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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready? C l all right?

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Speaker 1: Dana in Pittsburgh writes, my husband came home in his

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Speaker 1: gym clothes and said he went to the gym after work.

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Speaker 1: His work shirt was in a hamper, smelling like smoke

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Speaker 1: and grease.

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Speaker 2: He lied to me.

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Speaker 1: We have been happily married for eighteen years, so why

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Speaker 1: has he started lying?

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Speaker 3: No, he just told you a lie. He went out

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Speaker 3: with your boy's cigar, and he didn't want you to know. Well,

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Speaker 3: they had a cigar. That ain't lying. He just didn't

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Speaker 3: tell you where he was because he didn't want to

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Speaker 3: see you. Here the part she leaving up. He didn't

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Speaker 3: want to backlash. He didn't want to ask permission, which

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Speaker 3: is a woman's favorite.

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Speaker 4: Thing to do.

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Speaker 3: I found y'all would rather ask for forgiveness than to

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Speaker 3: ask for permission.

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Speaker 4: So would a man do that? Now it's a lie,

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Speaker 4: I'm just that.

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Speaker 2: But this was clearly a lie. He said he went

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Speaker 2: to the gym after work.

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Speaker 3: He went to the gym, He didn't tell you he

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Speaker 3: also went to smoke a cigar.

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Speaker 2: What you say that withholding information isn't a lie?

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Speaker 4: Either. Hell, hell no, that ain't.

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Speaker 1: No lie, Lord, she said, after eighteen years, why is

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Speaker 1: he suddenly started to lie?

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Speaker 2: So she just feels like he just started doing this.

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Speaker 3: No, he didn't just start, ma'am. I'm sorry. Lying ain't

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Speaker 3: nothing you pick up.

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Speaker 4: Eighteen years in a marriage.

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Speaker 3: The reason y'all have been married eighteen years because he died.

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Speaker 2: So you want a happy luck, But you got to lie,

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Speaker 2: that's what you're saying.

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Speaker 4: Let this man do like you've been doing.

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Speaker 3: Wow, stop tripping, Allie was she didn't find makeup on

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Speaker 3: the collar.

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Speaker 4: She ain't found no woman's number. He didn't tell you

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Speaker 4: where it was going. We ain't gonna tell you everything.

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Speaker 2: But why do you have to lie?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 2: That's the thing, all right?

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Speaker 4: So right here, why that's bothering you?

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Speaker 3: You ain'ty many these people, man, I ain't wanna handle

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Speaker 3: man people like y'all.

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Speaker 1: We're moving on to Angie and Tampa. Angie writes, My

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Speaker 1: sixteen year old son told me his girlfriend's dad has

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Speaker 1: a problem with his new diamond earrings. I allowed him

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Speaker 1: to get his ears pierced for his sixteenth birthday. He's

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Speaker 1: my son, so I didn't need anyone's permission. Why is

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Speaker 1: he tripping over my son's ear rings?

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Speaker 4: She's referring to who tripping.

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Speaker 1: Her son's girlfriend's dad. It's tripping because his daughter's boyfriend

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Speaker 1: has ear rings. Now the dad is the one that's tripping.

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Speaker 4: I mean, is your son.

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Speaker 3: You can do what you want to do, like you said, yeah,

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Speaker 3: but as the father of his girlfriend. Now you come

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Speaker 3: in here with these diamonds in your ears.

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Speaker 4: What's happening? And you're sixteen?

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Speaker 3: So he can he can, He can say what he

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Speaker 3: want to say, you know, just like you can do

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Speaker 3: like you want to do. Because that's your daughter. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, that's your son. He can say

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Speaker 3: whatever he want to say because your son dating his daughter.

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Speaker 4: That's all.

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Speaker 3: That's why he tripping, because he probably wouldn't have did

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Speaker 3: that to his sixteen year old boy.

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Speaker 4: That's all.

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Speaker 3: You' all have a difference of opinion on how you

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Speaker 3: raising your children. You can't get mad because he don't agree.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right?

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Speaker 1: She was just what she wants to know.

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Speaker 2: Why is she tripped?

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't let my sixteen year old son put ear

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Speaker 3: rings in their years either. So when they went to college,

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Speaker 3: I told him, I said, I said, don't come here

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Speaker 3: with no ear rings and tattoos. You in this house

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Speaker 3: soon as mother so went to college. Cool, I ain't

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Speaker 3: in the house, no more tattoos.

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Speaker 2: Tat it up, all right? Moving on to Ramelo in Dallas,

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Speaker 2: like that name, Ramelo?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 1: Ramelo says, I'm sexually assaulted by an older lady when

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Speaker 1: she comes to rehab for her ankle. She always brushes

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Speaker 1: up against my privates or pinches my butt. And she's

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Speaker 1: even said that my wife is so lucky to be

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Speaker 1: getting that. It's gross.

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Speaker 2: How do I politely stop her?

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Speaker 4: Why don't you just stop seeing her? Well here physical.

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Speaker 2: Therapist, right, yeah, well yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: I'm booked. Don't bring don't come down here, your old, nasty,

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Speaker 3: touchy feelyself.

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Speaker 4: We booked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's kind of offensive, not kind of, but it is.

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Speaker 3: Well, let me help you understand something too. And she

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Speaker 3: look old and beat up. If she was young and fine,

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Speaker 3: we would not be getting this letter. I'm just gonna

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Speaker 3: tell you that.

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Speaker 2: He says it's gross, but he wants to politely stop her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well just stop.

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Speaker 3: She ain't got to be your client, said tell somebody else.

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Speaker 3: You want somebody else to work on her.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so your supervisor.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm uncomfortable. I think it's gonna bring a bad

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Speaker 3: reflection on our clinic, in our department, and I would

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Speaker 3: like you to sign somebody else to her because I'm

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Speaker 3: feeling and here's the keyword, I'm feeling uncomfortable in the workplace.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you learned that?

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Speaker 4: From that I have to go to six times a year.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, all right, great advice fellow.

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Speaker 2: All right, last one, last one, Here we go. Jannita

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Speaker 2: in Oaklawn.

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Speaker 1: Janita writes, my husband is constantly playing games on his

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Speaker 1: phone and ignoring me. We went shopping and he sat

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Speaker 1: there in a corner playing instead of walking around with me.

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Speaker 1: How do I get his attention off the game and

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Speaker 1: on me? How do I spice things up?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? He tiing you.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Steve, Wait a minute.

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Speaker 2: A lot of men don't like to go shopping, but

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Speaker 2: they will sit there.

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Speaker 3: In all honesty, you're taking a man shopping in the mall,

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Speaker 3: and most men are.

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Speaker 4: Not interested in that. No, so give yourself a break.

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Speaker 4: It's not pay attention to you. He don't want to

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Speaker 4: be at the mall shopping, so he rather play a game.

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Speaker 3: At least he's at the mall with you, and he's

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Speaker 3: occupying his time by playing the game. Go shopping, enjoy

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Speaker 3: your day, and come back and say I'm ready now,

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Speaker 3: and then cool. Yeah, but you can't make a man

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Speaker 3: stop trying to make a man do something he's uncomfortable

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Speaker 3: doing and he don't really want to do. If you

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Speaker 3: constantly make a man do that, he's gonna get sick

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Speaker 3: at you in a minute. Yeah, how can I spice

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Speaker 3: things up? I'm gonna tell you right now, it ain't

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Speaker 3: gonna be down at that mall.

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Speaker 4: You want to get a spicy Yeah, we want to

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Speaker 4: get spicy.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna have to start before we get to the mall.

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Speaker 2: All right, Celo, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this.

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Speaker 4: I can't call it this. Your man said to be

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Speaker 4: entertainer and you're listening.

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Speaker 2: To the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: That my doubt