WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Him At The Gym

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up dated. Meeting a good single guy is

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<v Speaker 1>like finding an open parking space at Costco on a Saturday.

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<v Speaker 1>They exist.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't believe that to be aggressive, Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Got to be aggressive and get kind of lucky with it,

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<v Speaker 1>or you could be like Brook and parking the rear,

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<v Speaker 1>blocking the fire lay next to the row of dumpsters

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<v Speaker 1>and just call it a day.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't block the handicapped parking spot.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's how thoughtful point is. Finding good men not easy,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why our listener Laura says she had to

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<v Speaker 1>find a strategy to help her find a decent dude,

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<v Speaker 1>and apparently she came up with one. So Laura, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it bad that I'm hoping that your strategy also

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<v Speaker 4>helps me in the Costco parking.

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<v Speaker 5>Lot at all?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about this guy that you met and the

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<v Speaker 1>strategy that you used to find him.

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<v Speaker 5>So first, let me start by saying, and I'm sure

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<v Speaker 5>everyone can relate to this, that I have met so

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<v Speaker 5>many people that were duds on both both on the

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<v Speaker 5>APT and in person.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Problem is is we think we're catches of us are awful?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, exactly true, just a dodge yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, So a while back I was listening to

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<v Speaker 5>this podcast and this girl was giving some really fabulous

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<v Speaker 5>dating advice.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god was it a Lexus on our Brook

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<v Speaker 4>and Jeffery.

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<v Speaker 1>Why what did she say?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, she said that women are in general having a

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<v Speaker 5>hard time finding a guy that's well put together. Like

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<v Speaker 5>you can meet a guy and he'll be great at first,

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<v Speaker 5>and then everything just goes south really really quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is different than women who are perfect right away.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, no, no, it's a two way street.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll admit it's a two way street.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So what was the solution?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so you're gonna love this girl to go to

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<v Speaker 5>the gym at nine am on a Saturday? Uh huh okay,

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<v Speaker 5>and the reason being because most guys who are let's

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<v Speaker 5>just be polite and say not put together would never

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<v Speaker 5>be at the gym at nine am on a Saturday

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<v Speaker 5>because they were probably out partying the night before.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, not just on a Saturday early. Like ever, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to the gym. Yeah, I'm done. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>actually a decent strategy book. You don't agree, No, let

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<v Speaker 1>mean to get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sure, I get it, but I think even earlier

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<v Speaker 2>than that. Yeah, busy at nine you.

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<v Speaker 1>Have a buddy who literally works out to get rid

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<v Speaker 1>of his hangover's sweat. Okay, I get the idea, though,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to go at a time when like all

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<v Speaker 1>the party guys are supposedly it's too early for them

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<v Speaker 1>yet or.

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<v Speaker 2>If there are people who party, they can manage it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, they still work out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's perseverance right there. What's the talent? Like at

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<v Speaker 1>the gym at nine am on a Saturday.

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<v Speaker 5>Shockingly, a lot of really cute, well put together man.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Jack putt Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>So did you have your pick or.

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<v Speaker 5>What I had my pick? I got like all decked

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<v Speaker 5>out and I put on my favorite Lululemons and I

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<v Speaker 5>got like all up in there.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. So who did you meet?

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<v Speaker 5>I met a guy named Franklin.

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<v Speaker 2>Franklin.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I'm not gonna I'm not gonna lie. I

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<v Speaker 5>legit set myself as bait.

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<v Speaker 1>How yeh? What did you do?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? Like I said, I got all decked out, and

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I kind of like alluded to the fact

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<v Speaker 5>that I didn't know what I was doing, and so yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm ashamed to say it, but I did. And he

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<v Speaker 5>came over and kind of helped me figure out how

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<v Speaker 5>to use the machine that I was working on. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>it worked out. We had a nice little conversation and

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<v Speaker 5>eventually he asked me out, Oh it works.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm still picturing you guys at the machine, Like

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<v Speaker 1>did he come up behind you and like help you

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<v Speaker 1>push the levers?

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<v Speaker 5>This is not porn, hob take it easy over there

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<v Speaker 5>that far picture.

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<v Speaker 1>More like like with the Potter, But yeah, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I just kind of was like, I can't lift

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<v Speaker 5>these giant plates. Can you help mecha?

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<v Speaker 2>I need a big strong man to help me rescue me.

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<v Speaker 1>So was the gym your date or did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>like go out for real?

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<v Speaker 5>No, we went out. He took me to dinner at Nobu.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa, I know, I know, and.

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<v Speaker 5>I had never been there, so I was really excited.

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<v Speaker 5>He suggested it, and I was like, wow, you know

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<v Speaker 5>that's a little expensive.

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<v Speaker 2>But did you say that.

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<v Speaker 5>Like yeah, I was like, whoa, noboo, Okay, first date,

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<v Speaker 5>that's like setting your bar really high.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>So how was it?

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<v Speaker 5>It was amazing. We had a really good time. We

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<v Speaker 5>really connected. We tried some new sushi together, which is

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<v Speaker 5>always an interesting conversation piece at.

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<v Speaker 1>Least liked before. Yeah, did you play the damsel in

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<v Speaker 1>distress again and be like, Oh, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>to use these chopsticks. I wish a big strong man

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<v Speaker 1>could come over here and show me.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 5>I actually had a friend that was Japanese who told

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<v Speaker 5>me that they don't use chopsticks, that they actually use

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<v Speaker 5>their fingers. So when I eat sushi, I eat my hands.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a look.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if that's true or not, but I

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<v Speaker 4>think it's really funny if your friend was truly new.

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<v Speaker 1>An idiot, just double fist and sushi on the table,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So you had some hands sushi. That's nice

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<v Speaker 1>hand sushi.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. And then I mean they call them hand rolls, right, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. What about the connection with Franklin, No.

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<v Speaker 5>We really did connect and we were talking like future,

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<v Speaker 5>which was was kind of like I was kind of like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>Like we were talking about like traveling together and like

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<v Speaker 5>going skydiving, and listen, you're on.

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<v Speaker 2>The phone with us. There has to be something bad

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<v Speaker 2>that happened in the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Already sounds bad though someone that's this put together. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what it's getting weird. Now, it's like serial killer. Nobody's

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<v Speaker 1>this charming and put an I know, I know. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, so how did you end it?

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<v Speaker 5>We ended the night with a hug, and I assumed

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<v Speaker 5>that we go out again, of course, because we had

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<v Speaker 5>such a great time. And I haven't heard from him

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<v Speaker 5>in like two weeks. He just disappeared.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you reached out to him or have you gone

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<v Speaker 2>to the gym?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so I reached out to him just one time.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't want to see meaty, and no, I never

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<v Speaker 5>went back to the gym on the Saturday morning. So

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<v Speaker 5>I'm actually thinking it could be that because maybe he

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<v Speaker 5>thinks that I just went to the gym, like I

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<v Speaker 5>set my own trap. You know, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't think that guys put that much thought into where

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<v Speaker 2>they make me. They care, I don't know if they care.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not even gonna put very much thought into

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<v Speaker 1>leaving this break. So let's come back and call this

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<v Speaker 1>guy and do your second date update right after this

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Who knew nine am on Saturday was

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<v Speaker 1>prime time for available hobbies at the gym.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody knows, No, it's going to be slimmed.

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<v Speaker 1>Our listener Laura knew because she heard about it on

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast, so she went to check it out, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's where she met hunky and responsible Franklin. He showed

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<v Speaker 1>her how to lift a five pound dumbbell. She showed

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<v Speaker 1>him how to eat sushi with your hands at no, lou,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the traditional way. Jem apparently seemed like a

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<v Speaker 1>match made in heaven. But Franklin has now gone two

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<v Speaker 1>weeks without setting up another date. So either that finger

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<v Speaker 1>sushi hit real wrong or something else is going on,

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<v Speaker 1>so do not call.

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<v Speaker 4>It finger sushi sushi hit good.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I just see a chip of a

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<v Speaker 2>thumb or something.

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<v Speaker 3>It's hitting Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think is going on?

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<v Speaker 5>I know, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean dating's just so hard and people have so many options,

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<v Speaker 4>and life is so busy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just it could not be you at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Could be literally anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I mean everything you describe sounded perfect.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but like the hand sushi, did you explain why

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<v Speaker 5>you were eating with your hands?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, just do it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Of course, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis thinks that the issue is the hand sushi thing.

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<v Speaker 4>That is kind of also, someone justrib Alexis doesn't know

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<v Speaker 4>how to eat sushi, and.

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<v Speaker 1>You weren't feeding each other sushi with your hands, right,

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<v Speaker 1>it was your own hands.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that sounds fun.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how you get banned from nob forever. But let's

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<v Speaker 1>call Franklin here. Let's call Franklin and see if he

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<v Speaker 1>has some answers for us. Hopefully he picks up and I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Downing it right now, thank you? All right? Hold on, hello?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey? Is this Franklin?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh? Yeah, who's speaking?

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<v Speaker 2>Man? I knew he didn't answer and be put together

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<v Speaker 2>right now?

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<v Speaker 1>He does not put together. My name is jeff and

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<v Speaker 1>you're actually on a radio show right now called Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Why am I on a radio show right now? What's

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<v Speaker 3>going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Well? One of our listeners asked us to reach out

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<v Speaker 1>to you because she had a great time getting sushi

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<v Speaker 1>the other day. Her name is Laura.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, Laura.

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<v Speaker 2>Is such a fun show.

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<v Speaker 1>So you liked her? It sounds I like it.

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<v Speaker 2>I like, let's let's sake that. God, yeah, Laura, is

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<v Speaker 2>that how you meant it? Franklin?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, I normally don't misread people.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that is so crazy, Like what a disconnect between

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<v Speaker 4>how she described you and your reaction?

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<v Speaker 1>She loved the date?

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<v Speaker 3>All right? Yeah? Is that Is that all you need

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<v Speaker 3>to ask me about? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>No, we uh so there's more to this. We're doing

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<v Speaker 1>a segment called the Second Date Update because Laura really

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<v Speaker 1>wants to hang out again with you, and she's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit confused about why that hasn't happened in the

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<v Speaker 1>two weeks since you went to Nobu together.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, I don't I don't know, man, I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not sure if I'm really capable of dating her.

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<v Speaker 2>Why.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what does that mean? What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know. I don't know if I can

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<v Speaker 3>keep up with her lifestyle because she seems uh maintenance,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you were kind of the high maintenance one

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<v Speaker 1>taking were trying to get on your roster.

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<v Speaker 3>Even so, hold slow, slow down, guys, we're that was

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<v Speaker 3>her idea, not mine.

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<v Speaker 4>What she told us, it was your idea, and she

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<v Speaker 4>was like, no, let's not do that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's too expensive.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no. We were kind of tossing ideas back

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<v Speaker 3>and forth about where to go, and I think she

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<v Speaker 3>was the one that actually suggested no, but not me,

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<v Speaker 3>but right, but you.

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<v Speaker 2>Agreed to it, I mean different place.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I didn't want to seem too difficult, So I

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<v Speaker 3>just kind of went with it, and I honestly didn't

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<v Speaker 3>realize what I was getting it to.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, you didn't. You didn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Nobody's like this high end, super expensive restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, I'm a Chick fil a kind of guy. Like, well, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean that's what one tier below pretty close.

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<v Speaker 2>The only time I've been is with my agent.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, so did you pay the bit? Like how much?

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<v Speaker 1>Can we ask how much it was?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Yeah, instead of a nice little Chick fil a

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<v Speaker 3>forty dollars day being like four hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh no, I feel bad for you, dude, I bet okay,

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<v Speaker 6>But honestly, like she thought that you were up for it,

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<v Speaker 6>like she thought she played it as your choice.

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<v Speaker 1>She wassed you were in it together.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, not quite. It was definitely her suggestion, and that

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<v Speaker 3>gives me that whole idea that she's expecting this pretty frequently.

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<v Speaker 3>And then she started talking about expensive things like skydiving

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<v Speaker 3>and hang gliding and had my head spinning. There's no

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<v Speaker 3>way I can afford this, girl.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, people talk about fun things that are expensively.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like this has been a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a miscommunication, a misunderstanding because we didn't get that

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<v Speaker 1>impression from her. And you can actually ask her yourself, Franklin,

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<v Speaker 1>because Laura has been waiting on the other line wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh, you got to set up.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, it's international phone call.

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<v Speaker 3>She charging.

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<v Speaker 4>The good news is usually really wealthy people don't call

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<v Speaker 4>our show.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you knows.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, Laura talked to Franklin.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, Franklin, Laura, what are you?

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<v Speaker 3>What are you doing put me on this radio show? Like,

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<v Speaker 3>what's going on? You putting on blast?

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<v Speaker 5>What are you doing being a typical jerk and disappearing

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<v Speaker 5>and not texting me back and letting me know what's

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<v Speaker 5>going on?

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<v Speaker 2>What the heck?

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<v Speaker 1>Where did that come from?

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<v Speaker 5>She's well, two weeks, dude, two weeks. I thought we

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<v Speaker 5>had a really good time. And by the way, guys,

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<v Speaker 5>nobu was not my suggestion. It was his.

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<v Speaker 1>He says it was yours.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't even know what it was. How could he

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<v Speaker 2>suggest it?

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<v Speaker 5>Like, yeah, maybe maybe I brought it up, but he

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<v Speaker 5>agreed to it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was well, Franklin, he did mess up there, So y'at.

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<v Speaker 3>Admit that or I didn't want to be difficult or anything, right,

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<v Speaker 3>I just kind of went with the idea and I

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<v Speaker 3>thought sure, And I had never been to Nobu, so

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<v Speaker 3>I had I had no idea what was going on.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't know he was signing up.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, do you feel like some empathy towards him?

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<v Speaker 3>Now?

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<v Speaker 5>He probably he probably googled a coupon for Nobu before.

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<v Speaker 3>We went out, now that I'm hearing all this, Listen,

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<v Speaker 3>I looked for a coupon. But doesn't mean you know

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<v Speaker 3>you did?

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<v Speaker 2>Of course that's okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well, there's nothing wrong with going to on a

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<v Speaker 5>first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, no, but you hear what he's saying, right, Like

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<v Speaker 1>he thinks that you are like probably wanting to too

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<v Speaker 1>much money out of him, and.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I'm not looking to take his money. I make

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<v Speaker 5>money too.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not about that.

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<v Speaker 5>There's nothing wrong with living extravagantly totally.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Jeffrey explained it wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>He just thinks that maybe your lifestyle and his lifestyle

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<v Speaker 4>don't meet up in the budget world.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you know, I mean I didn't. I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 5>he was just cheap.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>The theater, what did you say, I said, I realized

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<v Speaker 5>he was this cheap. He probably brings his own popcorn

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<v Speaker 5>to the dollar theater.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, there's a dollar theater.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, Well, now we're getting I didn't know

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<v Speaker 3>you were this rude. The SERI turn off every time

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<v Speaker 3>you start talking.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>Even get it. It's not about rude. We were just

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<v Speaker 5>talking about the future, and I thought you were on board.

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<v Speaker 5>It seems like you were agreeing with everything with me,

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<v Speaker 5>so obviously you're not being your authentic stuff on dates. Wow,

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<v Speaker 5>you probably asked Charity if they have a happy hour

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<v Speaker 5>special or something.

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<v Speaker 3>God, no, wonder you were single.

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<v Speaker 1>Franklin, he's gone.

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<v Speaker 5>He goesed you.

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<v Speaker 1>Too, all right, frank All right, Well Franklin decided he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to be a part of this anymore. Poor guy. Literally.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh man, just for the record, it's not bad to

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<v Speaker 4>bring your own popcorn into a movie theater.

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<v Speaker 1>It's I've definitely been there. I think we all agree

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<v Speaker 1>with that. But the fact that it's a dollar theater,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how expensive could the popcorn be?

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, it's not that it's expensive. It's usually just stale.

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<v Speaker 5>But that's the size the point.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, all right, popcorn, I guess no more.

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<v Speaker 2>Gym at nine am.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh yeah, no, all right, Well we don't even get

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<v Speaker 1>a chance to ask for another day. But yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>scared him off pretty quickly.

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<v Speaker 5>You should find a more exclusive Jim Richard. Maybe I

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<v Speaker 5>can go a date with one of you.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you wanted somebody who was rich.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh yeah, nook Jeffrey in the morning. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of texts coming in at seven eight, five nine

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<v Speaker 1>two from our listeners asking what is Nobu? Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>misspelled multiple ways.

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<v Speaker 2>That does that hurt your little privileged heart?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, those are listeners, but that's why we love them.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, if you don't know, google Nobu n

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<v Speaker 1>O b U sushi restaurant, very very high end.

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<v Speaker 4>It's actually a chain though, which is a funny to me,

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<v Speaker 4>but it is like so expensive.

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<v Speaker 1>Sushi for people that want to pay triple.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been there, but I know. Brooks sends pictures

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<v Speaker 1>of herself dining there to her sponsored children in third

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<v Speaker 1>world's countries, saying, Hi and Dari, I met Nobu again

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<v Speaker 1>third time this week. Sorry to hear your dad lost

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<v Speaker 1>his fishing job and has to go back to the cannery.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll text you next week, all right, Brooke starting.

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<v Speaker 2>To believe that this stuff is actually real.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff Yeah, he may s have some class a little bit, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 1>you evil so unsuccessful second date, We are going to

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<v Speaker 1>try again tomorrow, though with a new couple. Make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you email the show if you want some help with

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<v Speaker 1>your love life. We'll call that person who's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back and go. Check out all of our second

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<v Speaker 1>dates wherever you get your podcasts at Brooke and

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<v Speaker 4>Jeffrey, Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,