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Speaker 1: Conversations on life, style, beauty, and relationships. It's The Velvet's

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Speaker 1: Edge podcast with Kelly Henderson.

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Speaker 2: Master coach and human behavior specialist. Emma Dunwoodie is here. Hi, Emma, Hey,

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Speaker 2: nice to be here. I'm excited to talk to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for being here. We're actually here

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Speaker 2: to talk about human design. And I was telling you

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Speaker 2: before the podcast that I have never had a human

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Speaker 2: design specialist on the podcast, so which is crazy because

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Speaker 2: I'd basically talk about every other avenue for people to

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Speaker 2: go through self discovery. So this is maybe one of

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Speaker 2: the last that we haven't been able to dive into yet.

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Speaker 2: I'm really excited today.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Cool, let's do it. Let's pull the band aid off.

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Speaker 2: Let's rip the band aid. Okay, Well, first of all,

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Speaker 2: why don't you tell the listeners. I know you've had

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Speaker 2: kind of a crazy story, like your life before human

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Speaker 2: design was completely different than your life now. So can

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Speaker 2: you kind of talk us through what that looked like

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Speaker 2: and then what drew you to human design and as

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Speaker 2: an avenue to just kind of go through a healing process.

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I love this question, and you're so right, like

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Speaker 4: life before and after is really different and the way

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Speaker 4: I navigate life is really different.

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Speaker 3: Well twenty years ago, actually.

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Speaker 4: I was diagnosed with depression and panic disorder and I

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Speaker 4: was given this diagnosis and told that I was never

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Speaker 4: going to heal from it, but I learned to manage it.

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Speaker 4: And in that moment, I was like, that's not an option,

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Speaker 4: Like I need to heal this thing. So that was

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Speaker 4: a catalytic moment for me. That sent me down the

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Speaker 4: rabbit hole of really understanding why I do what I do,

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Speaker 4: how I got myself to that point, and then ultimately

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Speaker 4: how I would transform my life from that place. And

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Speaker 4: ultimately the first thing I was focused on was happiness,

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Speaker 4: like how do we heal my mental health? So what

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Speaker 4: that actually sparked was this determination to understand happiness, how

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Speaker 4: the works. Of course, that led me to human behavior.

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Speaker 4: It led me to psychology, quantum physics, metaphysics, all of it,

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Speaker 4: and I transitioned out of the advertising industry. I became

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Speaker 4: a master coach. I went and trained for three years

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Speaker 4: to become a master coach. I you know, we moved

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Speaker 4: from the country back to a city, back to Sydney.

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Speaker 4: I transformed my physical health as well. I healed my

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Speaker 4: mental health. Had two amazing children. You know, had been

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Speaker 4: through some challenges like nearly getting divorced, and healed that

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Speaker 4: all of these things until about six years ago. It

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Speaker 4: was one January and I'm sitting on my bed and

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I have come so far, I have changed everything.

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Speaker 4: Why do I still feel like something's missing? Why is

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Speaker 4: there still this whole inside of me? And for me,

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Speaker 4: that was so frustrating because there was so much evidence

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Speaker 4: sole to me that I would feel good if I

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Speaker 4: did all these things. And yes, I felt so much

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Speaker 4: better because I'd healed my mental health, no longer experienced depression,

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Speaker 4: panic attacks, any of those things. Yes, I'd retrained, and

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Speaker 4: I was doing the work that I love to do. However,

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Speaker 4: there was just this whole and I kind of put

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Speaker 4: it out to the universe. I went on a pilgrimage. Literally,

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Speaker 4: I went and walked eight hundred kilometers from the bottom

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Speaker 4: the end of it, I sort of said to the universe,

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Speaker 4: I'm like, there's something missing. I fully get that my

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Speaker 4: intention to really embody my purpose. I feel like I'm

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Speaker 4: eighty six percent there, there's something still missing. And I

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Speaker 4: was like, all you need to do is be super

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Speaker 4: clear with me and I will do whatever. And at

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Speaker 4: that point my business was it was very much focused

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Speaker 4: very science based. And as much as I had this

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Speaker 4: hadn't really integrated it into my business so much. I

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Speaker 4: would always frame things through quantum physics, so anything that

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Speaker 3: I get back.

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Speaker 4: From the Kmino and over a forty eight hour period,

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Speaker 4: I get bombarded by questions about this thing human design,

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Speaker 4: which I'd been introduced to twice before, and I'd put

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Speaker 4: it down. And because I promised to follow whatever breadcrumb appeared,

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Speaker 4: curious about human design. I just googled best human design

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Speaker 4: that very very clear guidance that this is, you know,

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Speaker 3: You know it was.

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Speaker 4: It was something that really drove me with my mental

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Speaker 4: health journey. I got very clear guidance that the healing

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Speaker 4: same with human designs. So because I followed, you know,

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Speaker 4: the commitment I'd made to the universe, I committed to

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Speaker 4: my human design experiment, I started running my experiment and then,

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Speaker 4: like the serendipity, the flow state, everything kind of just

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Speaker 4: supporting my husband who was traveling. You know, he was

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Speaker 4: and I was like, I'll do it. I'll replace your income.

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Speaker 4: I didn't even know how I was.

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Speaker 3: Going to do it.

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Speaker 4: But again I was just guided through my strategy and authority,

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Speaker 4: and sure enough I not only replaced his income in

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Speaker 4: I surpassed it. And I look back on those days

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Speaker 4: and think, wow, it was And I still run my

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Speaker 4: business this way today. It's so in alignment with the

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Speaker 2: I love that you just ended with that note, because

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Speaker 2: you also mentioned your purpose and when you were describing

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Speaker 2: all the things that were happening, and I read something

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Speaker 2: on your website it said human design is a system

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Speaker 2: that gives you a detailed blueprint of how your energy

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Speaker 2: is designed, how you are unique, and what your gifts

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Speaker 2: more geared to our energy and our purpose than something

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Speaker 2: like the enneagram or just any of those other modalities

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Speaker 2: that we use, you know, to kind of give us

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Speaker 2: this like personality test in a way.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you've actually just answered your own questions. So for me, personally,

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Speaker 4: I'm a profiler, so I am certified in many of

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Speaker 4: and for me, the fundamental difference or not for me,

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Speaker 4: the fundamental difference between the two is that with any

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Speaker 4: of these other behavioral or personality profiling tools, the way

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Speaker 4: end result is using the mind.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so what does that mean.

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Speaker 4: That means that if we go on to Google then

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Speaker 4: the free anagram questionnaire, then we sit there and we

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Speaker 4: think about the answers and we're like, oh, I think

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Speaker 4: and you have an expert who's facilitating. He's telling you

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Speaker 4: it's going to be even more accurate.

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Speaker 3: However, there is always.

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Speaker 4: This thing called cognitive dissidence, that is the gap between.

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Speaker 3: Who you think you are and who you.

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Speaker 4: Really are because you're answering questions through the mind. Now,

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Speaker 4: with human design, we take a reading from a moment

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Speaker 4: the things that they've been through, like the planets. So

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Speaker 4: human design takes a reading from the moment you were

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Speaker 4: two readings. Now, the reason why human design is different

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Speaker 4: is because there is no cognitive dissidence, because the mind

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Speaker 4: It is your energetic blueprint. It's the energy that you experience,

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Speaker 4: whether you're putting it out, whether you're experiencing internally. It's

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Speaker 3: Your superpowers, your gifts.

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Speaker 4: So it's a very very very different read And unlike astrology,

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Speaker 4: it's human design is very specific. So with astrology, your

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Speaker 2: Okay, and you actually have a term transformational human design?

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Speaker 2: What is that?

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Speaker 4: Yes, So being a behavioralist, I think one of the

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Speaker 4: my journey that would frustrate me about psychology, for example,

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Speaker 4: and a lot of psychologists psychologists retrained to become coaches

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Speaker 4: to help people. They have to hold space for people.

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Speaker 4: They use certain models they sort of help them navigate.

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Speaker 4: But a coach is like, okay, well what do you want?

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Speaker 4: What's the goal?

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Speaker 4: And ultimately you know it's about moving towards that goal.

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Speaker 4: And as we move towards that goal, then all these

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Speaker 4: come up. We heal them, we transform them, we move

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Speaker 4: through them. But it's always about growth. So for me,

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Speaker 4: when I first came to human design and especially all

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Speaker 4: the original knowledge, it's very this is who you are, tough,

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Speaker 4: you know, just deal with it, Just suck it up.

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, yeah, nah, that's not how human behavior works.

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Speaker 4: That's not how quantum physics works. We all have potential,

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Speaker 4: we all have room to raise our consciousness, we all

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Speaker 4: over the years that I've been doing this, I've bought

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Speaker 4: in human design the gen keys.

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Speaker 4: But they're like exceptional and amazing because and they also

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Speaker 4: And then I've put it together with transformational coaching models

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Speaker 4: I love this question because one of the things with

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Speaker 4: the way I teach human design is a lot of

438
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Speaker 4: the time I'm like, type's kind of crap and the yeah,

439
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:34,160
Speaker 4: because it's actually like the initial download didn't include type.

440
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 4: Type was created to simplify the process of teaching. Now

441
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 4: one of the challenges with type is especially today because

442
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,359
Speaker 4: you know, human design's taken off and there's memes all

443
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:50,119
Speaker 4: over the you know, the Internet or Instagram, TikTok everywhere

444
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 4: that are putting people into these type boxes. And really

445
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:57,959
Speaker 4: type is just an outline of what we call definition.

446
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:01,679
Speaker 4: Now we can have such different definition from person to

447
00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 4: person that you know, a projector that feels like they're

448
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,760
Speaker 4: not seen or heard or has no energy, you know,

449
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 4: in their shadow state, you know, they might resonate with

450
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:17,680
Speaker 4: a lot of the memes out there. However, if you're

451
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 4: a projector that has three of the motors, and if

452
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:21,960
Speaker 4: you're a projector that's doing this, that and the other.

453
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 4: You're just going to be like, no, I have all

454
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:25,919
Speaker 4: this energy, I've got a defined throat people listen to

455
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 4: me that doesn't resonate with me. So really, that's why

456
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,040
Speaker 4: I always say, like you want to know your strategy,

457
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 4: there's another thing within type called your signature theme.

458
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 3: And you're not self themed.

459
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Speaker 4: So these are two little indicators that are like I'm

460
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Speaker 4: in alignment, I'm out of alignment. I always think about

461
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:44,719
Speaker 4: it like driving down the road, you know, I mean

462
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 4: they're driving straight towards my purpose or my heart or

463
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Speaker 4: my destiny whatever.

464
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:51,120
Speaker 3: Or I'm like swerving all over the road.

465
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 4: However, we have to be very conscious and really pay

466
00:23:55,560 --> 00:24:00,399
Speaker 4: attention when something doesn't resonate because it's going to be

467
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 4: something deeper in the chart. You either have something defined

468
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 4: or undefined, you know, like for example, like if you

469
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Speaker 4: let's say you resonate and I can't see your chart,

470
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Speaker 4: but I know the top level stuff. But let's say

471
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 4: you have this gate thirty four in your chart and

472
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 4: as a generator, it's going to be activated. So when

473
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 4: I talk about a manifesting generator, you're going to be like, yeah,

474
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,719
Speaker 4: I really resonate with that, like I'm multi passionate. I

475
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:26,400
Speaker 4: like to do a bunch of different things. And that's

476
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,199
Speaker 4: because you have the thirty four, you just don't have

477
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 4: the whole chat.

478
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Speaker 2: Oh okay, so a.

479
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Speaker 4: Lot of the deeper nuances. That's why we want to

480
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 4: take our time. Don't get overwhelmed, but just take our

481
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 4: time to go slowly deeper and deeper and deeper, because

482
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:42,399
Speaker 4: that's where the real authenticity sits.

483
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 2: You've mentioned strategy and authority a couple times, so what

484
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,439
Speaker 2: are those pieces of this story?

485
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Speaker 4: So your strategy is the way the universe speaks to

486
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 4: you and guides you, and then your authority is your

487
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 4: an internal guidance system. So imagine that these two are

488
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 4: like this communitytion loop that are constantly working together to

489
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 4: guide you to where your soul wants to go in

490
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 4: this life, or the manifestation that you want to create,

491
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:17,640
Speaker 4: or the relationship that your heart desires. So with strategy

492
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Speaker 4: that I actually mentioned each strategy with each type, so

493
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 4: if you're listening to this, you can go back and

494
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 4: check out your strategy, and then each individual will have.

495
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Speaker 3: Their own authority.

496
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Speaker 4: You and I are both emotional authorities, which is almost

497
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Speaker 4: half the global population, meaning that we make decisions through

498
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 4: over time, we need to wait for emotional clarity, so

499
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Speaker 4: our sake calls might go, yes, I've got energy for that,

500
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 4: but we just if we're in an emotional wave, which

501
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 4: we're always in, which is really important to understand from

502
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Speaker 4: a behavioral perspective, because a lot of behavioral work that

503
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 4: we do, or transformative work or mindset work, you know,

504
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,199
Speaker 4: a lot of Tony robinst things like that, we're going

505
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 4: to be constantly focused on. You know, like physiology is everything.

506
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 4: So if we don't feel great, if we change our physiology,

507
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 4: then we're going to feel better. Then we can change

508
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 4: our mindset, then we can change our language. With an

509
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 4: emotional being, you're always in this mechanical wave always, it's always, always,

510
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 4: always there, So you have to re you know, rediscover

511
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 4: a new meaning. You've got to create a better meaning

512
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,639
Speaker 4: for the highs and the lows and not make decisions

513
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,679
Speaker 4: in the highs and the lows because you know the

514
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 4: next day you're going to wake up and go, damn it,

515
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 4: I actually that wasn't correct for me. So then there's

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Speaker 4: a number. There's sacral authority, which is a really simple

517
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,159
Speaker 4: uh huh uh huh, yes, I've got energy. No, I

518
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 4: don't have energy for it. Then we've got splinic, which

519
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 4: is all about intuition, so it's the subtle energy guiding

520
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 4: us to make our decisions. And then we've got some

521
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:59,640
Speaker 4: of the smaller as in population wise, we've got ego authority,

522
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 4: self directed and mental, and the lunar authority, which is

523
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,120
Speaker 4: the reflector, and all of these are a form of

524
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 4: learning to feel into the body, depending on your definition,

525
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 4: noticing what comes out of your mouth, speaking things out,

526
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 4: and making decisions through a process of allowing yourself to

527
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 4: speak something out. You know, whether it's what you want

528
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 4: to desire, whether it's your direction, whether it's your thinking

529
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 4: into a moment of oh, that's it, a moment of knowing.

530
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 3: So we all have different authorities.

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Speaker 2: It's so interesting because as an instinct, I'm a generator,

532
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 2: as we talked about. I don't know if we mentioned

533
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 2: that yet, I'm a generator, but you just mentioned my

534
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 2: authority is emotional. And the way that I have always

535
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 2: operated in life is that when I'm supposed to do

536
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 2: something like, I just know. And I never have known

537
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,439
Speaker 2: how to explain that, but it's very clear to me.

538
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 2: People can be like that makes no sense. But for

539
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 2: whatever reason, I know that's the road to go down.

540
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 2: But there have been a lot of time in my

541
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:04,199
Speaker 2: adult life where I don't know, and so I will

542
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 2: either feel the need before I knew about this human

543
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 2: design stuff, I would feel the need to like either

544
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 2: figure it out or force my way into something or

545
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 2: push push push push, and it never felt right. Or

546
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:19,399
Speaker 2: I would make decisions that would end up blowing up

547
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 2: in my face because they weren't the right thing for me.

548
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,199
Speaker 2: And so it's just interesting the where I'm learning about this,

549
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:27,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, that was why I couldn't actually make

550
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,919
Speaker 2: that decision. Because I'm a generator, things are supposed to

551
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 2: come to me, like I'm supposed to attract it in

552
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 2: and the emotional piece, like if I don't have the clarity,

553
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 2: then I should not be acting.

554
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,479
Speaker 4: Exactly exactly like you. And that's the piece, you know, like,

555
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 4: especially with the emotional authority. And I know this will

556
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 4: sound you know, this is going a little bit deeper,

557
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 4: but it's an awareness center, meaning that oftentimes the emotional authority,

558
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 4: especially when you've got a define cycle like you do

559
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 4: like I do you like the body's like yep, we've

560
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 4: got energy for this, but you just know it's not

561
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 4: correct yet, Like i'd it's not the green light is

562
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 4: not there. And often that's just because the emotional authority

563
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 4: is an awareness center, same with a splinic authority. It's

564
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 4: an awareness center. So what it's saying is maybe not yet,

565
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 4: you know, it's looking for divine timing. Maybe there's a

566
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 4: piece missing, so it's waiting for that other piece. Maybe

567
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 4: you need something that you know it knows you need,

568
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 4: something that you don't know you need yet. So it's

569
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 4: that ability to just wait, to just ride out the

570
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 4: emotional wave until you get to this place where you're like, oh,

571
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 4: it's obviously this, you know that knowing it's just clear,

572
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 4: it feels easy. There isn't a huge emotional attachment, whether

573
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 4: it's high or low. It's just like, yes, the green

574
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 4: light For me, I always talk about it just feels

575
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 4: like a green light, like a no brain, no brainer,

576
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:44,239
Speaker 4: do it now?

577
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 2: Yeah?

578
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 3: Yeah?

579
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 2: What would be the other things that people could look for,

580
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 2: like with human design? I guess my question is what

581
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 2: insight to yourself do you really feel which is so

582
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 2: overwhelming that it changed your life? Like, what did you

583
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 2: really learn about yourself? By really getting into this human design.

584
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 4: Well, honestly everything, I think one of the things that

585
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 4: is super important for everyone's profile. So I'm going to

586
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 4: come back to that and I'll share my story. But ultimately,

587
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 4: I think the biggest piece for me and for you know,

588
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 4: I've worked with thousands of people now is the permission slip.

589
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 4: Is that all of us have that knowing inside of

590
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 4: us that you know, we want to do this thing

591
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 4: or we have greatness, or we've got something to give,

592
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:31,800
Speaker 4: or we've got more to give or something bigger to be,

593
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 4: or we just don't want to be doing We know

594
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 4: what we're doing is incorrect for us.

595
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 3: And ultimately human.

596
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 4: Design gives you that permission slip because when you start

597
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 4: to dive into your design, you're like, oh my god,

598
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 4: I just thought I was making this stuff up. I

599
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 4: you know, didn't realize and that I actually am here

600
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 4: to do this work. It's not just me saying, oh,

601
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 4: I just like to do this thing because that would

602
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 4: make me happy. It's like, oh, my goodness, this is

603
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 4: the purpose this soul came in for, Like, I better

604
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 4: get on to getting it done, you know. And I

605
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 4: think for me, like even right at the beginning, the

606
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:09,239
Speaker 4: being a manifesting generator and discovering that I was a

607
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 4: nonlinear being that instantly set me free. The fact that

608
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 4: I was meant to break things. I wasn't meant to

609
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 4: walk anybody else's path. I need to sort of you know,

610
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 4: I tend to be a little bit I want to

611
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 4: pull things apart and then put them back together.

612
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 3: So all of that really resonated for me.

613
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 4: Profile was another place that was really big, and at

614
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 4: first I didn't like it because I'm an aligned three.

615
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 4: I'm a three five and the old school language about

616
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 4: around being aligned three is, you know, it's all trial

617
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 4: and error. So they would say, well, basically, you're screwed

618
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 4: because your entire life you're just going to fall down and.

619
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 3: Fail and then you'll get up again, and then you'll

620
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 3: fall down.

621
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 2: I was like, that's not terrible, ya, that's not you.

622
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 4: Know, and again like, I'm a behavioral coach. I know

623
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 4: that that's not true unless I believe it's true. However,

624
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 4: once I brought the behavioral coaching part to it, I'm like,

625
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 4: oh my god, I'm an alchemist. I get to you know,

626
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:12,719
Speaker 4: literally get my hands dirty. I can throw myself at

627
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 4: all these different experiences because that's actually what I love

628
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 4: to do. And you know, I'm always winning or learning.

629
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 4: That's it two of my favorite things, winning or learning,

630
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 4: like bring it on. So a lot of you know,

631
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 4: human design, especially the old school language, is very disempowering,

632
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 4: whereas when we take the time to make it empowering,

633
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 4: like what else could it mean, we start to really

634
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 4: see the potential that lies within us. So profile it's

635
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 4: going to be two numbers. So you'll see on your

636
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 4: chart there's two numbers. As I said, I'm a three five,

637
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 4: you're a four six. And this is kind of we

638
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 4: call it in human design the costume of your purpose.

639
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 4: What it really means is how it's your how how

640
00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 4: you learn, how you serve, how you move through life.

641
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 4: You know, the significant themes that are going to turn up,

642
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 4: how you behave in relationships, all these sort of things.

643
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 4: It's a really powerful overarching theme that is going to

644
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 4: help you navigate life. So do you want me to

645
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 4: go through each line number and then people can put

646
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 4: their own profiles together.

647
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do.

648
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 3: So the line one is the.

649
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 4: Energy of someone who wants to get to the bottom

650
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 4: of things. There's someone who wants to research, they want

651
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 4: to learn. It's called the investigator. There will be someone

652
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 4: who Originally we used to talk a lot about being

653
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 4: book learners, but I think now as learning is really evolving,

654
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 4: it's not just book learning. It's just someone who has

655
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 4: an absolute thirst for knowledge and they want to get

656
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 4: to the bottom of things. They're gonna answer, They're gonna

657
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 4: have all the answers to all the questions, and over

658
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 4: time they become the authority because as people know, they

659
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 4: can rely on them for the information, for the knowledge.

660
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 4: So yeah, the one thing that the line one needs

661
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 4: to be conscious of is they can self sabotage themselves

662
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 4: by not taking action because they think they don't have

663
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:14,799
Speaker 4: enough information.

664
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 3: Not true.

665
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 4: If your strategy and authority says it's time to take

666
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:22,280
Speaker 4: action on something and do it, just do it. Don't

667
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 4: let fear jump in and say I don't have enough.

668
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 4: Because the line one, in its fear, in its shadow,

669
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 4: will never have enough. It's like shadow, strategy and authority

670
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 4: will keep you moving forward. Then we have the line too,

671
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 4: and the line two is the natural. This is the

672
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 4: gifted child. It's called the hermit. So they do love

673
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:45,360
Speaker 4: to have their own time, and their own time is

674
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 4: really about developing their skills. They will tend to not

675
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 4: like authority, they don't like being told what to do,

676
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 4: and they will be really good at things. They will

677
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,439
Speaker 4: find the things that they're meant to do easy. So,

678
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,439
Speaker 4: for example, my young a son is a line too,

679
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 4: and he loves music. And for many years he had

680
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 4: guitar lessons and flute lessons and if they kind of

681
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 4: never went anywhere. So he says to me, probably a

682
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 4: couple of years ago, now, Mum, can I have a piano?

683
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,720
Speaker 4: And I just said, sure, how do you want to learn?

684
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 4: Instead of going to the authority type teacher, he said,

685
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 4: there's this app?

686
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:23,879
Speaker 3: Can you get me this app? And basically he taught

687
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,839
Speaker 3: himself fifty plus songs. He actually taught himself to play

688
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 3: the Harry Potter tune without any help, just using his ear.

689
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 3: So this is a line too.

690
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,439
Speaker 4: They have to be allowed to really develop their own

691
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 4: learn in their own way, doing their own thing.

692
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 3: Then the line.

693
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 4: Three, this is it's called the marta. You know, in

694
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 4: our shadow we can be a little bit Martie because

695
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 4: we are the ones that learn through life through trial

696
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 4: and error, through I always say, like scuffing our knees

697
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:59,320
Speaker 4: and bruising our elbows. However, we are also the great experimenters.

698
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 4: We're the ones, it'll be tend to be more resilient,

699
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 4: will tend to be more willing to take risks. We

700
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 4: love to live a less ordinary life, you know, we

701
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:11,959
Speaker 4: want to move and change and you know, give lots

702
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 4: of things to go and in that place we call

703
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 4: out what doesn't work and we share what does. And

704
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,280
Speaker 4: they tend to be people that others are very drawn

705
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 4: to because they feel like, wow, you've walked in my shoes,

706
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 4: because there's a lot of experiences that.

707
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 3: Are Ligne three will have.

708
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 4: Then we go to the line four, which is one

709
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 4: of your lines, and the line four is you know,

710
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 4: it's what we call one of the foundational lines. The

711
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 4: line one is the other foundational line and your foundation.

712
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 4: So your safety and security in life is going to

713
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 4: come from the relationships you have, from the family you have,

714
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 4: from the community you have, from the network you have.

715
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 4: You know, everything from job opportunities to intimate partners to

716
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 4: best friends to where to go on holiday, all of

717
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 4: that is going to come through your relationships. You know,

718
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,320
Speaker 4: one of my dear friends and one of the teachers

719
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:08,280
Speaker 4: in my membership community, she talks about from the marketing perspective,

720
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 4: it's like, you don't need to market out there because

721
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 4: you just need to hang out with your people. And

722
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 4: when you hang out with your people, they're going to

723
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 4: do the marketing for you. And it's really important for

724
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 4: the line force to have really solid boundaries around their relationships.

725
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 4: If a relationship isn't serving you, if it's toxic, if

726
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 4: you know it's not correct for you, you have to

727
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 4: be courageous enough to leave that relationship because so much

728
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 4: of your life is about or the quality of your

729
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 4: life will be reflected in the quality of your relationships.

730
00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 2: Does that resonate with you one hundred percent? Yes. I

731
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 2: mean it's interesting that you say that because so often,

732
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 2: and I think I've said this recently, but especially in

733
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 2: my romantic relationships, Like the rest of my life could

734
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 2: be great, you know, like jobs could be going well,

735
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 2: everything like seems on paper like it should be good,

736
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,879
Speaker 2: but if my romantic relationship is not, it can take

737
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 2: me completely out. It's like it's just like I can't

738
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 2: function no matter what else is happening, and it really

739
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 2: kind of starts to trickle over into everything. Yeah. So yeah,

740
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 2: that's so fascinating that that and that's the lot.

741
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 3: For you know.

742
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 4: And like the old school, let's say, even from a

743
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 4: coaching perspective, what would we do well, we'd help you

744
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 4: make really solid boundaries around that so the intimate relationship

745
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 4: doesn't leak into the other areas, whereas when we put

746
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 4: human design with it, we say, nope, you actually need

747
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 4: to put this intimate relationship like this needs to be

748
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 4: a priority for you right up here on the pedestal.

749
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 3: So if that's not one hundred percent, then it's got

750
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:44,400
Speaker 3: to go.

751
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 4: You've got to have such good boundaries around that because

752
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 4: you're designed to have those relationships affect you in every

753
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 4: area because and just as much as the bad the good,

754
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 4: you know. So it's like exactly right, So heal your stuff,

755
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 4: raise your consciousness, put your boundaries in place, and make

756
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 4: sure you're really honest about the people in your life,

757
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:06,759
Speaker 4: and then all areas of your life are going to

758
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 4: go really well.

759
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I can also have the positive like you

760
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 2: were just saying, where it's like I'm feeding off the

761
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:16,399
Speaker 2: positive energy of those relationships so much so that it's

762
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 2: like especially being the generator whatever, I think I've become

763
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 2: more magnetic that way, and it's just like if I'm

764
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 2: in that light just walking around happy and free and feelings.

765
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,240
Speaker 2: I think what you said about the security and safety

766
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 2: is the biggest piece for me. When I feel that,

767
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 2: then all these things start flying in it's crazy.

768
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 3: Exactly, wow, exactly exactly, So I love that.

769
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

770
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:42,720
Speaker 4: Then we go to the line five and the line

771
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 4: five is the heretic, and we as line fives.

772
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 3: I'm on a line five myself.

773
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 4: These are people who they're often healers. They have to

774
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 4: heal themselves first and then heal the other. They have

775
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 4: this real dance with power because the line five in

776
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 4: merit many areas of the chart really talks about leadership

777
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 4: and power. Ultimately, the line five were the solutions. Okay,

778
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 4: so if you have a line five in your life,

779
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 4: then they are probably the ones that hold space for you,

780
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:19,839
Speaker 4: that help you solve your problems, that you know think

781
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 4: out of the box, that you know really support you.

782
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 4: If you have a line five in your life, please

783
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:29,880
Speaker 4: support them, because in most cases people don't return the favor.

784
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,879
Speaker 4: So we wander around until we find ourselves another line

785
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 4: five and go, Okay, now someone's going to help me

786
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:39,359
Speaker 4: and hold space for me. But they're very practical, they're

787
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 4: very solutions based, and yeah, they're the ones that want

788
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 4: to have a big impact on the planet. Then we

789
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:50,840
Speaker 4: have the line six, which is you, and the line

790
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:53,799
Speaker 4: six is the role model. And if the first thing

791
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,319
Speaker 4: that I say to every line six is one of

792
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 4: the themes of your life is going to be patients

793
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 4: because you are going to as we all do, but

794
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 4: even more so for you, that your real gift to

795
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 4: the planet is going to take time because it's going

796
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 4: to be so brilliant. The line six is always looking

797
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:17,919
Speaker 4: for something special, whether that's in a relationship, whether that's

798
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 4: the work that they do, whether that's you know, even

799
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 4: the things that they have in their life. They're looking

800
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 4: for something special. These are the visionaries. These are the

801
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 4: people who can see the potential around the corner for

802
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 4: planet Earth that they can see. Like one of my

803
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 4: favorite metaphors is like with the line six, there's some

804
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 4: areas in the chart that you can kind of look

805
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 4: at money and wealth and prosperity, and if you have

806
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 4: a line six in my certain area, then you're this

807
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,879
Speaker 4: person that could see a world without money because it's

808
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 4: this whole visionary place where, yeah, what if we didn't

809
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 4: need money? What if we just did what we loved

810
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 4: and then we just shared what we loved and it

811
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 4: all just went around like perfect right, right, So, as

812
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 4: a line six you have this real visionary ability and

813
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 4: you really are although we are very unique, the line

814
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 4: six has this extra level of uniqueness, like because you're

815
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,839
Speaker 4: a lot of your purpose is to be authentically you,

816
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:17,800
Speaker 4: and when you're being authentically you, you give everyone else permission

817
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 4: to do the same.

818
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:20,800
Speaker 3: So a lot of your journey.

819
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 4: And the line sixes are what we call triphasic, So

820
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 4: it's almost like you have your one version of you

821
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 4: up until the age of thirty, then you're a different

822
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 4: version of you between thirty and fifty, and then you

823
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 4: really step into this role model piece after fifty where

824
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 4: everyone just wants to sit and listen to you speak

825
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 4: like you're, you know, Yoda sitting on a cushion or

826
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 4: something like that.

827
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 3: So so yeah, then wait for it, it'll come.

828
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 2: You guys are going to see me sitting on my

829
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,320
Speaker 2: mountains are burning message, Just come listen.

830
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 3: Johnny, exactly right, I love it.

831
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 2: So as that air is there, yeah, okay, it's only.

832
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 4: Six, and then the two come together, so everyone will

833
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 4: have two numbers like I'm a three five, you're a

834
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 4: four six. You could be a one three or a

835
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,760
Speaker 4: two four. So the two numbers will come together.

836
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 2: So why do we have two? And then how do

837
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 2: they work together?

838
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 4: Great question? So we have two because we have the

839
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 4: first number comes from the conscious side of our chart,

840
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 4: or the personality side of our chart, and then the

841
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:27,919
Speaker 4: second number comes from the body or the unconscious part

842
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 4: of our chart. So there's these two readings that we

843
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 4: get the time of birth and the approximately three months

844
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,840
Speaker 4: before we're born. So they're the two numbers that come together.

845
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 4: And how they work together is that with the second number,

846
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 4: we have to it's almost like we.

847
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 2: Have to align to that first okay.

848
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:50,760
Speaker 4: Because that's the body, that's the vehicle, that's the soul's purpose,

849
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 4: that's that side of the chart. However, it's so innate,

850
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 4: it's also called unconscious that sometimes we're not aware of it.

851
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 4: So with human design, it helps us bring it to

852
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 4: conscious awareness, meaning that we can do something about it,

853
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 4: meaning we can lean into it, we can let go

854
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 4: over the fears of it, we can stop expressing the

855
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 4: shadow of it and start expressing the high potential of it.

856
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 4: And then the second number is our sorry, the first

857
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 4: number from the personality side then shines brighter. So I'll

858
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 4: give you an example. I'm a three to five, so

859
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 4: a lot of my work in the world came from

860
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 4: my healing journey. As a line five, then as a

861
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 4: line five, I heal myself. I have all these experiences. Three,

862
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 4: I'm having all these experiences, and I'm healing my self,

863
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:37,479
Speaker 4: experience healing my self, experience healing myself. Then my line

864
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 4: five goes right. I want to universalize this, meaning the

865
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 4: line fives want to take it all out into the world.

866
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 4: They want to teach everyone, share it with everyone. But

867
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 4: I have to do that for me first. Now the

868
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Speaker 4: third part of the third about the third, but the

869
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Speaker 4: next part be your profile. That's very important is if

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Speaker 4: you have the big number or the small number five.

871
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Speaker 4: So again let me give you an example. I have

872
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Speaker 4: the small number first, you have the small number. First,

873
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Speaker 4: we're both personal profiles, meaning that your focus needs to

874
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Speaker 4: be on your personal journey. If you focus too much

875
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Speaker 4: on the other, then you will get out of alignment. Okay,

876
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,439
Speaker 4: you need to be focused on your journey and then

877
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Speaker 4: especially being aligned for like, all you're going to want

878
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Speaker 4: to do is share it with your network. However, you

879
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 4: have to have your journey first. For me, the same

880
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Speaker 4: like I have to heal me first, have my experiences first,

881
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Speaker 4: then I.

882
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Speaker 3: Take it out to the world.

883
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Speaker 4: Now, if you have the big number first, you need

884
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Speaker 4: to be more focused on the other than yourself. Now

885
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Speaker 4: that doesn't mean that you neglect yourself, don't nurture yourself,

886
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Speaker 4: don't have your own self care, all those things. It's

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Speaker 4: that if you get into a place where you are

888
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Speaker 4: thinking so much about yourself and your own journey, that's

889
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Speaker 4: going to be really, really disempowering for you. You're going

890
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 4: to feel lost stuff you know, probably anxious, maybe depressed,

891
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Speaker 4: sad at the like. This sort of stuff's going to

892
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Speaker 4: start to play out. So you have to then focus

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Speaker 4: on the other. So let me just give you a

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Speaker 4: really simple metaphor that I often use. As I said,

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Speaker 4: twenty years ago, I was diagnosed with depression, which I'm

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Speaker 4: completely healed of, and I was the one who went

897
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Speaker 4: through that journey. When I was diagnosed, I hit the books,

898
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Speaker 4: I did the learning, I ran the experiments, I did

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Speaker 4: all the things. Then I went out in the world

900
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Speaker 4: and shared what I learned with others. Now, if you

901
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Speaker 4: have the big number, maybe you're a six to two,

902
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Speaker 4: maybe you're a five two, maybe you're a five to one.

903
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Speaker 4: If you were in the same boat as me and

904
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Speaker 4: you were diagnosed with depression, the best thing for you

905
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Speaker 4: to do would be find someone else that has depression

906
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Speaker 4: and focus on helping them heal. And if you focus

907
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Speaker 4: on helping them heal their mental health, you will heal

908
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Speaker 4: your mental health in that process.

909
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Speaker 3: So it's just like this different kind of focal point.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when you're talking too, I was just thinking, are

911
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Speaker 2: there certain like numbers that would be more compatible with others?

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Speaker 2: Because I have a ton of three fives in my

913
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Speaker 2: life and I don't know if that's because we're supposed

914
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Speaker 2: to work well together, if we like feed off each other,

915
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Speaker 2: or is that just coincidence, Like, are there certain numbers

916
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Speaker 2: that work better with each other? Or is this just

917
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Speaker 2: to help us understand maybe motivations of each person.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I love this. This is such a great question.

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Speaker 4: So, yes, we do have harmonic some harmonic profiles, and

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Speaker 4: for you it would be you would be like the

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Speaker 4: one three would be your harmonic profile.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, for me.

923
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Speaker 3: It's the six to two.

924
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Speaker 4: However, what we do find is and this is kind

925
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Speaker 4: of going back to the behavioral thing.

926
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Speaker 2: You know, we know in.

927
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Speaker 4: Behavioral science, let's just call it that we know that

928
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Speaker 4: we will attract partners and friendships that are similar behaviorally

929
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Speaker 4: to our parents. With human design, we find the exact

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Speaker 4: same thing. So if you maybe your parents were three fives,

931
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Speaker 4: maybe your best friend growing up was a three five,

932
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Speaker 4: Maybe you had a lot of three five energy when

933
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Speaker 4: you're in that imprint stage zero to seven, so you'll

934
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Speaker 4: tend to call more three fives in now. The three

935
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Speaker 4: five profile itself is also the most personable, Like it's

936
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Speaker 4: the one that people are the most drawn to because

937
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Speaker 4: they just feel very down to earth, like they get

938
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Speaker 4: people and they have that five. That's like I can

939
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Speaker 4: help you because the five can be very you know,

940
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Speaker 4: superhero savior, that kind.

941
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Speaker 3: Of energy, So it could be a bunch of different things.

942
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Speaker 4: And the way we would really hone in on that

943
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Speaker 4: is you would have a look at your chart, your

944
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Speaker 4: friend's charts, all these primary relationships charts, and then look

945
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 4: at your parents' charts and say, okay, cool, well you

946
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 4: were conditioned by three five, so that energy is going

947
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 4: to feel really good to you. And then if you

948
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,839
Speaker 4: find their relation ships that come and go. Then you

949
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Speaker 4: want to pay attention to the nuance of the design

950
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Speaker 4: that's coming and going because it's there to teach you something.

951
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Speaker 4: And I know we probably won't get time to go

952
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Speaker 4: into incarnation crosses, but this is a place in human

953
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Speaker 4: design that is really great for this because each incarnation

954
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Speaker 4: cross has a friend of mine, Brindia Magison, who's written

955
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Speaker 4: a brilliant book on incarnation crosses. She has a dinner

956
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Speaker 4: party question for each incarnation cross. So when you meet someone,

957
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Speaker 4: you can ask yourself the question that that cross brings. So,

958
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Speaker 4: for example, you've called me in today and my cross

959
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Speaker 4: is the cross of planning. So the question that you

960
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 4: need to go away and journal on is what does

961
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Speaker 4: your community need because you've called in my energy.

962
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Speaker 2: Okay, well you know I'm going to do this right

963
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 2: sooner exactly.

964
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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 2: I do it as a community need. Okay, that is

966
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Speaker 2: so interesting. So explain what the incarnation cross means. What

967
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 2: is that?

968
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 4: Yes, so we call the incarnation cross it's the job

969
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 4: description of your aura. So, and this is kind of

970
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:12,920
Speaker 4: what ra who is the guy that channeled all of

971
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:16,359
Speaker 4: this information in rah Uu who he talked about it

972
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 4: this way and in a way that it's just it's

973
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 4: kind of happening. We've got to make sure we don't

974
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 4: try and interfere too much. The only thing we need

975
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 4: to do is raise our consciousness. So what does that mean?

976
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Speaker 4: Identify our fear and shadow, accept it, acknowledge it, integrate it,

977
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 4: and then access the gift and the higher potentials that

978
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 4: lie within these energies. Now our incarnation cross, it's what

979
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Speaker 4: our aura is doing all the time and depending on

980
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 4: some other nuances deep down, Like some people have what

981
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 4: we call a high workload incarnation cross like I do,

982
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 4: meaning that every single person that comes into aura with me,

983
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Speaker 4: they've called in the cross of planning, so they have

984
00:50:56,760 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 4: this like what does my community need? Some people don't

985
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:03,280
Speaker 4: don't have such a high workload cross, and it'll depend

986
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 4: on all their definition. But the incarnation Cross is this

987
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 4: piece that it's always operating. It makes up you know,

988
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 4: in the gen Keys. Richard Rudd calls it our activation sequence.

989
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 4: It's our genius, it's our most prominent energies, it's our

990
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 4: sun Earth energies on both sides. So they're going to

991
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 4: be really big players, really big energies for who you

992
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 4: feel you are and how you serve in the world.

993
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:35,439
Speaker 4: They're very aligned to your purpose. You like your life's work,

994
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 4: what drives you to do the work that you do.

995
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 4: It's also about how you feel really fulfilled. It's also

996
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 4: how you access like the greatest vitality within you. And

997
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 4: you know, even within these gates, we can go deeper

998
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 4: and really understand the way we take in life, the environment,

999
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 4: we thrive in the way we perceive life, because we

1000
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 4: all have our own very unique filters and you know

1001
00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:02,280
Speaker 4: what motivates us. So within the top two on each side,

1002
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 4: so it's top four what we call gates in the

1003
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 4: Sun and the Earth, there is just so much going

1004
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:12,200
Speaker 4: on about really who we hear, who we are, and

1005
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:12,959
Speaker 4: why we here.

1006
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 2: Okay, gosh, I feel like I could ask you questions

1007
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 2: all day, so we just may have to have you back.

1008
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:20,879
Speaker 2: We need to talk about gene keys and then break

1009
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,239
Speaker 2: down this human design stuff even more. But if you

1010
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:25,759
Speaker 2: are listening and you've gotten a little bit excited about

1011
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,799
Speaker 2: human design as I have, Emma has her own podcast.

1012
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 2: It's called The Human Design Podcast with Emma Dunwoodie. I

1013
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 2: actually recently listened to the Generator podcast and one of

1014
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 2: the main things that really helped me was just because

1015
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 2: you can doesn't mean you should. That was like you

1016
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 2: would think my head popped off my body, because it

1017
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:49,360
Speaker 2: doesn't sound that like crazy to say. But for a

1018
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 2: person like me, I'm like, sure I can do that,

1019
00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:52,920
Speaker 2: Sure I can do that. Sure I can do that.

1020
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Speaker 2: Sure i can do that until I am literally like

1021
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Speaker 2: crippled on the floor because I can't do anymore. And

1022
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Speaker 2: I'm doing things for other people, I should be doing

1023
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 2: it for themselves too often. So that that was a

1024
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Speaker 2: freeing statement and I got that from the podcast. What

1025
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:07,840
Speaker 2: else can people find on your podcast?

1026
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Speaker 3: Well, they can find all sorts of things. Obviously I

1027
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Speaker 3: go through.

1028
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Speaker 4: In fact, if you go way back, you can literally

1029
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 4: start at the beginning and.

1030
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Speaker 3: Unpack your chart.

1031
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 4: You can get our free chart from the website and

1032
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 4: it will point you to the episodes to help you

1033
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 4: unpack your own chart. But I also love like, I'm

1034
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 4: really into purpose. I'm really into the work. Of course,

1035
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:33,440
Speaker 4: I'm an MG the work that we're here to do

1036
00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:35,480
Speaker 4: on the planet, so we love to focus on that.

1037
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Speaker 4: We also love to have heart centered, high consciousness business

1038
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:45,799
Speaker 4: owners that are also doing their purpose their work in

1039
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 4: the world.

1040
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 3: So yeah, it's just I love it. It's also again it's

1041
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 3: in my.

1042
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Speaker 4: Design, like in this, in my line number, in my

1043
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 4: purpose sphere, sure enough to use my voice. So my

1044
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 4: podcast really is just my heart.

1045
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 3: I love it.

1046
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:04,319
Speaker 2: And if people wanted to work with you in a

1047
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:06,879
Speaker 2: session or learn more about their own chart, where would

1048
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 2: they find that information, Well, you.

1049
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:12,840
Speaker 4: Can jump onto the website. Everything you need is on

1050
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 4: the website. There's links to I have an entire coaching

1051
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 4: team that I encourage everyone to get on there and

1052
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 4: intuitively pick who you want to work with.

1053
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 3: They're all exceptional.

1054
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:26,239
Speaker 4: They coach everyone in my membership. I've got a huge

1055
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:30,080
Speaker 4: membership community that is just and communities in my personality son,

1056
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:31,799
Speaker 4: So it's one of the things that I'm really good at.

1057
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 3: Yet I do nothing.

1058
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 4: I do nothing to create these amazing communities other than

1059
00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 4: set the intention and turn up. And we have this

1060
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 4: amazing community there which our coaches are always in there

1061
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 4: as well.

1062
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Speaker 3: So there's plenty.

1063
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 4: Of ways that you can work with us or with me,

1064
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:48,960
Speaker 4: and you'll find on the website.

1065
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Speaker 2: That's Emma Dunwoody dot com. I'll put it in the

1066
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 2: description of this podcast. Thank you so much for being here.

1067
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 2: I love this stuff, so I mean, all the listeners know,

1068
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 2: I geek out over it. This is like my Christmas

1069
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:02,920
Speaker 2: to get to talk about this. So thank you so

1070
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Speaker 2: much for being here and for sharing all that information

1071
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Speaker 2: with us.

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Speaker 3: Oh you're so welcome.

1073
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Speaker 4: Thank you so much for having me, and yeah, I'd

1074
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:10,839
Speaker 4: love to be back, and yeah, just let me know

1075
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 4: what you want me to talk about and I'll be

1076
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Speaker 4: here with.

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Speaker 2: Bells on deal. Thank you guys for listening.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to the Velvet's Edge podcast with Kelly Henderson,

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00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:22,360
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