1 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 1: Welcome back to More to It, to show that takes 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment, 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: and culture. Start with headline news and then journey to 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: deeper conversations, always finding those life lessons that are presented 5 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 1: in every single story. I'm your host for ourselves whilely 6 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: that dude, what's up with that? Dude? Man, I'm trying 7 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 1: to class up to join a little bit. Saturday night. 8 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: You know, I got my normal outfit out, some cargo pants, 9 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: some loafers or something what they call them, little like 10 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: flip floppy looking shoes, and a regular old T shirt 11 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: looking thing. And then I was like, man, I gotta 12 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: go to this event. They said cocktail attire. And at 13 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: first I was about to hit them, dug them up 14 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:46,639 Speaker 1: with that LA like, ain't no dress codes in LA, 15 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: you know me or that little I'm an athlete or 16 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: I'm somebody kind of dress code. And I was like, man, 17 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: class up the joint. So I threw on the suit, 18 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 1: threw on one of them suits that I still fit, 19 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: which is all of them, which is crazy. Man. You 20 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: can wait the same, but just look different. Damn. I 21 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: way less than I did when I got drafted. It 22 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: don't look the same. It's crazy. So it was a 23 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: great event. It was a VIP screening of shared legacies. 24 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 1: What's that? Yeah, I know Clarence B. Jones, right, who's 25 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: that big timer? Wrote speeches for MLK et CETERA big 26 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: timer man. So I was there in supporter. Spilled the 27 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: Honey Foundation great calls bridging and promoting and mending the 28 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: bridges between the Black and Jewish community. A lot of 29 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 1: times that gets mentioned in a different light, right, So 30 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,559 Speaker 1: it was good to be there. All these things were 31 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 1: eye opening to me when I was there. Did a 32 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:47,040 Speaker 1: little homework and research up on it. But shout out 33 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: to my man of Rash who went to Harvard. But 34 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: we still ivy gang respect to him for the invitation 35 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: as well. We had a great time, shook a bunch 36 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 1: of hands. Man, it's some people out here who I've 37 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 1: lived because we were like one of the It felt 38 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: like younger couples in there, and man, people when they 39 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: get of an age, everybody's let me just say, once 40 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: they're in a protected space, everyone's nicer, everyone's more inviting. 41 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: It was in the century. If you ever just googled 42 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: a century, and I'm sure some of the stars will 43 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: pop up that lived there. I think Denzel has a 44 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: home there. The reason I can say it because it's 45 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: so damn protected, like you ain't getting in there anyway, 46 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: so good luck. But it's a really really nice high rise. 47 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 1: So a lot of people that live there are like 48 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: just retired, tired of having the upkeep of a big 49 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: old empty house, empty nest, big mansion, empty nesters. So 50 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: they all lived there, and it was kind of crazy 51 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 1: to see it and talk to people like that who 52 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: would just meet that transition, and some of them, you know, 53 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: you're just like, damn, what are you doing tomorrow? I'm 54 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: thinking about going to London, but I might postpone and 55 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna do drop off of my kids. 56 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: So that was love. Other than that, we went to 57 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 1: dinner with our folks, our fan band man the Ferriers. 58 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: Y'all know the Faerriers. Shout out to Emon Ferrier, who's 59 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: a lawyer at CIA big time. I love her brain 60 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,839 Speaker 1: and she's so smart, so cool. And her husband, who 61 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: I've known since my senior year in college. He went 62 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: to UVA. I'm giving y'all some clues. He played fifteen 63 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:25,679 Speaker 1: years in the NFL. Look at me. I saw like 64 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 1: a trivia host. We played for two teams. A Thing 65 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: drafted eighth overall nineteen ninety seven draft James Ferrier, my 66 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 1: dog Potse Posse one of the biggest heart's, coolest cats 67 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: ever come across any life. Endeavor Pozzi's always at the top. 68 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: Man as a great dude. So it's funny. I've seen 69 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: him three times. He was at the Bridge summon in 70 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: San fran Oh. I flaked. I couldn't go out of dinner. 71 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: He was at a game night for one of our friends, 72 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: and then I saw him last night dinner. Last night 73 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 1: dinner was about OJ did OJ do it? Yo? Emon 74 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: knew stuff. I know. I followed that case for what 75 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: twenty years or whatever it may be, thirty years. She 76 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: knew details I didn't know. She know. She made me 77 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: think twice about what I thought. And we talked about 78 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: Michael Jackson and she I kind of flipped her on 79 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: that and a little bit, maybe flipped her a little bit, 80 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 1: moved her a bit, I should say. But good times, man, 81 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: Just same old stuff around here. Today. We got our 82 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: pickleball social so that means we just invite some fam 83 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: some folks over and we just played pickleball, and I 84 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 1: act like I'm good. Just gout of our home court. 85 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,719 Speaker 1: It's gonna be fun. Let's get into this man because 86 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: speaking of the home the turf right here, Ice t 87 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 1: who was an og yeah, original gangster god. I love 88 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: Ice Tea man. Ice Ta repped La, repped my neighborhood, 89 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:48,280 Speaker 1: repped the hood. I was around the hood I grew 90 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 1: up in, like for real in like mid eighties, and 91 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 1: that felt good. I can't lie. Even though it was 92 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: some gangster stuff and some crazy stuff, it still felt good. 93 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 1: It was Ice Tea talking about exactly where I lived, 94 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: So that was weird. So I get when people talk 95 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: about representation. Even though I don't need it, I feel 96 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: the love from it, right, So I get it. Ice 97 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,480 Speaker 1: Team was talking about his wife because everybody went in 98 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: on his wife with a bikini photo. And y'all know 99 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: his wife, Coco. Let's just say, like lessons more for her. 100 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,919 Speaker 1: She wears you know what she wanted to wear. But 101 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: I t ain't got no time for y'all. He ain't 102 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: got no time for y'all. Judgment Right here, he said, Uh, 103 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: he had to hit back at some people over some 104 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: posts that she had on social So she had a 105 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 1: bunch of posts. I'm not gonna get into that because 106 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 1: that's not why we hear. We hear for the life 107 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 1: lesson that's in these posts. Right. So one person was like, 108 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,679 Speaker 1: she's a mom, do you want your daughter to dress 109 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: like that? Think about it? Right? All right? We always 110 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 1: got Look, that's the beautiful thing about this world. Like 111 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: I remember when I found out that Japan was to 112 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: the east of us, but also to the west of us. 113 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: You remember that, Remember that day when you were really 114 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:02,359 Speaker 1: the world was round? But more importantly, you can go 115 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: both places, go different directions and get to the same place. 116 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: I was like, damn, let's dope. I just see that. 117 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: Like when we comment, when we all have opinions. That's 118 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 1: why I don't do rights or wrongs, and when I 119 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: do check me, I don't like right or wrong. I 120 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 1: like learn, unlearn, like borrow. We gotta borrow from each other, 121 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: caulse we do it anyway. So I hate when we 122 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 1: act like, oh no, no, this is my STAPs, this 123 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 1: is where I am, and then you're over there. It's like, 124 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 1: come on, get some of this, and I'm gonna get 125 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: some of that. Let's just go there. Okay, so that's 126 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: one side of this saying, oh, look at a mommy 127 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 1: and her and all that stuff. And then somebody else 128 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 1: wrote if you have a problem with Coco while he 129 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,160 Speaker 1: still follow her, weird ool shit. Guess who that is? 130 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 1: That was iced Tea, right, and then it's like crazy, 131 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 1: like you got one side, like you're not representing the 132 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 1: titles that you hold, right, your positions in life, your mother, right, 133 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: you're a wife and all that kind of stuff. Were 134 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: gonna talk about this right now, so you know, the 135 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: swim suits to outfits, oh man, thinly veiled as they 136 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: would say, her and her bikinis. Let's get into this. 137 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 1: This is where I thought this was interesting. I'm not 138 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: trying to be like tabloidy and all that. I'm trying 139 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: to get into life lessons. A lot of times the 140 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 1: stars show us the lessons that's to learn. There's a 141 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: conversation that needs to be had about natural power versus 142 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: natural beauty, and if you really want to designate what 143 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: that is in terms of their natural possessions and attributes, 144 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: that's man and woman, right, natural power and natural beauty, right, 145 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: whether it's what you get from nature or what you're 146 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: getting from nurture, they combine to some of the borders 147 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 1: that represent man and women. Right, think about it, like 148 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: a man grows up and he is totally in the 149 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 1: know of his power, Right, you don't think so okay, 150 00:07:56,560 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: watch men through sports, Okay, watch men through interaction. You know, 151 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: Like men are into the power and how that helps 152 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 1: them climb the hierarchy. How that helps us have dominance. 153 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: And it's not just physical power, Like you have to 154 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: go out into the world to provide. How do you 155 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: provide by flexing your power, by trying to dominate, to 156 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: try to accrue, to bring back, to provide, Right, that 157 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 1: is what we do. Men are like just naturally wired 158 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 1: to do that. Now that doesn't mean every man does 159 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 1: it or every man is as powerful. Right, we know 160 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 1: that there's levels to this. Oh man, So you're like, 161 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 1: the power of a man is okay for society to 162 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: see it flexed. That's just the way it goes, Right, 163 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: But then it ain't the same way when you flip it. 164 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 1: When you look at a woman and her natural beauty, right, 165 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 1: and I'm not talking about oh, she's fine. I'm not 166 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 1: talking about oh she is beautiful, not their natural beauty. 167 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:59,199 Speaker 1: The ability to attract others to provide and make life. 168 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 1: That's their beauty, like seriously, like they're straight up like damn, 169 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 1: And there's somebody for everybody. So if you don't think 170 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 1: she cute, she cute to somebody else. Y'all. Ever, go 171 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: to the airport. Airport is the best place in the world. 172 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: That's the international terminals. I love people watching at the airport. 173 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 1: I'm damn there, missing all my flights because I'm looking 174 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: at people. I'm just like, damn, And look some of 175 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: them just fine? Is they all outdoors? You're like, what 176 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 1: country is that? Like, where she going? Where's her layover? 177 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:26,079 Speaker 1: Like You're like, damn, looking at the wife, I'm like 178 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,959 Speaker 1: what she's like, Yeah, I don't know what that is. 179 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: And you know dudes too, Like, you know, dudes coming 180 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 1: in there looking like they straight from a photo shoot. 181 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: You're like, god, dang dog, all right, respect. But then 182 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: there's some booger wolves too, right, You're like, oh, but 183 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 1: guess what. Half the time the booger wolves be having 184 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: somebody right with them, locked on right, And I'm like, 185 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter about that. I'm not doing that value judgment. 186 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: But there is a natural beauty and people you look 187 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: at the countries. You could look at the garbs. It's different. 188 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: Some people just dress you can barely see their eyes, right. 189 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: And then there's some people man ain't good lucke getting 190 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: some clothes on them, right. And I think we need 191 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: to just remove the value judgment when we see that, 192 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 1: because we have removed the value judgment when we see 193 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: a man flexing his power. Yes, we do, because when 194 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 1: I flex my power on mar Sol, she the man, 195 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 1: Oh I see you, big dog, you killing it? Oh? 196 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: All that none right? But when a woman flexes her 197 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 1: beauty and all of a sudden, that's out those fermones 198 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: that are that unspoken language and communication that gets to 199 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 1: the others, that opposite sex. And they like, oh, it 200 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: don't matter if she a ten or nine eight. Kevin 201 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 1: Samon said, you can't say seven, so six five it 202 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: doesn't matter. That's it. And I love iced Tea for 203 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 1: this moment. One's sticking up for his right. That's our code, 204 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 1: that's what we do. But two, he recognizes that she's 205 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: just tapping into her natural beauty. Now here's the rub. 206 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 1: I don't want my dog are tapping into her natributy 207 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 1: and flexing like that. But that's not for me to 208 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 1: fully have authority over right. She's twenty four years old. Now, 209 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: my little dy biddies, I'm trying to raise them to 210 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 1: not do that as well. And my daughter, frankly is 211 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: not like that. Now. We got family members that are 212 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: like that, like yo, less is more. But I removed 213 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 1: myself from trying to just them, just saying, look, there 214 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 1: are appropriate times. Like that cocktail party I went to. 215 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 1: It wasn't appropriate for me to wear my cargo pants, 216 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: and I was about to wear my cargo pants because 217 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 1: I was about to flex my power. I was about 218 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: to flex. I'm I'm mean, I'm I'm walking, I'm Morecelfswacke, 219 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 1: and they're gonna let me in regardless, and they're gonna 220 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 1: give me that same handshake. But I know in the 221 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 1: head they like, look at this, look at this dude, 222 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: or they not. But that ain't what I should be doing, right, 223 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 1: I'm subscribing to that moment, to that environment. Sheat pool side, 224 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 1: she chilling. She got a whole lot and nothing to hide, 225 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 1: at least nothing known to hide it all right, And 226 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 1: it's just weird, like I see that. You go to Vegas, 227 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 1: sometimes you see somebody like you just in Vegas walking 228 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 1: down the street bikini and it's like, whatever's Vegas? But 229 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 1: then you see that same person posted and you're like, 230 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: why she doing that? She a mom? It's like what 231 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: I just saw a mama walking down the street, the 232 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 1: stripping Vegas chilling a what a twenty foot slushy that 233 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 1: got long island in it? You know what I mean? Like, 234 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: I just all I'm here to do is talk through 235 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 1: these things with you guys and us to start peel 236 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: back the layers. Because we get conditioned to be binary, 237 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 1: we get conditioned to be on the side, We get 238 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 1: conditioned to point at somebody. We get conditioned to judge, 239 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 1: which is no problem with judging, but now your ass 240 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: gonna get judged, so you better be careful of the 241 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: games you're engaging in. So I love the fact that 242 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: Ice came to her support her rescue, if you may 243 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 1: say that, and also the fact that he's like, dug hell, 244 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna tell her to take it off. I'm 245 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 1: not mad at it. And if if you don't like 246 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 1: it so much peace. It's kind of like when I 247 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 1: see some people see some of my comments. I like 248 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 1: will Kine because I work with Will Kane. Will Kane's amazing. 249 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 1: Like every time I had to sharpen my sword a 250 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 1: little more, I was like, I'm going against Will Caine 251 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 1: today on first take or whatever it may be. That's 252 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 1: sucker there. He a lawyer, suckers, smart as hell. Now 253 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 1: people say, oh, Marsel's like Will Kane, So that means 254 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: Marcel's like conservative white guys, Republicans. He's a sellout. And 255 00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 1: I'm like dog like icy. If you don't feel me, 256 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 1: keep listening to me. If you don't, you can write 257 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 1: all the hate stuff. I'm not responding. I read it though, 258 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 1: it's all good. And if you don't really feel me, 259 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: peace like, it's all good. It's seven eight billion people 260 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: in this world. I ain't gonna miss one, but I'm 261 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 1: trying to get them all right. That's how the game goes. 262 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 1: So I'm interested in what you guys think about it. 263 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 1: Do you guys support iced Tea supporting his wife right here? Right? 264 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:59,199 Speaker 1: Who is the wife? Be KINI photo appropriate? Look at me? No, No, 265 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:01,320 Speaker 1: I'm not answering for y'all. Y'all tell me what y'all 266 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 1: think about it, because I am open to what you 267 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: guys are saying and you think she should be posting 268 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 1: these type of photos on social media, especially when you 269 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 1: got a seven year old daughter. All right, I know 270 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: a lot of people are gonna be on both sides 271 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 1: of this, but we're here to discuss it. This is 272 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 1: the safe space, even though it ain't no place safe 273 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 1: for real, man. So just remember, man, like our natural 274 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 1: roots right with nature, our connection to nature, that beautiful 275 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 1: unspoken language that we all possess. Men possess the unspoken 276 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 1: language that I could go tackle those animals. I could 277 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 1: go out there and gather us something and bring it 278 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: back and provide. Right, that's a natural language unspoken by 279 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 1: men right now. Everybody taps into it or taps into 280 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: it to the same degree. But that's a natural language. 281 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: That's what we admit. Same thing with a woman, like 282 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 1: like they just walk out and you're like, imagine being 283 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 1: the Neanderthal. Oh man, they had it simple and it 284 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: was a rap. That's how they had the mac. Now 285 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 1: we got to shoot a DM make sure it's on 286 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: vanish mode, make sure it ain't nobody screenshot. Oh man, 287 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: this is a whole different animal out there, all right, 288 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 1: Speaking of what's out there that's different, it's kind of 289 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 1: a different version of the same story. We're talking about 290 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 1: Kicky Palmer, a Quila and the b another representation of 291 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 1: where I'm from. When that Krishyall High school, I swear 292 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 1: it was I ain't seen that movie in forever, but 293 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 1: I love that movie. It made me cry, like goor 294 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 1: Quila Spell girl Spell. But she got shamed by her boyfriend. 295 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 1: So this is the same story a different way one 296 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: supported iced tea support and Koko that hot coco do 297 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 1: they call her hart Coco? That's o corny. But then 298 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: key Key, her boyfriend called her out. She's like, all right, 299 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 1: let me live, so let's talk about it. Darius Jackson 300 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: one of those names that you should know because that's 301 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: Darius Jackson. When you name your son Darius after his 302 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 1: last name, already Jackson, sucker, they're gonna have a name 303 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 1: that you're gonna know. So uh. He's the father of 304 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 1: her new born's facing back last after he criticized her 305 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 1: on social media after wearing a dress on Usher concert. 306 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 1: Now here's the thing, Ah, y'all got to help me 307 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 1: with this. I don't think they're married, right, so he's 308 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: just baby daddy, Okay, all right? Now, if I'm wrong, 309 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: I'm wrong. Oh well, I've been wrong before, but I 310 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: did my research. I didn't see they were married. She 311 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 1: wore one of them sheer dresses. You know that the 312 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: cover ups girls like this is a cover up, Like, girl, 313 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 1: ain't no cover up. That's a net with nothing keeping 314 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 1: it together. So it's just it's just holes, right, but 315 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: like a connect for silk, connect for shirt or something. Right. 316 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 1: So she got on that and and usher singing, there 317 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 1: goes my baby all that, and then Darius Jackson, you know, 318 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 1: he wrote it's the outfit though you a mom? Okay ah? 319 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 1: And I know the pushback. Why do y'all tell everybody 320 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: everything about y'all? The left hand ain't supposed to know 321 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 1: what the right hand is doing. Why why you retweeting that? 322 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: Like you just won't the smoke, Like you won't the smoke. 323 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 1: That's fine, you can want the smoke, just don't get 324 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:11,879 Speaker 1: don't start coughing and can't talk all right, So he 325 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 1: wants to smoke. I don't like that. Like if I 326 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 1: see my wife and she putting one out there and 327 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh oh, because I was like, h I 328 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,240 Speaker 1: get to that. Like I'm telling y'all what I'm really feeling. 329 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 1: About this yet, so let me get to that. He's like, look, 330 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 1: everybody came at him, like, who you think you are? 331 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 1: You controlling? Come on, man, let her live. And she 332 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 1: just out there chilling, She having a Moment's plus she 333 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 1: an actress, like she's a public figure. I don't know 334 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 1: all the movies she been in, but maybe there was 335 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 1: something she was racing before. But I guess she got 336 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 1: the check for that, so that's cool. But anyway, it's 337 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:47,199 Speaker 1: kind of hard to imagine Aquila actually doing something like that. 338 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,639 Speaker 1: But go Kiki. So he says, damn, we live in 339 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 1: a generation where a man of the family doesn't want 340 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 1: the wife and mother to his kids to showcase booty 341 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: cheeks to please others, and gets told how much of 342 00:17:57,600 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: a hater he is. See he sounds like he is 343 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 1: married to I can't find it. This is my family 344 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:04,199 Speaker 1: and my representation. I have standards and morals to what 345 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 1: I believe. I rest my case. Now he's trying to 346 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 1: win the court of public opinion when he's having a 347 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:14,680 Speaker 1: case against his wife. Why are we invited too that courtroom? 348 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 1: Nobody care, Like, let me just tell you this dog, 349 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 1: we got an opinion, but don't confuse that what we 350 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 1: really care. Dog, if y'all break up tomorrow, we're all 351 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 1: gonna be like, all right, I keep spinning and we 352 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,879 Speaker 1: keep grinning. And if y'all don't, y'all keep it riding, 353 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 1: we good with that too. But the point is, don't 354 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 1: bring us into that. We don't need to be in 355 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 1: your badroom. We don't need to be in y'all heads 356 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 1: like that anyway. So there was a bunch of screenshots. 357 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: People were talking about it, and then somebody wrote something interesting. 358 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:45,119 Speaker 1: They said, the issue is you're having this discussion on 359 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:48,439 Speaker 1: the internet. Bingo. You're just embarrassing her for no reason. Bingo. 360 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 1: If you got a problem communicated with her and her 361 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 1: only bingo. Right, So imagine your girlfriend being key Keith 362 00:18:55,960 --> 00:18:58,439 Speaker 1: Palmer and you have the audacity to publicly shame her 363 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:01,120 Speaker 1: on social media, like for real, Like dog, you don't 364 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:04,119 Speaker 1: know how the stars roll, like you don't see that 365 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 1: light already coming from her, and you're gonna just go 366 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 1: over there and go trying to blow out her match. 367 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 1: Come on, man, all right? So I thought that was 368 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 1: young and my group text went off on this. My boys, 369 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:17,440 Speaker 1: my group text, my raw. If y'all ever got if 370 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 1: the FBI ever got my group text. I don't believe 371 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 1: in cancel culture, but I would get canceled. We go 372 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 1: in and I was like, My only pushback that I 373 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:28,919 Speaker 1: respected was like Dog, Marcella, she didn't grow up in 374 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 1: this era of social media, so you don't know how 375 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 1: you were responding. I hate that answer, but I respect it. 376 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: I hate it because Dog, I lived in my era, 377 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:40,359 Speaker 1: and I never did stuff like this. In my era. 378 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 1: I didn't keep receipts to tell homegirls who I mess with? 379 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,640 Speaker 1: Are they homeboys who I mess with? I know dudes 380 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 1: that have married people that I messed with, and I 381 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 1: ain't tell him why, because I ain't breaking up a 382 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:57,679 Speaker 1: happy home. Like Dog, what we did fleing Whack didn't 383 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:00,239 Speaker 1: work out whatever. It may be all amazing, but it 384 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 1: wasn't for us. Y'all go get it, like what the 385 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 1: so I was like, that was my social media. I 386 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 1: could have told more people. I could have told the world. 387 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 1: I ain't saying nothing. I see stars and celebts. My 388 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 1: wife knows. My wife, she'd be cracking up. She was 389 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,119 Speaker 1: talking about this last night. She was like, Marcel's be 390 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 1: telling me every day. I was like, for real, because 391 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:20,119 Speaker 1: I don't want to walk around and then all of 392 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 1: a sudden, the bone hits you in the head and 393 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 1: that's where a body's buried. I'm like, nah, dog, that 394 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 1: ain't how to go you, my wife. If I can't 395 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 1: unload and dump on you, then who can I. So 396 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 1: I just tripped off of when people push back like 397 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: you don't know how it would be. Man, we had 398 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 1: our own pressures. There want nothing new under the sun, 399 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:42,239 Speaker 1: King Solomon, nothing new. So my biggest takeaway from this 400 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 1: was really why everybody was focusing in on the clothes, 401 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 1: Like all that attention on the clothes, what she was wearing, 402 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:54,440 Speaker 1: even Darius Jackson. They missed something here. They missed something 403 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 1: that was lacking. And I'm not talking about the lack 404 00:20:56,760 --> 00:21:00,879 Speaker 1: of clothes she was wearing. I'm talking about there was 405 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 1: a lack of no code or no communication of their code. 406 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:10,959 Speaker 1: And every relationship has a code, whatever that code is, 407 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 1: like do you or a You know, we're a little 408 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: more conservative around these parts, so we don't do that, 409 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 1: right every relationship, that's what you're forming, that's what you're mending. 410 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:25,400 Speaker 1: You're mending that right there, and that's what your bond is. Right, 411 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: we're subscribing to something together, just like team, Just like 412 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 1: a team bill, just like a football team. Like yo, dog, 413 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 1: I like to run fast, yeah, but the play says 414 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,880 Speaker 1: on this one, I need you to be a decoy. Yeah, 415 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 1: but I like to catch the ball. But on this play, 416 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 1: I need you to plock. Like we're all kind of like, huh, 417 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 1: taking all our individualness and all the things we really 418 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 1: want to do, and we would do if we're just carefree, 419 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 1: not concerned about others or other things. But then you 420 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: subscribe to something, right, that's culture. That's the culture of 421 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 1: a relationship. Sounds like they're in Kiki. And it sounds 422 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 1: like you, Darius, either have no code or didn't communicate 423 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,560 Speaker 1: properly on that code. Right, So that's a lack of 424 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 1: communication issue. And you flip a lack of communication issue 425 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 1: to communicating it to the world. Wait a minute, you 426 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 1: and your girl wife, I don't know what you want 427 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 1: to call a baby mama, are not talking about this 428 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:30,119 Speaker 1: to be preemptive prehab. But then now we're gonna catch 429 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 1: all of what you're really feeling after it happens. Man, 430 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:38,240 Speaker 1: those type of relationships, let's just say, usually don't work out. 431 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,200 Speaker 1: So fix that, Darius. That's all I gotta say, you, 432 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 1: big doll, be smart about it. We don't need to 433 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,200 Speaker 1: be in y'all like that. But if we are, make 434 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,960 Speaker 1: sure that y'all are there first. Don't let her be 435 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:51,160 Speaker 1: last to the party about something you don't like. That's 436 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 1: messed up, that ain't right. So y'all think Kiki was underdressed. 437 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 1: I know, y'all don't. I mean, come on, y'all like 438 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,119 Speaker 1: him taking that stance publicly. I know y'all don't. I 439 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:02,719 Speaker 1: know y'all don't. And you agree with the social media 440 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 1: folks who say he shamed her online, or you agree 441 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 1: that he did shame her online. I don't know, man, 442 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 1: but I just I saw it was a life lesson 443 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:13,359 Speaker 1: in there. So I said, let me talk to my people. 444 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 1: Especially on the weekends. I'd just be chilling, you know. 445 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: I got the indy biddies running around, they got their 446 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: free time. I'd like to let them just bond. Three 447 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 1: little idy biddies were now four because Morocca's here too, 448 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:27,280 Speaker 1: and let them just do stuff. Devices sometimes no devices, 449 00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 1: just you know form that. So without Daddy there, because 450 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 1: you know me, I'm like, hey, put that down, what 451 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 1: you're doing, go up there, clock jump you know, I 452 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 1: don't want them to have that direction, and we kind 453 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 1: of want them to have it on their own. Here's 454 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 1: the last one. Now, this one. I almost didn't do 455 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 1: this one cause I was like, man, I'm charged. I 456 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 1: am now charging up the car. I am going deep 457 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,480 Speaker 1: in the waters. Adam twenty two, Oh y'all know what 458 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 1: I'm about to go at? He shared a message to 459 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 1: his Twitter after he allowed his wife to film a 460 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 1: porn yeah with another man. Now I heard about this 461 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 1: story and I remember and it was happening. I was 462 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,240 Speaker 1: like ooh. I was like, all right, Like there's I 463 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:10,439 Speaker 1: gotta separate what's interesting from what I can get some 464 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 1: interest from, you know, like I can't just say oh, 465 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,159 Speaker 1: that was interesting, interest and instant and then I'm like, 466 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 1: all right, take care, see y'all tomorrow. I'll be like 467 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 1: the hell you think? What the hell you about? So 468 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 1: when I saw the porn, I was like ooh. But 469 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: then I was like, wait a minute, there's something in 470 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 1: this because I've had these conversations before, not about porn, 471 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 1: but these conversations about relationships. Let's talk about it. So 472 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 1: YouTuber Adam twenty two, who I've seen everybody knowing from 473 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,640 Speaker 1: his podcast No Jumper and all that, but always from 474 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 1: Afar like I always looked at him like dog dog 475 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 1: seems dope. I love his voice, like he seems like 476 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 1: commanding of the room with his voice. But I don't 477 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 1: get deep into his content, but I need to because 478 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:56,440 Speaker 1: I do respect his voice. So he was talking about 479 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,440 Speaker 1: this and basically, there's sum this up because this is hilarious. 480 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:03,400 Speaker 1: I just gotta get to basically the point they got 481 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 1: an op. No, they don't have an open relationship. They 482 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,440 Speaker 1: say they don't, but they do a lot, and he 483 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 1: does more than her, and this is finally her turn 484 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,240 Speaker 1: to kind of join the party. Basically, he messes with 485 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 1: a lot of girls and she watches it. They do 486 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,120 Speaker 1: it together. Now it's her turn, all right. That's how 487 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 1: we got here, all right. So he got the podcast 488 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 1: No Jumper, and also they co host plug Talk, another 489 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:28,160 Speaker 1: podcast on OnlyFans. Yeah that part like only fans, that 490 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:32,360 Speaker 1: version of only fans. Right, So he said, I've been 491 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:35,040 Speaker 1: with my girl for seven years, just got married. We're 492 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 1: not an open relationship, but from a porn perspective, we 493 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,239 Speaker 1: shoot with other girls. Over the weekend, she filmed her 494 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: first ever seen with another man after she did it. 495 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 1: I did feel kind of odd a little bit about 496 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 1: a little bit of that feeling in the belly. Yeah, 497 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 1: every person's had that feeling in the belly. You could 498 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 1: get that feeling in the belly when your girl go 499 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 1: to the bar and then Suave Rico Suave just pull 500 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 1: up elbow, elbow with her and since she done had 501 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:04,920 Speaker 1: a couple, she's just sitting there still ordering and then 502 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 1: his elbow all on her. Right. I'd have been there like, 503 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 1: she ain't gonna move her elbow. Their elbows are touching, right, Bro, 504 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: she ain't even catching it. It's crazy. Girl sometimes be 505 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,200 Speaker 1: in that zone. No, they'd be like whatever, and then 506 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 1: the guy, see me, the dude is he is manipulating 507 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,720 Speaker 1: that moment. He like, oh, yeah, let'start with the elbow. Ooh, 508 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 1: she ain't tripping. Let's go with the wrists. Ah, we 509 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 1: locked wrists and elbows. Then it's gonna slide up to 510 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: the little hug like in the old Happy Days episodes, right, 511 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 1: And I'm like, she better stop this, right, But that's 512 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 1: the feeling in that belly. You're like, so imagine all 513 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 1: the way, forget forget going to the plate and a 514 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 1: bunt I'm talking about a home run, knock it out 515 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 1: the park into the water. Couldn't miss you imagine seeing that. 516 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,880 Speaker 1: Hell no, all right, but he did anyway, So that's 517 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 1: how they roll, he says. I felt a little jealous 518 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 1: at first, but overall it wasn't that big a deal. Wow, 519 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 1: I ain't got that makeup. She's watched me sleep with 520 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:05,480 Speaker 1: hundreds of girls and it's never affected our relationships. Sleeping 521 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 1: with that gentleman has been amazing for both her career 522 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:10,920 Speaker 1: and our business. I don't like that that's where we 523 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:13,159 Speaker 1: went first, but we'll see how this plays out. Let 524 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 1: me keep talking. Overall, I'm glad we did it, and 525 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:18,960 Speaker 1: I'm happy to report her vagina has returned to his 526 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:22,680 Speaker 1: original pre BBC size. I don't know what BBC means 527 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:26,960 Speaker 1: help me out, but man, so I ain't gonna go 528 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 1: too much more into that because I gotta get to 529 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:30,360 Speaker 1: this life lesson because it feels like, oh my god, 530 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 1: what is going on. Here's the thing I learned long 531 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 1: time ago about relationships, and you learned this from traveling. 532 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 1: You learned this from discussions. Because you know I'm in 533 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,919 Speaker 1: my circle. I'm like the therapist, not like I always 534 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 1: give the best advice. But I'm always somebody's gonna give 535 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 1: you some advice. And what is advice? Something you already know, 536 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:54,920 Speaker 1: but somebody else is telling you, right, So I'm just 537 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 1: telling you what you're already. No, I ain't saying nothing profound. 538 00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 1: I may say it in a way that maybe hits 539 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 1: you different, or maybe my approach is different. Maybe I 540 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 1: flip it on you because I make you challenge yourself 541 00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,640 Speaker 1: and ask questions, so therefore you come to a new 542 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 1: understanding on your own volition. But being real, I'm just 543 00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:17,880 Speaker 1: the one that always has the energy and the openness 544 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,879 Speaker 1: to talk about things, right, like this show, Like everything 545 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 1: I do, I just want to talk. That's why you know, 546 00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 1: doing traditional media got a little tight for y'all. Goh now, 547 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,640 Speaker 1: because I got big. It's just like I got more 548 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,320 Speaker 1: to flex. I got more muscles to use than just 549 00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,160 Speaker 1: thatk is top five. I was like, I got dang dog, 550 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 1: he ain't or he is? Who give it that? All? Right? 551 00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 1: So I'm here and that's how I am in my circle. 552 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 1: So one thing about me, people always say I never 553 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: turned it on because I never had to turn it 554 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 1: off because it was just me on camera and me 555 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 1: off camera, same duke, and it's really me, same duke, 556 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 1: this silly, big old dude. So remember what relationships are? 557 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 1: What's the root word of relationship? Remember that? Remember was 558 00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 1: that sixth grade? Seventh grade? We had to start learning 559 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 1: root words. Relate right, check yourself before you wreck yourself 560 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: in conversations because you don't relate to everything. Right. You 561 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,840 Speaker 1: relate to what you relate to, and those are the 562 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 1: things you're relative to. But some things are foreign to you, 563 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 1: some things are outside your borders. But careful of that 564 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:28,000 Speaker 1: journey with judgment, because you don't relate to that. I 565 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 1: don't relate to this. I would never, ever, ever, ever, 566 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 1: won't somebody else mess with my wife. I don't care 567 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 1: what you call it. I don't care what career builds. 568 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 1: I don't care what can happen to my YouTube, my 569 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 1: only fans version, whatever the hell, my subscribers, my memberships. 570 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 1: I ain't And who hasn't played this game? For a 571 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 1: billion dollars? Would you let another do sleep with your wife? 572 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 1: For a billion dollars? Would you mess with her? Like? 573 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,920 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like girl, we all played 574 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 1: that game, locker room games. Girls. I was for a 575 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 1: million dollars, girl, did you mess with that other? The dude? 576 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean? Like we all play that. 577 00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 1: Uh huh. I ain't gonna lie. A billions sound crazy though, 578 00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 1: Like imagine that somebody a billion dollars your spouse, what 579 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:14,680 Speaker 1: would you do? I want to see them comments. You 580 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 1: said a billion, a million, clarify your voice, a million, 581 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:24,160 Speaker 1: Austin powers billion, doctor evil? Right, But the root word 582 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 1: of relationship is relate. So if you don't relate care for, 583 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 1: you don't get it. Like when we were talking about 584 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 1: some of the football culture things, and I know from 585 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 1: an outside perspective, people could look at football culture and 586 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 1: be like, ugh, cringe, yuck, what y'all doing? Crazy? Wild, insane. 587 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 1: But football ain't for everybody. I'm here to say that 588 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 1: this ain't for everybody. Matter of fact, this ain't for 589 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 1: most people. Matter of fact, this is only for a 590 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,760 Speaker 1: few people. But they're there, and I think we should 591 00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 1: have a healthy respect to let them have their space. 592 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 1: Piece look bothering nobody. So on the backlash like dog, 593 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 1: don't go on OnlyFans? How about that? And if you 594 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: are only fans, don't go on their channel. I don't 595 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 1: even know. I don't have only fans, but don't go 596 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:16,200 Speaker 1: on their channel or whatever, like it's enough world out 597 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,040 Speaker 1: here where you can live here and not be there 598 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 1: or mad at them for being there? How about that? 599 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 1: But here is the park, here's the flip, here's the ruugh, 600 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 1: it's the promotion, like supporting versus promoting. That's where we 601 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,840 Speaker 1: are in a lot of things, like all right, I support, 602 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,200 Speaker 1: I ain't tripping, I ain't giving you my energy in time, 603 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 1: but do you you know, just keep scrolling. I ain't 604 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 1: liking this post, but I also ain't commenting negatively. Just 605 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 1: do you? Yeah? Kids, what do they see? Do they 606 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:52,000 Speaker 1: see that support or do they think that is promotion? 607 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 1: Because without resistance, without someone saying yup, yup, yuck, without 608 00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 1: a value system challenging that all of a sudden, that 609 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:05,520 Speaker 1: continues to grow because there's no challenges. Right, so everybody thinks, oh, 610 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 1: that's okay because no one said it's not okay. I 611 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 1: get that as well. But I don't have to relate, right, 612 00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,880 Speaker 1: and I don't relate, but I also don't have to hate. 613 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 1: And now we gotta find that space again. We gotta 614 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 1: get more sophisticated, we gotta get more nuanced. And that's 615 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 1: why I swear I'm loving this journey with you guys 616 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:31,400 Speaker 1: so far, because we are really attacking a space that 617 00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 1: is making me have to pick. See. I grew up 618 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 1: in La so I know how this goes. I grew 619 00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 1: up in the Crypt neighborhood, two Crypt neighborhoods. I didn't 620 00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 1: choose cryp but I also didn't choose blood. But I 621 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 1: also didn't choose to hate bloods. And I also didn't 622 00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 1: choose to love crips. You know what I'm saying. Like, 623 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 1: I've seen this world from a young age. I got 624 00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:59,560 Speaker 1: programmed where the culture I lived in was picking and 625 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 1: I ain't choose. So now I see this whole partisan 626 00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 1: parties and the political parties And okay, you're democratic, you're 627 00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 1: a republican, right, and it's okay to be democratic, it's 628 00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 1: okay to be republican. But why you gotta hate the 629 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 1: other one? Why you gotta put them down? Why you 630 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 1: can't pump up yours? Why you gotta put them down? 631 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 1: All they're dumb? They no, they're not dumb like And 632 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,959 Speaker 1: if you really fleshed out everything about you, it's pretty 633 00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 1: hard for you to plant your flag one side of 634 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,720 Speaker 1: the other without ever moving it without ever moving it. 635 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I have not encountered a person yet in 636 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,720 Speaker 1: my life of the thousands i've met. Maybe I'm in 637 00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 1: a millions now because I've seen a lot of people. 638 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,959 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm in a million. I don't know that has 639 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,479 Speaker 1: ever just been in the conversation or mindset that they 640 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,000 Speaker 1: never moved their flag one way to other, or that 641 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,960 Speaker 1: they weren't on a little bit of this, a little 642 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:58,440 Speaker 1: bit of that. Right, That's what I'm saying, Like, be honest, 643 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,040 Speaker 1: come on, man, we gotta do that because that's what 644 00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:04,920 Speaker 1: the kids need to learn. The navigation up the mountaintop. 645 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,280 Speaker 1: There are a lot of paths you gotta Taken't tell 646 00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,359 Speaker 1: your kid they gotta take this path and only this path. 647 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 1: We are Republicans in our home, we are democrats. Like, 648 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 1: shut up. You are a human being choosing sides, subscribing 649 00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 1: to sides that you may have to alter. Ain't nothing 650 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 1: worse when you get into one of those good dinner 651 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:28,400 Speaker 1: conversations and everyone is being real and you realize, oh oh, 652 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 1: they coming from different parts, different sides. And then we 653 00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:37,840 Speaker 1: ended where yo, Now we got a new color, that black, 654 00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:43,319 Speaker 1: that white, that gray, that silver. Right, we found a 655 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:47,719 Speaker 1: new way of integrating this mindsets. That's what I want, 656 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 1: man out of what I'm doing my efforts here and 657 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,960 Speaker 1: with y'all because that's the public discourse we need, so 658 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:56,680 Speaker 1: we can really get solution based. But we still attacking 659 00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,760 Speaker 1: each other, so we still the poor problem. Talking about 660 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 1: the problem, you imagine being a part of the problem, 661 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:05,400 Speaker 1: trying to solve the problem. Let's just say, your vanity 662 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,439 Speaker 1: gonna take over and you ain't gonna solve shit, right, 663 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 1: So let's be a little more solution based. Only baby 664 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:13,719 Speaker 1: to be solution basis. Let go dog like, let the 665 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:17,400 Speaker 1: truth the truth. I say, truth with the f the truth. 666 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 1: Let the truth take you. You know what I mean? 667 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 1: People scared out of here, dog, and I ain't scared 668 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,600 Speaker 1: one thing. I'm I'm scared of insects. I'm scared of sharks. 669 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 1: I'm scared of like some things in the woods. I 670 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,760 Speaker 1: ain't going camping. I ain't. But people in their thoughts 671 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 1: and opinions call me what your monk. I will be 672 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:38,720 Speaker 1: here and let's talk through this. So unlearned and learned. 673 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 1: The thing I learned from this situation is the response 674 00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:46,319 Speaker 1: was a version of politics. People were like getting real 675 00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 1: political with and you'll always alone, always have to be 676 00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:53,680 Speaker 1: about presidency and the Senate for it to be politics, 677 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:57,400 Speaker 1: like people are just politicizing stuff that like, yo, someone 678 00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,560 Speaker 1: made a choice that frankly doesn't hurt anybody. And stop 679 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,479 Speaker 1: backing like y'all ain't watching porn. Stop backing like porn 680 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,520 Speaker 1: ain't huge. If not, it's porn the biggest industry still, 681 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. I know it was the first one. Hello, 682 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,879 Speaker 1: first time somebody's like, hey, hey, hey, come on over 683 00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:20,560 Speaker 1: here to this cave. Look at them out the first porn, right, 684 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,000 Speaker 1: you know, somebody had a good cave and somebody else 685 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,320 Speaker 1: had a bad cave and they had a good sight line. 686 00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:27,640 Speaker 1: Like when you live next to apartment building. Boy, if 687 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,759 Speaker 1: you live next to apartment building, you know that that's 688 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:34,800 Speaker 1: free porn. You'd be like this, oh look at them. 689 00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:38,440 Speaker 1: So all I'm saying is, man, have some levity in life, man, 690 00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,440 Speaker 1: little thing. We all got one lap let Adam twenty two. 691 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,520 Speaker 1: Do what he'd do, even though I don't want my 692 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,319 Speaker 1: kids to do that. Exactly right, we're all in that 693 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,239 Speaker 1: same book. Much love to you, all right, y'all, here's 694 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,680 Speaker 1: a couple of questions. Is that relationship doomed to fail. 695 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 1: Do y'all know anybody in relationships like this? I actually don't, 696 00:36:56,480 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 1: but I do know people that are no no, not porn. 697 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 1: No no, no, I don't know nobody like that. I actually, Oh, 698 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 1: I gotta tell y'all this is there any way this 699 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:08,760 Speaker 1: can work too. I gotta tell you all this story. 700 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:10,800 Speaker 1: And as the parent in the relationship, how you explain 701 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 1: this lifestyle to your kid one day? God dang, I'm 702 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 1: glad y'all set it off that explanation. Good luck. I 703 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:19,719 Speaker 1: grew up with a porn star. Yeah, I'm gonna protect 704 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,960 Speaker 1: the guilty. Beautiful. I used to have a crush on her. 705 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:28,719 Speaker 1: Oh so fine, so fine, right, Oh, she was beautiful, 706 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 1: and I was like eight ten whatever, you know what 707 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,000 Speaker 1: I mean, just like, oh, please, please don't please, please 708 00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,520 Speaker 1: be my girlfriend. You know what I'm saying. Accept this letter. 709 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:37,799 Speaker 1: And for a minute there she did like me. But 710 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,160 Speaker 1: then we got to like high school, and then you 711 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,080 Speaker 1: can't compete with them. And I grew up in the 712 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:43,880 Speaker 1: era where you in high school, if you in the 713 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,880 Speaker 1: ninth grade around there, girl, them JC dudes is at you, 714 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,440 Speaker 1: them junior college cats. So she had all them dudes 715 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:52,719 Speaker 1: coming up to the crib and cars and stuff. I 716 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,160 Speaker 1: couldn't compete. She was just like you, my little cute 717 00:37:55,280 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 1: little homeboy friend, neighbor buddy boyfriend. But my real ones 718 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,120 Speaker 1: are out there in five point ohers in Suzuki Samurai. 719 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:08,440 Speaker 1: So I remember that, and I was like, damn, all right, cool. 720 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:12,000 Speaker 1: Fast forward years later, I'm in the league. I ain't 721 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 1: see her for a while, like she moved away, and 722 00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 1: then all this stuff. Years went by. I'm in the league, 723 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,319 Speaker 1: and I went by my old store. My old store 724 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 1: used to be across the street from US seven eleven, 725 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 1: and I went there and guess who was coming in 726 00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:31,359 Speaker 1: sem eleven? Her? And I had seen her from the 727 00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:35,280 Speaker 1: time that she moved away. One time she was in Smemmer, 728 00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,080 Speaker 1: Snoop hat pornos or I don't know what you want 729 00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:39,800 Speaker 1: if they go to pornos a salt porn. There was 730 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,040 Speaker 1: the racy videos. It wasn't even like BT on cut, 731 00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,040 Speaker 1: it was something else. I was like Snoop, but she 732 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,120 Speaker 1: was in it because she was on the cover, and 733 00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,320 Speaker 1: I was like damn. And I watched like three minutes 734 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,840 Speaker 1: of it. I was like, man, but I did watch Nellie's. 735 00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 1: Oh I love Nellie's so I'm watching that. I was like, 736 00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:58,360 Speaker 1: damn because I was kind of like, oh, damn, not 737 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:02,359 Speaker 1: the hommie. And I was like, I'm good. Saw her 738 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:06,719 Speaker 1: come in sent eleven. I was like what what? What 739 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,799 Speaker 1: did it do? And she was like hey, hey, and 740 00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:12,000 Speaker 1: I was like what and it's like we haven't seen 741 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:13,879 Speaker 1: each other forever, but it was like, yo, were real 742 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,359 Speaker 1: familiar one like that, do I know you? It was like, 743 00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:20,319 Speaker 1: oh God, I'm trying to say her name because it's like, 744 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,080 Speaker 1: that's the homie. And then we chopped it up. Man, 745 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:26,319 Speaker 1: we chopped it up that night, and I don't think 746 00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:28,759 Speaker 1: we stay. I ain't see her anytime after that, but 747 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 1: it was just hilarious, like damn, and I was just like, 748 00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 1: you know me, I'm peppering her. I was like, so 749 00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,440 Speaker 1: what is it like? So what is that like? And 750 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:42,359 Speaker 1: I was like, ah what? And I was single too. 751 00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 1: So in the story, let me hit you out with 752 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,240 Speaker 1: a Wiley in something I told you, I prejected guilty 753 00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:53,440 Speaker 1: even myself. All right, let's get into this. Wily is 754 00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:57,720 Speaker 1: woa gool go girl. Climb the mountain, don't just park 755 00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,959 Speaker 1: on the hill. Yeah, climb the mountain, don't just park 756 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,520 Speaker 1: on the hill. Ah, man, somebody hit me with that 757 00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:05,319 Speaker 1: one before and I was like, interesting, I love it 758 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:10,080 Speaker 1: because of this. Wherever you are in life, you like, 759 00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:13,640 Speaker 1: all right, this is good. This is higher than I was. 760 00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 1: This is better than it was. But you gotta keep 761 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 1: climbing like you gotta keep going. Don't just park on 762 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:20,799 Speaker 1: that hill. A lot of times we want to say, 763 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,680 Speaker 1: oh that's good, we did it. I'm great. We find 764 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,480 Speaker 1: all of right. And you can see some people get 765 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,759 Speaker 1: as they call it, fat belly. You know what I'm saying. 766 00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:31,279 Speaker 1: You get a little high on that horse, and you 767 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:34,719 Speaker 1: just this is where it's at. Nah, I ain't where 768 00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 1: it's at. It's gonna be where it is. It's gonna 769 00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:40,439 Speaker 1: be where you at. Now, get up there, climb that mountain. Right. 770 00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,480 Speaker 1: We all running a lap around. We're all in this 771 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:47,360 Speaker 1: male relay with each other. I'm in the Maule Relay 772 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 1: with my family. Like my team members are my wife, 773 00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 1: my team members are my kids, seriously, and I'm running 774 00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,200 Speaker 1: the lap around this world to make sure I give 775 00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:01,080 Speaker 1: it my all, to give them the most of what 776 00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:06,239 Speaker 1: I have accomplished, right, the most of my experience. That's 777 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:09,360 Speaker 1: all it's about. Like run your lap, you know, what 778 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying, get up there to the top of your mountain. 779 00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,319 Speaker 1: Don't just park that car. You know what I mean. 780 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,600 Speaker 1: And I think we can do this with a mindset, 781 00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:21,440 Speaker 1: like we all can buy into a mindset that you 782 00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 1: just no matter where you get the stick, no matter 783 00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:28,720 Speaker 1: where you get your Batah, you're poor, you're underprivileged, you're underfunded, 784 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:32,040 Speaker 1: under resource, your community is a mess, or you're hie 785 00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:35,319 Speaker 1: on a horse. Daddy's a billionaire, mommy's a billionaire, and 786 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:41,080 Speaker 1: you're like but still, everyone has issues, everyone has excuses, 787 00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,560 Speaker 1: everyone has reasons to just say this is good. Right, 788 00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:46,919 Speaker 1: you can just get to a certain points tap out. 789 00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:50,000 Speaker 1: But I want you to know, Man, run your lap, 790 00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:54,439 Speaker 1: do it do it for something else? Yeah, I want 791 00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,200 Speaker 1: you to do it for yourself, but also do it 792 00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:01,359 Speaker 1: for others. Man run that relay. That's how it is. Ah, man, 793 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: good lord, you're running your fastest, but you also feel 794 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:08,120 Speaker 1: that accountability like I better not let them down. There's 795 00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:11,120 Speaker 1: three other people who put in on this, who chiped 796 00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,400 Speaker 1: in on this, So make sure you run that relay 797 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:17,360 Speaker 1: for yourself and for others. Just max out your potential. 798 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,320 Speaker 1: Don't be scared to max it out. So climb the mountain. 799 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 1: Don't just park on the hill, all right, y'all got 800 00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:26,120 Speaker 1: to do it. For more to It, check the show 801 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,400 Speaker 1: notes for all the information on our topics today today. 802 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:30,880 Speaker 1: Want to keep the conversation going, Let's talk. Find me 803 00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,799 Speaker 1: on all socials at Marcel's Wiley. More Too is a 804 00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:37,040 Speaker 1: production of Dan Patrick Production That Dude Entertainment and workhouse Media. 805 00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:40,600 Speaker 1: Show is executive produced by Dan Patrick, Marcell's Whilely, Paul Anderson, 806 00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,680 Speaker 1: and Nick Ponella. 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