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Speaker 1: One or two point seven kids have them. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to roll into the morning hack. Got a quote, hopefully

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Speaker 1: a positive quote, set the tone for Monday. It is

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Speaker 1: kind of about setting the tone first thing of the day.

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Speaker 1: You know, when you things are just all not going well.

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Speaker 1: You start by running out of toothpaste, and then your

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Speaker 1: kids are screaming, and then you spill something, and then

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Speaker 1: you're running late. It's like all those things can put

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Speaker 1: you into a space of not the right space. So

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Speaker 1: trying to reset at some point to get the temperament

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Speaker 1: for the day so that the quote will be in

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Speaker 1: a second. But this first is your morning hack. It's

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Speaker 1: about going in for that promotion. It's about going into

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Speaker 1: the boss and trying to get them to see what

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Speaker 1: you are seeing and why you deserve a bigger role

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Speaker 1: or marvel role. And some people think that complimenting the

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Speaker 1: boss is the key to getting a raise or promotion.

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Speaker 1: It's very high risk. Complimenting can seem disingenuous, it can

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Speaker 1: seem opportunistic, right, it can seem contrived all those things,

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Speaker 1: especially when you're about to ask for something right, Like

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Speaker 1: you know when somebody comes to you and they're really nice,

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Speaker 1: You're like what do you want namely your husband? So well, no,

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Speaker 1: just anybody listening her husband. I didn't say namely, Michael,

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Speaker 1: I said namely your husband. I feel like, hope somebody's

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Speaker 1: out there listening looking at me because I look straight ahead,

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Speaker 1: namely anyone's husband. I think of this as us and

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Speaker 1: then one other person, at least that one. I was like,

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Speaker 1: but that one person may have a husband. So I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to say. So, here's what experts say to do.

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Speaker 1: The better move with your boss is compliment your boss

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Speaker 1: to ore their co workers. Your boss gonna hear about it.

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Speaker 1: So strategic, still contrived, but yeah, very well played. Compliment

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Speaker 1: they're gonn appreciate the support. So when you get in

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Speaker 1: that room, yes, to start early. You gotta work this out.

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Speaker 1: Start comment months like, hey guys, hopefully you do. Hopefully

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Speaker 1: you do, but if you don't, still do it because

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to face that person to get the promotion.

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Speaker 1: Like your necklace, I just saw that for the first time.

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Speaker 1: I've worn this every single day for the last year.

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Speaker 1: Every day you have that on. It only peeks through

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Speaker 1: every once in a while. Well, it's because I have

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Speaker 1: different cuts, all right. Learning to stay calm is the

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Speaker 1: quote today. Learning to stay calm when you're disrespected is

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Speaker 1: a superpowerful that is so true. It's kiss