl that accused somebody

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Speaker 5: of faking his illness not to see me. So, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I don't know, I might jump to those conclusions.

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Speaker 3: I'm not.

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Speaker 5: I don't know that that's for sure what happened. But

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Speaker 5: it's kind of bizarre just not to respond at all.

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Speaker 4: Cently men on Bumble, that might be actually really getting

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Speaker 4: something good reason.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out

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Speaker 3: for you.

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Speaker 2: All play song come back, and then call him and

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Speaker 2: sefa tell us why he's ghosting you, and maybe get

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Speaker 2: you another date. Okay, ok, all right, well play song

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Speaker 2: come back and get your first aid, follow up.

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Speaker 6: Next.

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Speaker 5: Fight.

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Speaker 2: In the middle of your first date follow up, if

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Speaker 2: you're just joining us, Riley is on the phone. She's

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Speaker 2: getting ghosted by a guy named Michael, and she has

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Speaker 2: no idea why. So in a second we're gonna call

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Speaker 2: him and see if I tell us why he's a ghostinger

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her another date. But first, Riley, why

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Speaker 2: don't you catch us up on your situation?

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Speaker 4: Well, basically, we met on Bumble. It was gone great,

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Speaker 4: lots of conversation. We were supposed to meet for a date,

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Speaker 4: and I got sick that morning and like really bad

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Speaker 4: food poisoning and so I texted him, told him I

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Speaker 4: was sick and been ghosted ever since.

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Speaker 5: That's so weird. Well we'll see what the deal is.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, all right, Well are you ready for us

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Speaker 5: to call him?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, okay, Hello.

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Speaker 2: Him asking to Michael please, Well, yeah's to see Hey man,

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Speaker 2: how are you?

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Speaker 5: My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 5: It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, Michael, I'm Nina also

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Speaker 5: on the Jubil Show. Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 1: How are you guys?

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Speaker 3: Good? Sounds like you listen to the show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, here and there?

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Speaker 3: Okay, sweet, Here and there is a great way to listen. Well,

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Speaker 3: we're calling you today. Yeah that's true. Have you heard

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Speaker 3: of a first day follow up before?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool. Well what did you say if I told

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Speaker 2: you that you're you're currently the star of one?

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Speaker 1: How is that possible?

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna dating a while.

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Speaker 3: I just like it.

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Speaker 2: There is somebody that emailed us and told us that

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them, and they want to know why.

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Speaker 6: Oh.

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Speaker 7: I mean I wouldn't necessarily call it ghosting, but.

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Speaker 1: That's what this is about.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, do you know who it is?

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Speaker 1: Riley?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: It is Riley.

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Speaker 2: She emailed us, said that she really liked you, and

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Speaker 2: you guys are all set to go out, and then

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Speaker 2: she got sick and then you ghosted her.

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Speaker 1: Again.

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Speaker 7: I wouldn't necessarily characterize it as ghosting, but I mean

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Speaker 7: we talked for a while and we you know, put

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Speaker 7: together at date, and you know, for whatever reason, she

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Speaker 7: either chose to not want to go, or she met

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Speaker 7: somebody else, or she had a better offer or I

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Speaker 7: who knows it, but she decided not to go.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I'm not going to dwell on it.

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Speaker 7: I'm over it. You know, there's other people out there,

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Speaker 7: and you know, I really don't need.

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Speaker 1: This right now. I don't play games.

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Speaker 5: So you receive a text that says, I'm sorry, I

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Speaker 5: can't make it. I'm sick, And do you feel like

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Speaker 5: you can't deal with that?

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Speaker 3: Well, it's the first date, sure, so yeah, but you.

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Speaker 4: Know, I mean I was legitimately sick, right Michael.

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Speaker 3: That is Riley. She's actually on the phone listening.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh, Riley, I.

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Speaker 6: Mean, Hi, Hi, So you were sick.

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Speaker 1: I I I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't play games.

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Speaker 1: It was I.

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Speaker 4: That's why I text you. I'm like, I'm sick. I'm

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Speaker 4: not going to tell you what was going on physically.

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Speaker 4: That's it's not cool, that's not I mean no, so

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Speaker 4: I just figured you would be Okay, that sucks. How

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Speaker 4: about we reschedule and go out again because we were

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Speaker 4: hitting it off. I mean okay, So you assume that

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Speaker 4: I was thinking something else, that's.

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Speaker 7: You, not me.

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Speaker 8: Maybe I would have wanted to know something, so yeah,

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Speaker 8: I mean listen, so I would totally you know, I

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Speaker 8: mean that's your assuming, that's you.

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Speaker 3: So I would have been open to it, but maybe

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Speaker 3: I would have wanted to.

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Speaker 1: Know, you know, the details.

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Speaker 4: Do you ever think that, well, I don't think that

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Speaker 4: you want to know that I was going to the

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Speaker 4: bathroom like every so often. That's not something.

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Speaker 1: That you.

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Speaker 8: That's tm.

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Speaker 3: I No, I didn't need to hear that part, but

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Speaker 3: it would.

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Speaker 8: Have been you know, hey, you know, it wouldn't be

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Speaker 8: good like just a one line text. You know, it

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Speaker 8: didn't you know, it just didn't feel right, And I

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Speaker 8: don't know, I'd still be open to it. You know,

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Speaker 8: if you're not going to be sick this time.

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Speaker 3: Okay, cool, then Michael's you'd like to go on another

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Speaker 3: date with Riley? Will pay for it?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, most definitely cool Riley, Congratulations, you got another date?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 3: Sweet congratulations, thank you so much. I guess I know

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Speaker 3: you respond to text messages and you don't have that problem.

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