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A confirmation text will 10 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 2: be sent standard message to data rates apply. 11 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: All thanks to the Live Nation. 12 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 2: Here we go morality Monday on a Friday, which soon 13 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 2: to be heard somewhere else. 14 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: I'm sure. 15 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 2: So this is from a nineteen year old female. My 16 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 2: friend downloaded dating apps like Tinder and Hinge for the 17 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 2: first time about a week ago for reference. She's the 18 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 2: type that always says she wants a boyfriend, wants to 19 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 2: do couples things, feels lonely, win single, et cetera. She's also, 20 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 2: in my opinion, at least very normal and average looks wise, 21 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 2: not ugly, not super hot, just all right. Since then, 22 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 2: she's been complaining to me that almost all of the 23 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 2: men are ugly, short, etc. And that she doesn't match 24 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 2: with anybody who is hot. I asked to see the 25 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 2: people that she was calling ugly, and she showed me 26 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 2: her likes, and it showed people that were particularly sort 27 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 2: of within her league, also moderately attractive people, moderately attractive men. 28 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 2: I told her that these guys were all in her 29 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 2: league and that she should give some of them a chance, 30 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 2: since she always complains about wanting to be in a relationship. 31 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 2: She denied that she's in the same league as them, 32 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 2: and said that she's much more attractive than they are. 33 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 2: I pointed out in her own words, she doesn't match 34 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 2: with any of the guys that she does find attractive, 35 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 2: so she's not in their league. She said, I'm an 36 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 2: a hole, am I? So if your friend comes to 37 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 2: you and says, all these ugly guys only ugly guys 38 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 2: want to go out with me, but you find those 39 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 2: ugly guys to be just normal looking guys, and you 40 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 2: find your friend to be normal looking. This sounds terrible, 41 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 2: but like, honestly, like if you have a friend who 42 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 2: has unreasonable expectations for and you can dream for whatever 43 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 2: you want. But let's face it, I mean, maybe the 44 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 2: guy that she envisions may not be interested in her. Maybe, 45 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 2: but let's and again this sounds bad, but like, let's 46 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 2: just be realistic, right that that maybe she wants to 47 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 2: go out with a supermodel, and and maybe there's a 48 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 2: supermodel that would want to go out with her, but 49 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: maybe per capita, she would have a better chance going 50 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:39,679 Speaker 2: out with men who are a little bit more less supermodelly. 51 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 2: Is that a fair thing to say to your friend 52 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: eight five five five three five or is that an 53 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 2: awful thing to say because you're kind of helping that. 54 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 2: I mean, you don't have to call your friend ugly, 55 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 2: But you could say, like, hey, you say you want 56 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 2: all these here's another way you could say that, I 57 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 2: think is nicer. You say you want all these things, right, 58 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 2: you want companionship, you want you want a partner, you 59 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 2: feel lonely, you want to do couples things. Maybe your 60 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 2: expectations are a little high, you know, maybe the things 61 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 2: that you're looking for a little high. Maybe, But you 62 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 2: also want the hottest guy on the internet. So maybe 63 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 2: maybe we should be looking a little more internally, or 64 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 2: maybe maybe our expectations and goals are a little beyond 65 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,959 Speaker 2: what's reasonable because we all know the person who will 66 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 2: only date one kind of person, and then that really 67 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 2: limits your opportunity to get the other things that you want. Right, 68 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 2: So maybe and then also I'm trying to make this 69 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 2: sound good, but basically she says her friend is average 70 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 2: and should find average people, right, which maybe is fair advice. 71 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 2: But we all have probably dated that the person that 72 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 2: looks the way we want them to, but they don't 73 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 2: have any of the other qualities that we want. Maybe 74 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 2: they're not even good people. We've probably also dated ugly 75 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 2: people who aren't good people, or ugly people who are 76 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 2: very great people and provide all the other things. They 77 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 2: love you and they're they're loyal to you and whatever. 78 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 2: So I guess my thing is if you're only looking 79 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 2: for people who you think are super hot, then you're 80 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 2: probably missing a lot of other things. 81 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: Oh, yes, that's the way you say it, right. 82 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 3: Well, I mean I would just say it. 83 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 2: You would, So you would you would say to your 84 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 2: friend Kiki, you, I'm sorry, but you your expectations are 85 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 2: too high and maybe you should bring it back to work. 86 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say, girl. 87 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 4: So we all have strengths and weak strengths and weaknesses, Okay, strengths, 88 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,839 Speaker 4: and I would say, you know, you are really strong 89 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 4: in the friendship department. 90 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 3: In the personality, Oh. 91 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 2: Damn, if anybody calls me, if anyone says strengths and weaknesses, 92 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 2: I'm very strong in the personality department. 93 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 4: You knock it out the park when it comes to personality. 94 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 4: But on the looks and you we could do a 95 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 4: little work. And so I think you should give another 96 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 4: type of guy a chance. 97 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 3: And you know, because or what type of guy is down? 98 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 4: You're setting your friends up for failure, Like you're setting 99 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 4: a friend up and fel you're telling her that she 100 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 4: can go get a hot guy and you know she's ugly, Like, 101 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 4: come on. 102 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 3: Be for real. You don't think any of your friends 103 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 3: are ugly? Do you? 104 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 5: No? 105 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 3: But I don't, Okay, I don't think my friends know 106 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 3: what they should go for. You and I know what 107 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 3: I can go for, you know, like you could have 108 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:22,479 Speaker 3: anything you want. I'm sure, Kaylee. 109 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: We don't want to get real that we've all probably 110 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 2: watched our friends struggle with dating and they and they 111 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 2: gravitate towards something that isn't necessarily the most productive, whether 112 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 2: it's toxic guys or girls, or whether it's rich guys 113 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 2: or guys with a boat, which seems to be a 114 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 2: themale dating or or I don't know, maybe they're just 115 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 2: they're not prioritizing the right qualities. So maybe that's how 116 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 2: you say it. It's like, look, you're really focused on looks, 117 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 2: and that's fair. Nobody wants to be with an ugly person. 118 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 2: Maybe you don't even make it about their appearance. You 119 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:54,600 Speaker 2: just say like, but maybe we should start looking into 120 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 2: other qualities because there's more out there. 121 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 1: You can never tell your friend that they are not attractive. 122 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 6: You cannot say that to someone you love in any circle. 123 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 2: That's what I mean, though, But I'm saying, so fus 124 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: focus on the other stuff. 125 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 1: La, Hi, La, how you doing? 126 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 6: Hey? 127 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 5: How are you? 128 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 2: Guys? 129 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 7: I love all of you? 130 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:17,479 Speaker 5: First off, love you. 131 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? 132 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 2: What do you tell your friend If your friend is 133 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 2: really focused on looks and they're not necessarily buh of 134 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: the same caliber of what they're seeking? 135 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 5: This is crazy because I mean, I like I text 136 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 5: that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, So 137 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 5: it depends on what you're looking for in beauty. When 138 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 5: you say beauty, do you want a beautiful heart? Do 139 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 5: you want a kind heart? Do you want someone to 140 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 5: takes care of you? Or do you want to six 141 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 5: foot seven fine something? Something that is full of the 142 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 5: bad words. So it's just the chance and it will 143 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 5: be hard to tell a friends. But if you're a 144 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:55,359 Speaker 5: real friend, I would be super honest. I would be 145 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 5: super honest. I want to tell her that she was ugly, 146 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 5: you know, but I would be like you, guys are compatible. 147 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 5: Look at him, look at you. It just depends on 148 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 5: what you're looking at him. 149 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: I'm looking at you with all due respect. Look at 150 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: him and look at you. 151 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 5: Is not jes. 152 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: That's not the approach. Look at him, look at you. 153 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 4: I think that Yeah, yeah. 154 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 2: Hey, we're just whiteboarding here and no bad ideas. Thank you, La, 155 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 2: have a good day. I love you, call anytime. Hey, Mandy, 156 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 2: how you doing, Mandy? Good morning? 157 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: Look at him and look at you. 158 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 3: Make a cute baby. 159 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 4: That's how you got to say it, because you know 160 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 4: they say ugly people make. 161 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 3: You baby, Jesus, make a great baby. 162 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: Two negatives pitive. Don't you remember that? 163 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 2: Hey going, what do you say to your friend who's 164 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 2: shooting for the stars from a dating perspective and not 165 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 2: hitting Because maybe they should be a little bit more reasonable, realistic. 166 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 7: Well, there's a way that you can say things to 167 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 7: your friend without being a jerk. So like when you're 168 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 7: at work you want someone to do something for you, 169 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 7: instead of saying, you know, ordering them around to do it, 170 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 7: say you know, can you help me? Or you know, 171 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 7: when you're talking to your friend, you tell your friend, hey, 172 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 7: you know, maybe this guy doesn't look that good, but 173 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 7: you know, maybe there is something about him. 174 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 2: Okay, so you're saying point out, you know, sort of 175 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 2: like nothing to see here, like kind of point out. Uh, 176 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 2: just find the positives and elevate them. 177 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, but when you're talking to your friend and you 178 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 7: know your friend maybe not be in the same link 179 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 7: as the hot people, then maybe tell them, I don't know, 180 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 7: there's many fish in the sea. 181 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 2: Oh god, getting better, just lying for you. Oh boy. Hey, 182 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 2: there's a site for people that look like you and 183 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 2: it's not this one. 184 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: It's called normal people dot com. 185 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 7: Hey, there's just a way to say it without being 186 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 7: mean about. 187 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 2: It, Mandy, with all the expect I don't think it's 188 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 2: any of the ways of person. Yeah, yeah, thank you, 189 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 2: you have a great day, all right. I know it's 190 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 2: a tough one, right, because you want your friend to 191 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 2: find what they're looking for. But if they're only obsessed 192 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 2: with appearance, and then maybe that's not going to work. 193 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 1: Hey, Roberta, Roberta, how are you doing? What do you think? 194 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 5: I'm good? 195 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 6: So I think that's a friend that needs to go 196 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:41,319 Speaker 6: outside on such the grass. Yeah, lower expectations. I wouldn't 197 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:42,679 Speaker 6: be a good friend if I would like to my 198 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,679 Speaker 6: friend like that, because look, I'm gonna be honest with you. 199 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 1: Like you look questionable too, so. 200 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:50,560 Speaker 3: Understanding now you look, I have found people. 201 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 1: I gotta be honest with you. You look questionable too. 202 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 3: You look what you've done to these Roberta. 203 00:09:57,440 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 2: Can I ask you here, Roberta, do you have any friends? 204 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 5: You know what? 205 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 6: You actually have friends? I mean I approached him and 206 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 6: I told him, I'm like, look, I am brutally honest. 207 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 6: I don't sit here, and I don't beat it around 208 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 6: the bush. 209 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: Don't beat it around the bush. 210 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 2: Girl, Never beat it around the bush, Roberta. Just so 211 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,079 Speaker 2: you never get yourself in trouble with any of the 212 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 2: of the authorities. It's beat around the bush. No one's 213 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 2: beating anything. But anyway, I'm just trying to help you. 214 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:30,680 Speaker 2: I'm being really honestly with you. 215 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 6: Yeah, let me give you an example. Okay, me, I'm 216 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 6: a heavier, said girl, but I have a really pretty face. 217 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 6: My husband, he is not the type. 218 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 5: He was very vain. 219 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 6: He likes skinny girls, you know, with colored eyes and 220 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 6: all this other stuff, and I am the complete opposite. 221 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 6: We had been married for almost seven years and we 222 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:51,319 Speaker 6: met on the apps. 223 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: So no, you know what, I think. 224 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 2: That's actually I think that's an excellent example. Right, Maybe 225 00:10:56,320 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 2: you're so hyper focused on body type and and maybe 226 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,559 Speaker 2: if you were a little bit you know, we're entitled 227 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 2: to like what we like, but maybe if we were 228 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 2: a little less focused on just appearance, because again, we've 229 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 2: all dated people who look great and aren't great. Right, 230 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 2: So there's got to be a way to say this 231 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 2: without being like, no, no, no, you need you could 232 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 2: never be with someone like that. 233 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 1: Well, that's not how to do it. 234 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,079 Speaker 2: Maybe it's just, hey, you're looking for a lot of 235 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:22,320 Speaker 2: different qualities, but we're only focused on one. 236 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 1: So let's start looking. 237 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 2: Maybe we start looking a little bit less and a 238 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 2: little bit less at how they look, and a little 239 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 2: bit more the kind of people they are, and then 240 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 2: maybe you'll you know, we can cure the loneliness thing 241 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 2: and the companionship thing and the other aspects of a relationship, right. 242 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, and I would also work commend the therapist. 243 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:42,959 Speaker 2: So so yeah, so you ain't it, you ain't hitting, 244 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 2: and you're kind of crazy. 245 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: You should probably see a thing, ROBERTA. 246 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 2: I know, I know you're trying to help, but man, 247 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 2: ice friend. 248 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 6: You're the least coc in the desert, Like, come on, 249 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 6: the last coca in the desert. 250 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 1: What are these phrases coming? 251 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 2: What you're saying, Robert Roberta, you take a you take 252 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 2: your pretty face and go beat it around the bush. 253 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: Are I love you? Oh my god? 254 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 5: No. 255 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 2: That was a good point though, yes, no, because I 256 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:20,839 Speaker 2: have friends when they were dating. 257 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 1: Most of my friends are married now. 258 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:24,199 Speaker 2: But it was like, oh, it's gotta be oh, they 259 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 2: gotta be tall, skinny brunette. And I'm going you've dated 260 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 2: five of them and then they either weren't nice, or 261 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 2: they weren't interesting to you or you to. 262 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 1: Them, or you're so focused on the type. 263 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 2: And so maybe like we brought in our horizons a 264 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:40,719 Speaker 2: little beyond that, like what if it's a what if 265 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 2: she's not tall and skinny and was in Sports Illustrated 266 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:44,319 Speaker 2: or something. 267 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:47,719 Speaker 1: That's different than Friend. You're ugly, Well, that's what we've 268 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: been working on. More Friend Show next,