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Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey Ross, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: How are you hey, guys doing all right?

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Speaker 2: How are you doing?

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Speaker 1: We are great? Tell us about this woman Sonia. I

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Speaker 1: want to know everything. How did you guys meet? Tell

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Speaker 1: us about any dates that you've been on, and then

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Speaker 1: where things are now you think maybe you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 3: So I met this girl Sonia. We met on a

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Speaker 3: hinge and you know, we chat it for a while.

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Speaker 3: She's really cute, and I asked her out to dinner

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Speaker 3: after I got her number when i'll chatting through a hinge,

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Speaker 3: and you know, I thought we had a good time

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Speaker 3: and that she liked me because you know, she invited

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Speaker 2: To go swimming.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, okay, you got a pool. That's fantastic.

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Speaker 3: Let's keep this thing going. Yeah, And I'm really really

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Speaker 3: confused right now because you know, like I said, I

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Speaker 3: thought we had a great time, and now she's completely ghosting.

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Speaker 1: I've heard from her here about this, but yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean I would say that's pretty good. Like you go

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Speaker 1: to the pool. So now we're just automatically wearing not

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Speaker 1: that would in my opinion, that's a good date. Things

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Speaker 1: back and do that. Oh yeah, peeky, is it rubbing off?

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Speaker 2: There's three parts, man, let me.

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Speaker 1: We got King Perv Jason not to be outdone by

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Speaker 1: Prince perv Rufie over here, and now we got Princess

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Speaker 1: per peeky.

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Speaker 2: Yeah all right.

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Speaker 1: So but you've reached out to as woman since the

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Speaker 1: date and she's not responding to you at all. I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 3: I've texted her a few times. I tried calling her one.

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Speaker 1: Nothing, okay, nothing, all right, Well, I'm gonna play one song.

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Speaker 1: We'll come back in a couple of minutes and we'll

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Speaker 1: call this woman Sonya. You'll be on the phone. We'll

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Speaker 1: ask some questions. At some point you're welcome to jump

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Speaker 1: we can straighten out or she's been busy, or she

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Speaker 1: has a good excuse or reason. And the hope is

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Speaker 3: All right, Hey, that'd be great, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Hang on one second, we're gonna see what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Part two of waiting a minute thought after post below

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Speaker 1: and back in three minutes saw the Fred Show. Say

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Speaker 1: here post below in the Fred Show is commercial free

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Speaker 1: forty minutes. You don't have to go anywhere. Good morning, Hey, Ross,

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Speaker 1: All right, let's call Sonia. You guys met on a

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Speaker 1: hinge the dating app, had a great date. She invited

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Speaker 1: I would think a pretty good sign. Except since the

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Speaker 1: date you haven't heard anything from her. She hasn't responded

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Speaker 1: to you. She hasn't reached out either, and you want

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Speaker 2: That's exactly it. Okay, we're gonna call her now. Good luck, Ross,

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much. Guys. Hello, Hi is this Sonia? Oh? Yeah, Hi,

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Speaker 2: hey Sonya. Good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the

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Speaker 1: Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fine, well, thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Ross who

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Speaker 1: says he met you on a dating app and you,

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Speaker 1: guys recently went on a date to remember him, I do, okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: so that's a good start. So he reached out to

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Speaker 2: So why are you calling him back?

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Speaker 4: Well, we met on Hinge on the dating app and

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Speaker 4: he took me to dinner and we had fun. I

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Speaker 3: To my place after because it was close by, but

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Speaker 3: I really regret doing that.

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Speaker 4: Why Well, when we got back, I realized he was

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Speaker 2: I excuse myself to go to.

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Speaker 3: He was naked.

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Speaker 1: I was going to ask the question. I was a

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Speaker 1: unless you have a whole like selection of men's swim

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Speaker 2: He didn't care.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I didn't even invite him to use

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Speaker 2: Well there's that.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and I assume this is a community pool

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess other people might use the might

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was just a lot. I mean we haven't

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Speaker 4: even we haven't even slept together, so why would I

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Speaker 2: A lot to walk out.

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Speaker 2: Well here's the question, what did and sonya?

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Speaker 1: I mean, nobody was expecting that to happen, especially you know,

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Speaker 1: completely uninvited, But what did you expect him to do.

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Speaker 1: What were you thinking he was going to do going

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Speaker 1: on a swimming date that wasn't supposed to be a

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean I didn't even invite him to use

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Speaker 3: He just took it upon himself to do it.

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Speaker 4: So I wasn't really expecting that we were going to

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Speaker 1: Like adjacent to the pool. Maybe not make it. Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: So you wearing clothes now or you just stripped down,

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Speaker 2: At the moment. So what was the thought process?

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Speaker 1: So you're like, you know what, I want to go swimming,

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Speaker 5: To be quite honest, I don't remember thinking through much

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Speaker 5: I don't remember being that drunk, but I do remember

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Speaker 5: going back, uh to your place, Sonya Tay, and the

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Speaker 5: next thing I know, uh, I.

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Speaker 3: Was, you know, we were we were swimming. I I

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Speaker 1: But I don't think anybody else was there with you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, man, I've I've been I've been really drunk,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not sure that I've ever gotten completely naked.

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Speaker 2: In a pool. You never got skinny dipping.

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Speaker 1: Well when invited, but it was it wasn't because I

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, okay, Well that's yeah. I mean, but ross,

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Speaker 1: she lives in a community. I mean, she could be

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Speaker 1: you know, Sony, you're not saying much. I mean, so

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Speaker 1: it was a lot. And did you like what you saw?

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Speaker 2: At least? Was he good looking naked guys? Was he tanned?

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Speaker 2: Was he? Did he have lines? Was he? You know?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I wasn't really thinking about that. I was

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Speaker 3: So, you know, I just got him dressed and sent

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Speaker 4: It, which maybe shows that he really he was too drunk,

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Speaker 4: because that's I mean, that's what happened.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, so he's saying he doesn't remember he was overserved.

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Speaker 1: that was you know, poor decision making, had too much

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Speaker 4: I think I'm going to pass on a second date.

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Speaker 1: I think all right, Well, Michael Phelps, I'm sorry it's

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Speaker 1: not going to work out. You should always carry a

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Speaker 5: Now I'm now, I'm not now, I'm in the know,

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Speaker 5: So I'll keep that in the back pocket at all times.

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Speaker 1: All Right, Well, there you go, Sonia, thank you for

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Speaker 1: your time. Ross, I'm sorry it's not going to work out.

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Speaker 1: Best elected both of you guys.

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Speaker 2: Thank you,