1 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: It's awkward. 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. 3 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Is there any circumstance where 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 1: you're out somewhere and you see a friend's significant other 5 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:16,680 Speaker 1: doing something that they shouldn't be doing and you decide 6 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: to keep your mouth shut? Oh, because, I mean you 7 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: can rationalize it in your head, like you know what, 8 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: it's not really any of my business. I don't want 9 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 1: to jump to conclusions and stir up drama if that's 10 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: not really what's going on. My eyesight really isn't that 11 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: good anyway? That could have just been a mannequin and 12 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: I'm totally seeing. 13 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 3: It's just like you got to meet an ice cream 14 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 3: on a non cheat day? 15 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, is there any chance you do that? Or do 16 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 1: you go tell your friend immediately what you saw? 17 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 3: It depends depends on the relationships with grocery shopping with somebody? 18 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 4: I don't know. Are they literally making out? 19 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 1: Mind? You guys see something? 20 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:52,480 Speaker 4: No? 21 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: Why why aren't you telling you? Why aren't you sure? 22 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 3: I don't think I would tell you? 23 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: Oh? 24 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 2: No, yeah, this is how they kiss. 25 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: See. This is exactly what happened to our listener Jacob, 26 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 1: who is left dealing with a very bizarre situation now, 27 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 1: and he does not know how to proceed. Jacob, Hey, man, 28 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: are you holding up? 29 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:14,559 Speaker 5: Okay? 30 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,639 Speaker 4: Honestly, you guys, not really? 31 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 3: Oh no, oh my god, I'm dying. Who went where 32 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 3: all of it? 33 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 4: Okay? So I've been seeing this woman, her name is 34 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 4: Shannon for about a half a year now. We don't 35 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 4: live together or anything, but yeah, i'd say it's been 36 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 4: going pretty good for the most part. 37 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,320 Speaker 3: I thought this was going to be about someone you 38 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 3: saw that we had to call the friend this is 39 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 3: about you. 40 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, this one's about me. Shannon and I will 41 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 4: have nights where we hang out, we do stuff together, 42 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 4: but then other nights were apart to things where we 43 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 4: hang out with your friends. And I mean it's healthy. 44 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: You know, I disagree you should be spending twenty four 45 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: seconds and you know that's just my clinging. 46 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 4: I mean, like I said, we're not living together. Schedules 47 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 4: are not framed around one another. 48 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 3: You have your own lives. 49 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 4: That one night she was out with their friends whatever. 50 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:17,360 Speaker 4: I got a weird call around like eleven from a 51 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 4: friend of mine, my friend Omar. And Omar was like, hey, 52 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,359 Speaker 4: are you home because I gotta come over and tell 53 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 4: you something and he was like, like really kind of 54 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 4: on edge about it is. 55 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 5: Exactly what I was gonna say, But friend says, I 56 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 5: need to tell you something to your face. I'll be like, 57 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 5: friendship's over, dude, Sorry, I don't like anything. 58 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: That must be pretty serious. If he's like demanding to 59 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 1: go see you. 60 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I knew it was important, so I was like, 61 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 4: all right, come over whatever. He stops by. He tells 62 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 4: me that he saw Shannon out at this place called 63 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 4: Crystal Lounge. 64 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 3: Sounds like a shady place. 65 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:59,079 Speaker 4: She was with a guy and she was wearing an 66 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 4: engagement ring her finger. 67 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 3: Are you sure that this guy's good at left and right? 68 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:07,639 Speaker 3: Because I have made that mistake before. 69 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:08,239 Speaker 2: Friends. 70 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: I don't even know what that finger is. 71 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 4: Yes, okay, And that's the thing I was trying to 72 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 4: devention and I was like, nah, you know you're wrong. 73 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 4: But he was pretty adamant. And that's why you had 74 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 4: to tell me face to face. He saw what he saw? Well? 75 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 1: Did he did he mention anything like specific like if 76 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 1: they were kissing or holding hands or doing. 77 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 3: Wearing an engagement ring? 78 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 1: Josh, you've never put a ring on? Well, maybe it 79 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: was just like her friend's engagement ring that she was 80 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: trying on for fun. Are always swapping jewel clothes. 81 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,119 Speaker 6: Always at the bar, just friend. 82 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: It reminds you broke. 83 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 5: I'll take your wedding ring off right now. 84 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: Thanks the segment, so, like, did he mention anything specific 85 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: like that? 86 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 4: So Walmart said they were like physically close to each other, 87 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 4: but he didn't see any overly romantic gestures happen. So 88 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 4: I'm like, all right, it's probably just a friend and 89 00:03:58,360 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 4: she's wearing some kind of fake engage. 90 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 3: I mean, I will say, I will say I have 91 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 3: some really hot friends that will wear fake engage at 92 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 3: rings so they don't get hit on. 93 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 4: And I totally get that. And don't get me wrong, 94 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 4: you guys, Like I feel like I'm dating up. She 95 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 4: is very attractive. So I see her the next day 96 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 4: and I bring it up, thinking it's going to be, 97 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 4: you know, like thirty second conversation. She's gonna laugh, she's 98 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 4: gonna you know, but she was like, I don't want 99 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 4: to talk about that feeling of guilt. I try to 100 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 4: bring it up a few more times, and then Shannon 101 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 4: got upset and she stormed out. 102 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: She got mad at you, Yeah, because she got mad 103 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:44,279 Speaker 1: at me. 104 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 3: You a lie it's upset. That's how it works. It's 105 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 3: like anybody who's accused of cheating will be. 106 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: Like, no, you were cheating on me. 107 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 4: But that's the thing I thought I wanted to give 108 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 4: her like the medicine of the doubt, and I wasn't 109 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 4: trying to be aggressive about it or like it like 110 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 4: accusing her right And now she's not answering my calls. 111 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 4: This was just the other night, just this week, and 112 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 4: so I need advice. I need advice on how to 113 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 4: handle it. 114 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:12,679 Speaker 3: Ask you, are you still hoping that she's not cheating, 115 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 3: Like there's still. 116 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: A possible that she is cheating? 117 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 3: In my mind, there's no possibility that she's not cheating. 118 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: Okay, well, I think you're saying. Everybody in this room 119 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 1: is kind of in agreement. It looks really bad for 120 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 1: her right now, and it's very very likely that something 121 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: is happening behind your back. 122 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:31,280 Speaker 5: I feel like we have not just out of the 123 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 5: fact she could be a jewelry heist person access a 124 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 5: lot of jewelry and she's scared because we just caught her. 125 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: That is a pretty frequent thing that we get on 126 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:40,119 Speaker 1: the show. 127 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 3: I mean, like you want to what you want to 128 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 3: get the truth out of her. 129 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I really am still holding out hope for 130 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:50,360 Speaker 4: it to just be something that she's like embarrassed about, 131 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 4: doesn't know how to bring it up. 132 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's embarrassed that I was with my fiance. 133 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 134 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 1: I think that's a highly likely possibility when we call 135 00:05:59,320 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: her here. 136 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, they probably haven't gotten married yet. Yeah, now you 137 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 3: didn't see a wedding band. 138 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:12,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's totally different now, Jake. I'm sorry that you're 139 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 1: going through this, but we're gonna try and give you 140 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: a little bit of advice here before we call your 141 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 1: girlfriend Shannon and let you ask her the question, what 142 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 1: was going on when my friends saw you out the 143 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: other night at a lounge wearing an engagement ring with 144 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 1: another guy? 145 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 3: No matter what happens, like, you're the winner out of this, 146 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 3: she's the sucky one. 147 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: Okay, you don't have to hit on him now, he's 148 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 1: still with somebody. We'll get to that in a second. 149 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 1: Your awkward Tuesday phone call is coming up right after this. 150 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 1: It's awkward. 151 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. 152 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. If you're just joining us 153 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 1: for the awkward Tuesday phone call, this is what we know. 154 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: Our listener, Jacob has a girlfriend of about half a year. 155 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 1: She was spotted out recently at a lounge with a 156 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: different guy wearing an engagement right like it need to. 157 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 3: Be taking notes, Jeff so right, Yep, that's weird, not good. 158 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: When Jacob brought it up to her in a fun way, 159 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: he expected her to laugh and explain, Oh, it's just 160 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: this stupid situation. I had to wear it. It was a 161 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 1: big joke. But no, she got upset and left and 162 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: has not spoken to him since. That's why he needs 163 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: our advice today on what to say to get his 164 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 1: girlfriend to just tell him the truth of what is 165 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 1: really going on. Yeah, it's the least that he deserves. Right, 166 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 1: what's your advice. 167 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 3: To Jacob man, Jacob, it's not looking good. 168 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: It's not really advice. 169 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 3: I'm just like you because if all of those things 170 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 3: are what happened for real, then it's one hundred percent 171 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 3: she's cheating, like there's no way around it, right. 172 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 4: Like a cauld I get advice on how to handle it. 173 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, this has been pretty hopeless so far. You 174 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: just told him a situation. 175 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 3: You were going to take control of this situation, okay, right, 176 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 3: and you were going to tell her. You need to 177 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 3: tell me the truth now. You need to rip it 178 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 3: off like a band aid. Ripe it off like a 179 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 3: band aid, because if she waits any longer, it's only 180 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 3: gonna get worse. Like you deserve the truth. And if 181 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 3: she has ever respected you ever in the time that 182 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 3: she's known you, now is the time to show that. 183 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 4: There it is. 184 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, there was actually a little bit of 185 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: advice in there. 186 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 5: Good job, I edit out the whole front of that part. 187 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: Every week I give great advice. Okay, Jose what about you? 188 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 1: What do you think? Remember you need to make her 189 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 1: feel comfortable. 190 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 5: Remind her, honey, I want you to know first I 191 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 5: love you, okay, And whatever you say in this conversation, 192 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 5: I promise. 193 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 4: Not to judge what. 194 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 5: We listen and we don't judge. 195 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 1: That's a TikTok tracks. 196 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 5: TikTok. You know what, do you judge it, then maybe 197 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 5: she will be comfortable. 198 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: To I think actually all of us could take that 199 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 1: advice in this room. We should listen and not judge 200 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:57,079 Speaker 1: her yet, because there could be a logical explanation for this. 201 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: We're all going to look really stupid if we're being 202 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 1: as hateful as gis towards her. 203 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 3: She would have just said the logical thing. If it 204 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:06,080 Speaker 3: was logical, Jeff, she wouldn't have like run out. 205 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 4: Of the room. You know what. 206 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 3: I don't want to look stupid, so listen and then. 207 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 4: Just don't get me wrong, you guys. If this doesn't 208 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 4: go my way, I am fully welcome to judge. 209 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 1: Yes, that's actually what we do best on the show. 210 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 1: Let's call her, we'll see if Shannon picks up, and 211 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: then we'll step away and let you make your awkward 212 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:28,199 Speaker 1: call and we'll be here if you feel like you 213 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 1: need a little bit of help, okay, with good luck. 214 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, it's me. 215 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,199 Speaker 2: I said, I don't feel like talking right now. 216 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 4: No, we need to talk right now. What do you mean, 217 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 4: not feel like talking right now? That's not fair. 218 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:56,439 Speaker 7: Because you just seem really upset about something that honestly 219 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 7: I do not feel like talking about. 220 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 4: Well I don't. How do you think I should feel 221 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 4: about it? Like what, I want to get this I 222 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 4: want to get this over with. I want to hash 223 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 4: this out. 224 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 6: Okay, then just you know what, just move on. 225 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 2: What we have to hash out. 226 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 6: We don't have to. 227 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:14,079 Speaker 4: Hash out anymore. Okay, Sorry, am I not supposed to 228 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 4: be upset when my buddy comes to me saying that 229 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 4: you have an engagement ring on and you're hanging with 230 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 4: some other guy. Like, what is that? Yeah? 231 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 2: What is that? No? 232 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 4: I'm sorry? What your theories? All right? I deserve an 233 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 4: explanation here, Like, it's my understanding. We've been together for 234 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 4: six months now, like we're boyfriend and girlfriend, and my 235 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 4: understanding we're not seeing other people? So am I wrong here? 236 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 6: Jacob? 237 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 2: I don't want to hurt you. 238 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 4: See it's a little late for that. You just need 239 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:55,839 Speaker 4: to tell me whatever the truth is. Okay, I can 240 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 4: handle it. 241 00:10:58,000 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 2: It's hard to explain. 242 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 4: Well can you try? Can you try for me here, please? Shannon? 243 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 7: Well, you know my friends Sierra, right, yeah, I know Sierral. Okay, 244 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 7: So a couple of months ago, she set up this 245 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 7: like hangout with some old friends. She was saying, we 246 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 7: hadn't seen him in a while. Could I just come 247 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 7: and catch up? 248 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 4: What does this have to do with us? 249 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 2: I'm getting here. This is not this is an easy okay. 250 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 2: So one of the guys who was there to hang like, 251 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 2: well he was my ex so. 252 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 4: What what does that even mean? 253 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 2: So we hooked up and I didn't know what to 254 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 2: say to you, because you're so sweet to me. I 255 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 2: couldn't God, and I started dating him again. 256 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 6: And I know it's messed up, I know, but in 257 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 6: my head, I was like, I've always just wanted to 258 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 6: have a forever relationship, be married, and so I had 259 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 6: it in my head that I was just going to 260 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 6: say yes to whoever proposed first. And he proposed a 261 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 6: few nights ago. 262 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 4: So so wait, sorry, you're actually you're really engaged. I 263 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:27,199 Speaker 4: thought I really thought there'd be some other reason to it. 264 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:32,199 Speaker 7: No, no, I am, I'm engaged to someone else. 265 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 2: I'm really sorry. I'm sorry. 266 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: Oh God, what is that? 267 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 2: What's going on? 268 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 1: Okay? Oh my god, Shannon, we've been listening to this culture. 269 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 1: You're on the radio right now with a show called 270 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey. In the morning, we're doing something called 271 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 1: awkward Tuesday phone call. 272 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 4: Oh what look, you weren't answering my calls. And I 273 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 4: can know how to address this with you. I've been trying, 274 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 4: and so I called a radio station to help me 275 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 4: get a hold of you. 276 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, and normal, God, I believe you did this on 277 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 6: the radio. 278 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: Maybe you shouldn't have been cheating. Yeah, we do a 279 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: lot of these phone calls, I'll tell you, Shannon, and 280 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 1: we don't normally get a lot that end like this. 281 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 1: Usually it's somebody playing a joke, there's some hilarious misunderstandings. 282 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: Turns out, Shannon, you're just a two timing cheater. 283 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 4: Okay, I'm sorry. She said that she can't believe this. No, 284 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I can't believe that you're actually engaged and 285 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 4: you hid all of this from me, Like, hello, are 286 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 4: you dating? 287 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: For? Your engaged to this guy? 288 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 4: Who are you? 289 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:46,680 Speaker 2: Why do I have to answer questions to you? 290 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:47,520 Speaker 6: I don't even know. 291 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 2: Who I'm talking to at this point. Well you think 292 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna answer some questions for some people I've 293 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 2: never talked to you before. 294 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 1: Well it's pretty valid to the situation. 295 00:13:56,600 --> 00:14:00,040 Speaker 6: Guy Jacob's friend, and we're defending Jacob. 296 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:02,319 Speaker 2: And a friend he called the radio station. Now he's 297 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 2: your friend. 298 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:07,319 Speaker 1: Yes, we're really cling. You don't know us. 299 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 2: Jacob is my friend, Like I still want him to 300 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 2: be part of my life. 301 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 1: Sorry, after all of this, you think Jacob would still 302 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 1: want to be around you? Yeah, so your friend? 303 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 2: Couldn't we stay friends? Like I even ask my fiance 304 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 2: to have our wedding like a year so you could 305 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 2: have some time to heal. Because you are a good 306 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 2: friend and why there I want you in my life. 307 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 3: Okay, wed the year so that your current boyfriend over 308 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 3: you that he can go to the Jacob. 309 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 4: I mean, are you insane? It's got to be a joke. 310 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 1: Well, what does your schedule look like next next time? 311 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 4: Joke? 312 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 6: I wouldn't joke. 313 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 2: You're a special guy. 314 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I was joking. 315 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 4: My schedule next year is figuring out when she's on 316 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 4: her honeymoon and burning up her apartment. 317 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 1: Oh, let's bring it back a couple, Jacob. We're on 318 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 1: tape here, so this can be used in the court of. 319 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 4: It can help you. 320 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 2: To move on. 321 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, ok yeah. 322 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 2: You guys, you don't know me. But I'm not a 323 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 2: bad person. Yes, maybe I made a mistake. 324 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 7: Maybe I should have broken up with Jacob earlier, but 325 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 7: I'm not a bad person. 326 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 1: Maybe, Jacob, are you willing to call this strike one 327 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: and give it two more strikes? You know, for in 328 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 1: the name of friendship? 329 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:31,119 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think all nine innings are over. 330 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 7: Sports analogy Okay, I wish Jacob well, I hope he 331 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 7: has a great life. 332 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: I don't know what to say to you, Shanon, honestly, 333 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:44,119 Speaker 1: But Jacob, sure. 334 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 3: Jeffy is going to send you a wedding present. 335 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 1: Guilty, I do. I do perform at weddings, so you 336 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: can hire me. But Jacob, the good news is that 337 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 1: you got the truth right, That's what you were after 338 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:56,440 Speaker 1: here the whole time. 339 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 3: We wasted six months on this relationship. But I mean 340 00:15:58,920 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 3: that's another positive. 341 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 4: Well, hey, you know, since we're friends legitimately, let's go 342 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 4: out and spend the rest of the week drinking. I'm 343 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 4: up for it. 344 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: What do you mean us right? Yeah, drinks on Jacob 345 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 1: cool brooking Jeffrey in the morning.