Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Double Show,
Speaker 1: Megan is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 1: She thinks that her boyfriend of a year and a
Speaker 1: half named Caleb might be cheating on her, So we're
Speaker 1: going to see if we can catch him and if
Speaker 1: he is. Megan, thank you for coming on the show.
Speaker 1: Thank you for your email and agreeing to do this.
Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit about your situation. What's going on?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you said we've been seeing each other for
Speaker 2: about a year and a half. Now we do live together,
Speaker 2: So things have just seemed to change recently, and I'm
Speaker 2: kind of getting a little suspect about what's going on
Speaker 2: because there's just a few sketchy happenings and I can't really,
Speaker 2: you know, figure out why or what's going on. Some
Speaker 2: of the like clues that have led me to believe
Speaker 2: that something else is happening is, you know, it leaves
Speaker 2: work a little bit earlier in the morning. There's days
Speaker 2: that he's been coming homely with not really much to
Speaker 2: go on as far as why. I've stopped by to
Speaker 2: surprise him for lunch, to go out and get lunch
Speaker 2: with him. A couple of times and he hasn't been there,
Speaker 2: and his coworker says that he goes out for lunch
Speaker 2: all the time now. So when I told him, Oh,
Speaker 2: I had stopped by to surprise you and you weren't there,
Speaker 2: he was like, oh, I'm sorry. I just saw this
Speaker 2: new Greek place and it's really good and I've just
Speaker 2: been going to get their amazing Greek salads and kind
Speaker 2: of just some downtime during the day, you know, during
Speaker 2: my work day. I don't know. It just seems like
Speaker 2: a little suspicious that he's coming home late, he's leaving early,
Speaker 2: he's not at work for lunch anymore, like ever, But
Speaker 2: you know, how good can Greek salads really be? That
Speaker 2: wherever it is?
Speaker 1: First question, did you put a tracker on his car yet?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: I like, where are you going?
Speaker 2: He's had an option, let's make it.
Speaker 3: Always and I'm single, so anyway, But is he acting
Speaker 3: different around you though?
Speaker 2: He's just gotly quiet lately. Usually he has so much
Speaker 2: to explain about his work day or this or that
Speaker 2: or the other, but he's just kind of been shut
Speaker 2: down ish kind of. You know, we watch a lot
Speaker 2: more TV and kind of just do quieter things that
Speaker 2: we're not, you know, kind of just sitting and talking
Speaker 2: and just he's distant and I can't really figure it out. So,
Speaker 2: I mean that's kind of where I'm at the thinking,
Speaker 2: is there something going on that he's being so quiet
Speaker 2: and then he's coming home late, and you know, like
Speaker 2: like what's up with all of that stuff. It's kind
Speaker 2: of new and it's not kind of what we've been
Speaker 2: doing for the last year and a half. So I'm
Speaker 2: very confused right now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that doesn't feel good. That's not my favorite place
Speaker 3: to be. Now, did you just straight up ask him, like,
Speaker 3: by any chance were you like where are you going
Speaker 3: and what are you doing?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 2: I mean I've asked him like in the instances where
Speaker 2: he's arrived late at home from work or whatever, or
Speaker 2: like I said, when I asked him about surprising him
Speaker 2: at work, he just you know, said he was at
Speaker 2: the Greek restaurant, or sometimes he just says that he
Speaker 2: had some more work to catch up on, or that
Speaker 2: he stopped and got you know, some food on the
Speaker 2: way home because he was starving and he didn't want
Speaker 2: to wait or whatever. So there's just like each time
Speaker 2: there's been an instance, I've asked, but I haven't kind
Speaker 2: of sat down and said, Okay, what's up with this
Speaker 2: whole picture?
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's been consistent, so there's no lying per se,
Speaker 3: there's just yeah, he's just disappearing at odd times.
Speaker 2: Right, I mean he's you know, usually would work through
Speaker 2: his lunch break so that he could be done and
Speaker 2: then come home and we would enjoy hanging out and
Speaker 2: he would look forward to being there to see Bee.
Speaker 2: And so I just feels like something changed and I
Speaker 2: can't figure out what. Of course, Yeah, I just like
Speaker 2: whatever my partner's going through, I want to be there
Speaker 2: for him. So if he's you know, extra stressed at
Speaker 2: work or got something going on, or you know, it's like,
Speaker 2: you know, he's having problems with his mom again, like
Speaker 2: you know that would like I've you know, helped with
Speaker 2: those times before, with those types of things. We talked
Speaker 2: about it and dealt with it. So I just don't
Speaker 2: know what's going on.
Speaker 1: Okay. And you said you didn't want to call and
Speaker 1: try to catch him the way we'd normally do it,
Speaker 1: like call from a grocery store. You had another way
Speaker 1: you thought would work. What is it?
Speaker 2: Yeah, he like again this Greek restaurant, he's it's his
Speaker 2: new favorite thing, and he's there all the time, so
Speaker 2: I thought, you know, maybe there'd be some kind of
Speaker 2: bonus for being a great customer or something.
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe that would.
Speaker 2: Work from the restaurant, but he's at all time.
Speaker 1: That's a great right, Sure, let's try it. Okay, we'll
Speaker 1: play a song come back, and then we'll call him
Speaker 1: and see if we can catch him cheating right after this.
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you so much.
Speaker 1: All right to sketch Cheater. It's next right in the
Speaker 1: middle of the Catch a Cheater and Megan is on
Speaker 1: the phone. She thinks that her boyfriend of two and
Speaker 1: a half years named Caleb might be cheating. And Megan,
Speaker 1: I'll let you refresh everybody's memory. Why do you think
Speaker 1: that he might be messing around?
Speaker 2: He's just he's been leaving early homely, not at work
Speaker 2: during his lunch break. I've tried to stop there, and
Speaker 2: he doesn't really have any good reasons and of being late,
Speaker 2: and he's just really distant lately, like there's something else
Speaker 2: going on. He's not talking about it.
Speaker 1: Okay, And you wanted us to call from this restaurant
Speaker 1: that he goes to all the time.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, he keeps talking about this is my favorite
Speaker 2: place to go for lunch. That's why he's not at
Speaker 2: work during lunch break anymore.
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll call from there and say that we appreciate
Speaker 1: him being a loyal customer so much. We're going to
Speaker 1: offer him free flowers to be delivered to anybody that
Speaker 1: he wants, and an invitation to join him there for
Speaker 1: dinner sometime in our special booth. We'll call him and
Speaker 1: see if he gives us your name or somebody else's. Okay,
Speaker 1: you ready, Yeah, all right, here we go. Hello, Hey man,
Speaker 1: I speak to Caleb. Please this sim Who's this Caleb?
Speaker 1: This is Jorban from Oh Okay. How are you?
Speaker 2: I'm doing pretty well.
Speaker 4: How'd you guys get my number?
Speaker 1: Because you're in here all the time and we keep
Speaker 1: track of our best customers. And the reason I'm calling
Speaker 1: today though, is to say thank you very much for
Speaker 1: coming in such a loyal customer. We actually wanted to
Speaker 1: say thank you by offering you free dinner for two
Speaker 1: one evening in our special booth. I don't even know
Speaker 1: if you know where the special booth is. It's in
Speaker 1: the back. And you can invite that person by sending
Speaker 1: them flowers delivered from us.
Speaker 4: Cool, thank you? Yeah, sure that'd be great. Do you
Speaker 4: need anything for me, like, well, we'll you know or
Speaker 4: something like that.
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, we can line up the date. We
Speaker 1: probably need to be a few weeks out because that
Speaker 1: booth is booked up, but like I said, totally free.
Speaker 1: And then for the flowers to be delivered to whoever
Speaker 1: you want to take with you. If you know the
Speaker 1: person's information, I can take all that right now, and
Speaker 1: then I will reach out and give you a confirmation
Speaker 1: that we've sent those out.
Speaker 4: Okay, cool, I think I think I yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 4: think I have somebody who might want to send the
Speaker 4: flowers to.
Speaker 1: Okay, great, you've got their name. We'll start with the
Speaker 1: name first and last.
Speaker 4: The first name is Rachelle.
Speaker 1: Is there anything we can put like a little card
Speaker 1: with it?
Speaker 4: Just I'm here for you, and I will.
Speaker 1: Like I said, I'll let you know that this is
Speaker 1: not actually the restaurant at all. Wait what this is
Speaker 1: actually the Jubil Show. It's a radio show and we
Speaker 1: do a segment where we try to catch people cheating
Speaker 1: on their significant other. And your girlfriend, Megan actually emailed
Speaker 1: us and suspected you might be seeing someone else and
Speaker 1: she's on the phone and been listening to this whole thing.
Speaker 2: WHOA, I'm kind of wondering the same thing too, Caleb.
Speaker 4: Hey, uh, are we really on the radio right now?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we definitely are, and I was listening.
Speaker 4: Can man, this is not good? Can we can we
Speaker 4: talk about this off off air? Because this is I
Speaker 4: promise you, there's more to this story.
Speaker 1: You're sounding a little guilty though, right now? Are you serious?
Speaker 3: Well, it's a.
Speaker 4: Very serious sort of situation and it's kind of com
Speaker 4: plex and it requires like a conversation and this is
Speaker 4: not the way that I wanted this to come out.
Speaker 2: Uh no, Caleb, you can tell me right now. We're here,
Speaker 2: we're both here right now. Kind of feel like that
Speaker 2: we need to just let the cat out of the bag.
Speaker 2: What's going on with Rochelle?
Speaker 4: So Rochelle is my.
Speaker 2: Ex So that's the Rochelle that you're sending flowers to now? Yeah?
Speaker 4: I yes, But it's not like that we haven't seen
Speaker 4: each other like that, Mike over three years. We're broken up?
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, but what's going on now with You're coming
Speaker 2: home from work and now you're sending flowers and having
Speaker 2: intimate dinners.
Speaker 4: It's not an intimate dinner, Okay. She recently, she contacted
Speaker 4: me again recently, and she said that she has a kid,
Speaker 4: a three year old, and that it's mine and I
Speaker 4: had just like, I've been trying to find a way
Speaker 4: to tell you this whole thing, and I didn't want
Speaker 4: it to come out over the over the radio like this.
Speaker 4: This is just not the way that I wanted it
Speaker 4: to happen. And this is why I've been whatever recently,
Speaker 4: And you know, I just I'm sorry, I'm really sorry.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like that's something that you should have
Speaker 2: told me kind of shortly after you found out about it.
Speaker 4: I just tried. I just didn't know how to say it.
Speaker 4: I didn't know how to tell you, and I didn't.
Speaker 2: Like I was.
Speaker 4: I was trying to figure things out for myself.
Speaker 2: That you've been acting weird weeks now.
Speaker 4: I know, I didn't know she needs my help. There's
Speaker 4: this three year old kid that is I'm I'm the
Speaker 4: father of like what, I don't know how to react
Speaker 4: in that situation. I've never gone through this sort of thing.
Speaker 2: Caleb.
Speaker 3: You're clearly very emotional right now, but it kind of
Speaker 3: sounds like you're yelling.
Speaker 1: At me, and I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: You're right, also getting this information for the first time,
Speaker 3: and she's in a relationship with you. This is just
Speaker 3: kind of a lot for everybody to process. I understand.
Speaker 3: But because I feel like there's love here, it's got
Speaker 3: to be a nicer way to exchange your concerns.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, you're right, You're right. I don't want to
Speaker 4: fight about this, you know I don't, so I'll have
Speaker 4: to keep my mind.
Speaker 1: I mean, I would be freaking out if I was
Speaker 1: you too, But you're not even going to be heard
Speaker 1: at all if you're shouting like that, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean freaking out as well.
Speaker 4: I mean, I feel like I'm also kind of being
Speaker 4: cornered right now. You know, I got, like, you know,
Speaker 4: radio sho.
Speaker 1: You were, But good news, you're not cheating, so now
Speaker 1: we're on your side.
Speaker 4: I I appreciate. I appreciate that. I appreciate that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, shocking news all around for all of us. But
Speaker 2: it's kind of something that we both need to deal with,
Speaker 2: don't you agree?
Speaker 4: Yes, make me talk about it.
Speaker 1: Do you understand kind of why it was so hard
Speaker 1: to tell you this? I mean, I know you probably
Speaker 1: wish that he would come to you right away. But
Speaker 1: that's a lot.
Speaker 2: Absolutely well. If I hadn't done this today, how long
Speaker 2: would it have been until I knew?
Speaker 4: Are you which is more upset about me not communicating
Speaker 4: with you? Are you?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 4: Are you upset that I have a kid? And like
Speaker 4: I just I don't want you to break up with me?
Speaker 4: Are we still okay? Are we gonna be okay?
Speaker 2: I'm not upset that you have a kid. I mean,
Speaker 2: it is shocking news to have a three year old
Speaker 2: plopped into your life, agreed, And I understand where you're
Speaker 2: coming from with that. I'm more upset that I got
Speaker 2: lied to for the past couple of weeks and that
Speaker 2: I'm left in the dark and have no idea what's
Speaker 2: going on with my boyfriend and where he's been and
Speaker 2: what's going on in his head because he won't.
Speaker 4: Talk to me. I should have done it sinner, and
Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: I definitely do not deal well with being lied to.
Speaker 1: But Caleb, I mean, bright side, congratulations, you have a kid.
Speaker 4: You know I met him a couple of times. Series
Speaker 4: really sweet, it's actually really exciting. It's just you know, right.
Speaker 1: And about you. Megan wants to share all of that
Speaker 1: with you. I guess Magie. Okay, see, okay, Well you
Speaker 1: know that he's not cheating, obviously, you guys have a
Speaker 1: lot to process.
Speaker 3: And I think, Caleb, you should take Megan too the
Speaker 3: Greek spot, just so she knows how good those salads
Speaker 3: really are.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, absolutely we should go there tonight.
Speaker 1: Maybe you could take her with you to talk to
Speaker 1: your ex. Might not be trust my relationship advice.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Maybe at a future date we can meet up
Speaker 2: with her, But right now I think the two of
Speaker 2: us need to talk about some terrible advice.
Speaker 1: Good luck to you guys. Let us know what happens.
Speaker 2: Yeah, good luck, Thank you.
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